"But I Don't WANT To Settle!" When A 30+ Yr Old Woman Gets Reality Checked By Men

[@taylorthefiend973]

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[@andrewdaniels52]

What is that ending theme?

[@andrewdaniels52]

What was it again? And thank you.

[@easter_sunday]

Peace and quiet is more valuable than anything these women are offering.

[@marcoAKAjoe]

Dang!!

[@Lw316swoosh]

Missed a big step there. I agree with you but only because I have learned the value of peace and quiet. To someone who doesn't care or hasn't discovered the valueof it, your words mean nothing.

[@easter_sunday]

@@Lw316swoosh Sure. My words mean nothing. Neither does your indifference towards society getting flushed down the toilet. It is what it is.

[@Lw316swoosh]

@@easter_sunday Lmao what

[@easter_sunday]

@@Lw316swoosh exactly

[@chrisolson84]

I cannot believe she actually said "I love unconditionally" after ranting for 20 minutes on all the conditions for her love. WOW.

[@ocjmakaveli1]

They will divorce you for any little mistakw and claim it was unconditional love.

[@dennyfie]

She is a joke.

[@tomtom7734]

“I have dated every type of guy.” I think we found the problem! ❤😂

[@northernguy8860]

She reframed her promiscuity as wisdom. Weird flex.

[@MA-wq2ih]

Like that Smudge the Cat meme..."THERE ARE NO GOOD MEN LEFT! / WHO TOLD YOU TO TRY THEM ALL?"

[@stevenphillips3466]

I will bet she didn't date blue collar dudes or any guy that works in retail or fast food or auto mechanic or janitor or plumber or electrician or HVAC tech ...

[@carlasghost656]

First I want to hear her definitions of "dated" and how many guys are in the sample pool.

[@donaldcarey114]

@@stevenphillips3466 Or who was shorter than 6 feet tall.

[@jtengineering9385]

I suspect she may have confused "passive aggressive" for "submissive". I would wager this woman has never had a submissive day in her life.

[@ma3stro681]

Exactly. She’s horrible, which is why she’s bitterly single, and will be for life …

[@crissdizick9403]

They do not realize that they deserve nothing.

[@curtisdecoste9345]

Her own words “I can’t be the woman who pretends a guy is good when he isn’t….. I’ve been that girl.” Wait wut? 😂

[@halukkilic3171]

@@curtisdecoste9345 Complicated borderline system. All women have it. That is WHY no one should take them seriously.

[@lockyp204]

Times are changing and some of them are starting to get nothing. I love equality

[@ma3stro681]

Well, shame, derision, indifference, and at times, contempt …

[@Jeremiah-tn5xw]

You assume they have the same intelligence as us and are capable of the same logic and reason to reach the same realizations

[@sunnyblair4626]

Hey Taylor I‘m one of the 3 and a half women watching your videos. And I can guarantee you that men are not the only wants frustrated with these kind of women. I‘m a Persian/Iranian girl who grew up in the Netherlands and it has definitely been an experience. Even though I grew up in the west, my parents taught me our traditional values/morals very early on and I went through life accordingly. I remember my Dutch friends would always try to shame me for wanting to stay a v*grin till marriage. Or that I didn’t want to date/have boyfriends, because I only thought about a husband/marriage. They even used to laugh about my traditional beliefs/values and say they’re totally backwards and I‘m working against f*minism/progress. These friendships obviously didn’t last lol. I was taught by my parents that these traditions were there to protect women and now that I‘m 23 I can definitely see why. All my previous friends are tired, broken, confused, bitter, b*dy counts to the roof and full of baggage. Honestly I would rather d*e a v*rgin than being p*mped and d*mped like them. BUT they want a traditional man to provide now. How can you want a traditional man if you are not traditional yourself? These women call themselves only traditional, because they had all the fun but now they want security. But their past will tell you everything you need to know about them. I‘m grateful that modernization hasn‘t erased our traditional beliefs/roles/chivalry and most importantly the traditional family dynamic is still alive. (D*vorce is still taboo and single m*thers are shamed.) Also, Taylor is absolutely right: When I cook something for example for my father, these women loose their minds. I love cooking, being nurturing and taking care of the people I love, just doing feminine stuff because that’s what we’re supposed to do as women… And I want my future children to also grow up in a warm and loving environment like I did… But these modern women think that all their r*ghts will be taken away from them if they hold a spoon. It also p*ins me to see how these women are not only in a fight with their own femininity but also with their men. There is no balance, just h*te between the g*nders. I’ve seen them doing some disrespectful stuff that I would never ever do to men in my community or to ANY kind of men. Where is the compassion, love, gratitude? It shouldn’t be like this. But that’s what happens when women start to become men and reject true femininity and traditions.

[@Jessica-eb6qm]

Good for you! There are still good families out there. I wish my daughter would have grown up with a friend like you.

[@R.-lv4qe]

You are rare here

[@genericscout5408]

Men are also the problem, many of the men here in the comments will feed into these women's ego's and situations. But sadly there's just no way to correct these issues with how the actual laws are now a days.

[@lolarobine1438]

This proves that f3minists are not pro women but pro everyone who thinks like that. If not, they even shame other women.

[@stevenphillips3466]

Amazing how the Traditional ways seem to work.... that's why they are traditional . The new " Feminism" is a destructive cult that destroys women . Men are not perfect but I believe that most want to be traditional also. The top guys will always take what they can get though

[@RyokuTK]

At the age I'm at, listening to women gives me such a bloody headache!

