Brown Parents Don't Believe in Therapy

It's so weird that my Indian parents don't believe in therapy, even though they're the reason I go! Jokes aside, I grew up in a culture that didn't really talk about mental health and I'm trying to change that and address the stigma. Did you experience something similar in another culture? Let's talk about it and make sure we're all mentally healthy during this difficult time. Love you, Lilly x
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Thanks for watching and don't forget to keep smiling. You're worth it! xoxo

[@LillySingh]

Thanks for watching!! What was your favourite part? Personally, brown parents having "The Talk" is what my nightmares are made of LOL.

[@Pooja_10483]

Lilly Singh the talk was scary

[@izzybluebell8399]

xD

[@Pooja_10483]

Please say hiiiiii I am early

[@user-vn4oi1hb1z]

Omg Lilly I luv uuuuuuu ❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

[@trailblazer7952]

The part what will people think

[@AMinnie]

I’m legally changing my name to “What Will People Think” because it was said to me more than my own name.

[@leenaraphael4284]

I can totally relate 😂

[@islandsunset]

🤣

[@Sneha-ij8rt]

I relate to that too much and it explains why I have so many filters on myself to others at the same time

[@misbahailia3345]

I didn't know, other cultures suffered from this phrase as much as I do. Yay! #What will people think gang! 💃😂

[@rishijeyamurthy7586]

😂😂😂

[@nuzhatkausim5895]

"Aunties have no filters" No truer words have ever been spoken..

[@bloggerblogg5878]

all Aunties are the same, doesn't matter which country they from...

[@nuzhatkausim5895]

@@bloggerblogg5878 true that..

[@19521962]

Yup! I

[@hannadegroot9575]

is it also always the oldest auntie who has the least of a filter for you guys?

[@nuzhatkausim5895]

@@hannadegroot9575 definitely but younger ones surprisingly find more modern ways to insult you I guess..

[@xo_xo_ari]

Me- mom I think I have anxiety... My Brown mom- so? Me- can I see a therapist? Mom- why can’t you talk to me about your problems? IM NOT SCARY-

[@sydney8145]

Rainbow_ Ramen she says screaming at the top of her lungs

[@LemTheDemon]

Yup very accurate

[@Zi_965]

I felt this in my soul

[@mandu_me]

Yeh ur not scary Ur TERRIFYING

[@niladrimanna8093]

At least some get such offers in most cases it's like what's wrong with you,you have literally everything, look at* insert the name of 1lakh strangers here *, they are all perfectly fine, stop pretending and go do your work.

[@sumathijai6251]

"People have it worse than you! Be grateful" That's not the point...

[@CorrinaMusic]

My aunt said this to me a week ago and I sent her an article titled 'what NOT to say to someone struggling with mental health' (it literally listed "be grateful" as one of the things not to say) X'D

[@shivshaktibhakti502]

@@CorrinaMusic 👏

[@MrRandom-hn2li]

Yep

[@Abyss777]

@@CorrinaMusic wow, I wish I could do the same with my parents but they will just take it in a wrong way!!!! T-T

[@LemTheDemon]

@@Abyss777 samee

[@te495]

“Aunty’s have no filter” I can’t say I’ve heard anything truer than that

[@LillySingh]

put it on a shirt!

[@vedantpendurkar]

Lilly Singh I would buy that merch. But also we NEED “what will people say?” That is my childhood in 4 words.

[@thandoluhlemchunu83]

Right

[@alice0067]

@@vedantpendurkar still in adulthood

[@Lostnemo146]

Lilly Singh Whaddup T-shirt reference!

[@LillySingh]

Mental health is an important topic yet so many of us don't want to talk about it! Let's reverse the stigma and start getting real with each other. Enjoy this video and see you in the chats soon!

[@Sapphicnal]

Lilly Singh thank you for spreading messages that need to be heard ❤️

[@healingmark1766]

Hii i know this is weird but can u ask ur fans to follow me on tiktok PLEASE and i looooovvvve u! Tiktok: Astroxnur

[@pip-mc8732]

The title is so true though, when I told my mom I was in school counselling and therapy, she was annoyed with me :( but she's all good now! Love your videos!

