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[@LeagueofLegendsCoaching]

Just a reminder not to send any hate to him

[@kurtnevermind9683]

Hey Neace. I think you did really good in terms of understanding your limits and your resonsibility. You're totally right: you're not a shrink. I'm just not sure if it is such a good/nice idea to put this coaching on KZbin. Yes, it was on a stream, but putting it on youtube does in fact exhibit him as the mentally challenged person he (clearly) is. It was interesting to watch it, but it might not be fun at all for him to see this video on youtube, to read the comments here and the comments in the chat. I'm not into psychology either, so I dan't really tell; but maybe somebody else here can. But if it is (reghtly) important to you that nobody sends him any hate, flame, that nobody trolls him and stuff then at least blur out the accountname if you can somehow.

[@EVO_Bzil]

Bro… this guy asked YOU for coaching but then doesnt want to listen. I would end his session and no refund. He looks like an ahole infront of the whole community now. Neace you did everything very well and composed yourself amazing! I had a hard time believing you would hold your chill this whole time but you did great!!🎉

[@t3rmi345]

interesting coaching session neace xD

[@aim4dabush891]

@@kurtnevermind9683When you sign up you can choose to be on KZbin or not. So when you see a coaching video the student is the one who wanted to be on KZbin.

[@omgsmsteel]

Without any i hate i genuinely think the guy needs to see a psychiatrist. I'm being really serious, no jokes. I'm having a diagnosis myself and being interested in psychology due to my problems, so it's not just random rant. If you can contact him still maybe you can toss the idea to him at least.

[@cameronsmith9562]

"Do you think the Brand was trying to push us off to prevent the level 2?" Bro, I can speak from experience that the only thing that Brand thought about was, "I'm gonna hit this Kai'sa with my spell hehe."

[@UCEZe5ozeYkF5VJSX2GLfUjA]

he didn't even think that he just auto piloted pressed the button, that's how low elo players play the game. source: am low elo.

[@MistbornTaylor]

@@UCEZe5ozeYkF5VJSX2GLfUjA As a low elo adc player, it's like a miracle when my support actually pushes for level 2.

[@jimmyneutron3282]

Thresh Kaisa should have easily won that lvl1 and 2 but they suck at trading

[@hommoniia8634]

He literally just walked off position taking agro from 2 waves XD, he was onto something we can't comprehend

[@kaynkayn9870]

@@UCEZe5ozeYkF5VJSX2GLfUjA I do it too, im mid elo. Damage graph goes brrrrrr

[@Guilez18]

he is exactly what i would expect a hardstuck bronze player to be like

[@doublevision84]

you would know you are that guy

[@guilhermec.934]

Hardatuck for 11 years dude, so sad

[@Stevedola11]

So obviously bronze its hurts.

[@gamingdboy2717]

When I was b4/i1 i thought I deserved bronze 2-silver 4 I am now realizing how bad I actually was

[@Khaozdubz]

Im plat and this is what I expect any of my teamates to be like XDDDDDDDDD

[@thomasgarciachapelut]

the chat comment "can I lose elo watching this" started an unstoppable laugh in my living fuckin hell xD

[@SmallPotato2313]

Maybe not elo but def braincells 😂

[@shockwavelol4236]

The fact he doesn’t realize people calling him “ai” is an insult is absolutely amazing

[@cykablyat867]

That is amazing XDDD

[@kraven7655]

Honestly i think he lied about everything. I doubt he ever did anything in real life. He is crazy

[@Robzabest25]

thats ai

[@septimus378]

@@kraven7655i’m not sure if he’s lying or legitimately schizo

[@Gabtube252]

@@kraven7655 He probably did a lot of things in his youth. My theory is that his service in the army totally fucked him up.

[@mikemaue6868]

"Two years ago I discovered I had a stalker, and suddenly all my difficulties with league of legends started to make sense." good stuff

[@theclimbfam469]

Idk why this sounds epic af😂

[@kaynkayn9870]

It was lowkey intriguing and entertaining up until it wasn't.

[@popo-vt4bj]

nah it's sad man, you shouldn't mock this guy

[@UpperChores]

that's such a good starting script for an oscar worth movie.

[@kokovahnn2647]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😩

[@matheusreidopedaco]

This video could easily be the object of study for a PHD thesis on psychology.

[@fvlse_]

💀honestly though

[@niels8195]

I'm a psychologist, and this was fascinating.

[@JC-fd8ho]

@@niels8195 so is the guy being coached mentally ill?

[@kaybrandon3083]

@@JC-fd8hopeople in the comments are saying this guy is dead now sadly

[@hawken5346]

​@@kaybrandon3083 really?

[@xAkiramero]

He sounds very dismissive. Like the only reason he got a coaching session is to receive "validation" that his delusion is truth.

[@anthonygregoric4336]

Agreed, sorry buddy in the video. You're smart, and use your advanced vocabulary to try to justify everything. You also use a tad of gaslighting to manipulate, and in doing so you skew everything to your truth. Cope off the charts is basically what I'm saying.

[@ferallemur]

I feel like this used to be much more common back before Neace's coaching blew up in popularity and his prices went through the roof. That was also when coaching was done via VOD review instead of the current backseat driving. But back when it was like $30 or $50 for a session, there were a bunch of people who would book a coaching session looking for validation rather than coaching. They'd direct him to a specific VOD and say, "See?!? SEE WHAT I HAVE TO DEAL WITH?!? ELO HELL EXISTS!" Neace never gave them that validation. Seeing this video and thinking back on it, I feel like there's an opening for somebody to make some money. I would accept $50/hour to have "clients" rant about how bullshit their games are, and then just agree with them. I could dub my chat "The echo chamber" and train them to play along. It would be extremely therapeutic, and everybody would win (except for the clients, who would keep losing, obviously).

[@nathanclarke7162]

@@anthonygregoric4336 The gaslighting really bothers me it's just so upsetting to see him tell Neace he's yelling and he seems very upset when he's clearly not. It must have been effective for him in the past if it's his go to move when he's frustrated or not getting his way.

