Brides Have Told Me “I Don't Want to Get Married” Vishal Punjabi |

[@vidyaasvideos]

This man filmed my very close friends wedding and he shot me dance for her! When I saw the film reel I cried, it was so beautiful! So surreal!

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Love this, he really is the best 💛

[@Dr.behindthescenes]

Ikr really want some one like him but how much does it costs tho?

[@shreyasiddhi2367]

How much does he charge?

[@chitramohanraj26]

Apart from the content of the podcast, it's amazing how softly he speaks.

[@adimudgal]

How many people here came after the news on the big bollywood celebrity caught by his wife with another Bollywood actress.

[@rishabh9627]

I just want to know what time period is he talking about If its after 2022 or covid then I can make a calculated guess on who that actor is and with which actress he slept with

[@rachanasingh2025]

Same

[@rishabh9627]

@@adimudgal does anybody know the timestamp when he said this in the podcast

[@janhavisavla9654]

Timestamp!

[@DabuahatRejoice]

Who could he be talking about ..ranveer ?

[@bilal_ahmed1011]

There's something arrestingly alluring about the interviewer that really struck out for me. Kudos to her, loved the interview.

[@preyasarkar4522]

Having seen too many podcasts by now. I think this is one of the most naturally flowing ones with great followup questions depending on the previous answers and it felt so smooth and natural. Great quality content i would say. Something really calming about shivani and how she frames the questions. Very comforting.

[@surbhisardana3029]

The conversation is so relatable. His voice is so soothing and how he is making sure that he puts his heart out there, makes me connect with it even more. ❤

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Ah thank you so much for watching!!

[@sridevni]

Seems like a nice conversation but his voice is so soft can't hear clearly 😢😢

[@shamspuri2493]

Hats off to this guy - when life gives you lemons, you make lemonade was the secret of some of his success in rural Ghana.

[@florettt]

Easily one of the best conversations! So calm, so therapeutic. Lots of love.

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Thank you for your kind words 💛

[@laptoproyale4681]

This man is so pure and the purity is visible in his wedding videos

[@Canyouseemeanna]

The PR team is really coming on strong in this comment section. It was a pretty average interview and the comments are behaving as if some big philospher was talking 😂. Reply to my comment if you can see this and its not deleted.

[@GS-ky5ts]

For sure 😂😂

[@PriyankaSharma-ee8sb]

😅

[@neisham7478]

Agree this guy has no problem throwing people under the bus in his other interviews.

[@amritasuresh8158]

This gentleman has such a soothing voice! I can listen to him all day!! ❤❤

[@kanupriya1707]

I met vishal a while back with friends, and what a genuine person he was back then so courteous and kind. Such a treat to listen to this podcast! And also very inspiring. Happy to have stumbled upon this video❤

[@winniebuxani5847]

A very interesting insight into the brilliance behind the man who brings emotions in weddings to life. Also you’re amazing at navigating the interview to bring out his authentic self in this interview.

[@moumitadey1014]

This feels less like a podcast and more like a therapy session, thanks for this heart to heart ♥️

[@cutedevil5518]

This man's voice is so soothing, calm and composed.

[@ronitafernandes]

That comment of choosing to be with the person you’ve married even if you want to throw them off a building made by Vishal is so true. Love is indeed a choice and not a feeling. That’s often the mistake that people make. If they don’t feel the butterflies they felt during their courtship period they think they relationship ain’t working. There are genuine deal breakers. However, those who want the marriage to work need to put in an equal amount of work to keep the relationship alive.

[@NamraShahid-mp1qx]

He is such a deeep and honest man. RARE. ❤

[@learnwithpreetha]

Aww..This guy is so warm… I wish I find someone like him ❤❤

[@sanaafsal]

Just when you think you can't love Shah Rukh Khan anymore, he gives you another reason ❤

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

He's the best there is 💛

[@bunny_kapoor]

He is rapist

[@ImranFazalIIlahiphoenix]

This man Vishal seems a great guy. Wishes for him, his team, Shivani and her team

[@tedtalk548]

I love this man a lot! Thanks for bringing him in this podcast. He is always grateful and speaks from his heart 🎉 Would wait for him to shoot for your wedding video, Shivani! Congratulations and best of luck for ur future ❤😊

[@84LA84]

Hey, just wanted to clarify that the song in Deepikas and Ranveers wedding was a Sikh prayer not a song ❤

[@Hope-uq1vn]

Precisely, thank you pointing that out.

