Bro Betrayed Me With My GF, Then Married Her! Years Later, He's Begging for My Forgiveness?!

[@jemase7931]

Your parents have forgiven him. Well, bless their little hearts. They aren't the ones he stabbed in the back. "He made amends" How? With whom? No, he didn't.

[@princessmarlena1359]

“My parents are religious and think I should forgive him…” I guess they missed the part about the Tenth Commandment, “Thou shalt not _covet!”_

[@Maninawig]

That's just the start. I believe it is the 7th commandment that says Thou shall not commit adultery. And John chapter 14, I believe, says the one thing that will lead God to rebuke a union is adultery. And sleeping with an adulteress, even widdowed, makes you and adulterer. So, the brother and girlfriend coveted, committed adultery, forced the sin upon another, mocked God by asking His blessing of Holy Matrimony, mocked Him by becoming a preacher, and bore a child through their sin.... all of which the parents accepted as Holy and Good.

[@brighterphantom4530]

It's hilarious how people who aren't in the line of fire are so quick to forgive and demand others forgive too.

[@justinchristoph3725]

Paying lip-service to your religion, but playing fast and loose with its' tenets when it suits you does not make you religious. It makes you a hypocrite... and in His eyes as well.

[@nnamdisolu3623]

QQ​@@brighterphantom4530

[@CHICK-A-BOOM]

@@brighterphantom4530FAAAAAAACTS! The sheer audacity!

[@Sauron_is_the_goat]

" here the kicker " " Hes the rock " " Little humen" " Chery on top "

[@MikeSVZ]

AI trying to sound "hip"

[@princessmarlena1359]

@@MikeSVZ **in robotic voice** “A-Whomp-Bomp-A-Doo-Domp!”

[@rolandhansen812]

You don't like kickers? 😉How many football games would be lost without that guy making a field goal? 😜

[@MineQley]

so you don't like it ?

[@Sauron_is_the_goat]

@@MineQley honnestly yes

[@CBTenthusiast-lc6sn]

it took him THREE FUCKING YEARS TO APOLOGIZE!

[@MineQley]

yep

[@bigtex8991]

Death Before Dishonor.

[@michelleayotte2364]

If i were OP I'd wash my hands of them all. I'd go NC with them permanently and block them on all fronts - phone, social media, etc... Plus have my lawyer send them a 'cease and desist' letter.

[@MeJustMe101]

For me, adultery (cheating) is unforgivable for me. If you cheat on once. You get to keep the dude

[@Zeromegas]

"You can forgive him because he become religious!" What bs escuse.

[@jyvben1520]

yeah, religion is poison, just an excuse to force their moronic ways on others, all about power and not doing what the texts sat, but "eye for an eye" and still promoting slavery, the "good" book has bad morals

[@princessmarlena1359]

“Thou shalt not Covet.”

[@Zeromegas]

@@princessmarlena1359 And the Chrustians still Adultery as a Sin and the Brother broke the Bro Code

[@PastorRapture]

The younger brother should have been disowned and disinherited permanently, and frankly, the younger brother is beyond redemption, along with the sperm donor and egg donor. People like this are sociopaths and can never change.

[@southernflight5078]

"It's in the Bible! You have to forgive your brother!" Shall we turn our attention to the 10 commandments, my dear family? Should commit them to memory so you can embarrass anyone who dares to abuse their religion for their own sake.

[@SwampFox01]

if my parents forgave my brother, I would've disowned my parents, it's either him or me. The spoiled brat who steals from his own brother, or the one who was in the right. This is my moral spectrum. you're good to me, I'm good to you.

[@LovelyDilly630]

Sadly, situations like this are all too common. It’s disgusting how people are so quick to demand the victim “forgive and forget.” If I were a parent in this position, and one of my children did this terrible act to my other, I wouldn’t forgive them either. Why is it always on the victim to “forgive and forget” and “be the bigger person”. I’d rather live in a family with common sense and decency, than a fake family that lies, manipulates and gaslights.

