I am not a licensed counselor so take any bits of advice in this video at your own risk 😝 Love you all!
@slimbelgaied70934 жыл бұрын
I'll do , my life can't get more screwed anyway 😂😂
@csctnfire4 жыл бұрын
You are, however, a true friend who cares.
@deepchillasmr63194 жыл бұрын
Every second was fire🔥💜🔥
@carlosreyes53714 жыл бұрын
Are you of Irish descent?
@ardensvirens4 жыл бұрын
Tried your advice, got stuck in the ceiling fan. Instructions not clear. Halp.
@droge1924 жыл бұрын
As an English person, Americans are usually dreadful at putting on an English accent - espeically so-called professional actors! ....but this is absolutely 100% convincing. Like many others, this is my first video of yours, and I never suspected you weren't English for one moment, until I read the comments. You should get into professional acting!
@tjfSIM4 жыл бұрын
DROGE totally agree - it’s amazing because she has not only mastered the accent perfectly, but also the phrases and the way we speak. Very clever, and you’re right that she should consider acting or voiceover work.
@ignotuscapillary83132 жыл бұрын
Read this in a British accent.
@daviejones54652 жыл бұрын
Dreadful? 😂😂
@jaffa37172 ай бұрын
It's convincing and accurate but it's really posh. Just not very realistic
@lucysmith21974 жыл бұрын
As a native Brit, I can confirm this is pretty spot on. If I didn’t know any better, I would just assume you were English!
@majesstic82474 жыл бұрын
I thought she was English, it was the first video I've seen from here, so I went to watch another and I was shocked she was American. I'm English as well x
@gazza29334 жыл бұрын
Sorry Lucy. What the hell is a 'Brit'!! (rhetorical) I take it you mean British. It's bad enough Americans using the term without people over here using it. If you are going to be British then be British! Best Regards, from England and the English.
@majesstic82474 жыл бұрын
@@gazza2933 if you're going by proper words then shouldn't you be Gary not Gazza 😂
@Maffyew234 жыл бұрын
Stfu gazza you plum
@charliec17124 жыл бұрын
Fakin ell Gazzaaaaaaa
@MichaelBosley4 жыл бұрын
That accent is 👌. If you ever visit the UK and speak like this, no one would suspect a thing.
@thel13554 жыл бұрын
Wow, your fake British accent is more accurate than my real British accent. Everyone seems to think I’m Australian, and frankly I’m beginning to believe them a little.
@bastiannicholls76923 жыл бұрын
LOL
@cookieplayz42062 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@codpoolyt53492 жыл бұрын
LMFAO
@thegreturns268 Жыл бұрын
It's like when a crappy hypnotist puts on a fake voice and then wonders why the leading isn't working, while their patient is hyper focused on the accent itself rather than the leads 😅
@eliweiss5650 Жыл бұрын
@@codpoolyt5349😅 5:18
@simonbelmont67394 жыл бұрын
Plot twist: This is Ozley's normal accent and she just uses an American accent to throw us off.
@DavidJLee-zr8ic4 жыл бұрын
another twist! she's an actual psychologist!
@Long_island_20174 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@VikingerOnYT3 жыл бұрын
This is such a lovely video! ✨
@harrylongofficial62484 жыл бұрын
Very good accent. It is the more ‘librarian’, ‘business’ or ‘upper class’ sounding british accent but I prefer that to the informal slang people use like “innit” instead of “isn’t it”. Look up either ‘somerset’ or ‘Dorset’ accents if interested in that sort of thing. I’m from Dorset and everywhere I go in the country when I tell them where I’m from they laugh because the Dorset accent is so strong and odd. Great vid Ozley, cheers!
@MAP2332244 жыл бұрын
ngl bruv this was a jolly good video, innit?
