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Bride So Afraid Of Her TIGER MUM That She Keeps Changing The Dress | Say Yes To The Dress Lancashire

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We have seen indecisive brides, but how many change their mind AFTER buying the dress? Poor Jacinthe is so afraid of other people's opinions (especially her mother's), that she doesn't know what she wants anymore - but is she being true to the most important person in the room - herself?

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@mamabear9646
@mamabear9646 2 жыл бұрын
Gok isn't getting impatient, she's been conditioned to think she's tiresome.
@regularity2556
@regularity2556 2 жыл бұрын
Even when she was talking about her fiance, she said he puts up with her.
@mellie4174
@mellie4174 2 жыл бұрын
@@regularity2556 ya! It's so sad how she talks about herself
@justanotherenigma
@justanotherenigma 2 жыл бұрын
Ermideargawd, someone give her to me so my friends and I can fix her self esteem. This is a major flag for me..... I'm sorried about her
@LimoneSoda
@LimoneSoda 2 жыл бұрын
YESSSSS!This!
@Br0th3r7
@Br0th3r7 2 жыл бұрын
I feel so sorry for her, she has very low self-esteem even tho she's gorgeous and seems very clever and nice
@Sylvia-Storm
@Sylvia-Storm 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes parents don’t realise the negative effect they can have on their children. Confidence building is so important.
@ginara0136
@ginara0136 2 жыл бұрын
Or the parents don't care. But agreed! Confidence is so important in life!
@christinecho779
@christinecho779 2 жыл бұрын
I grew up like this. It takes a lot of work to fix.
@bluezauza
@bluezauza 2 жыл бұрын
And sometimes parents absolutely do realize how negative they are and thrive on it.
@whyparkjiminnotridejimin
@whyparkjiminnotridejimin 2 жыл бұрын
@@ginara0136 Uhm yes they do!
@sweetdaydreamer8868
@sweetdaydreamer8868 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes they realize and don't care
@melif2685
@melif2685 2 жыл бұрын
Never pressures brides to go over budget. Never pressures brides to get the dress they're not 100% sure about. Puts the bride no.1 no matter what. Makes brides see what they're insecure about as a beauty, not as insecurity. Gok has inner sunshine. He really deserves the whole happiness in the world.
@jessicagameros5321
@jessicagameros5321 2 жыл бұрын
I was like number 666 😳
@iseesmith
@iseesmith 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love Gok!
@kamandkarimi8738
@kamandkarimi8738 2 жыл бұрын
He also never calls them picky or hard to deal with!
@devinreis5811
@devinreis5811 2 жыл бұрын
He's brilliant. He knows that it's all about the bride and he understands her tastes. He's a genius.
@ShaneyHwang
@ShaneyHwang 2 жыл бұрын
He’s the best host, he makes the experience seem so personal and safe!
@s.sookraj2904
@s.sookraj2904 2 жыл бұрын
She seems so discouraged by whatever she was told before, but I’m glad that she ended up choosing the dress that SHE wanted. She is absolutely beautiful!
@rivertam7827
@rivertam7827 2 жыл бұрын
Poor girl was traumatised by her mother. Glad she went back for dress 1
@Winner4HIM
@Winner4HIM 2 жыл бұрын
That was dress number two with embellishments on the waistband area.
@rochio88
@rochio88 2 жыл бұрын
@@Winner4HIM At the end she says she changed her mind and went for number one. Which was stunning on her! everything else looked bland in comparison.
@dianemoonstone4715
@dianemoonstone4715 2 жыл бұрын
@@rochio88 : Agree!!!👍
@ginger1549
@ginger1549 2 жыл бұрын
I agree - my goodness what must her mother have said to her.
@trishgift7959
@trishgift7959 2 жыл бұрын
This poor woman was picking a dress based on what everyone else wanted, not what she wanted. That is not how you pick your wedding dress. As gorgeous as she was in each of those dresses, I'm glad she picked the one that SHE wanted.
@GameChanger597
@GameChanger597 2 жыл бұрын
And she kept critisizing her self. Seems like she got a lot of criticism from her mom.
