Bridge Of Incidents: Don't React To The Middle

[@virginiachapman9004]

Wow this happened to me, too, a while ago! I texted with my sp everyday but I knew he was going on a quick trip with his family and he was not in the place of being open to talk about his feelings at the moment. But I was okay and didn't even worry about a thing cause I just wanted him to have fun. I wanted to interact with someone who's in the moon and not grumpy, so 😅 I didn't contact him while he was on the trip. But he made time to send me quick messages here and there and I was happy to respond but enjoying my time without him, too. When he came back from the trip, he sent me lots and lots messages telling me that I'd been on his mind and it felt like he just wanted to be home and pack his stuff and book a flight to where I was. He shared some pics that according to him, constantly reminded him of me. One of those with a caption, "Sign? 😏❤" We're together now ☺❤ New Jersey - Jakarta. Moving in soon.

[@Kathy0905]

A few months ago I read the quote: "Everything I go through prepares me for what I asked for" or something like that. That makes it a little easier on some days 😅 Great reminder for me today...thank you 🙂

[@ThriveWithLouise]

You know what I realised, when you have a strong solid self concept you don’t freak out because you know your worth you only freak out when your self concept isn’t strong. If you feel like top priority you won’t even care if someone says you’re beautiful because you already feel it so inside you’re like yeah I know

[@kaarsh57]

There are no coincidences... this video poped up exactly the day, the 3d showed me the exact opposite to what i am manisfesting and I was reacting to the 3d and starting to freaking out and loosing faith...thank you , Elle, for your comforting words .

[@leonel5726]

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[@phaejai285]

Here I am almost a year after your comment, going through the same thing, with her this vid in my recommendations smh.

[@samchen2618]

Same. I cry as havinf doubt then i saw this vid

[@Lia-hd7rh]

yeah the time in the middle is what i struggle with, even though deep down i know things will work out for me, its this middle part that sometimes takes over my thoughts and i'm like but what if im delusion but what if im wasting time. then i try to calm those down ahh the struggle. love your videos btw just recently found you 💙

[@SimplyCreateWithElle]

Thank you so much. I'm so glad to have you here 🥰🤗 The secret here is live your life to the fullest in a way that you don't feel like you are wasting time. That's why it is so important to live your life and put yourself first, in this way you will not notice time cause every time you do, you are delaying it. xx

[@inwonderland9842]

As they say, a watched pot never boils. 💙

[@leemendez7876]

The traffic jam explanation was very good 👏

[@zuzama2]

OMG! You just saved me from doing something really dumb!!!!

[@mariebucko2931]

i almost did something dumb. well i kind of did but it’s ok.

[@djloopz56]

I have got to the point of seeing signs and being excited by the signs rather than be frustrated and missing signs all together. I feel there is more positive movement now. Eg if he pops up on my social media after him having a long break, I’m not moaning why isn’t he messaging me, I’m excited to see him and know he is coming back. Mind set is everything and the reason we need to work on ourselves foremost ❤️

[@bethanyloveslife7303]

So true. This exactly what I need to hear in this moment

[@SimplyCreateWithElle]

No matter what! It’s done 💕🤗

[@kimtrayrob7072]

Did he ever come back k ❤

[@LeoR-e6h]

Elle, even if this is three years ago, I agree on everything you stated, I must relax, there have been moments in the right direction, I must let it unfold as you say, makes a lot of sense. This video is important for me. Your my number one person that explains logically. Thank you, Elle ❤

[@Zahra_Shi]

Thank you for your amazing videos, especially this one, Elle! "When you undersrand things unfold naturally, there is only the moment right now" It clicked with me and changed my entire view of LOAssumption. Thank you Elle! I should watch this video everyday!