[@FirstnameLastname-wh6ve]

Replace the excuse "At my age" with the comparison "Like huffing gas..."

[@xavierayayaell546]

Found the 19 year old

[@e4effort_]

Dude I'm 22 and it's the same for me...

[@JB9941-e8j]

​@@e4effort_Right? Bro thinks us younger guys don't feel the same 😂

[@e4effort_]

@@JB9941-e8j Yeah, if anything we have to deal with them more. This generation is screwed man, beyond fixing. But I'm not worried about it. I'm working to move to the Philippines where I can find peace of life and hopefully a good wife

[@GeraldM_inNC]

When she says she is traditional, she means that she has expectations that her man will behave as a traditional masculine model. However, by no means does she accept traditional feminine roles.

[@lockyp204]

Pretty much the same as all modern women

[@duanehamdorf2228]

If a woman feels like she settled for you your life will be a living hell ! Also don't forget, she'll always be shopping for mr. Right.

[@AustinKloud]

And she will be shopping With your money

[@KingsguardRP]

100% facts

[@tomlimbeck9934]

Well said.

[@picivyvortac2641]

Literally the story of my father-in-law

[@OldSaltyBear]

I am friends with an older couple in their 80s. The gentleman is very cool. He has lived an, exciting life, is incredibly charming and has lots of stories and wisdom to share. His wife, though typically kind to me, will occasionally show an extremely toxic side in my presence where she tells her husband to "shut up", "stop being stupid" or "you are an idiot". The last time I visited them she expressed to me privately that she "settled" for her husband of nearly 50 years and that she should have chosen a man who was wealthier. I was shocked. Mostly that she she admitted that to me, but also that she said it with such conviction. It was obvious that she had thought it a very long time. To think that as she nears the end of her time on this blue marble, her focus is on how she could have done better than her adoring husband. The older I get, the more I am convinced that the vast majority of women stop developing emotionally in their mid to late twenties. Kinda like how those high school athletes love to reminisce about their glory days, these women are stuck in the mentality of their prime years and will never evolve past it. I also have become firm in my belief that women attract the men that they deserve. If she only attracts @ssholes, then 99 times out of 100 she herself is an @sshole.

[@johnnyredux4019]

She complains because he listens to the advice of his mother (calling him a "boy" for doing so), but sees nothing wrong with venting to total strangers on social media.

[@Matthew.Wade27]

I love how she straight up admits to being submissive for Chad, but having higher expectations for the men she “settles” for. 😂 She just says the quiet part out loud. She refuses to “settle” and she’s going to settle herself right into dying alone.

[@SirRivelion]

She'll gladly sumbit to her cat(s). I once had a deeper conversation about cats with a girl at our Uni, and I asked her why she likes cats, because they don't listen too much, they just do whatever they want, they break stuff on purpose for fun and she told me "that's what I looove about them! They don't obey me, they are free, doing whatever they want, they are independent, it's like I'm their pet, who serves them, hihi." Jesus... I like cats as creatures, they are beautiful and capable hunters in the wild, but nobody has shown me as much love and loyalty as my dog. I once came over to a girl with a cat, and he broke her stuff in front of us (slapped it off the desk or table) and she found it cute and funny.

[@Matthew.Wade27]

@@SirRivelion I’ll defend cats somewhat. I’ve had two cats over the years and both have been highly social animals. Seeking out attention. Even obeying simple commands. Playing fetch. I’m an animal lover in general though. I love dogs as well. But I’ve never had skittish cats that hide and only come out for food or who constantly break things. That’s just my experience though. I actually see a lot more 40-year-old single “dog moms” these days that seem to make their dog their entire personality. Which is kind of weird to me. I feel like pet’s are reflective of their owners. The reason her cats are destructive assholes is because she probably lives a life of chaos.

[@ninjainnameonly-6902]

@@SirRivelion I like cats and dogs. Each have their own language & behaviors. The reason why cats are not social or they're rowdy is because of below minimum needs met. When they are bored they make their own fun. Dogs go on walks. If cats can't go outside they have energy that needs to be released. If a cat just exist in a household without feeling a part of the family, ofc. it's not going to listen as well. And it's not the fault of the cat.

[@goaway3717]

That's female nature nowadays. Letting every Chad and Tyrone that comes along use and abuse her but once she figures out that her box ain't locking them down into a marriage every 'nice guy' she ever rejected suddenly is acceptable but only if they meet her demands. Nope, enjoy a life of cleaning a litter box.

[@Jeremiah-tn5xw]

The bare minimum = be extremely handsome. But for the men who have made it that far (Chad, Tyrone and Sancho), they want "more than the bare minimum".

[@minirth.maggie]

Hello, Taylor! I'm one of the 3.5 women in your audience. I'm 53 and in a committed relationship. Your videos are a terrifying window into today's dating world. I wouldn't want to go back to it. You speak a lot of truth, and i appreciate that.

[@waterdeptworker]

We don't need your opinion, sorry. This is a man's site to get away from women. Including you!

[@jbubba1053]

The moment I hear I deserve. I know you don’t deserve anything.