[@aleksandarvil5718]

Jay = WIFE MATERIAL 💯😍😮

[@randomnerd1015]

The excuse that the brother won’t cheat with OP’s new girlfriends is seriously kinda insulting. Like good to know you are ok cheating but now the line is when you have a wife and kids so at least you aren’t doing that I guess. This means nothing as it should go unsaid that you shouldn’t do that again especially now that he has a wife and kids.

[@ogieoglethorpe3788]

OP could have saved himself a lot of grief and hassle by walking away from the entire family.

[@CG-yb6zj]

What makes NO sense to me with these situations... If you didn't like OP, why didn't you just BREAK UP instead of cheating and sneaking around?? Worse yet, with fam that think they're justified and act like they won't later cheat on them, too (they did this your brother with you, what makes you think they won't do worse?). "We're family/I love you" And yet you slept with your siblings' lover you KNEW they wished to marry one day. Ugh

[@SkyEcho751]

Nah, this is a very simple situation. He is STILL in the sinful relationship, he's still with the girl who he cheated with, he still hasn't recognized what he did _as wrong_ rather then just saying it's wrong, because his actions don't reflect them. I'd never get with my brother's girlfriend, and I wouldn't forgive my brother if he stole a girlfriend(mine or someone else's). In fact, I'd give the brother legal notice of a 'do not contact' order, telling him in no uncertain terms he must stop this 'reconciliation nonsense' because I won't help him in any way, he burned the bridge, he doesn't get to cross it.

[@melov12345]

It's not hard to know what's fake or not. This one is so fake.

[@Ksinloveee]

Then scroll

[@riotguards]

Here's the thing! AI really can't help itself in using that phrase

[@griffon310]

I was thinking the same thing, I love watching these videos, but this one really made me start to think if they were even real.

[@TheEldritchGod]

@@riotguards - Uhhh... I use that phrase all the time. I am hardly an AI. I have a pressurized internal fluid system just like the rest of you humans. Here's the kicker, just the other day I involuntarily moistened my corneas. I hear all the cool kids are doing that these days.

[@roselockheart4346]

@@Ksinloveeelike you could've, honestly 🤦‍♀️

[@nicholdsouza6482]

Forgiveness comes from within. When ever you feel like it. No can rice forgiveness. You cannot forget 😢

[@davidstroud185]

Listen to reddit stories often and I came to the conclusion that parents suck. "You know that traumatic thing that screwed you up that your sibling did? It's ok, let be a big happy family." Sorry, but not me.

[@sparrowflyaway]

"I've changed, I wouldn't make the same mistake again" says brother, as if that means jack sh*t now that he's MARRIED to the girl he STOLE FROM HIS BROTHER. "He's already said sorry and made amends for his actions" says mother. HOW, exactly? How EXACTLY do you MAKE AMENDS for STEALING YOUR BROTHER'S GIRLFRIEND in such a vile way? 'Cause as far as I can tell, the only attempted "amends" is a pathetic "I'm sorry, I've changed" which does NOTHING to fix the fundamental psychological bonds that were shattered.

[@senecaarnold6651]

I'll definitely move on I won't let them live rent-free in my mind. Bro, you have to live your best life.

[@goodnightmyprince6734]

Does this channel specialise in fake posts

[@femboy__bunny]

Ngl I really don’t care. You can’t trust any story on the internet nowadays unless there’s a credible source of info

[@CindyF1]

They are good stories.

[@w7100]

90% of the good stories on reddit are fake, gotta make the rage porn the people want

[@davidhamilton6883]

My brother in Christ do you know how unoriginal your comment is, even an npc could come up with more original dialogue than you

[@Ksinloveee]

Why do you care? Do these fake stories hurt you in some way? Do they bother you?