@selyemperzsa1
@selyemperzsa1 2 жыл бұрын
I think her friends helped her. Great, honest friends.
@patriciaconner8413
@patriciaconner8413 2 жыл бұрын
So glad she changed her mind and went back to the first dress. She looks absolutely stunning in everything she tried on but the first dress looks exquisite on her!
@melissayoutube
@melissayoutube 2 жыл бұрын
The poor woman is just a shell of a human. She is traumatised beyond belief and is just a ball of stress and emotion. I hope she had a beautiful wedding day.
@erinhafer228
@erinhafer228 2 жыл бұрын
My heart was breaking for her!
@grobanite4ever85
@grobanite4ever85 2 жыл бұрын
That what tiger moms cause! Authoritarian parenting creates children who have low self esteem as adults. Tiger parents are abusive
@TheScarlettDevil
@TheScarlettDevil 2 жыл бұрын
I know your heart is in the right place but it's not great to hear she's just shell of human because of her personality and circumstances that caused it to become more extreme. Idk to me as someone that can kinda relate to her it rubs off the wrong way. We should direct our frustrations more on her parents that caused her that pain instead of calling her a shell because of her pain.
@melissayoutube
@melissayoutube 2 жыл бұрын
@@TheScarlettDevil you’ll see I said she is a shell of a human because of how traumatised she is/has been.
@ladennayoung2939
@ladennayoung2939 2 жыл бұрын
@@grobanite4ever85 Exactly.
@tastymedleys
@tastymedleys 2 жыл бұрын
She looked stunning in everything, but I'm glad she changed her mind in the end. That first dress looked like it was made for her!
@catherinenelson4162
@catherinenelson4162 2 жыл бұрын
I sure hope she had that see through bodice lined! Otherwise, her parents wouldn't be able to hold their heads up in polite society again!
@dianemoonstone4715
@dianemoonstone4715 2 жыл бұрын
Oh, that dress was gorgeous on her. I'm glad she finally picked that one and decided to live for herself!!!
@user-mt7rv5wg5z
@user-mt7rv5wg5z 2 жыл бұрын
@@dianemoonstone4715 She didn't pick the first dress??
@marianaamor6319
@marianaamor6319 2 жыл бұрын
@@user-mt7rv5wg5z If you watch to the end, she did. She decided to go with what she loved, not what she chose to please everyone else
@francesfehrman741
@francesfehrman741 2 жыл бұрын
Love this first dress
@southerngypsy1894
@southerngypsy1894 2 жыл бұрын
Her: The belly The rest of the world: What Belly?🤔
@dianerose8316
@dianerose8316 2 жыл бұрын
Ikr!
@Fredas_Lifestyle
@Fredas_Lifestyle 2 жыл бұрын
As in, What belly??
@nikidcruz9228
@nikidcruz9228 2 жыл бұрын
One of the skinniest brides i have seen with an amazing shape.... yet the words of the mother has changed the reality into a lie for her
@vvootia
@vvootia 2 жыл бұрын
Totally! Her waist is like my one tight 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️
@ratihrakhmawati3697
@ratihrakhmawati3697 2 жыл бұрын
Me too What? What belly??? 😂😂😂
@jenniferm1293
@jenniferm1293 2 жыл бұрын
I hope her mum has watched this back and is appauled as to how her behaviour made her daughter cry and feel this way.
@tinascorner183
@tinascorner183 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly she might just be more embarrassed that her daughter cried on TV and scolded her for it. Speaking from experience.. 🥲
@ginapetolicchio2684
@ginapetolicchio2684 2 жыл бұрын
Appalled
@brooke9297
@brooke9297 2 жыл бұрын
Plot twist: Gina Petolicchio is Jennifer M's helicopter mom and is appalled at the way Jennifer spelled appalled. ;)
@sarahalbers5555
@sarahalbers5555 2 жыл бұрын
@@tinascorner183 gotcha. Same here.
@Vee_of_the_Weald
@Vee_of_the_Weald 2 жыл бұрын
I very much doubt it.
@GoriBeringeifan332
@GoriBeringeifan332 2 жыл бұрын
I really try to respect other people's cultures, but no one has the right to terrify someone without even being physically present. That's not parenting or cultural heritage, it's just being plain toxic.
