9 Tricks to Be the Most Charming Person in the Room

How to be a bit more charming? Some people could easily gain the trust of everyone and create a positive image of themselves? Jeff Haden, one of the most influential people on LinkedIn and the author of almost 30 business and communication books, explained how they do it. It turns out they know some simple secrets, and today you have a chance to discover them all.
Have you ever noticed, for example, that such people are not afraid to look silly? They’re not afraid to be awkward. Curiously enough, people respect them even more because of this. If you’re not shy to show your weaknesses, people won’t laugh at you. So, guys, here're nine essential characteristics that make any person look more confident and charming.
TIMESTAMPS:
They’re not afraid to lose 0:52
They show they’re glad to meet you 1:28
They look for mutual understanding 2:09
They use the power of touch 2:47
They know how to use facial expressions and gestures 3:41
They’re not afraid to look silly 4:19
They’re good at asking questions 4:54
They always remember names 5:38
They listen more and talk less 6:27
#becharming #yourimage #howtobecharismatic
SUMMARY:
- Charming people don’t try to win at everything. On the contrary, their aim is to give more without expecting anything in return. For them, it’s not difficult to admit their mistakes, failures, or talk about their weaknesses.
- Maintaining eye contact is important in a conversation, and people who have charisma know this for sure. They smile when you smile. They frown or nod when you do.
- Most people unconsciously look for contradictions and disagreements, which can lead to a dispute rather than a conversation. Charismatic people always seek common ground with everybody.
- A touch is a powerful tool that helps people understand their emotions better. In a recent experiment, scientists tried to express 12 emotions by touching their interlocutors without words. In 50-83% of the cases, these feelings were expressed correctly.
- Charming people express their feelings incredibly well and accurately. They can turn even the most boring story into an enthralling conversation.
- Charming people can make you talk about yourself easily. They don’t hesitate to ask questions and talk openly about themselves as well. These people genuinely want to know what you’re thinking, and this makes them trustworthy.
- Charismatic people always remember names and other small details about others very accurately.
- Charming people know how to listen, and they love listening more than talking. That’s how they learn more interesting details about a person and find something in common.
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For those of you who are lazy to watch the entire video 9 Are not afraid to lose 8 Show they're glad to meet you 7 Look for mutual understanding 6 Use the power of touch 5 Know how to use facial expressions and gestures 4 Not afraid to look silly 3 Good at asking questions 2 Always remembers names 1 Listen more and Talk less😉 Here u go...😊

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[@aniazah1281]

I will save some time now: 9. Don't be afraid to lose 8. Show you are glad to meet them 7. Look for something common with them 6. Use the power of touch for expressing your feelings 5. Use gestures and expression correctly 4. Don't be afraid to be silly or awkward 3. Ask about them. Let them talk about themselves. Ask many questions 2. Always remember Names. Of their relatives friends and even their pets 1. Listen instead of talking about yourself all time. You are welcome 😊

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Thanks

[@thabi7]

Life saver :)

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[@theyadoreme5344]

My primary school bestie was always like this and she actually influenced me to be like her. When she first came to the school I thought she was gonna be some stuck up girl who expects to get what she wants, but she's actually kind, and has a beautiful personality. When I told her about my first impressions on her when she came to the school, we couldn't stop laughing. And now we're going our seperate ways at our new secondary schools. I'll miss you mia, I hope your reading this.

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Girl, look for her on FB and add her. That's the type of friend you keep for life. Don't lose touch!

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Don’t lose her

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#1 tip on how to be the most hottest person in the room: be the only person in the room

[@bisma2976]

Little Romy YESS

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Or just sit by the fire. Get it?

[@harjotpalsingh8349]

still not hot...found my shadow hotter thn me 😢

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+Aishath NooRa yup ...what happen ?

[@DerlisGGaona]

So then, that also makes you the un-hottest one and so on... lol

[@khajasamiuddin9204]

2:55 I once patted my boss. Now I am searching for a job

[@gavinreid8351]

Samiuddin Khaja you should not have patted his crutch.

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In that case you should have shaken hands

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Khaja Sami Uddin. That is a cultural thing Not good here in USA.

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Khaja Sami Uddin rightly said

[@assheis3185]

😄

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I do these things all the time, but I don't think I do them right because I end up making my self look like an idiot. 😂🤣😅

[@NYXYN]

It's okay not to be okay.

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you're not alone,buddy

[@ishita4460]

These videos are just made for fun, do what makes you happy, once you are happy everything will go right.

[@qazplm3845]

As long as you're having fun then everyone does

[@taylorheck3702]

Because you do this while thinking about it. Once it becomes second nature, you have people eating out of the palm of your hand. Growned yourself. It helps a lot.

