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@heyheyhey67304 жыл бұрын
Stay single, I’m tired of this drama
@rosag73864 жыл бұрын
Agree . I came to this conclusion
@sammiechua56744 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha
@xhindivant58534 жыл бұрын
I get you. It is so hard to keep his attention, like we have to make a lot of work.
@denisesiddon72414 жыл бұрын
Agree at my most relaxed rn. Not spoiling that for anyone
@MeeMee-fd6lm4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@cloudyday16173 жыл бұрын
My late mother used to tell me, " Don't tell him everything." Yes, that's right.
@P0rtugueseRedM00n2 жыл бұрын
In fact i think its good to say everything, especially if its horny stuff, he will love you 🤣🤣🤣
@wshelby83 Жыл бұрын
So what do you tell him or when do you tell him things? I hope you answer
@heyheyhey6730 Жыл бұрын
@@wshelby83 when he ask
@KmNry Жыл бұрын
And mine!
@emily_rose_dawson5 жыл бұрын
These kinds of videos give me severe anxiety....was just being yourself ever a thing?
@malushavalautham64385 жыл бұрын
Was about to say the same...I'm feeling anxious watching this type video...it's not gona b myself if start saying n behaving as in the video...
@putriindahsuari94455 жыл бұрын
It's like saying isn't the earth flat cause I see it like that..
@angellinegirl5 жыл бұрын
Be yourself and love yourself as you truly are. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you as you truly are? I believe that if you hold out and focus on loving yourself as you are instead of keep wanting to bend yourself backwards to please anyone else by not being yourself, the right person that will love you truly and deeply as you are, will come into your life.
@greta35785 жыл бұрын
@@malushavalautham6438 this is where i think: god! I've fucked up everything !!!
@asmanidaulhaq86015 жыл бұрын
I know right, my whole life I've been watching/reading this kind of stuff. Now I'm 22 and still single 😅
@KissingTrolls175 жыл бұрын
I didnt meet my husband til I was 32. I dated A LOT. So by the time I met him I really didnt care anymore. I had lived alone for 10 years by that time and I enjoyed it. Him ,being an alpha Male , liked the chase. We dated 2 months, eloped and have been happily married for 24 years now.
@joycevanlaar47874 жыл бұрын
Love this! It gives me hope🤭🤭😊
@aprilreeves36544 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! I love how you did your thing for 12 years got to check out the dating scene,and now your Married to who I believe sounds like ur soulmate😁😉
@eveheart28764 жыл бұрын
Rather B Hunter than Prey that’s cool. 😂 the struggle is real. U just blessed
@sfoster48744 жыл бұрын
And that's the way it's done! Congratulations : ) Most of just wish it would happen a lot faster than 10 years. Thanks for the great share : )
@MeeMee-fd6lm4 жыл бұрын
I like this, no fuss. Is when you not anxious and looking it, is when true love steps in. God bless your marriage my dear.....
@Emmagicalife6 жыл бұрын
I personally think it's important to just be our true authentic selves, and if that scares the man away then they were not right for us to begin with, so we just simply accept that and move on. If the man was truly interested and saw your true value underneath your insecurities, he would not care if your emotions over flow out of you at times when you cannot control them because there is just so much emotion embodied within you - that's life, we have so much emotion inside ourselves each and everyone of us. I don't understand why we all have to run away from that and be afraid of showing our insecurities and vulnerabilities. If you scare the other person away because of that, they are really afraid of that what's inside themselves and your were simply a reflection of that. Knowing and acknowledging this is true strength in my perceptive, not hiding away from it.
@Emmagicalife6 жыл бұрын
Yes I am AFRAID, yes I am HURT, because my heart had been bruised and broken a thousand times into a million pieces. My heart has ENDURED immense and incredible pain that when I open up to you, these emotions may show, and they may be revealed to you, if you cannot accept that as a part of who I am, then you are not the one for me. I will respect that and I will accept that and I will move on. I will not play these silly games, I will be real, I will be raw, i will be my true authentic self and I will not be afraid or ashamed of who I am.
@SarahnatorFrazee5 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I was thinking this and you worded it perfectly.
@SarahnatorFrazee5 жыл бұрын
To be anything else other than yourself is short changing yourself and cheating the world out of what you were meant to bring to it.
@Banana-lk7tf5 жыл бұрын
Exactly! With all due respect to this man, the games (challenges) he's suggesting are complete BS. A secure man can handle a woman who's open.
@Banana-lk7tf5 жыл бұрын
@@Emmagicalife Preach!!!👏👏👏👏👏
@kateiwudike44566 жыл бұрын
Why does it have to be so damn complicated?
@lilia97286 жыл бұрын
Kate iwudike Ikr
@reginawest78526 жыл бұрын
IKR!?! Annoying as all get out.
@williameyelash80535 жыл бұрын
Acting like somebody else makes me frustrated !! 😉
@mahelenabraga5 жыл бұрын
Because men are fearful
@angelkotilainen5 жыл бұрын
It's not! He's neglecting to say if you're around a guy like this, *get out!!* He's NOT the right guy. A relationship should be easy, from start to finish. If it's the right guy, you won't be judged on anything you say, or when you say it or how you say it. You can be like Colleen Ballinger on yt and fart and burp your boots off and your guy would still look at you adoringly XD Dump these namby pampy guys, and get yourself a guy who's sweet and genuine, trust me they are out there. The rest, bin 'em. and fast. NO games. That's the only rule you need. Goes with friends, too. Unconditional love, or nothing. Don't settle.
@zsofiasimo48626 жыл бұрын
I was born tired of manipulation :-)
@farfetched92965 жыл бұрын
You have to manipulate a guy to love you...basically...
@maryelizabeth27884 жыл бұрын
Ugh me too
@amandac88364 жыл бұрын
Me: *has interest in dating again* Me: *watches this* "Yeahhhh nah think I'll live alone forever lol I cbf".
@DrTLEvans3 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo right shoot
@carolinasoulshine89493 жыл бұрын
Hahahha :)
@julianaventura8745 жыл бұрын
Why we can not just be ourselves without worrying so much?
@SundayCookingRemix4 жыл бұрын
Ladies be yourself. If he cant deal show him the door. The realest thing i wrote to date
@yoonji13692 жыл бұрын
There is no too soon or too late .. it’s just about the right time with the right person. Time doesn’t deliver clarity but depth delivers clarity. You Can’t say the wrong thing to the right person (say or ask anything you would like to say to the person you are attracted to, whatever you need to express, desire questions, deep questions you want to ask/say, if this is the wrong person, they won’t be last, if the right person, they will come toward you) BE your true self from the beginning is the key. No one can pretend longer than 3 months, after the 3/4 month people will actually reveal their true colours and initials intentions.
