"If I ever hear you promise my little sister you'll treat her like a princess, you better build that fucking castle." I love this line more than words can describe.
@haileyturner82197 жыл бұрын
TheLunaOne Its was powerful to me too
@AllhaeLMarie8 жыл бұрын
I love how she clearly elucidates how she doesn't care about race/ethnicity, religion, or educational background, but she cares about whether your actions back up your words and claims, she cares about your character over your socially measured accomplishments/the "perfect guy" according to society.
@tyleeemo10 жыл бұрын
As a fellow big sister, I love this so much
@beekent42410 жыл бұрын
Thank you! So glad it resonates with other older sisters :)
@ambercastner85267 жыл бұрын
right. I don't want my sisters to go out with guys who are complete losers
@danceislife24477 жыл бұрын
tyhad same im 9 years older then my sis i guard her with my life
@haileyturner82197 жыл бұрын
tyhad I agree
@lindzythebest2897 жыл бұрын
tyhad me to
@excellentcarrotcake10 жыл бұрын
Mentally prepared myself before meeting my girlfriends family by listening to this. Thanks for this!
@beekent42410 жыл бұрын
Haha you're so welcome! Best of luck :)
@richardwarnercool19 жыл бұрын
I'm a big brother and I love this! Especially the line about fighting to earn your trust. Some people don't get that. They just see the family as the enemy. When they should realise that the family has loved the girl unconditionally all her life, and if you do the same, they will love you as well. Fight to earn their respect, prove that you are trustworthy and that you're not just trying to get laid... and in return they will help you whenever you need it. Her dad will teach you how to repair that beautiful convertible that he keeps hidden under a tarp like a precious treasure (And who knows? If it turns out his daughter is the one, that car may be the one that takes you to the place that you propose and you might even be the one driving it!), her mother will teach you how to cook something more complicated than scrambled eggs and will teach you how to make her daughter's favourite meals "Just like mom makes it", her brother will invite you to play video games with him and his mates, join you in a few rounds of horrifically sung karaoke and her sister... Well we all know what the sister will do now. Here's to the families that watch out for each other... but aren't afraid to give some people a chance to make the family... smile a little wider, the home a little warmer and the days... a little better.
@olivianash220510 жыл бұрын
So I'm talking to this guy and we aren't dating yet, and my older sister posted this on facebook and tagged me in it! This is why I love her, because she loves me!
@beekent42410 жыл бұрын
Haha that made me chuckle. Glad to see older sisters are sharing this poem around :)
@olivianash220510 жыл бұрын
Bee Kent lol
@alexisscott82939 жыл бұрын
I am a big sister of 2 little sisters and I absolutely love this
@kyraadams4118 жыл бұрын
so you know how scary it is to think she might have a bf some day
@laurenplc96887 жыл бұрын
kyra adams I have 3 younger sisters, I'm scared for the day she gets her heart broken :(
@lindzythebest2897 жыл бұрын
Alexis Scott two sisters and a brother send help
@saramichelle413010 жыл бұрын
My sister is 7 years older than me. She barely talks to me. I need this big sister program thing
@sweetlyluv860310 жыл бұрын
My little sister is 7 years younger than me, she doesn't talk to me either because I don't talk to her either. The thing is, it doesn't mean I wouldn't like talking to her. Maybe your own big sister might want to talk to you?
@ilovemybestfriendsheawesom96968 жыл бұрын
my sister 2 years older than me. she never did really talk to me I meet a new friend and she 2 years older than me too and to me she is the big sister I want I really have not told her BC it's dumb
@lex41907 жыл бұрын
Sara Michelle just because she doesn't talk to you much doesn't mean she doesn't care about you when it comes to things like boys and life if she's a good sister she will give the world up for you to live a good life have a man appreciates you I know this because I have a little sister
@_iamnotsober7 жыл бұрын
Sara Michelle aw that sucks. My sister is only 2 years older than me so we're pretty good.
@lindzythebest2897 жыл бұрын
Sara Michelle she cares and thanks all this she just doesn't care to express it till she does have to kill somebody it's like the big sister code
@naomimarshall605710 жыл бұрын
Im an older sister, im 19 and shes 2... i cant wait to get into slam poetry when i start university in the fall.. thanks Brenda/ ill be showing her this someday! Youre inspiring!
@beekent42410 жыл бұрын
Thanks Naomi! Very glad you've enjoyed watching this :) I definitely recommend getting involved in the slam poetry community. It's a super enriching experience!
@carinakrehl915410 жыл бұрын
I'm writing this down to give to the boy that my 15 year old sister just started dating. I love this poem, and I plan on giving it to every boy she starts dating for the rest of our lives. Great work, Brenda Kent.
@skk34658 жыл бұрын
i want a sister like her!!!!!!! such a good poem!
