Brushing Away Anxiety | Everything Is Okay | Male Voice ASMR

Hey! Tonight you tried to go to sleep but you can't stop listening to the thoughts that are running through your head. Things have been tough, and sometimes life just really gets to you. I'll put down my work for the night so that I can be there to comfort you. We all need to ask for help sometimes and it doesn't mean that you are broken. Your thoughts and feelings are completely valid. I'll play with your hair, give you a little scalp scratching massage, brush your hair, comb your hair, and part your hair with a metal rat tail comb. I'll chat with you about how to deal with the thoughts that give you anxiety and try to help you focus on the positive instead of dwelling on the negative. Relax with me and let me help to raise your vibration as I lull you back to sleep.
I hope that you are doing well. Use this video for relaxation, but don't hesitate to seek out a loved-one or a professional if you feel like you could benefit from a real-life helping hand. We cannot do everything alone. We all need a little help sometimes, and there is no shame in asking for help when we need it.
I hope that you enjoy our time together and that you continue to do well.
Love ya,
John 🤘🏻😴
►Chapters:
00:00 Music Intro / Typing / Writing Sounds
01:18 You Can't Sleep
03:16 Candle Crackle Sounds Transition
03:30 Hair Play / Scalp Scratching / Head Massage
08:00 Wooden Paddle Hair Brush / Law of Attraction
10:58 Take Care of Yourself
12:25 Focus On What You Can Control / Maintenance
15:30 A Life Is Made Up Of Small Stuff
20:30 Wooden Comb - No Talking
22:55 Pink Rat Tail Combing and Parting - No Talking
26:15 The Importance of People
29:38 Everything Is Going To Be Okay
31:00 Thoughts Are Just Thoughts
34:47 Wooden Comb & Wooden Paddle Brush
37:00 Everything Is Gonna Be Okay
39:30 It Won't Always Be Like This / Things Will Get Better
40:10 Outro
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[@enbymack1846]

Idk how you manage to have a super masculine and super nurturing energy at the same time, but it's really unique and refreshing! 💤😴

[@ivym3969]

It’s a balance. We all harbor both masculine and feminine energy. It’s not unusual. He’s just tapped into his.

[@kkk77522]

Feel like it’d make him an amazing dad, if he isn’t already!

[@luizaje2011]

☯️ on point!

[@kat7047]

@@kkk77522 he has a son and a daughter

[@more__plz]

Grounded, emotionally-accessible humans unite! 🙌🏽

[@jaehyunshotpack2248]

This man is an actual angel

[@mezziestarr]

I used to exclusively watch female asmr artists. No longer. You're the only thing that works for me now. ✌

[@loes8578]

this! john has such intimate and cosy vibes without it being creepy. it feels like a safe space unlike a lot of other male asmrtists that make me feel uncomfortable at times

[@graciemayzie]

@@loes8578 100% i was gonna say the exact same thing, he feels like a friend.

[@sheturnedherpainintoart6956]

Honestly same

[@pandapants790]

He’s definitely working for me 😉

[@pamelanauss]

Oh what I wouldn't do right now to be that mannequin head LOL I have an abusive guy in my life who's mentally an emotionally abusive to me and boy what I wouldn't give to have somebody like this guy around

[@candyallen8802]

Thank you so much for this video. My daughter was diagnosed with a ravaging illness last year, on top of being born with a heart defect and surviving a stroke. This morning was a very hard morning. Both of us shed a lot of tears. She laid down on the couch, and I brushed her hair and told her everything is going to be ok. A few minutes later, you posted this video. Both of us watched, and we love that your message reinforced everything we're trying to focus on. Bless you! ❤❤

[@Dagmicl]

This comment broke my heart , you are so strong 🧡

[@candyallen8802]

@@Dagmicl thank you for your kind words.I don't feel strong. I feel like I'm falling apart, but I do my best to hold it together

[@candyallen8802]

@Kim S thank you SO much. Your prayers are so very appreciated

[@xinfiny]

Sending you love and healing vibes. It will be okay ❤

[@candyallen8802]

@@xinfiny thank you so much

[@Primeyzee]

Guys, I’m crying a little from how nice this is...

[@Gwen34900]

“Even if you haven’t had a great day you still have to take care of yourself “. I had no idea how badly I needed to be reminded of that until just now. (It’s been a rough couple of weeks) Thank you!

[@S.On.YouTube]

I'm sorry that you've been having a rough time, I hope it passes soon. I feel ya on that point. I come back to this video every day. Anyways, I hope you have a great day today!

