Brutally Beat Players At Their Own Games With This Ballbusting Tactic

[@DeeBlackett]

I've done this and it worked like a charm. BTW he was on the taken me for granted and I ghosted his ass. He had a melt down. He couldn't deal. How dare a woman give a taste of his own medicine. Now his friends are saying I'm the one that got away.... Boy bye. I walked away and meant it.

[@chellybabyme]

As I type this reply you have 12 likes. It's a courageous story and I thank you for it. It helps me and I know it will help more than 12 people. Thanks for posting.

[@DeeBlackett]

@@chellybabyme thanks! After you're hearts been shattered you kinda determine no more! Time to take a stand and not waste time on narcs and beta males. This poor wanna be player didn't stand a chance with the new me 😁

[@Bella-Mae0422]

Omg same thing happened to me! I was talking to a guy back in 2013 and I liked him. He led me on and strung me along for 5 months telling me how much he really liked me but that I needed better than him and that he's been hurt too much before and is scared blah blah and he would ignore me long periods of time then randomly reach out to me leading me on again then once I responded back he'd ghost me again and leave my shit on "read". I finally told myself "fuck it! He doesn't want me? Someone else will." I never reached out to him again. I was so over it. I started dating again. I met another guy on vacation about a month and a half later. We had an instant connection! My feelings for him were much stronger than what I ever felt for the other guy. We became a couple and about a month later into my relationship the jerk comes back trying to string me along again telling me he missed me and couldn't stop thinking of me and wanted to see me. I politely rejected him and told him that was over and I met someone else. He tried maybe 4 more times to come back throughout the next 5 years and apologize for how he treated me and realized he messed up and that I was the one who got away and wanted to see if we could try again. I still told him no and that he needed to move on. Plus I'm still with the same guy that I originally moved on to. He didn't see my worth when he could of had it so someone else did.

[@chellybabyme]

@@Bella-Mae0422 that's amazing. It's so important for us to recognize that these pleads are nothing more than a need for attention! Broken people learn how to say non broken things to non broken people. And non broken people get fooled! Good freaking job!

[@ElliotScottDating]

good! Women don't understand the power of just not giving a fuck. Of course, it's easier said than done but if you get to that stage, you have more power than you know what to do with and/or just don't care about the outcome. You become happier either way.

[@yohanson99]

Just hold yourself to a higher standard it won't happen!!! You got this ladies!!!!

[@chellybabyme]

It's hard to recognize bad people when you have good intentions. I mean it's hard to understand that what you're hearing is a lie when you're not a liar your own self. That's why these videos are good. Education about other types of people called assholes. Education about these people doing things that you would never In your wildest dreams conjure.

[@heartmendoza3361]

@Yo Hanson i really needed to hear this! thank you for your encouranging us :)

[@lihong9389]

Thanks

[@niksiniksi6033]

@@chellybabyme👏👏👏👏

[@thastoicpanda3395]

Don’t play any games with a narcissist. Period. Drop them where they are!

[@1ofnoother]

The best way to avoid a player is to not play their game. Or if you already got played and want justice, what players are afraid of is EXPOSURE, especially narcissists. They're afraid the world will know who they really are, and they can't play their game if people know about them and their deceit.

[@mademoiselleannarose9623]

100% true

[@erika_tech990]

So true

[@sherriflemming3218]

Indeed. Exposure.

[@tyrajenkins9665]

Yess make him think he winning and pull the rug yessss it shocks the hell out of them

[@raisaarce5880]

Call them out on their bullshit ! Tf ! I loved the way I called out the last guy, he was so shocked cuz I come off sweet. Lol tell em what you want!

[@BrooklynBaby100]

Updates?

[@sherriflemming3218]

Absolutely. A narcissist is a con artist.

[@niksiniksi6033]

I did and blocked. Told him everything I have been holding on, and after that he lied again. He didn't give a fuck :) Ge muat have thought I was a joke. BLOCK. He brainfucked me for a long time and I had enough!!!!