[@anewloveofficial9137]

You don't need to pretend like someone else in order to look charming. You just have to be true to yourself and be who you are because it's better to be hated for who you are rather than be loved for who you're not.

[@starx8775]

Yeah but the catch is I don’t actually care about who I’m talking to, I just want a fun time. So it’s all good. Plus I’d work on meshing my true personality with it ..... plus I don’t even have a personality.........

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I am the most charming person in the room OH wait I am the only person in the room.......

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Marie Mcqueen lol

[@monotoneroses]

XD

[@Trish21_]

Me too

[@patelnipa]

Same

[@linafan1249]

Same when I look into the mirror. ..I look good But... When I go out Im fine but not .... Why ?? (Shame)

[@nicolejoseph4240]

I was watching this and I realized and said to myself, "honey you're already charming!" 😂😂

[@taylortheghost125]

I already am the most charming person in the room.. cuz I'm the only one in here. plzbemyfriend

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I can be ur frnd not a problm

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Wow I already like you

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Yay

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can you tell me a little more about who you are? i mean not everyone can afford to be my friend-- you know?

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[@Antasma0]

am I the only one that scrolled down the comments while watching?

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gamergirl225 lol I am doing the same it's just a habit

[@BirgitBauhaus]

No! I Do that, too! I'm really interested in the answering of others!

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No

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Yeah just wanna know if Im wasting my time on this video

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3:23 is there any fault on my mobile......😂

[@eccodaisy1390]

list starts at 0:51 9. charming people are not afraid to lose 8. they show they're glad to meet you 7. they look for mutual understanding 6. they use the power of touch 5. they use facial expressions correctly 4. they are not afraid to look silly 3. they're good at asking questions 2. they remember names 1. listen more and talk less that's about it

[@asadmaj8022]

be simple and badass!

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[@NYXYN]

Ikr. Just be your simple and badass self! ;"3

[@parule]

Great content! But what happens if two charismatic listeners talk to each other? 🤔

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That's the very best way to listen to a emotional and intelectual "firework "!

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FIREWORK!!!!

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[@gimiklioptions]

It would be the weirdest conversation ever, a lot of "did you say something" and "no I thought you did".

[@ma-cl1oq]

All points match my personality. I'm goofy, too honest, have alot of empaty and self ironi. People i barely know open up to me about their problems, bc I'm easy to talk to, don't judge and don't talk behind others back. I hate when people give me compliments, but I give compliments to everybody all the time. The key to be charming is just to be aware about your own actions and see how people react. Thats how i learned it.

[@ArtemisNoma]

Why am I watching this? Im so awkward I wont be able to do anything in the list

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Akiyama Ukine No you r thinking wrong, I m sure u will. 😊

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No! I am sure you are great! 😊

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Awkward girls are really adorable.. it's awkward guys that end up looking weak or creepy

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how to attract me: Buy me chicken nuggets and i'll love you forever

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😂

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How come this comment has so many likes... because he is thankful? I can be thankful too but no one gives me a reward for it.

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Vinit Gambhir 9llll

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Sareda Rizzo Probably because people agree with what he said. That's generally how likes and dislikes work. I wouldn't exactly consider them a reward, though.

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My whole family heard the first couple of seconds and they automatically started laughing at me... great

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This is one of the best produced advice-giving videos I've ever across on KZbin. I'm charmed!

[@princesstheathemagicalsuga1599]

When #1 came up, I instantly thought: "Talk less, smile more!"

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Frozencupcake Roler Last time a guy said that he lost everything....

[@soonermimi53]

I love meeting people and find it easy to communicate. I hadn't realized that I do most of these things. I think it is right on.

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yES

[@darth1nsidious726]

Thus is how to be the most charming in the room Go in a room by yourself

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[@supperninja3859]

I agree with these points. Thanks for the vid!

[@heyitsme1812]

😱IM A CHARMING PERSON?! I matched every single one of them!!! I didn't know this!!!!

[@marivicminor1680]

I absolutely agree with this!

[@rowo175]

basically open your heart and be BRAVE

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So thankful of knowing this channel

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I learned a lot from this, thanks. It's info like this that helps to make a better world we share.

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great tips. thanks for sharing..

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Great video ! Thank you!

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Lovely video. Thank you!

[@Aria-ij5ip]

just be yourself..😏

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*Just be your best self

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LDDT TDDL *Just keep trying to be your best self

[@Rocio-ru1zg]

Aria i can use those tricks and still be real myself

[@ollie2052000]

Aria unless you’re boring, then do what they suggest.

[@dexterrr9163]

Thats like be awkward if u r awkward

[@Armz316]

Awesome video! Thanks for sharing!

[@englishforlife5307]

There are lot of ways of learning about how to learn and happen everyday body languages. Living that way, we can descover and learn much more about others. Very good.

