Former Swirler Single Mother Now Wants 4 More Kids And High Value Man ©

[@byKevinSamuels]

“Welcome to your level” typically you can’t get higher than your level.

[@stevenwilliams492]

3 out of 4 gods are unmarried

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

Thank you for bringing people back into reality, it's for everyone's benefit!

[@stevenwilliams492]

@@JustMarilynOfficial how about we need each other it does have to be a battle about who is more important than we both bring value to each other and with the proper balance we all can succeed average men and women and high value men and women

[@stevenwilliams492]

The majority of women between 27-35 in this current generation is already lost he's trying to save the next generation so you could continue to be angry nobody cares

[@bababamooo906]

@@JustMarilynOfficial Nice troll

[@alfredtoyo5433]

I can’t get over how casual women say $300k/yr like earning that kind of money is so easy

[@personaldanceparty5518]

Right.. if it was they would have that salary

[@desmondjefferson2127]

Every one of his shows!

[@usingsocialmarketingforamo923]

Many of them are simply opportunists.

[@mrt2734]

Exactly, when some of them probably don't even make 30k a year.

[@TheLOTSChannel]

Facts. It's insane. And like Kevin says, a man making that much has options. He's not choosing a 32yr old with a kid 🤷‍♂️

[@longbeachmaumba7059]

I don't care what anyone says, this is the best channel on KZbin right now.

[@matchhunter6941]

Yesss

[@wileecoyote5749]

Correct use of "anyone"

[@forestpark73]

I agree

[@torianwilkins3986]

As far as helping black men and women, I agree.

[@brandonchisom7829]

Agreed!

[@AlphaDoG-43]

Im 36 years old & ive never heard a woman ever say “he was a good man & I messed up” it’s literally ALWAYS the mans fault as to why the relationship didn’t work.

[@letssee9]

Right and don't hold your breath nor wait to see it ether.

[@TURBOBEATZZZ]

FACTS

[@aaronjones394]

To add to that they picked the man, so it is still their fault.

[@BOZ_11]

preach it

[@mellowknight9350]

Exactly

[@tungsteneight7010]

Men...Do not date a single mother.... My second wife was a mother of two daughters.... When she dumped me I lost three women I love.... Never again.

[@sandwich-breath]

Hopefully you’ve moved on. If she doesn’t want you there’s nothing to hold on to. Build yourself up and find a woman who appreciates you for who you are.

[@Burlykim13]

If she was any kind of woman youd still be able to see those kids. If you were a good stepfather then she should have the capacity to recognize that her children would be better for having the relationship with you. It should be about what’s good for the kids

[@balerion77]

You loved what you thought she was, what you made her in your mind. Do you lost only 2 vvomen , the bond with the daughters. However , it was a blessing in disguise that ex-wife left you coz men get used for decades even when she doesn't like you like that.... Just coz you take care of a lot of things. They'll put up a facade to make you think you're getting something out of it. You'll be shocked how many vvomen don't like they're husbands "like that" and even friendzone them. While these vvomen have No business getting commitment from any man.

[@joewatts8018]

80K is a good life in the majority of the country. If you’re not living above your means you are doing great.

[@F1ugPlatzz]

@@toddfoster4335 Agreed. I'm from Ireland and these numbers seem crazy to me. Here, only 10% of people (not just men) earn more than 60k Euro (about 70k USD). I know we're two different countries but quite similar economically.

[@Jaycran22]

@@toddfoster4335 agreed

[@bornwithclass2365]

Yep I’ll take it.. I don’t have or want kids, so that’s good for me.

[@Fernandesci]

Here in portugal 80k euros annually you are considered rich

[@Thegoldenchild415]

I'm a 41 year old black man. I make $98k in California. And I'm fine!! Have my own place, nice car, investments, a rotation of women. I also have a grown daughter. And Kevin is right. I'd never marry a woman with kids. Might blow out the back, hang out, but thats it.. Why would I take on unnecessary obligations? Single mothers act like being a single mother is some how a good thing.... 🤦🏾🤦🏾

[@jasonmeade4039]

These woman are hearing him saying life is over for single mothers but that’s not what he is saying. This man is saying clearly that y’all have a chance to find somebody but you can’t expect to get the cream of the crop

[@jhnxavier]

Exactly!

[@torachan23]

To many women, if they don’t get high earning men, they actually believe their lives are over

[@maryterrell9701]

Well said they want what they want

[@progers86]

This is it! ✊🏾

[@ghariiscool]

Right Accept that middle class guy making 50k who hollas at you and cut out this "I deserve a hvm" stuff

[@kuunami]

This is what happens when materialism is your religion.

[@HistoryBuff1973]

Excellent point my friend.

[@extendedclips]

Simplicity ✨

[@bobbyben6134]

So sad time😩😩😩

[@sensoeirensen]

Amen. Same goes with any human. I‘ve been there. It doesn‘t make you happy at all.

[@JayLawson]

Great point.

[@jbaoyy13]

Dating a single mom is like going to jail for another man's crimes.

[@SUPPLEMENTS_R_US]

You’ll be reincarnated as a single mom. Bet

[@jbaoyy13]

@@SUPPLEMENTS_R_US I don't believe in that shit.

[@loganblackwood2922]

Nobody gets reincarnated as a single mother. It isn't an accident of birth, like your species, gender, skin colour, eye colour and hair colour. Single mothers are a product of choice.

[@geraldallen6023]

Nailed it..

[@bisonjones2594]

😂😂😂

[@TC-cd5sm]

"There are no solutions, only trade offs." - Thomas Sowell

[@dub2536]

That's a great quote!!! Peace!

[@jamaaldaynitelong8367]

You forgot to drop this 🎤

[@BG-sq7zf]

What does the phrase means? Thanks

[@jhnxavier]

Brilliant quote from a *brilliant man!*

[@MCC876]

The solution may be simply not ever getting married. All of us have seen damaged lives because of marriage.

[@emantaylor2740]

When her value was high, her standards was low. Now that her value is low, her standards are high. I don’t get it 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@Onepunchmeme1]

Because they are socialize to view mating as men. They are basing their sexual value on what women find attractive and project those values on to men.