@CourtneyBerry8 жыл бұрын
My little sister just sent this to me, and told me to memorize this and send a video to her...so she can show it to her future bfs lol!
@kazd384510 жыл бұрын
This. I'm ten years older than my little sister and I love this so much.
@beekent4249 жыл бұрын
Nobody Special Thank you! I'm glad you enjoyed it :)
@avenueis13778 жыл бұрын
are you sure your name isn't Angelica Schuyler?
@via13888 жыл бұрын
Sutherland Isabelle THATS WHAT I THOUGHT WHEN I CLICKED THIS
@mackenzieh64307 жыл бұрын
I love my sister more than anything in this life/you will never find anyone as trusting or as kind
@OrieJai10 жыл бұрын
I'm the oldest of 10, 5 of those young ones being girls and 4 being boys. I love this poem so much.
@SuperMusicfreak1710 жыл бұрын
damn. props to your mom haha
@beekent4249 жыл бұрын
OrieJai Thank you! Really glad you liked it :)
@skykitty10009 жыл бұрын
Hearing this reminds me so much of my big brother it's exactly how he would react to the situation
@yukiureshii9 жыл бұрын
I love this. Hopefully this link exists when my girls get their email addresses when they are 16. it's being sent to them.
@SweetasSugar428 жыл бұрын
This reminds me of my best friends boyfriend (her first) There's no way they would be going out without me agreeing with her that he is worthy of her time.
@cheyannecampbell71069 жыл бұрын
This reminds me so much of the relationship my older sister and I have.
@beekent4249 жыл бұрын
Cheyanne Campbell I'm glad you were able to connect with the piece :) Thanks for watching!
@rachelmarquez94369 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure if you didn't really breath properly or of your voice is shaky or if you were going to cry lol. But the "letter" or poem is super touching and lovely.
@maddiedrivon44248 жыл бұрын
I'm a little sister and I feel like this shows me and my older sister
@camdynchavez60867 жыл бұрын
"if i ever hear you promise you'll treat my little sister like a princess, you better build that fucking castle" i actually love this
@pinguu80107 жыл бұрын
I LOVE MY SISTER MORE THAN ANYTHING IN THIS LIFE, I WILL CHOOSE HER HAPPINESS OVER MINE EVERY TIRE! I'm sorry. I will leave. Permenantly. Later.
@kamanjakaranja10 жыл бұрын
i love this very much. i am a poet too. i love this poet lady
@beekent4249 жыл бұрын
kamanja karanja Thank you! :)
@kaseywright88818 жыл бұрын
I love this poem so much. Sent it to my best friend who talks like this about me ever so much. Absolulty beautiful, keep up the work lovely.
@user-wz4zi9bf8l5 жыл бұрын
As an older sister, with two younger sisters, who I am 10+ years older than, this poem made me cry. But seriously to my sisters future significant other: I was training headshots before you could walk. I was preparing the “Are you ready to date my sister” quiz before you could even speak. I decided I would protect her at all costs as soon as I saw her for the first time at the hospital. I will teach her everything. So don’t you dare hurt her.
@moonbear63656 жыл бұрын
I'm a big sister, but of two brothers. But, I am still ready to protect them and give their significant other the big speech
@limestorm80156 жыл бұрын
My sisters are 7 and 5 years older then me and this is their new favorite slam poem
@lpsrocks2787 жыл бұрын
As an older sister, this is insanely true.
@gbolygirl52127 жыл бұрын
I wish I had had a big sister like this 💜
@DanielleMamaril10 жыл бұрын
This is gorgeous. I feel like I am going to do this to my cousins boyfriends and girlfriends.
@beekent4249 жыл бұрын
Danielle Mamaril Thank you! Haha well, somebody has got to keep them in check ;)
@DanielleMamaril9 жыл бұрын
Bee Kent I did write my own poem for my cousin's future girlfriend
@DanielleMamaril9 жыл бұрын
+keksomlat I just wrote it in my journals
@lizziewalden28759 жыл бұрын
*accidently illegally downloads*
@majikmia89098 жыл бұрын
same
@alexm31677 жыл бұрын
thats so horrible! me: *whispers* HOW DO YOU DO THAT?
@NEATERTICK6 жыл бұрын
She said she wanted to post. IT sooner
@nikitagreen42107 жыл бұрын
As the oldest of 4 and a big sister to 3 little brothers I can relate to this
@emilybonklin153110 жыл бұрын
I don't have a little sister but I have little cousin who I will treat like one when it comes to boys.
@ericastevens6147 жыл бұрын
I'm a big sister to two and I love this
@J-Bolt7 жыл бұрын
That last line is easily my favorite.
@amykeoughdaneshmand99668 жыл бұрын
this is perfect.
