BRIGHT SIDE's "Not Sexist" Video is Quite Sexist

[@Joinen]

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[@ManWithTheCow]

wait so this is now your second channel? :(

[@bleezecake]

Oh lol I didn’t even notice I was on the second channel.

[@bleezecake]

Wait why did you make this you second channel, and Not just make the new channel your second one?

[@charliedraws503]

hello joinen have a good day :)

[@julilo5536]

@@ManWithTheCow yes but he will still be posting here too

[@aera_amii]

bright side trying not to be sexist is kinda like "influencers" trying not to party in large crowds (and failing)

[@gliple]

I really hate how accurate this is

[@sadpowie]

I love bangtan too!

[@nienel]

@@sadpowie was confused then read their name

[@anyahammad4762]

@@nienel lol same

[@viaferreira7671]

I'm very impressed Joinen would notice a women crawling across a table to him .Not all men are this alert

[@paranoiarpincess]

Am girl, can confirm. Have used tables as camouflage.

[@alinaolivera]

@@paranoiarpincess lollllllllllllllllllll!

[@StarstormAnimations]

@@paranoiarpincess *you're violating your contract by disclosing private female information.*

[@fern7571]

These replies are great

[@andymarie]

This is very true, tried screaming out drama about a guy friend when he was nearby and they were oblivious

[@hannqhh]

what i learnt today: crawl on tables dont wear make up but also wear makeup i wont be judged if i got zits but i need to go to a dermatologist to feel better hairy legs dont matter leg hair grows faster than bamboo men dont care about dirty shoes but your family will when u spread dirt around the house people dont like wrinky clothes but nobody cares

[@ZikedY]

Also don't forget that removing the eyes will bring attention to the eye holes

[@achiuahuah2891]

6 is true tho

[@alrightanimations2207]

I read that first part as crafting tables i-

[@larissaleigh4488]

Lmfaoooo

[@Nakia11798]

And men say WE'RE complicated

[@gondalfthegay9987]

bright side is definitely run by old men cause they’d don’t realise that women don’t just do everything to please them

[@greysonholtz]

exactly they dont seem to notice that women do they're nails, makeup and hair for themselves aswell?

[@Impresya9]

The title is literally "what men notice about women" what's your point

[@Albinojackrussel]

Or that they do in fact notice things and are effected by things even if they aren't consiously noticing it.

[@kowalewicz2554]

@@Impresya9 Exactly... this all just overreacting

[@lolasum_sumi_san]

@@Impresya9 literally everyone is ignoring the video's title and the targeted audience. They just love to assume shit and jump into conclusions. 🤦‍♀️

[@cerebralpaulc]

“17: color of your liver! if the color of your liver is a little off, well, men don’t like that. or that least that’s what SOCIETY says! men do not actually care about the color of your liver because they can’t see it”

[@wouldyourather6105]

And if they can I’ll be concerned

[@mekaylahvideos]

BSHDHSHA HHAHAHA

[@itsfrance6500]

@@wouldyourather6105 bahahahahahah

[@cerebralpaulc]

imao i didn’t think people would find this funny

[@HyperfixationStation]

kjrtlkjy this would be a way better video imo

[@kuckag5710]

BRIGHTSIDE: Women can have a little belly, as a treat.

[@missy2375]

Only the good girls. Bad girls get the *_skinny_*

[@5H4NKTH35HARK]

@@missy2375 If good girls like bad guys, do bad girls like good guys?

[@jamesbw2]

@@5H4NKTH35HARK no, if the good ones like the bad ones why would the bad ones like good boys?

[@lobster6032]

I have no clue where this discussion went and I’m so lost but I find it funny

[@yukismith4518]

Help, this was a side quest I stumbled on.

[@xuiqiko9076]

As a gay man, I can confirm that I do not notice anything about women. edit : as a genderqueer pansexual person, I can confirm that I cannot be near people without getting nervous, let alone notice them.

[@xuiqiko9076]

@Sophia Grace Agreed

[@jamesbw2]

baby im a bi man, i don't look at peoples shoes, i dont look at them at all im not having awkward eye contact

[@emilygriffith6702]

I’m just picturing you walking along and smacking into every woman in your path 😂

[@ebonyshadow5182]

*Slams into a woman* Woah! What was that? There is literally NOTHING there! Weird! *keeps walking*

[@xuiqiko9076]

@@ebonyshadow5182 pfft yesssssss

[@mentally_meow]

I'm a man and this is what I notice about women: -Nothing -I'm gay

[@isasparadise5954]

LMAOOOO

[@ce-ce526]

You tell em Naegi!

