Travel Fearlessly | Conquering Intimidation Abroad

[@nanaontherun1968]

Great Info. Being a solo female traveler, I've always just used common sense and so far have never felt unsafe. Or if I did I just went to a safer place with more people. Once arrived in Pompeii late at night, Sunday the wrong station , not a safe area. The lady at the station called a taxi, I was going to wait out side and she made it clear I was to stay inside and the taxi driver would come in and get me. So people will also look out for you.

[@BrianandCarrie]

Yes, common sense goes a long way. As well as locals that always seem so willing to help.

[@sunnyla2835]

With regard to “cafe,” my nephew was in Spain and asked someone where to catch the autobús in Spanish and the person also gave him a weird look. Why? Because he didn’t pronounce autobús precisely. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Seems to be a thing, idk?

[@bef8381]

What a great video! I’m planning on slow traveling (alone) once I can retire (in about 5 years). I traveled in Europe quite a bit 25 years ago-before cell phones. Some of your stories brought back memories- like getting on the wrong train in Krakow because I didn’t know the words for “east” and “west.” Some ideas I’ve had to reduce my fears: 1. Take a cruise to those places first so I know if I would want to stay longer. 2. Get an Airbnb room in the home of a local who speaks English. (That would also cost less and help with the loneliness.)

[@BrianandCarrie]

Meeting with locals will also give you a better sense of the community, local restaurants, and traditional food and drink.

[@colleenporter316]

Thanks for the great video! You are so right - it's all about the experience, and... you'll figure it out!!! Relax and enjoy the ride!

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thanks so much for watching 😊

[@mdm40mdm]

This is why we love your videos so much! You two are so real and down to earth. Thank you for such great information and insight!

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thank you so much. We really appreciate the kind words are you continuing to watch and follow along 😊

[@WallaceDunn]

I have traveled extensively throughout Mexico. Constantly amazed at how many people speak English once they know you speak Spanish!

[@BrianandCarrie]

We have dissolved that people automatically speak to us in English where ever we go.

[@Jvang102]

Love your videos, I have just retired to Portugal alone, am waiting for residency and looking forward to European travel. You mention an app called Sherpa? I wasn’t able to find anything .

[@BrianandCarrie]

Here is the link!! apply.joinsherpa.com/travel-restrictions

[@conniecrew2585]

Such good advice! Being an introvert with a tendency to get lost, my favorite things to remember are 1) It's going to be ok 2) You'll figure it out and 3) Don't take yourself so seriously. Cheers, guys! ❤

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thank you, Connie for adding this! Things to seem to work themselves out. ❤️

[@stephanieduston7490]

I feel I have lived pretty much my entire life with the thought process of, "What is the worst case scenario?", before I even begin whatever it is I intend to do. So in my head I find that answer and then I proceed with exactly what it is I want to do.....knowing what I'll do should the worst happen. It has served me well thus far! Thank you for, as always, being transparent......real & somewhat raw. It's what the rest of us need to find (or encourage our spouses to find) in order to embark on this sort of journey!

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thank you for watching, Stephanie! We appreciate the kind words and support. ❤️

[@annlarson5663]

My mom used to say “just try it’s not going to kill you”. When we travel I always think of this when I’m met with a situation that overwhelms me a bit.

[@BestQuotesEver...]

“Courage is not simply one of the virtues but the form of every virtue at the testing point.”- C.S. Lewis, The Screwtape Letters Many people experience fear especially when it comes to traveling, but courage is acting in spite of the fear. Be courageous and explore because life is short and fortune favors the bold!

[@Truth-of-the-matter]

I do agree that Trains and Public Transit can be a little intimidating; when I was travelling in Tokyo I didn't realize that I had to transfer trains that arrived and departed on the same tracks. I also paid for the regular train in Taipei but ended up getting on the express train unsure if I was going in the right direction. I've travelled mostly throughout Asia and have always encountered friendly people. Every time you travel you grow a little bit more confidence in your abilities to use the trains, trying new foods and so on.

[@BrianandCarrie]

Agreed! The more we travel the less stressful it becomes and the easier it is.

[@JB-ry9wc]

You become comfortable with the uncomfortable when you travel.

[@BrianandCarrie]

Yes, you absolutely do 😊

[@xaviotesharris891]

48:45 - Okay - currently in Albania and feeling the same about travel in country.

[@snewogerg]

OMG I loved the chocolate croissants in Barcelona. I think chocolate is a universal language, which I had no difficulty ordering.

