Bride UNDERMINED By Big Sister & Maid Of Honour! | Say Yes To The Dress: Bridesmaids

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[@mztdw72]

The sister is wrong on all levels of looking for dresses at the appointment. The wedding planner is wrong for helping the sister look for her dresses. The maid of honor/bf is a mess. I wouldn't have a wedding party, just hubby and I at the alter.

[@onemercilessming1342]

I agree. The bridal consultant should have immediately pulled out the appointment book and have the sister pick a day.

[@onemercilessming1342]

There is much to be said for eloping.

[@dietotaku]

i have literally never seen an episode of this show that involves a "wedding planner" at the appointment where it doesn't go completely off the rails.

[@onemercilessming1342]

@@dietotaku Yes, I know. It's likely scripted to keep viewer interest and vlog clicks. Yet, I can't avoid watching because I like to see the gowns and how styles have changed since Victoria chose to wear white for her wedding.

[@kaitlintropper2061]

Watching this so I can get ready for my sister when she will come with me. She’s the bride

[@SandraHof]

This was one of the most dysfunctional bridal parties I have seen on this show. The bride was very sweet and humble. Even willing to change her mind on the length of dresses. People can express their opinions without being rude and annoying as were the bride’s sister and best friend.

[@aubrey8673]

I would absolutely be fuming. If I found out my bridesmaid was using my appointment to fuel her own wedding ! like make your own appointment. This is my day if you wanna look at dresses make your own appointment and then that can be your day so rude.

[@ReneeOfTheFae]

I scheduled a second appointment immediately after my bridal gown appointment (on the same day) for my mom to try on MoB dresses just so she would concentrate on my appointment. I knew by giving her the extra attention after mine, she would settle in and be constructive and not try to shop for herself instead. It actually worked out really well! (The things we do for narcissists...)

[@vripp757]

"It is her wedding" "To an extent..." She would be kicked out right then! I don't see why anyone would want her involved, let alone friends at all.

[@RevLeigh55]

As a minister and wedding officiant, I have officiated many weddings. The best experiences as far as I could see were when the bridesmaid/groomsmen were kept to no more than 4.

[@onemercilessming1342]

The single exception might have been Luci Baines Johnson's 1966 wedding to Patrick Nugent. Every detail was handled by White House staff. President Johnson teased her by saying, "How many bridesmaids do we have today, Luci?" Sadly, the marriage didn't last.

[@aliecarey]

I love my sister so much. She would NEVER in a million years disrespect me like this, nor I her!

[@bunnyslippers191]

Mine would. If she could take her key to show my parents and grandmother my brand new first apartment, and take over after my college graduation to literally shove between me and one of my professors (who was one of her professors when she was in college) to reintroduce our Mom and introduce our aunt, then take off to give them a tour of the college campus she'd do anything. I announced I was going to go to the bathroom, and to wait for me at the Student Center about 20 feet away from that bathroom I swear they never heard a word I said over her talking. When I got out of the bathroom and went into the Student Center they were nowhere to be seen. I wandered around campus looking for them, then headed back in the direction of my car to just go home when I saw them. I dropped into line behind them as they went past *and they never even knew I hadn't been with them the entire time.* The entire weekend had been that way. The 3 of them yapped constantly and never heard a word I said, even when they were in my own house.

[@aubrey8673]

The fact the wedding planner is willing to do that to the bride who he supposed to be there on this day supporting is really low down rude. like I have you here because you’re supposed to be working for me Today, not my sister. if my sister wants to look for her dresses, she could come back another day with you

[@Nyquil5]

He was extremely unprofessional and he would have found himself out of a job immediately.

[@xxxx-qo9dh]

I would have fired him on the spot

[@onemercilessming1342]

The minute the bridesmaid said, "You lose," I would have said, "No, YOU lose. Consider yourself not part of this wedding. Please leave." Then I'd have turned to the rest of the supporting cast and said, "Anyone else?" My sister would have been deep-sixed, too. And I thought Steve Harvey was just joking about weddings in the black community.

[@vbetta8979]

I cannot believe how RUDE and immature the sister and maid of honor "best friend" were! Wow!

[@HGG381]

Whats wrong with these girls?