[@tarungusain2911]

Spreading Positivity❤️

[@itsebs4868]

Ily lilly you are so inspirational

[@One_Winged_Warrior]

1:55 you're parents are waaaaaay more forward than mine already just with this...the 'talk' never existed in my family, you had to pick up cues and read minds to know that ish XD

[@rheakg]

OMG YES BUT SOMETIMES SHE SAYS SOMETHING LIKE “ooh you have boyfriend 😏😉” AS A JOKE AND IM LIKE WAIT I CAN HAVE ONE?

[@zahirasahar9491]

same, I didn't really get my ''talk'', even as a brown person

[@nasfamohamed3361]

All my white friends don’t understand why I call so many ladies“auntie”, and it’s a pain trying to explain to them that I’m not actually related to all those ladies. So that’s why I never bother saying auntie in front of them.

[@nasfamohamed3361]

I bet most people don’t understand what I’m saying 😅

[@hotanmursal5264]

Nasfa Mohamed same! I also had to continuasly tell people an auntie and cousin weren’t my real, biological ones. I could tell one person, and the exact same person would com up the me the day after asking why I called them auntie and uncle. It used to be so much easier in my country...

[@treboy95]

Hotan Mursal Same in African culture lol....Auntie or Uncle could be anyone whos NOT related to you . lol As longs they are a little more older than you

[@nafsi8519]

That's why I never want to move outside of my country...

[@abhishektanwar8576]

@@treboy95 Exactly in India

[@sraboniwahid2332]

she said, "it's your girl lilly" and i almost had a mental breakdown.

[@kenziewinn9989]

borun omg same 😭

[@yasminbashe2987]

borun LITERALLLYYYYY

[@abhishektanwar8576]

@Riri Dothraki patent issues

[@nusaibatarhuni7881]

@@abhishektanwar8576 wut

[@janeetarc]

I KNOW RIGHTTTTT

[@uniqee_prezjr8393]

I’m indian and this is completely true

[@firestormtheghostqueen7135]

ouch

[@uniqee_prezjr8393]

What do you mean ouch

[@firestormtheghostqueen7135]

That Indians do not believe in therapy... or some

[@Hannah-cc2cb]

THIS IS SO TRUE

[@Hannah-cc2cb]

@@firestormtheghostqueen7135 All of them just don't and I'm indian too

[@wilensgalette2253]

“You want everything to be sugar coated eh? Maybe that’s why you’re gaining weight” 🍫 🍫

[@shakurwonders5216]

🤣🤣what will aunty think

[@whatthefisfilipinx]

3:37 - 3:38 I hate that feeling when you wanted to eat some Ice Cream and when you open up the box it has fish inside!

[@shadevi]

Yeaaah omg all desi parents do this 😩

[@mxlkywxy6191]

Ha imagine it was ucooked fish or meat-

[@radharamanpathak8928]

"Look so much pimple", "look fato" , " eat the samosa don't be rude" and "what will people think?" typical brown parent and aunties !!

[@myselfotaku9188]

Yup experienced it and still experiencing it from aunties 🤦🤦

[@koolmankoolman7499]

"moto"

[@snowchen5104]

Typical asian adults!!!

[@Sonja25997]

typical aunts, grandmas and moms everywhere

[@thedarkestsunn]

Radharaman Pathak lmfao nahhh my brown Guyanese parents arent like that at all, my cousins are tho lmfao glad I lucked out

[@megavern72]

Grounded for being honest? Yeah, that hit close to home.

[@mrunalmustapure3661]

Yes cause that's what mother's do

[@user-zk7wv8qf1u]

megavern72 aha

[@teganpilling]

Lol but I've never been grounded because I don't leave the house anyway

[@mrunalmustapure3661]

@@teganpilling actually I am also a great introvert But this dialogue was like... because that's what superheroes do

[@teenoush7489]

Haha I got beaten and threatened to be left in an orphanage by my own parents, like seriously :v

[@yendelevium]

"Hey mom I was thinking-" "What will people think?" Lol😂

[@VesperShadows]

I'm not Indian but this is how my adulthood was like (also childhood), especially the part of "the low self esteem issue" . I had pretty bad acne and the only place where I could be without make up and let my skin breathe is my home. Wrong! The guests would come with no invitation and they would comment all about my face. I wanted to disappear so many times

[@zaafirahsiddiqui4509]

I had a mini seizure when she said "hey everyone, its your girl LILLY" instead of SUPERWOMAN. why did that feel so out of place, I got so used to the superwoman dialogue wth

[@JiaFit]

zaafirah XoXo I was just thinking that

[@bareehasalman8745]

Same bro

[@bareehasalman8745]

Wait why did I say bro that's so NOT me

[@andrerosetv4953]

When did she switch?

