Alot of people are not looking for love they're looking for help
@matilda44063 жыл бұрын
lol, yeah! help to love... themselves. Sorry, it's actually sad, though. Bad parenting. In essence.. love is important... the most important thing... and it starts from parents loving their child...
@PolarBear-mj9wt3 жыл бұрын
Like yourself
@CrystalDatingCoach3 жыл бұрын
You can have both! 😉
@matilda44063 жыл бұрын
@@CrystalDatingCoach both what?
@HankiMaus3 жыл бұрын
@@matilda4406 Probably love *and* help...!?🤷🏼
@TravelBug1892 жыл бұрын
That woman sounds like me 🥴🙈😫 I’m in NYC though but it’s tough out here! I’ve known this guy for 9 years and still waiting 🤦🏻♀️
@emilyc56253 жыл бұрын
What’s the explanation then for people that go back and forth dating for a long time , one isn’t ready for a relationship due to let’s say medical school or other reasons , poor timing then later on get married ? I know people this has happened to .
@helentaylor71323 жыл бұрын
I'd say that as long as both partners understand and agree to the delay as an investment toward each others' goals and future, that's a valid choice. Of course, there's a risk that one or the other may change their mind or end up finding someone else along the way, but it's better that happen before marriage. If they stay solid in the face of challenging situations, then they'll likely stay solid for life. Would depend on emotional maturity of the couple and their choices along the way.
@demetrafisher67113 жыл бұрын
Seriously, this is so simple but a ton of women just won’t allow themselves to see it. If he’s there for you and then not, appears interested and then goes no contact, HE’S NOT INTERESTED IN ANYTHING LONG TERM. Stop thinking that it’s something that it’s not. He’s interested in the physical and that’s all, and if you keep giving it up to him, of course he will keep coming back! Hell, even stray cats know enough to keep going back to a food source, so if you keep on feeding them, they will keep coming back for more. Just because he keeps returning, doesn’t mean that he loves you or that you matter to him. It just means that he thinks of you as “low hanging fruit” that he doesn’t have to work to win over to get your cookie prize. Don’t waste your time as once he thinks of you this way, he will ALWAYS think of you this way. MOVE ON.
@ElliotScottDating3 жыл бұрын
Very true. People only see what they wanna see
@1975tko2 жыл бұрын
Fabulous!
@MsFoxy3603 жыл бұрын
If a man put himself in the position to lose you he should lose you.
@CrystalDatingCoach3 жыл бұрын
You should be: Hard to get and EASY to lose.
@gigiinfinitespirit3 жыл бұрын
Yeah!!
@AngelaMay663 жыл бұрын
Thank You.
@memoryrinehart3 жыл бұрын
Amen
@michelledevine78633 жыл бұрын
@@memoryrinehart p P
@stellawoods42723 жыл бұрын
I don't even care anymore......just rather be the crazy old lady with a house full of cats!!!!!!
@brittanyb59423 жыл бұрын
Me too!
@aimeevasquez26443 жыл бұрын
Amen!!! Cats are the best ❤️💯
@TravelingDiva-vp1gt3 жыл бұрын
Cats rock! However, I would rather be the older lady, who looks younger, travels alot, drinks wine and goes to wine tastings. I'm already 35, but look 25, so I'm going to be one hot looking "old lady." Lol!
@Lakishia3 жыл бұрын
Already getting started I have 2 cats and live alone
@heyyyyyyyyyyow3 жыл бұрын
Haha love this!
@brielleanyez71133 жыл бұрын
I dont care if he likes me, i like me. The end.
@godlovesyousomuch58943 жыл бұрын
That is a very healthy way I will be the same bc I have learned I enjoy my own company very much LOL I LIKE ME TOO
@helensanderson70923 жыл бұрын
I have recently started to like myself for who I am. I have been hurt to many times . So I have decided I'm going to be me. I have just moved in on my own and am busy with my new apartment and new job.
@issa82993 жыл бұрын
Snap.
@kwnpa40553 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂👍👍👍👍
@CrystalDatingCoach3 жыл бұрын
Amen...and that's ALL that matters.
@ceyc.24043 жыл бұрын
If a man ever says, "We'll see where it goes!" LEAVE. Thats his way of saying he likes you but not enough to snatch you up and claim you. If he isn't clear on his plan for you, say BYE.
@CrystalDatingCoach3 жыл бұрын
Translation. I'm going to USE you until I find the Woman really like. Tell them to get LOST!
@autumnclark6313 жыл бұрын
Your so right! I don't know if I want to cry or ball bust.
@JDoe-hb7pc3 жыл бұрын
Yes, it hurts but men assign points to women. You simply did not meet all the things on his list to make it worth it. Sorry it hurts and they won't tell you to your face but when they meet dream girl they pounce.
@CrystalDatingCoach3 жыл бұрын
@@JDoe-hb7pc OK it hurts. But Other people opinions about us are not out problem. Someone will appreciate you...believe me.
@jayh48303 жыл бұрын
Not true. It just mean he doesn’t know if you’re suitable yet. Don’t rush people.
@SunshineSurfsup13 жыл бұрын
Genius phrase! So true ...”a guy who wants me will not put himself in a position to loose me.” That’s actually freeing!!!!!
@im2cuteferu3 жыл бұрын
It’s genius!
@yolandakerr54383 жыл бұрын
Truest statement everrr
@flower92182 жыл бұрын
Lose
@KurosakiLuvar012 жыл бұрын
@@flower9218 I mean hey, they want to “loose” us too. Lolol
@AM-xe4iq3 жыл бұрын
Women legit need to stop caring so damn much. It’s freeing. I don’t mean we shouldn’t care at all, just stop caring about this sh*t to your own detriment. We have lives to live. We need to honor ourselves.
@nofybn77943 жыл бұрын
Well I don't care at all. I am done.
@jenniferwhite14133 жыл бұрын
Yes i totally agree! Honour thy self!
@CrystalDatingCoach3 жыл бұрын
STOP loving Men who give. Nothing.
@leesteal44583 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@victoriak.27073 жыл бұрын
That’s a really good observation. Thanks for the comment
@weinerwagon67813 жыл бұрын
Just met a guy this week. Only texting. He says on day 4 “send me a pic of those tootsie pops In your mouth lol”.....ummm I’m 46 and don’t have time for such ignorance and arrogance. Next.