@michellemcmillinsantinni1213 Жыл бұрын
I agree!❤
@ChileYo11 ай бұрын
Absolutely agree, don’t be scared of being rejected, live your life .. not wait some unreal safe conditions.
@kathyrcorbin6 жыл бұрын
I don’t agree, I’ve done this with all my passed relationships and found that if a guy likes you this won’t matter.
@1tecito5 жыл бұрын
Yeah but no one likes me so I needed this help
@ineverythingigivethanks5 жыл бұрын
True
@Banana-lk7tf5 жыл бұрын
@@1tecito only an insecure man wants a woman who plays games. If he's only interested because you seem hard to get, he'll lose interest once he has you, trust me.
@NarnianLady5 жыл бұрын
@@lizzymac1356 So true. We women don't judge, we have grace and compassion... A man who shows his emotions openly is a darling and no woman in their right mind would mistreat him for that.
@barbilove16985 жыл бұрын
Past
@katherenewedic80766 жыл бұрын
God forbid people should be genuine and human. As humans we ARE dependant on one another. Divorice rates are high because of immaturity and manipulative games.
@calamitychaela19942 жыл бұрын
Daily Bible study with your partner reduced divorce by about 95 percent.
@minigol916 жыл бұрын
I wanted to write a nice comment but I don’t want u to get a crush on me 😊
@yelenacalender89075 жыл бұрын
Very cheeky! I love it.
@user-em2cy8hc1p5 жыл бұрын
😂
@jessika16lw335 жыл бұрын
Or DO you?!?!
@Nikencycollects5 жыл бұрын
lmao damn
@stargazerlilly6085 жыл бұрын
Smooth! 😄
@symplypeechie64965 жыл бұрын
I'm trying to get back out in the dating scene after 20+yrs of marriage and its hard. All these rules and mind games. I think I'll just stay home and get some cats. Seems easier than this dating merry go round.
@lexiemaep79305 жыл бұрын
Cherity Rebancos me too! I was married 17 yrs. Try Tinder. I have met so many nice men.
@rachelwilliams96865 жыл бұрын
Good luck. 🙂 Hopefully you can find someone who loves you for you, and vice versa. No games, no bs. It's tough. It's important to find someone that makes you want to be a "better you", but not force you to change something that's already awesome about you. If you can't be yourself around your partner, it's not worth your time.
@OlgaRykov5 жыл бұрын
Don't date, the right man reveals his admirable and loyal qualities before you get mired into a whirlwind of dating. The right man for you will share your negative sentiment about dating. He will want to be together, happy and forever as soon as possible, because he would know that he wants you and only you.
@angellinegirl5 жыл бұрын
I am so with you on that haha! I was married for 13 years and I am happier doing things I love instead of going dating :-)
@laurie3298085 жыл бұрын
For those that think that Mr. (or Ms. Right) isn't out there... don't give up hope, however DO give up ACTIVELY looking for & pursuing a relationship. I know it might seem counterintuitive for me to say that, but it worked for me. While I'm not the most religious person in the world, I found that as soon as I essentially "let it go & let God handle it" then (and only then) did my "wish" come true. I had had a psychic dream (if you will) in 2010 (didn't meet my current boyfriend & future fiancé until late 2014) but when met him on Facebook, I knew instantly that it WAS him, as I came across a pic of him (taken at his eldest sister's wedding in 2011) and from then I knew that he was the one that I'm destined to marry. 😊
@nins74574 жыл бұрын
Be yourself. It’s exhausting when u lie to yourself and others. Period.
@KarineTKnudsen Жыл бұрын
I agree with Emmagination's comment. You don’t need to play games to get the love you want. You were made to be lovable exactly as you are. When we find ourselves caught up in the dating “game” our wound has taken over. The wound tells us we need to use tactics to get someone to like us, see us, love us. Operating from a wounded place will never give you the love you desire. The only path to receiving the love your heart craves is to be authentically you.
@MsKizationify5 жыл бұрын
If a guy is right and meant for you, then no matter what you do, will scare him off :)
@aimforparadise92695 жыл бұрын
This is kind of depressing.
@emilylinnebur67944 жыл бұрын
I know 🙄😔😆
@IndigoMoonFrequentzy5 жыл бұрын
Your quote: "Neediness kills attraction. We cannot keep being attracted to a needy person. It's physically impossible. It kills the hormones of love." Okay, so this is in a case of a casual relationship where there is no emotional investment, but just based off of surface qualities. This advice is dangerous because a healthy, emotionally invested relationship is one where the two need each other, not in a healthy or co-dependent way, but in a vulnerable and healthy way. And you're basically feeding into the myth that needing someone or being vulnerable is a weakness, which is a patriarchal concept. Also, in a genuine and healthy relationship, a person doesn't "lose love" or interest if their partner is having moments of weakness or neediness. They accept each other for who they are and both try to uplift each other. This is unhealthy advice you're giving, and just to immature, insecure men. I agree that in beginning, there is a dance with not throwing yourself at someone, which can scare someone off. And a lot of guys like direct compliments, btw.
@itsmesia24695 жыл бұрын
Agree ..!!
@Yikkoofficial2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Exactly . Exactly.
@moubhattacharyay6891 Жыл бұрын
I Appreciate Ur Comment That It's A Fact Of Truth For Engaging In A Relationship... Not The Supporter Of Delusional Nonsense Thoughts & Constant Chaos Of Now-A-Days Fake Preachers/Show Called Motivational Statements Abt Love & Relationships Where's Not There Any Deep Down Existences Beneath The Surfaces...😏 Coz,The Ultimate TRUE Relationships Are Established By The Feelings,Emotions & Passions Of The Heart.. IT'S NOT ABOUT THE GAME OF THRONE/MIND!😊
@EchelonPandora11 ай бұрын
He is Dutch they are often assholes
@NightRaven20112 жыл бұрын
..”If you want him to treat you like a queen then you have to act like one from the start” 👏🏼👌🏼👑
@heritage.home.crochet6 жыл бұрын
His voice is so calming. It makes me want to close my eyes.
@dianaeastwood78385 жыл бұрын
I totally agree!