[@gayatriugra4380]

@@AMPA33Sikhs : pronounced Sikhs or Seekhs please, not Sicks

[@Hope-uq1vn]

Not heard of this gentleman prior to this podcast. What a delight he is. Name me any woman who did not fall in love with him after this interview.

[@amritasuresh8158]

This gentleman is truly a gentle pure soul, no wonder that quality is reflected in his beautiful videos!!

[@nasreenshaikh6071]

I have not watched any interview at the length thus far but this one was truly amazing both the guest and the host were Outstanding!!!

[@priyankabiswas3716]

I think ow actor Farhan Aktar hei... & shibani... Because vishal punjabi ki Instagram story highlight mein dono ki weddings picture hei... But koi wedding video nehi hei.... 😮😮 farhan aktar e hoga...

[@saz741]

Just wondering aloud whether the wedding photographer in made in heaven was inspired by him .😀coz so many things add ! When I was listening to him it was just like going flash back to the made in heaven series.

[@saniaasan]

Totally adds up, yup!

[@Kathakathan11]

I am sure there are many like that… go to any top wedding page and stalk the different professional pages, I do that as I am interested in the field for a while

[@humheroine]

No, he wasn’t inspired from Vishal but yes, we did take footage from the wedding filmer which was used in the opening credits of the series. Those real couples and wedding were courtesy the wedding filmer :)

[@truptilokhande8948]

Heyyy lovely conversation...he is answering so calmly and frankly.

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Thank you!! Yes he’s such a wonderful person! Loved our convo!

[@rishikajain8722]

This is the most heartfelt podcast I've ever seen. For someone who loved love to becoming someone who is now so frightened of it. This video lights a little spark in my heart. Love is clearly to be embraced and not feared. Congratulations, @vishalpunjabi, on finding love. I love this video. Thank you both for having made this. And KZbin algorithm or destiny or perhaps the Ambani wedding drama that I found this. Love and light to everyone in love out of love and learning to love again.❤

[@TJ-ym6nv]

i've never heard of this guy, but i kept listening to him.

[@PragPh15]

This was an eye opener!.. Didn't knew this man has shallow views for Indian traditional customs that are done in most of Indian weddings. The way he is mocking important customs like Kanyadaan and Gur-chadai only shows how irrelevant he is to Indian weddings. No wonder he himself is divorced and has a playboy history wherever he lived for 2 years.😅 ...Somebody saying having a pregnant girlfriend is not a good enough reason for marriage, only shows what his life principles are.Thanks for showing his real face.😂

[@sdeva1016]

Do u know the meaning of Kanyadaan 😅

[@Kathakathan11]

Sikh hai, kya hi expect karoge,.. He didn’t tell you that there are matrilineal families in Kerala, mostly Kerala Brahmins. In many coastal communities there is no dowry system. Dowry exists among all religions actually, as long as it’s an arranged marriage.

[@unmeshduttachowdhury]

Come from your real id , feku

[@JG-hq4cd]

He says he didnt get a chance to explain as generally men are at fault when theres a divorce but he named his ex wife and said she cheated on him and he was working on the relationship on a public platform. Amazing😂

[@Canyouseemeanna]

He also never mentions breaking up with his girlfriend in Ghana.

[@ameechauhan2757]

Hey Shivani,kem che. I just stumbled upon this video & glad I saw ur content. It’s very real & u r a very insightful & wise for ur age I feel. All the best.

[@zebarizvi9393]

He voice is so soothing .. listening him can ve good bedtime story

[@aakhyasharma9949]

oh my god! such a BEAUTIFUL man he is! RARE!