@Ilikefrogs..
@Ilikefrogs.. 2 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't call her mother's behaviour a cultural thing, toxic parenting unfortunately spans many different countries and cultures.
@Ouchiness
@Ouchiness 2 жыл бұрын
Glad she tried to find a balance, even more glad she was able to see through that balance and find the balance that was right for her which was prioritizing herself!
@bellablow4287
@bellablow4287 2 жыл бұрын
It's called having respect for your elders
@Ouchiness
@Ouchiness 2 жыл бұрын
@@bellablow4287 no, it’s called being scared of your elders.
@Ouchiness
@Ouchiness 2 жыл бұрын
@@bellablow4287 it’s called familial PIETY for a reason.
@noriginal2546
@noriginal2546 2 жыл бұрын
she said of her fiance "he puts up with me". Why do women beat themselves up and feel they are not a blessing? It is because they need to learn to know their worth.
@shontapl
@shontapl 2 жыл бұрын
Shes been beaten down so much for so long that she doesn't know her worth.
@SandraLuz3
@SandraLuz3 2 жыл бұрын
Some women not all. Im sure this comes from her mother's disapproval clearly it has hurted her so much.
@nicolelavigne1700
@nicolelavigne1700 2 жыл бұрын
It’s because someone(s) and their experiences have taught/trained them not to see their own value. It is learned unconsciously and takes a lot of conscious work to retire your own thoughts about yourself when they have gotten to that point. And it can happen to anyone, men and women.
@behabtwa
@behabtwa 2 жыл бұрын
sounds like mommy dearest has something to do with the lack of confidence.
@tamara2102
@tamara2102 2 жыл бұрын
N original you make it sound like her fiance is the bad man or something she said he's patient and puts up with her and don't think she meant it in a bad way as in he loves her enough to be by her side no matter what and that is true love and it's her mother that is the problem not the fiance.
@dawert2667
@dawert2667 2 жыл бұрын
Very telling to hear how her fiance “puts up with her” and “is patient with her” She seems so sweet, i seriously doubt she requires much patience, except from her mother of course
@SB-ls7qj
@SB-ls7qj Жыл бұрын
Her mother probably makes her feel like she is someone that needs to “be put up with”. Sad. She’s so lovely.
@user-ct2wx6ir7d
@user-ct2wx6ir7d Ай бұрын
@@SB-ls7qj OMGOSH! She's absolutely precious! The comments in this thread are spot on. I think GOK was just what she needed to help choose her wedding dress. He's a very caring & loving human being. I wish this bride-to-be and her long-time love all the happiness in the world. She's beautiful inside & out.
@diyaa5203
@diyaa5203 2 жыл бұрын
Can we talk about how gorgeous the bride is?? she is just adorable ahh
@clutchinmypearls6490
@clutchinmypearls6490 2 жыл бұрын
Let’s talk about if she is mature enough to get married.
@bliss6495
@bliss6495 2 жыл бұрын
@@clutchinmypearls6490 She is. Here, she is trying to compromise with her mom.
@alishaphilbert4754
@alishaphilbert4754 2 жыл бұрын
@@clutchinmypearls6490 right🙄🤦‍♀️
@marlieken.3075
@marlieken.3075 2 жыл бұрын
Imagine putting this much stress on your own child over A DRESS
@Tahia213
@Tahia213 2 жыл бұрын
Nope, it’s not just over a dress, it’s over a lifetime, that’s what narcissist do.
@tiffanyh629
@tiffanyh629 2 жыл бұрын
@@Tahia213 it's not the dress. It was a lifetime. The dress was just one of the straws that broke the back
@littlebitbritish
@littlebitbritish 2 жыл бұрын
She looked absolutely lovely in everything, but she is just so traumatised by it all. My heart just breaks for her. I hope she can be happy for herself, she deserves so much.
@lucinda2329
@lucinda2329 2 жыл бұрын
You must have missed the end....she changed her mind and chose the first dress that she really loved.