@symplypeechie64965 жыл бұрын
lhenle55 I wonder where he's from. His accent helps to closely listen to him as to not miss what he's saying.
@purpleducky69555 жыл бұрын
I actually did a couple times
@ClaudinneV5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, his accent sounds beautiful! ..In one of his podcasts he said that he born in Brussels, Belgium- His native language may be Flemish or German?
@valerierobertson16115 жыл бұрын
Cherity Rebancos Scotland
@LoveConan965 жыл бұрын
This is so complicated I surrender and try to get used to being single forever instead
@widyantogunadi95934 жыл бұрын
Life itself is already full of challenges. You don't need to make relationships sound even more complex with those "hints of challenges" when in reality it's not all that complicated. Simply be yourself genuinely and positively. Never try to be a fake and manipulative person or someone that you're not. Good men will be there for kindhearted, generous, and supportive women regardless of their looks and appearances. You have to remember that good character is much more important than only your outer physical makeup. It is all there is to it. I am happy that I had found one such woman with a strong, morally sound character, married her for years, and been blessed with our beautiful little daughter.
@cozamos5 жыл бұрын
Are you kidding? If a woman has to MAKE a man fall in love with her, it’s already a ‘no win’.
@joannagipson126 жыл бұрын
I really need to hear this. I am the type to say "the wrong things"... too fast too soon. It's fear based sometimes, or from low self-esteem. But I am working on myself. THANK YOU!!!💜
@Honeymagmangospoof6 жыл бұрын
Joanna Gipson I’m the same and I think that’s why I’m single for so long
@missylewis72106 жыл бұрын
If you're saying 'the wrong things' you're viewing people as potential relationships who are clearly not. The right guy won't give a rip what you say or do, he'll just find u adorable.
@JaneDoe-jm2kr6 жыл бұрын
Guess they're just lost for words because you are so beautiful 😊
@twincherry49586 жыл бұрын
Always have options...say what you want; you'd be leading the way. If he's not where you are, it's bad timing...one of the others may be ;)
@churrinaapolina42706 жыл бұрын
Same here🙈
@TheDawningEclipse5 жыл бұрын
I thought guys were supposed to be the simple creature 🙄
@25sigmaa5 жыл бұрын
If I had a $100 for every time a guy said, "I'm just a simple guy." 🙄
@juliab.754 жыл бұрын
Hon who ever made you believe that? Haha
@thedeedee3 жыл бұрын
Right! Lol they are not !
@asmip51253 жыл бұрын
SADLY they r not..
@gloriakuhn86703 жыл бұрын
They are simple as in stupid af if they think someone is being needy and clingy for these things.
@_Colie3 жыл бұрын
When I saw "formula" in the title, I thought "Ooooh, formula! Because they're babies!" lmaooo
@Zwhg75 жыл бұрын
as an independent woman i struggle so much with what you say..
@athena_the_hun10974 жыл бұрын
If you want your guy to treat you like a Queen, you have to act like one from the start. That’s brilliant! 😊
@kimberlyclark63264 жыл бұрын
Yes....and, in my opinion, a Queen would never dress herself as a hooker, which I find many women, today, like to do. The low-cut top is a staple; to me, it's a cheap shot. If a Girl/Woman has to offer up her sexuality to the public, I think, if I were a Guy, I'd find her to be quite insecure.
@brunamusetti3 жыл бұрын
Been acting like a Queen for five years, It didn't worked... Like a real Queen, dressing good, speaking correctly, never screaming or showing to much emotions, being respectful, smart, funny and well behaved even the pace of walking I adjusted to be more polite... Never worked 🤷🏼♀️
@Eevanova2 жыл бұрын
@@brunamusetti don't be polite too much Be polite sometimes
@LadyLuvsYou6 жыл бұрын
WOW... so exploring the dark side is not an option. When people can love through someone's wounds, and when healing occurs - that sense of neediness is held in a special way. Abandoning someone who shows vulnerability is evil. We are all vulnerable at some point. Guys who need a woman who has it all together 24/7 aren't really able to connect to that vulnerability. It scares them.
@juliab.754 жыл бұрын
Very smart and true
@adriennea.24603 жыл бұрын
TRUE THAT WOMAN!!!! LOUDER!!
@brunamusetti3 жыл бұрын
Say it louder for the people in the back!! You right, no one is ever 100% fine and this idealistic idea that we have to be fine to have a relationship is non sense because everyone has a story or has been broken before... what we need to is find someone who acknowledge what you been through, respects it and makes sure you will not go through that again and that is for one another, we build relationships together and not with only one person of the couple so we must be there for each other as a couple
@nancysloan3731 Жыл бұрын
If I can't just be myself and the man I like isn't interested enough in me for myself, then I would figure he isn't worth getting involved with. High self esteem is the key ladies when dealing with a man you are interested in.
@karolchop82335 жыл бұрын
this works for me, too. 4:08 "if you give them a compliment too early, they will feel like they haven't earned it and that this is what you are saying to any other guy". I have turned down guys feeling exactly the same. Let's all try to make the moment a bit more special, then 😄
@Amyvictoria21025 жыл бұрын
I am binge watching your videos and reading your books! My last relationship I was too needy. He wasn't interested so I over compensated to make him love me back. He ended up cheating on me multiple times. THAT is not my fault though! But what I've learnt is being needy doesn't work. I am now being independent and loving myself for who I am! 🥰
@jessiejohnson12084 ай бұрын
Exactly, I've been there too
@moonaymc6 жыл бұрын
I think the reason why dating is so complicated today is that we think and know to much. A few hundred years ago, this all would have probably happened naturally without any thinking about it. Now there's science, emancipation, ... This makes it too confusing. Maybe we should just let go of all the overthinking, work on our fears and flaws and connect naturally and see what happens.
@BigPicture7176 жыл бұрын
Hello? Guys can be needy too and yes that is a turn off. Either way neediness is a sign of insecurity that will continue to play out in other forms causing conflict within the relationship. The More Genuine advice would be to resolve the issues that created the insecurities etc.. There is nothing authentic about acting and pretending
@JuiceyJuice6116 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately after listening to you I can't focus or listen to other speakers.. You are sooo straight forward, you don't share uninteresting or tedious information. You get straight to the point. You are so easy to comprehend and digest... I simply learn from you and you really capture my attention from the beginning to the end. I thank you for the knowledge. Now I can do something different because I trust what you are saying. Thank you!!!!