@click2relax4 жыл бұрын
Hey I’m from Dorset too DORSET GANG RISE UP
@harrylongofficial62484 жыл бұрын
click2relax Hey that’s cool, Well since your from Dorset too, subbed to you as we asmr dorset folk got to stay together. Just watched your video on asmr 2020, good stuff... I tried doing asmr but was afraid to as I think there’s a stigma of men being considered odd if they watch it let alone even make it (which doesn’t make sense because it’s relaxing and is the reason I can finally fall asleep better). Anyway, cheers!
@mshaman864 жыл бұрын
Theres nothing wrong with colloquialisms innit?
@click2relax4 жыл бұрын
HARRY LONG OFFICIAL Thanks, I appreciate that :) might do some similar related stuff in the future. I’m thinking lucid dreaming maybe.
@jonstfrancis4 жыл бұрын
Love your accent here and your usual voice too; so relaxing.
@OzleyASMR4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 🥺
@Laserpuppylord72154 жыл бұрын
"it takes a lot of bravery to pull the trigger" ... Words I never thought I'd hear from my counselor.
@LnPPersonified4 жыл бұрын
I thought the same thing! What if I'd said "suicidal thoughts"?
@robertlombardo84373 жыл бұрын
@@LnPPersonified Or for that matter "homicidal ideation?" 😅
@stuartdennis85063 жыл бұрын
Best English accent from an American I’ve ever heard 🙌🏻
@daisykennedy66494 жыл бұрын
As someone who’s English I’m actually so impressed by your accent 🤭 if I didn’t know you were American I’d genuinely think this was your real voice!
@CJPooz2 ай бұрын
You look English too toots 😉
@marklambert47934 жыл бұрын
For some reason, I am completely fascinated with this video. There are very few that I watch multiple times. But this one is definitely one of those. Just the care and concern you express in this role play, with a very pleasant British accent is just... It feels like I actually had a little therapy. ASMR therapy. 🥱😴😌 Love it! ❤️ Thank You!
@sfoxhound4 жыл бұрын
the only question a british psychologist is likely to ask is "can you come back in 18 months as we are massively under funded?"
@SAMCTB4 жыл бұрын
100% truth
@insomniacbritgaming16323 жыл бұрын
It's been like this for over a decade... I had to wait months for a mental health appointment back in 2007...
@sfoxhound3 жыл бұрын
@@insomniacbritgaming1632 i know that feeling, 3 months after a catastrophic event i finally got seen and they were amazing but as soon as they bring you back from the edge they have to stop and move on to the next person, it can be a vicious cycle. ive been luckier than most getting help from charities etc. i hope you are ok dude x
@SunfishFan683 жыл бұрын
@@sfoxhound same here mate, always when you start getting better they’re gone before you know it, luckily I’ve got help from charities too, wish it was better and we didnt have to rely on charities though, stay strong man
@sfoxhound3 жыл бұрын
@@SunfishFan68 you too dude 👍
@icymallard34 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate the extra effort you used to make this video with the british accent. This is my favorite video of yours hands down.
@airick214 жыл бұрын
Normally when someone puts on an accent in a role play, I get nervous for the person and it keeps me from getting into the video. Your accent was not only very relaxing but quite impressive.
@NickSST4 жыл бұрын
I love ASMR, I love British accents and I love your channel, so this video was such an awesome surprise. You have a pretty good British accent!
@bdibu4 жыл бұрын
I wish I had a Psychologist like you in back in my teenage years when I needed one the most.
@kaylaholland677 Жыл бұрын
I'm only just discovering the British accent videos, these are delightful!
@nerissacrawford80172 жыл бұрын
You make me feel better than my actual therapist. More helpful from my perception.
@ralenldupuis18144 жыл бұрын
Perhaps the single best Keira Knightley impression I’ve ever seen, from the base accent all the way down to the intentional lower jaw placement in key moments. I swear, if this particular characterization wasn’t at least partially inspired by her... I’ll eat my sock.
@anderson_c_oliveira4 жыл бұрын
I feel at home with your videos, you are the comfort my heart asks for when it needs a friendly word! Thank you so much for your fantastic content! You are amazing!