[@onemercilessming1342]

@@HGG381 They all think they're queens of the universe?

[@sharonkaczorowski8690]

It happens in other ethnic groups as well…there are some seriously spoiled folks in the world no matter where you go. People who think they are the bosses of the world make my teeth hurt!

[@bunnyslippers191]

It's not just the bridesmaids, but the wedding planner is just as bad as the gals are! He's not looking for anything for the bride in *this* wedding, he's looking for dresses for the bridesmaids for the sister's wedding! The bride needs to fire that man and tell him to leave the store and take the sister with him!

[@alexr4151]

It would have been so great if the bride had selected the dress that her sneaky sister liked for her own wedding. The bride is stuck with her sister but I would completely re-evaluate the "best friend".

[@ushere5791]

you win the internet for the day with that genius idea!! ha!! >:)

[@arleneholt1015]

Fire that wedding coordinator. He's double dipping working for bride and next bride at the same time.

[@aubrey8673]

That older sister of hers has a horrible attitude. who says after picking a dress that your sister loves for her wedding. Oh, it’s all right for her but my bridesmaid dresses are going to be better like it’s a competition. I would’ve kicked her out of my wedding. I’m sorry.

[@AndreDMalan1966]

She needs to ditch her "friend" and put her sister in her place. Their behaviour is despicable. No class at all. THINKING you have class doesn't mean you DO have class.

[@katl6426]

She shouldn't be paying the wedding planner for his time as he's working for the sister too - tell him to bill her

[@celleasoper3323]

The shady sister and maid of honour are both just toxic

[@jeswainston]

I will never understand the enormous bridal parties.

[@Kara-kx1lb]

AMEN, who is going to be in a WoW moment when she walks down the aisle???

[@rachelmcdonough1506]

Either they can't say no to literally every obscure family member who asks OR they want to show off how popular they are cause they're mentally still in high school.

[@Kara-kx1lb]

@@rachelmcdonough1506 you said that perfectly!!!

[@cherihatcher7871]

The bride asked for tea length dresses. Not one of those dresses where tea length.

[@jandavis1523]

And these are friends??? They brought ALL their baggage with them-!

[@karenkalweit6018]

The woman who agreed to be my maid of honor, went from that, to out of the wedding in a snap. I’m a very easy person to get along with, but she wasn’t engaged and all she wanted to talk about was what would be perfect for her wedding and how she was too busy to do anything about planning mine. This bride may need to rethink her choices either that or the bridesmaids need to remember whose wedding it is.

[@MrsBrit1]

Ignoring the rudeness of sister and "best friend," when the bride said she wanted tea length dresses, why were they pretty much strictly showing cocktail length for the shorter ones? Do they really not know what tea length is in that bridal salon or did the bride pick all of those ones?

[@SandraHof]

I was wondering the same. I started to question myself as to whether they said tea length or knee length. Because what they came out in were not tea length dresses. I actually love tea length for a dress. It looks elegant without being too formal looking.

[@laurellane1721]

I thought the consultant was just as bad as the bridesmaid. She shows 3 dresses and since the bride didn't like any of them (I didn't either) it's 'well maybe you should consider the long...' - what?! You only have three short dresses to show this bride? You have an entire store full. Quit putting the models in dresses the bride clearly didn't want.

[@elaineliu9400]

Dear God, that's her best friend?? Yikes...

[@WhirledPublishing]

That's not a friend - that's a hostage situation - same with the sister.

[@trudy285]

🤣 What a crew! 😲🤭 Back in the day, l knew of a bride that bought the fabric, patterns, and had a seamstress that offered her services if needed. And the bride said here you go ladies! Same pattern for the two piece chiffon dresses except for the maid of honor that had empire waist. Matching pastel parasols. Late 1970's. Nobody complained and they looked terrific. The only thing that stood out a bit uncomfortably was one of the four ladies who decided to dye her hair auburn red that wore a peach color dress. But that was so on her wasn't it? 🤭✌️💖🦋🙏

[@eleonora-of-earth]

What an infuriating episode! I would just elope at this point...and then surround myself with better people.