@JuiceyJuice6116 жыл бұрын
kellycrazie LOLOL 😊
@caroh28096 жыл бұрын
kellycrazie hahaha that was exactly what I was thinking. Urghhh it drives me crazy - I hate playing games and if I want to pay a compliment I want to do that not sit around worrying if that makes me too easy. Jeez it’s complicated...
@cdoctor356 жыл бұрын
Yvonne Reed he is professional
@JuiceyJuice6116 жыл бұрын
susan main yesss he is very professional!!!!
@moonkoral10096 жыл бұрын
There are so many other youtubers who have been saying the exact same thing
@Nora-ox3jn6 жыл бұрын
LMBO! I learned , NEVER confess to the guy you like or have a crush on. LOL... maybe that's why it's called "crush" cause they sure crush the hell out of ya once you confess....LOL.. oh well, moving on.. :P
@mwadjumamukamfizi22165 жыл бұрын
Nora yes I just run in that situation he was lik He can’t wait to see me seeing 3 times a week asking me out after I told him he is calm and a good listener he stopped the msg n everything I was I won’t text then after 4day he is back!!! Man are so complicated
@laurie3298085 жыл бұрын
Funny thing is, with regard to my current boyfriend (& soon to be fiancé) after we got together as a couple in August 2018 (we'd already been Facebook friends since January 2015), and I didn't confess to him (until after we got together as a couple) that I'd had a crush on him since I first met him (in a Facebook group that we're both still a part of). Interestingly enough, because of that he was quite surprised when I confessed to him that I've had a crush on him, as he told me that no other woman that he's ever been with has ever confessed to crushing on him. He & I are long distance, and we've both admitted to the fact that we continue to fall more & more in love with each passing day. My man is everything I could've ever possibly dreamed of. 😊
@laurie3298085 жыл бұрын
I will also say that this is the second time (in my life) that this has happened (as far as my secretly crushing on a guy), finally confessing to it (after a while) and then found out that the feelings were pretty mutual (considering the fact that my ex, who was also my high school crush) was the other guy it's happened with like that (for me). I'd had a crush on him all throughout high school (he's a year older than me) but all throughout our high school years, like in the case with my soon to be fiancé, I never let my high school crush know (until a few years after we'd both graduated high school) that I'd had a crush on him all throughout high school. Of course I felt like an ass for not confessing DURING our high school years, as it was because I didn't admit to anything, that I didn't go to my Junior prom. Had I admitted to it, and asked him to my Junior prom (it was his Senior Year) I could've gone to my Junior prom (& possibly his Senior prom) had we been a couple. As (when I finally confessed) and told him that I would've asked him to my Junior prom, he said he would've said "Yes". I tell you, I felt like a serious ASS knowing that (& that I could've gone to my Junior prom with him had I only confessed during high school). 🤣😂 After I finally did confess though, we dated for 6 months (from February to August 2004) and despite my breaking off our romantic relationship, we are still on good terms (as friends). 😁
@halim0015 жыл бұрын
Nora I was planning on telling my crush but know I’m thinking against it thank you very much
@juliab.754 жыл бұрын
Aww honey I feel and get you.. gosh well us women will find a way to triumph somehow!! 💪
@duckymr15 жыл бұрын
- I wouldn't want you to get a crush on me :) - That's the kind of jacket that can look really sexy if a guy goes to the gym! - Avoid telling him direct compliments at the beginning because they do better with a challenge, an indirect comment where they're not sure if you like them or not, but it gives them a direction of where to impress you.. some confusion which makes them think about you longer. Very funny. Sneaky. It's like dropping a hanky ! I think I'll get one of your books. As always great videos!
@elizabeththankfulshannon74556 жыл бұрын
And another thing, why is it that if men and women think so differently, women have to change their ways in order to "snag" their man? Why doesn't the man make more of an effort to morph his way of thinking to better suit the woman's needs? Look at every other species. The males go to great efforts to win their woman. (Just watch the bird of paradise's mating dance, or that of the peacock spider.) Human men are so lazy. There should really be more videos on how men should behave toward women, and not the other way around. Chivalry is endearing. Expecting a women to completely change who she is in order to appease your way of thinking, is just selfish. Who wants to be with a man who's selfish? And who wants to be with a man who doesn't love you exactly as you are?
@ninathethird4 жыл бұрын
I mean, there are plenty of videos about pick up artists. But it has more to do with getting laid...
@TALLhappyCOLORS6 жыл бұрын
I really like all that you´re saying, although the indirect jacket muscle workout suggestion I find manipulative. I don´t want to have to say one thing, to affect something else and strategize. That´s not my nature. And I also don´t want the guy to use indirect manipulative language towards me in order to keep me guessing. That´s capturing thoughts and life force and manipulative. I feel it´s not good to invent artificial challenges, as life brings those naturally with sufficient opportunity to experience whether we´re sitting in the same boat or not ~
@kittymewmewziscute44596 жыл бұрын
TALLhappyCOLORS that's true because if you act all seductive and confident and you really aren't then he's falling in love with the wrong person and it would never be real love since he fell in love with that side of you and not the real side
@TALLhappyCOLORS6 жыл бұрын
kitty mewmewziscute only if you´re into acting, and the partner is unable to see through it. As for me, I won´t fall in love with someone who is acting, because I see through it, and inauthenticity I find a major turn-off. Similarly, I wouldn´t fall in love with someone, who doesn´t see through the acting, but could be blinded. What do I want with someone like that?
@FruityHachi6 жыл бұрын
same, i hate manipulation and playing games, i can never figure out whether he genuinely likes me or he’s just playing and i eventually fall for him not knowing what he really feels i’d rather he just tell me straight-up so i too don’t think i’d play this guessing game either
@SuziTakumi6 жыл бұрын
TALLhappyCOLORS seriously u said it... Just say the truth instead of talking shit... Or d guy could go to hell... Coz I don't understand humans
@IwasBlueb44 жыл бұрын
i totally agree.....great advice, except for that jacket part....I found that insincere and even silly....
@silverline88554 жыл бұрын
It's so difficult: when I'm honest about my feelings, and I tell a man I really love him & like him, I don't feel needy, it's just the truth. But then the mindgames stay.. It's exhausting. I don't want to be played around with. This is a man that needs to grow up. I do like him, but I won't let him treat me this way. He's very dishonest about his feelings and let me do all the work. It's exhausting. And it's not my fault, it's really a male distortion, this running & ghosting behaviour. But they don't understand I won't be there forever, so yes I'll move on with my life. It's his loss. I really opt out of playing games, done with that.