@passionfruitfruit
@passionfruitfruit 2 жыл бұрын
I've never seen Gok getting impatient with ANY bride. The sweet girl is so insecure about herself😟
@ajandrianjafymusic
@ajandrianjafymusic 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly she sounds so beat down confidence wise
@rachelacevedo660
@rachelacevedo660 2 жыл бұрын
A BEAUTIFUL woman with a judgmental family and non-supportive friends. She was not "confused", she was scared to be judged by her family and friends. I'm so happy that in the end she chose what she really wanted instead of what others wanted for her. She have a beautiful figure, like a model, she should be a confident and empowered woman.
@Umeshukitsune
@Umeshukitsune 2 жыл бұрын
I thought her friends were supportive and honest. They actually tried to support her with the last dress but their smiles were father forced. It's her that needed validation from them. They only truly liked the first dress which is the one she loved.
@mind_palace
@mind_palace 2 жыл бұрын
No i agree with the friends being non-supportive. When the dress has sparks they're judgemental and saying that it's too much, and when it doesn't have the sparks, suddenly it's too old. Like how is that helpful?
@methosimortal
@methosimortal 2 жыл бұрын
@@mind_palace they only said that the 1st dress wouldn't meet with her mother's approval. she has already returned a dress after her mother tore her down. they're just trying to help her pick a dress that she likes and that her mother won't tore down. Can't fault them for that.
@CA-bw9vw
@CA-bw9vw 2 жыл бұрын
@@mind_palace They said that because they understand how terrifying the mother is. They're only trying to protect her from harsh words. It's not a criticism of the dress even, it's just a comment on how the family would react
@vijayalakshmiv3567
@vijayalakshmiv3567 2 жыл бұрын
I found her friends actually supportive
@ramblingrose1540
@ramblingrose1540 2 жыл бұрын
My heart broke for this poor girl. She sounds like she's been undermined and made to feel insecure her entire life. I hope her life is turned around with her new husband and she'll have a much more stable and happy life.
@cvde95
@cvde95 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad she felt the courage to go back and choose dress #1. She looked glorious in everything but it's the fact that she chose it herself that I'm so happy about.
@catobrien837
@catobrien837 2 жыл бұрын
This is the comment!! ^^^
@Quantum36911
@Quantum36911 2 жыл бұрын
That video at the end made my day! The first one was jaw dropping, gorgeous and sophisticated, the other one was safe. With a "tiger mum" of my own, I know how hard it is to simply choose what makes YOU happy... it causes panic attacks. I finally had to let her go, I love her but she made me miserable, kept sabotaging my life. I hope Jacinthe has the wedding and the life of her dreams!
@sanjanamukherjee9540
@sanjanamukherjee9540 2 жыл бұрын
I have overbearing parents myself. I am proud of you for cutting them off. I can understand how much effort it must have taken.
@Uniqueen1114
@Uniqueen1114 2 жыл бұрын
Same here too ....I am happy that you overcame your mother's bossy nature
@Martinapoetryasmr
@Martinapoetryasmr 2 жыл бұрын
Same thing here...😟my mother does not even want me to have a wedding dress on my wedding day...What should I wear? Jeans?😱😢💔
@sarahalbers5555
@sarahalbers5555 2 жыл бұрын
So, I'm not the only one...
@roserain7034
@roserain7034 2 жыл бұрын
@@Martinapoetryasmr 💀 not your mom trying to destory your best moment. Mom like this seem like they secretly hate their children.
@beepbopboop7727
@beepbopboop7727 2 жыл бұрын
The bride is so stressed. Bless her.
@c.c.3.3.3
@c.c.3.3.3 2 жыл бұрын
Watching it back for the second time, I feel like she started crying when she tried on the first dress because she feels scared/unworthy when she feels happy about something and that makes me soo much more proud of her for choosing it in the end
@saras.301
@saras.301 2 жыл бұрын
She is so thin and her tummy is natural. Poor girl, she is beautiful in everything she put on. Felt so sad.
@andrearosaria77
@andrearosaria77 2 жыл бұрын
The first dress was my actual favorite. I was typing this before I saw the end of the video. I’m so glad that’s the one she went with.
@ericarickert6775
@ericarickert6775 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of her for choosing the first dress.......she looked absolutely stunning in it!