[@MrYtubenewsanchorman]

Right

[@pattcarl5949]

accurate wats happening in th modern wrld

[@primetime6629]

Yes that's the truth; all day long

[@johnpick8336]

New Math ?

[@VickHushpuppy215]

Older Women: Lower your standards Young Men: Control Your Desires & Build

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

Young men: wear a condom while building 😁

[@VickHushpuppy215]

@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp big facts‼️💯

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

@jermaine jode what does believing a god have to do with anything? What EXACTLY is this god suppose to do?

[@VickHushpuppy215]

@jermaine jode no I’m not promoting that god shit over here lol I’m a Mega Atheist lol I’m not givin some imaginary sky daddy credit for the shit I’ve accomplished lol

[@dontsimpbro7039]

@@VickHushpuppy215 You do realize that you have limited freedom. You don't choose the process of life ,you don't know the future, you don't know how ,when you will die . Now tell me what you accomplished ? Can it be compared to the one incharge of 90% of your affairs. Everything has a purpose . Contemplate on life and you'll see how human beings are also owned by God .

[@joshiceman1983]

Being a step-dad is a thankless role. Thank you for mentioning the Step-dad is expected to do more than the biological father. ...awesome video

[@ronaldmharrison7137]

Agreed.

[@SPL0869]

My son does appreciate me for being his stepdad(he’s an adult now), but I do agree, it is an overall very thankless job.

[@joshiceman1983]

@@SPL0869 I was living my life and ran into my high school crush, she was staying with her sister and had 2 boys from a drug addict. We hung out and eventually started seeing each other. I swear I was dating her , her mother, and sister. I got along with her teenage sons fine. As time went on I moved her and her son's in a 3 bedroom house, I was working a decent security job adjusting with the 3 new people in my life. After a few months she wasn't replying to my texts, her phone was off certain times in the day. I found out she was hanging out with her ex while their kids were at school and I'm at work. When her and I talked I explained he can come to the house and see the boys as long as he isn't on drugs. As time went on she became very distant and we ended up breaking up. Investing time and money with her I was 💔. I moved to a different state for a few years. When I was away she went back to her ex and had 3 more kids with him. Later friends told me he overdosed and she is now struggling single with 5 boys. When I moved home after a loved ones death in my family I seen her will I was working on a road. We talked for a while and never once did she say see made a mistake, said sorry, all she did was complain about how hard things are for her and was on her pity pot. I was stoic and said I hope things turn around for her and I went back to work. My conclusion was "WOW", here I was feeling bad after we broke up, beating myself up and thinking I wasn't good enough. Life lesson

[@janetcorey5102]

I agree as a stepmom

[@Edgar_Allan_Poe_50]

​@@joshiceman1983 I had an eerily similar experience that I ended after similar emotional infidelity. I was just at the stage of considering a home for us. It's crazy they have the opportunity of a lifetime to make a bad situation right and they throw it all away.

[@danielbell6794]

This isn’t just a KZbin channel. This is straight up education

[@larrywmedford6587]

Yes, and if we watch enough of Kevin's videos, we get a diploma

[@YOUPIMatin123]

Yes

[@joanndotson9563]

I wished he was around back in the day💯‼

[@mac1bc]

This guy really has a way to communicate with modern women lol.

[@InOrlando]

I love when said “make that make sense.”

[@ronin2237]

She had a man making 80k and said he wasn’t ambitious enough now she’s single and hooking up with 50 year olds dudes .., in the words of the great Nas (Just another Black girl lost)

[@terencepowell1315]

She sounds like a lair he never mad 80k she just saying that because Kevin said 45k...that what I think 🤔.

[@theerealatm]

@Pixel Smile making a man change what he's comfortable with because YOU cannot compromise. One thing leads to another thing he just HAS to change. Meanwhile he asks you to change something and its a nogo. THAT'S nagging

[@theerealatm]

@@nicolesmith7611 what if he don't wanna do more... He aint for you.

[@theerealatm]

@@nicolesmith7611 nobody can make someone change. Experiences through tragedies and triumphs makes someone change. A crackhead gonna do Crack until they OD or come close to it and WANT the change themselves. Me telling them to stop doing crack (which is TONS more drastic than taking the trash out when YOU want or getting a better paying job because YOU want a certain lifestyle) comes off as nagging and they just don't wanna be bothered. They wanna be left alone to smoke the crack.

[@theerealatm]

@Pixel Smile You can nag him when he's truly comfortable. I mean how many woman call in wanting a 100k earner? Yall all gonna nag him away😂 cause he earns 60k a year and is fine being debt free in a small home and a modest life. Most people can't pass shit to their kids cause they living it up with debt incurred "ownership"

[@Mosaickool]

When did making $80,000 a year become a bad thing? Man we guys can't win anymore. Most women I know would be happy with a guy making 80k..but hey I'm 58 so maybe it's a different generation? And I know couples that make 80k combined and are happy. But they tend to be old school simple folks. God help you younger guys under 30.

[@TheOlmonroe1]

Her child's father has moved on and is co-parenting.

[@michellegreen1072]

“ It’s not 6 figures.” Lol.

[@Mosaickool]

@@michellegreen1072 yeah really I mean there was a time and my dad's generation from 40 years ago when a man got up went to work came home took care of his family and wife went to church and the woman was proud to call him her husband. now it's like you have to have this ridiculous checklist of accomplishments and material possessions and when the guy doesn't have that women get upset. when the guy moves on and marry someone of a different race or nationality most black women have a big old fashioned hissy fit

[@MrDonny27]

I'm at 88k a year. I balling in Louisiana 💯💯💯

[@MrDonny27]

@@romeyrome9993 but it different when I go Houston or ATL. I feel like a nobody. To many competitions. I like living near small town that you never heard of.

[@PrabhjotSingh-fs2if]

This dude has given voice to so many men that didn’t had a voice before !

[@patrickopara8859]

It’s about damn time!

[@sonnyjim5268]

Well said.

[@SUPPLEMENTS_R_US]

That’s cuz men are not all Kevin makes them out to be. Perhaps?

[@johnmccormack2046]

This guy is an alpha male. Confident, calm, collected and articulate. You aren't going to bullshit this man.

[@SnickerbarConsciousness]

💯 he is the man hands down no doubt.