[@zaafirahsiddiqui4509]

@@andrerosetv4953 idek

[@gayathri5762]

“What will people think?” is the brown parents anthem.

[@thedarkestsunn]

Gayathri Suresh lol I don’t think I’ve ever heard my parents mention that once in my life

[@gayathri5762]

GM Consider yourself lucky man.

[@minhayeon107]

Ikr

[@SanjaySkar]

Agreed!!! 😅

[@mico_j]

i thought it is just my family kekekekekekeke

[@revivewithbhavana]

My dad says there’s no such thing as depression & he gets made when therapy is mentioned. He had a stroke yrs ago (he’s ok now!) and told the medical staff in the stroke rehab unit he wanted to be discharged & go home because it was “depressing” seeing the people lay around & in wheel chairs. Apparently, he believes in depression when it happens only to him. Ha! All is SO TRUE! One Love Lilly & to all! 💗🙏🏽💜

[@meerability]

" And when that happens we call it *shame shame* "

[@shreeyaverma8826]

This triggered me so bad. Being overweight and Indian has taken a serious toll on my mental health.

[@kanishmaray]

Gurl trust me you beautiful 💜

[@diyabehal4868]

thank youu

[@randomviral1881]

@@diyabehal4868 wtf hahahhahah

[@upendersingh9980]

Your beautiful 💖 Don't worry about what others think bc there is other people out there who know what your going through ☺...stay strong

[@anitam241]

Haters gonna hate. You do you.

[@disnaperera1118]

Me: mom I m depressed Mom: no you are not. Go to ur room n study

[@oishi4394]

Me too

[@ginnypotter4012]

Mom: Honey it's all in your head Me: yeah right

[@Hannah-cc2cb]

YES THEY DON'TBELIEVE IN DEPRRSSION OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT EVEN THOUGH MY MUM'S A NURSE

[@PandaBearUwU]

Get off your phone

[@imxn1000]

@@Hannah-cc2cb yesss

[@rashmi7051]

My mom's reply whenever I tell her I'm sad is 'There is no such thing as being sad. Depression doesn't exist. It's a lie'

[@galleryg998]

my brown mum is a psychiatrist so she was actually supportive in me getting therapy - which was nice :) despite her homophobia - yay

[@divalakra1756]

pros and cons

[@aadidhakal3711]

You can’t win them all I guess lol

[@siyashokeen625]

When I try to talk to my mum about my feelings she legit said “only depressed people say that kind of thing” and “are you crazy do you need psychiatrist ?” And my personal favourite “ kids don’t get stressed”

[@truepuppyqueen4097]

I know 😂

[@dennie546]

same :')

[@amrapalimakhija6275]

henlo army

[@usha112]

Yeah

[@kpop_multistan5447]

Army!!!!! Hello fam

[@aryanihsan2623]

Me: I have low self esteem My mom: It's because you're not drinking enough water.

[@justblue9379]

I swear 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@prithwishroychowdhury8426]

Relatable 😄

[@rickeshpatel4025]

So true. Growing up my parents would be like feelings, you can’t have those just do as we tell you and you will be happy and that was end of that talk.

[@shadevi]

True and that is exactly the reason why we have difficulties expressing our feelings and thoughts which makes people depressed or they miss opportunities to have great relationships with others.

[@hanzliy401]

"and the 9000 times where I were excited to eat Ice cream but found curry in the container" EVERY BROWN HOUSE ON EARTH ! 😑😂😂

[@ropuri]

This is so true, anytime I ask my Indian parents about mental issues, they're like, "beta, back in my day, nobody had these 'issues.' You guys express too much."

[@jester-bs8gq]

i relate soo much

[@IshaqKhan-xt3sn]

This is exactly true

[@dhvanishukla2518]

Aaj kal ki generation

[@troublesomegirl007]

The issues existed, no one spoke up about them

[@tuhinabhattacharya6358]

Roshni Bhudia true

[@samrashafaq1717]

"Drink more water and put away that damn phone" Therapy from brown parents

[@ananyamurlidharans7915]

samra shafaq and eat your almonds lmao

[@ishietakaur4260]

true dow

[@samantha.hernandez09]

But Mexican fam be like.