[@ziggybax5641]

@@ferallemur if u only take clients like these? im fucking down to be one of those echoes

[@CoachSorest]

As a coach, I could almost immediately tell the client was there for the validation, not to learn. Those are the clients that just waste their time, because they're not open to learn. It just becomes a therapy session. This guy in particular, quite clearly also have a mental illness that I hope he gets sorted, miserable to see someone in that state.

[@liamoxd9416]

Bro didnt want coaching, he wanted to be called a good boy

[@bongvicta4545]

literally

[@bryanbryan6108]

I honestly think it’s way deeper than that. Serious mental illness.

[@liamoxd9416]

@@bryanbryan6108 Ye ik, wrote the comment like 7 min into the vid.

[@CulturedClassics]

Hence the army. Hence why they placed him in infantry. His personality screams for it. I imagine, whatever this guy is good at, he's abusive to anyone and everyone who steps in that realm.

[@sammyhonerd677]

@@bryanbryan6108 I think ya'll are stupid and need to learn how to think critically. This was arguably the best troll I've ever seen. He had Neace fully convinced and bought in. He literally regurgitated EVERY single Mentally ill bronze take. It was a troll. How does nobody see this?

[@andrewbyrnes6389]

"Uh-huh, uh-huh. Yeah. Sure. Ok. Sure." I met a guy like this in real life - it's intolerable.

[@rvgGhost]

Me and my buddies have a guy like this in our gaming group. Needless to say, I rarely game with him xD

[@bardlegend1249]

Mental illness is not a joke and I think NEACE handled this very professionally considering the circumstances

[@maoushine6077]

Yeah agreed I mean i would not be able to stay with thay guy and talk like that He just talk and talk doesnt want to learn and thinks he is good but he isnt

[@NatalieIR]

@@maoushine6077 which is ironic because the 1 thing you'd assume to get you through the army is to shut up and follow directions.

[@maoushine6077]

@@NatalieIR dude the guy payed for cauch session and is not listening he just wants neace to say ok u are good which he wont say😂

[@scoozilife]

Yeah 100%… This kid is almost unwatchable even. It’s never his fault. He is over analyzing things bc it makes him feel better about his place in the ladders. So he can say he knows a lot and it’s everyone else’s fault bc he did well. Problem is he’s not doing well but is so blinded by his own conception of himself that he’s unable to even admit that he is in fact probably just a silver player… which isn’t bad? Who cares lol if you have fun then screw the rank tbh. Top 3 least favorite people I’ve seen in these videos and might take the cake tbh.

[@scoozilife]

@@maoushine6077 he just paid 400 or whatever to get his name and voice with Neace on KZbin. He legit never says a single things that isn’t confusing af or going directly in opposition to what he is doing in the vid or what he said literally 18 seconds ago 😂 why did you smite? Oh bc I wanted to sustain health! Yeah but blue smite doesn’t heal.. yeah I know! But you just said you did it to heal… yeah I did it to kill faster yeah. Like wtf is he even talking about lol just makes shit up to pass time until he can show Neace senpai his “cool plays”

[@ATDF1]

Dude your patience is insane. I can't believe someone would pay for a coaching with zero intention to learn

[@erikstrand9876]

probably just wanted the attention since no one is going to tolerate being in this convo for free.

[@DarkPrinceNeo]

@@erikstrand9876 It wasn't for the attention. He might have left the military not satisfied and is now trying to prove himself in a video game. It was more likely he wanted validation from a higher level player. He needs a therapist / psychologist.

[@afroraykun]

@@DarkPrinceNeo Agreed; what he was after was a high-level player telling him, "You're absolutely right; you're so much better than your rank."

[@lessie3396]

To actually think u can make a diagnosis about a guy from a discord call. Lmao u mad?

[@EpicNoob838]

@@lessie3396 I don't see why not, obviously you'd need to be trained in psychology/psychiatry but a conversation is a conversation and an hour and a half is plenty of time to get at least some kind of idea of what you're dealing with. Maybe not to for sure diagnose but to notice there is a mental health issue, for sure.

[@alan5496]

He's in love with his intelligence, you could tell right off rip when he listed all his military accolades. He's having a hard time accepting that real life results don't reflect the way he sees himself.

[@fishstks9677]

What’s best about that is how being good at league has absolutely nothing to do with intellect. The only thing that matters is cognitive flexibility, of which this guy has zero.

[@zezenkop412]

Military is for dumb people anyway

[@anxtruthlol8554]

This guy said it was hard to play with Neace yelling in his ear???? This is probably the calmest coaching I've ever seen from him LMAO

[@JordyfromNZ]

Neace definitely knew this guy was somewhat special so had to tread a little more carefully xD

[@mz2728]

This guy was trying to shift blame. Definitely used manipulation tactics on MANY occasions during the clip.

[@omgsmsteel]

When Neace said "i can talk a little softer" i died irl. God this is content :D

[@christopherwray4788]

@@JordyfromNZFor sure. Neace coulda just yelled at him and got him to rage quit the coaching but Neace is a good guy. He actually tried TRIED to give the guy what he paid for instead of just booting him like most people would. Props to Neace he seems like a genuinely good man underneath his usual content bluster

[@giorgospapadopoulos7033]

Didn't this guy also began this session by stating he was in the military? However, doing things while other people yell in your ear what to do right makes this difficult?

[@truthspeaker6689]

This is the most calm Neace has ever been. This is due to the realization that he's dealing with a crazy guy.

[@thordale]

​@@thebeezkneez7559he's not a narcissist, its most likely paranoid schizo

[@tenalpoen]

I kind of wish he had just played along and confirmed everything the guy wanted to believe instead of trying to tell him anything.