[@9vigil]

I had to stop the video and write this comment. They mentioned love and, religion and customs as separate entities. I beg to differ. A marriage has lots to do with family, values and traditions (because wedding itself is traditions or else live-in works for some). Also, Kanya Daan is not handing over control, rather lovingly guiding one's daughter to her new roles and responsibilities (like every adult should for the society to continue functioning) and doing so sacrificing a father's selfish love for his daughter. Kanya Daan is considered the pious of all sacrifices parents make. Of course in this day and age and technology everyone is closer and connected. No one really loses touch with anyone and are financially well off and capable to take care of multiple people. But this tradition is beautiful as it signifies the love and sacrifices of parents and also a young woman who is going to take on new responsibilities.

[@radhikakumar2331]

Well said!!

[@mamtajoshi7389]

love, religion, customs are separate entities(?). Love can exist without religion and customs although they can coexist. Lot of customs came about to stabilize the society that existed during their socioeconomic conditions. As a society we should study them closely and apply those that will benefit not only the society but also an individual who makes up the society. It has to continuously evolve. Lot of people have reservation by the term itself "kanya daan" even though the connotation is changing. And all society do have a right to debate about it.

[@shreyasiddhi2367]

His voice his therapeutic...❤❤❤ This video is like a Therapy

[@subhra_mohanty]

I couldn’t stop smiling the entire 59 minutes ❤

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Awwwww 💛💛💛

[@subhra_mohanty]

@@ShivaniPauPodcast This has to be one the best podcasts I’ve ever watched ❤️

[@prernachauhan8780]

Always been a fan of this man's craft! What a heartwarming podcast, fell in love with his personality too! So articulate and soft spoken,both of you! It was like a melody.. great conversation! Watched your podcast for the first time Shivani, you're gorgeous!!!! All your reactions were soooo US! haha like id react the sameee way. Thanks for an amazing one hour guys! Congratulations Vishal :)

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Lovely message and feedback to read 💛 Thank you for watching

[@anchitasrivastava7608]

This conversation reminds me of the show made in heaven

[@truthserum106]

A very eloquent interview...after soo many years

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Thank you so much for listening 💛

[@akshatashetty3643]

Kanya daan doesn't mean giving away your daughter.... it means I am doing a favor (daan) by giving you my daughter take care of her.... here daan means upkaar like rakt daan

[@NS11174]

This was such an amazing interview as Vishal has shared his life journey it sounded so beautiful. That all pain & struggle seems healed. Lovely conversation the questions were just right to ask the answers were just filled with real deep insights! I thoroughly enjoyed it till the end. Also when he mentioned about the sensitivity about Man that they often get misunderstood and don't really get chances to tell their story. I can feel that pain for a man ❤ Wishing you a blessed and happy married life and loads of success! Great efforts Shivani amazing narrative & work 👏!

[@ShivaniSharma-vt5bx]

Absolutely loved his interview! I loved all the anecdotes! He is so candid! Loved his stories! Wow he does a great work magical videography! A life well lived ❤

[@VinceSalzer]

This was very unique and different for me. Learned lots of new things...which I love to do Thank you!

[@sudiptahoskote103]

Like? I love this chat! I chanced upon this one, this has really taken me by surprise. Never knew Vishal Punjabi has so much of history & geography to his life ;) Entire chat is lovely but the real scoop starts from 52:00-56:00 that blew my mind :)) Btw, Belated Happy Birthday, Vishal! & Thank you Shivani for doing this :)

[@Vayutheman]

Loved this interview… he seems so genuine and honest person!

[@kalpanar1371]

One key takeaway...experimenting with something one loves and being good at it...

[@kiransahni100]

Kanyadaan is the essence of Indian marriage, its the most misunderstood ritual,it was meant as a "Daan" act of charity to the boys family, because women were given a very high status in Vedic culture, but over centuries has morphed and become a burden, its actually an act of special donation to the groom.

[@Kathakathan11]

No, in my mother’s wedding her grandfather did kanyadaan and he said to my father that she will always be my daughter first whatsoever, I don’t care how, but when I call and she wants to come back, she should never be stopped. If you honour that then only marry my daughter. My father kept that promise and whenever we would get call from her father, in good times, in bad times, my father would drive us there without any hesitation….