@ashbinaynteen71683 жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right! "...being feminine." "Men should do the chasing." "... natural laws of attraction... "
@crystalearth33 Жыл бұрын
Right and then they are afraid and emotionally immature and have very little communication skills
@lindaaltenburg25374 жыл бұрын
I have come to realize, (in my 60’s) that I have been very, very fortunate in life. These things have always come to naturally to me. I still have men saying they love me from 15, 20 years ago. Every male ‘friend’ I’ve ever had has claimed to love me sooner or later, with no effort on my part
@Kristyle114 жыл бұрын
Yes, you are super blessed.
@lillianlilo74476 жыл бұрын
You only need to create false chemistry and attraction when it is not there in the first place. Then once the man gets what he wants (sex) he disappears on you. Then you have to watch his next video" What to do when he disappears on you"
@PriyankaGupta-ew1li6 жыл бұрын
Fark Que I'm weak😀😀😀😀😀
@annacyprisjaubert3176 жыл бұрын
I AGREE!!! This video should be called something like, this how to figure out if you are dating an emotional mature or immature guy. if he needs games and challenges, he is an emotional CHILD!!!!!! Do not waste your time. if he likes you, everyone can move on happily, without games and challenges.
@praiselove84716 жыл бұрын
Lol true
@reginawest78526 жыл бұрын
😄😄😄
@erllteves27876 жыл бұрын
Fark Que
@emilliapeachrose56925 жыл бұрын
But... i said "i like you" to him. And he only said "thanks" and crazy laugh emoticon... i thought i might do the wrong thing. But he keeps contacting me everyday. Even more intense than before.. and i love it!!
@shieldmaidensvarden52296 жыл бұрын
Your channel with that theme is the best I've seen. You also don't push too much commercial. It's great. Straight to the point...
@Lifestyle_TherapistMsKimLPC6 жыл бұрын
I can probably see another reason why I'm still single. This is just too much and too Complicated. So how do we relate this too people whom met, got engaged and marriage all within a year or just a few months ? I feel like there is just too many factors to the game. Maybe Singleness is the best way.
@NarnianLady5 жыл бұрын
Indeed. People of my parents' generation knew how to fall in love and get committed... It was normal and natural. These days, all these rules and games, so tiring.
@rachelwilliams96865 жыл бұрын
Most of the couples I've known who jumped into marriage very quickly, weren't very happy. A lot of them stayed together for the long haul, but they (or at least one of them) would kind of say things that sound like regret. Even if they don't come right out and say it, you get the idea that they aren't happy. They've just "stuck it out for the kids" or something. But many years ago, divorce was still highly shameful. Plus, if you had kids, you had several, and couldn't support them alone. Now, it's more accepted to get divorced. People are more likely to find true happiness, even if you make a few mistakes first.
@NarnianLady5 жыл бұрын
@@rachelwilliams9686 Granted that not all marriages were happy. My parents have been together for 50+ years and they are very close and happy :) There aslo are couples who dated / courted for a long time, but that did not make their marriage a success... Each couple determines how long or short the get-to-know period needs to be, but a long engagement doesn't guarantee smooth sailing.
@rachelwilliams96865 жыл бұрын
@@NarnianLady very true. I just think a relationship is more likely to be satisfying if you've known each other for a while before getting married. That doesn't mean they all work out. Some relationships are good from the start and there is enough mutual interest to make it last. Some are bad, but you don't realize it for a while.
@tuneit35 жыл бұрын
@@NarnianLady the rules have not changed only today's players. The rules of human nature have always been the same
@kristine83384 жыл бұрын
Life is too short to hold back feelings of love. If They throw away the expression of love it is their loss. I enjoyed the time feeling this way and being able to express myself. Ever been in a therapy group Where adults got to learn to feel loved again? And Yes, Welcome to the world full of mistakes, it is a Wonderful one ⭐️🌸🤞🏻
@KhanivoreQniba5 жыл бұрын
Most of us men don't play these childish games and do NOT want a complicated woman who has a Queen complex.
@mightyobserver124 жыл бұрын
Being authentic works. No games or script or formula. Lol
@AEJ19996 жыл бұрын
I got exhausted just watching this video It may be true but that’s still so much effort lol
@OlgaRykov5 жыл бұрын
It's not true. He's talking about immature guys who are not ready for a relationship, not actual men with a brain and a heart.
@Amphitera3 жыл бұрын
to all the lonely people out there, who are watching dating tips and videos and are ready to just give up and despair: I had a video in my recommendations about saving a sick kitten and nursing her back to health, she is fine now. And I realized there are so many things out there that are far more important than trying to find the "right person". Maybe you find someone, maybe you don't. So what. You can be just as happy if you stay single as long as your life is meaningful. Save a kitten, or another animal if you don't like cats, and you will never be alone. ps. Animals don't play annoying mindgames either, and they love you for who you are.
@sweetsmiile325 жыл бұрын
I made the WORST mistake when I told him that I was always gonna be there for him. Seems like when you show interest (even when that interest is pure and true) they run away. And now I'm soo tired of situations like this. I'm tired of this game where you have to be very carefull of what to say, what to do or even what to feel bc boys might run and hide. Is ridiculous, horrible and exhausting. Thanks by the way Brian, I love your videos.
@itsmesia24695 жыл бұрын
Agree... Edit: Maybe we women should not be that easy... Men always show more interest when they don't know where they have you .. when you are hard to get .. I learnt that the heard way... But I don't like to play games. Hate it. And I personally think it's childish... But idk... Don't like it... But anyway to be too easy to get or being needy is never good.. I guess.
@janicetansooling6004 жыл бұрын
Love is so complicated..just want to be a nun..its giving me headaches
@babypanda36944 жыл бұрын
Same here
@mymailmymail22564 жыл бұрын
Haha true dear..LOL..not jus headache but heartache too 🤭😜
@Amphitera3 жыл бұрын
it was so much easier in the past. There was no "dating". Marriages were arranged by parents/families. If you didn't want to marry, you could become a monk/nun and be a highly respected person. And if you happened to fall in love with your spouse, the better. Makes you wonder if that wasn't the better system, seeing how weird the world has become.
@dottysicat74803 жыл бұрын
Yes...seriously considering. But then i would be a nun with hormones. Hmmm.😒
@cloudyday16173 жыл бұрын
It's funny but i recently did have that thought too!