@Guilleseoanee4 жыл бұрын
Pussy
@bocagoodtimes14604 жыл бұрын
I'm mesmerized by her beauty and her voice! ASMR heaven!
@jaredkerby59344 жыл бұрын
Ozley, my friends moved away. I'm glad your'e still my friend and that your helping me feel better. I'm grateful to talk with you. There's just this really good feeling about you I like. It feels like having a comforted heart, or like how the Grinch had his heart softened. That type of strong feeling.
@jaredkerby59344 жыл бұрын
@Tea And Crumpets! She's amazing.
@OzleyASMR4 жыл бұрын
💙🙏🏼 I’m sorry your friends moved away - that’s tough. I’m grateful for your presence here and know that I rooting for ya ☺️💕
@jaredkerby59344 жыл бұрын
@@OzleyASMR Ozley, Thank so much. I'm glad your'e my friend.
@NietzscheanMan4 жыл бұрын
@@jaredkerby5934 creepy
@Amazing_Mark4 жыл бұрын
It's always wonderful to discover that a new Ozley video has been uploaded. 👌
@ThePdog3k4 жыл бұрын
The only thing I hate about ASMR is falling in love with people that I can never express that properly to.
@sssenatorarmstrong32803 жыл бұрын
Wtf
@MrBAILIES3 жыл бұрын
Mate you need try dating apps, as long as you aren't shallow you'll find someone.
@sssenatorarmstrong32803 жыл бұрын
@@MrBAILIES bro we’re black and white, we a yin yang 💀
@moonart28453 жыл бұрын
Bro....
@JazzyJ967713 жыл бұрын
this is how I feel about celebrities
@smithsafc37054 жыл бұрын
Wow! Decent British accent Ozley. Your range of vocabulary is excellent. I am guessing that you have someone close to you who’s British ? You definitely nailed the posh ‘Hugh grant’ bumbling that we brits do so eloquently 🤣. One or two words like ‘so’ sounded slightly Australian so if you could have a go at a full asmr video as an Aussie dentist or optician that would be well worth a listen. 🤣 I’m so glad I found your account. So relaxing and so talented. ❤️
@isabellebringel33614 жыл бұрын
wait, I randomly found this video. I actually thought she was British
@drServitis3 жыл бұрын
I know an American guy who met an American woman at a bar in New York and he spoke to her with a British accent. They dated for a long time before she found out he wasn't British at all. By then she was in love with him and stayed with him anyway. True story. Pretty smart guy when you think about it.
@isabellebringel33613 жыл бұрын
@@drServitis Imagine being THAT talented
@hatefulhate22873 жыл бұрын
@@isabellebringel3361 wym, im Croatian and i can pull off british accent spot on. American even easier tho because its rooted in everything i use. But thats maybe because i have a talent since i also pull off russian, indian, spanish, italian and mexican english (stereotypical) accents
@weeardguy3 жыл бұрын
@@hatefulhate2287 I'm Dutch and it has happened quite a lot of that tourists I spoke to in Amsterdam at some moment asked me like 'Which part of Scotland/Australia/England are you from?' Apparently, I pick up the accents quickly ;)
@weeardguy3 жыл бұрын
@gerard dearie Well, when people actually come from Australia and ask me which part of Australia I come from, I expect them to know what it sounds like ;) According to my dance teacher (she is Irish), I'm good at an Irish accent as well ;)
@ronanbrandon3304 Жыл бұрын
I can listen to your voice for hrs on end . A massage for the brain .
@nodnarbregztem85464 жыл бұрын
best smile in the business
@dinhocabral86324 жыл бұрын
Your face and your eyes is the most lovelable, calming and conforting ever. Your videos are just the best!
@ich25254 жыл бұрын
OH MY GOD, HOW CAN ONE PERSON ALONE BE SO BEAUTIFUL?
@luke3793 жыл бұрын
Entspannung bitte
@mehmetbursa56563 жыл бұрын
@@luke379 How 'bout nein?