[@yoshikitakaya7871]

I call him the chief leadin the charge lol 👍💯

[@kimikimi4791]

So true lad, my first video watching him explain.i can really feel his presence haha

[@uncIeben]

No hes not alpha. He's sigma. A rare breed higher than alpha. Hahaha

[@dcg590]

Go look up sigma male.

[@NavyBluesandShoes]

If she finds a good man willing to be a stepfather making $45k/yr and she’s already doing her thing financially.. why wouldn’t that work? Any man willing to be a stepfather is doing her a favor. That’s the part she’s isn’t finding value in. Men don’t dream of being stepfathers. If we agree to, consider it a blessing from God.

[@michaelmentality]

@@listenteetee The average guy makes 45-50k

[@TechnoMageB5]

Mr. @David Drayton, you hit the nail on the head. The problem is, our governments have decided that women in their teens and 20s have reproductive autonomy. Yet they don't have discernment or wisdom to properly choose who they reproduce with, and STILL don't learn from their mistakes after the fact, as this and so many other videos Kevin alone has posted demonstrate. How many young adults do you know have wisdom, intelligence, discernment in picking the right partner for themselves? This is why "patriarchy" (its structure) existed for millennia - to protect women from themselves; her father ensured she got paired with a man that was up to the responsibilities of husband and father, because her father had the life experience and wisdom she has yet to acquire in life. LIFE IS A HARSH TEACHER: it gives you the test FIRST, and if you survive it, and look back on the experience, you might learn the lesson - and often that lesson is still too late, consequences are in play and irreversible. "Patriarchy" has only been done away with for a few decades, and already society is on the dwindling spiral - and this woman is still about average for what's out there today. Scary.

[@geremymason5936]

Its because hes immature according to her. She wants to build a high earning man most likely because she can't get one outright. She would have needed to do that when she was younger because men in her age rage and older (as she states) are set in their ways. Young men are the ones that shes looking for because they haven't hit their stride yet - most men her age and older are content where they are. There are exceptions because some men are still working their ways up, but good luck to a woman in her situation trying to snag one of those guys.

[@bottomuptv9836]

My dude preach

[@anthonypatterson8796]

@@listenteetee The median HOUSEHOLD income America is right below $70k, and that’s everyone. The median black housed income is less than $60k . People lying to you about what they make.

[@SalemArc]

Solution is simple. 1) Stay in shape. 2) Be feminine. 3) Be helpful.

[@corderohudson9569]

SImple shit bro

[@Xardion55]

@Hyun Kim - Which is why they're in the current situation now.

[@detroit6363]

And remain childless

[@ghariiscool]

Women would rather make it complicated

[@JESUS_Is_KING573]

4) Full belly 5) Empty balls *I guess those could fall in to number 3.

[@tremarcez]

“If you good at something never do it for free” Joker- The Dark Knight (2008)

[@truthseeker4298]

"Never do it for free"

[@bernadettekelly2772]

More happiness in giving ! Than there is in receiving ! Matthew 5: Sermon on the Mount ...... ..

[@osmoze47300]

@@bernadettekelly2772 that why the church took millions from the belivers..

[@GaryandPoochie]

​@@bernadettekelly2772I'm a big Kevin Fan and a big Trumper.. my 2 male role models as 2 guys I dig.. but I'm with you on what you shared outta the Bible Ms.

[@DeCurtaRican]

I’ve used that exact quote.

[@medbrotha]

“In our community, making a baby is much less of a big deal than being a wife.”-KS Man, this has to change. My goodness this has to change.

[@anniet494]

its so SAD for me! children are not dogs- people are out here popping out babies not understanding theyre people and their value... you should want the best for them... set them up for success! in a happy loving home with 2 parents! it makes me angry, and ALOT of these women have more than one with no father, its greedy.

[@anniet494]

@Random Cancuck WRONG!! The responsibility falls on the woman!!!

[@uscg1381]

Change is comin! These ladies reaching is a sign of that. Won't change in my lifetime, though. I'm 40.

[@KevinP32270]

AGREED.

[@anniet494]

@Allen Loser men can get thousands of women pregnant!! While women can only have one baby a year! its OUR bodies. We control birth. Even if we get pregnant we can control keeping the baby. PREGNANCY IS A CHOICE!! and if your not on the pill or doing SOMETHING, its YOUR FAULT and Not the mans.

[@GayFrogsTho]

80K a year is perfectly respectable for anyone.

[@eurowerx4267]

Yes sir! Especially during these times

[@stayswervin554]

That’s well above average she needs to make up with her baby daddy

[@steveg2251]

£80k a year is a heck of a good life!

[@rbd6502]

@@steveg2251 £58k/year, since US and UK cost of living is around the same, it is still a good life even in your side of the pond

[@leonrobinson8180]

Love the user name

[@LonskiBig]

......A dude making $500K/year, can go get ANY girl in the world he wants......not just a "used" 32 y/o with a kid......

[@newmoneymarcus]

Those of us in the upper echelons of incomes can see women like her from 2-miles away she wouldn’t have a chance and if she did she wouldn’t be calling into the show.

[@raycebannon6374]

At best - if she was super fine (and believe she was not - 5' 4" with a 6 dress size? ) she might be a 'kept woman' for some dude in his 50 or 60's.

[@courtneygardner6334]

There's no fucking way I'm paying for 5 kids with that kind of salary. I'm going to Ibiza every month.

[@OmniscientlyMe]

A dude making that much can get more straight guys than she can, lol.

[@luvbig41]

Indeed. A woman must also accept that a man making $500K/year will cheat. That man has many options. He will be choosing a single 23 - 29 yo and trade her in if she gets fat or too old.

[@mshafer1021]

OK, real talk. A woman never “unintentionally” makes a baby unless she is raped. When you have sex, you are exercising your reproductive faculties, yet most women are surprised when a baby results from doing the very thing that is biologically meant to make babies. This is total cognitive dissonance.

[@markstevens1588]

I know it's late but preach

[@_ambitiousa]

this was perfectly articulated.

[@Ty_ThatGuy]

And don't forget the ones who claim, "I'm allergic to latex" and want you to hit it raw. At that point, I just avoid it all together.

[@WanRa28]

They can even terminate the pregnancy

[@loganblackwood2922]

The ones allergic to latex are often allergic to accountability.