[@chellybabyme]

The reason why I can't find a guy on the same page it's because I wrongly assumed he could read.

[@redfather5342]

Not everyone is going to like you accept it

[@chellybabyme]

@@redfather5342 it's more about me not liking them

[@blackbeauty2166]

I guess I'm special, once I spot em the attraction switches and it turns it into a power war and I don't cave. I don't seek validation like "I hope he will commit" but "it's play time and I'm ready to beat you at ur own bullshit" 😂 ik that sounds wrong but it's satisfying to beat a "player" at his own game like a game of chess

[@ib8774]

Playing chess while they’re playing checkers I see 😏

[@fancylyrics.]

Girl, I know this 3 years ago.. but pls. can u give me advice on how to give them a taste of their own medicine.. ??.. someone played me bad because I was naived n a virgin I'm shattered 💔

[@SherrysReviewsandResearch]

That's why no sex before committment. These men are acting crazy out here.

[@chellybabyme]

You really are right.

[@chibikiseki1545]

But how's that going to help you? I mean, he can say "we're in a relationship now" and then the moment you two have sex he disappears. You can't buy a relationship with sex, have it only if you really want it.

[@chellybabyme]

@@chibikiseki1545 I don't think she wants to buy a relationship with sex. I think what she means is if you want a relationship, don't have the sex before you have the relationship. Of course if you don't want a relationship and only sex, imo have all the sex. I think people that don't care about relationships and only want sex are in some ways missing out and in some ways I feel envious. I care. Sex is personal to me and so I take her view to wait for the relationship.

[@chibikiseki1545]

@@chellybabyme but she is, she thinks that waiting until they are in relationship will guarantee her that he won't hurt her feelings... And nothing can guarantee her that. And what if sex is bad or you are not compatible in that department but you're already in a relationship?

[@SherrysReviewsandResearch]

@@chibikiseki1545 Marriage =contract=legally binding. And yes, they can be married and still act up and then ur money and assets and children are tied up in the mix. Life spouses not a process to be taken lightly hey?

[@chellybabyme]

That kind where they don't want to let you go because you've always been so good but they're broken inside and then they go out and bring you back coconut milk but you wonder where they stopped on the way. Cuz they're broken. They need attention. And even though you gave them everything and more that they deserved and didn't deserve, although you didn't know they didn't deserve it at the time, they're still always going to be broken and looking for something else. Damn.

[@MariahFan09]

LOL coconut milk?

[@chellybabyme]

@@MariahFan09 an errand, a small nominal errand.

[@kimt8162]

I so understand this; many in sports. High school version. The egocentric. Where he talks about himself, wants you to go to his games, but there's not the reciprocation. I feel you shouldn't have to "nag" him to pay attention to your needs. You have a life too. Yep, I think there is a gray area. Yes, the pull the rug technique. Just did this, before Valentine's Day. Started hanging out there in late October; all of a sudden after Christmas, he's like coming out of nowhere????? So two weeks before Valentine's Day.....just left the whole situation.

[@maggiewei2142]

I dealt with guy #1 recently and I immediately cut him off cos he flaked on me for not sleeping with him too soon. I don't want to invite the opportunity for him to think I would put up with that again.

[@christyraeemfinger5740]

Everything is so complicated... idk how anyone gets to be in love at all.

[@realalldway-raw4996]

I love the honesty Elliot. So so so very true. Love it. The answer. DON'T HAVE SEX. Sex makes women lose in this game. Unless the guy is sacrifing for you, spending time and money for you. He is not serious.

[@mazlinarazelan3805]

Elliot is highly insightful regarding modern culture of dating. Agreed on all his points , can't wait to watch next video 💕

[@MiMi_X1]

Date multiple men!

[@mae88b.16]

Correct

[@wandadrees6384]

That is easier said than done

[@amiwhite5514]

Yes. That’s how men roll..