[@mentally_meow]

@@ce-ce526 Ayeee 👉👉

[@micah7608]

Lol

[@justafish9618]

you notice: -They're not men. -You have to look for sum cutie dude.

[@maria1.995]

Isn't it possible, that woman do things because they like it, not because men like it?🙄 omg. If you like long nails, lashes,... do it! Who cares what man think about it😒

[@alexander_yoko]

Yeah, I'm a man with long nails and I'll keep them long

[@ZikedY]

I think everyone would like to do thinking, unfortunately not everyone has the brain capacity to do so

[@flatcatart]

Especially if they're not even straight or have a preference towards men

[@randompotato6474]

Yeah I don’t even like men

[@HaydenFideler]

@@randompotato6474 we are the same other than our xy cromazones, strength, and body parts, also body parts and hormones

[@joanfreytes]

The video should be called "how to make a person more insecure"

[@kelvisaisawesome]

Wdym by that?

[@madalynburke4749]

yeah lol

[@caitlynhays720]

Isn't that basically the whole of the internet?

[@bunna6627]

@@caitlynhays720 basically

[@zerne6334]

It should be called "straight men like women who are women" with the lack of opinion/nice guy act bright side has

[@dd42101]

I love how this manages be sexist in both directions simultaneously.

[@athleticnerd8333]

Kinda impressive in actuality 😂 takes skill to do that

[@Liggliluff]

@@athleticnerd8333 Feels like every video about what men and women thinks about eachother is heavily sexist towards both men and women, and of course also completely ignores LGBT people.

[@palomarodrigues2483]

Going to buy a steak perfume to attract Joinen's attention.

[@StarBoundAngel]

Lmao I immediately thought of steak perfume when he said that

[@idkwhyimhere-y2g]

Lol

[@lobster6032]

If you find some let me know! Lmao

[@seematiwari2708]

😂

[@aubreymclean7712]

McDonald's needs to hear about this and launch perfumes that smell like their meals.

[@thoughtfulwatcher]

What men notice about women: When she has hairy legs because she turns into a werewolf on the full moon. Then bites him.

[@ranja7198]

Then they live happily ever after as werewolves.

[@Nicm7767]

Lol

[@21units]

As a hairy woman, I can confirm that I do turn into a werewolf on a full moon and I will bite people and turn them into fellow werewolves.

[@nicomoist5336]

Reminds me of the book The Lobozona which is about an Argentina werewolf girl!

[@katenawolfenstein9468]

I relate to this

[@CanonSkyrissian]

"ladies, what do you like in ladies?" personally as a lesbian I pay attention especially on a woman's smile, eyes, hair, laugh, and whether or not she has things that are my personal squicks (like personally I don't like long nails, tattoo/piercing overload, or stretched earlobes, but like I'm not gonna stop anyone from having them. you do you, this is a me problem)

[@elliot__agares]

normally I notice if the women seem a little too jealous or possessive, cause I'm super afraid of a toxic or abusive relationship. if she is against some important thing that I support (like the BLM movement, and movement for the poor and the working class), and some details like, smile, sense of humour, hair, laugh and etc

[@Rotan_Paska]

As a asexual i cant relate

[@percyioukhnikov81]

@@Rotan_Paska ?? I'm not trying to disregard your orientation, but wouldn't that be aromantic in this case?

[@foockedurmom]

@@Rotan_Paska aromantic* asexual is when you don't have SEXUAL attractions, by you still date. aromantic is when you don't have attractions to ANYBODY. -coming from an asexual biromantic

[@Rotan_Paska]

@@foockedurmom oh i didnt know that.... Well thanks i guess

[@buggyhuman]

Uhh, women who likes other women here, all I notice and/or care about is if they love me back, and if they enjoy cuddles/hugs.

[@Lana-ne8bd]

Sameeee Cuddles are the best 🥰✨

[@XxAshleyRaynexX]

You seem like you give good hugs :)

[@dgtl.andreeaa]

Same cuddles are wayyy better than sexual interaction

[@Lana-ne8bd]

@@dgtl.andreeaa facts 🥰

[@violetfantasy2537]

I Stan Cuddles here

[@Sam_Pixieb]

Ahh yes the perfect scent of a woman - cheese burger

[@thescarvedinsect]

Delicious.