[@roxiegs348]

How completely unsupportive and arrogant her sister behaved. I am so thankful my sister was my rock during my dress selection. I also wore the dress she wanted me in for her wedding. When you speak kindly to each other, everyone let's the stress and anger go and you can actually have a great time and beautiful dresses. Don't be a damn Diva ladies. Be a friend.

[@jennifernordhoff6478]

Completely rude. Hard to watch people bring so childish and mean.

[@user-vp4qq4it7i]

you would think that someone working in a bridal shop would know what 'tea length' means. And all 3 combatants were ridiculously self-centered.

[@susanhull1880]

They need to sthu. It's her wedding wear what she wants or leave.

[@raquelgross320]

The older sis is soooooo jealous omg

[@drbabydoll755]

Smh... it's one thing to have an opinion on what you'd like to wear, it's something all together different to be demanding about it! State your opinion, but then get yourself all the way together & pick what the BRIDE indicates SHE wants! Your "Yes" to be in the wedding don't give you veto powers to overrule the bride wishes... it merely indicates IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU, BUT THE BRIDE! 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Largo-y]

With friends like these, who needs enemies?

[@ushere5791]

that entourage--meeeeOUCH! poor bride!! if i were she, i'd kick all of them out of my wedding. not one of them is her friend!

[@sallykins3800]

Lovely Bride , hopefully they will have a lovely day and all will be forgotten about this silliness. Life too short.

[@stephanie1044]

The bride asked for tea length, which would have been a nice compromise between short and long and fine for an evening event.

[@dawnmuse6481]

I would fire both MOHs! They are displaying so much entitlement and attitude it is disgusting!

[@katherinegrady6208]

I love my girlfriends. We have known each other forever, My best friend got married 3 months before me. One girl dropped out during the bridesmaid dress selection because she didn't like the dress. My friend's roommate dropped out at the last minute because her feelings got hurt for some reason. I decided because my husband and I both had brothers, our brothers would stand up for us,

[@ybshadyii4375]

I WOULD NEVER LET MY BRIDESMAID PICK THEIR DRESSES - IF THEY DISAGREE WITH MY CHOICE - THEY DON'T NEED TO BE IN MY WEDDING - PERIOD. THIS IS WAY TOO MANY HENS IN THE COOP.. I JUST NEED THEIR CORRECT SIZES...

[@kdaniels79]

I’m literally seething over these girls. The icing on the cake is the BFF/MOH finishing off with “what I wanted has come to pass”.. ugh. The bride did choose a beautiful dress that looked good on all of them, but that’s got nothing to do with other people getting their way. I think I’d dump all those friends right now.

[@rachelmm05]

Yea most of those "friends" need to go, I would've dismissed the sister as well. These ladies have been toxic, and manipulative for years. The claws stay in as long as everyone follows what they want smh

[@kieraethan]

The sister is so smug, even ending several statements with a nasty little giggle. She doesn't deserve to be in the wedding at all.

[@denisemahoney232]

There should be a restriction on the number of people they are allowed to bring to a viewing including wedding dresses.

[@stone.durfey5862]

Wow, just wow😯. I have sisters that are alot older than me. And no matter what I did...it was never good enough. Even after I hit my 50s. They still tried to tell me how to dress and more. I no longer speak to them or anyone in my family...as youngest of 8...2 sisters and 5 brothers. Even the brothers get on my case...sheesh!

[@LeaHanan-f9l]

My son just married his bride a little over a year ago. No bridesmaids, no groomsmen. No wedding party stress!!

[@MoteOfDust430]

Best friend? That is no friend. The disrespect is disgusting

[@standwgod]

That maid of honor shoule be fired...lol.

[@jennelynduke4230]

Now why would you guys do that to the bride and her sister wow words can't say why would you do that to your own flesh and blood

[@skyelindsey687]

That isn’t a sister and she most definitely isn’t a friend.

[@arleneholt1015]

This bride is so sweet and gentle hearted, her sister and friend DO NOT deserve her. Why oh why do those two mean women so enjoy walking all over her? Something very wrong here.

[@tamarshugert4600]

You can make a whole TV series surrounding that family and their drama. Sheesh

[@amani5609]

Idk how these brides don't kick ppl out the party who are this ridiculously disrespectful. Like stand up!