[@thordale]

@@tenalpoen this is not the correct approach, tbf, because doing that can boost the roots of the problem to grow even deeper. If you are confronting delusional people, at least you're putting a seed of common sense, they're starting to question themselves, sort of fighting with the delusion. The other thing is that you have to do it in a proper way, to which, as Neace said, he is not qualified enough

[@lolersauresrex8837]

@@thordaleyeah but it would have been funny

[@styx953]

@@thebeezkneez7559 Narcissist vs Narcissist... the battle...

[@SteveEricJordan]

42 year old man with two children pays hundreds of dollars to show thousands of people online that he's mentally ill, instead of spending the money on his family.

[@ayosid3434]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@zaferoph]

Naaaaah be chill bro is actually schizophrenic and this makes sense to him internally.

[@MHGFTW]

Harsh, but it's true. Guy should have paid for a few sessions with a therapist before getting this coaching. There's dome delusion going on for sure...

[@Devon_Howell]

Didn’t the video start with his kids getting back from the doctors? Then he said he was too busy to get evidence together for his conspiracy theory. Should probably be spending his gaming time with his kids

[@mladenstankovic3148]

Being stuck in bronze is the least of this guy's problems. I hope he gets help.

[@YourKyckling]

I can't be bothered to see the whole video but a lot of people say that, why? Because he's a narcisistic and wont listen?

[@heyitsscottyo]

​@@YourKycklingNah man, I doubt he's actually a narcissist. He strikes me more of someone who suffers from SchizoEffective disorder. The gang stalking was a clear indicator of that.

[@YourKyckling]

@@heyitsscottyo Do you have any timestamp or general idea of where in the video it's emphasized? I don't know if I'll watch the whole video.

[@heyitsscottyo]

@@YourKyckling To be honest, I think its counter intuitive to just time stamp the evidence. If you want to understand its important for you to spend the time and listen to it unravel to build an understanding on how a mentally ill person's thought pattern works. Otherwise you're just coming off as someone who wants to gawk and I ain't down with that, Schizo effective disorder is a prison for everyone involved. Neace also puts on a Masterclass on how to handle a touchy situation like this.

[@crispyghost1415]

​@@heyitsscottyodude are you ok? It's not that deep you weirdo 😂your online examination of a psychology article doesn't make you a professional and intelligent 😂

[@liammcneill843]

I knew people coped hard, but not this hard

[@Giggles4692]

being hardstuck in bronze takes some amazing coping skills

[@edgarjaimelazcano2200]

After my games I watch the replays and notice so many mistakes from both teams that it's just dumb how low game sense we have very little to no gamesense (written by a hardstuck bronze for 2 years and currently silver haha)

[@richardcoelho]

It's ok tô have confidence, as longo as he can hear the truth and try to improve like that, one of the abilities that comes with time os to bê able to reccognize How bad you are

[@the_armada5579]

​@EDGAR JAIME LAZCANO a quick bit of advice that helped me climb was the offense/defense rule. If you have more minions, you play on offense. If you have less, you play on defense. It's a really small thing that seems obvious but it's amazing how often people ignore it. Minions hurt lol

[@deedub81]

This guy is actually fascinating. He’s actually so insecure that he can’t admit to himself that he does anything wrong. If you want to improve, you MUST examine your mistakes.

[@tylerr472]

46:57 "i thought that you might understand" fuck man, that's the sadest thing ive heard in one of these coaching sessions in a while.

[@CulturedClassics]

Its manipulative

[@Nova-mz9if]

@@CulturedClassics guy was going through a manic episode and clearly suffering mentally, sadly he commited suicide.

[@CulturedClassics]

​@Nova-mz9if thanks for the info. Makes sense, you got a link?

[@cameronnewberry2022]

@@Nova-mz9iflol how do you know this

[@marcusmaynard1526]

@@cameronnewberry2022bro he’s making that shit up lol

[@Rennesz]

This is one of the most bizarre, awkward, uncomfortable and at the same time comical coaching sessions I have ever seeen. Felt like I was watching an episode of black mirror. Props to you Neace for humoring him!

[@978NAY]

making fun of people with personality disorder is th way to? laughing at people in need of help is the solution?

[@batmanyk]

@@978NAY dont worry about this. This called overconfidence. Its not sickness. Another word for this - believer. I work a lot with people of this type of mind and there are many of them. Trump is example. He doesn`t need help, right?

[@978NAY]

@@batmanyk it isn't just overconfidence, because the problem *isn't* his confidence, the problem is that he's paranoid and sees thing that aren't there. Yes, Trump also has some problems amd shouldn't be let lead an entire country (or anything really), but whatever Trump has is completely different to the one of this kid. You might worked with confident people, but you aren't a psychiatrist and you don't notice and know what they do.

[@derbestimmer1148]

​@@978NAY Trump should not lead anything? 😂 Do you listen to yourself? One of the most successful businessmen in the world, setting up one of the best administrations in the US for the common ppl should not lead anything? And let me guess, when I ask you to back that up, you can tell me that he is racist and hates Mexicans and Women. Quite delusional.

[@escapegrass]

@@batmanyk trump objectively needs help

[@Grand_Army]

He turned toxicity into a conspiracy theory. Give this man an award

[@anatole088]

HAHAHAHAHAH you made my day.

[@deanlister510]

LMFAOOOOOOO

[@cudiedgar]

brain saving mode to the max

[@LuneScar]

he’s so passive aggressive it’s so fucking frustrating to deal with these types of people, he legit can’t admit that he made a mistake, then to cover it all up he uno reverses you with the ‘you sound pissed off’ this guy is so manipulative, worst types of ppl to deal with

[@LoLTronguy]

He literally paid for coaching to just say he knew it all

[@joshwalton25]

He paid in the hope that Neace would confirm his theories

[@Mambojambobombastic]

No, he paid to get his conspiracy theories validation

[@cwhit2575]

He's most likely on disability. So we paid for this

[@imnotme1657]

@@cwhit2575 Yeah that was my thought, this dude is DEFINITELY on some kind of military retirement with severe issues. It's funny as a coaching session but I imagine his situation isn't great. I've known guys on retirement for mental shit and it's really sad to see it up close.