[@19521962]

Yup

[@sakshichandresh5365]

4:12 hey lilly don't waste paper what will greta think😬😬

[@kpopisbop6651]

I am an introvert and have anxiety issues. Honestly my parents don't know what these words even mean...

[@grapeleiva2266]

I’m Hispanic and I’m an introvert and my parents also have no idea what it is

[@mehek6084]

That little convo with aunty is enough to crash and bring a girl's world down... !! 😆 Typical aunt!!

[@fariyashaikh4245]

Ikr😂

[@claramartins4774]

So accurate

[@heyitsritu]

Happened to me a zillion times

[@mehek6084]

@@heyitsritu sorry about that.. But eventually over the time we start feeling they r all so lame n meaningless😊

[@user-zk7wv8qf1u]

Mehek aha

[@alishakarriem3127]

Me:* eats samosa. Aunty: "you've gained weight". Me:* doesn't eat samosa at gathering. Aunty: " take samosa don't be rude"

[@notavailable708]

The best thing about quarantine. No aunties

[@shashikantbrajeshchaudhary610]

100% True!!!!

[@teacuptea9155]

he yolo Yeah but I miss the good ones 😔

[@suja605]

@@notavailable708 oh so true. But now aunties start coming .... Back to normal

[@angelflora8468]

True

[@gigimathew992]

I thought my parents are always the ones who don't believe in therapy... THIS IS SO RELATABLE 😂

[@cassie2fashion]

OMG, how am I only watching this now?! These videos are the reason why I followed her in the first place. I feel like she is back

[@juhighatti7267]

My brown parents are like “beta, therapy is a profession that people take up when they are useless for everything else.” 🤣

[@ailee4790]

Ouch 🤣

[@ailitya8768]

I am a psychologist and that hurts 😂😂

[@Mariam-wu2pt]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@shymakauser2393]

@@ailitya8768 I'm in my first year. that hurt, lol

[@dhvanishukla2518]

Same here being a Psychology student I hear it everyday 😂

[@bruh2309]

Moms saying: "I want us to be friends" has got to be the biggest trap ever

[@blair5508]

fr

[@phoebescarborough5929]

TRUTH (meanwhile goes through your bedroom drawers to find out any secrets you may be hiding or drugs, even if you're a saint)

[@bruh2309]

@@phoebescarborough5929 I just want us to be friends! *proceeds to read your diary while you're at school*

[@phoebescarborough5929]

@bruh EXACTLY

[@jesaljadeja1487]

Tell me about it!!!

[@mynameismaddymwah3178]

When your parents try to tell you that you can’t be depressed or have anxiety because they have more reason to be those than you and ‘what do you have to be depressed about?’

[@sabhaazamshah]

I died at " shame shame" 😂

[@principaldietfaridkot823]

me too

[@nityabussan5455]

My parents think that the only reason why someone would need therapy is because they’re on their phone Edit: Thanks for all the likes! Goal: 550

[@stanisings]

Ikrrr, everything you complain about, it's always the phone's fault

[@amaliaandrone6585]

@@stanisings Don't forget the pc

[@kaceym6903]

LOL.

[@iona6286]

The way she said “boys have pee pee outside” while doing that sawing motion with the knife 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@LillySingh]

nightmares

[@simritrandhawa8066]

Ok but as an Indian myself I have to say that the low self-esteem one is soooo true. 🤣🤣🤣

[@mariamdeeadeshina6772]

when you are at family reunions and your relatives are just indirectly insulting you

[@angganda2195]

When Lilly Singh said Brown people she literally meant humans who are not Caucasian.

[@becbanok8216]

No humans who aren't western

[@patiarroyo1257]

Hispanic grandmother's think your therapy should be talking to God more often

[@alegiampy7981]

Well, I'm Caucasian, and my parents are like that. I mean, my dad keep saying I can't need mental health help because I've got a house, a family and instruction lol. ...writing it down actually make it sounds so sad

[@angganda2195]

@@patiarroyo1257 Exactly! Same with African aunties.

[@sarahsyd9491]

She means Indian parents because they are also known as “Brown”

[@sylviem.1299]

"I don't want to be scary mom." she says holding a flashlight to her face Halloween style. 😝

[@ryandeonandan5887]

I’ve been going through a lot with my family and this made me laugh so much and not made me feel so alone. Thank you, Lilly!