@patsypersaud7 жыл бұрын
I never knew there was slam poetry that's non-aggressive and actually funny
@BlackCrystalAlchemis5 жыл бұрын
they're definitely out there!
@gracemcpherson998510 жыл бұрын
My older cousin sent me this cause she's like my sister, it was cute
@bethvioletlines5 жыл бұрын
As a little sister I’m terrified. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@TheCinderellaPrincess7 жыл бұрын
Might write one for my little brothers future girlfriend
@rainerixo6 жыл бұрын
I'm six years older than my little sister, and she's just entered middle school.. She's becoming a teen, so she'll likely have a boyfriend before I know it. Or girlfriend. Or partner(s). Whatever. But this poem makes excellent points.
@lobaetoile84407 жыл бұрын
This made me feel awkward because I actually told these same things to my sister's first boyfriend.
@liv82747 жыл бұрын
Definitely taking notes
@awk-wordwriter71797 жыл бұрын
I don't have a sister at all. But I do have a little cousin and this is my message to any boy that may b with ger
@autumnm88726 жыл бұрын
So so true
@destineemeza45909 жыл бұрын
I have 2 little sisters, and one of which already has a boyfriend. I can totally relate to this!!
@emilyjo21586 жыл бұрын
Could someone write the words in the comments
@siltt1110 жыл бұрын
I don't have any sisters, I am the only girl with two brothers and I wish one of them would be that protective over me. They both lie when they say they care, I know it's a lies cause many times they cause the pain
@ilovemybestfriendsheawesom96968 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry
@emileerivera19207 жыл бұрын
Silvia Segoviano I'm the only girl from 4 children, there's 3 boys. I have no girlfriend's, so I can somewhat relate. My youngest brother gives me hugs and asks my mom to go get me Chinese food, and chocolate
@HY-qd1wk6 жыл бұрын
Silvia Segoviano 100% same!
@natalyamower17019 жыл бұрын
im the younger sister but i still threaten my older sisters boyfriends :D
@NEATERTICK5 жыл бұрын
To my real little sister and to those that are adopted that are my friends in sorority sisters
@Biratanupam10 жыл бұрын
Wow
@beekent4249 жыл бұрын
Birat Gautam Thanks :)
@sarahjeong35177 жыл бұрын
*ending* Person: Nice Me: Me too, stranger, me too.
@confusedgenius15227 жыл бұрын
I'm 10 years older than my sister and she is my baby and I actually have planned this alllll out
@ravendangernavy35757 жыл бұрын
I LOVE THIS SO MUCH my trans brother sent this to my boyfriend
@VisionTaleArts7 жыл бұрын
I wish I had her for a big sister..... instead I have a twin brother
@dinab44447 жыл бұрын
I feel sad for not having a sister :(
@idcidgaf67047 жыл бұрын
my little sisters are twins. this will be fun. 😂
@lindzythebest2897 жыл бұрын
I have a little brother and two little sisters and a mom, a dad, and a step dad Who don't care about gf's or bf's But I fucking do and my pocketknife is ready
@NEATERTICK6 жыл бұрын
Adopted sisters and etc. .like Sorority sisters also or younger friends. .GET THE MESSAGE GUYS
@janaisantiago84507 жыл бұрын
I have 3 younger sisters
@WillowJaie7 жыл бұрын
Where can I get the words for this one???
@kamanjakaranja9 жыл бұрын
YOU WELCOME...
@spacedustandplanets79016 жыл бұрын
i'm not very threatening looking but i am a badass over protective sister who will kill a lion for her sister my sister is my best friend and if anyone tries to date her and breaks her heart she is physically stronger but i am a feminist sass machine who will break u i'm 10 years older and love my sister so boy or girl you should watch out i don't have maternal instincts i have sister sences
@leonaneziri32527 жыл бұрын
you better bulid that fucking castle
@aarinburt83318 жыл бұрын
I'm the oldest of 6 girls
@lishathegoat86218 жыл бұрын
Aarin Burt I wish you luck
@aarinburt83318 жыл бұрын
leelee S thank you!
@kassidynicholioioio16158 жыл бұрын
Sorry but that hat at the end though
@nunyabusiness31446 жыл бұрын
Yes for my sister and her boyfriend dude imma be watching you you hurt her ill break you... as a fallow big sister I LOVE DIS
@christopherbrown27066 жыл бұрын
and if she hurts him?
@mayazoe5387 жыл бұрын
When my sister is older, I'm totally doing this to him a.k.a my sister's future boyfriend
@vendettasvcks7 жыл бұрын
"The poor boy that didn't believe in feminism" I'm a girl and don't 😂😂
@ravendangernavy35757 жыл бұрын
why?
@christopherbrown27066 жыл бұрын
most likely because it's trash
@NEATERTICK5 жыл бұрын
Or get out of my COUNTRY instead get out of my house