@RpGfreak901
@RpGfreak901 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. That one looked the best.
@alisealexander1136
@alisealexander1136 2 жыл бұрын
When her friend said “ she doesn’t know what she wants “ . Oh she knows what she wants ... she’s just limited from having to cater to everyone else. I’m so glad she chose what made her happy. ❤️
@brontiq
@brontiq 2 жыл бұрын
Someone did a number on this poor girl. I've never seen someone so insecure and eager to please everyone around her to the point she doesn't even know what she wants. So sad
@dalisaykrege2131
@dalisaykrege2131 2 жыл бұрын
I am so glad that she finally had the confidence to do what she wanted. Personally, I think she chose the dress that looked the best out of all of them.
@rochelledickson2536
@rochelledickson2536 2 жыл бұрын
It's seriously crazy HOW BEAUTIFUL she is! She could make a potato sack look runway ready! She's one of the prettiest brides I've seen on this show! I'm so glad she ended up deciding to pick what's best for her rather than other people!
@OrlaAfikiruweh
@OrlaAfikiruweh Жыл бұрын
I agree! She's so lovely bless her 💕
@diannebernau3293
@diannebernau3293 2 жыл бұрын
So glad she went with her heart in the end. The first one suited her the best - it was young and sparkly. The other two were too old for her. I only hope her mother didn’t spoil it for her and supported her choice. After all, Jacinthe was the one getting married and she had to feel comfortable and happy on the day. Best wishes to her and her fiancé on their big day and their future life together. 😘💕🥰🇦🇺
@surlygale1082
@surlygale1082 2 жыл бұрын
Oddly, I liked dress #2 best, but am delighted she decided for herself. May she grow as strong and lovely in character as she is in physical beauty.
@rhiannonr
@rhiannonr 2 жыл бұрын
I know what you're saying (and agree she's stunning ❤) but I think she clearly is abundantly lovely in character and probably has a great deal of inner strength; it just seems undermined by insecurity.
@lynncoombs5719
@lynncoombs5719 2 жыл бұрын
I love Gok. He treats every bride with respect, and humor!
@devinreis5811
@devinreis5811 2 жыл бұрын
He's a genius.
@somethoughts4363
@somethoughts4363 2 жыл бұрын
My heart just breaks for her. I cried as she cried, because I can understand her. I hope her friends don’t take it personally that she said she was afraid of them, I’m sure that’s not what she meant… it’s hard to express yourself when you’re that afraid.. of what, you don’t even know. It seems she has been attacked by criticism for so long and so harshly that she anticipates it and reacts before it even comes.
@kaykayree1
@kaykayree1 2 жыл бұрын
Her mom has broken her so much that she is afraid of disappointing everyone at this point. She had no sense of self and confidence becuaee it was ruled over by mom. It’s sad 😭😭 I hope she continues to realize it’s her world and what she wants, respectfully. Don’t need no ones validation.
@OrlaAfikiruweh
@OrlaAfikiruweh Жыл бұрын
I agree! I'm in the same situation! Bless her heart
@MS-cg1mj
@MS-cg1mj 2 жыл бұрын
I couldn't watch my daughter cry like this. I tried to make her strong and independent. I trust her choices in life. I will totally support and empower her when she gets married. I know the wedding day is about her, not me. This bride is gorgeous.
@liser8142
@liser8142 2 жыл бұрын
The friend who says "we're just here to help you" they are so kind💯💯
@Umeshukitsune
@Umeshukitsune 2 жыл бұрын
People say they're unsupportive but they knew her and that it'd take a long time but still came. She needed them for validation but they came to support her and their reactions were what she truly felt.
@mysticseraph2213
@mysticseraph2213 2 жыл бұрын
Ohhh, I almost missed the end bit where she went back to the first, fabulous dress. I"m so glad she did. She looked radiant in that one. The others were fine, but that first one was just amazing on her. So glad she stood her ground and ended up going for the dress SHE wanted, as opposed to satisfying others.