@burberryclaretred66763 жыл бұрын
This guy who never dated me now after 4 years wants to pick up where we left off? So what does he want now? I’m easy and his last resort ?
@wookieelee383 жыл бұрын
Eww I know I went out with someone who called me babygirl,,gross I’m 50
@bongdubie69973 жыл бұрын
@@burberryclaretred6676 Please ignore him, he should have given it his best effort the first time!
@jadedstar74423 жыл бұрын
@@BK-tp6jf Oh, yes, believe it. They don't grow up no matter how old they are. I was shocked too when I was in my 40s and started dating again after my divorce. Now in my 60s I see where the term "dirty only man comes from". Men have no filter on how old they are. They still get just as excited on looking at a young woman as if they are the same age. This I've seen because I have an attractive daughter and have seen their first response. And these are decent men. 🤪👀👅 Not sickos. Sorry, it's in their testosterone. The main reason dating is so hard and no decency is because of the SEXUAL REVOLUTION that I lived through. Dating was always done with the pursuit of marriage. And the goal was no nookies until. (Not that that happened) But men stayed more respectful. Look at old Elvis Presley movies. In the end he always asked the girl to marry him. BUT WAIT IT GETS WORSE! Now the Democrats are gender neutralizing us. You can't say mom or dad. Its parents. You have a child. SICKOS ARE TURNING US INTO ROBOTS.
@westernskies21993 жыл бұрын
@@jadedstar7442 Do we just keep letting them tell us what we can say and can't say? No ! This a joke. I will continue with my Constitutional right to free speech.
@ArcticAngel83 жыл бұрын
Guys always try to come back , from what I've learned most are damaged and insecure ..dont feed their ego.
@ritah47133 жыл бұрын
@@kvooo765 Yea so they can destroy you with the constructs you helped build them - ehm we think not.
@ritah47133 жыл бұрын
@@kvooo765 best thing you can do is let 'em go. Let them heal themselves. Don't burn yourself trying to heal others and don't advice others to.
@mosesalv3 жыл бұрын
I am an Empath and if my ex narc heloed rebuilt me, i wiuld do the same but narcissists don't have compassiin and has a cristal ball to see the future bettail ? Think npt. Delusion
@KayciazWorld3 жыл бұрын
@@ritah4713 Yep! Happened to me
@anetak.94943 жыл бұрын
@@kvooo765 nope. Nope. Nope. What you do is building them up for the next one because by the end of your help all they will see you as is a therapist, nothing else.
@de.talleyduncan94433 жыл бұрын
Deceased husband DID do laundry, vacuum, cook, out to restaurants a lot!. Insisted he’s mowing yard, weed eating, fixing vehicles, fixing house, paying bills. Etc. He made certain I’d have what I needed before he died. Including our Tombstone. Medical situation. Several times... Everyday he’d say “I love you!” “Hello Gorgeous!” Then say with tears in his eyes, “I worship the dirt you walk on!” I loved him back the same way! There’s so much more! We lived in PEACE. He died in PEACE. I live in PEACE now... Bc of His TRUE LOVE!
@nosratsalamat45243 жыл бұрын
So lucky, may he RIP
@lynettewaks20363 жыл бұрын
That’s beautiful, so happy you had that with him. We all want that kind of guy.❤️
@cl50803 жыл бұрын
How I miss my Dale. He was just that kind of stand up guy. He was my Superman 😢
@cicin93133 жыл бұрын
So beautiful! 💜
@idontknowanymore89683 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss sugar. he sounded like 1 of a kind 💕
@snookums9993 жыл бұрын
I would rather die alone (happily) than to compromise my sanity by someone who treats my love like a habit
@Phoenixishot3 жыл бұрын
🎯
@anitafreeman61813 жыл бұрын
ok
@kathleensueoka35992 жыл бұрын
You are truly a “smarty pants”.
@Cinder19873 жыл бұрын
Long distance is usually a joke if the guy goes months and months without meeting you or seeing you in person. As, he’s possibly married or in a relationship and using you as a side friend.
@juri88213 жыл бұрын
I’ve been in a long distance relationship for a year now and we see each other every other month. It’s the best relationship I’ve had and we treat each other even better than when we first started dating. Constant FaceTimes and love. Long distance is never a joke if you know what you want.
@Cinder19873 жыл бұрын
@@juri8821 Exactly, I stated that it is a joke if you haven’t met or not seeing each other regularly. My comment was not meant for your situation. 😁
@mizzcrazygal3 жыл бұрын
oh yea my ex broke up w me cus of distance even though i said i’ll come see u each week he said i just don’t have the time lol
@thebriellebeauty3 жыл бұрын
Y
@patriciakrakowiak14423 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree! I just broke up with a man who I met on a dating app because after 4 months of daily talking he was too busy to meet me. He only lived an hour away from me. Always had an excuse why he cant come see me. I got tired of it.
@romainecalm11083 жыл бұрын
For all the ‘unsure’ ladies...that is your gut telling you “NO”...
@MsBizzyGurl3 жыл бұрын
Here's the truth: he needs to want to be with you. You do you and if a man comes by often, is thoughtful, checks in (without being told) and respects your opinions that's someone who wants a relationship. You can't pick a man - he has to pick you.
@michelleperez42743 жыл бұрын
Most of the time the gut feeling is real, sometimes we are just to cocky to follow our gut. I always like how real you are! 🥰🤗
@toneyfox63283 жыл бұрын
Not cocky many dont trust themselves
@michelleperez42743 жыл бұрын
@@toneyfox6328 I have been too cocky to not follow my gut. But every case is different, I'd say my case was one in a thousand 🤷
@toneyfox63283 жыл бұрын
@@michelleperez4274 i got u my love least u are honest
@oscarwilliamson12643 жыл бұрын
Michelle Perez,Your lovely smile 😊 can make the news!😊😊🤙
@michelleperez42743 жыл бұрын
@@oscarwilliamson1264 you're so sweet, thank you 😊
@AshleyMintz3 жыл бұрын
One time when I was watching one of your lives, we were going back and forth about my situation with a guy coming back after pulling away. You were saying what you say here, that he never would have pulled away if he was serious. It was hard to hear but shortly after, I let him go internally. I had to emotionally let him go. And once I did that, I began getting asked out by other men and am getting back into dating again soon. Thx.