@benjaminr25684 жыл бұрын
Well this is an interesting video 😊 unfortunately because of lockdown I can't see my counselor face to face, I'm finding the phone consultations are really difficult to get a grip of.
@clash5j4 жыл бұрын
I'm in the same boat, but I actually prefer the phone consultations, perhaps because I've never felt a real connection with this counselor and the fact that the trek in to Manhattan can be a hassle.
@benjaminr25684 жыл бұрын
@@clash5j that's a fair comment, I think for me though I guess I prefer to see the person I'm talking to. Though if I'm being completely honest a lot of that comes down to paranoia of what is that person thinking while I pour out my life, and again being honest that is a deep rooted problem from my childhood of trusting others. That unfortunately has been quite difficult to get past
@OzleyASMR4 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Benjamin 💙😊
@RDQuasar4 жыл бұрын
same here. although i can see the terapist, skype counseling is not the same. There's a lack of mental connection :(
@benjaminr25684 жыл бұрын
@@RDQuasar exactly, I think it's more than just the mental connection. It's the physical connection to the room, the chair and the surroundings too, a so called safe space at home can't provide that sort of connection. Way to many distractions from family members, pets and even technology. I hope you find a way to get through these times 😊 keep your chin up
@richardmyers42624 жыл бұрын
My wife is from the South of England (I'm from the North) and this accent is spot on. You even put an "r" in past! Well done 👍
@djjonmaby39953 ай бұрын
you look so natural with very little makeup on video is great
@GingerZombie294 жыл бұрын
"How does it make you feel? Happy, sad or...?" Me: "Indifferent."
@idesofmars4 жыл бұрын
careful everyone you might cut yourself on all this edge
@GingerZombie294 жыл бұрын
@@idesofmars 😂
@katedann83774 жыл бұрын
Your accent is super believable from my experience a lot of Americans trying to do an English accent either sound like Dick Van Dyke in Mary Poppins or a super over the top impression of the Queen. If I heard you I would think you were English...I'm English, just thought I'd mention that for context haha
@OzleyASMR4 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you! 💕🥺☺️
@clash5j4 жыл бұрын
Very impressive especially when you consider the problems trained American actors have with the English accent
@ASMRLounge4 жыл бұрын
Wow..your videos make me feel so relaxed and I love your accent I can listen to this all day honestly☁️ ☁️☁️
@Illustraful4 жыл бұрын
Your English accent is so flawless, you really should be an actress.
@junglejin30964 жыл бұрын
It’s a shame because I really like the accent and find it calming but I’ll never sleep with the constant ad breaks
@onemilliondollar4 жыл бұрын
Install adblock plus
@bashdance4 жыл бұрын
Install youtube vanced apk
@hersheysbarmagnet4 жыл бұрын
If you skip to the end and hit replay, it removes the midrolls
@andy.6664 жыл бұрын
@@hersheysbarmagnet cheers mate
@MattieCooper100004 жыл бұрын
DL the video
@Bee-pb1ef3 жыл бұрын
I’m watching this with headphones and it is the most calming thing ever🤍
@tjoppie15654 жыл бұрын
The best thing about you isn't even the fact that your videos are very calming, but rather the lovely verses from The Bible that you include in your descriptions. I always check them before I start watching. Greetings from a fellow believer in South Africa, may God bless you
@Mandrake19763 жыл бұрын
This is great. I keep coming back to this video time and again, it's lovely :-) And i would never know this was not your natural accent!