[@Sam_Pixieb]

@@thescarvedinsect yes 😂

[@randomstranger5046]

B e e s c h u r g e r

[@Nakia11798]

Agree. Wish I smelled like a cheeseburger. Instead I smell like onions or musk.

[@Sam_Pixieb]

@@Nakia11798 yeah me too 😔

[@duckiily]

"good body"--slim with lean muscle "also good body"--still slim with lean muscle, just slightly wider (like, a slightly bigger ribcage perhaps) very progressive, thanks bright side.

[@zerne6334]

it's almost like people like people who are fit and healthy who would have guessed thanks bright side

[@roosviseee1804]

Brightside really be thinking we do all this shit for them😂

[@edenorsomething7630]

Yeah, being queen just to be queen is much more fulfilling ;)

[@garlicsox]

not really he’s just saying what “men notice about women”

[@0-79kmj]

the ego these men be having thinking that every little thing that a woman does is to please them. the audacity

[@moonhall]

TRU, but even so, those woman exist, so they might find the video helpful maybe?

[@noxart2410]

The video targets women who wants to attract men's attention or at least are concerned about it. At no point where they saying that ALL women should behave one way for the pleasure of men. (But anyway the content of the video was empty... So nobody cares)

[@lydias8303]

Bright side guy: men love perfume! Men who are in fact allergic to perfume: ...

[@noxart2410]

You can be allergic to perfume? The only thing present in all perfume is water and alcohol? 🤔 (genuine question)

[@annenatuurlijk1]

@@noxart2410 It's not an allergen like pollen or dust mites, but strong smells can irritate sensitive airways and trigger asthma attacks.

[@kiragin3398]

The make up bit is true lol I genuinely believe guys dont know what "no make up" looks like. Every guy in my personal experience that says this points out a girl who is wearing make up and say "see? Shes gorgeous and shes not wearing make up" and I have to explain that shes just wearing natural looking make up and when I point it out they get so shocked lol it's kind of funny and yet sad lol

[@MaryArts]

Or the other way around. Like when I say: "I don't even have make up on" they say: "wait, really?"

[@jadecoolness101]

And then when they see a woman who ACTUALLY doesn’t have makeup on, they think she looks sick.

[@athleticnerd8333]

@@jadecoolness101 me everyday bc I don’t care enough to wear makeup 😂

[@jadecoolness101]

@@athleticnerd8333 I mean same tbh. If men don't have to wear make up to be "socially acceptable" then why should I? Nothing is wrong with my face, it doesn't need to be covered, smh.

[@athleticnerd8333]

@@jadecoolness101 honestly... plus I lack the time and the desire to do my makeup in the morning... I just get up and start doing productive crap not working on getting my look right 🙄

[@mikahladorey]

They're basically just saying "we notice, but we don't notice" or "we care, but actually maybe we don't care" to everything.. they contradict themselves on different points.

[@mijelly2262]

id rather be single than not have semi long and black fingernails

[@detectivedance]

RIGHT THEY MAKE ME FEEL SO COOL

[@foxbearchillinbytheriver]

Nails are so much more fun to wear in dark, vampy colors instead of nudes in my opinion

[@mijelly2262]

@@foxbearchillinbytheriver and vampy clothes :)

[@5H4NKTH35HARK]

Yeah, I like my semi-dragonlady nails. They make me feel like a dragon in human disguise :)

[@LuxanousLKei]

I have dark black semi-long nails and i feel like a cat. And it makes me feel so fucking baddas. :))))

[@thelizardthatkatyaburnt4743]

Bright side: "It's okay for women to have bellies!" Okay so, has anyone ever seen a person without a belly? Cause i sure haven't.

[@emeliavaley9879]

I have... but she may or may not have been a deformed barbie...