[@JamesAllen-xk8bc]

I think that's the key. "Deserve".That sense of entitlement poisons everything in her life. A lot of women have it and that is why they are alone; nobody wants to deal with that crap. We don't 'deserve' to have people like that in our lives. She still sees the world through the eyes of a 20 year old while most people around her live in reality.

[@jbubba1053]

@@JamesAllen-xk8bc facts then what’s sad 20 years later they still don’t see the error of their ways their loneliness is always someone else fault

[@JTL664]

She's in a desperate panic the unforgiving undefeated merciless wall is showing her that she's running out of time on possibly all fronts (personally & economically) she doesn't want to became a post wall casualty she knows that she needs to secure a prospect man as a safety net as soon as possible before she crashes & burns. She wants a man who's out of her league that she doesn't quality for to save from her cavalier past & bleak future. When women say "I deserve" what they really mean is save me from myself before I selfdestruct chasing morbid relationships filled with drama & chaos never have happy outcomes

[@DTOptics]

I love how so many women think wanting to date a traditional man makes them a traditional woman

[@jonpro9637]

When the walking petri dish wants to convince Chad shes a born again virgin.

[@paineintheass233]

you said it. talk about a pandemic.

[@adampowell711]

Smfh

[@straightfrommissouri]

😂😂😂😂

[@desertweasel6965]

Contaminated petri dish.

[@kaczan3]

I knew this chick. She told me that when her mom starts getting aggressive towards his dad, he locks himself in the bathroom (because he can't fight back). And this chick, his daughter, had zero sympathy for him, and actually told me this story from the angle of her dad being "a loser".

[@PatI-zg9gm]

Imagine having to lock yourself in your “own” bathroom to get peace and avoid a domestic call.

[@notgunnadoit7461]

I don't have to imagine it lol. I lived it. The thing is I'm 6'3" 250 lbs and was a soldier. My ex was 5' nothing 100 and nothing pounds but she was physically abusive. Imagine the police showing up on a domestic and a man like me claiming physical abuse. Correct they would not believe me or have any sympathy for me and I know this because I worked in law enforcement.

[@stevenphillips3466]

There is a reason that men used to be allowed to " Discipline " their wives and daughters . Sometimes they just need it !

[@kaczan3]

@@notgunnadoit7461 Sorry to hear that, man. I hope things got better for you.

[@Milktube]

@@PatI-zg9gm What else do you expect the guy do to once he's already in that situation. Married, wife lives with him, they have a kid together. It's too late to kick her out of your life without losing your house and your income and your child and your job and your clean domestic abuse record. You expect him to take on the entire police force by himself? "Sorry squad, we're gonna have to stand down, this dad bod 43-year-old is just too much of a real man for us to handle, looks like we'll just have to leave him alone." Fucking stupid.

[@timberry4709]

"Just let a woman talk and she will soon tell on herself." - - In this rant she has basically admitted to having a high body count. And I'm sorry, young lady, but hooking-up is NOT dating.

[@theequalizer9154]

👍

[@bigbob3772]

Whoring has not changed ever, just the euphemisms they use to soften the harsh reality

[@clarencejohnson7267]

🤣🤣🤣 FAAAACTZ!!!!

[@toothgrinder2760]

“I’ve dated literally every single type of guy that there is… yadda yadda yadda, I’m old fashioned.” I don’t see any contradiction to be had anywhere in that statement. /s

[@stevenphillips3466]

she says " Honesty , integrity and Loyalty is the bare minimum " .... but what she doesn't say is only in the men she finds attractive ..... EXACTLY ! she makes it sound like any guy with honesty , integrity and loyalty has a chance with her..... but she actually means that only the top 5% er dude needs to have the honesty , integrity and Loyalty . Those dudes all have options and will never give that to her but the most of the lower 80% of men the she Ignores Will have that but she never even looks at those men

[@buckytravelsplaces7581]

Her " I have dated literally every Type of guy out there " = Ran Thru...... RuuuuuuuN

[@nickcoldest7128]

Ha! Saw the sleeve tat on her right arm…plus ran thru! Run to the hills, run for your life! Iron Maiden

[@ma3stro681]

“Settling for less than you deserve … “ Sweetie, you don’t even deserve a meal at McDonald’s …

[@jaws848]

She said she has dated every kind of guy and yet she is single....and lets be honest....she is a good looking woman so OBVIOUSLY she is the problem.

[@jaykay4541]

What’s the problem she just wants a guy with integrity and sleeping around with every single kind of dude there is shows how much integrity she has. Why wouldn’t a guy with integrity want a girl that’s been with ever single guy around.

[@j.j-x4g]

She’s a 5 and got that 1000 rooster stare.

[@Jamespwickstromw]

a good looking woman? wait untill that fake blonde hear and make up are gone lol

[@Masterpeace777]

Not good looking without the filter. Otherwise she wouldn't use it.

[@MikeBarbarossa]

She's obviously using filters. If you look at her reflection in the mirror, she looks off. Hunched over, old and no neck. A good looking woman looks good from the back and from a distance

[@JarinXeno]

That's the thing. Women think they are "settling" when they are dating a man that's actually on their level. The problem isn't that women have to settle, the problem is that women have inflated views of their own self worth.

[@Bob-cd5pp]

Well Said

[@HKST51R]

She's got the look of someone who will only marry you so she can cheat then leave you and take your stuff. It's no wonder why she's complaining on the internet like a child

[@thomasbrown7728]

YEP

[@genericscout5408]

Sometimes I openly joke about that with people I mess with, and they're still ok with it. Even when I lay out how it would destroy their lives it's just a meh.