[@trevorromney3589]

It's easy to laugh initially, but then it's very clear that this is a person who is struggling with something. Hopefully there is some help out there for him.

[@AoT540]

I felt bad for him man

[@kokovahnn2647]

I hope not. Airheads doesn't deserve the oxigen they are robbing from the rest of us.

[@cykablyat867]

Dunning Kruger Effect

[@Mulmgott]

@@cykablyat867 More like schizoaffective disorder. Has nothing to do with dunning kruger.

[@snakeplays8889]

i love that he gets pissed when you correct him every time. "yup yup yup yup" while you are talking. amazing guy

[@berry5087]

This is almost unwatchable how uncoachable this guy is being. Kudos for the patience.

[@yurilopes420]

"an antagonist" his name lmao

[@kevinpeixes3735]

@@Consumer0001 they exist, i had the displeasure of meeting one irl. We nicknamed him after the pokemon Bidoof, for how useless he was. Maybe that was harsh on bidoof.

[@kikibombon22]

Kudos to the patience? This coach, while he does have the game knowledge to pass on to people, has ABSOLUTELY NO social skill in terms of coaching. When someone comes to you, asking for coaching you don't slam dunk on them like this. An unnecessarily aggressive stance like this is not efficient. If anything the hard stuck bronzie here has been given nothing but hostility through the entire ordeal. The player had questions and opinions because of the way he learned to play the game. Instead of probing the player's opinion and then dismantling it for effective coaching he goes guns blazing and asks rhetorical questions like "What am I assuming?". As we went on the player said "You sound like you're really pissed off right now", this is a sign of a FUCKING WALL that the coach constructed with the lack of empathy he's shown. Is the player insufferably delusional? Yes, however if the real coaching here is a lesson in humility there are more efficient ways to teach it. I think the player regretted even trying to learn anything from this guy and probably picked up on less than half the tips that were given just because of how he handled the interaction.

[@joshuarouse5898]

When youre bad and refuse to believe anything other than youre great, yeah you kinda need a hard dose of reality or chances are youre always going to be bad. I dont feel bad for the guy. As soon as you try to say youre stuck in bronze for reasons other than yourself, youre too delusional to help.@@kikibombon22

[@treewisps4085]

for 350$ ill deal with your BS for an hour and a half lol

[@kurtslavain]

-[Tells him a useful advice he'd never think of] -I know that! [immediately changes whatever his plans were to take the advice]

[@DinosaurSuccess]

unfortunately a common thing in schizophrenics. the sad part is he probably has no idea that he is doing this. the logical tricks are so good that he tricks himself into believing it all :(

[@Arize13373]

@@DinosaurSuccess has nothing to do with schizophrenia.

[@bobbzen990]

Oh really.. To me it looked like he said "I know that" and then continue what he was already doing...^^

[@CarboKill]

I knew a non-schizo like this. He was just a moron. Arrogance and ignorance is the worst combo, so pathetic.

[@momchilandonov]

@@DinosaurSuccess schizophrenia is generally paranoia, but many times mistook for Dissociative identity disorder (multiple identities).

[@m.streicher8286]

Mathew Nesheim was his name. You can find his obituary online easily. Details all match, I'm sure it's him. Mental illness isn't a joke guys. Tell your family you love them, never be embarrassed or afraid to ask for help.

[@mnczuba]

None of the details match. Someone that he identified as his eldest daughter walked into the room at the beginning of the video: Nesheim's obituary said he had two sons.

[@IIIlIl]

​@@mnczuba I understood it as it being his oldest son?

[@darianlalla8322]

i love the "dumbass im telling you, how are you a coach when you're this abrasive" while neace is calmly asking rational questions based on his theory

[@krethro]

neace is calm but he's also loud lol😅

[@maniacpwnageking]

To be fair, in that sense Neace is a really bad coach. He has a great grasp on the game, but he has little grasp on how to get people to listen to him. Now you could say that's on the player, which is true, but a great coach would be much better negotiating situations with more resistant clients, never letting it get to the point of arguing.

[@darianlalla8322]

@@maniacpwnageking I mean, his job is to give information and tell people what they need to improve and how to implement that, which he does pretty well, if someone pays 250$ and then decides to not listen I don't blame the coach for that, that's just stupidity on the learners part

[@fisher00769]

@@maniacpwnageking there is no getting this guy to listen to him, he is clinically delusional

[@LordKoKuyou]

@@maniacpwnageking Dude you are as delusional as that guy on the video. Negotiating with the client? If the guy doesn't want to listen to the couch he PAID for then it's not the couch's fault. The guy is just stupid.

[@ethanross1426]

Sometimes you just can't help people if they don't want to help themselves. "I know" "I know" "I know" "I know" my brother in christ, if you know you wouldn't be negative w/r in bronze.

[@themanas100]

What i think in their mind they are trying to say is "i understand" but are doing it very wrongly

[@Guilez18]

@@themanas100 nah, this guy was saying it more in a ''stfu i know what im doing'' kind of way, he wasnt saying that he understood, he was telling neace that he was annoying him lol

[@pooplord6688]

@@themanas100 He doesn't understand. Or there is a disconnect between his intellectual understanding and his embodied understanding. That theory document of his might as well be gibberish. He can probably recite half of it but doesn't really know what any of it means.

[@themanas100]

@@pooplord6688 Yeah you're right, thats the thing with people ranging from silver->plat, they hear lots of concepts in league like freezings, tempo, rotating, etc.. but they dont really understand even 5% of it and they think they understand 95% of it, and this guy thinks he understands 950% of it xD

[@sethkang4410]

its already bad that hes stuck since season 2 lmfao

[@unsheath]

Guys name is Matthew Nesheim and he passed away at 43 earlier this year. Everything bro was saying about his irl was actually the truth.