@dimanakardzhieva68686 жыл бұрын
I am sorry, I love your intelligent and empathetic style, your concern for women, but... I think the advice in this particular video is very unhealthy. Giving someone a genuine compliment, even off the bat, is not neediness. Needing to be coy is not being a high-value woman - it is in many ways the opposite of the self-aware, confident and honest approach that you have advised in your other videos. I'm sorry if it's just my opinion, but if a man needs me to be this coy to get his attention, and can't appreciate me without having to fight for me, then I probably don't want him in my life. If a man can't accept love freely given, it is a problem of his own self-esteem, not the woman's.
@jimgoodwin79255 жыл бұрын
Dimana Kardzhieva bbt
@Banana-lk7tf5 жыл бұрын
Exactly! It's major insecurity on his part.
@MsMesem5 жыл бұрын
@@Banana-lk7tf Yes, when you are kind and caring and want to give and only get a negative response, they have the problem, not you.
@georgialee67555 жыл бұрын
Halcyon Most men do not want compliements so soon - like it or not. You need to let the man give more to you - at least in the first few months. It’s ok to compliment here or there but don’t go overboard and let him start the complimenting first. That’s just the way it is with most men.
@MsMesem5 жыл бұрын
@@georgialee6755 Most. One at the moment needs and loves them, insecure.
@annacyprisjaubert3176 жыл бұрын
!!!!!! NOT ALL GUYS NEED A F&#%KING CHALLENGE TO LIKE SOMEONE!!!! A woman should be able to express themselves and have it be understood. A challenge once feelings are out there and understood, just makes for a shallow relationship. I DO NOT like to be with guys like that. EVER.
@TheDawningEclipse5 жыл бұрын
Should...
@laries96485 жыл бұрын
I think we have to not care as much to have a successful relationship with a lot of men which is disheartening. On the flip side, I think this humbles us to actually give our absolute all and be able to detect when someone will continuously give their absolute all to us.
@yuppers15 жыл бұрын
You say that, but being straightforward kills the chemistry. I'm speaking from experience. This guy, and all moms, are right. Men are complicated.
@kittyscorner246 жыл бұрын
Very sexist. A guy who you can't be yourself with is a turn off. Boring guy. Dump him. Walk away. He's not worth the games.
@staceykersting7055 жыл бұрын
We all like someone a little sassy, and it's exciting to have a bit of mystery. Aren't u wary of GUYS if the rush in too fast? It's scary. Remember the old adage, "How can I miss u when u won't go away?".
@OlgaRykov5 жыл бұрын
@@staceykersting705 Tons of dull old adages out there. Not everything that is old and repeated is wise. Everybody can go away any day, cherish them. And if you don't - why are you even wasting their and your time? If one doesn't see and get excited about the long-term prospects, mutual growth and creativity with a partner and has to resort to the immediate reward of mystery - one hasn't matured enough to be in a relationship that goes past holding hands.
@staceykersting7055 жыл бұрын
@@OlgaRykov My love life's not a spread sheet..not all calculated in advance. I was with my late partner 20 yrs n things were always new, fresh n we never stopped learning things about each other. He was my muse. U hate old adages, I guess, but this one hits the mark...come back FRESH!
@echadmiyodea5 жыл бұрын
I have to agree.
@AprilHarmony95 жыл бұрын
This coming from another woman? Ok.....invalid. Women should never take another woman's advice on men. Never. I learned that the hard way. They need to seek advice from other men.
@hersheeizell2 жыл бұрын
wait for the guy who loves you more than you love him... and you'll be comfortable being yourself without having a problem that he will be scared and go away...
@ELA-nu1pe6 жыл бұрын
So....I am wondering how much research of "men" and "women" and "Relationships" you have done Brian Nox, to come to these conclusions that you are so confident about?! I am reacting negatively about the generalizations and game playing techniques....what about being genuine and honest and true...is there no room for this anymore?! My view is if I need to play so many games with a man, he is not the kind of person I want to spend the rest of my life with! Surely not all men are like this????!!!! there must be some emotionally intelligent and genuine men out there?! If I was to take your advice I would living a charade! Depressing!
@OlgaRykov5 жыл бұрын
Yes, there are mature men out there. But few. We each have to find ourselves one, if we're lucky, and love him. (I did, to be exact, and I'm happy and lucky!) PS. I clicked on the video not to watch it, but to connect with commenters and support those who oppose this bs and encourage honesty. I'm all for honesty and vulnerability.
@elizabeththankfulshannon74556 жыл бұрын
I find it disturbing that we can't just be real with one another. This is teaching us to be conniving. We should be able to love one another at whatever pace. If a man is showering me with compliments and talking about marriage, and I've fallen madly in love with everything about him, why shouldn't I reciprocate? Why can't we love each other without rules? This how I've been my whole life, and I've been engaged numerous times (all broken off by me), and married once. So, clearly, being open and honest , and making the men in my life know that they are loved, hasn't been so wrong if most wanted to marry me. And then someone I'd known for over a decade online (through a mutual, very good friend), came into my life, telling me he'd always known that I was the one. I fell in love with him at first sight (the second time this has happened to me). Even strangers were drawn to us, because we radiated together. And then he f***ing ghosted me, and I have been devastated ever since. I moved on with someone else, but I simply can't erase the desire to be with him, even one year later. I do not contact him anymore, obviously, because he, clearly, does not want me to, but I miss him every single day. The thing is that he was pushing me to go so fast, and I kept asking him to slow down, just like Brian says in another video (though I hadn't watched it yet, I merely did what was instinctual). I needed a slower pace. I needed time to enjoy the initial process, however, despite that being Brian's advice, it seems to have backfired on me. But I cannot fathom for a second that he wasn't madly in love with me, too. Yes, he ghosted me (most likely because I don't follow rules, and probably contacted him too much), but I take issue with this message that a man who ghosts you cannot possibly love you, or that he has to be a psychopath. I think that sometimes people get terrified, depending on past experiences. (His divorce was, and still is, brutally painful and consistently stressful. His ex-wife has been nothing but vindictive.) And sometimes the timing is off. But when complete strangers are telling you that they've never seen a man so in love with a woman before, and you see for yourself that he is absolutely smitten, how can you then listen to a video saying that is not the case. It makes no sense to me, neither his actions, nor this video.
@yuppers15 жыл бұрын
I think he got scared because it all became too real. It's less scary to love someone from afar. Sounds like he just wasn't ready. Brian's advice might have helped a little because it's less scary when you feel like you're chasing.