@ElliotScottDating3 жыл бұрын
It's all a cycle baby! The only thing you have to give up for your new life is your old one!
@memoryrinehart3 жыл бұрын
It's an awful cycle. Hurt then hurt then hurt then hurt again, ad finem.
@lemonspring64253 жыл бұрын
Yeah been there. Appears, disappears, appears again. Hurting, led me to heart ache
@McFraneth3 жыл бұрын
Some house plants would transform that space.
@patriciaque1973 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@shyneintuition5553 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@bellabong88623 жыл бұрын
Basically, if a guy really loves us (is sexually attracted, likes us mentally and is bonded emotionally and will make personal sacrifices for our happiness), we will feel safe and loved and won't be wondering.
@kristenfromOZ2 жыл бұрын
Your gut feeling is NEVER wrong
@Ohkeh6402 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@chrisherber16353 ай бұрын
I don’t know if it’s the same for men. I consider myself to be pretty emotionally mature with a lot of experience with humans in general. My gut told me “safe”, but the reality was “used” 😕
@kittybang3 жыл бұрын
“Stop beating a dead horse, you’re only breaking your own bones.”
@jenniferwhite14133 жыл бұрын
Ha ha! I suppose your right! Xxx
@anajayasmr71263 жыл бұрын
Wow we had a argument today and he mention one subject was like beating a dead horse. Seems like I should just walk away
@kittybang3 жыл бұрын
@@jenniferwhite1413 xoxo
@kittybang3 жыл бұрын
@@anajayasmr7126 damn.. sorry your stud is a dud
@CrystalDatingCoach3 жыл бұрын
He calls and make Dates he likes you. He Texts you every day. Morning and nite. Send cute messages. MEANS NOTHING.
@maryt79593 жыл бұрын
Yes , because he has a girl for each day I bet ! So yes .... you need seriousness and real commitment and share the same life long vision .... stay blessed. Pace to you !
@angelac.12643 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more
@CrystalDatingCoach3 жыл бұрын
@@maryt7959 Stop rushing into their beds!
@51844mj3 жыл бұрын
Preach woman yassss
@maddart44453 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@KiKi-te9yd3 жыл бұрын
At 40yo, I hate dating now. I have such envy of everyone who has found themselves a loving committed partner in life. I wish I had that, but I can’t find it anywhere.
@hjtres72613 жыл бұрын
I feel this 150%,my friend.
@isras67023 жыл бұрын
If you already have a passport - start booking flights - see more of the world & you will gain perspective. Blessings to you 💕🙏🏽
@bonitasbuzz33703 жыл бұрын
stop claiming your negativity. research youtube. trust God
@emanaturalsaus3 жыл бұрын
Have you ever had one love in the past 20years? If yes, then it's time to celebrate what was & start to concentrate on yourself. If you've not had one, then stay hopeful & love yourself most of all. There's a lot of us in this situation. Each sit is different. But we must stay happy & hopeful. Most of all spiritual & lovingl. Love to you all
@HD-xb9mj3 жыл бұрын
Try being older than 40, uts tough it seems that some of us are luckier in love and some of us hv a really hard time and may end up single.
@samanthathompson98123 жыл бұрын
Apparently no guy has ever wanted a relationship with me because they all put themselves in a position to lose me.
@jadedstar74423 жыл бұрын
Do you do things that they will want you? OR do you act stand offish? We have have to be appealing and caring too. If that goes unnoticed or unappreciated; THEN they are losers.
@SaraFJones3 жыл бұрын
I feel ya girl! Felt like no one chooses me either!
@marylnmonroe3 жыл бұрын
What type of men are you going after?
@citizn-xh7rv3 жыл бұрын
Same
@jacquelinemulder8010 Жыл бұрын
I hope you are well today. I feel what you are saying ❤. Never excuse yourself for having a good heart.
@autumnclark6313 жыл бұрын
Ladies Don't give up your peach, until he shows you he really cares. Hold off
@autumnclark6313 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the heart on my comment, I really appreciate your advice because its not sugar coated, you keep 100% cuss words and all! Your genuine and it shows thank you Elliott
@lioydwilliams18503 жыл бұрын
@@autumnclark631 you must be a precious being
@autumnclark6313 жыл бұрын
@@lioydwilliams1850 i do my best
@gloriaa02143 жыл бұрын
So hard
@autumnclark6313 жыл бұрын
@@gloriaa0214 Your right! Because let's face it women love sex too. Ive had my share of hooking up on the 1st date, and that basically set my place with the guy, I never leveled up to GF material just booty call. So I guess if you dont want him long term the .
@Bibirallie3 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad I don’t date. I don’t have time for this mess.
@danamclean96073 жыл бұрын
Right. Too many games smh
@AD_23143 жыл бұрын
Same. Some bs
@nofybn77943 жыл бұрын
PREACH!!
@equalitarianbiologist23273 жыл бұрын
Date when you've realized a man is decently mature after you've known him for 5-8 months
@equalitarianbiologist23273 жыл бұрын
@Kate Middlefinger oouch. Be graceful inhere
@nicolejennings83893 жыл бұрын
If he calls you mommy, there's an entirely separate set of issues
@patriciaque1973 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@shirleymorales31613 жыл бұрын
Nicole Jennings lol unless he is Hispanic Mami is actually an endearment ( call actual mom Ama )😂
@MsBhappy3 жыл бұрын
@@shirleymorales3161 still Freud would have a word or two hundred thousand to say on that.
@assyrianbull2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@unapologeticallyme44283 жыл бұрын
I attract men who don't know how to handle my loyalty, straightforwardness ( that men say they want),independence, thoughtfulness, empathetic nature. I feel they are use to toxic women that when a real one comes they get scared or think i have alterior motives. I feel all the real men are taken, gay or want to stay single because they've been hurt so much.
@biancadelarosa79863 жыл бұрын
Don't give up on life and the universe I know of a great man who helped you me fix my broken hear beat relationship and everything was restored to pormal in days without delay
@biancadelarosa79863 жыл бұрын
Text him on WhatsApp
@biancadelarosa79863 жыл бұрын
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@danaglover68013 жыл бұрын
I’ve been sayin this for days now. Your comment is definitely my confirmation🙌🏽. The whole damn part💯💯
@kelliritter86883 жыл бұрын
That's me exactly I feel too much and the men that I Date don't feel enough. Drives me nuts.