[@mypathunfolding]

The ASMR tingles are so lovely, but I think many of us also truly enjoy being treated with pure unselfish kindness that is so hard to find these days. Thank you for being kind.

[@samdevine4029]

Okay, so I didn't get many tingles at all, but I did have a huge emotional release and wound up spending most of this video crying. Still walked away from the video feeling calmer, more settled, and more cared for than I have in a long time. So, thank you from the bottom of my heart for this video.

[@heeseungwawa8726]

Why is this man's voice so sweet? He has a very masculine tone, but very relaxed, I really like how he sounds ❤️

[@allthingslostonearthoracle4055]

Going through a tough chronicle pain day and feeling disconnected from my body. Your softness and energy are literally the best medicine for me right now. Thank you for putting so much love and dedication to your videos, it will all come back to you. Bless you!

[@charmainesmith5245]

soft hugs. I have fibromailger and hes videos help me so much

[@allthingslostonearthoracle4055]

@@charmainesmith5245 thank you! Many hugs back to you. Take care of yourself 😽💙

[@sandyno1089]

Hope you’re feeling better today😘

[@TheCoverFaery]

The kindness in this comment section. 🥲🥲🥲😍

[@buggyboo25]

Omg that’s what brought me here too. Sending hugs from another chronic pain sufferer. Hoping you’re doing well

[@alanak.7539]

The rain outside combined with this video makes for such lovely relaxation. Living can be exhausting but a nap at the Certified Mood Spa makes everything a lot more ok.

[@jennysilver2577]

There is finally hope that a caring, nurturing, gentle yet masculine man still exists. 🙌🏻💕

[@justicethedoggo3648]

They don't exist for women they exist for men 😫😇

[@sisc576]

Unfortunately I'm sure his wife wouldn't want to share lmao

[@jennysilver2577]

@@sisc576 😂😂😂😂 I’d never want a taken man buttt I’m happy to see good ones exist. Where, you ask? The hell if I know 😉🤣.

[@icehockey5876]

How can someone give so much love to people he actually doesn‘ t know? He is a true angel

[@ambarrosario1484]

Not me being stressed that he has all this work to do and is pushing it aside to be with me 😭 love you

[@martaquarello4769]

I have a math test tomorrow and this is perfectly on time to help me get a sweet night sleep ❤ thank you so much 💪🐯

[@certifiedmood]

Good luck on your test!! And I hope that you have an incredible sleep :)

[@mitkomarinov7083]

Oh good luck queen!

[@lovebug5327]

u got this girl (or boy) ;) 👍🏽👍🏽

[@closest2he4ven]

I'm fighting a tension headache rn so this is so welcomed.

[@skironna]

Damn. I need a man like him. And I could watch the beginning with the drawing and keyboard for ages.

[@Texasboots]

I love how nurturing you are to your viewers. It's almost like I'm having a one on one session with you. Just what I needed right before bed. 💤😴🙌❤

[@carlamoore479]

I’m a teacher and man some days I need to chill and defuse when I come home. You’re perfect for that. Keep up the great work....your subscribers are grow exponentially by the day! Woohooooo!!! 🤗

[@nycmike8144]

Hey Man, just wanted to say thanks for putting in so much effort to make these videos! It’s been really stressful and I’ve been having a hard time falling asleep and your videos really help me, so for that I want to say thanks! Keep up the great work!

[@buggyboo25]

I wish the outside world was as loving and nurturing as your videos and the asmr community in general 🥺

[@TheHealingRoomASMR]

Brushing away my crazy anxiety? Y’all gonna need a bigger brush, John.

[@certifiedmood]

Aww, Dee! I will stay up all night brushing if it makes you feel better 💜

[@TheHealingRoomASMR]

@@certifiedmood take my money !!

[@DeJa2001]

@@TheHealingRoomASMR 😂

[@ehehrhegd]

this is a ✨certified mood✨ indeed!! thank you john!! I'll be sleeping well tonight, hope everyone else will too! 😴🐻

[@nabinebilski3636]

I always have trouble falling asleep on a Sunday when I gotta go to work on Monday... After watching only a few minutes I feel so calm and sleepy already! Thank you so much!!

[@promisedove]

Me too! Monday dread is no joke.

[@Gutisusa]

My friend and I text each other on Sundays about Monday dread. Ugh.

[@shawnitawilliams1388]

Try to live a whole day at a time. Be present in the moment don't let tomorrow take from today and don't let yesterday dictate today.......I know easier said then done, but it is possible.