[@Crowbar11115]

This man's patience will be studied by Monks someday.

[@emilywimbley2942]

🤣😂🤣😂😂😂

[@desmondjefferson2127]

Hey, I'm taking notes for those next conversations I have with these women.... LMAO

[@kj9067]

Best comment trophy 🏆

[@krooktype5891]

😂

[@KevinP32270]

HAAAA LOL...AGREED.

[@daydreamer3637]

"You made a baby with this man" "It wasnt intentional" 😂😂 They dont want to take accountability

[@mohammadwasilliterate8037]

"It wasn't intentional" lol as if she fell on the guy naked and forgot birth control and someone lied about abortion.

[@Taylormade_don]

@Hello Again Hello you talking about creampies cream filled donuts?

[@sjudas3584]

My generation born in the 80's mostly were mostly unintentional, basically referred too as happy accidents.

[@faebaby89]

Shoulda wrapped it up or had birth control then lol

[@spartisanIRL]

these girls don’t pay attention in sex ed

[@TheJapan38]

My guess is the guy is "immature" because she wanted him to do something and he wouldn't. Also, she 100% had that child hoping it was going to lock him down and it didn't work. Now she's stuck.

[@user-ur7km9fx2c]

This is why women don't need to get pregnant for any reason! Until they get the ring!

[@bighoncho4671]

🤣🤣 facts

[@DavidBaronStevensPersonal]

Never underestimate a woman's potential to believe her own delusions.

[@youngoldhead8365]

Wise words bro. I did once and it still costs me

[@psitv7041]

Church

[@marcstsurin]

Facts!!

[@TempeSoldier123]

Spot on.

[@TheThunderSound]

Indeed

[@maslina10]

"Marry before you have a child!" Great advice for both women and men. And it is supported by the Brookings Institute study that gives three rules for staying out of poverty: 1. Don't have kids out of wedlock. 2. Finish high school. 3. Get a job.

[@Mike_M.]

I did 2 and 3, but missed the mark on 1.

[@maslina10]

@@Mike_M. Hope it worked out for you. (The three rules are to improve the chances, not a recipe, of course.)

[@yomanyomandx5609]

@@Mike_M. Don't get married ever

[@missxmarvel]

Tell that to the Macc daddies.

[@maslina10]

@@missxmarvel So, the staggering single motherhood rates are all the fault of the "Mac Daddies"? What gave the Daddies so much control? How many Daddies are there, anyway?

[@michaeltrapson]

Thank you for existing Kevin ✨🤝🙏🏽🤴🏿✨

[@tonyalston4838]

Make a MJ and KS collaboration video 💯💯

[@ny-tylekker4972]

Thank god we got so.eone speaking out for real men we just roll with the punches but hes enlighten us all

[@marcstsurin]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 more men like him should start their own KZbin channel.

[@ny-tylekker4972]

@@marcstsurin i would say spread that message in the real world not jus through the net we gotta fight these black battles in person and we gotta pass along the teachings and midset that he pushes we on the front lines

[@marcstsurin]

@@ny-tylekker4972 Well, let's not forget that what KS is saying isn't new. He was never alone. He's not starting a revolution. He just happened to have a KZbin channel. Thank social media platforms for existing!

[@NB-nh2sf]

These numbers be killing me. If you live within your means and have no consumer debt if you make 90k between the two of you you are absolutely killing it..

[@adreanmarantz2103]

Absolutely, even 60k will get you a comfortable, low stress life. If you're responsible with it.

[@Mike_M.]

Facts💯

[@WavvyBul]

Depends on where you live but true

[@beep_beep_beep]

How many modern Americanized women can be happy in a simple life?

[@motiseer]

Screw that I spend almost $20k per year on smoking weed (I only smoke the best) another $20k eating out and another $20k at the strip club. I'd rather be dead than live on 90k. Google retirement crisis and the fact 60% of amee8cans couldn't get their hands on $1000 in an emergency, that's no way to live and that's what 90k per yr gets you. I grew up poor and I'd rather be dead than be poor again.

[@FlyGuyYoshiG5]

This channel makes me respect my wife so much more.

[@dirkdiggler2379]

your wife's boyfriend agrees

[@Jamfar777]

Congrats on having a good one

[@sakpase88]

👏🏿 👏🏿 That's what's up

[@passionplaya4510]

@@dirkdiggler2379 😂 you ain’t right Daniel

[@dirkdiggler2379]

@@passionplaya4510 lmao!

[@MrChambers8109]

I'm TIRED, of this "Lack of ambition" speech. I've heard it from sooo many women and there is no realastic or specific definition to it. A man can make 80k, wants to relax on the weekend and is called "Not ambitious". Women will date a dude making 20k, sells Seamoss and is always running around going to seminars and say that's ambition and potential.

[@potato2941]

make 90k and I just want to just relax because of the trauma of dealing with the corp rat race and staring at excel all day. Yet I'm not "ambitious".

[@dabobthorton6169]

@@potato2941 or you're not "exciting"

[@dango2917]

Id trade so many things off so that I can make 80k a year. I'm just devastated that with me sitting at 40k currently and doing this within the last 5 years I'm never going to be good enough for these ladies

[@dondiego1141]

@@dabobthorton6169 that's the reason so many women prefer to settle with drug dealers, Pookie and Rayray, then come back to the "boring" man once they are alone with children...

[@Imleocalm]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Firm_letter9Gaming]

This women think men are pokemon, just think we gonna evolve when she ready.

[@ichoosemysanity6467]

This was deep fam.

[@imandalton4227]

Squirtle to Blastoise 😆

[@TrapGoku]

Even Pokemon have special evolution conditions you ever try to get a Gengar?

[@jediahtx596]

Bwaaahabbbwha 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀 bruh !

[@jrr7031]

I thought u was gonna say something about, "Gotta catch em all" or "to catch them is my real test...to train them is my cause"!

[@bobbyologun1517]

This channel is such a breath of fresh air and validation of my 20 years experience dealing with black women. All this "if he has ambition", "to start with"

[@iceill3425]

Brothers, when a woman mentions "ambition", that usually means she wants you to go out and make more money for her to reap the benefits of. NOT to better yourself

[@ghariiscool]

Which is why some women like drug dealers.. Fast money

[@iceill3425]

@@ghariiscool facts

[@Mr.cool.agent47]

FACTS

[@Idontwannashutup]

@@ghariiscool fast money and even faster women... ion miss it

[@aussiewanderer6304]

Ambitious meaning she expects the man's salary to increase every year (or more frequently).