@kristenmoonrise3 жыл бұрын
I had a similar situation happen. The guy was buttering me up in the beginning and was looking to move back to his home state, my state. Says he was going to move to my city specifically. He was expecting me to give it up. I didn't. Then he ghosted lol. These guys will tell you anything to get in your pants 😅
@jackseve3 жыл бұрын
Or move in.
@kristenmoonrise3 жыл бұрын
@@jackseve lol true!
@kristylynn40473 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you avoided a disaster. ❤️
@daphneduryea91363 жыл бұрын
@@jackseve This...
@NotBenAffleck3 жыл бұрын
This literally just happened to me verbatim!!!
@emeraldeyes86883 жыл бұрын
We don’t want to listen to our guts all the time because it’s so disappointing, as we always come across phonies, players, and nutcases. For once we want our gut to be wrong lol. 😏
@emanaturalsaus3 жыл бұрын
Yes v true
@carolinenorman61413 жыл бұрын
Lol I love your lack of political correctness
@emanaturalsaus3 жыл бұрын
Guys do a thousand crazy things & so don't take em seriously. Take yourself seriously! Stay confident, loving & spiritually sound.
@jeannestandley-kinata8243 жыл бұрын
The " good looking Dude" is a Narcissist who is trying to Hoover the Lady from California up. He is not worthy of her. Go No Contact and learn about Narcisstic Abuse Recovery to save your Self the heartache. I am sending love and hugs from Washington State, USA, Jeanne of In Loving Hands Counseling and ASMR
@MeIBell73 жыл бұрын
100% narcissist! They need constant supply wherever they can get it to feed their ego.
@cleeeeobug3 жыл бұрын
6-8 dates in the midst of pandemic? I’m doomed
@brittanyb59423 жыл бұрын
🤣
@katalynbabe3 жыл бұрын
Exactly lol
@NJ-rl3jr3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@rcfwood3 жыл бұрын
Dates can be a hike, a walk in park, coffee by your cars, eating outside restaurant if weather good
@jennifercarroll76683 жыл бұрын
Makes complete sense. If I guy really likes you be won't put himself in a position to lose you. He should be willing to commit to a relationship after eight dates. Well said.
@maddart44453 жыл бұрын
So don’t have sex until 8 dates in
@ericsmith58263 жыл бұрын
8 dates? lmao if he really like you it only take 3-4
@lanceromusic3 жыл бұрын
same goes for you ladies. If you really like him, you won’t put yourself in a position to lose him. Goes both ways. That’s fair to say.
@bonitasbuzz33703 жыл бұрын
8 :0
@jammyjay9173 жыл бұрын
We can't keep watering a dead flower....it's pointless! 😘😘 Forget it.....
@hannahlifexo12863 жыл бұрын
Dude I’ve made so many excuses for this dude. He’s my ex and is going to remain that forever! He just wanted the assets! Us women need to be more cautious and not give into unavailable men.
@shalalala8682 жыл бұрын
Exes are the most dangerous! I dumped an ex eons ago and he was more into me than him. Fast forward years later, I get divorced and we reconnect and he tells me “I’m the one that got away” yet he’s inconsistent, inconsiderate, future faked, broke promises. I was just looking to hook up since I had just left my marriage but once I wanted to venture into something more serious, I dropped him. Life is too short! Once you and that person aren’t on the same page you have to move on.
@LauraSchermerhorn3 жыл бұрын
This was hard to hear but so soooooo true. Listen to Elliot.
@lioydwilliams18503 жыл бұрын
Laura,your lovely smile can make the news
@oscarwilliamson12643 жыл бұрын
Laura,ulu look stunning 🌹🌹🌷🌷 dear
@Cinder19873 жыл бұрын
Yep, dump these type guys that don’t care if they do things that may lose you. It’s a waste of your precious time when they could care less. Find someone that actually puts in the effort.
@edendeville3 жыл бұрын
“What is he doing now?” Reminds me if the Janet Jackson song “What have you done for me lately” aka, my new theme tune! 😂
@bitchpuhleese3 жыл бұрын
I attract the emotionally unavailable men.
@breakergirl473 жыл бұрын
Become available to yourself, it will stop. Pay attention to the the message they bring you. Maybe you have to learn something or heal something or stop doing certain things. They are a blessing in disguise. Don’t just fall for them, the quick you can get the message the better.
@katvond63463 жыл бұрын
@Apple Betty Aren't all 'men' like this😂🤣 Seems to me they act like boys...no matter the age.
@katvond63463 жыл бұрын
@Carolyn Morten 😂so right! "Next" nailed it hahha🙌
@bybyana263 жыл бұрын
Story of my life!
@svasianfilipiname66033 жыл бұрын
A lot of people attract the emotionally, financially unavailable men
@nicolebrowne36323 жыл бұрын
Coach Elliot is so right ! I have dated a few men and realized after a few to many dates they didn’t want the same thing . I now have met me a man who after 3 weeks of us dating ( though we met 5 years ago) asked me to be exclusive. It is now going on 4 months and he hasn’t changed, though we had a few fights he is always the one to do the chasing , he has stepped up since I lost my job end of sept , still buys me flowers every other week , I’m with this man just about every day helping him with his business and I have my own key And my stuff at his house . He hates going a day without me . I’m looking forward to my first thanksgiving with him and our two grown sons . Ladies , if he doesn’t commit after a certain time , let it go because most men will continue to get it all without the commitment .
@ShinySilverBunny3 жыл бұрын
Why are you helping him with his business? Are you his employee? Or are you just helping to build it? I would not do that if I were you. Is he paying your bills aside from buying flowers?
@nicolebrowne36323 жыл бұрын
@@ShinySilverBunny one thing I will not allow a man to take advantage of me for money ,. He has a landscaping and irrigation company , He is showing me things and keeping me busy while I’m not working . He is also going to give my son work cash in hand over the holidays . He gave my front yard a make over with all new landscaping and cost me nothing , he also fixed things in my house , he pays pretty much everything.
@ShinySilverBunny3 жыл бұрын
@@nicolebrowne3632 right on. You got it girl!!
@ChasingCarson3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I needed to see this.
@prettypenne6623 жыл бұрын
True
@Goodnewsgoodeats3 жыл бұрын
The men that comes after me never got love from their mom, they are always looking for the love their mom never gave them.