@MariaFrSanchez4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so so much for the effort you put into these videos, hope you’re having a great day🥰
@annapan19784 жыл бұрын
I love British accent it’s so weirdly calming
@Amaya-Music-4 жыл бұрын
I get told my accent (which is a mix between Scottish and Irish) is calming my girlfriend can fall asleep to it, i don't hear the calming part in my voice, but i'm just use to my voice that i don't notice it, i guess
@annapan19784 жыл бұрын
Arince I probably shouldn’t say that cause you have a girlfriend but I wish I could hear your voice l
@Amaya-Music-4 жыл бұрын
@@annapan1978 tbf I have to kinda pull back my accent or my girlfriend couldn't understand me (she's American) and almost everyone I've met who isn't Scottish says they like my accent
@annapan19784 жыл бұрын
Arince oh yeah I heard that Scottish is insanely hard to understand I’m not even from English-speaking country so it might be even harder
@Amaya-Music-4 жыл бұрын
@@annapan1978 I think it depends what part of Scotland you're from, I'm from the west coast and I listened to a lot of American music growing up so my accent is also kinda diluted
@constructionworker31884 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this. I needed it tonight
@OzleyASMR4 жыл бұрын
☺️
@craigayling48314 жыл бұрын
Absolutely brilliant! Embarrassed now! You have a better British accent than I do!😂😂😂 Your dialect slipped a couple of times! You went from being Kiera Knightley to Daisy Ridley! This was an amazing well thought-out video! I loved it! Have a really wonderful day! 🙂😎👍
@OzleyASMR4 жыл бұрын
Haha my two inspirations! 😊😅 I’m out of practice
@craigayling48314 жыл бұрын
@@OzleyASMR You did it marvelously! 🙂👍
@mattjames52494 жыл бұрын
and of course Keira Knightley and Daisy Ridley were both in Star Wars movies!
@LapIdepak Жыл бұрын
With a touch of Emma Watson I’d say 😁
@varletdiana94793 жыл бұрын
FINALLY SOMEONE THAT'S NOT OVERLY WHISPERING
@abdullahabdulwasea15074 жыл бұрын
Looking at your face makes me always feel relaxed
@jackscott37284 жыл бұрын
I'm British from Nottingham, thats a very beautiful english middle class accent. Your very considerate which I think reassures people.
@timgorman20903 жыл бұрын
Very cool! I’m new to this channel and suddenly have a new favorite go-to ASMR person! Thank you Ozley, for the gift you are giving to the world.
@F1Luke2644 Жыл бұрын
please do another one of these
@kelvinmammah11774 жыл бұрын
She is honestly one of the most beautiful girls I have ever seen. I forgot I was supposed to be trying to fall asleep lol
@MrTopsecretagent3 жыл бұрын
10:15 about to say "mom and dad' rather than "mother and father", then smiled lol
@soulj3r_914 жыл бұрын
Loved this!! Got the notification at work, and I was fixing to just start watching! However, I did wait until I got home. Thank you for the content, Ozley! God Bless! 🙏🏼
@karlbryant92424 жыл бұрын
What a voice! so soothing.Nice english accent.Poetry to my ears.
@mysticallymerry55234 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video Ozley!👍😊 You have a lovely, very refined British accent.💖
@fatimahseck1065 Жыл бұрын
Perfect. Spot on. Like Received Pronunciation.
@manlikejash4 жыл бұрын
finally another video with british accent, i love these videos 😌💜
@eldenno4 жыл бұрын
I'm British and your accent is actually impressively good, quite posh, but to me that fits the role ( I always assume medical professionals are quite posh). Definitely a posh London or Home Counties accent.
@sriramjayaram60273 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for your valuable information. You are a great mentor for the psycho logical subject. These phonological aspects play a key role to lead a balanced life.
@88kingofhearts884 жыл бұрын
About time Oz is going to hit 100k subscribers! Come on people let's make it happen
@peterbohannon76013 жыл бұрын
Very relaxing voice and rp with natural grace
@lynnoliver14044 жыл бұрын
I love yals' peace. I feel yals' goodness. I love the questions; they give me a chance to ponder and reflect. I feel love in the presentation; I feel like opening right up. I love the honesty in your voice. You should have been a licensed counselor. I think we all need this shared reflection. Could it be some hope for change is required in a person to seek to create conversation in a useful way. I think having my hope provides me with contentedness and yet still desire to release from certain burdens I feel. To make things better, um the magical things.
@Primaltreeman4 жыл бұрын
One of my weirder triggers is when American ASMRtists do a British accent, and vice versa
@annapan19784 жыл бұрын
Same
@doubleplusgoodthinker94344 жыл бұрын
This lady is not "doing" a British accent, she has a British accent.