[@BrianandCarrie]

Yes, i do think chocolate is universal ☺

[@OliaKonJo]

Now you know what it feels like for all those of us 1st generation people moving to the US or Canada to live. It never goes away. After 24 years living here I still feel foreign

[@BrianandCarrie]

We have been traveling for three years and don't feel the intimidation any longer. We have learned that people are very friendly and helpful wherever we go.

[@JH-me]

I have always thought how confident you both are in your travels , so I found this video quite interesting and re assuring .. i am fairly shy and reserved (British) . After 10 years of travel at last I am finding my feet and voice 😊 Recently had a long weekend in Athens with my 2 children and they commented on how much my confidence has grown . I think this video is invaluable to other travellers , well done and thanks for your honesty.

[@BrianandCarrie]

Our confidence has obviously grown a lot since we started. we always have more to learn. Thank you for watching our channel and commenting!! Safe travels!! 😀

[@tomarmstrong9945]

Thank you. This was very encouraging

[@jonathancbc]

this format is a winner; and the content is evergreen. Your accumulated experience shines.

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@wademarchetti5434]

Glad I found your channel.. Wife and I are going to dip a toe into slow travel. Walking the Camino in 2025 followed by SE Asia. Thanks for your content.. Learning quite a bit

[@BrianandCarrie]

We are glad that you found us! Thank you for watching and commenting. We very much appreciate your support. Cheers!

[@FollowingTheStones]

Shannon and I thank you both so much! We watch you both with eager anticipation each time, and take notes. We have learned so much in preparation for our own slow travels beginning next year.

[@BrianandCarrie]

It's so exciting that you're only a year away!! Thank you so much for watching and supporting our channel. Cheers!!🍻

[@pvera2803]

Regarding the language barrier, pointing as you said is really helpful. One time in Moscow we went to the zoo. I don't speak a single word of russian, so at the ticket counter I pointed to myself and then opened my hand to show a three. Then I pointed to one of the kids and showed the number of child tickets we needed, to which the attendant pointed the kids and then gestured NO. They were free.

[@BrianandCarrie]

It seems that everyone understands a smile and politeness. We get by pretty well now in most language situations now. Thank you for watching and safe travels.

[@jaudondavis3972]

I totally agree about the trains! We’ve had our reserved seats taken by other people that didn’t have reservations in the Czech Republic (teens sitting in the aisles) no numbering to let us know which car to sit in in France (even a really nice local don’t have a clue), an overnight train to Krakow that we didn’t know if the ticket agent was going to wake us up for (like we were told her would), so we didn’t end up in Moscow, a train from Vienna to Munich that had the back cars where we were sitting detaching in Salzburg (we had to get off and hustle to a different car), a train to the airport outside of Paris that made an announcement out in a suburb and everyone just got off (a nice African lady explained what was happening and where to go). In all of the situations (and a few more) the locals seemed almost as confused as us. I agree ask the employees in the platform and hope they understand you. In our experience in Europe buses and planes (except for that fact the airports are frequently on the edge of town) are easier to use. I know people love trains and they are fast and convenient, but we always seem to run into chaos.

[@BrianandCarrie]

Uhg!! We have had a few experiences and agree that the bus is a much easier option. Thank you for sharing and adding to the channel!! 😊

[@dominiquetheeasyminimalist]

Thanks to you both for your valuable content! You're so right, we always find a way to figure it out. I remember driving in the Algarve where they have Crazy roundabouts. I had to drive through 7 consecutive ones, obviously got stuck for about 30 minutes, ended up in a parking lot crying my heart out! I took a deep breath, stepped out of the car and walked for a few minutes, then drove through effortlessly and got to my destination. Where there's a fearless will, there's a way 🙂. Tip for vegans or food intolerance, the Happy cow app lists restaurants worldwide.

[@BrianandCarrie]

We have learned how to relax and let things work out. What's the worst thing that can happen? The Happy Cow app is a great tip!! We will check it out, thank you! 😀

[@jamesreimann1095]

I love all of your examples, and I have experienced many/most of them during all my travels over the years. Our high (!) point of travel drama was when my wife was unexpectedly left behind in Beijing and I had to fly with our three young kids to Australia without her, because our family was travelling on two separate bookings (to use up frequent flier miles) and because there was a rescheduling due to a cancelled flight and we were on a partner airline which did not give us much priority, four of us ended up with assigned seats to Australia and she did not. (OMG what happened?) She ended up in a nice airport hotel in Beijing with a nice dinner and glass of wine and I was able to sort it out with our airline face to face the next day when me and the kids all arrived in Melbourne. She turned up in Australia 1 day late and it all worked out with a great story to tell at dinner parties. Our lessons from that trip were (1) when travelling as a family, ensure you are all on the same booking so the airline can't split you up, and (2) frequent flier flights are much less reliable on partner airlines than on the airline where you earned the points, so buyer beware. But seriously, you need to pack your sense of humor when traveling and accept that something will go wrong on any given trip.