[@rupaliyadav3676]

Thank you and love you Elle. You are my biggest support

[@christoph7292]

I just came across this after some not so great thing in the 3D. I still kept persisting and re-affirming through the tears Lolol. I think I’m going to go ghost this weekend and really focus on my mental diet and stay off my phone

[@sonalichandel]

Did it work? I m going through the same 😢

[@TheBoots72]

Yay!! you had an add on your video🎉🎉🎉👏❤

[@luxuryqueen42]

Howdy 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️

[@TheBoots72]

@@luxuryqueen42 🙋🏻‍♀️❤

[@SimplyCreateWithElle]

Hehe! Cool 😁

[@cindyaronowitz9949]

My person is only coming back to my country in 4 months. He didn't want to try long distance because we did not know each other long enough. I know that I have to wait 2 to 4 months. But inevitably, I know we will be together again in 4 months. I know it and manifest it. And somehow he will come back to this country. I just know. We always want, what we want now. But it is all inevitable I know without a shadow of a doubt that there is love between us. I feel it, I trust it. And have faith Just enjoy the now ❤️

[@Dimensimistis]

Love your videos! You just got yourself a new subscriber from Indonesia 😍

[@SimplyCreateWithElle]

Thank you so much ☺️🙏🏻

[@Dimensimistis]

@@SimplyCreateWithElle my pleasure! And im manifesting meeting u in person 😀

[@beccastephaniethornqvist]

Happy you are feeling better Elle xxxxx

[@SimplyCreateWithElle]

Thank you love!!! Sending much love 💕😘

[@anamacklis2355]

Sometimes I need this reminder

[@paulaspinall8439]

Great teaching skills 🥳thank you🙏

[@AdaraBalabusta]

I enjoy every day of my life to the fullest. ❤

[@sameerasewmali1204]

Thank you so much lovely❤️ your videos made our days.🥺

[@giuliabacchiega6441]

Hey Ellie, I’ve got throu a bridge today, I know is still leading me to my goal, I’m not scared about it, and I’m sure this is what had to happens in order to achieve it. You said to not interfere, but my bridge was a text message to which I’ve responded. The text messages was saying something contrary to my end goal, and I’ve answered him that I belive things will change, and I told my feelings. I do belive that stating my feelings to him will just lead me there, and what I tell him will just bring us closer. Is this interfere? I belive answering saying my feelings is right to me

[@clove6781]

I believe that you are not interfering the middle. You are choosing yourself over everything, which is what it is supposed to be done. Just making sure that you respond to the message in a calm, respectful manner instead of reacting to it.

[@hanasimackova8983]

I did the same and it was right..we are together now

[@tatihannahannochka4262]

❤❤❤❤ That’s so good I just saw it ❤

[@missterrielaw]

Thanks Elle......I have been manifesting my sp since June 2022, but he left me in August 2022...... we do not have common friends, so I can know nothing from him now, also no signs I can see at this moments, just like we totally disappear from both world...... sometimes, I am confused if it is working out....... hope it is just a bridge incident.

[@fitforfreelance]

Love the traffic jam example

[@intuitivetasha113]

So when ur manifesting ur sp and the tell you something very disrespectful after 3 months of no contact .. how should I respond laugh it off or ? In my mind I’m thinking this had to happen to get me to my desired outcome … but how should I respond to him ?

[@SatsangOftheCosmos]

I freaked out but I learned from it will persist

[@greentea-dg7ht]

Oh i started to get it

[@avocado1182]

Well explained 👏

[@cheetahcat3940]

So how do you not allow undesirable behavior if you can't react? What if he just want to keep hanging out without committing or talking about the problem? Are you supposed to just let him do that? How do you set boundaries without reacting? If he says he doesn't want a relationship and you agree with that... isn't it counterproductive?

[@SimplyCreateWithElle]

Hi there, setting boundaries is not emotional reaction. When I say reaction I mean emotional reaction. The reason why you shouldn’t react emotionally is that if you do, you’re imprinting your subconscious mind again and recreating the same kind of behaviour. So, you get into a negative feedback loop of being aware of an undesirable behaviour and recreating it.