@stayhoney68633 жыл бұрын
Sad. So many broken men
@cindycinn27243 жыл бұрын
When you meet a man and start talking about things mention what you will and not tolerate and stick to it Don't let anyone test you don't fall for sugary words All relationships are usually perfect in the beginning Wait and see Be a listener not a talker and you will find out who he reminds you of If it is someone you didn't like then don't try to change them Find what you are looking for Its out there but you can't find them wearing rose colored glasses...take them off!!!!
@Dia_Hunny_Boo3 жыл бұрын
Yesssss!!!! This! When they remind you of someone else that’s a huge flag!
@cindycinn27243 жыл бұрын
@@Dia_Hunny_Boo yes it is...I know
@annd84253 жыл бұрын
😂 Elliot is right. If he calls you Mommy - run girl, run!
@godlovesyousomuch58943 жыл бұрын
I think if a woman says "It will be different this time " It is a very very bad sign It is NOT going to work out
@happydays96133 жыл бұрын
Elliot Scott you are 100% correct. We as women need to stop opening our legs and being idiots with men full stop. Wait assess, make sure all his actions meet his words. Stop being easy access, no man I know refuses sex. If you enjoy being a used up door mat. Then ignore and keep doing your thing that clearly is not working. I learnt the hard way and got wise. We all make mistakes but for goodness sake stop repeating them.
@wookieelee383 жыл бұрын
But if you did give up the assets and think you messed up? turn it around and say you used him too. Just sayin we as woman can’t be left feeling guilty all the time because we “gave it up” be a lioness ladies stop feeling guilty. 🦁 do what’s right and we won’t feel guilty bottomline
@cocoaocean Жыл бұрын
💯
@nomorenarcz3 жыл бұрын
"don't let him call you Mommy". Oh my..😂😂😂
@Nancy221023 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@zoraidacastro54033 жыл бұрын
Mami, with a Spanish tone is actually different
@heatherintheskywithdiamondz3 жыл бұрын
@@zoraidacastro5403 exactly zo
@jenniferwhite14133 жыл бұрын
Why not? Mine calls me momma l!
@loriwadsworth59303 жыл бұрын
He wants you to be his mother. Beware. Look up narcissism....
@hiyd.y97873 жыл бұрын
i dont know why i've never felt anything like this my gut feeling just tells me to trust him and relax😅😌, i've never feel so peaceful while being in a relationship.. im not obssesed or too attached its just so balanced and i love him, he reciprocates this i think its why i feel at peace
@lashondaward29243 жыл бұрын
I believe you have found the one if your soul is at peace .Congratulation he really could be the one
@helentaylor71323 жыл бұрын
@@lashondaward2924 I agree. I told my daughter that rather than that excited feeling you have in the beginning, what she's watching for are feelings of peace and well-being.
@btstakescareofmewhenimsick48923 жыл бұрын
At this point,.i trust my guts more than any guy around. Maybe i should date my guts.
@prettypenne6623 жыл бұрын
Funny
@carolinenorman61413 жыл бұрын
Lol
@christahgold3 жыл бұрын
The gut never lies. Thank you for this. Xoxo
@skytyler39973 жыл бұрын
I usually put in the effort, but if I see that she's not reciprocating it back, I just walk away.
@CNM23263 жыл бұрын
What he is doing now is breadcrumbing me, taking me for granted and I'm not even a priority anymore he says he's busy. I've tried the detachment of pulling away as he pulled away... he wasn't fazed. I've tried talking like an adult, he says he's busy but I see him go offline when I come online or go offline in the middle of our conversation. I broke up with him and we kept talking for a few weeks now that I'm going home soon(long distance relationship) he says he wants to meet up and rekindle the love we had 🙄😣. It hurts that I wasted my precious year with this guy hoping he would go back to normal. I'm not saying I'm in a rush to get married but the fact that women have a time limit to do so makes it that much more saddening that he wasted my time. Now I have to breakup with him officially when I go home and move on
@jenniferlouissaint3 жыл бұрын
You do not have to have a full blown meeting or conversation. Clear lines: “You’re being inconsistent and unreliable. With the distance and your behavior this is not going to work. I hope that you find what you’re looking for and good bye.” This is a job, if you’re not executing, you’re fired.
@ashaf.61433 жыл бұрын
@@jenniferlouissaint Yasssss👏👏👏👏 you said the word Lady!! You know those dang tricks...he knows she's vulnerable ,he'll prob try to get some physical assets AND THEN resume his bargain basement behaviour. CM you are worth more than whatever cheap acts he's given and is still tryna give. I highly recommend you cut n paste what Jenn said up top. He won't know what hit him. All the Best✨
@mademoiselleannarose96233 жыл бұрын
CM I have been there. What hurts the most in the end is losing our precious time. Men know that we do have a time limit, so those who doesn't show through their actions that they have a life plan with you in it dont deserve a second of your time. Many men need ego boosts from women and you have to cut them loose. All the best ❤
@melissajohnson72523 жыл бұрын
Damn this was some hardcore truth I needed to hear 😔😒
@tiffytoo3 жыл бұрын
I'm fn DONE!!! stick a fork in me!!!
@gailmgreenlee70393 жыл бұрын
Ha ha ha ha there's no guys actually I m even attracted to really anyways that are sweet in prob last 21 years
@gailmgreenlee70393 жыл бұрын
I honestly stopped looking oreven trying
@Kiki-jx6by3 жыл бұрын
Guys usually want a relationship by date 3 with me. That’s rushing it. I need to know who I am dealing with first. Heck I move so slow they leave me lol.
@heide-raquelfuss55803 жыл бұрын
A man who is really into you does not leave you if you slow. This men are players. They say and want a relationship with you after 3 dates to manipulate you. It is a trick. Especially when they leave you being slow. My unckle waited 7 years for his woman. She said... 1st i want to finish school. 2t first i want to marry you, before having sex and moving in together. He respected her conditions. They are 75 now. Bless you lady.
@lisajoye57213 жыл бұрын
I like "positively cautious." It's true about gut feelings. Women have very instinctive, intuitive awareness that we do not use often enough, or do not tap into completely. Listen to that inner conscious voice when in a place of imbalance. Very seldom is it wrong. Great job again, Elliot! 😊💯
@ashleygarden69063 жыл бұрын
👍🎯🎯🎯
@lioydwilliams18503 жыл бұрын
Lisa Joye,hope you are with a good man
@lisajoye57213 жыл бұрын
@@lioydwilliams1850 Actually, not right now. I have learned to let go of unhealthy situations and focus on becoming the best I can be for myself first, then for someone else, if it is to be in my future. It is an ongoing process.