[@hyperbolicfitness9387]

@Wanda in the beginning it is but the reason why is to avoid putting all your eggs in one basket. Once you get past that you understand why its better to date multiple men

[@mae88b.16]

@@hyperbolicfitness9387 true, dating multiple men sometimes will make you forget which one hasn’t responded to ur text. LOL. I think you only date one person if he showed you his best interest in a relationship.

[@larosenoirek2197]

I cut him off after 4 days. I called him out on day 3, he didn’t change. day 4 no efforts from him. Evening of day 4 he didn’t see that coming. I cut him off and did it with so much class. He replied ok thank you. Played it off like nothing. Then send me a text with a sad face. I ignored it and blocked his ass. Sweet and caring women aren’t for just anyone. He thought he had me for a second 😂😂😂😂 no bro you played yourself at 44 years old 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@carolthomson9043]

Thanks for this Elliot! Extremely well put and makes a lot of sense! I came out of a long term relationship 18 months ago and dating again now and have encountered these types of guys so now I know what to do to get a more favourable outcome! Play the damn game myself

[@Realtalknewyorkwithjanique]

Sometimes you have to shit on a guy 😂😂 just did it today! Felt amazing 😻

[@ladylady7848]

What did you do??

[@witchreturns2263]

Kinda garbage thing

[@MariahFan09]

sooo true -- I'm too tired to comment specifically why but oh my gosh Elliot is definitely my favorite of all the dating coaches. only thing is most of your videos Elliot are based around scenarios where people have already slept together

[@jasmintarani4530]

The reason why these types of relationships fail and women get hurt by it is.. That these are relationships with no rules opposite of marriage and women give without getting anything so men are the ones who get everything without doing much so they loose interest and women get played since most men will use this opportunity that is free for them

[@sherriflemming3218]

They have no conscience or remorse.

[@Realtalknewyorkwithjanique]

Real!!! On a differentLevel! Seeking validation is an act of insecurity 👍

[@dr.m6152]

I like how bothered he gets whenever he's like 'that's what women don't understand' 😂😂🤣 it's hilarious, but really drives the point home

[@suncloudx6502]

What an eye opener... Last 8months he done this sh!t... 2weeks now no contact jope hes feeling the burn the narc!!!

[@mrssomeone2143]

so exit the game...honestly i like playing the game if i win, but now i want we both win by not entering any games...at the end of the day you just wanna be with someone you can talk about anything, laughing, and cuddling. simple

[@ilenek.5428]

Love your info & delivery!!!!! So educational. Dont be mad Elliott...u know women & men dont see things the same way! This is why we need u ;)

[@clover84htx]

My favorite dating coach 🥰

[@mademoiselleannarose9623]

Best advice ever..Elliott is amazing.

[@riannab5256]

Yep I don’t follow through …I need to Take my power back! 😩 lord give me strength

[@lihong9389]

Elliott knows me too much

[@ElliotScottDating]

Well are you going to keep commenting or you going to add me on Instagram?

[@serinadixon5738]

Oh my goodness I love you you are hilarious and so true about everything you are saying you put it like it needs to be said regardless of anybody's feeling I wish I could have found you one year ago ❤❤❤

[@stellarstar9340]

ELLIOT THANK YOOOOOUUU!!! You are literally DA BEST!!! 🏆🥇🌟🔥🔥🔥💙🙌🏻👏🏻👌🏻🙏🏻💪🏻💯

[@charlottebramleyy]

Hey Elliot can u do a video on the pros and cons of a relationship and why some people are looking for one and want one vs why some don’t

[@chrisnapoli8386]

The only reason why men don’t want one is to have their cake and eat it too. They don’t want to be obligated to you. Simple.

[@BrooklynBaby100]

@@chrisnapoli8386 Yea and also they’re not that into you AND because of porn AND because they’ve done this before to other women and the girls fall for it.

[@lucyluz1651]

Totally missed your videos !! ❤️

[@MariahFan09]

good point about the negotiation

[@Love-np2rt]

You're a total God, love you

[@sylviab.791]

Hi Elliot nice hair cut.