[@earlyearlier5164]

Thank you for this video❤️ May I ask somethink? I mamkfest 3P away, ignore her, affirm that SP wants to by only with me, I think I domit correctly and now it looks like SP and 3P are moveing in together. Could it be a bridge of events? Thank you

[@Justforkicks-haha]

Yes for sure. Maybe they had to live together in order for them to realise they not meant for eachother. Believe and trust.

[@emmabellaqueen]

Thank you for sharing 😍😍 but i have a question if you can manifest anyone you want then why the many exes why the relationships failed if you can manifest it

[@SimplyCreateWithElle]

Hi there! Well, because you can but you don't have too. Especially, if you don't know how to consciously create your reality, you may be focusing on the problem and not on the solution and you keep creating more of the problem until you give it up. Or you move on from it and focus on someone else. It's not the law of wanting something badly. It's not about who wants more either. It's about creating a reality within you where it's inevitable to have that relationship with that sp. 🤗💕

[@emmabellaqueen]

@@SimplyCreateWithElle thank you so much ❤️❤️

[@sofiamarie1356]

does the bridge of incidents only start when your thoughts actually become assumptions?

[@SimplyCreateWithElle]

In my experience, yes, when it becomes your most dominant belief/assumption.

[@bf851]

How do you ignore time? And when you don’t see evidence

[@luxuryqueen42]

What ur seeing in the 3D is your old thoughts/beliefs. You need to keep affirming no matter what and persisting in ur affirmations. You can also affirm that you’re seeing evidence. What I say is “It’s working. It’s working. I can see physical evidence it’s working. I know I’m getting what I want because I’m a master manifestor.” 💜

[@SimplyCreateWithElle]

In my own experience, when you're in the state of the wish fulfilled you don't have to ignore anything, it comes very naturally. If you're noticing time you have to ask yourself what could be behind that? What belief/feeling could be creating the lack in your life. It could be neediness, which would be like putting the desire on a pedestal ("I need it to be happy", etc)for example. What helps me is understanding that I have to be my own priority and that nobody/nothing is irreplaceable in my reality - that takes them off a pedestal immediately. About the signs: it depends on how long you have been manifesting your wish. If it's been months and you haven't seen any sign (no text, no bumping into them, nobody talking about them, etc), it could be what Neville called a mental "miscarriage", the manifestation hasn't taken roots (because of doubts, old story, reacting, anxiety, suffocating a manifestation by doing too much). You have to take a look at what you have been doing so far and be very honest with yourself. xx

[@bf851]

@@SimplyCreateWithElle thank you so much ! With my sp nothing happened he just ghosted me out of no where ... one minute he was talking about how he was having anxiety and then we have a long conversation we were supposed to hangout I tried reaching out to him and he never responded.. I guess my mind also wants to know what did I do to have him ghost me

[@bf851]

@@luxuryqueen42 thank you so much for those tips

[@SimplyCreateWithElle]

@@bf851 Got it. Why not change the perspective? Why do you think you did something wrong? If you say he was suffering from anxiety, he could as well need some time alone to deal with it. Some people that suffer from anxiety can't barely deal with what is happening within then, it's hard to be social.

[@daffuduck]

Good video😊

[@SimplyCreateWithElle]

Thank you 💞

[@SatsangOftheCosmos]

Trial and error

[@esroskesafos3533]

Excuse me but why is he your ex? Is it because you gave up manifesting him?

[@SimplyCreateWithElle]

Hi there! No, I manifested him back and we got together again but later I then decided to break up with him. At the time I was moving to a different country for Uni and I wasn't too invested in that relationship anymore. x

[@esroskesafos3533]

@@SimplyCreateWithElle thank you for your answer. This was a confusing part for me. I see if you continued on manifesting him, the relationship would be long lasting. It is shaped all as you wanted. That is so clear now. Thank you

[@beyondbarry]

"Love" begins with "Elle" 💖✨ Glad you're feeling a little better. Thanks for the great information and for your beautiful eyes!

[@SimplyCreateWithElle]

Awww 🥰 Thank you so much 🤗 never in my life has my eyes gotten so many compliments ☺️