[@judithbowtell8294]

Can we give a hand to Raven, stuck in the middle of the drama and some shockig frocks

[@janetcallanan7020]

Didn't she say tea length none of the dresses were tea length

[@alisonfraser8231]

These sisters are awful. Saying you can’t even have a second wedding, go to the courthouse. Telling people what to wear when it’s not your wedding. I personally don’t see anything wrong with having weddings close. You can’t expect gifts to be as generous, as mutual guests will have a budget. But someone who is so concerned with hemline etiquette should know it’s “best wishes only” for your second.

[@syeats618]

That was hard to watch. I can't believe her sister and maid of honor were so unsupportive. I hope the wedding goes without a hitch.

[@reneehubbard9027]

The maid of honors & wedding planner have no class and are so immature. It was painful to watch.

[@MommeeMadre1]

I thought tealength was below the knee but above he ankle. It's such a flattering length!

[@salveharumi]

Isn't it bad luck to bring this kind of people to your wedding?

[@susanhighfield3370]

And these are supposed to be friends !!!!!!!!!!

[@2user000]

Horrible entourage!!! They couldn’t help their jealousy smh

[@Charlotte66666]

The bride is being disrespected unfortunately.

[@donnaolson5734]

I disagree with you Charlotte!!! the bridesmaid sister is a total brat who believes she’s all important more than the bride

[@Charlotte66666]

@@donnaolson5734 I think we're agreeing about the Maids of Honour.

[@nancymckinley3068]

That wedding planner is useless.

[@wintersanctuary]

The sister has a terrible attitude. Horrid 😠

[@minime3922]

Wow.. LADYS..... CALM.

[@Catg1222]

The sister and maid of honor would be out

[@kathduncan9618]

I don't get why anybody but the bride cares what they wear at the bride's event. I'd shut that crap down in a flat second. Wear the dress, sit down and shut up.

[@susanhull1880]

Exactly

[@marilynjewell9337]

Let her pick her own

[@lilyzan7860]

Thanks God I'm not from USA 😂 I don't understand this culture where a bride has to pick your dress and you must accept...in my country the bride just pick the colours and bridesmaid go with what suits her better...everybody wins 🏆 everybody is always happy and the pictures looks amazing

[@eriksandoval1970]

This is why Calvin’s hairline is uneven

[@patriciamalone4473]

Her sister and so called friend are both narcissists and don’t care about her at all.

[@Anime1029Knight]

I would have just kept my wedding plans private away from my overpowering sister & bestie. I would not have accepted them misbehaving during my wedding dress appointment. And I definitely wouldn’t have hired the same wedding planner as my sister, if my sister stole my wedding planner behind my back and was sneaking looks at wedding items during my wedding appointments, I would fire the wedding planner & planned my own wedding without any hired planners, and I would never let any overpower friends take over my wedding plans. I would just create a survey to find out how many girls would wear the style and color I want

[@DravenGal]

Wow, totally off topic, but that bride is ROCKING that purple eyeshadow! It looks great with her skin tone, just gorgeous. Not everyone can pull off that color. Shady Sister is a creep to get married that soon after her sister. Unless she was engaged first, but still, you'd think she could wait a couple extra months, and not steal her little sister's spotlight. And did you see that condescending expression on Shady Sister's face? She was 1000% there to mess with her sister's appointment. Not even a glimmer of doubt in my mind. I hope she gets it all back in Karma as her own wedding draws near. Wait, I just realized, her wedding is 30 days away and she doesn't have the bridesmaid's dresses YET???? WTF? Heck, I had those picked out before I got my own dress! (Of course, it was easy for me, because I knew what color and dress I wanted for them, because I owned it myself. And I made sure they all liked it. I know that they liked that it was only about $45.) 💙

[@jeswainston]

I will say, I don’t think the eggplant is the right colour for any of these girls, but it’s the brides choice.

[@wildchildatheart]

It's the brides day! If you cannot support what the bride wants then you should NOT be a bridesmaid/MOH it's that simple. I've been in many wedding parties, like it or not I graciously wore the brides choice. This wedding party was a bunch of selfish, self centered woman. And that wedding planner🤦‍♀️

[@PriyaCDA]

What's with these brides picking the worst dresses for their bridesmaids. So insecure and selfish omg!