[@DhyanaaWithSaumya]

Such an important message delivered in such a funny way. Thanks Lilly :)

[@laviru1341]

Paramjeet: I don’t want to be scary mom Also paramjeet: holding flashlight to face in dark, acting f-ing creepy

[@LillySingh]

the irony

[@laviru1341]

Lilly Singh Issa brown parent ting🤪😂

[@aruasmr26170]

Everytime they show manjeet and paramjeet makes me feel like home

[@AmSuperBlessed]

Arpit Sharma Seeing Manjeet Paramjeet makes me happy. They are my favorite characters 🥰

[@AestheticTravelGuides]

4:28 Auntiy doing tik tok is so funny

[@wya5108]

The pimple one was ON POINT, how many times you wash face, the relative who cleared face with magical soap, oily food, etc. I showed it to my mum and she looked so guilty 🤣

[@pri6603]

AS A BROWN KID THIS IS RELATABLE. "it happens to everyone your age" "its *THAT PHONE* you always on it" "talk to us how will someone outsider help you, we know you better"

[@PeachesCourage]

Their Gods to many parents are how many Gods can there be LOL?

[@ishitachakraborty5493]

THIS IS SO TRUE...EVERYTHING IS SO RELATABLE

[@ZeKyra]

"You want everything to be sugar coated, maybe that´s why you gain weight." I feel this burn so much I need to call the fire department.

[@scarletmurasaki7875]

This is so accurate, it physically hurts:')

[@mannatdhariwal1823]

This is so true! Like people can just say stuff to u-about your appearance, personality-and if you're Indian ur not meant to care. It's so annoying- like we have feelings!

[@thattkimm]

Sometimes i actually forget its Lilly who is portraying her parents its so convincing😎

[@eenyweeny57]

Ikr

[@minhayeon107]

Samee

[@122Ginger221]

Same!!

[@christianschoff2490]

I thought it was a friend of hers. xD

[@jaredsanchez2823]

I agree!

[@kurapika4860]

“What up everyone it’s your girl Lilly” Me: wHaT whErE’S SuPeRwOmAn

[@ivetatran]

Lol Lol I am still not used to this new one :( even though it’s cute

[@IndiWeeb]

that's her name, get used to it

[@mitymitmad80]

I havnt watched her videos recently ao when she said Lilly instead of Superwoman i was triggered

[@LillySingh]

LET ME LIVEEEEEE lol its been so long

[@nestacordelia7432]

@@LillySingh but you're my superhero!

[@richwolf_12]

Me: Mom I think I need a therapist. My mom: *IT'S BECAUSE YOU'RE ALWAYS ON THAT DAMN PHONE!!!*

[@LemTheDemon]

Same lol

[@inayahashraf2708]

"Aunties have no filters" so true

[@divyashreedhanarajan6065]

Aunties and “what will people think?” destroys our mental health at least one point:)

[@kanwarsingh5332]

I swear!! "What will people think" is the sentence that will be the DEATH of me!

[@agronsaraci9462]

My entire race

[@jaiyhanab]

Moms who say “I want us to be friends you can trust me.” They’re LYING ABORT MISSION DO NOT FALL FOR IT

[@alishbad219]

Jaiyhana Hale that’s sooo my mum

[@siennaordonez2381]

We all fell for it the first time and never again

[@alishbad219]

Sienna Ordonez yup

[@Grim_Sister]

RUN!!!

[@jaiyhanab]

Sienna Ordonez Never. Again.🤦🏾‍♀️🤣

[@simranjeetsingh5048]

Loved her saying, "Motto" :D

[@AmreetSinghGill]

The Intimacy Discussion.. Especially the end wth the knife 🤣

[@abbyjaramillo1369]

"Don't worry we fix you up" Every Indian auntie ever

[@JustBelieveinMJ]

Jamaican s too

[@fatimanasir6931]

Pakkatani too- kwmskdmsamaoss so frustrating-

[@tanvi-fv5ge]

Thank you so much for this!!!

[@idonthavethink3529]

"You have everything, we gave you everything .. And you always stay in phone and in your room doing nothing.. You don't help your mom too.. Drink water and use less phone and go study " 😂😂🔥🔥😵😵

[@ihaveacupcake5013]

My brown parents never gave me “the talk”

[@shriangsharma3073]

You are blessed

[@arunbikelover1832]

Relatable as heck. I learnt it all through school and Wattpad

[@__...__...__]

My favourite part was: "Aunties have no filters" Okay for real 😂🙌🏻

[@azifahmed6637]

Don't have to be brown to know that

[@__...__...__]

Azif Ahmed I'm white? 😂💀

[@azifahmed6637]

@@__...__...__ lol I knoww

[@hairlesscatgiftbasket5600]

it's nice to know lilly will never be lonely during quarantine...