[@BrianandCarrie]

Great points, James!! Especially packing your sense of humor! I'll be using that in an upcoming video for sure!! 😄 Thank you for all the comments!! Cheers!!🍻

[@MrGearoid65]

Great candid video, guys. Thank you. I completely understand where you're coming from. As a solo traveller, I generally try to learn a few key phrases and vocabulary in the target language before going, but I know this doesn't always work when a local babbles back at you!!! Best to you both. 😊

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thank you so much 😊

[@anitariley7086]

Great info….thanks! Applicable to any type of traveller.

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thank you 😊. So happy you found it helpful. Cheers!!

[@jeffharwood6185]

Thanks for testing the travel waters for us Gen. X'ers

[@BrianandCarrie]

We feel so fortunate to be doing what we are doing 😊. Thanks so much for watching

[@retiredandroaming]

You guys, always, have the most useful, practical and real info available for would-be/future travelers like myself! Thank you!

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thank you, Barry for watching!!

[@JoseReyes-ov2tu]

I am laughing here at the thought of Brian (who is so much like my own husband) on a silent car! 😂 😂 😂

[@BrianandCarrie]

It was horrible!!! 😂

[@roadtofreecollege6337]

Once on a trip in Germany with students, the schedule board was incorrect. Our conductor on the train called the station and was embarrassed. He figured out how to get us to our destination, but it took several extra hours. Good news, however, the route took us by the Lorelei monument from the Heine poem. The students took lots of photos and were thrilled. -Elizabeth

[@BrianandCarrie]

That does seem to happen often... But like we always say, some of our best memories come from things not going as planned. 😊

[@veemann9644]

Awesome information guys. You are a gift and treasure trove of information. Keep it up please.

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thank you so much!! ❤

[@COOKINGFROMTHELOFT]

You guys are giving me quite a chuckle this morning! I have totally been there with (most) of these and your advice is spot on! The trains.... Either someone is in my seat... OR I'm in someone else's seat thinking it is mine because I am in the wrong car. Never fails.

[@BrianandCarrie]

We are finally getting the train systems figured out!! 😂

[@oldaloneandfarfromhome]

I love this video! It feels as though I have felt insecure about almost every aspect of international travel that you have mentioned. For instance, tomorrow morning I have to catch a bus back to Querétaro, Mexico. There's no station. I just have to stand by the road and wait for my ride. I can't find anywhere a mention of what time to expect a bus or how often the right one will come along. I agree too, the buses in Albania were crazy, but I always got to where I wanted to go!

[@BrianandCarrie]

We start to think of situations like that as adventures! We are looking forward to Mexico this fall. 😀

[@Eschewavarice1967]

Another great video! Every time I listen to your experiences, I am more excited about our travels ahead. Your videos have greatly enhanced our early retirement lifestyle. Thank you so much😊

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thank you so much ❤️. So happy you are finding the content helpful in planning your travels. Cheers!!

[@RaulGiorgiSr]

Fantastic video, so much useful insight. We’re in the midst of a 90-day trip throughout Italy and can relate to your experience. Thanks for your transparency and sharing from your hearts. 👍🏻 Safe travels and Cheers! 🍻

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thank you, Raul and safe travels!! 😀🍻

[@waynemckathan1849]

Thanks! Cheers, my last week in Playa Del Carmen. It’s double intimidating being solo.

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thank you so much ❤️. Enjoy your last week in Playa. I'm sure solo comes with many additional challenges. Cheers!!

[@larryyoungquist6876]

We just got back from Lisbon and while we usually take Uber, there was a huge crowd at the airport ride share area. So, instead we took a taxi and had the exact same experience that Carrie described. The driver only spoke Portuguese and took us on a thirty minute round about trip to our hotel that was only five minutes away. But because of the the language issue, we just paid it and vowed to take Uber in the future. Even if there's a crowd.