[@Ssonelol]

​@@genericscout5408what?????????

[@afuzzycreature8387]

she thinks the world owes her a prominent elite man, and by elite i mean rich and fun. So yeah, if she settles as such she's going to extract the payment for her believed indignity.

[@jartstopsign]

She'll never come to terms that she's the common denominator in all of her failed relationships. I'd hate to run into this woman in 20 years because she's going to turn into the worst Karen on the planet, 10x as bitter as she is in this video with some poor sap guy she "settled" for. Her relationship downward spiral process is just beginning

[@timrankin8737]

When she looks in the mirror but fails to see she is the problem. She is the common denominator. And yes in 20 years she will be 10x worse.

[@michaelwoods3651]

Why does she think she deserves anything? None of us deserves anything! You need to earn what you have. Start adopting cats and stocking up on box wine.

[@Mikedegot]

They're like this in the workplace as well. They come in to an entry level position and act like they're the brains of the operation. Everyone's afraid to tell them to stay in their lane because they'll run crying to HR. I got a female co-worker right now that complains about how everyone else is doing things but she can't do any of it. Bossing her co-workers around the way she would if she was managing a household, delegating tasks and chores. They've deployed their nesting instinct at work.

[@CelicAWD]

True, in life you have to earn what you think you deserve. And she is getting exactly that! NOTHING!

[@franciscoaguilar123]

After trying to date these types of women for 7 years I gave up and heading overseas. They come with a list of demands if you're not a Chad and just use you as a stepping stone. May they all have 50 Chads in their afterlife because no mortal man will ever meet their list of demands.

[@genericscout5408]

@@franciscoaguilar123 They'll give the list to Chad as well, then Chad will ghost or dump them, making them run to you with baggage.

[@realbro1415]

🐈🐈🐈🍷🍷🍷

[@PatI-zg9gm]

The liar, cheater, and abuser are all lined up for her next Friday, Saturday, and Sunday.

[@spidalack]

"I dated every type of guy that exists" "where are the good men???" Back where you left them when you dumped them.

[@eriknelson901]

If she dated "literally every type of guy" how did she not date the right kind of guy?

[@Sir_Viver]

Maybe the good man was smart and HE dumped HER.

[@halukkilic3171]

@@eriknelson901 She may have met the right kind of guy several times but her emotions could have been telling her after three hours or less, that he is not the right guy. You can't be logical with borderline creatures filled with 208.750 tons of emotions.

[@KJ-md2wj]

We're back to square 1 and "What is good". Pontius Pilate asked Jesus a similar question. How are these women being truthful, especially to themselves?

[@LinkinParked]

@@KJ-md2wj they lie to themselves and other people all the time.

[@mr.deadman1973]

Honey, the "good quality guys" are either married or looking for someone younger. You do actually get what you deserve, not what you think you deserve. Plus, the honesty, integrity and loyalty also apply to you. Loving unconditionally, the whole video is about her conditions.

[@shelbypayne3620]

She's not dating men, she's dating stereotypes.

[@verbalkint1770]

She's a real catch. How did she avoid being caught all these long years?

[@whiskey_tango_foxtrot__]

Video #1. I was ran through by Chad in my 20s. Couldn't lock one down. The wall is in my front window and now i got to shop at the thrift store.

[@xtnuser5338]

"AM I forced to be alone my whole life or settle in some way?" Yes. Duh. That's how the world works, princess. For everybody. You take the quality of person you can get, or you don't take anyone. You don't "deserve" anything more. Most guys have loyalty within them somewhere. If you're unable to find it, maybe it's YOU, huh?

[@erroneous6947]

“I’m old fashioned and I support being submissive as long as the man does everything I want the way I want it.” Sure sweetie. Good luck with that.

[@KingsguardRP]

Tbf, not all leaders lead with kindness or love. It's tyrannical. Good leaders treat their subordinates as well as themselves. It promotes extreme loyalty. Eg, Alexander the great, Julius Caesar, Leonidas of Spsrta. The same applies to women. Her issue is that she didn't vet who she submitted to. She could've made sure she received kindness, love, and care in return for her submission.

[@j.j-x4g]

It’s so ironic isn’t it. Her love is so conditional.

[@KingsguardRP]

@@j.j-x4g that's the reality. Women love what men do for them not the man. Only their children are loved unconditionally. Unfortunately, many men are conditioned by fairytales

[@theequalizer9154]

​@@KingsguardRPWhy is it that the man is culpable? According to her, the men she deals with are at fault. Again, according to HER. Women never tell a straight story. They tell a story that starts either in the middle or toward the end, never the beginning. What started it all? And, when you do ask what started it all, they raise their voices, almost in panic, and then end shouting, "I don't want to talk about it!".

[@floridaman7]

Old fashioned, but has been with every type of guy out there

[@automan1223]

Imagine you are the guy she is “settling” for? . Don’t be her second choice. Insufferable at best.

[@insidiousraven2374]

This story never gets old. It's a virtually never-ending cycle of vindictive, degenerative behavior with a dash of hate and greed. These women are delusional and completely off-putting. It makes me sick. As a traditional man with morals, values, and ethics; it makes me not even want to approach women at all. I just stick to myself and keep grinding away. I love my peace and quiet!

