Buying into this pretty delusion felt good in the moment, but caused long term harm.

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@pop0944 4 ай бұрын

This resonates... my ego led me to believe I was on a twin flame journey when I wasn't. Lol The runner, chaser was actually me being fed a fantasy from every angle.Tarot, my dreams, synchronisities and my ego all fed the delusions. I knew it wasn't real because I never got full confirmation in real life but I wasn't sure because I believed it for so long. Recently, I knew I had to begin reversing that belief. As soon as I decided I was done, my "twin" came back. His reality was sooo far from the fantasy it was astounding. He came in trying to use me. I rejected him. But a part of me still believed he was working to improve or that we would eventually be together. He went and found a new girlfriend. ❤😂😂 I feel like the realization came at the perfect time though. The truth wasn't revealed until I was ready.

@OneChanceInAMillion 4 ай бұрын

How did you do it. I’m struggling with something similar.

@leilaflood7078 4 ай бұрын

Facing my shadow over the past couple years has been excruciating... I've never felt more myself though. It was induced by outside circumstances but it was all a reflection of my unhealed parts. There's been some messages & piles in your readings that stung at the time but over time I came back to them & slowly integrated that shadow aspect. I used to outsource safety & put myself in the position of martyr because that aligned with my ego identity. I experienced a pendulum swing becoming quite mean & cutting as I was discovering my "strength". I hurt people I really loved in this process. Harsh truths, but liberating lessons & integration. You need a healthy ego otherwise this world will swallow you whole.

@EvelynnLenoreAngel 4 ай бұрын

Hurt to heal is a very dangerous paradigm to push acceptance of, the legitimisation of inflicting pain. Nothing should be beyond questioning, Spirit included.

@dreliz9209 4 ай бұрын

I agree thank you finally someone who sees my point!!! I am beyond beyond exhausted with this kind of talk and regret my entrance to spirituality because of it. This kind of « hurt to heal » talk has tormented me more than it ever helped me, its almost like telling us the more you heal the more tower moments and tower people we will keep throwing in your way to get you to "elevate" which if true is emotionally damaging and harmful and even abusive. Meanwhile those who are more into the material world, and those are hurting others seem all fine to me for the most part meanwhile on this side we are have to constantly analyze and nitpick our ego "defense mechanisms" and ourselves and question every little relationship we have and sort everything out in karmic and non karmic lanes and on and on it goes and it is absolutely exhausting talk

@dreliz9209 4 ай бұрын

And its like all of this for what? So i can die an alone bitter 80 year old perfectly healed because i got so many tower moments that have "elevated" me spiritually and because through people hurting us and tower moments we got them to reflect upon their misdeeds? I love jess so much but i have reached a boiling point with the whole healing shtick and the whole "tower moments coming your way to clear your vision" and the whole you had to go thru this to elevate spiritually and be a mirror to this person im not some pawn in spirit’s world where im just moved around to inflict hermit time on others and then to have tower moments inflicted on me just to get me to hurt to « elevate »

@s.g.2244 4 ай бұрын

Agreed --compounded with the internet's algorithmic ability to allow messengers to project onto others across random phone/TV screens.

@pinkyproblems6480 4 ай бұрын

It is dangerous especially when you are not understanding the true meaning of this. Hurt to heal doesn't mean you allow crazy things to happen to you. It means that you understand that healing past trauma doesn't always feel good bc you have to go back to those places and connect the dots to understand your triggers and where they come from. Again it doesn't mean you submit yourself to situations that will cause pain. This is the stuff you don't want to face. If you didn't understand that then its a blind spot. Bc you're not able to perform the function bc you don't understand the code.

@dreliz9209 4 ай бұрын

@@pinkyproblems6480 i disagree and i dont appreciate when someone just says oh its our blindspot just because we don’t see eye to eye on what healing entails and don’t agree on this take of spirituality. i am very aware of my traumas and have healed in ways beyond what i could have imagined from very dark things prior to my entry to this side of the spiritual world. Not through analysis, not through nitpicking my self and ego mechanisms but through silence through prayer and meditation and letting god and letting be. When i only practiced that i was at most peace and healed most deeply and now that i have entered this side of spirituality i feel myself tormented by the bombardment of constant messages of "watch out another tower moment is coming to reveal what is real and what is not and karmic this and karmic that" or "you have such healing energy you came into this life to be a mirror to this person and elevate spirituality” it is super disheartening and just paining those healed as pawns in the spiritual worlds as if it does not hurt us to be told these things or for us to go through them. I just disagree now finally that i see through it and was able to get to this conclusion after a fog of months following a heartbreak that led me to this side of tarot that this is not the code, nor do i ever want it to be the code at least for me. I would rather not know such a code or think there is only this code of how life works and just give my pain and torment away to god and pray and go back to meditation again and cancel all this noise i have introduced myself to

@jazzmondalexus 4 ай бұрын

Wow....where do I even begin.