@craiganderson2754 жыл бұрын
TrePolPen no she’s American.
@doubleplusgoodthinker94344 жыл бұрын
@@craiganderson275 That is probably because she is British. A real English rose.
@craiganderson2754 жыл бұрын
@@doubleplusgoodthinker9434 you're a dum dum
@SIKE-SIKE3 жыл бұрын
Coming from someone who is British, the accent is great and very believable
@danielx12244 жыл бұрын
I missed this accent! I hope you do more of these. So relaxing.
@NFSMAN504 жыл бұрын
Im excited to watch this Ozley, hope you are well. Hope everyone is doing well today, peace and love.
@NFSMAN504 жыл бұрын
@Cliff Long Great to see you here Cliff!!
@MaxGoof1554 ай бұрын
you and this video are still so perfect!
@ДнсДнс-ч6к4 жыл бұрын
Я из России, и я не очень хорошо понимаю английский, но ты всё равно самый лучший АСМР-тист для меня!😊❤
@timinjasperful4 жыл бұрын
I've beeen watching a few asmr channels lately on youtube and i must say you are my fav. I really Iike your fun facts and outdoor vids. This one is my favorite one though. I use all this advice already and it spot on.
@old_geeky_Michael4 жыл бұрын
Watch out everyone, she seems harmless but she's gonna turn into that crazy chiropractor any moment 😋 Thank you Ozley!
@raisinbran37363 жыл бұрын
soft spoken for the win
@markmiller64022 жыл бұрын
I come back to this video more than I probably should.
@andystenhouse69454 жыл бұрын
Hello. Your voice is just gorgeous. Would you consider making an asmr hypnosis for sleep video using a pendant or locket. Thank you. 😊😴
@haidengeary82774 жыл бұрын
Therapists can be amazing. The issue for me is that I told her basically everything , in our first 45 minute session. -.- This was very relaxing.
@Fortune_Favors3 жыл бұрын
you are so stunning! nicely done!
@greengraciano68464 жыл бұрын
Whoa. I'm here trying to get asleep and my asmr playlist roles over on to.this. I had to pick up my phone and look. This is the best British accent I've ever heard from somebody who isn't. I'm British myself and would be completely fooled.
@ashstubbings26034 жыл бұрын
That's a very very good English accent! I'm impressed!
@deepchillasmr63194 жыл бұрын
Two things.. one.. wow you're beautiful and two... The accent and lull in your voice is impeccable... 🔥💜🔥
@deeboolove13012 жыл бұрын
I want to thank you very much for this Sam pretend role-playing therapy session it actually worked as a real therapy session for me… I can’t really afford therapy and I don’t really feel comfortable speaking about the things that are in my life I would come off looking crazy if I tried to speak with a person that I couldn’t really go into depth about the situation so by talking with you it was perfect your gentle soothing calmness your compassionate and your eyes your sensitivity your wholesomeness and just the loving energy I love the suggestions of the books and the way that you could deflect problems in a conversation confrontation and better communication skills and how to Win friends and influence people and the other books I really appreciate this thoughtful video is very very loving I really believe that a lot of people could get a lot of healing from role-playing playing because ultimately we have to do our own exploration and it just takes a good listener and a kind person that has a lot of patience and what a remarkable thing this is I love you and have a wonderful day from them very grateful person that lives in the desert love and light from the desert 🌵😃🙏🌈🖼❤️🔥
@Tony_Abbud3 жыл бұрын
Super relaxing, I'm from Brazil 🇧🇷
@douglashagan653 жыл бұрын
I've been conducting interpersonal communication with you at this point the analysis shows that according to my understanding is a psychotherapist the expense that I've had with patients over the years especially in trauma clinic such as the one we're in now
@yanchaoli5514 жыл бұрын
oh my god, i generally dislike ASMRs but i think i'm in love this time, totally
@rubricscube_4 жыл бұрын
That accent sounds perfect...well, lol, to an American at the least. 'Session' felt genuinely helpful - class act as always!