[@White4runner]

"trad" is is just being controlled on the DL. The key ingredient is patriarchy.

[@Jeremiah-tn5xw]

It will end as soon as men man up and put them back in their place. Which means revoking "rights" the harpies fought for in the past century.

[@repeatrerun2047]

Exactly! After you listen to them and see this behavior in action, you just stop wanting them.

[@Darren-su2gm]

Yes exactly once you listen to them you stop wanting them and just focus on yourself on peace.Stay strong brothers out here👍💪🙂

[@VoiceOvaGuy]

Makes sense to me. It's rare for women to inwardly mature past a child / teenager today. Makes perfect sense for most men to not be interested in anyone with the mentality of a child.

[@SaphireSalvatore940]

Saw a video of a girl messaged a guy 8 years after rejecting him, he blocked her. She venmo'd him to ask him why he blocked her, he unblocked her to ask what she wanted and told her he had a wife and kids and she was all "oh I didn't realise there was a time limit on reaching out to catch up" blah blah. Mad

[@Apollo1011]

Any women who uses the word "settling" is an immediate red flag.

[@curtisdecoste9345]

The wall is a beautiful thing. No amount of cope can get you past.

[@EightFrancs]

If she wants commitment/marriage... Is she going to start fighting for the divorce laws, child custody laws, domestic violence laws and false accusation laws to be made fairer to men?

[@Texasbiologyhelp]

Now that she has openly said she will have to settle, any intelligent guy would avoid her. Who wants to be the guy the girl settled for?

[@brianmaguire6814]

Ding! Ding! Ding!!

[@Emasue]

I’m one of those women out there bragging on their husband. He is an amazing husband and father. Yes, he deserves all my recognition. He provides me and our children a very comfortable living. I’m the 3.5% watching your videos. (almost 14 years together. 10 married)

[@abracadabra5624]

I'm right here with ya! Married 22 years 2 kids turning 50 and still love the man I met at 18. I have 2 sons and really feel for these guys out here dating. I usually try to comment some encouraging words under these vids because these vapid women are NOT representing me and women like us.

[@linuxuser4895]

And by dated, she meant "effed".

[@xavierayayaell546]

Beef curtains are roadkill

[@BritishEcho]

I hate the words "I deserve" No one deserves anything, no one owes you anything. Earn it.

[@kenshiro3321]

Women "settling" is code word for admitting that her SMV hit the bottom of the barrel, so now they have no choice but to settle with her equivalent looks-match. The problem for her though: her looks-match guy is no longer interested in a has-been washed out Chads leftovers.

[@brianmaguire6814]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@siewmj1]

Her look match is starting to appreciate while she depreciate

[@mrdark9916]

RIP to The Godfather Kevin Samuels 😂

[@erroneous6947]

Mens rights spaces are some of the most heavily censored.

[@erroneous6947]

KZbin is Misandrist.

[@christopherbrubaker2070]

Facts

[@mblazin1532]

It's because they want men to stay a mindless drone in the hivemind.

[@stephenb7067]

I have realized that most women would be happiest if men bid for them at auction and bought them outright.

[@The_Real_JerBear]

The more of these videos I watch, the more I give myself a pat on the back for being 37 years old and making the conscious decision to remain single and child free. Good grief. 🤦‍♂️

[@rastus666]

At age 37, I married my third ex-wife. I was a glutton for punishment.

[@ma3stro681]

20 years older than you and it’s the best decision I made, apart from buying a remote property in the country when I was your age …

[@repeatrerun2047]

Trust me, you made the right choice. Congratulate yourself every day!

[@fredfredburger5150]

@@rastus666 Didn't learn your lesson the first 2 times huh?

[@rastus666]

@@fredfredburger5150 It was about the time my third ex told me to get the ef out of my own house for the last time that I heard a saying; Everyone has two lives, and the second one begins when they realize that they only have one. Confucius said that. I had my best summer ever that year, doing over 22,000 miles on a motorcycle.

[@StevenSiew2]

All you women who are forced to choose between remaining single or settling for a not so good man, here is a free message "Do not settle! You would NOT like it." - This message is provided to you free of charge from the Pet Food Industries

[@chadb9270]

When are women going to learn that their value is determined by the men. They can think they are valuable all day long, but if the men don’t want you, you don’t have value…. But my advice is to never settle, you slay queen!!! 😂

[@genericscout5408]

As long as you have a hole you have literally thousands of options by men. Like yes your value is determined by who will take you. But you can't fail hard enough for absolutely no one to try.

[@johnl9977]

Well yeah, make money and have fun with the gals, but if you want a wife and kids, go international. American women are fine to pump and dump, but I went to the Philippines for a wife. Found a wonderful gal there, half my age. Married her, helped her through nursing school here. That was 14 years ago. We have two beautiful daughters, she is faithful and loving. We have serenity, which is not possible with an American gal.

[@artemisentari9274]

Listening to these women makes more happy then ever to be single.

[@dale116dot7]

So she hasn’t figured out that many women are chasing the same 10% of the men. He doesn’t have to pick one since he has a dozen women on rotation. It’s so damned obvious. Of course she gets cheated on. Of course. Where are the decent men? She friend zoned them, and they are either in the garage cutting new valve seats or checking camshaft bearing clearances on their hot rod, or maybe they found an appreciative woman and are raising two or three children already.