[@user-xu2pn4mh3y]

One thing to add, i see comments saying fake and ai generated. Yes, probably right. But stories like these, just like movies or books, tell stories about the human race and how we interact with each other. It may be completely fictional, but why do you think so many people interact with it 🤔 Somewhere in the fiction, there is a non-fictional aspect of life. People recreate these scenarios consciously or subconsciously in real life. Sometimes life is crazier than fiction. There are people out there like the people in this video. It does happen. (When i say things sometimes happen like movies or books i dont mean superpowers).

[@chung2055]

If the parents cheated on each other would they be giving a mulligan to each other? The short answer is no, so why are they telling Op to look the other way when his own brother cheated with his girlfriend at the time.

[@robertcromwell9736]

The golden boy brother preacher with drug issues...

[@edfmed1080]

If my brother did that to me, he would take a trip to 2m underground.

[@RyanBurnsRed]

“Hold on before I dive into that story?” Where are you getting these stories from 😂

[@matejaem]

My guy said TLDR and then repeated every single sentence again

[@Monkeywrench542]

There is nothing wrong with forgiving your brother, but that doesn't mean you have to trust him.

[@Mr_Wick416]

in response to the in n out part, if anyone is ever in the UK then try out cheatmeals in ilford, get the spicy Mexican beef double and get 10 wings, mango habonero flavour and some chips/fries excellent combo

[@w7100]

I've changed. I won't take your girlfriend again. And how did the brother make amends again? Update 2 is a little too much. It should have ended at update 1 😂

[@Hr1s7i]

AI doesn't understand how amends work. If it's real story, then I guess he made amends with his parents? Religious fanatics operate in weird ways.

[@MrOrcshaman]

Maybe the parents in the first should take up Buddhism, because karma hit their cheating son like a bitch

[@DarkHeartTheEmo]

I think OP took the cutting thing too literally, when they say to cut him they are saying go NC, what was already doing it.

[@janteun3]

The ex gf is crazy if she thinks now she choos the wrong brother have a child whith him that he takes her back en, suport her a cheater who have a child from his brother 🤣😅

[@robertdouth8979]

While this is clearly fake it's insane to me that anyone would expect someone to forgive someone who married the living embodiment of his deepest betrayal.

[@orumonuldor1340]

Hah, even if it is, unfortunately it's believable, because IRL people are really that crazy as narcissistic.

[@Business458]

😂😂😂 story 2, she saw all the red flags from the beginning and still went for the bad boy who does drugs/sleeps around. Now she is trying to make it sound as if it wasn't her fault for being in that situation He wasn't jealous or out to get her, sleeping with multiple women and doing drugs is just his lifestyle. She is no different from anyother woman to him and I don't think that he will receive any divine punishment because she should have been looking for a husband in church not in these streets

[@TheEldritchGod]

So... wait... his brother is screwing up and when he's down on his luck, she leaves him and tried to hook back up with the OP? My reply would be, "I would NEVER try to hook up with my brother's wife."

[@VailedHubris]

I wouldn’t even talk to the family that includes them in their lives.

[@CodyJonesXD]

*Where's The Video With The Updates To The Last Story!*

[@zarakikon6352]

I would never forgive nor forget ! You don't do that to anyone.

[@Sauron_is_the_goat]

Why ? Just Why do you repete the original post with stupid style ?

[@Ksinloveee]

Because that’s how they make money??

[@MineQley]

i try to make it good my friend

[@Sauron_is_the_goat]

@@MineQley i know but the second répète is just a waist of Time in m'y opinion m'y Friend Sorry if i sound hostile 🙏

[@WeaponXSigma]

That moment when you rage so hard that not only do you spell REPEAT wrong twice in two different comments

[@ak4390]

No family in their right mind accepts a brother who has an affair with the sibling's girlfriend. You would be disowned in my family for such a thing.

[@Meorotsu]

The really crazy part is he said "after a conversation like that you just need a good burger and fries to decompress" after saying he had in n out.