[@BrianandCarrie]

It's always the mystery ride. I hate feeling like I'm always going to be taken advantage of, but taxis just seem to be the area that will happen. You're totally at their mercy. Thankfully Uber is available in most areas 😊

[@cherokesky]

Here in Bali taxi have not matched Grab... Super low cost here... Agree 100 percent with this video.. Minnie and i have been traveling for 9 months now.... Heading to Malaysia next month..... Then Thailand.... Safe travels. Larry and Minnie🎉

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thank you for all the comments, guys!! ❤

[@steven_dekok]

In the Netherlands there is a BIG difference between a "coffee" shop and a cafe. 😂 When you started talking about trains I was thinking about Romania and then you started talking about the trains in Romania! They are so confusing. It says you're in car #2 but then there are five #2 cars! Yeah, you need to ask the train person on the platform. Where did you find the craziest drivers? For me, it was Bucharest. Those drivers are insane! lol

[@BrianandCarrie]

Yes, so confusing 😂. We've experienced quite a few locations with crazy driving, i just look down at my phone and try to ignore it and hope we make it to our destination alive.

[@mikeshawn5864]

Two days before two made out trip to Spain, I had this strange fear that we should not go on our own. I was concerned about that there are a lot of pocket picking thieves. After we went, we both think Spain is really under rated. Not only it is extremely safe but also really relatively inexpensive to visit. There are a few nice little downs outside of Madrid and Seville. Even both cities have enough to see. People are nice and helpful. Sure, travel may not be as fancy as you think, but it is not as dangerous as you think either..

[@BrianandCarrie]

Yes, agree 100! We can have a vision in our head of what to expect and more often than not its completely different. We loved Spain and some of the smaller little towns we saw on our daytrips were highlights.

[@rebeccas8476]

Thanks!

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thank you so much Rebecca! We truly appreciate your kindness and support of our channel ❤️

[@robertmcfarlane4151]

People fear the unknown. We fear and worry about limited knowledge of a place, where Western media has only shown limited images to you. I think it is very human to feel that sense of intimidation. I have not been to Southeast Asia and your channel has greatly quashed some of those concerns. I look forward to these places now to explore. This was a good video to speak to those concerns. You are seasoned travellers and have expanded your horizons tremendously. Please continue to provide this valuable information. Cheers!

[@BrianandCarrie]

Both Turkey and Romania come to mind as well. Turkey is very clean, and the people are incredibly friendly. Thanks, Rober!

[@ChilloutLars]

Great travel tips.

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thank you for watching and commenting!! 😀

[@jameshall2299]

Just watched your danang video and we stayed at H suites for 3 weeks in February. Absolutely loved it there. We booked a hotel there for next year at a hotel just a block away from h suites. We stopped in to inquire about it and it’s as nice or nicer than h suites.

[@jameshall2299]

I can’t remember but Carrie must have given us the hotel or we just lucked out

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thats awesome!! We loved our time in Da Nang, and we look forward to getting back to Vietnam soon. Thank you for watching and safe travels!

[@PeggyWithAPassport]

From Palm Springs, WOW, extremely informative, THANK YOU BOTH !

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thank you for watching, Peggy!!😀

[@roadtofreecollege6337]

I have developed several food allergies and intolerances, but found a simple way to eat safely when traveling. I made a list of foods I have to avoid, and translated it into the language of the country I was visiting. On the top of the list I included the sentence, “I am allergic to these foods, please do not include them.” Copied it on a 3x5 card and laminated it. Worked every time. ☺️-Elizabeth

[@BrianandCarrie]

That's a wonderful tip Elizabeth, thanks so much for sharing 😊

[@comment5884]

Ok, to start off with it was your mistake, not your bad. Your not allowed to say that since you dont have your pants down around your thighs. Also, you all care. You can tell it in your videos. It was a pleasure to just go along with you both recalling your trips and tips. Thanks so much from a future slow traveler.

[@BrianandCarrie]

It is our pleasure! 😀Thank you so much for watching and supporting the channel!! ❤

[@nomadjim]

Great podcast! Agree with a lot of these. They're things you have to work through as a traveler, but once you conquer that intimidation you feel so much more confident and relaxed. With respect to food, I sometimes feel intimidated with HOW to eat the food. Do you use a fork, or a spoon, or both, or do you just use your hands, etc.? I find myself looking at other tables in the restaurant to figure out what I should do. lol Loving the podcasts!