[@Cov930]

They fully are away of you the situation just choose to not accept it

[@LinkinParked]

All these men eventually found a good woman overseas.

[@momstermom2939]

Bingo!

[@mortblackthorn187]

Maybe if she yowled even louder how she deserves....

[@genericscout5408]

@@ConontheBinarian Most men don't have sexual relationships. That's the only reason they can't cheat. Most men on the actual dating market are serial cheaters. It's probably why they're always available on tinder or whatever.

[@blackstarafro2]

Nobody is forcing them to do anything. She can marry women if she wants.

[@sean8547]

Let's be clear. When a chick says they don't want to "mother" a man 9/10 times it's not that the dude is some big man-baby. She means that she can't cook and won't do any housework like dishes, laundry, cleaning, etc... Which is weird considering everything is supposed to be 50/50 these days so she should at least be doing half and even weirder if she claims to be "traditional" 'cause then it'd be her primary role. This is why most single women I know are worse slobs than guys.

[@waynedavis7245]

Well said. The most messy homes I've been in are single women's homes .

[@captbrad6329]

As a janitor in another early part of my life.. The ladies rooms were the worst part of the job.. Nasty Every day !!

[@toothgrinder2760]

They expect men to 50/50 the house chores like dishes, laundry, cooking but they purposely omit the other chores men do like lawn maintenance, house maintenance, car maintenance/repairs, and every other outside the house chore. So not only are we expected to do all the manual labor at the house but we’re supposed to split the traditional femaIe chores, as well as taking care of the kids and work. Not to mention having to fear losing everything and the kids if she decides to up and leave on a whim someday. It just ain’t worth the headache anymore.

[@Myrslokstok]

Make a sandwish and some basic human help is just to much work, could easy leed to a rage attac!

[@Dev-ofDeven]

I feel this I’m 19 I dated a 31 year old with 2 kids. She constantly made fun of me for being young and not having shit figured out. But she was a total mess boozehound who tried to babytrap me and abused me

[@erikbartlett2147]

I hear A LOT about what women say they're not going to do. My question is, what tiny list of things will you do ladies? And, this is precisely why more & more women are alone and that number will only climb.

[@CesTorLop]

When I receive a message from a woman I have not seen for quite a while and the message starts with 'Hey Stranger', I can't shake the thought that at some point she considered me to be in her 'friendzone' and she realized I was not there anymore.

[@ma3stro681]

Just leave her on read …

[@takensouls1]

She's not talking about good men. She's literally describing the "Chad" archetype. The guy that can continually get girls and has multiple kids and doesn't raise them but still gets women willing to be with him regardless of his poor behavior. She has no idea what a good guy looks like and she won't consider that guy

[@whiskey_tango_foxtrot__]

Imagine if she took a different approach at 16. Remained a virgin, learned to cook, clean, raise kids. Have a great attitude. She would be married to a high value, good, hard working man that treats her so well and that would have checked every box. Instead, she had random Chads fill her box in her 20s. And here we are...

[@pokeman5000]

To be completely fair there's no guarantee that the high value guy would commit in even those circumstances. Chances are she'd fall "victim" to hook up culture. I use victim lightly because they are the ones who created and are currently perpetuating it. Her problem is she sees the guys you describe as boring or lower tier to begin with. It really is funny, you ask them who decides when a hook up happens? They proudly declare vvomen do! Then you ask them wouldn't they be responsible for hook up culture then? Maybe a little tehehe, or just a flat out no. Legitimate insanity.

[@robertwarner1160]

You forgot worthless

[@LinkinParked]

@@pokeman5000 You can speculate all you want, it is all invalid, you don't get a dam thing if you don't take a chance.

[@veganmunsterweare138]

Chase the feels you end up with the reals

[@relicpathfinder2800]

​@@LinkinParkedtaking a chance on women these days is like playing Russian roulette, except only one chamber is empty.

[@PrimarchRegalious]

Can you believe families are "Units?" God How Far Can We Fall? Everybody is going to line up and run on paths and fire rank and file for another hundred years.

[@robertpleydell6527]

It never gets old watching women seeing the consequences of their bad choices and complaining about how no- one will save them from the cold reality of the streets.

[@brianmaguire6814]

Never

[@drtox06]

I finally figured it out. “Less than I deserve” actually means “less than I could have got at my peak”. This dawned on me days ago when my wife self rated a “6” which she was 25 years and 40 pounds ago. No matter how old and fat, no matter the miles and body count they think they are permanently fixed at their peak and therefore that’s what they “deserve” in a man. Not to mention most of them were delusional about their value even at their peak.

[@steveouk90126]

Had a cow-orker who called herself "very traditional"... had two illegitimate kids by two different men, neither was her husband, when she said that. 7:40 - "I've had the guy who, no matter how abusive he was he was always the victim," - more projection than a cineplex. And remember: these are the _reasonably attractive_ women. The ditch pigs have the same complaints, but taking shots at them would just be cruel.

[@christianpethukov]

She was "very traditional," breeding randomly like an animal.

[@steveouk90126]

@@christianpethukov They attach no meanings to words outside of what they wish to believe about themselves--then wonder why the world doesn't make sense.

[@hamster2845]

Cow-orker. 😆

[@ma3stro681]

She meant a traditional 304 … 😂

[@toothgrinder2760]

@@ma3stro681 The oldest “profession” in world history. Traditional… in a sense.