@brooke9297
@brooke9297 2 жыл бұрын
Ooooh sweet beautiful woman. My heart breaks. I recognize signs of CPTSD in her that I've experienced from longterm family trauma. She's so gorgeous and has such kind eyes - I hope that she can find herself inside all the second-guessing and confusion and insecurity that comes from not feeling safe or supported. I'm sure she intellectually knows that her friends support her, but she is stuck on that vague feeling of "oh no everyone's frustrated and impatient with me and staring at my flaws." Wishing her the best - these struggles can be overcome and she will come out the other side with the empathy and wisdom of the whole world :)
@starzzzy22
@starzzzy22 2 жыл бұрын
Shout out to the bride for standing up for herself and that gorgeous dress! I'm sad that her mom wasn't even present for the appointment, yet the bride was so worried about her mom's opinions.
@TempSS2677
@TempSS2677 2 жыл бұрын
The last video in the end made me cry😭 Love that she got so empowered before the wedding day to make her own rational decision without clouded by other people's judgement even from family👏👏👏
@zabindhanji
@zabindhanji 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad that she chose the first dress! I knew that she loved it but was going for something more covered up and traditional for her Mum. That's why she was crying, she wasn't confused. She was going against her heart with the other dresses.
@wateryourcermet
@wateryourcermet 2 жыл бұрын
I just wish that this woman sees these comments and realizes how proud we all are of her for choosing the dress that she dreamt of. She makes that dress shine. And she is worthy of getting what she dreamt of.
@laurabyrd5279
@laurabyrd5279 2 жыл бұрын
The fact that she chose her first dress is like, wow! That's a big deal to go against that kind of mother!
@user-ku1tj8jc7t
@user-ku1tj8jc7t 2 жыл бұрын
I'm being honest here, she's the type of person that'll look lovely whatever she wears. Her aura and the way she carries herself is literally GOALS
@alisonfraser3305
@alisonfraser3305 2 жыл бұрын
Those tears were too real. I almost shut it off because that is not the light entertainment I signed up for. Plot twist! Glad I didn’t.
@mikayla7260
@mikayla7260 2 жыл бұрын
I literally screamed at her home video, I was ok with the one she picked in shop, but I kept thinking of the first and how she loved it and looked amazing, seriously so happy she went with that one.
@larosadesierta9146
@larosadesierta9146 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe that people feel such licence to body shaming women. I’ve dealt with it all my life and you feel like people only love you when you’re thin, and even when you are thin you still get criticised.
@labradormom3656
@labradormom3656 2 жыл бұрын
Her figure is absolutely amazing. I’m not sure what her mum is seeing but trust me, it is not what the rest of us are seeing. Beautiful woman.
@ItsMrstoyouboo
@ItsMrstoyouboo 2 жыл бұрын
I'm sad for her. Her mother must be really wicked to her.
@trishradloff8817
@trishradloff8817 2 жыл бұрын
For such a lovely girl, she has ZERO self confidence.
@creamoftomatosoup
@creamoftomatosoup 2 жыл бұрын
Feels like she’s crumbling under the pressure. I hope her actual wedding day and the rest of her life are full of joy.
@mbyrd6713
@mbyrd6713 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, I hate that she’s so stressed but I’m glad she found what felt right for her ❤️
@lazylucy1583
@lazylucy1583 2 жыл бұрын
Hope her husband can give lots of love and help her to become a confident young woman .I feel so sad seeing her tearing up and scared .😥
@mrsardesch80
@mrsardesch80 2 жыл бұрын
So happy she decided to get the dress that SHE loves! She is so beautiful ❤️
@meganngeorge
@meganngeorge 2 жыл бұрын
I was so happy she chose the dress she really wanted. She looked absolutely gorgeous in it.
@asmrosemary8061
@asmrosemary8061 2 жыл бұрын
“Patient” “puts up with me” she must think she is just a complete nuisance. Poor thing☹️
@beepbopboop7727
@beepbopboop7727 2 жыл бұрын
Yay! Im so happy she went with the one that *she* wanted. Go Jacynthe!
@DogHollow
@DogHollow 2 жыл бұрын
The update made me really happy and she seemed very happy. She looked stunning in that first dress and I’m so glad she got it.