[@BrianandCarrie]

That is so true, best to check out those around you too see the best protocol. So happy you're enjoying our new podcasts... Thanks for watching 😊

[@ceciliacook4639]

Love your videos! You both are the best. I'm learning so much from you. Thank you

[@BrianandCarrie]

So happy you enjoy them. Thanks so much for watching 😊

[@nellasnaidero5238]

Fantastic podcast..❤

[@BrianandCarrie]

Glad you enjoyed it! 😊

[@mitchmclain4809]

Great video! I may have overlooked the app you use that shows entry and exit requirements of each country. Can you please share it again. Thank you

[@BrianandCarrie]

We use the website Sherpa. It's a great resource for the requirements for each area.

[@RaisaOConnor]

Really enjoying your videos !❤

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thank you for watching!!! ❤

[@whatsitlike6392]

Your comment about eating times and Spain hit home with us. We were there for six months and never could get used to eating late. We tried as well and we are just done by 9pm. Maybe sit in a cafe and drink a soda or something. Also like you we kept trying to eat around 1pm and it was almost a non-starter unless we went to Mc Donald's or something.

[@BrianandCarrie]

It was such a hard one to adapt to...we are just too set in our ways. I just don't like eating and then going to bed. Maybe I need to learn to stay up till midnight 🤣🤣

[@MyLifeinSpain888]

Hi guys, That was a great informative video that will help many people. I think you would be better prepared to tackle Spain now than when you first visited. When I first moved here, I had problems with the time when people ate. However, my biggest problem was learning to relax and be patient. Now I live the way Spaniards do having my main meal of the day at 14:00 followed by a nap (siesta) and then tapas in the evening. I'm looking forward to the new video from Turkey.

[@BrianandCarrie]

We are looking forward to getting back to some travel videos as well. We were home for way too long!! It's nice to be back on the road!!

[@MyLifeinSpain888]

Hi guys, I realize you have to travel light. In the beginning, you used a Sigma 16mm lens for your indoor videos. I am thinking of getting one for my Canon M50 II. It's only for indoor cooking videos. I already have a Canon 11-22mm. Is it worth buying the Sigma? Thanks 😊

[@BrianandCarrie]

You can probably get away with just the one lens.

[@gkunz3]

If dealing with people all day long…who don’t speak your language, it can be exhausting. Hadn’t realized this.

[@anne4369]

Being from Bellingham, y’all are practically Canadian, so it’s not *super* far from the truth. 😊

[@BrianandCarrie]

Exactly 🤣

[@lindylee1139]

This is a great topic and not discussed enough! The first time I went to a grocery store in Spain you could not exit the door you entered which I didn’t know so I was escorted by a security guard who actually was very nice about it.

[@BrianandCarrie]

Oh no!! 😂

[@monicamillin9659]

As someone that guides people in travel there are a few things that I always tell people. Number 1, learn a few words of the language. Be friendly, smile, learn the culture of where you are traveling and I feel that you are going to these countries and not doing your homework prior. All the things you mention are in my books "travel 101". You go to another country the best way to blend in is to adapt to where you are.

[@BrianandCarrie]

Yes, totally agree, it's all pretty basic and easy to do. Cheers!!

[@1st1shot]

Good stuff. Thanks!

[@BrianandCarrie]

Glad you liked it! Cheers ☺

[@jwinters9974]

Trains are always exciting for us.. In Portugal, we arrived at our stop expecting the door to open. By the time we figured out on this particular train - the doors didn't open automatically, rather you had to push a button -- we missed our stop. There was a local who saw what happened, and she went above and beyond getting us back on track. Another time in Paris - there was such a rush getting on the metro - the doors closed when I was only half-way in, with my back pack being squeezed between the doors as they tried to close. It wasn't intimidating so much, as embarrassing.. lol But in general, we find it imperative to ALWAYS be respectful of the local culture - and if you are unsure, watch/observe before acting. Never assume things are done a certain way/your way -- each place has it's own way.. Also, be sensitive to tourist/AirBnb backlash in certain areas. It's there, it's a thing. You may look out your AirBnb window and see a not so subtle message in graffiti to that effect. It's natural for locals to want to protect their way of life, and in certain areas where tourism is not managed appropriately -- there may be a bit of friction there.

[@BrianandCarrie]

Ther door not opening on it's own or closing so quick brings back many memories. We did the same and stood waiting for it to open to get on.... Thankfully someone walked up last min to get on the train as well 🤦

[@cjyreed8321]

Language is a HUGE part of the adventure of travel--without that effort, you are guaranteed to miss most cultural experiences. You do NOT need to be proficient, but step one is learning to say "I'm trying to learn your language, and welcome your help." Step Two, make mistakes all over the place, but you will ALWAYS be rewarded and looked after just for your willingness to try. It transforms their experience of Americans and gives you a new Welcome to Other Worlds. Don't stay silent until "it's perfect." Then they are likewise encouraged to try some of their faltering English when you get in a bind!