[@davidwest6019]

wow he actually died jan this year at the age of 43, that is tragic

[@VDViktor]

Source

[@fahmo_]

what's crazy is that after some digging i was able to find that his wife filed a restraining order on him or something. not that hard to find if you were able to find that he passed away. very unfortunate story overall.

[@emoangel942]

How'd you know thats actually him?

[@meir34610]

@@emoangel942 because he put his real name on discord

[@williammacnamara773]

You know, this video has shown me that Neace is actually really good with kids.

[@JohnIvoryMusic]

😂😂

[@humannfinn7117]

I mean He was basically paid to be a responsible parent. Otherwise he would just be considered enabling and negligent 😅. This was a wild ride.

[@anhoang2917]

Haha lol, very true mann

[@Schorschdieter]

Honestly I just think neace is really good at coaching and the only reason his coaching is so expensive but still booked out always is because he is the best coach. He isn’t the best league player he is also older than most but it doesn’t matter because he is the only league coach that is actually good at coaching and not just at playing league

[@ГабриелХристов-о6ж]

the guy was 42 tho didnt you hear that :D

[@Rittich]

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[@jimbomcgee7498]

This is poetic

[@danialzulkarnain1680]

This is what i expect someoe who played this game for 10 plus yes and stuck in gold.

[@Hydralisk77]

Scrim Server: The Protagonists' Trap

[@MessyJesterGaming]

One of the best comments I've read! 👌 😅

[@lukewilmington9807]

This is quality

[@braedenlocke6820]

TY for treating the guy with some respect while also genuinely trying to help him. Getting him thinking about his next move on the map and not "Living" in the moment is the best thing he could have been told. Trashing him wouldn't have helped at all and he clearly has some stuff going on. Good vid.

[@combo2heell3]

Guys I was in the military, therefore I am better than silver in League of Legends

[@combo2heell3]

This is just unwatchable lmao holy ego

[@mysticflow467]

so you're making fun of neace? wo

[@luvaboy]

@@mysticflow467 hes making fun of the guy hes coaching.

[@ferallemur]

This is a gross oversimplification. He also has an MBA, and multiple google docs.

[@mysticflow467]

@@luvaboy osh

[@blazepower7625]

Neace losing it and trying to gauge how crazy the client is by asking him if the earth is flat is some of the funniest thing I've seen

[@muhammadalshawsh3887]

after the earth q i was waiting for did nasa land on the moon q ...... followed by alliens q directly (^_^)

[@ruimsilva95]

Holy crap. Neace's patience level is off the charts with this one. I would open with "look, do you want to escape bronze or do you want to be a victim?"

[@energyjtww]

Fyi guys, this is actually textbook schizophrenia. I went through something similar with my mother in law. NOTE: Not all schizophrenia are dangerous so don't judge for that. Also the "Do ypu micro manage your troops this way?" Makes me suspect other things.

[@vaxxeenmtg9733]

yeah the stalking was a giveaway

[@alexwheatley541]

It’s 2 weeks later and I can’t help but keep coming back to this “coaching” it’s so fascinating to me. You could do a case study on this

[@odiousrevelation3049]

I can't stop watching either. This dude is so delusional. If he knows everything that neace is saying why is he paying for coaching? This dude is such a goober. Hahaha he's getting so mad at Neace. Like dude what did you expect?

[@96Logan]

​@@odiousrevelation3049 I'm no psychologist, but I can't help but think he is dealing with something irl. He reminds me of a close family member that I have. It's frustrating and sad because he has spiraled down into a delusion and you can't do anything to pull him out. He gets angry and upset when you try and explain to him why this doesn't make sense. It's like his mind welds thoughts together that shouldn't be associated with each other.

[@IronInforcersecond]

@@96Logan I have family like this and they eventually just couldn't take life like that anymore

[@rasmuserlandsson2204]

Narcissist fully expected you to confirm his illusions. Dude his fuming with his "mhm yep".

[@ZeroNeedsCoffee]

This is the most entertaining coaching I've ever seen in my life

[@ZEFFENWULF]

Teach me your ways content sensei

[@emmigosa]

Honestly it was horrendously uncomfortable, but pretty hilarious in some ways. Man's got some problems to say the least, hopefully he works it out I guess? Oh well..

[@juicifer2024]

@@thebeezkneez7559 yea neace is an interesting zoo animal

[@odiousrevelation3049]

This is some Orwell shit. This dude is out there.

[@juicifer2024]

and thats the problem lol he uses his $300 coaching for content and entertainment rather than actually helping the people paying $300 for 'the best coach' in league of legends

[@schwifty148]

Gained a lot of respect for Neace after watching this. I hope this guy gets the help that he needs :(

[@spectre8333]

fr people just be hating for minor mistakes

[@peachscones]

yeah, it genuinely looks like the guy is dealing with delusions, it felt so clear to me, I'm glad Neace caught up on the fact that he probably has a mental illness and didn't berate him.

[@cole3622]

@@peachscones Couldn’t have said it any better. It truly is a shame, will be keeping this gentleman in my prayers🙏

[@peachscones]

@@LoL-by5jw oh yikes, didn't know that, that really sucks honestly :/ I hope that guy it's doing alright and got help at least

[@FelipeVillanueva-pg4qs]

He passed away in January

[@ScPolaroids]

I coach cs sometimes. I encounter adults screaming at me because I point out a faulty rotation. They'll get mad qnd claim they're better than I'll ever be. Basically all they want to hear is you saying they are the best. Thats all they want...