[@ElliotScottDating]

Hey, thanks

[@Yumyumhoneybun]

Hey Elliot!

[@lindsyvalentino9441]

I have a low tolerance for manipulation, and not being upfront w me Fire sign ♈️

[@CorporateQueen]

I told him to sod off, then moved into a neighborhood near him and he has no idea where I am. 😂

[@catch-2240]

Great video 🙌

[@ellenluu9877]

Preach lol. Thanks, Elliott!

[@gglin5595]

well explained ! 🖒🖒🖒🖒 he is an married man that I am addicted to him. it is all my fault becoz I could quit him in many times , but I go back to him again n again ... I am so much suffering, coach ! I just can not pull a rug from him yet but I am in so much heartache ! how to turn this around , coach can you please help me on this matter ..

[@tanalarratih4508]

Nice plan Elliot. 😉

[@starlightskiestarot]

guy told me to like him not love him so.........lol

[@mgw4205]

Women do this too, its brutal out here lol

[@mera6306]

At the right time

[@MsRipley76]

Dangling the carrot Elliot :)

[@valentinasarka2383]

What if the guy has a great heart and is a good person but doesn't have his shit together. Is he worth it?

[@sejj1819]

I had narcissists in the palm of my hand at the end of 1 month, maybe I’m more narcissistic than them I don’t know, maybe that’s the reason.

[@shorty94ism]

Explain More Pls 😭😭😭😭

[@aislingying9971]

Good video

[@ElliotScottDating]

Glad you enjoyed

[@CarterSams]

Uh oh, did you get a new whip?!

[@tinkerbellUK]

Piccaso 😂🙏🏼

[@ArtsyMegz_On_Etsy]

Sometimes I want to say to him, "Even if you don't want to date, can I kiss you anyways?" I am so curious about his kiss that I'm going crazy! 😶

[@Jenniferfgjhug]

You amazing

[@Nikki.....]

Best strategy to win their game is to not play it

[@alelovesmakeup]

He is blocked now

[@renedabailey5674]

I believe I found my twin flame. Been seeing each other 8 months. He will go days without texting or calling. If I run he chases. He never puts action to his words but tells me he loves me and asked me to marry him. I lost trust when I caught him talking to a lady on zoosk but he says its nothing. I'm confused.

[@chrisnapoli8386]

Run

[@debmccafferty1007]

Ex ignored my text for four days. Texted him from my friends house when she was discovered to be deceased Poor communication signifies contempt

[@ivedonenothingbutteleportb8533]

I teleported bread

[@crystalriley7114]

Thought i learned all I needed before getting out there....nopes :( LOL

[@lebeautyprenuer3679]

Most of the time you be on point Elliot, but sometimes you be rambling

[@thomasrad6296]

Im here doing Recon. Need to expand my arsenal. Thanks mate.

[@Jennifermiller-cj8jn]

This is great lol 👌🏻

[@andreeaciobanuc404]

It is so sad how he disrespected me! I have so many qualities, talents, skills, and still he treated me like trash! I have always asked myself why he didn't see my value! How he couldn't make the difference between me and his cheap Instagram bimbos! I write poetry, I sing beautifully, I am into politics, I am self-confident, I am a good housewife, a romantic, kind and loving person and still he treated me like trash! he always made me feel inferior, not good enough! It's such a pity!

[@Gone2war-q3i]

When i realise hes a player. I let him know what ive seen and i never interact with them again. The true players just leave you be.