[@BrianandCarrie]

As long as you make an effort. People love to be respected and trying a few phrases in their language goes a long way. Thank you for your comments!!

[@patl4668]

We traveled to over 50 countries and the last two years we used Canadian flag luggage tags, just in case😊. As an American I feel some countries will quote us a higher price or expect a tip. But as American Asian, if people ask where we are from we say Hong Kong and then we pay a little less and no/less tips.

[@BrianandCarrie]

That is something that we have seen. Not necessarily an American price but a tourist price for sure, and we don't tip outside the US. It is never expected.

[@vernelldavis-jm8dx]

I've enjoyed all of your videos. They've helped me as I prepare for slow solo travel starting next year. The intimidation factor of the language barrier is my most concern. I'm learning Spanish, which is hard, and you are the second persons I've heard say they speak a different style of Spanish in Spain. Really concerning for me because I was hoping to spend a bit of time in Spain. Anyway, keep the videos coming and enjoy your journey!

[@BrianandCarrie]

It is intimidating, but totally doable. Learn the basics very well and use Google translate for the others. You'll do great 😃

[@scottjohnson1964]

Map audio also says turn left or right when the map shows the other. Trust the line not the audio.

[@BrianandCarrie]

That's so funny. My arrow is always pointing the wrong way but moves the right way when we walk. But when back home or in Ireland it worked perfect...so strange.

[@kristinkiddy9079]

Hi. Heads up for your time in Mexico. The main meal of the day is called comida and happens from 2 to 3 (a lot of shops close between 2 and 4 pm. Dinner is called cena and usually doesn't happen until 8 pm. Although we usually eat at 7 most days and restaurants are open by then too if we go out. Also the comida restaurants close by 4 or 5 and the cena restaurants don't open until 7 so having an American dinner time is tricky.

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thank you for the heads up, it sounds a lot like Spain. We look forward to surviving off street tacos and tequila as much as possible. 😂

[@bronjackman3274]

Hi, thanks for sharing your experiences, very helpful 😊, will you also still be showing videos from where you are staying? missing seeing you travels 😊

[@BrianandCarrie]

Yes! We just released our time in Ireland and will have videos on Turkey and Greece soon. We had an extended time home the past couple of months visiting family and friends. Thank you for watching!! Cheers!!🍻

[@leanns2000]

I laughed listening to some of your stories, recalling some of my own experiences! Now I don't know if this has changed in the last few years, but Google maps wouldn't work for us in Cuba. In fact, our travel timeline in the app stops and restarts well offshore. I was wondering if you have found, or heard of other places that are not available in Google maps. BTW it's not for lack of technology in Cuba - there's an Apple store in downtown Havana!

[@BrianandCarrie]

There hasn't been a place that we have been that we have had that problem. I'm sure it has something to do with the US embargo on Cuba. As US citizens we can't even go to Havana.

[@Mr.S65]

The whole thing is that you guys travel and sort of live in country except when you stay in hotels. I have traveled a lot and always stayed in hotels but now that I live in Portugal I have to face the same intimidation concerning language. Can you imagine going through an interview to get my residency permit?

[@BrianandCarrie]

Yes, hotels makes things quite a bit easier. There is typically less navigation issues and language is typically not much of a issue. Cheers!!

[@andreablack4573]

This is all so relateable! My french is reasonable and I am used to what I get asked. But last time I was in France I was asked ‘ticketkart’? Which is do you want your docket which is a new thing in France. I got there in the end but originally I was like ‘what’ or ‘quoi’!

[@BrianandCarrie]

Always something new to learn 😃. We figure, this alone will help keep our minds stay fresh and active as possible.

[@AnakNi_Mina]

First of all we love you and watch your vids & podcast for the great info. Hubby & I started a drinking game mid-video after we realize you guys mentioned "intimidated" or "intimidation" lol Just messing with you. Love you again :)

[@BrianandCarrie]

Haha, that's funny and sounds like a great game. Thanks so much for watching 😊

[@olafoodandtravel]

love your videos, this podcast is great! Love hearing your perspective and adventures. Could Carrie tell us about her arm tattoo? What does it say? My hubby and I are looking forward to trying our hand at travel videos, any equipment suggestions? Would you ever meet up with followers? We live just outside of Atlanta, GA and have a place you can stay anytime! Happy to have you!