[@hopelives7469]

She has never put a foot wrong. Ever. What a brave victim she is.

[@ravenkahne8484]

The World doesn't owe you anything, It was here first. -Mark Twain

[@raletky]

My prayers go out to any man that she ropes into a relationship.

[@johncorson6599]

That woman is insufferable … better to live on a corner of a rooftop in biblical terms

[@philippians4410]

Or in the wilderness

[@ianarn]

“I deserve” always seems to be synonymous with breathtaking entitlement!

[@darthmeme9841]

She doesn’t understand that every relationship requires compromise you can’t have everything because if you look hard enough you’ll find flaws in everyone

[@genericscout5408]

Eh if people are cheating on you, that's not a flaw you can really overlook. If a person is degrading and violent that's not really a flaw to overlook either. Like part of the dating process is to find out these people's redflags then leave them after all.

[@Mereologist]

I am reminded of Kant's Categorical Imperative. She insists that she will never change but DEMANDS that all men change to accommodate her. The doesn't want to be equal to the men and compromise as much as they do. She wants to be the tyrant who dictates everything to her loyal slave.

[@puremaledark8305]

Facts

[@Alien_Spores]

"..as long as he's leading with love." LADY... LEADING WITH LOVE WILL HAVE YOU LOSING INTEREST

[@chrisgibson4140]

I don’t believe her when she said: ‘he didn’t even have a job.’ I’ll bet, he just didn’t earn the amount she required.

[@PortugueseMACPOW]

The Wall Is Undisputed!

[@SiR_KN1GHT3D]

She can’t be dishonest.. while wearing makeup and using a filter.

[@PublicLeeSpeaking]

The filters are so heavy she looks almost plastic, with the bloom jacked up to hide the shine.

[@repeatrerun2047]

So true and thanks for the laugh!

[@andrewlapensee]

If you've dated every single guy there is... do you really deserve a good man?

[@Lunchladydoyle]

This is the female archetype that thinks she’s a “ supportive “ girlfriend when actually she projects all her insecurities on you by constantly trying to improve you. Criticizes the way you dress, eat, your job, your friends. I bet her ex did lock himself in the bathroom to get away from her incessant nagging.

[@White4runner]

Says a lot about levels of unawareness when someone locks himself in the bathroom for hours, and she never considers it might be something she is doing.

[@Mereologist]

The most hilarious part was, after complaining about everything every man does, she claims to love men 'unconditionally'. You know, except for so many conditions that no man anywhere qualifies.

[@Redtailedhawk99]

That First Lady is seriously narcissistic. Definitely Cray cray!

[@davidleever4564]

In the immortal words of William Munny: “Deserves got nothing to do with it”

[@mpa8336]

Never settle for less than you deserve, ladies. Just settle into singlehood, and feeding your cats. It's not a bad life. Admittedly you won't have children, or to see them get married, or to see grandchildren, but, hey, you can get that from your cats. Catmom is a real thing.

[@SchemingGoldberg]

The anti-depressant pharmaceutical market thanks you for your PSA.

[@whiskey_tango_foxtrot__]

Settling for less than i deserve!!!!! You get NOTHING. You LOSE. Good day SIR!

[@jaws848]

Excellent reference.....(the late Gene Wilder as "Willy Wonka")

[@SovereignStatesman]

She wants what doesn't exist, then complains about it.

[@archades115]

The problem with these women is that they did not and do not find find attractive the positive traits they often list. Like integrity. Integrity often comes with the kind of man they would never consider.

[@bradyhack2428]

I know a 43 year old who constantly says this kinda stuff on her FB. I had to unfriend her. “I won’t settle” “I have so much to offer” selfies every other post. Like , what do you not understand about what it is you’re doing? Plain and simple … the guys you want , don’t want you … She’s average and she thinks she’s a Playboy model. The Wall hits hard …

[@jockeyladjockeylad8492]

I'm in no way claiming Sainthood but ............. in all the relationships I've been in (including one marriage) the more I gave - love, respect, freedom, trust - the less I got back. In every relationship, no exceptions. So, seventeen years ago now, I just walked away & never looked back. I'm now free to spend my time & resources as I see fit & not subject to the whims of delusional/entitled/spoilt Disney Princesses. & I've never been happier. & before anyone pipes up with "What about sex?" - simple. I occasionally engage the services of a professional or empty the tanks manually. To recap - I offered many different Women exactly what this Woman is claiming she wants & in every case it was thrown back in my face. Leave these Women to their foolishness - there are far more interesting & rewarding things you can do with your time & resources.

[@Jamespwickstromw]

these woman feel diffrent each day, they love being pumped and dumped and get a little attention from Chad, then the see their girlfriend getting married and pregnant and she gets jealous and now wants that too... but nobody wants a ran through 304 in 30+

[@onewayturtles]

I never had to settle OR date a boatload of guys because I married my traditional husband when I was 25. 😊 I wonder what the hell this woman was doing at 25. Probably "finding herself" (under the nearest man).

[@facelessone6555]

And yet they still expect men to settle. Maybe that's why women are being left to deal with being alone left and right. Just saying that displaying hypocrisy is a powerful motive....

[@johnnyrook6371]

She's exhausting to listen to. Like she would start a fight with you and not shut up.