[@kennjor2301]

80 K yearly in GA and he has no ambition, WTF, this woman is a lie.

[@imoses1980]

$80K not enough in her eyes at 32 with a child with "lazy man"! The nerve of single Mothers. Now the next man needs to make $350K+.....TF kind of deal is that?

[@hornetguy9063]

Probably because she was making $90k and it was eating at her that he wasn’t making more. Never mind $80k in Atlanta is an honorable income, especially for a man who is likely in his early to mid 30’s and probably has another 10-20 years before he hits his income peak. She has “investments”, so a plebe not making 6 figures isn’t good enough. I mean it’s good enough to reproduce with and give yet another kid a broken childhood with 2 addresses and a rotating cast of men banging his mom, but marriage? Ha, you’re nuts

[@metallic_cocoa]

Yea at 15 mins in she declared that she didnt think she had said anything about herself 😰😰 She's delusional.

[@bigsho5218]

He’s had other women

[@kyoukan91]

I'm not sure off the top of my head how far 80k in GA (outside of atlanta) goes but I do know 80K in Knoxville TN, is quite a lot and is like the equivalent of making over $100k in the states with outrageous inflation mass, cali, NY, etc.

[@cegb551]

Women like this are the reason why a lot of us don’t want relationships, and all the grief that comes with them.

[@iffysd9864]

They pretend to love the man when he has money but they really love the lifestyle

[@welkcubnairb1478]

Her Love= Your walllet She will Never Love you. !

[@BarryBranton]

Agreed. One expends way too much energy in dealing with a woman like her. In most cases, it's better not to have anything to do with them, unless they're in their early twenties without children. Proverbs 25:24 "Better to dwell in the corner of a housetop than with a contentious woman in a shared house." In my view, these contentious women are by nature bitter because they're old and because they don't appreciate men.

[@howdareyou5800]

And the worst is the laws are anti men... and culture endorses women abusing men with the law system.

[@kazuya4289]

women do not love

[@Mrfukalot1984]

Don’t you guys love it when he chuckles and say OK LET’S DO THIS😂😂😂

[@reyt2304]

Yes I love it I’m like here comes the Truth!!!!!!!!!

[@sg7392]

You can hear him putting the bullets in the reality revolver of truth to let them have it.

[@Semiam1]

She entered her previous relationship knowing her boyfriend was immature. She thought she could make him her project to mature him and get sex benefits. Now another child suffers without a dad in their life.

[@iffysd9864]

The thing is he probably not even "immature" women use that word all the time incorrectly but her behaviour here is immaturity. Zero accountability infinity delusion.

[@rael6974]

She wanted a Bill Clinton.

[@torachan23]

And she clearly says she is going to do the same thing with the next man

[@madant22]

immature how if he's making $80K he's above average . She's gonna regret when he makes $100K this year and he is no longer interested in getting back with her no more.

[@sman14GTA]

@@iffysd9864 Very true. Most women as well as completely misconstruing words for their own agenda, also hide projections in their insults/character attacks. "He's immature" *=* "I need to hide my immaturity and insecurities", still has a baby with an "immature" man. "Are you cheating on me" *=* "I'm thinking about/already cheating on you" "You're an insecure man/A real man would..." *=* "How dare you have standards as a man, let me manipulate you" "Are

[@MonkeyDUsopp-dn7tq]

“I have a few guys that are interested in marrying me” or “i got options” every time when they say that they are lying . You wouldn’t be calling up if that was the case

[@youngoldhead8365]

Factz. You don't have to ask things you know the answer to. They call the show trying to find out how to land a man they have no clue how to obtain. They're only mad when they don't get the answer they want, how THEY wanna hear it. I've seen enough of this shit to zoom in on these lying mfs "catch phrases" when their made uncomfortable. Keep talking logic, put the focus on them and watch how redundant they sound. After a while the shit starts to sound scripted cause a lot of them are reading the same playbook!!!!

[@Walking-MY-Path]

@@youngoldhead8365 Lolz FACTS!!

[@KOVIDGOON]

EXACTLY THEY WOULD BE BOO'D UP NOT LISTENING TO KS. 😆

[@Jazzmaster1992]

I honestly believe they have options, but they don't want to date or marry any of them. Look at her standards for income alone, it's pretty obvious why she's reluctant to commit.

[@Shanard242]

@@Jazzmaster1992 or they don't want to marry her lmao

[@SmileyAdventures]

Why do some women think having a child isn’t intentional?? Like how is it not???? 😐

[@No_Show94]

yup

[@MegazoneMusic23]

I hate hearing the response. "I found out I was pregnant" like this woman said here.. Here is my logic. That women should go through because they hold all the cards when It comes to birth.. (Oh the guy was immature and a JERK) 1. If we have sex.. I have like 30+ different kinds of birth control 2. Yikes.. Im pregnant .. I COULD take the morning after pill (but chose not to) 3. Talk to the potential father (he doesnt want to have a child.. GO TO STEP 2) 4. Abortion options. (Im going to get revenge on the jerk by making him pay me money until the baby is 18) 5. On the offhand chance that he changes his mind and wants to share custody.. (Im going to take him to court and keep the baby myself because courts are on my side) 6. So many many options women have BEFORE the baby is born 7. Adoption. 8. Women have...22 weeks to consider option 4. 22 weeks.... 22weeks.....**5 months** to reconsider what they've done AND YET... they still CHOOSE to have a baby with a Chad/Alpha/Bad guy?????? You have nothing BUT time.. And you want me to feel sympathy for women who become single moms for ??? (not counting death of father - thats widowed) I just get upset because It baffles my mind that women dont think about ANY of this , and its beta men who have to clean up the mess.(well a LOT of men are not going to anymore) You made your bed... now sleep in it......ALONE :(

[@thedadyouneverhadchannel3544]

Some???? Try MOST.