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buddy your videos help me develop my personality day be day,thank you so much

[@DAASHO]

yes thank you for your advise

[@nibeditamishra437]

Each word of this video is helpfull Thank u

[@mkhheng]

Remembering names and making more eye contact is what I must work on more. Thanks.

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thanks that was a really helpful video

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I'm very learning this point .. Thank you ... To lots many videos on KZbin channel ...

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The way he says details though

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You just described the sort of person I would undoubtedly be friends with for life! ✌🏼

[@inksans157]

i cant do the eye contact one... i have anxiety

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Ink sans wear sunglasses and you should be fine.

[@AfiKoKo]

Look at the bridge of their nose (in between their eyes) it looks just like giving eye contact. It might seem silly, but definitely gets the job done. This is an excellent trick I learned from someone really smart. Go for it!😊

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Ink sans I have social anxiety too and it took me so much of practicing and struggling to look into people’s eyes .Believe in yourself and I believe that you can do it and beat anxiety.Practice practice and practice 😁👍🏻

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thanks for this video..

[@ashuade7382]

honestly speaking my personality contains a lot of those points and now I know why I have lots of friends and no one hates me😊

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The anchorman on Liar Liar, love it!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@MeghaPrasad58]

This 10 things r enough to make anyone charming!! I do some of these things!! Nd really it's awesome!! Wonderful video it is!!!😁

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this was so true.

[@johningardia7106]

All these times we intuitively know, but often forget. It's nice to have it verbalized.

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I use all of what you said.... Guess what, it works. I was born with it but it took time to learn how to master it. thank you for this video.

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Realy nice information

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Good to know.

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m totally agree with these points...👍

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Right on!!!

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9.They r not afraid to loose 8.They show they are glad to meet you 7.They look for mutual understanding 6.They use the power of touch 5.They how to use facial expressions and gestures 4.They are not afraid to look silly,not awkward 3.They are good at asking questions 2.They always remember names 1.They listen more talk less

[@thanvikaan8934]

I am in love with the narrator

[@lowcountrygirl7779]

Great video. Common sense, etiquette, and how to be genuinely charming are so rarely taught anymore. These are skills which are invaluable, even in the ever more isolating, technological world in which we live. "How to Win Friends and Influence People " ,by Dale Carnegie is a must read for all ages. I was given a copy by my lovely and very successful grandfather when I was a kid. He urged me to read it monthly, then quarterly, and so on. I read a great deal, but this book has helped me perhaps even more than my three earned college degrees when applied it's principles are applied. Education simply doesn't teach wisdom, common sense, or how to problem solve in most cases. God bless!

[@loveofgod8852]

Excellent One

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Thx a lot 😄

[@vanshika729]

Excellent!!!!!!!

[@My_chapters]

Waow... i have all the qualities mention in this points.. i guess i am charming then. 😋 thanks for letting me know.. 😇

[@shahramali7339]

Strongly Agree 👍

[@IAmAwesomeSoAreYou]

Good and practical tips of confident, easy going fun people.

[@cindycinn2724]

Love it so true...fast talkers to

[@tariferrie2514]

Remembering names and listening Well.. huge.

[@ameenagunbiade3394]

I believe these to be true because I've used a few of them and they work.

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good to see this I loved it

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Totally agree

[@kugisaki8027]

you know what . this vdeo is sooo meeeee . i always do this to my friend . but sometimes when i wanna tell em a story about myself they just dont pay attention as much as i do . so its kinda rude😂 but it sokay , im tryning my best to not be angry at them

[@dvhize]

i agree with these points

[@fifi-fx1zb]

i always remember people's name, but nobody remember my name

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this is fifi. Same.

[@legreg1566]

red hot chili peypah you are not charismatic enough

[@farahboudastour504]

I thought I was the only one!

[@sunnykumarsingh9170]

This point all are very important....

[@krishajoshi527]

Really very effective

[@luticia]

I am like that. I also watch people only in their LEFT eye! With a calm/calming and sincere smile.

[@Ethericrose]

luticia Why only the left eye?

[@joschuabluhm2315]

So smart!!!

[@tarangkamble1644]

Thanks

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This all came to me naturally when I was in kindergarten. Such a long time ago!

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Thhnk uuu

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Thankyou

[@TheQueenofHairbows]

Thank you I tried these hacks and my friends kept on saying how nice and charming I am!!! 😀💜

[@candiblue9280]

yes i agree

[@Abdul-yx5oo]

Good tips to create good taughts in another person's mind.

[@11cyrilsolomon23]

That meaw sound made me laugh which was used when the word 'pets' was said..Professional editing. Good channel

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Love this lol

[@youngj3760]

I find someone charming who genuinely celebrates my achievings and good occasions.

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♎️🙄😜👍Beautiful VideoiThank You!

[@YagyaYesha]

Its helpful