[@R_-qs4fo]

What would be there instead? A black hole or something lmao

[@aspenisthebest]

@@R_-qs4fo that is a terrifying thought

[@HyperfixationStation]

@@R_-qs4fo I'm not like other girls, I have a black hole churning in the empty space my belly should be

[@plebthepebble3877]

@@HyperfixationStation jesus

[@bottlenosedolphin1703]

i´m gay, why am i watching a video whether guys like my long colorfull nails, hairy legs or extreme fake lashes... I HAVE A GF lol edit: I'm a girl, just so y'all know, cuz some people were confused lol

[@szreniczka4730]

Because it's Joinem ofc

[@HaydenFideler]

so you are not gay? you have a girlfriend so you are not gay

[@bottlenosedolphin1703]

@@szreniczka4730 yeah ill watch joinens videos no matter what he posts

[@bottlenosedolphin1703]

@@HaydenFideler well im a girl, i guess technically its not grammatically correct but yeah imma girl into girls thats what i meant

[@HaydenFideler]

@@bottlenosedolphin1703 ok

[@gaanadelrey]

I got an anti-pimple facewash ad right between the pimple part... I guess people do care after all😔✌️

[@585Courtney]

True but it is good idea to treat the acne ...so it doesn't get worse over time

[@jadecoolness101]

@@585Courtney some of us are poor, Sharon.

[@585Courtney]

@@jadecoolness101 What ya mean by "SHARON"???

[@jadecoolness101]

@@585Courtney would you prefer "Karen"?

[@melissatheghost]

@@jadecoolness101 or some of us are apparently cursed because I have tried soooooo many things including a dermatologist and nothing has worked so the only explanation is I'm cursed 😅

[@borderlinekitten]

I learned in this video that guys either might or might not like me Cool that’s what i’ve always wanted to know my life is fulfilled

[@Context.Required]

*The floor is made of floor.*

[@zerne6334]

*Every sixty seconds in Africa, a minute passes.*

[@themisha1705]

*Water is water.*

[@a_potat]

✨the more you know ✨

[@ThatOneLadyOverHere]

My best friend once told me that my zits were kinda cute because they just looked like more freckles. That's when I realized that nature had given me the best concealer ever. Also, that was the weirdest compliment I've ever recieved.

[@veragirljones8039]

What a kind friend!

[@ThatOneLadyOverHere]

@@veragirljones8039 the good thing is that she was my best friend, so she was being honest with me, otherwise she wouldn't have said it. You don't give friends untrue compliments, that's not cool.

[@beastcrown9481]

This reminds me, I got a similar compliment once - My face is pretty red, especially my cheeks, and my best friend (now girlfriend) once said that she thought it was cute, 'cause it made me look like I was blushing xP Hella weird compliment, but it was nice

[@Gothic_mothh]

I remember my older sister said that I look better what acne then a clear face. Weird compliment but it kinda boosted up my confidence ☺️

[@Ari-rf9bu]

@@ThatOneLadyOverHere I agree, I’ve never thought that acne looked bad, it adds detail to ppl’s faces! :) and kinds similar, my face gets super red if I’m even the slightest bit embarrassed/nervous, and I still remember that my friend said it looked cute 🥺♡

[@hyacinthustheflower8456]

Well I'm painting my nails neon blue then

[@ranja7198]

Yes!

[@trademarkt]

im going to repell all the men *grows out my nails and paints them the colours of the rainbow*

[@rawr9977]

Lol, I made my nails into sharp talons and I still got a boyfriend lol (not complaining) :)

[@aerionarodgers3353]

NICEEEEE

[@estelletheartkid1984]

@@trademarkt you’re right. gotta get my men repellent. You think tennis ball yellow would work as well as neon blue? Maybe some very obvious lipstick

[@spifariffic]

Bright Side title: things men always notice about women Second item on list (and several more afterwards): "some men don't even notice"

[@okay3435]

This vid basically says “Men don’t want you to wear makeup. But they won’t like you if you’re ugly.

[@asexualbert7262]

Brightside trying to be body positive: "You don't have to be concerned about ____ because it won't deter men. So all of your insecurities are solved! Huzzah!"

[@athleticnerd8333]

Yeppp bc of course my insecurities rested entirely on how male’s perceive me and definitely not my own thoughts... fascinating how it was fixed just like that when he told me multiple times that men don’t care... well YAY I’M TOTALLY CONFIDENT NOW

[@Reepicheepchan]

I do kinda love brightside lowkey calling out guys who think they prefer women with """"no make-up""""

[@kellynaz9256]

Aghahaha true

[@vin.2]

LMAO

[@happyjellycatsquid]

That was kinda woke on Bright side’s side, surprisingly

[@HyperfixationStation]

especially cause the guys who say that usually mean "I like women who are pretty enough for me to find them hot without makeup" with a side of "being into makeup is shallow"

[@sennap7109]

"16 things men always notice about women" "Well actually, about 90% of men don't even notice it!" Like umm

[@gloomytomb]

A more honest title for bright side’s video would be: “dress how men want you to dress because you’re an object” women don’t have to dress for anyone but themselves.