@crissieasmr77653 жыл бұрын
Girls, if you manage to get into a “committed relationship” with a guy who wants “to see where it goes”...you are going to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t give a shit about you or your needs. He’ll always put himself and his needs first, always. You will basically only exist for sex and to be paraded around in public. He is doing you a favor by “rejecting” you because you don’t know how much worse it is to be committed to someone like that. It’s fucking awful and you will need several friends, therapists, and god to heal you. Lol seriously.
@gr8-fun1623 жыл бұрын
This sounds confused. If he is saying, "let's see where it goes ," it is not a committed relationship. You might be thinking it is, but clearly he has not committed if he's saying, "let's see where it goes. " (which is a non-committal statement; he is telling you he is not committed.) Maybe he is exclusively seeing you for now but there's no definition of short term or long term? Maybe not even that? I think better, more direct communication is in order.
@crissieasmr77653 жыл бұрын
@@gr8-fun162 again, if you manage to get into a relationship with someone who is wishy-washy, you are going to be in a relationship with a wishy-washy person. Also, I used to say that all the time and it means “I want to get to know you and you don’t have to feel pressure”. If you’re meeting people off the internet, than that statement is just a fact, not a sign of being noncommittal. If a guy is saying that after you’ve had sex with him, than you have a problem.
@gr8-fun1623 жыл бұрын
@@crissieasmr7765 If the guy is saying, "Let's see where this goes," he is not being wishy-washy; he is saying, "I am not comfortable enough to commit to you yet, but maybe later if things remain pleasant, fun and I feel you are meeting my needs and expectations and are adding value to my already satisfying existence." As I said, it is a non-committal statement; a snapshot in time about how he is feeling about it. It's a "maybe" but not a commitment. If a commitment is what she wants before having s3x, then she needs to have that discussion using clear, direct communication before they take that trip to the bedroom together. If she doesn't, it is very possible that they are both operating on different assumptions about expectations , needs and desires concerning the relationship. He's thinking short term casual while she's thinking long term committed, or vice versa. If she thinks not getting a commitment after having s3x is a problem, it was created by poor communication of her expectations and/or desires on her part and going ahead with s3x before the parameters of the relationship were made clear between them.
@crissieasmr77653 жыл бұрын
@@gr8-fun162 I don’t think you understood my original post. Saying “let’s see where it goes” does not exclude the possibility of a relationship. It’s reasonable to say that if you are being pressured into a commitment with someone you don’t know. People who try to tie-down others into premature commitment are just as emotionally unavailable as people who deflect conversations about commitment. There is a lot of nuance in the real world.
@gr8-fun1623 жыл бұрын
@@crissieasmr7765I don't think you're understanding my comments. Your original post reads, "... if you manage to get into a 'committed relationship' with a guy who wants 'to see where it goes'...". The two are mutually exclusive. If he "wants to see where it goes," then he has not committed. Therefore one cannot be in a mutually committed relationship with a guy who still "wants to see where it goes." Yes, it does not exclude the possibility of a relationship. In fact, one already exists, it's just not a committed relationship. If she thinks it is committed and he is saying it is not with "let's see where it goes," then there is confusion and misunderstanding. Perhaps the angst lies in that she felt committed to him, and went to the bedroom with him, assuming he felt the same and there would be commitment from him in return without discussing it first. Then, when there wasn't, she got upset. People can be emotionally available before commitment, in fact, they usually are, it's the healthy path to commitment. Saying, "let's see where it goes" is not a deflection, it is saying, "I am not ready for a commitment - yet." Confusing "nuances" and expectations of "mind reading" of said nuances are reduced or eliminated with upfront, open, honest communication.
@tovah88413 жыл бұрын
Gotta play your cards right, dating is a game, “i know I know it sucks” but what i do is i “play dumb at times,I feed their egos, I tell them what they want to hear, I act as I don’t like them as much & play with their minds alit, dress causally but same time to the nines...It works because I’m testing them, I learned this from a young age.. I was a nice girl and kept it real before but that doesn’t work, us ladies we gotta be 100 steps ahead of them...We have the power to control everything, and I mean everything 😉.. Don’t give up your “goods” to any men!!! Make him work for you and want you ..👌🏼 We are powerful ladies, don’t give up that power ...
@Sagha43 жыл бұрын
I met a guy a year and a half ago and I still haven't had sex with him. He is beyond obsessed with me till this day. I don't rush anything, as I matter to me and may the best guy for me be the man for me... Then he can have all of the goodies.
@tovah88413 жыл бұрын
@@Sagha4 exactly!!👏🏼👏🏼 you know exactly what to do! Keep it up.. When I was younger I was so naive and gave it up to this guy I really liked, I thought by just giving it up would keep him, but I learned real quick, hell naw.. Us women we really do have the power over them.. I realize we gotta make them like us more then we do like them.. hope that made sense lol
@godlovesyousomuch58943 жыл бұрын
You should teach a class My grandma told me dating was a game I wish I had understood how much it is a game I would have enjoyed dating so much more than stupidity getting married so fast 3 TIMES
@godlovesyousomuch58943 жыл бұрын
@@Sagha4 Really the only problem I see with this is what is the point if you do not get to enjoy sex with him Or are you having sex with others and just denying him sex Either way it sounds like a bad relationship Because a sexless relationship is not a good relationship
@kirazinn3 жыл бұрын
Everything you said is valid 100%. That why u got to have options of guys to date ladies. Especially for men that just want to pop in & out of life all the time
@lindseymyers25663 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love your videos! As a woman, even though there are topics that are uncomfortable for us to hear or come to the realization of situations, I can really respect and appreciate your bluntness and just getting right down to the point of the matter and calling out these shitbag kind of guys for what they are and helping us women to not run with our blinders on or make excuses! As far as I'm concerned that takes balls so keep up the good work!
@ivy38392 жыл бұрын
Yes it’s not pleasant to hear but so needed and helpful . Thanks Elliot !