[@loveanamisra7178]

Woww!! Lilly has changed so much and I love it! She has improved so much! I love her sooo much!

[@user-my7tu7jp5m]

Am I the only one who goes crazy cause she said: Hey everyone it's your girl Lilly.... Instead of :Hey everyone it's your girl Superwoman...

[@vickyt678]

Me also

[@lucyodonoghue6746]

I could see her hesitate

[@islandsunset]

You can go ahead and blame DC comics who have a copyright over that word.

[@veerabandekar7081]

0 3 ikr 😂😂😂😂😂

[@MsKiddah]

She's been doing that for a while now..

[@ruhivaratkar5339]

"Log kya kahenge?" That made me overthink every decision I made ever.

[@vv5813]

Lmao I know right?

[@hetavigala3663]

I am really glad for the effort you are taking in. It really does help and should make a difference, maybe not today but one day it will.

[@petuniawolf]

Great message.

[@tanishakotian]

"If you hold hands with a guy before marriage you'll be pregnant." Hahhahahhaha 😂

[@sammylove926]

My grandma told me that

[@roxannesookhai6560]

My sister really believed that 😂

[@cashagon]

Is that how that works? My mom explained it all wrong.

[@wisdumb7534]

😂😂😂

[@tahminatahir9632]

I hate it when people say kids can't be stressed. My friend said that there have been many cases where people thought kids don't have issues and then the child committed suicide because no one understood him/her.

[@annaliapuser5452]

I love it when people jokingly say, "You need therapy!" And I'm like - dude - you have no idea.

[@user-oh7zi4mu2w]

Hello

[@jamjam5249]

Bro it's just so accurate.. like it's like she experienced it herself

[@mhbqc9617]

YOU’RE AWESOME!!! Missed those videos

[@GameThrone20774]

Lilly: makes a valid point Paramjeet: LEH

[@JiaFit]

John Appleseed 😂😂

[@JT-dj9vx]

I just realised this too! Looked it up it was about a year ago before her tv show started as she felt she'd grown out of the name and didn't connect to it as much www.huffpost.com/entry/lilly-singh-superwoman-name-ends_n_5d54b9b7e4b056fafd073a59

[@shimanopetermann9068]

This is one of these moments where it actually makes sense that my people (Romani People) descend from India. My mom is always like: "We don't have time for depression etc." In any case if you happen to have mental issues nonetheless don't go to the therapist. My mom has got a cure for everything in your life and it's called getting married. It's about time for that anyways because: What will people think?

[@InspiringAsmeen]

Lol in case it doesn't work out you should try having kids 😂😂😂😂

[@misbahailia3345]

I'm a Pakistani girl, and I relate to your comment on a spiritual level. 😬

[@misbahailia3345]

@@@InspiringAsmeen And if the kids are going through something, THEY should have kids. 😂😂😂😂

[@NatalieWaldron]

Loved! ❤️

[@itscleoandnala]

oml, lilly is so relatable. love you so much queen xx

[@jvzzy_j]

I remember one day my mother hurt my feelings so badly and she caught me crying. (I avoid crying in front of her because she thinks its a weakness) She looked at me and said "I dont care if I hurt your feelings. Toughen tf up" I was both hurt and perplexed. Who says that to their child?... I havent trusted her since

[@sophiagrace6361]

That’s messed up. She will never change

[@jvzzy_j]

@@sophiagrace6361 Yeah it took me a long time to come to terms with it. Now she's always asking me why I dont talk to her and stay quiet. GEE I WONDER WHY? Parents are the main issue and yet are so clueless or just truly believe theres nothing wrong with their behavior

[@vineetha6942]

Relatable. Very. Especially the part where they wonder why their kids don't talk to them or open up to them anymore. May you be strong enough to heal from the wounds (they do get pretty deep especially when inflicted by parents/ family).

[@dhruvivora9763]

Sometimes this is how our parents' generation grew up (the tough way) and so they learnt that everything has to work that way! And sometimes they also receive these ways of parenting from being a victim themselves in their childhood and it never hit them so hard. So they repeat these unhealthy, neglectful ways of behaving with their children. Hence many a times the deep issues lie within their past and such a thing should not be taken personally or it may be enough to break someone.