@CSD221
@CSD221 2 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for her. We've all been in situations in which we've done or haven't done things to please other people. Saying NO is a very big and important lesson to learn in life. Be true to yourself and others can be true to themselves.
@sngray11
@sngray11 2 жыл бұрын
I am so relieved that ultimately she decided on a dress that makes her happy instead of a dress that makes me so everyone else happy! 💗
@celestialfortuna37
@celestialfortuna37 2 жыл бұрын
Gok you should be recognised for your amazing gift and talent with such empathy, care, consideration, discretion and diplomatic kindness. you are so inspirational and such a role model. blessings
@noriginal2546
@noriginal2546 2 жыл бұрын
LOVE the ending! THAT is how you start a life with someone as a grown up.
@michellemeyer1214
@michellemeyer1214 2 жыл бұрын
This poor girl........I'm so happy she purchased that first dress. She look so pretty!
@klarameng2353
@klarameng2353 2 жыл бұрын
I see so much of myself in her it’s like a mirror. To see her take that step and be courageous, doing what SHE wants. Amazing. Representation MATTERS. That video at the end made me so so incredibly happy (and dare I say hopeful to find that confidence one day).
@vickygonzales1341
@vickygonzales1341 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! She has such a fantastic figure. She looked beautiful in all everything she tried on...but that first dress was absolutely stunning 😍
@queenbee3647
@queenbee3647 Жыл бұрын
Im so glad she admitted which dress her heart wanted! All were lovely and with her cute little figure none were wrong.
@marianpizeno8511
@marianpizeno8511 2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy she changed her mind and went for what SHE wanted!!! The wedding is for HER and HER FIANCE... NO ONE ELSE!
@NW-lv9gb
@NW-lv9gb 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad she changed her mind and got the dress that she wanted. After all, it's her big day and she's the one who'll be looking at the wedding photos throughout her life. I wish her and her husband all the best🥰
@chelsie1203
@chelsie1203 2 жыл бұрын
Not her being scared of what her mom thinks and the dang woman isn’t even there to support her daughter? I pray I never become the type of mom that has my kids crying scared about the smallest of things. Shame on that mother.
@mileimelle
@mileimelle 2 жыл бұрын
Yes that dress was the best for her. Glad she changed her mind!
@isuckatguitar6252
@isuckatguitar6252 Жыл бұрын
1st dress was the best choice, glad she stood up for what she wanted.
@ducati.hottie
@ducati.hottie 2 жыл бұрын
YYYEEEEESSSS! She went with the dress that SHE liked the most! Absolutely brilliant! 💯
@rosieg1603
@rosieg1603 2 жыл бұрын
She looked beautiful in all these dresses, she had me crying a one point...she needed to go for what she wanted...glad she did in the end!
@deecohen1383
@deecohen1383 2 жыл бұрын
Oh I’m so glad she chose the first dress
@user-vl8qw8hp1g
@user-vl8qw8hp1g 9 ай бұрын
This young woman is absolutely STUNNING in ALL the dresses she tried on!!! I'm so glad that she decided on HER favorite dress!!!!! ❤
@minanes6549
@minanes6549 2 жыл бұрын
Glad she went for the dress she wanted. It looked incredible on her.
@misspearltaylor
@misspearltaylor Жыл бұрын
She LOOKS LIKE A PRINCESS in that first dress. What a beautiful figure, so tiny and lovely. I’m thrilled for her that she got the courage to go for her dream dress.
@jenl1541
@jenl1541 2 жыл бұрын
We as parents become the voices in our kids heads....this just breaks my heart and I so understand it and hope to do better with my little girl and boy 💔💔💔
@methosimortal
@methosimortal 2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad she picked the first dress in the end. it was the prettiest out of all of them and looked really beautiful on her.
@LanguageExpert-hg8do
@LanguageExpert-hg8do 2 жыл бұрын
Unpopular opinion but her mom sounds like a classic narcissist. Screaming or giving silent treatment! Bcuz of that she grew up to b so insecure. And the only thing that she highlighted abt her fiance " he puts up with me!" Yeah thats what victims of narcissicm do .... they expect their partner to put up with them cuz they want that unconditional love from their partner which they missed getting from their parents !