@megankate47223 жыл бұрын
I know for a fact I'm generally delusional in life and try stay aware of my idealism but still get cognitive dissonance in relationships 😑 my gut feeling brought me here and 13 minutes later I've politely and lovingly given him the freedom to pick a direction and fuck off😂 Thank you for giving a fuck about the state of things. You've helped a lot❤ ... I may need to download this and revisit it every few months😂
@hedwig0413 жыл бұрын
I met my man online, went on a date within a week of talking and THE SECOND WE SPOKE I knew this was different. I was like ok don't fuck this up, this is it if you really want it to be. We went for dinner and forgot to look at menus we couldn't stop talking. We talked and talked and talked, went for a drink and talked and talked more. Before I knew it 3 hours had gone by. Usually I'm the introvert who will look for an escape because dating is exhausting, but this was so easy. We organised to meet again a few days later, a date that ended up lasting about 9 hours. We connected on such a deep, emotional level, and there were no games, no "does he/ doesn't he," it was just easy! 5 weeks later we went into full lockdown, so I moved in with him. Even though lockdown has ended, we still live together and are building a life together. We met only 10 months ago today, lived together 9 months, and neither of us have ever been more content. 10 months isn't long, but I've got a good feeling 😄
@clarinedenis45903 жыл бұрын
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@clarinedenis45903 жыл бұрын
Ate so rigjt
@clarinedenis45903 жыл бұрын
The
@LoveDayandAge3 жыл бұрын
👊
@cicin93133 жыл бұрын
Thats awesome! Hope you are still going strong!
@chellybabyme3 жыл бұрын
He's right. Experience talking here: I waited longer than Elliot says. And this guy did get better. HOWEVER, the principle still applies. Holidays suck, because the principle still applies. Just because we're around each other does not mean he cherishes me. He does not. He knows he has a good woman, his friends know... but it's not in his heart. This guy is not even a bad guy or a player. He keeps to himself and is slightly generous but I don't have his heart. Elliott is right. A dumb amount of time has gone by at this point and I don't have his heart, so it is a little unhealthy to say the least. Elliot is right.
@skryvazena65483 жыл бұрын
Yuou're right. I was inexperienced, it was my first, coming so late in my late 30's. I was waiting for two years. It did get better, but when it's low it's very low. And it still ended.
@Alixir122811 ай бұрын
He IS a bad guy if he knows you're not in his heart, but he keeps you around for your benefits.
@chellybabyme11 ай бұрын
@@Alixir1228 Two years since I posted that. I was still looking for potential. You are right. He was a bad guy. An opportunist.
@tishtish7773 жыл бұрын
This man speaking straight facts it's the actions, motives , consistency, and effort for me. A man who wants you will consistently show you and pursue young man who is not wasting your time will make time if he makes consistent excuses cant answer simple yes or no exactly that coming and goin ghosting shit yes he has put himself in a position to lose you and pursue your other options stop letting him waste your time CUT IT OFF SIS BLOCK DELETE MOVE ON PERIODT!🙌🙌🙌💅💪✌ Trust me what he wont do another will I promise you!!!!!!😜🤪🙌🙌😍😍
@ElliotScottDating3 жыл бұрын
facts on facts on facts girl!
@tishtish7773 жыл бұрын
@@ElliotScottDating Thanks Elliot love your content 🙌🙌 moving on isnt always easy but staying isnt always worth it either especially when it's someone playing games.
@anastasijabeograd39033 жыл бұрын
THIS is probably your best video of all times!!! Finally I have the feeling while you‘re talking, that you really want to help us!
@jana00133 жыл бұрын
You are right, I knew that in my gut. Mostly because he lives on the other country and it would only be long distance!
@susan50482 жыл бұрын
Ladies this is how it should look like. My husband perused me, took me off the market, claimed me and asked me to marry him . No games no being unsure . Anything less run like gasoline drawers.
@Ohkeh6402 жыл бұрын
Lovely thank you xx
@margaretrefile82073 жыл бұрын
And even after 6-8 dates don’t give it up until you’re married. 6-8 exclusive, 1 year of more dates, engaged...marriage then make all the love you want exclusively off the dating market.
@gigiinfinitespirit3 жыл бұрын
So he doesn't like me, he's just addicted to me. What a cruel real raw TRUTH!
@godlovesyousomuch58943 жыл бұрын
I found out the hardest way that a man can even marry you and STILL just be using the woman I will set MUCH higher standards from now on I will NEVER wear rose colored glasses again Even marriage does not mean he wants a relationship
@Cinder19873 жыл бұрын
After being married twice I now think differently about marriage. It is a paper that is for possession and money control by the two parties. Love may not be there on either end or by only one. But, at least you get something out of the relationship for your time given to him such as a home, automobile, other possessions, and money. I know this sounds like it’s lacking depth but after doing this twice you want to get something tangible out of the time you give a man. Believe me, they will take your time and your body and give nothing in return if you let them.
@lynnsandrasannicolas62243 жыл бұрын
@godlove Yes so very true . Just look at shanann watts situation. RIP.
@learningearning83853 жыл бұрын
Where was this 10 years ago? I’m stuck in this never ending situationship
@Sunflowers_2203 жыл бұрын
For 10 years ? thats rough ! Hope you'l find the courage to leave
@GemZbabe1013 жыл бұрын
Giiiirl... look up sheraseven1
@JC-gq2lo3 жыл бұрын
@@GemZbabe101 right
@aaliyahsashabrookes79523 жыл бұрын
Leave
@aaliyahsashabrookes79523 жыл бұрын
@@GemZbabe101 for real
@suncloudx65023 жыл бұрын
Today I told him i have to let him go, after months of hot and cold behaviour,and not responding to my messages. And he blocked me...what now elliot xx
@ElliotScottDating3 жыл бұрын
Now it's time you move on lol. Nothing more here. It was done months ago. I am proud of you!
@saphirus1able3 жыл бұрын
My guess is that he blocked you because you rejected him first and it hurt his pride. I hope you stay strong and move forward and date more candidates that are worthy of you.
@nkeiruka59303 жыл бұрын
@@ElliotScottDating I like you for one thing, you are straight forward man
@ElliotScottDating3 жыл бұрын
@@nkeiruka5930 awe shucks. Thank you
@nkeiruka59303 жыл бұрын
@@ElliotScottDating you welcome
@CherylGoldstein3 жыл бұрын
I have a weird relationship and I’m not sure how to go forward
@bonitasbuzz33703 жыл бұрын
outside the will of God, expect trouble. leave & Live
@ElliotScottDating3 жыл бұрын
6-8 dates! That's it! Without structure, there will be chaos!