[@skylla249]

Because of a skin condition, one third of my body is covered in pimpels (or something similar). I just show my face, but hear occasionaly that im to ugly for some people and they dont like me being around them (you cant tell me my face is soo bad without). Saying "guys dont notice" is just hilarious when you live with it.

[@foxbearchillinbytheriver]

That sounds painful! I’m sorry you have to go through that ☹️ honestly though guys that treat women like that aren’t worth your time. I hope it gets better for you

[@idkwhyimhere-y2g]

I’m so sorry, I hope you can find medical treatment to help with that. Please remember that real beauty is on the inside, and that those people are probably trying to bring attention away from their flaws.

[@skylla249]

@@idkwhyimhere-y2g i could get lotion to put on every day, but i dont really wanna do that for the rest of my life.

[@idkwhyimhere-y2g]

@@skylla249 oof ye

[@IBL15]

Poor you

[@lisajayne9620]

"Ladies, what you like in ladies, let me know down in the comments below" I love accidental bi/lesbian representation

[@gaybatgosqueak]

I like ladies

[@iadorecatsandsnakes7369]

@@gaybatgosqueak me too

[@maddie6205]

@@iadorecatsandsnakes7369 Me too!

[@kamilytee]

@@maddie6205 me too!!

[@sand747]

@@gaybatgosqueak me too!!!

[@viaferreira7671]

" and you can't participate in running because your eyes dry out " How fast does Joinen run 😂

[@lobster6032]

203837299282638937 miles an hour

[@viaferreira7671]

@@lobster6032 Like sonic himself

[@strawberrymilk2007]

@@viaferreira7671 GOTTA GO FAST

[@madalynburke4749]

Sonic on orange juice speed.

[@vin.2]

@@strawberrymilk2007 *GOTTA GO FAST*

[@crazycatlover1885]

The way it acts like a woman's entire life is trying to apeal to men like WTF?!!!!!!!!!

[@jessicam6881]

I don't know who comes up with the rumors of what guys look for but everyone just needs to stop listening. I know a girl dealing with anorexia right now because she kept being told she needed a thigh gap, even though she's never struggled with being overweight. Saw a video where they went & asked random guys what they thought about thigh gaps. Half of them didn't know it was at first & all of them said they've never noticed if a woman has a thigh gap. Different people find different things attractive. One guy may love to see woman all fancied up, another might prefer a more natural look. You just gotta find your one. But don't be desperate and try to change yourself to fit in someone's mold. Just be you.

[@stillachildbyheart2797]

As a girl, we barely ever paint our nails to get a mans attention,

[@violetfantasy2537]

I color them to match my outfit for special occasions or clear to protect them

[@kamilytee]

i paint it for woman i might find in town😌🏳️‍🌈

[@cpeugh123ad]

lmao yea its like picking clothes out we pick the clothes think are cute bc thats what we want to wear, not for a guy.. i feel like most guys pick stuff out for us though just because they dont understand the concept of "their own style" kinda crazy thirsty guys out there,

[@kamilytee]

@@cpeugh123ad as a woman i think some woman do dress for guys and i havent seen guys dressing for girls that much so idk. how hard is it to understand the concept of style? a five year old understands it so im not sure how stupid you think guys are🤔

[@Acrylara]

Every girl after watching this: -Rolling in manure -Throwing away their eyeshadow -Fingernails scratch the floor while walking - frantically drawing eyebrows on with sharpie - plucking out every eyelash

[@ediedee909]

ordering brightly coloured press on nails

[@saskia9720]

The video's called "16 things men always notice about women", but more than half of the statements are "some men like this"/"half of men think this"/"only some men actually notice this" etc. What?

[@louiseblandy3245]

This is annoying me so much when men say "We don't notice your make up, little belly and leg hairs, don't try that hard" and don't realised we've all been judge for our weight, hairs or tired face/imperfections. And/or heard someone judge another girl for that.

[@slothbunny3382]

When they say don’t notice I think what they really mean is they notice if you don’t

[@shcheerchic1011]

Lol are we just gonna ignore the troom troom video right next to this one that says “good pregnant va bad pregnant” ? 😂 like what?