[@MegaMiamiboi305]

@@MegazoneMusic23 Facts

[@TheRealCalijokes01]

Idk 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@jamesbarrick3403]

Being a step father is a thankless job. So many do so much for 10+ years to raise children and the moment she wants to walk down the isle... she wants daddy to giver her away. Happens all the time.

[@roberttyler5808]

Fun fact. Most mixed families last an average of 7 years. More fun facts most mixed families are created when a child turns 13. Now I wonder if…no..it can’t be that.

[@samuelakiwumi2988]

Exactly

[@RebelZoe1804]

Facts, when Zion Williamson got drafted he thanked his mom and not the step dad that taught him the game he plays and even coached him as a kid.

[@kkfjkf2099]

I didn't know step-dads felt like this. My dad raised me from 4 til 17. I don't have his DNA. His values, work ethic, character and integrity made me who I am. He was a 🔥💯difference-maker🔥 in my life. I thank GOD my mom chose him.♥️ I never called him "stepdad". He's always been "my dad".

[@roberttyler5808]

@@kkfjkf2099 that’s great how often do you tell him that.

[@MessiMathematician]

Lack ambition and immature loosely translated means the man won’t do what the woman wants him to. It’s total bullshit. Men stop putting babies in women with poor relationship skills.

[@markcadieux3445]

Easy rule, no condom, no sex. I know it's not easy to say no in the heat of the moment, but you will be glad later that you did.

[@myguychris7739]

Compare the cost of a box of condoms to the price of a Plan B pill... Then compare BOTH of those to the price of 18+ years of childcare, court costs, and attorneys fees and you'll see why it's important to chose your sexual partners CAREFULLY.

[@micdynasty6438]

And while I'm at work her child's father is in my house.

[@crzyruskie86]

He lacked ambition to be brainwashed to her goals and ambitions. He dodged a bullet.

[@nevorchi]

Facts, Fortunately I don't have any kids but that's one of my biggest fears in life...

[@larryleisure9624]

“Making a baby is more of a big deal than being a wife..”

[@jhnxavier]

*Profound* af...

[@welkcubnairb1478]

Truth

[@al-bsure4284]

Sad truth Fam!

[@King-ns7it]

It's such a crazy thing that they believe with their whole hearts. Just stupid. Bringing a whole life into the world is less of a hardship than marrying a grown fully functional adult. Make it make sense

[@Thefive5]

Sure is because you can undo that marriage but not that child.

[@firebirdstark]

I’m happily married with a kid and house, and this channel has got to be the most entertaining one I’ve found in a long time. Thanks for educating these women, and I hope the single, young, no kids, no marriage girls watch these before it’s too late and they give up their value the wrong way. All these women thinking like men, it’s insane lol

[@Opinions-galore24]

GIRL!!! Same here. I just can't believe how strong the delusional is!!!! Wow... just wow!!

[@FurTheCasa]

Same. I'm a married SHM. I'm listening as I clean up. Most times I'm laughing but sometimes I'm left 🤯 by the delusion of some of these women. But I have 2 little girls and a 21 yr old stepdaughter so I'm taking notes 📝

[@mommymj9529]

Me as well. 43, married shm, we have a 1, 2 and 4 year old. This channel is too entertaining. I play some for my husband and he says that these women need to stop calling in just to get their feelings hurt. But its entertainment for me!!!

[@clancymamou]

Every other month, I tell my step dad “thank you.” I let him know I’m thankful for him… and that I’ll never be a stepdad because of what he went through

[@lavellelee5734]

Sounds like a good story for the big screen

[@High5748]

Men making 50K can live a pretty comfortable life w/o a wife and kids. Why would they want to ruin that for a headache for the rest of their lives?

[@michellerichardson3090]

They want sex lol

[@RealParadox85]

Idk where you at that 50K is living comfortably lol

[@brandon3617]

@@RealParadox85 In virginia a single guy can do fine on 50k. I don't know about anywhere else though.

[@richardwangombe5657]

Men can get sex without relationships. Women are only relevant for sex at this point

[@jamesmorton5017]

I can live very well south of the border on 50,000 and have more beautiful women than I can handle. I make a 100000 sitting on my ass.

[@tonyrivera6652]

Women rank men by income. High income Men rank women by beauty, age, femininity and children.

[@vermontsmostobesetubaplaye1988]

Femininity is a lost art these days.

[@sealteam8659]

Shit every man does that, but we know where our lane is clearly depending on where we stand on the money, most women don’t seem to have that same internal meter. They watch too much tv and believe the shit they see.

[@RealParadox85]

And get mad at how men rank shit lol. Knowing damn well if a dude make 30K a year, is 5'4 he gon be at the bottom of the totem pole

[@pierregibson6699]

@@RealParadox85 could be the greatest guy on earth but won’t even be looked at he will be looked OVER🥲

[@eliseenvisionz7588]

@@RealParadox85 facts

[@mr.blademonktravels1880]

I can listen to this 20 times a day. Because this man speaks a truth that should've been said long ago.

[@wittyexquisite]

I agree totally!!!!

[@dub2536]

100%

[@mikeandmars2345]

Yes indeed

[@longbeachmaumba7059]

Best channel on KZbin in my opinion

[@guyfromnewark]

It should be common sense.

[@johnyoung5392]

Lol, she actually said she brings "peace" to the table. I weep for the men that believe that.

[@Saiuriyon]

“But he was good enough to reproduce with...make that make sense.”

[@leonelorozco2514]

She likes bad boyz

[@blutooth6348]

@@leonelorozco2514 Yup! When she was young looking right she checked for a hood ninja and it didn’t workout! She’s corny

[@portermore3864]

Your hurt

[@fidelcastro236]

@@blutooth6348 her child’s father is non blk

[@KimmieSan97]

@@fidelcastro236 her child’s father is black but she mostly dated Asian men. 😅

[@djelliott3158]

Everyone calling in they dude making 80k or they making 100k. I never in my life seem so many black people making 6 figures. I call b.s..

[@eyewitnesshiphop]

Facts

[@AlphaDoG-43]

😂

[@danedefense2046]

I don’t know anything about Atlanta but 80k gets you long ways in a good chunk of the country. Whenever a woman says he lacks ambition, what she’s really saying is he’s not Jeff Bezos.

[@desmondjefferson2127]

I'm one of them, and I don't see NO ninjas doing what I do lol. This chick wouldn't even get a call back from me!