[@Teezyweez216]

Dude went from TD Jakes to Pookie from New Jack City

[@mariaj6551]

S1 WTF is up with OPs family? It's not hard to block these idiots once it was clear that they didn't care about OPs feelings or the fact OP was moving on. The fact that C had cheated, married the brother and had a baby THEN wanted to come back to OP? Seriously?!

[@smorphous8928]

It’s weird how Ops family expected Op to take back the same girl who cheated on him with his brother. Like she’s already shown herself to be a cheater and not trustworthy so them expecting Op to just forgive her is weird?

[@darthmadeus]

Forgive, but do not forget. And forgiveness is for the person who is hurt, not for the person who caused the hurt. Also, forgiveness does not mean you can/should have a relationship with the person going forward. Wish them well and move along

[@bcarr424]

He in no way made amends. He engaged in some facile discussion and said some words that in no way obliged him to do anything or change anything aspect of this life. He has no remorse, he simply feels entitled to forgiveness.

[@christianbenn316]

No way that i'll give a 2nd chance for such betrayal so never accept another repeat.

[@alamgirhossain4094]

I actually dont mind if the story is fake or not. But this seems too good to be true. This is like a movie and the OP is the protagonist with insane plot armor

[@doublejace]

12:17-12:26 He's a fortunate man to have such a wonderful person.

[@BrettHugh-c6d]

Adulterer brother and gf, religious parents and he didn't bring up scripture once??? lol

[@rerolol]

jay? jay lethal 😂😂

[@queenrhubarb1676]

I despise the keep the peace mentality.

[@DCD762]

Religious parents? They definitely aren't that religious if they are so easy to forgive such betrayal I'm guessing OP brother was the golden child

[@clarissagafoor5222]

This story makes no sense. Look at everyone's ages and the time frame. VERY disrespectful to those who follow this creator!

[@shekemaReid]

Damn. This story hits home😢

[@lawrenceobeng-hp2fh]

Bro didn’t even know they broke up Damn

[@TheGrandy123]

It is not only the fact he "took" op's gf but also how. Only thinking about them. She could have broken properly. He could have talk to his brother. Etc. Everything was wrong...what they did it. How they did it. What they are asking now. They just have to accept the consequences of their actions. Apologize and wait. Not just demand. Because all this it, to them to feel good, not thinking about op (again).

[@shadowcollins4589]

I think people are mixing up forgiveness and keeping the people who did you wrong in your life You can forgive someone without keeping them in your life. You don't owe anyone who did stuff to mess you up to keep them in your life Kick them out of your life but don't hate them That's forgiveness Forgiveness does not mean you have to keep getting abused

[@prestow]

3:59 She can forgive him all she wants, she can't ask someone else to forgive. By the way, the person must be sorry and make reparations before being forgiven.

[@prestow]

5:27 He said he's changed. How? Did he leave the cheating wife? Did he go to a monastery for 3 years to learn to be a better person? At least that I would expect as change.

[@prestow]

5:59 Not his place to act like the past was just a tiny mistake. He would have to ask the betrayed one how big was the impact and how can he fix it.

[@prestow]

6:13 Betray your brother, then jump into religion so everything is magically forgiven once you say sorry. That's very convenient.

[@Kobodyguard]

I don't care if you found Jesus, Buddha, SpongeBob or whatever doing that to anyone let alone someone you "love" is a big no no. Blood doesn't mean anything. All that matters is loyalty and respect.

[@dtownblastinsalvi62]

I would block them all

[@ShaiOsman]

Bro this sounds like chatgpt ong

[@forfathom]

Bro i got so confused when it said "story 2" and started talking like our narrator was a girl. I thought i was tripping balls.

[@danielbob2628]

I mean, I sympathize, but OP doesn't know what forgiveness is. All of his given reasons have nothing to do with it. Putting up with him in your life? Suddenly not being hurt at all? Neither apply. Wishing him well but needing him to be out of your life *is* a type of forgiveness, and that's what OP did more than once. I think this is a Protestant thing.