@acquadiamore2 жыл бұрын
That sounds like possible lovebombing - you may have dodged a bullet!
@nataliebutler Жыл бұрын
Something is going very wrong if you have broken off numerous engagements!
@rosadelrio5120 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like cognitive disonance after narcissistic lovebombing. You owe to check it out, and get yourself checked too.
@user-hw6kq4ne2t3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been married and engaged three times. I never had to play any of these games.
@americablessgod12735 жыл бұрын
Oh no so I totally messed up my whole life. PLEASE MAKE A VIDEO ON HOW TO REVERSE WHAT WE DID AFTER WE SCARED HIM AWAY???
@duchessofluncheon29095 жыл бұрын
a man should never be your whole life
@IwasBlueb44 жыл бұрын
love your name.... America Bless God.....cool; Ur comment made me smile....just so spontaneous and innocent.... sooooooo, what happened ?? Did you happen to bump into him again, or have you found someone else ? you will get someone special....cos u r special
@Introvertliving3 жыл бұрын
😂
@shebaalethsollinamor7956 жыл бұрын
I wish I had someone to attract me to....but I’ll remember this if the time comes.
@rachelwilliams96865 жыл бұрын
This is very helpful. Thanks. There are too many of those "make him fall in love with you" type of videos that aren't so helpful. Sometimes all you need is "a sign" that he's interested so that you can work on building a relationship with them, even if it takes a while. Or to know that he's not interested in you so you don't hang around and waste your time if there's no chance he's ever going to date you. I wouldn't want to "trick" someone into falling in love with me. They should love me for who I really am, not just a fascade I've put up. Everyone's true colors come out eventually. It would be a shame to fall in love with someone, maybe even get married, and then realize who they really are. Sometimes it's just easier to stay friends with someone, even if you love them deep down. People are afraid of being rejected. All it would take is knowing that the other person likes you too. Unfortunately, you can't read their minds. People hide their true feelings and act akwardly because of it. Knowing some subtle ways to get them to open up about how they feel is helpful. You don't have to get out right rejected if they don't like you, but it might open some doors if they do. Maybe all they needed was for you to tell them it's unlocked in some way. Then they can decide whether they want to come in or keep walking.
@tinabtm3 жыл бұрын
For making this simple the best is to think of a guy you date like he is your friend, so you wont have a pressure on you, with people we are not so attracted we feel relaxed and most likely you won't say anything that can scare him
@bumblebeebazaar40184 жыл бұрын
You can't see it but I am scratching my head... Thank you for these videos. I am really trying to wrap my head around ”dating”, men, relationship style thinking. This may make a while... I appreciate your take/side on this as from the masculine half of the equation. I hope I get the chance to put it all to some good use!!!
@autumns0ng5095 жыл бұрын
why do I even try. With my luck I'll scare my crush away when I sneeze.
@louisecohoe20155 жыл бұрын
Thank you - this is just mind-blowing advice. I really enjoy your style of presentation and the level of understanding of the male persona is so incredibly helpful. Thank you for your wisdom and making me feel like a real person again! Blessings to you.
@carinaschenk30863 жыл бұрын
sounds like a fun game to play for some time, but I agree with all the others in here, who state that being natural and authentic is the only way to find a match. Why would i want to find someone who loves the challenge? I want someone who loves me...
@daj52664 жыл бұрын
Thank you ! For completely validating what I have always believe to be exactly right ! Of course I'm older now but in my youth I learned that very important concept about men & even though I have been single & independent for about 15 yrs I am happy with no regrets & no abusive or terrible relationships in my past where as 95 percent of my female friends are stuck in unhappy unions I feel because they handed over the reigns way to quickly & easily for the sheer fact that they did not or could not stand alone & love themselves & be happy with oneself ! But your words today have proved themselves to be so very true & I have alot of good men in my circle of friends that have never stopped chasing me even at my age of 56 yrs old ! GOD BLESS U FOR YOUR TRUTHS THAT YOU ARE WILLING TO SHARE WITH US ! 🙂👍
@Usern78423 жыл бұрын
I am following Brian's videos and I find most of them very helpful and it makes me understand the whole dating process more on a molecular level. However, I must agree with a lot of people leaving comments here - saying that a person looks attractive or sexy is NOT too much TOO soon, in my opinion. If you are a person who values yourself, you usually speak from a position of power (in a good way) and saying something like that does not necessarily mean that you are WEAK. Healthy people with normal level of education and healthy emotional behaviour like when others acknowledge their value, like attention and like taking compliments. Nobody wants or enjoys being ignored, by a person who he/she is interested in. Games only lead to more games and more manipulation. I am questioning now, whether some of us actually wants to be with a person who does not see our value or like is for real, but because we won some sort of a mind game battle?
@MENAGHA5 жыл бұрын
And then that man will say: "girls are complicated" lol
@djsemira16 жыл бұрын
i feel the same way when men hit me up with one liners, i feel like they say this to all women, they seem needy and that they are insincere.
@Applepie4095 жыл бұрын
Maybe a valid point
@IwasBlueb44 жыл бұрын
exactly.... These women are not getting the point at all
@JuiceyJuice6116 жыл бұрын
I'm too much of a cave woman/mixed with savage beast....too impatient for this..I tried it Brian but...it takes toooooooo long. I want it noooowwwwwwwww😓😢😭
@princessvanessa8736 жыл бұрын
I wish I had seen this video last month....😔
@fatimalmasri87236 жыл бұрын
Princess Vanessa to me too😔
@dream89766 жыл бұрын
Me too
@caroh28096 жыл бұрын
Princess Vanessa I know. We need the rescue plan....😔
@horrorzone4766 жыл бұрын
Princess Vanessa me too
@anastasiyasdiary6 жыл бұрын
Me too lol
@agnieszkatyczynska55725 жыл бұрын
Thank you for an inspiring video. Yes, I have been making the mistakes you've mentioned, it's quite difficult to retrain, but it's worth it, isn't it? And it is where fun begins.
@DiamondandLight3 жыл бұрын
It's so weird how you're always so spot on
@ognyena5 жыл бұрын
You have to know 100% that the guy is worthy of being shown you like him... that's number 1, and very important!