[@sero1276]

bro made a whole ass document on league's bare minimum common sense game play and thinks he just invented an equation that has never been discovered before 💀💀

[@1Vannen]

Wonder what his wife would say if she knew her husband spent $250 to convince someone else on the internet that there's a conspiracy to keep his account locked in low elo lol

[@nathanclarke7162]

Probably calmly ask him why and then he'd respond "You sound very upset right now why are you yelling at me"

[@trentpa9226]

Gonna go ahead and say it. I am sorry for his wife and kids. This dude is fucked up

[@scoozilife]

I legit had this as my first thought when his son came in or w/e. Like I feel bad for his son and wife just hearing his interact with Neace for 8 min. Lol yikes

[@DeoSiege]

she deffa cheats

[@slimedog5098]

It's his money and 350 not that much

[@LyteGamingLG]

Wow, amazing break down and humbling going on here. I’m just getting into LoL and I’ve been playing but also have been looking for more informed players to enlighten and humble my expectations, watching this showed me how very far I am away from knowing anything at all. I love it great vid bro great vid!🎉👌🏾

[@zacharyconner9319]

When NEACE gracefully gifted him the undeserved "good job, man!" And he replies with "I know"... No fuckin way.

[@tadas8808]

He was so egoistic…

[@dudeimnotgay2971]

He can’t help it

[@lordfaero4954]

If this was a legit person. This is the luckiest content I have ever seen. I couldn't have written a more iconic bronze player. There isn't a single way he could have been more on point. What a legend and a true antagonist.

[@Mhmmz]

Deadass bro and he’s been hardstuck bronze for that long? Bronze veteran of league we found the king and jackpot of what defines a hardstuck bronze 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@OLDPEDOJOE]

The Secret Scrim Server is such a good meme

[@jordanbwalt]

This reminds me of someone I used to know with schizohrenia, especially with his behavior once Neace starts coaching the live match

[@iwrecklevaj3349]

“You’re assuming they are going to let me flay them” IM DYING. BRO. WTF

[@florinalinmarginean1135]

"I usually don't miss hooks" yeah dude, throwing a hook when the enemy can clearly see you is totally not a coin flip on whether you land that or not. Man this guy was funny

[@iwrecklevaj3349]

@@florinalinmarginean1135 honestly he has to be trolling or it’s an elaborate setup from NEACE

[@Goldfish1060]

“You’re assuming they are going to stand still and let me flay them”. As opposed to them standing still and letting themselves get hooked by a more telegraphed hook, man was delusional.

[@GoldenBerry33]

I think that the time spent in the army took a real tool on this player. The paranoia, the lack of trust in his coach, the impression that the coach yells when he was only giving a suggestion in a normal tone, that's the aftermath of some traumatizing events, in my opinion. Like the coach tho, he understood what he was dealing with and was very calm.

[@ac4694]

This is prime example of person not seing wrong in himself, just like Karens. This specie never fails to entertain

[@devinnelson2112]

It's sociopathic behavior.

[@alesztra937]

This is a case of correlation does not mean causation. Ex-military, sure, but I’ve seen and met plenty of people with different backgrounds that have this kind of behavior and mindset.

[@FantasticKruH]

​@@alesztra937exactly, many people are like this that are not ex military and many that are ex military are not like this. Sure it COULD be the cause in this case, but is unlikely.

[@ac4694]

@@gmdniko just like Karens =/= Karens

[@pinedar21]

This guy was suffering from a severe case of war PTSD, he didn't get coached by NEACE for league advice but for a fellow military shoulder to cry on. Passed away a few months ago. Truly sad story.

[@inceltatsu9917]

Did this guy just pass away?

[@rleften5788]

Did you just make this up or what lmao

[@jarondesigns2560]

@@rleften5788 No he really died. www.gilbertsonfuneralhome.com/obituaries/matthew-nesheim

[@OpticalJesu5]

​@rleften5788 dude's name is floating around ig some others have mentioned it. As someone with paranoia, this dude sounded very paranoid and was trying to validate his delusions

[@quintit]

@@rleften5788 1:23:03 look it up

[@ikecampbell2221]

Hi Neace, just wanted to let you know, I’m in the U.S. Army as well. (I know you’re retired but still) Just wanted to let you know that I think with how you handled this situation I believe you were a great NCO.

[@TheI3utcher]

I sometimes have to remember that people pay for coaching that are not actually ready to hear what you are about to tell them. This level of cope is mindblowing. I hope this guy accepts his lack of skill at the game so he can actually improve and climb. Best of luck brother.

[@reddd-77]

he ded

[@timmy3211]

The guy in this video died on January 12th 2024, sadly.

[@TheMijoAaron]

How u know?

[@timmy3211]

@@TheMijoAaronHis obituary can be found through information in the video. It matches up exactly with his name and the life background he describes early in the video, including his colleges, military service, and writing career

[@deang8017]

In case anyone was wondering how to spot a delusional narcissist in real life. This guy is a pretty good template.

[@TarotwithTricia]

I would add in - delusional covert narcissist

[@jay130]

yea neace def. is

[@mz2728]

Yeah, he used emotional manipulation tactics on multiple occasions. Like when Neace was making a point, he tried to make it seem like Neace was mad, dumb or something else. He also deflected every single form of critique, which is typical for people like this. It's always someone else who makes the mistakes, never them.

[@quokofumi5653]

No, he have schizofrenia, he is not narscissist. Go to 41:40 and just listen : /

[@caymansharp623]

@@quokofumi5653 it for sure seems like a paranoid delusion

[@darkice12321]

I believe the point of paying for the stream was to get others to see what he sees. He was using your platform to get his message out. This was going to happen regardless of your play. He was going to find a way to get his theory out to the largest audience he could. He might admire you and thought you may be thankful for the information he provided, but it was never about improving or getting better. I gained a lot of respect for you as a coach in your ability to pivot through coaching styles to try to give him anything you could. Master class in professionalism and flexibility.

[@kawgrath1876]

The plot twist is Neace is the stalker, gaslighting the best jungler NA into staying in his scrim server.