@jaceem41753 жыл бұрын
Find christ and put him first. because if you don't satan will send guys your way who only want your body.
@joyos4132 жыл бұрын
Same here, so confused 😕
@caitx40273 жыл бұрын
"Go to the fridge lil johnny" 😂😂😂😂😂 omg
@katiie73 жыл бұрын
“Dont let him call you mommy” 😂I burst out laughing 🤣
@ladynottingham892 жыл бұрын
If we take away one thing, forget anything a guy says and look only at what he does. Also, invest in someone not based on your interest for them, but on the interest they show in you. It's sad this is something women are learning from a stranger on KZbin when it's something a father should have taught his daughter. Instead, you have grown women learning the rules of the game waaay to late.
@celiastarot3 жыл бұрын
Hahahhaa don’t let him call you “mommy” I’m crying!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@catic65873 жыл бұрын
This is so true! I have had a recent experience about that. They come back around because they like to consume, not to invest. Some are so stupid lazy that they don’t even realize that and they just lie even to themselves saying “I am a good guy” ....yeah, right :(
@hannahg.52683 жыл бұрын
This is why we have to be very careful ladies. Dating a low caliber man is emotionally expensive.. I'd rather be a single dog and happy than to be married and miserable.
@biancadelarosa79863 жыл бұрын
Don't give up on life and the universe I know of a great man who helped you me fix my broken hear beat relationship and everything was restored to pormal in days without delay
@biancadelarosa79863 жыл бұрын
Text him on WhatsApp
@biancadelarosa79863 жыл бұрын
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@eveline_yoga3 жыл бұрын
The gut brain is for real, good video Elliot ❤️
@chikochiringa72473 жыл бұрын
If a guy truly loves you, he wont put himself in a position to lose you
@jodiday56443 жыл бұрын
#1 reason why Both!! men and women are not and cannot deal with being in a Relationship as of lately ... Because Women are doing This thing now called EMPLOYMENT! ... They're up at 5am, get ready for a 9hr day...work until 5pm...then home for the night, eat dinner, walk ur dog, go to the gym, get ready for bed and up at 5am!! ... again, do this M-F 60hrs a week. No one has time to Date/Courtship anymore. Remember the late '60s early 70s??...some of you may not, but some of us do... Anyways...Mary Tyler Moore threw a hat in the air and said she was just going to make it on her own .... because she Had to go to work/employment!!! ... And relationships are a lot of work but no one has time for them... we're all just too busy taking care of ourselves and not each other (anymore)....so sad 😢
@karasloan1823 жыл бұрын
If a guy truly likes you he won't put himself in a position to lose you💣
@Dee-qi4ft3 жыл бұрын
6 years of ldr with a younger guy who hid me , never met me from the airport , bought me 2 xmass gifts 0 b day gifts 1 v day card, then dumped me online then ghosted me how dumb was i😔
@meganruchwatercolors71863 жыл бұрын
Oh wow I am in this situation right now! Dating for exactly 8 weeks and just dropped the bomb I do mor want a girlfriend......damn he came on thick!!!! Talk is cheap and he was so G. O O D at it!
@prjdghyt3 жыл бұрын
My gut says the guy talking to me right now is collecting girls and is a liar. Haha. 😌 I am not expecting anything from him anymore.
@Chimalmita13 жыл бұрын
Elliot, you have studied literature so you must be an introvert. Nevetheless, you have an awesome youtube channel and you seem so open sharing your expertise with us. How the hell do you do it?
@chrisherber16353 ай бұрын
I really advocate for this guy’s channel. I’m sick of hearing all my homegirls’ hearts get broken with the red flags and signs literally in front of their face. Men have very simple minds, easy to decipher. And there’s a transition from boy to man as well. Men have integrity and clear intentions, period. Elliot is right, a man who truly likes you, will not put himself in a position to lose you. He won’t take you for granted. He will be consistent. And yes, I’m salty for the last girl I dated to not see that and choose a literal boy 11 years her junior who didn’t respect her from day 1 🤦🏽♂️. Can’t wait for that to burn 😈 😂. I
@heatherschaeffer45793 жыл бұрын
This ladies story sounds to me like. He, wants to move to California because there are more options. Plus, he will be garented free sex, free meals, and free room and board while being free to date who he wants all the time or go out w friends. She, will also be doing his laudry f free cooking, cleaning, and shishes
@freepalestine39663 жыл бұрын
Idk why This showed up on my feed. I haven’t watched these kind of videos in a while...ahh the good ole days, when I was dating!...SIKE!! I’m actually glad I moved on from this chapter. I’ve invested all that time in myself and turns out it wasn’t that bad. Now I’m the one refusing to settle. I don’t miss the time I would invest in understanding and figuring out how men think. All these dating channels for women and none for men to improve because we’re putting them on a pedestal. When we both shit. Why are they prize?? As soon as I stopped chasing, was the fastest time I seen them show up. They’re lined up at work, in my inbox and everywhere you could possibly think of. Now am the prize and honestly I’m not sure if I wanna change that. I’m still young and attractive and I’m gonna use this time for my come up. If it happens naturally then I’ll accept but no more looking!
@TreeFeather4ever3 жыл бұрын
Aye the gymsweat always makes an appearance with wise words of relationships👌
@Ohkeh6402 жыл бұрын
I’m a homebody I cbf dating Single life! Yolo I cbf with men lol and I’m much happier less stress do whatever I like :)
@pearlyd16733 жыл бұрын
Wow... wish I heard this years ago. Thank you for writing on the wall. Love you!!!
@michellewilson34112 жыл бұрын
Me to at least Animals are loyal lol
@johannag.29323 жыл бұрын
Trying to figure out men is getting so boring lol
@bestonamazon1363 Жыл бұрын
My crush is actually married ,haha.he seems to put no efforts at all no msg no calls no talks..the only thing i find him doing is he fixes his hairs a lot....everytime i see him or he is passing by he fixes his hair 2-3 times in 5 mins.. I literally laugh inside my head..like what is he doing.. Umm. What is that dont knw
@delightinart3 жыл бұрын
The california guy is probably re introducing himself into this gals life as an insurance policy, if he can't find someone better right away. Granted I hope it works out with her, and this dude...but the odds don't look good.