[@biggmixxo]

Word!

[@Shalayah2010]

Having a baby isn’t intentional?? It’s literally one of the most intentional things you can do lol

[@TopJazzCat]

Right?😂😂😂

[@KareemShotta]

lol no but I feel you

[@KNEWERAADVERTISING]

@@KareemShotta Having sex raw/bareback is intentional, unless you are saying human are just like animals only running on impulses?

[@KareemShotta]

@@KNEWERAADVERTISING no the condom can break which is very unintentional and you could still have raw sex and not want to have a baby...people do it all the time or are we not living on the same planet?

[@KNEWERAADVERTISING]

@@KareemShotta If you fail to plan you plan to fail, it's still intentional, sin by omission

[@muqtadirhakeem8711]

Two years later and STILL the best channel on KZbin. That's with no significant new content!

[@sbradley3008]

The problem with women like this is they believe their happiness is more important than the security of their children. They are not worthy mothers. They are still children themselves.

[@reemoe9374]

But stability makes them unhappy....lol

[@mrcharles4636]

Facts

[@dpeagles]

Exactly. They don't think long term about their children.

[@leonelorozco2514]

Bingo. She dumped the baby daddy becaused she thought she could get a richer man. She couldn't. A richer man would keep her "happy". By not mature enough she meant "he doesn't buy me expensive unnecesary shit".

[@fresh4families]

@@leonelorozco2514 oh no she could get a richer man... to sleep with her. If he hasnt got kids with her and she has from a previous relationship she will always be at a disadvantage with a potential partner. They dont grasp this.

[@nubianprincess1908]

He’s correct about the black community. Many people will praise you for being a BM than being a wife. I’m going through hell right now because I got married at the age of 20 an I’m 22 right now. Funny part is my cousin gets pregnant at 17 and 19 it was a completely different reaction. Thank you Mr. Samuel for putting value on marriage still. These videos are also helping me look at myself in the mirror and my marriage. Once again thank you. ❤️

[@No_Show94]

yes they'll say u aren't mature enough for marriage

[@Lozie82]

Good for you 🙂

[@2Tall03XX]

Right. Why do our people wanna settle for being baby mamas/daddy’s?

[@itsjustapodcast]

Oh wow this is beautiful..

[@squarefinancialmarketing7848]

But I'm concerned about women marrying young cause they tend to get bored or want o explore new options cause they "feel" like they were robbed of their youth

[@jhnxavier]

So many women want to date a man “on their level” when seeking *high value men;* not understanding that the average men they hypergamously pass up ARE the men “on their level.”

[@jackdamenace13]

Hypergamy another synonym for Gold Digging.

[@sickvendetta9]

This bro.... so much this

[@samuelkundael3503]

Ciara told them to level up and that's exactly what they are doing

[@samuelkundael3503]

@Madd dogg Ciara can level up because her bargaining chips a bigger. You can't go to a $1000 buy-in poker table with $200 at hand and expect to be even considered. And J.Lo put the icing on the cake with that I ain't your mama video.

[@fponce3037]

Right on !

[@leebrooks7467]

I would love to see her face when he tells her she’s worth a $50k dude thinking she’s worth $380k 😂😂👌🏾

[@drew230]

"Lacks ambition" Translation: he makes decent money but isn't willing to sacrifice his free time to make more money for my lazy butt,but instead chooses to stay home on his free time and play daddy

[@FB-ch5yz]

He makes 80gs but she’ll mess with a dude that makes 40gs with ambition? So if that didn’t gets to 70gs then what... she got issues and there’s more goin on then she said

[@drew230]

@@FB-ch5yz So much more.But you know these broads with their half truths

[@selderane]

$50k is average. This dude making $80k. Definitionally, that makes him above average.

[@DapperDonzX]

Precisely my brother. Idk how fine a woman is. If she wants more while she is not doing anything. I will kick her to the curb.

[@4RMULA_arch]

🎯🎯🎯

[@quigley6643]

Not a single caller asks for a guy who just loves them, just money. Lols

[@FireAngelChris]

They will always fail.

[@vermontsmostobesetubaplaye1988]

Men love. Women use. A very old proverb.

[@ReginaPhelangee]

That’s so sad :/

[@jonnyenough1531]

@@ReginaPhelangee Mens reality though

[@reggier2343]

This a fact!

[@coachnickens6652]

Lesson: Her child's father got a lot more than she's willing to give the Stepfather.

[@imoses1980]

That's deep

[@bastiat6865]

EXACTLY! And there's no amount of sex which can balance that equation. NONE.

[@kenishalperkins]

Sad

[@fidelcastro236]

Because he’s non blk that’s why

[@JuniorNGU]

@@fidelcastro236 She said his black

[@Kemar_peart]

Thank you, Mr. Samuels. It's such a blessing to have someone like you to speak for us in this modern time. 🙏

[@madant22]

She's better off going back and marrying her baby father.

[@bpaige12]

That's if he's willing to even take her back she sounds like she would be Hell on Wheels to deal with just by listening this called tells me she has one of those personalities where things have to be her way all the time. He was probably sad when she first left but it matter no time figured out he was free and began to enjoy it.

[@AM-ri9ut]

True, but if her BD don't want her, then she's confined to "No Man's Land".

[@benanders4412]

She would be. But why would he take her back?

[@DestroTalks]

It's ATL. Baby father mostly likely got a new woman already. lol 😆.

[@jamiehenson4839]

Exactly!!! He wanted to marry her and could provide the life she wanted. She’s ridiculous

[@quack123]

When women say ambition, it's code for "money, prestige and status so I can show him off to my friends."

[@KingComp67_-io3iz]

Facts sad 😞 and “provider” key word

[@michellerichardson3090]

I never understood the whole ambition thing. How are you going to ask a man to do something you're not even doing?

[@southhour5241]

Nothing wrong with wanting but receiving is a whole other thing. Reciprocity isn't considered be the women who call in, it's a serious character flaw.

[@qmakesithappen]

Facts

[@cliffjungill8709]

right.

[@xekis]

This woman actually said she will bring him peace when previously she admitted she will keep nagging a $45K man to make more.