@michellestella7477
@michellestella7477 2 жыл бұрын
How is that an unpopular opinion? You put it perfectly. It's the truth.
@LimoneSoda
@LimoneSoda 2 жыл бұрын
@@michellestella7477 Truely! Not unpopular at all. Poor lady here has been traumatized by her mother. So unfair!
@cherryflash5119
@cherryflash5119 2 жыл бұрын
100% truth. Her mom is a narcissist.
@joywebster2678
@joywebster2678 2 жыл бұрын
It is less a personality disorder than a culturally approved way of acting in certain classes of that culture. It is toxic but not developed in the psyche the same way.
@sarasorensen2650
@sarasorensen2650 2 жыл бұрын
I've said it before and I'll say it again. Everyone needs an Auntie Gok!
@michellepadilla7999
@michellepadilla7999 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad she went back and changed to the dress she wanted!! It’s her day & she’d looked absolutely beautiful in that 1st dress
@bumfuzzer
@bumfuzzer 2 жыл бұрын
the first dress is what she imagined!!! she literally described the dress. she seems like she's so much happier
@allanathomas6977
@allanathomas6977 Жыл бұрын
I am happy that she changed her mind in the end and went with *Dress 1* which in my opinion she looked absolutely stunning in... Hope that she doesn't change her mind again simply because she wants to please her mom.
@faticarol86
@faticarol86 2 жыл бұрын
Girl, the heart wants what it wants... so follow your heart
@TheFlyingmartini
@TheFlyingmartini 2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad that she chose to stand up for herself. The 1st dress was much more flattering on her. The second one aged her.
@paulajurczak3542
@paulajurczak3542 2 жыл бұрын
AWW THE ENDING IM SK HAPPY THE FIRST DRESS WAS PERFECT FOR HER
@samueld6899
@samueld6899 2 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad she ended up choosing the first dress. I audibly gasped when I saw her in it, what a gorgeous dress for a gorgeous woman. Absolutely stunning and looks perfect on her :)
@boi1der21
@boi1der21 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad she decided to go with the 1st one. Out of all 3 she genuinely looked the most confident and happy in that one. Even if it wasn't exactly what her mum or her friends would have wanted, it's great that she decided to go with what SHE wanted.
@melanierobinson4152
@melanierobinson4152 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy she picked exactly what she wanted. She looked stunning in that dress.
@hyemkim5993
@hyemkim5993 Жыл бұрын
I am soooooooo happy that you choose something that YOU want for YOUR wedding!!
@lydiatheglimmermaid
@lydiatheglimmermaid 2 жыл бұрын
I could tell that last dress was not the one she wanted and that she really loved the first one. I was so glad to hear she chose it. I hope that pattern continues in her life.
@gypsyhermitishtarot
@gypsyhermitishtarot 2 жыл бұрын
I hate what some mothers do to their daughters self image. I'm so sad for her. She is no way near being over weight not even a little bit. 😥
@msnish28
@msnish28 2 жыл бұрын
When she said yes to the dress no 4, I was thinking that dress 1 was looking more beautiful on her. I am really happy that she changed her mind. 😃
@godisgracious6226
@godisgracious6226 Жыл бұрын
Poor girl. She looked ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS in all of 'em 💞
@Frazzled_Chameleon
@Frazzled_Chameleon 2 жыл бұрын
I had a mother that said extremely hurtful and degrading things to me. Mothers have to be careful what they tell their daughters, because they'll take it to heart. A bride should choose a dress for herself, it's HER day after all, not her mother's.
@clartacus.0213
@clartacus.0213 2 жыл бұрын
Auntie Gok would absolutely tootin rootley hooten lootley NEVER get impatient with helping to find any dress for any bride/groom ever, sincerely hope she knows that shes worth the effort and care now!
@Nobcfr..
@Nobcfr.. 2 жыл бұрын
She looked sooo beautiful in the first one
@pinaspadaro4595
@pinaspadaro4595 2 жыл бұрын
Well done in choosing dress No1. You looked stunning in that dress. Always put yourself first. Your self worth is No 1.
@blancowhite6306
@blancowhite6306 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t wait to be a bride. I pray everyone here finds true love.
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