[@larissaleigh4488]

Lmaooo

[@jessc.3958]

The only ones here that I can actually give some merit to are the one about perfume (sensory sensitivities) and long nails (because I have actually, truly been injured by long false nails before, lol. Always accidentally! But still). But basically if it has no impact on my own well-being, I don't care? You do you, your life shouldn't be focused around being attractive or pleasing to anyone but yourself. Also, just throwing it out there, I feel like I'm more inclined to notice something that catches my eye in a positive way? Anything I'm not into or neutral on becomes background noise, but something really attractive to me stands front and center. Idk about anyone else?

[@LannasMissingLink]

Ah yeah thats very true, I also tend to only pay extra attention to people's appearance when I'm into them

[@viaferreira7671]

We stan a king who is polite to little pooches

[@jcr5373]

Women: I like to make my eyebrows look nice. Brightside: Men don't like that! Women: I don't care. Brightside: But they don't!!

[@Em-bi7tn]

OMG JOINEN NOOOO. YOU can't smell your perfume after a while due to you getting used to it. Those people who keep applying throughout the day REEEK!!! it's waaaaayyy too much. I used to do it, my brother still does it. You are NOT SUPPOSED TO REAPPLY !!! JOINEN PLEASE SEE THIS. PLEASE. FOR THE SAKE OF ALL THE PEOPLE YOU SPEND TIME WITH

[@lasolady]

To be fair, i have some perfumes i smell throughout the day, but i think those are actually Parfu or Eau de parfum. Eau de toilette "disappears".

[@annenatuurlijk1]

@@lasolady it doesn't disappear. It just seems that way to you.

[@Jenninka]

Who are all these men out there loving French manicures in 2021? I need to know so I can avoid you forever

[@kageyamatobio1863]

The first time my boyfriend saw me he said 'woah, you eyebrows are *prominent* ' 😎

[@victoriaag4460]

"Don't lie, nobody likes cactus legs" I LOST IT

[@alaynadewey6345]

“SOFT color lips SOFT” Me with black lipstick and glitter lips: 👁✨👄✨👁

[@incognitogirl6201]

"Ladies, what do you notice about... other ladies?" Im sure no one actually cares, but heres a list of the first 5 things i notice in another female. 1: hair ("wow, i love that color! I wonder if its natural!" Or "yikes. That looks like hell to style") 2: makeup ("oooh thats SO pretty!" Or "how did she have the patience to do all that work??") 3: voice ("definitely suits her" or "i wonder if she smokes...") 4: attitude ("she seems really nice!" Or "wow, okay then you stuck up b****") 5: outfit ("ooooh i love her shirt, Thats my favorite band/movie/ect." Or "huh. Thats an interesting look. Not something *i* would be able to wear confidently... But its interesting" *Bonus things i notice* Jewelry, people she may be with, eye color, the way she walks.

[@veggiemcnugget200]

I had a dream dhar man mentioned joinen in a video and was making fun of him

[@belleann2479]

what weird dream

[@jamesbw2]

i had a dream i kicked mike tyson and KOed him bruv

[@Nora-ts3lf]

I had a dream where it was like a murder mystery, and in the end there was no murderer. Jack Stauber came in and started doing magic.

[@c4tm340w]

@@Nora-ts3lf Honestly, that sounds like such a good dream! I wish I remembered my dreams, and the ones that I remembered are actually that good, lmao

[@itsfrance6500]

I had one that Dhar man married his cousin

[@luanita307]

Hello girls of this channel, if you hating shaving your legs, don't shave. Most people don't care about it, if he cares, then fuck it, find another one, it's not worth the pain and stress 👀❤️

[@goofyahh2701]

As a lesbian I notice: • Maturity • tits, yes I know • humor • if they are relatable • loyalty

[@Nortrick]

i love how bright side always says stuff like : "It's just a lil make up" and "It is removable" -like hun, we don't struggle with object permanence

[@ThatOneLadyOverHere]

What women notice in other women: -If they have similar interests that we can talk about -how pretty, if we aren't confident in our own appearance then we think about what ways they are prettier than us (overall, not individual things) -what they are good at -whether or not they are pleasant to be around

[@LeTAlLtHeEaRTHsING]

I notice other women’s’ nails 😂

[@maddyh1026]

So basically, men ALWAYS notice these, but they’re never a dealbreaker, but they are very eye catching, but they don’t really notice them so no need to worry. Think I got it

[@OllieOnyx]

So I’m sitting here with my long, sharp nails, feeling somewhat hurt, but also wanting to propose the question: what if looking spooky is the ...point? ;) I just want to look like a vampire, man... Is that so wrong?