@user-iy6zj1nu5t6 жыл бұрын
This is a very good video, girls. BUT! You can give whatever compliment you like to a guy if he's already into you. Know what I'm saying?? You're pretty, lively, perky, (or loaded) and he likes you and you can say 'you look great, you look sexy' that kind of 'simple' compliments in early stage of dating. In other words, no amount of trying will ever change the man if he's NOT into you.
@francineharris9473 Жыл бұрын
He could like you, but because he don’t know you could be holding it back, for various reasons until he knows you better. On top of that all men don’t thank alike but the way that he talks make women think this., On the other hand, most of them are. We also need to know if he’s a man or a grown boy. Grown boys play a to of games, but there some man out there that just want someone to love them. . Just like all women are not the same, but I do agree with the idea that we as women should not come on to strong to a man in the beginning of a relationship. On the other hand, this could be very hard if you have very strong feelings in the beginning. There are some women out there that could be a psychopaths so men have to careful as well. I believe when God sends you someone it will just work because what he gives it will add no sorrow. Women should go to him and ask him to send us the right person, but you should make sure that its from him. Sometimes people don’t meet the right person because thy don’t make themselves available meaning you can’t be found if your always in the house, and not meeting enough people. Meaning he can’t find you. You should not go places for only this reason but it does play a part.
@bellabwz6 жыл бұрын
Fix the core..be authentic love self n be ur self.thats all
@AnneLaurieJoseph5 жыл бұрын
I have a date in two days, and it's with a guy I've known and liked for six years but haven't seen him in five years. I'm so glad I ran across this video because I don't feel as terrified anymore. Thanks for this; you just earned a new Subscriber
@miiakristiinasiimesto63524 жыл бұрын
Honesty and Honey -Loving mixture. Truth is to be You as as a Wisdom - As A Lady - Be Your own Live’s Good Queens. There is a moment of Now in Everything. Be You in All times and never Loose Your crown of Light because of False Princes. Value listening so that You will hear the Truth in Everything and then decide what is best for You ❤️
@natgeox4 жыл бұрын
I'm an alpha female. I do and say what I like. Men fall in love way too fast with me and never get over/forget me. So, this advice, maybe for some. Just be confident and do what you like, if they dont like it meh, move along...plenty more frogs in the pond 💅
@msdecemberloveangel82364 жыл бұрын
I was being myself and dated this man for 3 years. He made breakfast for me brought it to me made love to me and when I fell in love with him he Ghosted me and blocked me and I'm still in awe like what in the hell did I do to him.
@avril.2274 жыл бұрын
Ms December Love Angel he didn’t love himself, so he couldn’t believe you loved him either Beta male ... you need an equal
@cynthiadowning86944 жыл бұрын
You met a narcissist
@elijahwinchester66902 жыл бұрын
if he thinks i have no value solely because i value him, i don't want to start a relationship with that man.
@cherrylane792 жыл бұрын
I have learned to be disgusted when a man says that I'm beautiful, because on the dating sites /apps, the next thing they say is that they want only one thing and soon.
@saunterscamper39526 жыл бұрын
I love the “Wait, what?” part; that is so key. Also, that can lead a woman to see whether we have a fragile ego-ed man in front of us (a DANGER, DANGER situation). -An even more invaluable bit of info!
@allnotathome4 жыл бұрын
"He who needs the other one the most is always in the weakest position, and that's obviously the position you never want to be in". Listen, you dummy, if you have two people who follow this rule and enter into a relationship, then that relationship will end in 2 seconds. When did relationships between men and women become some sort of powergame from Game of Thrones?
@jgrrr90474 жыл бұрын
You're hilarious
@s.j.40614 жыл бұрын
TRUELY TRUE !
@tiffknox3 жыл бұрын
Lol right?! Cheese and rice 🤦♀️
@zazzyz45586 жыл бұрын
I adore this guy! Is it just me or is he wonderful beyond words? He makes my toes tingle!
@chippychick62612 ай бұрын
Seeking commiseration from my mother after a breakup she said “ don’t put too much focus on it. Love and marriage is not easy”. 2 months later she accepted proposal for marriage at 70.
@monicalevyt6 жыл бұрын
You are so funny!!! Please explain in more details about challenge. Maybe a role video about it? Thanks so much!
@lightl2873 жыл бұрын
Life saving. Brian! I have been mistaking for sooooo many years 😱😳 Thank you very much for clarification 🙏🙏 You are doing amazing work! 👏👏👏
@veronicak60233 жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much Brian for all the videos you post. You make it all so clear. Especially enjoyed what you say about self love. Life changing for me. Thank you.
@becks51984 жыл бұрын
I really feel like you are in my room talking and giving me this advice. You’re good!!!
@aliciablunt48572 жыл бұрын
It really not complicated, just take what works for you and leave the rest that doesnt make sense. There is no perfect formula for dating but I think he has a great point for people who have become aware that they are the common denominator in each failed dating attempt. Its not always your fault but creating a challenge and pace as a woman makes the court even and then you can both play play. Of course we and a wide range of personalities and interests, and its also important to make sure the people we invest in are making an investment in return. Its give and take and I think people are so scared to fail, we really just need to step away from perfection and accept an L when it happens
@tracyadamsphotograph6 жыл бұрын
These rules are stupid. Having to follow formulas and stroke a man's ego isn't for me. Make these videos for men if they are supposed to do the effort and chasing. Teach them to stop being little boys and grow up. Men need to stop telling women how to behave, stop seeing needs and emotions as weak and know who they are and what they want. It's been too long that women have to keep changing themselves to please men.
@vittoriasan15435 жыл бұрын
Twwah112 well, men wouldn't watch them, that is against theirs masculinity hahaha
@jazminavendano52055 жыл бұрын
You're now my new personal hero...
@ghazal62005 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU! They are always just telling women how to please men by not being themselves and NEVER tell men how to make up their beliefs and behavior.
@mudphud2b5 жыл бұрын
I agree. I think the sentence in the video, "Men scare easily" (have panic attacks, etc.) sums it up for me. If a man scares easily, he's weak. Or his heart's not open to love. Either way, I'd rather know that he's "skittish" and "afraid" up front, so I can stay the hell away from these men.
@king-nick20235 жыл бұрын
Vittoria San lol and here I am watching a video as a man
@swarnimverma42814 жыл бұрын
Human Psychology isnt in reality as simple as 'be yourself'. Cold, hard facts
@sofial40496 жыл бұрын
I love everything you say. It connects with my inner knowing. Thanks for this video Brian.
@mariekoop58706 жыл бұрын
very nice. perfect timing for me to see this right now :)