[@ayosid3434]

😂😂😂😂

[@boringpl]

"I've been called an A.I." 🤣 Mans got called a bot in chat and took it to a whole new level

[@victoreshkibok2608]

that was insane. best coaching vid ever made 10/10

[@yttt167]

I have a friend and he’s kinda similar to this guy. He’s 30 but he’s the very childish. Doesn’t really understand what’s actually happening around him. If you tell him to do something or you give him advice regarding anything, he won’t even think about whether it’s something good or bad. He’ll just do what he believes. If you tell him Jordan is black but all his life he thought he was white, not even MJ himself would convince this guy that he’s actually black and I mean it. It’s a very dangerous type of person, especially to the society. Think about really important scenarios like driving, trust me I know what I’m saying 😅

[@tobyhel0]

I’m concerned for his kids

[@Ven-zg3fj]

Saaaaaame

[@jensverner2049]

The kids might be a hallucination

[@zacharyconner9319]

My main concern

[@the_snail_foundation5136]

​@@jensverner2049that's foul hahah

[@JP-gq9gp]

Dude paid for a coach but just wanted someone to agree with him and watch his games LOL

[@chc2650]

Sadly there are fraud coaches who would stoke his ego and continue taking his money.

[@Fanta93]

It's amazing how passionate a person can be towards somthing and just not be good. It sucks but I feel like that's just how a majority of people are.

[@ahandsomecheese]

These are like therapy to me NEACE.

[@cowboy_jesus]

Makes me happy to see Neace does coaching for those with disabilities

[@AntonioTorres-xq9xm]

I died liquefying when he went to take a piss and sent you to read notes like you’re in class forgetting you’re the coach lol

[@poisty21]

The best quote from him near the end that answers the whole thing "It can look like normal matchmaking; if you choose to look at it that way".

[@smilestheemo3365]

That was my favorite part. I literally paused and went "So his conspiracy theory is... that everything is normal and nothing is wrong?"

[@alecb496]

@@smilestheemo3365if you choose to look at it that way.

[@ReZhorw]

You're a great guy Neace! You did what you could and accepted that he wouldn't listen and did not flame or bad mouth him like most others would.

[@nVDooM]

This is like those hoarders you see on TV where there stuck in the delusion that nothing is wrong, and you can never snap them out of it to see something is wrong.

[@1984smells]

I want more coaching to this guy. I normally watch 15 mins of a Neace video, but this was cash money yo.

[@revoslawter3628]

Will be hard to get anymore considering he is now buried in the ground

[@Junoofromans]

Neace you have the patience of a God. The look on your face so many times in this game was absolutely priceless. Like I just know you were sitting there the whole like “Damn I need to raise my rates because I don’t get paid enough for this shit.” Dude seems very delusional, like he definitely seems like he’s incapable of hearing anything other than his own point of view. The way he reacted so negatively to any kind of criticism shows that he has some legit mental health issues coping with anything other than blind praise. He needs some therapy for real.

[@JacquesCyrus]

HE IS RIGHT EVERYONE THAT MAKES ME LOSE IS A FED

[@sajackson]

He's saying Neace was frustrated yet we viewers all know Neace was actually very well put together the whole time. Handled it the best he could. I do think a past version of Neace would not have handled this so well. GJ, man

[@davidmachacek1527]

"I know dude!" proceeds to do the exact opposite thing. The fact that he acts like he knows more then you is crazy. For someone being hardstuck bronze for ages.

[@exone8363]

This is so sad that this guy is actually dead now.This video is just heartbreaking to watch at this point. I do believe this man had his heart at the right place but went through some difficulties. I don't think anyone could see the outcome of this, neither Neace nor the people who commented this video. I hope he finds peace now. I am truly heartbroken for his family. Rest in peace Matthew.

[@ColossalEddie]

I understand that this guy had quite the trauma: getting stalked isn't something you can move on that easily, I hope his therapist will help him out eventually; Neace you did really great and yes, that was way above your paygrade.

[@Ocelottle]

Nah lmaoooo he has fabricated trauma thinking he is stalked via league, so it’s now a laughing matter rather than a serious one.

[@TheHortoman]

Its not his job but deffinetly not above his paygrade, hell he could suck me off for how much he charges

[@NullExotic]

​@@Ocelottle he could very well have had trauma else where that caused him to have the feeling he's stalked leauge can be mentally straining when you invest like the guy and many others have wouldn't be surprised if has genetic factors mixed in with the military that triggered schizophrenia or some other conditions which generally starts around the 40s

[@kaynkayn9870]

@@Ocelottle Laughing matter how? Sounds worse if you're convinced that someone is stalking you and the world is conspiring against you. Sounds like a nightmare to live in. No one believes you but you KNOW it's true and real. At least, it's real to you.

[@monhbatonon6333]

​@@kaynkayn9870you coping too? He thinks hes gettin stalked cuz hes entitled

[@five1488]

I think this guy is deceased actually (Matthew Nesheim) it shows in the discord stream, matches up...

[@anonymussybussy]

Holy it is actually him. His LinkedIn corresponds to what he said his background was

[@VDViktor]

Wdym “in discord stream”

[@quintit]

@@VDViktor 1:23:03

[@MrBreaknet]

Incredible how Neace can handle all sorts of people. Hats down, you're doing miracles with that poor soul, but it should not be your battle.

[@LoLTronguy]

I’m laughing because this is EVERYONE in bronze who just spam pings and questions why you do anything

[@balancebreaker1561]

the hilarious part is that he thinks hes playing with higher ranked players lmaooooo and its just bronze players like him hahah but i guess he does it to try to put himself above his level lol

[@rsmith8113]

Hahaha when ADC dies bot lane and question marks you in the top lane 😂😂😂

[@LoLTronguy]

@@rsmith8113 ADC and supp lose lvl 2 and spam pings king lmao

[@faisalabdarazik390]

Man that "I thought you might understand" actually scared the shit out of me. I remember how psychopathic killers in Documentaries always spoke about justifying their actions to that one person thinking that "they might understand"

[@joshuamonroy2779]

tbh thought it was a troll for a bit but now kinda feel sad hearing his tone sounding like sometimes he is actually in stress such as 57:00 like damn, brother needs help.

[@mysticflow467]

that part actually seemed troll to me. but I believe he's not faking

[@NatalieIR]

42 years old guy with children who is arguing like a toddler to a coach (HE PAID FOR) about how he's not actually hardstuck in bronze and it's all a conspiracy. Man so many things I could say to cut to the bone but I'll just say his priorities in life are totally F*&%ed up.