[@amandacarbone2266]

You are literally the only male asmr creator that I have ever enjoyed. It’s like you get me and know the content I want😂 thank you for this, keep being awesome ! 🤘😊

[@stefaninova3770]

Thanks I needed this my anxiety has been sky high this week

[@certifiedmood]

Honestly, me too. I hope that you are doing well and that this video will help you with your relaxation.

[@kristineilochi4615]

Yeah, mine too. I am in the process of buying a house and although I am elated and excited, this shit is stressful! LOL. This video was much needed.❤️

[@charmainesmith5245]

hugs anxiety sucks. mines been rubbish of late

[@stefaninova3770]

It calmed me down a lot

[@TheCoverFaery]

My heart was so heavy last night. I have not been sleeping great so this was right on time. Thank you, John for taking such good care of us. Much love.

[@beccakate8592]

Currently on day 10 of my second self isolation in a month, things feel rough rn but this video is just what I need to feel more human again :)

[@catherinealexander2582]

I really like the start. Typing and writing and your comforting voice

[@fishycat.]

Applied for schools today, so I’ve been super nervous and anxious. With this video I’m however surely off to a peaceful good night’s sleep. Thank you, and I hope you’re feeling better soon too. ❤️

[@charmainesmith5245]

good luck with applying to schools

[@matti5941]

Good luck with all your applications! I’ve got an important job interview in the morning and I’m sitting here and letting this video calm me down a bit, my nerves are definitely getting the best of me today, lmao. Wishin’ us both some luck!

[@ladanis8081]

Good luck!!!

[@smol-pixie]

I love that you took off working in the video to help out the viewer. But you also address that we should still take care of ourselves no matter how badly we feel and to always seek support. The talk session felt very emotional and genuine. Not everyone has access to this kind of care, support, and vulnerability in day to day life. Especially due to covid. It feels like a lot of love was put into this video. Thank you! You're one of the few male asmr artists I find soothing and I love the videos with your wife. Please continue making great content 💖

[@pascalecoupon4963]

i love of your videos, but the problem is i am watching you from france and don t speak a fluent english. you have some videos that i can watch, when you re shampooing without talking. hope to see you with hairs and with an international practice.

[@joyooneek8069]

John, you are invaluable to me! If it weren't for your work I wouldn't be able to centre myself and rationalise my world. You make all the madness seem insignificant, and melt away my anxieties. My breathing almost stops when I am listening to this particular video! 😴 I've had a dreadful week, and at times didn't know how or if I would make it through, but I am glad I did. Your videos are a big help, so thank you from the bottom of my heart xx

[@stoneylonesomeASMR]

This is lovely. I'm already getting sleepy.

[@quentinragoonanan892]

The. Q u a l i t y omg astounding, and the fact you seem genuinely interested in helping destress is amazing as well

[@LadyDaVon1]

I absolutely like this video . The way he moves his hands seems like the touching is so relaxing

[@arielsalvatore4433]

I love this Video because I get tingles all down my body. I’m going through some loss with the death of my grandparents. This helped so much! Thank you❤️

[@bekkipetersen5100]

I appreciate that you're an aggressive typer. Lol. I get razzed for it all the time.

[@BrOoKlYn-sq2bi]

I have an appointment tomorrow for something that happened a few days ago and I can’t help but overthink, I just want you to know how grateful i am for this, thank you 💕

[@taylorlittle4389]

I’m currently just about 8 months pregnant and I’ve been watching you since the beginning of my pregnancy. You’ve helped with my anxiety and sleep so much through this trimester ❤️ thank you for being an amazing person and content creator 😊

[@trishmarie5462]

Congratulations on your pregnancy and i hope the last month goes by so smoothly until you get to meet your precious baby:)

[@nataliewalker9682]

aw congrats✨

[@jennysilver2577]

This is so gentle and sweet it makes me feel like crying.

[@iwasbornunderwater]

Just in time for me to go to bed. The brush strokes were especially tingly and this one was so comforting 🥺. Thank you John.

[@turquoisetranquility]

Feelings come and go, mood changes all the time, but I always try to recognize what’s important, what do I need to focus on (sometimes it doesn’t work but ok). I know that you will get better, thank you for taking care of me

[@kathleencheron6030]

Your voice is so soothing ! Thank you for bringing me comfort and a feeling of security.

[@mrsb050285]

These just get better and better every week! Like mini movies to relax to lol. That wink at the front of the video 🔥 ...and I really needed the message in this one. It’s been a rough week.

[@DunyaVersusAsana]

Thank you for all the effort you put into your videos! They are always so relaxing.