[@space_aced389]

long sharp nails are cool as heck

[@foxgoblin9589]

@@space_aced389 until you accidentally stab someone, that is… (ive been there lol) (and also im just joking, im not actually against them. They’re actually pretty cool.)

[@space_aced389]

@@foxgoblin9589 lmao- yeah i guess stabbing is not exactly ideal

[@Prickly_Cactus_1993]

Have a fantastic week everyone.

[@lississeoh6949]

A *pan* tastic week to you as well :D

[@Jiyu_Starfam]

Ty you too

[@codyschwartz2827]

Never

[@samuu971]

Thx

[@OakieTea]

I like ya pfp g

[@StarBoundAngel]

I don’t wash my face with anything but water because I get allergic reactions (I’ve tried hypoallergenic face wash and organic, vegan face wash and they do the same) and my skin is really nice, a lot nicer than people I know who do wash their face and use special stuff. Are there really people out there that think pimples come from not washing their face? 😂

[@5H4NKTH35HARK]

I think people mistake pimples for blackheads. Pimples are more hormonal, blackheads come from too much sebum. Water is perfectly fine to wash your face with, probably better than facial washes and wipes. I don't use soap to wash my face, I scrub using my hands and water. Plus a lot of cleaning products dry out your skin, causing it to flake and produce more sebum. You basically become dry and oily at the same time.

[@jadecoolness101]

@@5H4NKTH35HARK my skin makes way too much oil. As in, I’ll wash my face and within an hour I’m oily. Such is my life.

[@izy6778]

I think there’s a difference between hormonal acne and acne from just being dirty. Like, if I don’t wash my face I’ll get blackheads. If I wash my face these will go away, but I’ll still have pimples because I’m a hormonal teenager. I might be wrong though, everyone’s different.

[@ihavenoidea2805]

Wait am I the only one washing my face in the shower with shower gel only?😭

[@StarBoundAngel]

@@ihavenoidea2805 What is shower gel? Is that another type of body wash? If so, it’s not good for your face.

[@glanni]

As a woman with very weak eyebrows I can tell you that in the way guys react to me there's definitely a difference between augmenting them with an eyebrow pencil close to my hair color, or not doing anything. When I don't paint them on I look like an eyebrowless maniac when the light falls from certain angles. So yeah, guys don't realize when you subtly draw on your eyebrows, but they DO realize when you barely have any and don't do it.

[@estelletheartkid1984]

I have the opposite problem. I have very thick dark brown eyebrows and I used to get a lot of comments about them when I was younger. Apparently people do notice when I don’t pluck them or whatever. Then again, I could use my eyebrows as men repellent

[@glanni]

@@estelletheartkid1984 eyebrow gang rise up!

[@leanoura1435]

I feel bad for him. Whenever he wants to watch KZbin he either sees Dhar Mann, Bright Side, Fake Animated Story vidéos, or Troom Troom

[@taylor1989atwtmvtvftvralps]

gay guys: welp guess i dont exist anymore-

[@avocadoesarenice4206]

Actual title: things men actually don’t really notice about women

[@jennyrintakoski4914]

The shoes one... I saw a few people saying "don't you care if I track mud into your house?!" and seriously... Take your shoes off?! Why dont people do this in other contries? Take your shoes off at the door. No mud indoors, no weird dirt all over you floors, no bacteria from dog shit or other stuff found on the ground.

[@helRAEzzzer]

My dad cared WAAAY too much about nearly everything on this list and harassed me about how "unattractive boys would find me." Joke's on him, I'm a lesbian! Also, his standards were what aided in making me unappealing since it DESTROYED any confidence and self-worth I had which was near nothing to begin with. Now I'm 30, he's dead, and I am happy with myself most days resulting in men and women hitting on me frequently. How to attract a mate: Do things with your body and style for your own love of it before anything or anyone else. Pandering to others is unattractive.

[@mantonythe1st]

Eyebrowless Joinen is somehow more horrifying than eyeless Joinen

[@emyolovson9586]

Bright side: Your legs dont need to be smooth Me: Yah, I know- If my man's legs dont, then neither do minet. And if he insists- he trash

[@needlesoffire]

Was anyone paying attention to that fight in the chat? Lol

[@violetfantasy2537]

Which one lol

[@zayas42022]

22:55 IS NOBODY GONNA SAY ANYTHING ABOUT THIS, JOINEN I LOVE YOU DYSYDHFH

[@Jiyu_Starfam]

Omgggggggg

[@miss-laea]

22:19 please I’ve met my boyfriend in KZbin comments ok 😭🤣

[@naylaparkar7992]

Moral of the video:- ladies, do whatever you like, because *you* like it... Not to impress anyone for sure... Bright side, GROW UP. Love you joinen..