[@vineetha6942]

@@dhruvivora9763 That's a great way to see things. Not many have that sort of empathy or sense to think about why someone is behaving a certain way.

[@thatweirdgirl7858]

I told my African parents I was going through a lot and I was just mentally not stable at that time and they told me it was for white for people and i-

[@rachelgeorge1037]

Yes! Literally though! My parents believe it’s just a white people thing

[@PeachesCourage]

I always felt I was the odd person out in school. Stayed away from everyone if I could Your able to see through this just keep doing that seriously * See through it all let it rest for a while and go back again Because if your anything like I was give it some time My life has changed and my attitude it's slow yet if I am getting there you can too. Balance without Just Blaming Yourself is Everything Stay safe *

[@hargunkaur3119]

LOVE U LILLY

[@midsummergirl]

Brilliant video Lilly!! ❤️

[@mediocretriplethreat]

No one: Not a single soul: Lilly’s Parents: *w h a t w i l l p e o p l e t h i n k*

[@aruasmr26170]

Believe me Every Indian parent say that 😂

[@19521962]

Lol you’ve never been surrounded by people from the Indian subcontinent before

[@shravani1221]

Not just her parents, every brown parent in this universe...

[@anoushajoseph3474]

Trust me sis every Indian person says this 😂

[@rihards7651]

@@aruasmr26170 Not only India. In europe too😂

[@trademarkt]

Cousin: *visiting* Me: Mom *cousin* is punching me Mom: pfft no, he’s such a good and polite boy Cousin: *leaves* Me: I don’t like *cousin* Mom: why not? Me: he punched me repeatedly in the stomach Mom: WHY DIDNT YOU TELL ME?!

[@aenia]

I thought is said Corona: visiting

[@daisytiktokpovs661]

@@aenia haha, same...

[@jessicavictoriacarrillo7254]

Gaslighting?

[@HasufelyArod]

I've read a couple of Reddit Stories about Entitled People like this. Damn, I thought they were a few cases.

[@misbahailia3345]

Omg, relatable! 🙄

[@dananewman8652]

LOVE THIS !

[@howcomeihavesubs]

"Why do you have issues? You magazine?"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂👏👏👏👏

[@sarafoster3739]

my heart sunk when she said " hey it's your girl lilly" NOT " hey it's your girl SUPERWOMAN "

[@chandraeroy765]

Why did she change?

[@switdipz9283]

same, still not used to it..😂

[@alyssiaameliereddy2174]

she's becoming more confident in herself and she's seeing herself as her own hero as opposed to superwoman

[@LillySingh]

It shouldn't. Lilly is way stronger =) x

[@elizak2486]

Sara Foster I was looking for this coming

[@imapenguinandsoisniall2782]

"mom I think I need therapy" "There's no need for therapy. You just sleep at time and wake up at time" In all seriousness my parents do support therapy for better mental health but the solution to most of my problems is sleeping and waking up at time

[@neildas5627]

4:20 thats where u got wrong. Indian moms never use techonogy. Vacuum cleaner is something that they will never use. Its the broom stick and if they see u when they are mad while cleaning well then u know whats gonna happen 😥😥😥

[@yehudaankonina6031]

Such an important message delivered in such a beautiful way

[@idobethatoneweirdgirl9476]

"Why you have issues? You a magazine?" 😂😂😂

[@jvzzy_j]

Parent: You know you can talk to me about anything right? Me: *skeptical but tries* Also parent: *talks over me, yells, disregards my feelings, thinks Im making excuses and my emotions dont matter* Me: *keeps everything to myself now and cries at night*

[@patriciaforner8737]

IKR!

[@sheena9p90]

Omg that is my life. :/

[@Skrappy420]

that was my childhood.. then you gatta find yourself a partner whos healthy for you and is open to going to therapy (or doing it online for now since people shouldnt be out to much right now :P)

[@myselfotaku9188]

I hope you're doing okay

[@sheena9p90]

@@myselfotaku9188 thanks! Not doing great actually lol but I hang in there.

[@mochiique9143]

2:37 She is Traumatized

[@kenyetta6221]

When Lilly has the snap back on you know this video finna be lit!! *technically all her videos are lit lol*😂❣