[@naecon2923]

I would love a whole video just like the start bit where your “working” the tingles we’re off the charts

[@tonyaparcell9904]

After the week I had last week. I was mentally and physically exhausted. So much going in my life . My anxiety was at an ultimate high Glad I came across this video!!

[@laurenrobertson1645]

Thank you so much for this! super helpful as i can never sleep due to overthinking everything but this is super helpful and relaxing. Please know that everything little detail you do is amazing from writing a detailed description to the actual ASMR video and the different sections it’s all amazing and i’m so grateful for the time and effort you put in to helping others🤍

[@morenamontes9504]

I have been getting harmful thoughts lately. I don't know why myself but this video has let me pour out the tears I've been holding for years now. I didn't think I'd need all these comforting words

[@VampEdits]

It’s all going to be okay, friend ❤️

[@morenamontes9504]

@@VampEdits thank you so much 😭💗

[@angiechann9093]

Honestly your vids definitely help with my insomnia. It’s hard to get back to sleep when you have a lot on your mind. Thank you!!!

[@curlyhairlailai6636]

If u reading this God loves u with all his Heart 😊.

[@vanessanestes8589]

Amen John 3:16-18 🕊 -For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. 17 For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved. 18 “He who believes in Him is not condemned; but he who does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. Romans 10:9-10 🕊 -If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. 10 For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.

[@curlyhairlailai6636]

@@vanessanestes8589 Amen

[@bethanyhilliard302]

I love the introduction, the light whispering here and there, the typing and writing sounds are so lovely, could we get a video of these sounds specifically they are so good. Love this channel please keep doing what you’re doing 😇 xx

[@ASMRwithKim]

Thank you so, so much for this, John. I didn't know I needed a video like yours, but it made me feel incredibly calm and relaxed. Combing through the hair with the rat tail comb sounded amazing, I loved that.

[@bibbietybobbiety]

Hair brushing and sweet, soul talking: so comforting

[@maggiesigala2980]

I feel so alone after something scary has occurred and been crying myself to sleep, this really helped me forget about what’s going to happen and sleep peacefully 💤 Thank you. You are amazing ✨

[@lilliiian_n6525]

I’m sorry something scary happened. I hope you are feeling a bit better now and if you ever need to talk I am here. Whether it is a couple days or a couple months, never be afraid to ask.

[@maggiesigala2980]

@@lilliiian_n6525 thank you for your kind words

[@Ichisaya2023]

I have been suffering from anxiety since I was 8 years old. I really need something like this 🥺❤️.

[@theashoakandyewcollective]

You have such a great knack for asmr, John! So glad KZbin recommended your channel to me a while back. Love watching your content and Jen’s. Hope you guys are well! 💚

[@kimberlyjohnson7254]

I freaking love asmr hair brushing! It realized me like nothing else in this 🌎. Thank you for complete satisfaction ☺️!!

[@angeldunbar9644]

Omg! Typing, writing, and scalp massage! PERFECT COMBO! won some brownie points with me! Keep them coming!

[@Terapagos3000]

Wow. I'm just gonna say this. Was invaded by bad thoughts and then I click on this, instant peace. You're such a handsome man, dude

[@marie-claire1591]

I literally was about to spiral into a panic attack right now I’ll give this a listen I really hope it helps

[@thevoid747]

Hope you’re feeling better now, friend!

[@joyn6654]

Relax, give your troubles to God, and kick back with the help of this gentle man's tremendous care. God bless and be well.

[@certifiedmood]

I hope that it helped you relax 😌 And I just want to say how happy I am to have such a supportive community that lifts each other up 💜💜💜

[@marie-claire1591]

@@certifiedmood it did help me a lot!! I feel like it was the only thing that was able to put me to sleep even if it was only for an hour before it happened again. In general, your videos are the only thing that calms me down sometimes and I’m super super happy to have found your channel. The way you include Afro hair, care so much about your people, put in lots of research and always add a twist to the videos really is so admirable!! A good community comes from a good role model:)

[@marie-claire1591]

@@thevoid747 I am feeling much better!! Thanks so much for caring

[@greenpixiepeace]

Loved the typing and pen on paper! Would love a whole video on that! Thanks for what you do; your videos have been helping me fall asleep for months now! 👍😴

[@PandasLoveMandas]

This is too pure my heart can’t take it. Keep em coming man

[@kittyplumasmr3408]

A few weeks ago I got in big trouble at work for messing up a customer's coffee and my boss got really mad. I finally had to confess that I have been depressed and self-harming, and with all the stuff going on in my life just getting through the day has been a struggle. He told me I needed to see a therapist and while I called around I never heard back from anyone. Your ASMR really helps me to calm down and feel okay, though... maybe you're my therapist. Thanks, CM, for the lovely content. You really help me to keep going!