[@KingsguardRP]

1. What does she deserve? 2. Is she aware she must earn everything she thinks she deserves? 3. Dated (read: slept) with all sorts of men. At which point does she realise she can't pick men? Not very traditional I might add. 4. As she said, she is submissive and old fashioned as long as the man leads her with kindness, care, and love. Did she communicate her requirements of submission to the man before getting into a relationship? 5. The caveat here is that she settles for a "good guy," she states, the kind of guy you don't fall for, the guy you don't find attractive. If you don't like a man, nothing he does will be appreciated. His existence will be hated by her. His presence will constantly remind her of how she is settling, resentment builds. My advice to you men is, ask the woman you like what her type is. Pay attention to the kinds of guy she goes after. Are they like you? If not, she is settling for you. You will be treated like shit for reasons I stated in point 5.

[@Mereologist]

In my experience, almost anything a person tells you about themselves is not how they really are, but how they want to be SEEN as. You would do far better by meeting her ex-boyfriends. In a real sense, they will always be a part of your relationship anyway, if as nothing else other than baggage. They will probably tell you things she never would. They'll have their own bias, of course, but it's a DIFFERENT bias. You can sometimes do okay by talking to her friends as well. Again, those are people who will be a part of your relationship anyway. If the friends are people who hate you and are all inclined to be single, you will know the resistance any relationship is going to have with that woman. No relationship is really just between two people.

[@malcolmbriggs4281]

These type of women want to ride the carousel ,then panic when the "wall" appears.

[@alexmuenster2102]

"I dated every type of guy that exists" White Hispanics, many Black Hispanics, Hispanic Hispanics, Irish-Americans, a number of Jewish-Americans, two different Eskimos, several Pacific Islanders, a couple of Finns, Swedes, Norwegians, Icelanders, Scots, Welshmen, a couple of guys from Cornwall, one Serbs and two Croatians, a Slovenian... But she's "conservative" and "traditional." Yeah, right!

[@erroneous6947]

When she said she was “old fashioned” I choked on my drink a bit. Lol.

[@The_Cosmic_Key]

Thanks to Tinder, she probably has dated every type of guy that exists. Her body count is probably in the thousands 😂

[@erlutofholly133]

....and don't forget the Asians! Vietnamese, Burmese, etc and the chads from India. Oh, and China to boot. 🎉

[@genericscout5408]

I've actually gone through an extensive list that includes most of what you mentioned, but replace Eskimos with Navejo. I stopped counting the different men after around 400. So it could be in the thousands perhaps. Though random fun isn't exactly dating XD.

[@darrynreid4500]

I bet she never dated a mathematician and computer scientist who is also an artist. My point is that she doesn't really see men as individuals but merely as sources of resources to extract, and she has no real interest in anyone other than herself.

[@FergusScotchman]

"You can't always get what you want. But if you try sometimes, you just might find, you get what you need."

[@LogicalOtaku-vj5ln]

She didnt date 50 different dudes, she dated 50 variations of her type of dude. And women all have the same type.

[@genericscout5408]

My type is a little different than the rich tall guy. But it's just cause I never trust anyone who has a harem.

[@mr.g1758]

Couldn't have said it any better.

[@romancetips365]

Not at all. When I was single a few years ago, I had several female friends and we were talking about guys we find attractive. We all listed different traits and each of us named a different man we knew as an example.

[@drogon4235]

Most women don't know what a traditional woman is!

[@chrish2112]

Women literally think that dating a guy who doesn't have 10 million dollars is "settling".

[@oddlypositive3602]

I enjoy how women manage to paint this pretty picture of themselves and how they conduct themselves and then you look at the long line of broken men in their wake, the destroyed families, friendships, the dysfunction and the sheer uncontrolled chaos they emanate and you just have to wonder. Is this one Tzeentch, Slaanesh or Khorne?

[@ComicGladiator]

Considering the amount of guys she's been with, toss in Nurgle too.

[@NickDrinksWater]

I love how hard they cope with their poor decisions earlier in life by making excuses and never telling the full story behind it. I still have not heard one of them say what bad things they did, its always talking down about the guy

[@martinsaunders7925]

By her own admission she's a seasoned salami taster. Now that she's realizing there are only picked overs and she is close to retirement she doesn't want the bland Lil smokey. She would rather stay hungry. Here's a thank you on behalf of the "real men " out here who don't hide in bathrooms.

[@RobertMorgan]

I work in a water plant. Everyday, 2 million gallons of water says it's not going to settle either, but then it meets gravity and does, and it's BETTER for it. Settling improves water and people.

[@Phaevryn]

"Less than you deserve", perhaps your actions and attitude don't deserve more.

[@jsojkausa]

Right, Taylor. I graduated HS 42 years ago, and I've noted Fb Friend Offers from gals who've ignored me since HS. The thing is, when I check out the Recent Pics on her Fb Page I see that the WALL has been harsh! Some of them I accept, anyway. It's Okay. I Live like 3000 miles from my High School Location. 😉

[@eriknelson901]

She just gave a list of 4 things that are her requirements. That was after she ranted for 10 minutes on things that guys do wrong. Nothing she said violated those 4 things besides the job one. 🙄

[@Mereologist]

My favourite was the part where she said she 'loved men unconditionally' after spending the whole video going on and on about why she couldn't love any man anywhere.

[@komafoxy1019]

I love that the man’s time finally comes