[@unmeshduttachowdhury]

So this act of special “donation” can be “groomed” by him and parents. Its like taking the certificate to have sex with their daughter. Kaunsa duniya mein jeeta hain log 😂

[@anushreeshukla6178]

Saw this on the reel and immediately came to KZbin to find the whole video. Really nice. Would love to connect with you some time and I’m too into the creative field !

[@rhichadilipdharurkar9182]

Kanyadan is not literally the meaning of it, Pandit ji nowdays explains meaning of every ritual all the rituals are meaningful and pure

[@unmeshduttachowdhury]

Kanyadan is the certificate from parents side to have physical intimacy with their daughter without any questions asked , period

[@rhichadilipdharurkar9182]

@@unmeshduttachowdhury lol it’s what you think on your version, it’s a blind fold on people that everything in Indian culture is wrong etc if you really understand the meaning and what used to happen those ancient days it makes so much sense, we definitely can do changes as per the current era and time but the basic values never changes

[@unmeshduttachowdhury]

@@rhichadilipdharurkar9182 i never said everything related to Indian tradition is wrong, so kindly stop putting words into my mouth. Enjoy patriarchy by then ! Peace ✌️

[@rhichadilipdharurkar9182]

@@unmeshduttachowdhury again it’s not about patriarchy, that’s my whole point, my own marriage was most liberal marriage anyone can have but yet I wanted to do it with all meaningful traditions which are relevant these days too anyway enjoy putting blind folds

[@Oshin15]

This man seems to be such a class liar.. I could smell lies when he talked about his ex wife and kind of threw her under the bus for the separation.. and then his first meeting with his now wife seems to be too Bollywood dreamy sequence to be true.. finally, he could come back to India because of SRK and did not even stick around with him for a moment.. that blows my mind !

[@priyaonthego6113]

And who will believe that the foreign minister of the Republic of India intervened for someone who overstayed his visa!

[@unmeshduttachowdhury]

Probably he has paid u money to listen to his ‘lies’ and then crying in the comments

[@PerpetuaRodrigues-d9o]

Mr. Punjabi,you haven't been to a real Goan Christian wedding. We have a beautiful church ceremony with vows and blessings. At the receptionist we do have the cutting of the wedding cake with raising of the toast to the couple speeches and dancing and partying.

[@yeshajain7366]

feels like watching making of 'mAde in heaven' web series so relatable

[@SriKandarpa]

his tone is beautiful

[@ChitraPoojari123]

SRK genuinely is a nice person. Everyone has good things to say about him.

[@nishthamahawar]

Congratulations on your wedding Vishal. Such a lovely interview. ❤

[@deepalinayak6519]

Who is here after that spicy news 😂😂 hit likes 👍

[@namitasud2100]

Kanyadaan is not giving away your daughter to the other family. It is giving away of the gotra(the lineage you are born under) of the parents' family & accepting the gotra of the husband's family coz you will be carrying the boy:s family name ahead. People without knowledge have misinterpreted the word Kanyadaan into literal translation of the word. Please be educated about your own customs & traditions.

[@dipdil4094]

Nonsense

[@srk54989]

I love his videos. I'm enjoying this interview even more. I think he has amazing personality.

[@Archer396]

His family is the most interesting of all😂😅 Lovely podcast…. Apt questions! And Congratulations Vishal🎉

[@vishakha20111]

His conversation style and speaking is so much like SRK

[@saz741]

Very interesting conversation and yet he had so much more to say .!

[@chintuperi]

Renewal of Visa is a basic rule to follow. And when an individual does not get renewal and they are deported for the same. He says they just made a huge thing about it? Sir, the rules are made for our convenience, you just follow the rules and not make a huge deal about it.

[@usersname11]

Thank you! Generally found him just manipulative with his tone. Change of government after 26/11? Visa ban lifted by Pranab Mukherjee? Grooms footing wedding bills?

[@TheCrabbrat]

Excatly!! He is an illegal immigrant and gaslighting everyone else...