[@toxicupcake87]

I'm so glad I came across you! You're the only ASMR channel that relaxes me! 😌

[@sarahgriesemer1737]

this. this is so nice to hear right now. school has been really taking a toll and this is unbelievably calming, thank you

[@arock502]

Love everything you post! I prefer no talking and love how you incorporate talking and not talking throughout your videos. Your scalp massages are the best!

[@ritaharmon]

This is amazingly calming and soothing!! So glad I found you💖💖

[@katieisbored9349]

This is rly relaxing and rn I’m having a rly hard time with life and this helped

[@lindsayjgreen1231]

Loved this🥰! Just what I needed tonight. I especially enjoyed the sectioning. Thank you 🙏

[@kelsey.nicole8896]

you make me feel so safe thank you 🥺

[@chrissymoody5820]

This was very comforting and surprisingly HEALING!!! 🥰 I am amazed at how incredibly comforted I feel. Seriously met a bunch of needs I didn't even know I had. Am I the only one finding your content to be so unique?!?

[@luis.6767]

thank you so much watching this makes me feel calmer, your videos are truly amazing ! ☺️

[@sweetkatienerd]

Really needed this right now. Thank you 💘

[@r.leighmorgan]

I love your videos so much!! And I appreciate how you have torn down toxic gender roles

[@MissMimiDoll]

I hope this comes across as the compliment its meant to be...you are hands down, the most calming male ASMRist I've come across. Usually I find women's voices softer and more calming but dude, you have it. The vibe. Thank you for the awesome, relaxing videos! All of us insomniacs appreciate this!😁👍🏻💜

[@smol-pixie]

Keep coming back to this one. It's so comforting :)

[@shainabout]

This is so sweet. Thank you so much for this video. ❤️

[@katiem6773]

So comforting! I feel taken care of for a while. Thanks John! I love the intro.

[@selectedsubjects9926]

This is my first time watching a video of yours. This video was recommended by KZbin, and I am SO glad it was. I was spiralling into a panic attack, and this helped me to manage it. You are a blessing ✨

[@shanekahowellmivida9812]

Thank you so much for this relaxing video, John! 💕

[@rosanunez6137]

I been watching ASMR for a while and haven’t felt tingles in a while and todayy i feel them and i feel soo relaxed your voice is beyond soothing! Thank you for the good night sleep! 🥱😌

[@liamkneesocks]

A male asmrtist? Be still my heart!!

[@prangrachkanok]

Thank you for your helpful vdo , I watch your vdo over and over everyday even while working and before sleep . 😊🙏🏼🌻

[@shalie1345]

Iove his videos 💖 Watching this video while eating , I don't recommend eating & watching ASMR 😂. Almost fell my face in my Chipotle bowl 😂.

[@leroybiboo5408]

Those "few minutes" I waited for him to rap up his work felt like a life time

[@heeykate7943]

This was perfect after the bad day... Thanks for this. And this Voice, omg🙌🏻🔥😴

[@ProfessorASMR]

This is quite relaxing! Thank you for the tingles, CM!

[@kaytee3369]

I love everything after taking him away from his work in the beginning, because that part stressed me out lol.

[@emilywilliams8699]

tons of tingles from the keyboard typing and burning candle sounds😍

[@kittiicat91]

Oh my god this is so amazing, relaxing and tingly! 😍 Your voice is also very calming. You have a new subscriber. 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@kellymcnally307]

Wow I definitely needed this, this is my first time viewing your channel! I’ve been so crazy stressed with midterms and work its so hard to find a balance between work, school, social time and personal time :\ definitely have been stressing!

[@Anna-ox6oc]

Been feeling really uneasy today, like something was clutching my insides.. This video is a gift from heaven. Tysm :)

[@rubberduckyofsteel]

wow i love the narrative bit at the beginning. so sweet. really soothing :)

[@NKBurlington]

This one is lovely :) I loved this. Probably my favourite...so far. I love your calm voice and attentiveness.

[@certifiedmood]

Thank you :)

[@tristaosendott777]

Perfect for a slow Sunday at work ❤️

[@laurens2322]

Your videos truly help me sleep/relax. Thank you 🖤

[@chrissiec7587]

Got into ASMR about a year ago, how have I just found this channel ... fantastic ❤

[@S.On.YouTube]

I come back to this video almost every day, so... thank you.

[@Nakira92]

2 minutes in and I started crying.. I'm was not aware of how much I need this thank you