[@sparklingdeath1730]

What if, for some reason, us women like to clean our shoes and not have stretch marks and stuff because *we* care about it

[@annagrigoreva7230]

After this brightside video I'm no longer sure if my husband really likes me(

[@Sh-world123]

I love how they assume every men is straight.

[@frogoyes7611]

:D They might make one for guys and guys

[@w0wzer5]

"Too much is too much and not enough is not enough" ahh yes. I tell myself that everyday

[@gabby2710]

Things I notice in other women: (as a woman myself) 1. clothes (wishing i had them, or thinking they are ugly) 2. eyes 3. Hair 4. shoes 5. nails 6. smile 7. attitude

[@paranoiarpincess]

Joinen: but how many men did they ask? Me: all of them, duh.

[@KellyEUTAH]

More like; 16 things women judge other women on.

[@kittykitty.bangbang]

I love how this whole video is just Brightside saying "uh- well, um... men have different opinions, I guess 🤷"

[@jackr.4953]

As an older adult with chronic acne issues; I can confirm that people judge you pretty harshly for it. I've tried so many things, but I permanently look like a leper.

[@idkag00dname]

This bright side guy can’t tell us anything he isn’t a man... HES A ROBOT

[@OakieTea]

Thats robophobic

[@KiraQueen303]

@@OakieTea dangitgrandpa reference?

[@OakieTea]

@@KiraQueen303 y e s

[@Terry-wo4up]

men don‘t even recognize when you change your hair colour i don‘t believe there‘s a single thought crossing those minds

[@lilythearcticfox]

As a female with tons of Stretch marks, I can confirm only one guy has brought it up, that being a family member

[@Divya-ry1uu]

"Don't use too much perfume" * every woman thinking of the schoolboys that would spray themselves with axe like 5 times a day"

[@puggyboy694]

I don't have the sense of smell, so I'd never notice perfume. Hahahahaha! I feel weirdly victorious!

[@vivianamendiola1662]

Bright side : (first five seconds) Me: the perfect women is that pause tho 😂👌

[@abluehappyface748]

*she is the epitome of beauty and grace*

[@ChairyCrasher]

Perfume makes me sneeze.

[@maxxmason723]

I took off my glasses and watched this video cross eyed because I have a short attention span and forgot I was watching it

[@gaanadelrey]

0 dislikes? I see the early people were cultured👑💖🔥✌️✨

[@bayza7955]

Brightside’s videos remind me of when I would look up “does he like you” quizzes when I was 10.

[@randomperson5579]

Myself, I only really care about 3 things, 1. Are you a girl 2. Are you alive 3. Do you at least attempt to be healthy, and hygienic if yes to all 3 of those, then that's good, anything else especially what brightside talks about it's up to you.

[@Eli-mn5cq]

damnit, failed the second requirement

[@larissaleigh4488]

Damn that's some low standards

[@doodledude8190]

@@larissaleigh4488 nah, it's his preference.

[@larissaleigh4488]

@@doodledude8190 whatever, his preference is some really low standards lmao

[@doodledude8190]

@@larissaleigh4488 so what's your standard then? OP's are fine, not much, but if they're happy it's fine

[@ravensilverthorne8968]

What I notice in other girls (as a girl) 1. How attractive she is 2. If she listens to girl in red 3. Face (like if she has à cute nose or good smile) 4. General aesthetic (fashion/vibes) 5. If I want to talk to her (if she's a bitch or not) 6.potential of her noticing me 7.how funny she is (personality) 8.if she reads or not (hobbies) 9.potential of her being a girlfriend 10. If she likes animals

[@the_gay_space565]

I know that we're talking about guy's preferences but I know that a lot of girls do these things to impress other girls. it helps you get social status in many places

[@melancholyashes]

I SWEAR TO GOD, I read “good boy” and “also good boy” and I was just wondering wtf that meant and why it was sexist, and then I just went “ooooooooh, that makes sense”

[@natenaitopaku1947]

7:16 Well that deserves a "cursed" sticker.