[@hacream111]

bro this story changes every update

[@Renrens-LionessofJudah]

How did he make amends with his brother?

[@user-xu2pn4mh3y]

Forgiving the brother is the right thing to do? How about not stringing a guy along for years, making him have sloppy seconds from his own brother. Not telling him she didn't even like him for years. What about a brother not being honest and telling him what was going on and how they felt about eachother when they started their affair. If they where honest from the start it wouldnt have come to that. Sure op would have needed time to realise his new gf wanted to be with his brother but he would bounce back. But not after years of being lied to cheated on and finding out the way he did. If you dont care about him finding out and are as arrogant as they where when he confronted them, then why string him along for years. You dont care now you didn't care then. It just seems like they wanted to hurt him at this point.

[@JhonDot-fm1ms]

Laying it on thick

[@evanmurphy4632]

the way this family uses forgiveness, you would think it was a pseudonym for manipulation, not release. Op. should stop referring to him as his brother, and start referring to him as his parents son. and start referring to his parents using their first names. he needs to make it clear to them in a manner they comprehend that their disrespect in the name of forgiveness will be reciprocated with disrespect in the name of boundaries. that they will have to work at making amends to earn back the privileged of being seen and refereed to as mom and dad.

[@ErikBoyd-k8q]

Was this an ad for In and Out in disguise?

[@kelanasmith5927]

I don't blame you for what you did considering they made you have to re-learn the basic human ability to TRUST!

[@Drewa5195]

These are all AI generated right? None of the decisions these people make sense. They seem to take a long time to get to the point.

[@kristymartinez3022]

Not the In-N-Out

[@Kiarean]

If you are a christian, then forgiveness is mandatory. If you are not, then as a christian I still believe it's best to forgive - not for the offender's sake but as a way to let go of the pain and anger. Most importantly, many christians in the parent's place forget that forgiveness doesn't mean pretending nothing happened, the offender still needs to deal with consequences of their actions. On the other hand, people in OP's position often don't realize that forgiveness isn't an emotion, it's an ACTION. You remember what happened, feel pain and anger, then you forgive them. When you remember again, you forgive them again. You may end up forgiving them dozens or even hundreds of times, but that doesn't matter because you are telling your brain that you have consider the situation resolved and have chosen to move on. In the end, I find it helpful to think of the brain as a wild animal who is your lifelong companion for better or worst and like most wild animals (especially ones you wish to make use of) you need to know it's tendencies and condition it.

[@hausofezzy3955]

Christianity is a joke. Telling someone they need to forgive those who hurt them is gaslighting. If OP is at peace, that’s all that matters.

[@AC0smic_Z00m]

​@@hausofezzy3955 You didn't fully understand what they said. If you forgive them, the forgiving is for *your* benefit. It is not to say, (example), "Oh, he cheated on me. I can give him another chance," but more like a "This has happened, I can't change it, and I'll make sure it doesn't happen again." Just because you forgive them does not mean that you let them back into your life. It's like putting stitches on a deep cut. So yeah, if OP is at peace, then maybe he is a bit resentful or regretful, but he has acknowledged the fact that what happened has happened.

[@doublejace]

20:50-21:08 ...😮...that hits deep!

[@Indoraptor-i3l]

Ngl that was a Lil bit funny when he said This will not happen again I mean c'mon bro you was planning for again, goddamn 😅

[@beeniecat9411]

Don't covet thy neighbors wife is lost on this family.

[@lodunost]

Story 1 Brother said he wouldn't make the same mistake again. HA! Why did he make it the first time? The chick did this to his younger brother but really how does the brother really expect things to end between him and his now wife. She is willing to lie, cheat, betray and do other things so like how did he think things were really going to go. OP shouldn't have done any reconnecting, I think it's a mistake that will come back to haunt him. Story 2 How can you not know an STI comes from? Comical, you know your own history and if it's not you it's him.