@sharoncastillo1171 4 ай бұрын

So powerful. Will listen again and take notes. Thank you

@workvids9296 4 ай бұрын

Jess, you're amazing. Everything in this resonates for me. Thank you.

@Witchy_GP Ай бұрын

This was the most amazing message that i needed to hear ever since i started to listen to you . Thank you for that message 🙂

@hermestrismegistus4283 4 ай бұрын

What the heck? Did you sit in my last therapy session? Like you just described so much of exactly what I'm going through right now to a T.. I'm completely mind blown right now.

@allychar7316 4 ай бұрын

I love having the labels to describe what I just went through! I was definitely guilty of using ego defense mechanisms to preserve a coe-dependant relationship. Once spirit guided me though to reveal the truth I did and it caused a tower moment and I was on the receiving end of those same ego-DM. It's been a rough journey and I'm still healing from it, I pray for awakening and healing for all those involved. ❤❤

@kristidaniel3164 4 ай бұрын

I’m working through a duality construct of good/evil, right/wrong, all/nothing high vibe/low vibe; balancing the black and white into grey to release projection. Releasing fault finding , if that makes sense. There’s more to everything than subjectivity.

@mmuriel511 4 ай бұрын

God this was alot. Im gonna need to listen to this over and over again

@Sequinxx 4 ай бұрын

I feel like all the trauma I have experienced in different relationships since I was a child all come into my now relationship for 19 years through the father of my children. Like I have to face it all again. Maybe for me to heal. But it's so hard 😢

@jesspucketttarot 4 ай бұрын

🩷🩷🩷

@AletaWalker-ke7ub 3 ай бұрын

Thank you... 💪👍✌️🫶🏼

@melissa-hw7jr 4 ай бұрын

Sounds like a good tower in the end. This journey has helped me grow and also shown me all the growth I have been avoiding, and beginning to wonder why. I know there is a lot more. I love 'The Road Less Travelled', F Scott Peck.

@EmjayKuppinger 4 ай бұрын

Omg, I have lived my whole life as a walking demonized wake up call. 🙄 Love that immune system analogy! 😂

@Solitarywitch 4 ай бұрын

That was deep because this is a recurring theme in my life

@lucileanan 4 ай бұрын

You said 'Arthur drawing the sword from the stone' less than a second after I was tending to my chilli plant Arthur (alongside my other chillis, Rodney and Steve) saying COME ON ARTHUR GET IT TOGETHER BABES 😂 Classic projection at work, gonna go tell Arthur he was never the problem 🤣 🌱🌱🌱 🧡

@blkohlman 4 ай бұрын

Wow, your messages are mind blowing. They go above and beyond what is normally sent out. You put a spotlight on all the avoidance mechanisms that people use and have given us much to ruminate on for purposeful change. Thank you so much.

@YueeeD-wu1hr 4 ай бұрын

Crisis is a blessing in disguise for you to heal your soul. When there's crisis, always come together with something you need to look through the veil, underneath lies your ego mind.

@kristinadeturk 4 ай бұрын

Yes, the bubble was protecting me for so long because I needed to have it to survive.

@Butterfly-222 4 ай бұрын

I can already tell I need this message and I haven't even heard it yet!

@Shan_Chans 4 ай бұрын

Thanks Jess, appreciate you

@jesspucketttarot 4 ай бұрын

You’re so welcome! 💗

@user-JjEeSsIiCcAa 4 ай бұрын

A question! I’ve been through many things. I have an ex who actually are diagnosed with narcissistic antisocial personality disorder. My family knows, a friend of mine knows, I’ve been seeing a psychologist, counselors etc. what’s been most helpful even if it took many years is “grey rock” method. After I left him I meet another man who in a way was even worse. What do you mean by speaking my truth? This last relationship really crushed me, but I’ve healed deep wounds. It made me believe in some big order, I had to go through this. And even though he really treated me like I was nothing, but never to my face, now that I know about it, I don’t feel like it’s up to me to speak up about it?! So I wonder about what you mean about speaking my truth? Thank you 🙏

@JoyReneIntuitive 4 ай бұрын

When you were talking about sourdough I was literally asking my friend for her sourdough recipe 😂😮

@jesspucketttarot 4 ай бұрын

😄🤫😉

@yourfavoritereader2460 4 ай бұрын

Oh, this is weird. I was thinking about this this morning. This is topic-like; is this what I'm meant to do?

@dulaneygibson2014 4 ай бұрын

Thank you Jess ❤

@bec4519 4 ай бұрын

that’s so crazy. i’ve been doing some major reflection on the “sin of the father” recently. i saw someone say that if your a twelfth houser you’ll carry the sins of the parents in your home land until you move.

@Starryeyes333 4 ай бұрын

Thankyou xoxoxox

@melissajackson1814 4 ай бұрын

Yeah, it's so ignorant to be promoting incorrect information about the healing process as not involving any processing of uncomfortable feelings or emotions. I mean, if there's more awareness about the process of grieving, then more people would understand that it involves stages like anger and sadness in depression stages, for example. Xoxo ❤️ 😘 thanks Jess