[@daniellefinger9967]

As a woman, you are playing a game with yourself the moment you start seeking validation outside of yourself and its a recipe to get played by lovers, friends, and family

[@faezahjumahat4196]

Hai Elliot Good Nights From Singapore! When A Guy's Or A Man's Been Playing Fools Towards A Woman That Is She Shows Him That He Has To Go & Beat His Own Game's And Moves ForWard With Her Own Healthy Life's! Be A Queen To The Smart, Dedicated & Wise Woman Always Win While A Guy's Or A Man's Been Played At His Own Game's At His Own Terms! Never Seeks Validation From A Guy's Or A Man's Who Did Not InConsistence Contribute To A Relationship While He Messed Around With Other Woman Or A Side-Chick Because He Is Damn A Player & A CassaNova Until He Feels Tired & Exhausted With His Daily Life's He Get Lost & On A Wild Or Deserted Place He Is In! Until He Figure What He Wants In His Life's & Looked Upon His Mistakes & Regret What He Has Done To A Smart & Wise Matured Woman's He Seems Hard To Forget!

[@ThisOne64]

Kept talking about an ex. I reached out to her n we compared timelines lolol. Both at the same time. He found out we knew n was pissedddd

[@MsProudcherokee]

"Goddamn" 😂

[@69Fabulosity]

Elliot forgot the Rich man that cheats bc he simply can have a variety of women at his disposal and knows his wife wouldn't be stupid and divorce him bc she loves her lavish lifestyle and so does he bc he would loose half if he divorced.

[@redfather5342]

Thats what happens to gold diggers

[@69Fabulosity]

@@redfather5342 Both ain't worth shit the wife nor the cheating husband. Both stay bc the only glue that bonds them is 💰 & their toxic relationship that doesn't believe in monogamy nor loyalty. Sounds like the wife is more the gold digger bc she stays 4her lavish lifestyle 😂😂😂❗Any other women would know this man doesn't love her nor respects her enough to be faithful.

[@BayouTheModel]

I feel attacked

[@kahleesi-queenfire179]

Picasso 🤣🤣🤣🖍

[@elementalAlma]

🙌🏻

[@DD-ry4mm]

Im write them down (literally) 😂

[@wendylock9071]

Why would a guy tell you he loves you more every day, and only started to realise how good you are.... and he doesn't want to lose you...... then ignore you ?? Please please help me

[@donna2693]

He's telling you exactly what he thinks you want to hear so he can keep getting the goods ... don't listen to his words, his actions clearly don't match them... so believe his pattern's he is showing you clearly without verbalising it xo

[@wendylock9071]

@@donna2693 aww we are just friends.... we haven't done anything... xxx

[@wendylock9071]

@@donna2693 so I take it he hates me....

[@realtruth3762]

C‘mon now you cant be this naive to just believe whatever bs he tells you. Words mean nothing from a guy

[@wendylock9071]

@@realtruth3762 thanks !!

[@addagirl3487]

wait.... I don't get it. Did I say to go along with his sexting and flirting to play him back? 🤔

[@michimichi323]

People pay this guy for advice?

[@basicinfo2022]

7:31

[@h.y1778]

🤙

[@rassielynn934]

guys play these women? totally no respect for women? but that’s where you’re from in the first place or you wouldn’t exist in this world?.

[@verab2700]

💘

[@sweetnovember3984]

What is your option about porn? The guy I am dating spilled the beans that he watches porn. I do not want a guy who watches porn. Are there any guys who don't? He said other guys do it in secret and lie to you. The whole power dynamic changed. How do I change it? Is there anything I could sax or do now to change it? I guess he will never change to watch porn. I am really interested in him. He is a very gentle guy and knows to treat me right. We have never Kissen and never been physically sexually with each other, but have talked on the phone about intimate stuff (no phone Sex though). Just so you understand the background. Can you please help me? I guess I opened myself up to much to him. At the same time he knows that there are two other guys interested in me, but he is the one on the top. Now I am overthinking if he is the right choice. Please help me change the Power dynamic! I really like the guy

[@kristie-leecorney7388]

Xx

[@avobravocado1277]

Stop using God's name in vain.

[@monicaaustin2711]

Double them adds! 😂

[@christianmcintosh5237]

Like this is gonna work.... lol

[@CJ-vd6km]

wondering....do you have snuff/chew in your mouth?