[@BrianandCarrie]

Hi! My new tattoo says "Always with you". My son and daughter and I got them together when I was home ❤️. Check out our website www.brianandcarrietravels.com we have a page with all camera gear listed. We love meeting up with viewers, well let you know if we make it to that area 😊

[@nondumisomabaso1578]

Wish you guys would go to Cape Town-South Africa one day. You would love it.

[@BrianandCarrie]

We will make it to South Africa someday soon!!

[@feliciamartin6200]

No bread for you! lol I admit to being a little intimidated due to the language. I’m hoping to get over it in Romania this summer. Transportation worries me a bit also. I’m solo so not sure if it’s safer using a taxi or Uber. Trains are hard for me to figure out too.

[@carmenmunteanu437]

Don't use the yellow Taxi when in Romania (especially Bucharest), they are bullish, arrogant, would fix their own prices & display a forceful behaviour. Try to always use the Uber or Bolt applications. Their drivers are polite, respectful & you'll know ahead of time the price & distance. Romania is outstandingly beautiful, but, like everywhere else, you have to do your homework ahead of time, get informed & stay aware of your surroundings. It's people very hospitable & younger generation speaks English ASL in the biggest cities. Enjoy & good luck.

[@BrianandCarrie]

We loved Romania and had very little issue with language. The Uber app was great and super inexpensive. The train and buses worked fine, they just are quite old and very slow. Another option would be used the group tours, a great way to get to places and not worry about navigation. Cheers!!

[@mariagillinson8527]

CARRIE … Can you post the Sherpa link?

[@BrianandCarrie]

This is Brian. 😁 apply.joinsherpa.com/travel-restrictions

[@mariagillinson8527]

Thank you kindly

[@2000grad]

Is your top merino wool? I’m thinking of going with merino. If so, which brand is it?

[@BrianandCarrie]

Hi! We don't actually have any merino wool at this time. This page may be helpful, as it's our key clothing items we pack ☺. www.brianandcarrietravels.com/shop-2-1

[@elizaC3024]

We usually do public transportation to our airbnb, but after wrestling with large suitcases in France up multiple flights of stairs. So in Barcelona we took a taxi from the train station to our Airbnb, and the driver pulled up to a park entrance and said here. We refused to get out, insisting he was at the wrong address. We finally got him to call the airbnb and get directions, it turned out it was his annunciation to his phone for Google maps that was wrong. Yeah, an extra $10 euros later, no more taxi's unless there's no other option. 😊

[@BrianandCarrie]

We usually use Uber and show the driver the address on our phone, and even then you never know! 😂

[@darrylk808]

If I think that they are bullying me, I wave them off and go somewhere else to spend my money. It happens in France often.😂

[@BrianandCarrie]

Yes, now that would be what we would do as well. Many other options to go 😊

[@livingworkingoutsidebox]

Very helpful and so true 👍 intimidation of the unknown. When I find that special person that doesn't "understand" coffee from café or 10 20 30 different bread types that one should know I try to make them smile by putting a wrong common word in front. Un coffee con plumas porfas Then say café in every other accent possible With plumas (feathers) So imagine: coffecito de plumas Cafe restaurante con plumas Frejol de Coffee Caliente con plumas blancos with a please each try.😊😅 Un baguette de cemento obscure por favor etc😊 ( dark cement bread please)😅 Side note try ordering bread in the Bavarian region of Germany. Over 300 types. But oh so tasty 👍 With hundreds of different types of beers 🍻 😋 next time in Germany as for a Diesel, beer with coke, or Banana juice and beer 🍺 Best on a hot day is a Radler, lime soda with beer 1/4 - 3/4 mix is best.

[@BrianandCarrie]

So many variation and things to learn. A good time for a nod and a smile and pointing 😊. Thanks so much for watching.

[@susanjackson984]

Do you use a water filtration water bottle or drink tap water in countries like SE Asia? (making my packing list to start this next spring)

[@BrianandCarrie]

Yes, the water bottle we have has a UV-C cap, so we can use tap water and then the light makes it drinkable. For areas of concern, we also have a filter we add to the bottle that filters as we drink. Here is the one we use and love: imp.i263265.net/g15ZX0

[@susanjackson984]

@@BrianandCarrie many thanks!! I appreciate the tip 👍

[@alainmichaud6747]

Costa Rica is super nice but it very difficult ( bus are ^^) if you do not drive a car and even them in San jose the traffic is very difficult .. we have been going there for many years but I find it less comfortable and secure than 10 year ago... ( Ps and I am a canadian)

[@BrianandCarrie]

There are a few countries in Central America that we may not travel to. We like our slow travel pace, and a month-long stay would be difficult. Everyone loves Canadians!! 😀 Cheers!!🍻

[@NikkiMatthews-m4r]

If you are in a train station you probably want to buy a train ticket all you need to know is the train number and time Post office you want a stamp restaurant you want food in some places even wandering around the restaurant looking at other people’s food and then pointing to order

[@BlueSkies360]

We thought we have enough time and went to the toilet, where we heard our names called by speakers in the toilet, we ran out and barely made it (long run) :))

[@BrianandCarrie]

Oh goodness... That last min rush is never fun! Thankfully you could hear your names over the speaker at that point. Cheers!!