[@winkmink7709]

You don't have to forgive people who destroy your trust. You know what, I dislike religious people who go on about "forgiveness" because trash people became "religious." Don't be friends with untrustworthy people.

[@The_narrator_fish]

What a story !

[@sniperwolf7]

Okay, I'm a little confused here. First post, Si is married to bro with baby. Update, Si is texting him to try and get back together and is being supported by others. Huh?

[@samuelwashington637]

In my honest opinion you should just forgive and forget and just cut them out of your life And just move on instead like I forgive you I'm gonna forget But I also have to forget you And move on with my life because I may have forgiving you But that doesn't mean I want you around in my life anymore You betrayed my trust I had trust problems because of you This is for the best for everyone and you must accept it and leave it how it is That's it that song that's final.

[@tonyhupp2379]

I mean, OP is definitely holding a grudge, I'm not saying it's wrong, but let's call a pot a pot. I don't know what therapy he did, but any good therapist knows that the path of forgiveness is the best way to heal and let go of the pain, even if relationships never mend. Forgiving someone isn't for the person who hurt you, it's just for you. Either way, this is clearly fake.

[@jimmycecil7621]

Family are the first people to screw you over. Never forgive a cheater.

[@edgarallanalejandro641]

Do religious people forget about the story of adam and able it's not just about brother murdering brother it's about betrayal and jealousy.

[@saltwatertaffy7020]

You mean Cain and Abel; Adam was their father.

[@uuunknown1]

the cheating stories on this channel is 👌🏽☕️

[@marywilson3157]

The background game on this site is SUPER ANNOYING! I might have to leave this site for good as I can't sand the constant hopping

[@TheyCallMeJay]

As soon as i heard 'and heres the kicker' i thought great, just as i was getting into it, i realise its AI generated

[@WeaponXSigma]

And here's the kicker, No AI was harmed during the making of this response. Maybe this post was AI generated, maybe not.

[@justisolated5621]

Bro stop with the "here's the kicker" or "there i was" IT'S REPETITIVE AND ANNOYING PLEASE

[@Vipershadow1]

It’s always the people who weren’t wronged screaming forgive the person knowing damn well they wouldn’t do it had it Ben them. It’s not even really about the girl is the trust between brothers that mattered that he broke cause women can be replaced but trust in family once broken isn’t an easy thing to mend. So it would be F him F her idc about your kids and stay out of my life forever.

[@Chuckf66]

Ugh. The Abrahamic zombie death cults really are the worst.

[@WeaponXSigma]

Abrahamic zombie death cults? What in the bluest of blue hells?

[@whisp7392]

Religious parents who forgive cheating, not so religious anymore, lmfao

[@dominiclhouvum8231]

I listen to stories to help me sleep but this one is ridiculous and plain BORING

[@Odd_Interaction]

S1: Stinking religious hypocrites, seems to me your brother and ex broke at least two commandments if not three of them. While OP is NTA, his parents, ex-brother and ex girlfriend are most definitely major league arseholes. Somethings cannot be unseen, unheard, undone or unforgotten. While hard to do, I would consider going full NC with all of them and anyone that supports them. Blood does not make them your family, clearly they don’t consider OP as being worthy of respect, loyalty or honesty. Integrity as well as the above seems to be lacking in this family, go out and make your own family.

[@mikedevonish3933]

Most all of them do. Only 2 that I know of I consider legit and even they go "if real" when it seems whacky. I like the fictional ones for fun. The 2 referenced are SSM and True Story

[@RudOby]

13:26 he's so lame no wonder she left him argh!!!

[@cowardlylion3223]

The original was better. Why did AI ruin it “I was her lifeboat in a sea chaos” like what? This was an actual Reddit post but it was changed for the worst

[@JustLazyArt]

Even I know this is fake 💀

[@StewBrewer84]

This is definitely written by a woman. Too repetitive and focused on the wrong things.