[@swetadutta6447]

It was less of a podcast, more of a spiritual journey!

[@faiaz1685]

The man has an amazingly soft voice!

[@veenaann11]

Loved this interview . Vishal is so down to earth and hilarious !!

[@HouseofAmu]

This was a brilliant conversation ✨

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

So kind, thank you for watching 💛

[@monabhishek]

This was a great podcast to watch . Many congratulations to Vishal and Nikki , I wish them all the very best and all the happiness ❤🎉. P.S. : About Kanyadaan, it's been misinterpreted, Kanyadaan is about the Kanya ( bride) Daan ( donating ) her gitra back to her parents because she is going to adapt her husband's family gotra. Also , I don't see anything wrong in apologising to the guests that is the groom side if there has been any error in the hosting , we all do in our day today lives infact even the Ambanis did that . If we can see beauty in multiple divorces and yet coming back together , I think the perception has to be applied in our customs as well ❤❤❤. Best wishes .

[@farhanaahmed2176]

Awesome interview, Congratulations 🎉

[@divyanshi1996]

Suchhhhhh a nice podcast!!!! Amazing listen ❤❤❤ lots of love to both of you 🙏🙏💗💗

[@jarnailgrewal1796]

You guys needs better mic …poor voice

[@StarLight-g6u]

It's not bad ..he's really soft spoken 😊I can hear Shivani properly but I had to use headphones to hear Vishal n if you hear his other interviews that's how he talks .really softly

[@priyaonthego6113]

Yes, my headphones are top volume

[@ubuntu5776]

Let him speak please😢....stop interrupting every now n then....we want to hear him more

[@bumblebee2956]

Just one suggestion…keep your wedding intimate and small 🎉😅

[@SShrey2704]

Loved the interviewer but sorry to say this guy is not giving good vibes!

[@Enshootmadbeka]

So Made in Heaven is this guy’s story 😁

[@anukakar3370]

Who might be the bollywood actor he is referring to

[@suhailpasha1734]

I too came here to know abt it😊😂

[@Mariyamalisid]

Timestamp?

[@priyaonthego6113]

He overstayed his visa. Took it casually! Come on, thats serious. Imagine if it was a US visa and he overstayed. 😮

[@nabilaxu]

what an interesting guest! enjoyed every second, you always have the best conversations

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Ahh that's so kind of you, thank you for listening 💛

[@Remykur]

His voice ❤

[@riyabaid2443]

Loved this one so much…. Therapeutic

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

You're so kind, thank you for listening 💛

[@Subhashish69]

Great self marketing, selling by Vishal - his remarks on a Bollywood philanderer has gone viral...

[@hastaqshidhingra2931]

awesome 😍the destiny, the love❤❤

[@sweettooth7472]

Congratulations Vishal🎉

[@ElvinEmmanuel]

Congrats Vishal & Niki, great interview.

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Thank you so much 💛

[@SP80404]

Is this a new interview or an old one ? I have the feeling that i have seen this before

[@ShivaniPauPodcast]

Brand new! Filmed last week!

[@akshatha1kesari]

@Mrwhosetheboss - awwww....how nice to hear about you feom him...

[@informaticshivani91]

So good 😊

[@dimpleramchandani5914]

Amazing interview ❤

[@pranil.s.mhaisgawali6072]

A beautiful podcast❤

[@suchith9327]

Shivani is mad mad for srk 😊

[@KomalSharma-yk6mz]

Who came here after The Spill Bee??

[@payalyadav5985]

Present ma'am 😂

[@KomalSharma-yk6mz]

@@payalyadav5985 😂😂

[@sumitkain]

I was brought here automatically after the spill bee video ended

[@SriKandarpa]

nice one. thank you

[@mayageorge9375]

Loved the podcast

[@shreyatiwari2735]

something about this man gives off bad vibes

[@bhavyakapoor2050]

sound quality so bad

[@anushkashirke]

He sounds like SRK

[@bottlee200]

50:00 the ambani wedding?? 😂

[@DearSamClan]

Lv the conversation...

[@snehaelizebeth6146]

Ih my God, his voice❤❤❤❤❤