[@senoradelvita]

Is there a rule against introducing patterns to bridesmaids dresses? All the dresses I see on this show are always so drab, dull and uninteresting.

[@abs63.]

It’s my day. If you don’t like it, you know where the door is. Don’t let it hit you on the way out. Bye sister and so called “best friend” maid of honor.

[@shae686]

Such disrespect…I’d be looking for new bridesmaids lol

[@JassLJ]

I have no problem with the Bride getting help from their sisters or friends but when it comes to trying to manipulate the Bride I don't approve. The short dresses were beautiful the problem was none of them had the body type for them. She would've had to choose long dresses by default for this reason. So while the friend and sister are acting like they've won the fact is they were too thick for the short ones. That isn't a win that is a fat loss.

[@jessiejoseph1093]

That sis is a snake. I imagine she has sabotaged many more things besides her sis on an internationally broadcast tv show.

[@karenrubenmoss9307]

I feel for the bride to be, with having two sisters who are not supportive at all, to be fair I find them also not mature enough to be getting married themselves in the near future!

[@Rhianalanthula]

My mum and her sister married in the same year, 4 months apart. No drama.

[@rachelkalkalebonywalcott5897]

You already had a wedding girl stop competing with your baby sister

[@katytj643]

This video is why i hate weddings

[@scooterbaby1]

the whole wedding party should be banned from her wedding.

[@MBAinternetmktg]

These ladies should dial down the competitiveness; they are all lovely.

[@natalieroksandic3836]

The sister and the "best friend" are toxic, and she needs to get rid of them both.

[@glitterbeardwizard5171]

I wonder if any of these girls saw the footage and realized how they came across. I wonder if producers asked them to ham it up for the drama and then gave them a villain edit for the clickbait

[@judes1948]

The sister, maid of honour long dress, and the bride’s wedding coordinator ALL owe this bride sincere apologies. They need to read Rude and Inconsiderate Behaviour for Dummies 101.

[@ryleighcoleman6630]

First off, that was completely childish of all the maids... Second, I would have changed my whole wedding party if they acted like spoiled brats. Completely unacceptable behavior. I'm surprised they weren't kicked out... Smh

[@ShermanCassidy]

I think that’s insane to say that a sister cant get married in the same year. It happens all the time. Like why not? You dont get to monopolize the whole year.

[@HazelAshleenFitness]

I hate to say I’ve not liked any of the bridesmaid dresses on this show so far 🙈

[@jennifernordhoff6478]

Who has 7 bridesmaids?

[@denize7139]

Those sisters are insufferable. It’s not their wedding.

[@ettaex]

The sister is so smug in her individual interview comments. What does she have to be smug about. And when it was pointed out that it was the bride’s wedding what did the “best friend” mean “to a certain extent” there’s no to a certain extent it’s the bride’s day

[@aliciatrotter8089]

I would have fired the wedding consultant and sidelined my so-called sister. And the loudmouth overly opinionated maid honor would have been silenced too. My wedding my day and I wouldn't tolerate anyone trying to second guess what I want.

[@rachelmm05]

The problem is the sister and bridesmaids were already messy and pushy for years, so it shouldn't have been a suprise when they want to control things. All this "this isnt what i want or this isn't my idea of a dress" nonsense needs to stop. Too many people at the appointment and too many in the bridal party. Smh... And the sister have a wedding the following month whats up with that? Its no official rule against it but thats just tacky imo

[@TheMissPanda]

Throw the whole "supporting" team away! Girl you dont need bridesmaids like that. Just let it be you and your hubby

[@dasweetspot_her_me]

I hope she got rid of both of them😅 I hope theu read the comments every time this is posted.... Get em yall😅😅

[@Paula-o1f]

I'd have told her sister and the brides made they will wear what I like or your not in the wedding they are both very rude.😮😢😮

[@katytj643]

This sister is why i am happy i dont have a sister😂

[@beaulah_califa9867]

Bridesmaids are NUTZ!

[@mmouse023]

Get rid of all of them - none of them care about her including the wedding planner. Their attitudes stink!