@nikhilkamble29493 жыл бұрын
You are a sea of positivity!
@dan_ariyaene_20054 жыл бұрын
Next: Visiting an Australian Psychiatrist. (It would be lovely mate. I would love to see your Australian accent 😊😂🤣)
@braveheartnature77954 жыл бұрын
Another video from the Great Ozley! Thank you : )
@christopheratkins77464 жыл бұрын
I'm British and that was a very good accent. Nice. Keep making videos. All the best xxx
@poseidonc12594 жыл бұрын
Thank you for everything Ozley!
@matthatesford3 жыл бұрын
I am 100% confident you have the best smile on all of YT. Maybe earth.
@jonwar8333 жыл бұрын
1. Paralyzing depression and over whelming self hatred 2. 5 different psychiatrists since the age of 16. The first 3 were utterly horrible experiences, 2 of which I was forced to see by Juvenile magistrate orders. The last 2 were pretty great, One was a Student seeing patients for free for part of her grade but unfortunately she left after a year when she graduated and I could not afford her rates. The most recent one was cut short due to the pandemic. I am currently not in therapy. 3. I honestly have no idea how many 4. No they did not. While it helped to have someone to talk to and/or have something to look forward to every week, all I was using it for, was a platform to bitch without any intention of trying or changing things in my life to make me "happy". Then again, I see it as a partial success, I was obviously still unhappy but I wasn't miserable. 5. 2 things have stuck with me for sure. If your therapist picks up the phone and dials 9-1-1 because you're crying, they're terrible at their job. I wish I were making this up. This was a man who had been a counselor for over 30 years. My tears suddenly turned to confusion, anger and terror thinking I was about to get picked up and committed against my will all because I was upset? yea, thats not how this is supposed to work. My last therapist, we'll call her Valerie, was genuinely helpful, concerned, and nurturing but also very blunt, honest and didn't bullshit what she thought and told me as much. I don't mean in a rude way but that she wasn't afraid to give me verbal exercises like " Give me a situation in this type of scenario and react in the first way that comes to mind , I'm going to demonstrate how much you projected your insecurities and allowed yourself to let fear take over you again" I still do it because its just so (natural?) at this point but I am able to step back and go through a process of elimination and let myself deduce that I am, in fact over reacting to something that doesn't even involve me at all. 6. Constant relationship failures, Severe childhood trauma that I never dealt with. I'm a man who cant stand the reflection of myself in the mirror due to conditioning that I am worthless, I am ugly, I will never amount to anything and that there is not a woman on earth that hates herself enough to love me. My perspective is that these things are 100 percent true despite having people in my life now that tell me just the opposite. Although extremely irritable and introverted the "friends" I've made recently seem to enjoy my company even if its just over a discord call. 7. Quirky, sarcastic, stoic, caring, hard working, obsessive and passionate about subjects I care about. I am however not very sympathetic or empathetic. I am not the person you talk to about your problems. Ironically making friends has never been hard, I can get along with just about anyone and its a bit like an intimate relationship, eventually your real person begins to show and you get reserved, quiet and start not appearing online or responding to texts for days on end. I've gotten better about just being honest about it and saying the old "its not you its me, You've exhausted me and I'll come back when I feel like i can handle it again". 8. My 2 cats, Merlin and baby. I would like to think they think I'm a good human slave since every morning at 7am I'm met with meows like...human, wehre is food? to which I happily accomodate. I love those creatures and they bring me so much joy and comfort. 