[@pauladuncanadams1750]

I think that Carrie truly was being picked on when trying to get coffee. I remember being sixteen and going to GB grocery store in Eupen, Belgium--which is my mother's hometown but I don't speak the language. It was 1980, and we were there because Opa was ill and dying. I went to the store by myself to go get some 110 film for my camera and they acted like they had no idea what I was talking about even though it was in the display and I was pointing. I said, "Ein Hundred und zehn" and still the person in the camera department acted like I was from Mars. Some people are just jerks no matter where you are. NOW, you can at least look stuff up on your phone, words, pictures. There was no reason for Carrie to be treated this way. Just another jerk. We have them in the States, too. Same personality, different country.

[@BrianandCarrie]

We agree! You can find mean people everywhere! Just unhappy, I guess. Thank you for the support, Paul! Cheers!!🍻

[@raindances3310]

The eating at 9 thing totally confuses me. Don't they have to get up to work? Do their work days start later?

[@anitariley7086]

I always think that too! Maybe they start work later 🤷‍♀️

[@BrianandCarrie]

Or take naps in the middle of the day?

[@pauladuncanadams1750]

Some countries with heat, Spain, Mexico, take siesta (nap) during the hottest time of the day and stay out later when it's cooler.

[@loris7964]

have you had SSSS on passport?

[@BrianandCarrie]

?

[@andreablack4573]

With trains have you ever checked the number of the train? Checking that I find is the most foolproof way of making sure where I am going.

[@BrianandCarrie]

We have, and sometimes this doesn't match. We just try to use all elements, platform number, time of departure, train number, destination and hope a few match up 😊

[@annlarson5663]

I forgot our plug converter when we went to Korea and tried to find one in a Walmart like store. The poor workers just did not have a clue what I was talking about and I’m sure they thought I was describing some sexual toy because they looked very embarrassed. Luckily one of the ladies spoke a little English and helped us but it was rather funny later.

[@sunnyla2835]

Oy! The transportation thing does really sound intimidating, esp for solo travelers. Yikes

[@BrianandCarrie]

It gets easier the more you use it but yes, it can be intimidating!

[@whatareuthinking1]

Did you take part in the siesta😂

[@Jupe367]

I almost want to ask if you both research to see where the US Embassy location is located in each country then you mention about the STEP Program. That is good to know that this exist.

[@BrianandCarrie]

Yes, it's a great option so you feel informed during your stay. And super easy to do 😊

[@deandoucette7206]

So are you ready to tackle Africa?

[@BrianandCarrie]

We are planning to in the next couple years 😊

[@joannemberube]

😂🇨🇦❤

[@BrianandCarrie]

🤣🤣

[@Wink527]

My wife and I are atheists. I’ve heard we should avoid Muslim countries because they have laws against atheists. Is this sound advice?

[@BrianandCarrie]

I'm not familiar with any concerns in this area. As well as, unless advertised I'm not sure how any one would know your views.

We are just going to say we are Canadian 😂😂😂

[@BrianandCarrie]

Haha... It's sometimes easier 🤣

[@michaelgurtler522]

guys, your videos are getting way too long, should be no more than 15 min

[@BrianandCarrie]

LOL!! It's a podcast but thank you for your opinion Cheers!!🍻

[@carmenmunteanu437]

Keep scrolling right over!!! Your opinion does not represent the majority of their fans. The rest of us enjoy them very much & find it really educational & informative!

[@Mr.S65]

The whole thing is that you guys travel and sort of live in country except when you stay in hotels. I have traveled a lot and always stayed in hotels but now that I live in Portugal I have to face the same intimidation concerning language. Can you imagine going through an interview to get my residency permit?

[@vitusmaximus2260]

How ‘bout you watch your 15 minutes, then move along?

[@BrianandCarrie]

Thank you, Carmen! We work hard at this and very much appreciate your support! ❤