[@koboss_]

the fact that he stayed respectful and patient all along

[@bagboybrown]

Bro, this is literally every low ELO player on NA. The ego is real. It's crazy that they think they're actually good. They absolutely refuse to listen to anybody and wanna do their own thing then blame everyone else when it doesn't work out.

[@SaintNyx]

Usually these guys are more in silver than bronze. The bronze guys are surprisingly more humble, typically. Playing through low elo ranked for the first time in years was a real experience.

[@Kodane]

It’s fair to say, I could’ve spent my time watching an actual movie but this is some of the best content I’ve ever watched! What a roller coaster ride of emotions from you me and this guy. Fk sakes. At first you can’t help to laugh, then hate him and then finally just fucking feel horrible 😅. Neace delivering yet again and handling this situation like a professional. Ps. How much do psychologist make an hour? 😂

[@VanillaSoul]

Going rate around here in Seattle, which is the highest price of living in US I believe, is about 60 an hour. Dude complains when he makes 10 times that.

[@froglifes6829]

psychologists make 350 an hour just like you saw here

[@SkyfoxNsL]

This video is definitely a Trip !! ahahaha the good part is that I didnt know your work and now I'm following you at twitch and youtube :D

[@kuriasensei9445]

I really enjoyseeing how Neace changes his approach 100% on this coaching compared to every other video I've seen. Neace realized that he couldn't take his normal proactive approach and had to go more reactive one. Much love for you Neace you have a infinite amount of patience

[@halfdragonhalfdragonslayer5058]

this is like the opposite of angry coach and calm student. politest I have seen Neace be with the student lol

[@lllforgelll2421]

That document he sends Neace looks like some fanatical manifesto of some kind.

[@RaineYiVTube]

I used to be Plat back in season 5 and haven't played in forever. Seeing these delusional players is hilarious. I know if I tried to play again right now I'd probably be pretty bad but I wouldn't just lie to myself like this guy lmao. This is the craziest conspiracy I've heard lmao

[@throughtheendlessinertia1915]

About 2 years ago I found out I had a stalker... and ever since then I've been getting worse at League of Legends

[@ark2819]

its me. I've been making so much money scrimming off you.

[@gaylordtv561]

they do rog games tho

[@bigswang1578]

Imagine working with a guy like this. Probably always wonders why he's not CEO of his company and why his bosses always hate him. He probably was going to go pro in baseball right out of highschool but his coach didn't like him.

[@Hydralisk77]

Yeah and now imagine what is it to have him as your dad

[@robertm8869]

This guy sounds delusional. Legit he might be dangerous to his family.

[@archangelmichaelhawking]

"do the enemy wards really look bronze to you?" tabs vision to enemy wards 0 placed "yeah this looks bronze as shit" "you just don't understand" lmao

[@JTheraos]

He literally said "exactly" when neace said the enemy team had zero wards. He was saying his team is clearly better at warding.

[@Bluebird-fd9rt]

@@JTheraos nope, he was trying to convince neace that his opponents are somehow all smurfing hacked accounts and how they pressure him off cs (literally just spam brand W) and have elite vision (0 wards.)

[@CainRG1]

I think because of ego some people are incapable of processing the idea that they aren't the best at something. I have a family member like this, he started a new job and within one week he was telling the boss (who had done the job all his life) how to do his job. He inevitably got fired very quickly and genuinely believed it was because he was too good for the job. It is very difficult if not impossible to teach or in any way get through to people like this, they will never learn or improve because they already see themselves as perfect. Very interesting video, btw I have never even played league, I'm just interested in psychology

[@muhammadalshawsh3887]

and hence irrogance was the first sin (^_^)

[@Khswart1]

this guy might be a classic case of an actual Narcisist. He just wanted your approval in the beginning and then started coming up with every excuse under the sun for his own failures... even resorting to conspiracies about being in a secret scrims server.

[@Ender13YT]

As someone who played less than 5 games of League something like 10 years ago, I figured I'd pop in to see what a coaching session looks like. My god, what a good choice. This video was amazing. I still don't know anything about League though XD

[@itsjayk6581]

I genuinely think I have gone a little crazy after watching this video... This guy thinks he's living in a simulation which even trying to understand that mentality puts you in a bad headspace. I can only imagine how unhappy of a person this guy is and I just hope he receives the help he needs. and Neace if you see this I want you to know I don't always agree with a lot of what you say/how you go about things... HOWEVER! that being said I think you handled this guy masterfully and infinitely better than I could ever so respect to you my good sir.

[@JCamCline]

This is the most incredible mental illness coping I’ve ever seen in my life. How does an adult with a degree think this way!? HOW!? Props for keeping it together

[@citizencj3389]

Sometimes you overthink things

[@zvix8861]

Because having a degree has nothing to do with your intelligence or mental state

[@lisaismyult5018]

Havent u heard abt mental illness or schizo stuffs? It's real though . It is what it's. Feels like hes being stupid or trolling but in this case i think he ain't it's just his mental state isn't in good position

[@firstLast-jw7bm]

you may also need mental help if you think possessing a degree improves your thoughts

[@miked815]

Man this was a really tough watch. Honestly feel really bad for the dude, seems like a good guy deep down but his ptsd is in control of him and making all his decisions.

[@Xenmas021]

Yeah it was a fun video for sure, but I feel terrible for thinking that since I genuinely feel bad for this guy. He sounds like a nice guy, just deluded due to some sort of mental illness.

[@PixelSageYT]

Late to the party, but it seems like he might have schizophrenia honestly. He is paranoid and irratic, claiming things happening but has no real backup on it, or he has these things like people sending him friend request but then also having delusions related to real events.

[@theBlankScroll]

Yeah, his views on league are a symptom. He thinks like this about the grocery store, the gas station, the post office, youtube... Dude is broken and applies that break to everything.