9. Work relationships are ok, I've been told quite a bit that my hard work and organization is appreciated and noticed but thats where it ends. To me they are associates- coworkers and not friends, I get along with most of them though. I am closest to a guy much younger than me, we exchange sarcastic name calling and it gives the two of us a good laugh. My emotions on the clock are definitely more reserved but then again its just a produce market so stress levels are very minimal if existent at all. 10. I don't know if I'm able to explain it but I'll try. I'm not intentionally allowing my brain to function this way I just cant help it. Even in a situation where I am very aware that I'm self sabotaging I have no ability to stop it. I hate that this is apart of me, I am literally helpless against my own brain. Some times it feels like I have amnesia. For instance, the best part of my day is for the first few minutes when I'm waking up and I see my both of my cats laying on each side of me, I get up, feed them and make coffee and browse the internet and for that first hour or 2 I think I'm ok, but then, The crippling reminder sets in and I realize how meaningless even getting out of bed truly was. I'm often met with periods of severe dissociation that makes me question if I was even conscious for things I vaguely remember doing and I can't tell you how frightening that is. I feel like I'm a stand-in, in my own life and I don't ever get to be the main character. 11. I would snap my fingers and grant myself the control and power to believe in myself and stop being so fucking scared all of the time. 12. Fake. I'm just acting long enough so I can come home and take off the mask. 13. My cats, more than anything. 14. Memories of her and what she took away from me without even as much as an "I'm sorry" 15. 4, losing myself behind a computer screen does wonders for killing time and putting your brain on auto pilot so that you're not consciously thinking of all the shit you'd just rather forget. Some times it works, some times there is no distraction strong enough to block out the "noise". I play with my cats, play video games, take a walk around my apartment. I've spontaneously decided to buzz my head so that I feel like I'm physically "purifying" my negativety, and also because I look better with short hair. 16. Other than my Father, No. I would be 100 percent dead with out him. 17. Medium skilled? I'm not sure how to really answer this one. 18. My communication is terrible until I reach a breaking point or I'm burnt out, then I just start yelling or disappearing. Does visibly angry count as Honest communication? As I said above, I've gotten better at speaking up before that happens but I've always struggled to stand up for myself. 19. Communication. I'm probably a terrible friend, just about everything has to be on my terms and I'll have to admit that I can very judgemental. I never said I wasn't a hypocrite. 20. If I had a driver's license and my own car. Simple enough, right? 21. Content? 0 Relinguished and accepting? 10 22. Not anymore 23. My entire life is nothing but resentment. I tell them daily, Every time I look in the mirror. 24. I have no idea. Therapists hate this answer by the way because it gives them nothing to work on but its all I have at the moment. I genuinely have no clue. Time's up, Same time next week?
@01keenan104 жыл бұрын
Your thumbnails are always fire 😍
@OzleyASMR4 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😃
@turtlebeachpro04 жыл бұрын
This makes me happy 🙂☺️
3 жыл бұрын
24:01 Dr. Ozley: "Some people are very ungrateful for what they've been given." Jigsaw: "Hello, Listener. I want to play a game."
@catfood_03_4stray4 жыл бұрын
Adorable accent! I 'm not a native speaker nor familiar with British accent, but it sounds very convincing .
@classiccinemac94804 жыл бұрын
Ozley! It's Mac! Nice to see a new ASMR video from you! Watching this at the moment for a comforting Tuesday afternoon! Love the English accent as well:) You're the coolest!
@justinfelton53234 жыл бұрын
Hi, Ozley.☺☺☺☺☺☺. This is amazing video.💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜. When I went to my doctor's appointment last february to check my temperature, I was feeling nervous a little bit about needles that puts in my arm. Although, I'm not afraid of it. Then, the doctor ask some questions like: "Do you have dizziness?, Broken bones? or Allergic to any food?". And I said, " I allergic to orange juice and fish." So, I went to the bathroom to check myself in the mirror to stretch my arms and clear my mind about being scared or something. And finally, when the final test is done, I feel 100% normal with my health. And the psychologist says, "Do you have breakdowns or anything in between?". And I said, "No. I don't have no breakdowns." Then, I went outside and I passed my appointment.☺☺☺☺☺☺☺. So yeah. My doctor's appointment is excellent.👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍. I give this video an A+ for your beautiful accent.💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜. Have fun and stay safe. Love you.💖💖💖💖💖💖💖. Bye.☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