[@progo1529]

👍🏾👍🏾

[@greyman6353]

The peace of the grave when he finally keels over working to death to satisfy her entitlement

[@darrylrevok9936]

@@greyman6353 George Jones, "A Place in the country". For thirty some odd years he faced the grind here in the city, Hustlin' day in day out just tryin' to survive. He bought his wife the finer things, and sent his kids to collage. That always took what little bit he tried to put aside. But through it all he had one thing that seemed to keep him going. A dream that someday he could leave this city life behind. I watched his hair turn thin and gray, but his dream never faded. He told me all about it, at least a thousand times. [Chorus] He always wanted, a place out in the country. Where the birds sing, in the morning, and the grass is emerald green. A place where, he could feel the mornin' sunshine, and sit out in the evenin', where the air is fresh and clean. It took lots of overtime to keep his wife up with the Joneses, and more to get his son out of his run-ins with the law. The more it took the more he gave, never once complaining. I don't know how he ever stood the pressure of it all. I never thought he'd make it, but he finally left the city, and now he's got that special little place to call his own. Today I took a ride out in the country just to see him. It wasn't hard to find because his name was on the stone. 🪦 [Chorus] He always wanted, a place out in the country......

[@mentlinc]

@@darrylrevok9936 dope but sad af

[@MariodeSa_Music]

Hi Kevin. Thank you for the great content. Your approach to these conversations totally correct. In my experience though, whenever a woman complains that there ex´s are this, that and the other, on meeting them in person I am always surprised because they seem more normal than portrayed by her. When they say their ex´s are immature etc, you take them on their word. You shouldn't do that. They are generally misrepresenting them. These guys generally speaking, are normal, down to earth average dudes. Her delusion has made him into a lazy, unambitious looser. Thanks.

[@harambe4267]

Literally every woman says they're going to bring peace, love and companionship to their man. They need to realize they're offering the baseline every other woman claims to offer, nothing extra.

[@wiktorwektor123]

Not only most of them claim those things but also almost every single one is lying.

[@Xsheaffer]

No woman brings peace. The End.

[@brianlenehan9055]

Men bring those things to the table as well as his hard earned money. The ladies earned money too but they left it at the mall.

[@JohnSluderPhoto]

@@Xsheaffer I broke by finger smashing the thumbs up button

[@techiefan1986]

She's not even going to bring peace.. You can tell ehe's going to nag and annoy him until he makes enough money to satisfy her spending habits.

[@rachaelgordove8430]

Your channel helps me find my high value black man..now we're married, and on our honeymoon!!

[@mms9393]

Congrats

[@bmoney3837]

Congrats🙌🏿

[@rachaelgordove8430]

@@mms9393 thank you.

[@rachaelgordove8430]

@@bmoney3837 thank you.

[@OhTHATSLc]

Ure pretty

[@tomaxxamot2016]

I was dating this girl, nice looking with 2 kids, she turn around and ask me if I don't aspire to be more in my company , I said no, I am happy making more than half the managers at my job,with less stress, why do you want me to take a job I don't like , just to accommodate you and your kids lifestyle ,which was her intentions

[@happyguy2k]

🙈🙈🙈They expect you to look after their children. I'm curious why did you date a girl with children?

[@amonnkeith4061]

I dated a woman with 2 kids by two different men one black and one white . Anyway she tired to say she wanted to make me wait until marriage to have sex smh 🤦‍♂️

[@pimphandstrong6620]

@@amonnkeith4061 hahahahaha did u tell her u ain't gonna fall for the banana in the tailpipe?

[@amonnkeith4061]

@@pimphandstrong6620 I canceled her like nino brown lol

[@pimphandstrong6620]

@@amonnkeith4061 😂😂😂😆

[@generalrendar7290]

$80k isn't enough?! That's an awesome income and she's turning her nose up at it! Has the gall to call that man immature?! You can't be immature to make $80k!

[@Mrcuddlesworth_]

And even if by her definition he is. He’s still providing and getting his work done.

[@sg7392]

I think the immature one is her.

[@leonelorozco2514]

She thought she could do better. Cheated on her baby daddy then she got dumped. Blamed it on the men. Rinse repeat.

[@MaxCharpentier]

When Kevin breaks it down for these women, they still don't want to understand what he's saying.

[@kapriece]

They think they can rewrite the story. If that were the case then everyone would be above average.

[@CallofWar5]

They don't want to face the reality of their situation. Then they would have to take responsibility and lower their standards

[@urbancommute5239]

This is what western men get for not keeping females under control.

[@deniseseawood135]

When the world is so full of materialism that we base character on looks

[@shycat6]

Two words that have completely destroyed a generation of women : NEVER SETTLE

[@kevinlee9929]

Cept they don't realize that HVM are settling they get with them.

[@kobe88us]

Yup Amen

[@grindhard4312]

Totally agree

[@coreyhoward722]

PREACH!!!

[@martenscs]

Immature means he couldn't make the money she wanted

[@xSalamz]

$80k in Atlanta is above average.

[@xSalamz]

@@BeaterCar maybe you are right and I don't blame the guy. Imagine being 30+ with another man kids and wanting a guy earning $250k+. Where do these women get these women get these expetations from?

[@martenscs]

@@xSalamz They all think they can be Kim K.....thier just waiting for the sex tape

[@xSalamz]

@Salem The Cat Well on acording to payscale the average salary is $69k so it is above average. What stats do you have?

[@comixcs7]

Your IQ is 1000

[@crazymonkeyVII]

"I can't! They're in their 50's and don't want any more kids! They just want to take care of me and my kid..." She should be grateful as French Toast that they even want to take care of her and her existing kid. What the F!

[@angsana2800]

Quite. After all the reality check, she still didn't get it. Having a decent man offering to take care of you and your child from another man? She should be jumping up in joy and thank goodness for her luck.

[@RebelZoe1804]

As I was ready this comment, she made this statement 😂

[@armadasinterceptor2955]

All Kevin is teaching, is the art of improving your odds.

[@riversdarrell2000]

Simple as that...

[@darthkek1953]

He teaches two things: 1. the art of improving your odds (as you rightly said) but also 2. the wisdom to know what your BASE ODDS and your IMPROVED ODDS are

[@AD-vp6cz]

Solid point

[@janellestuckey8477]

All of these women have 1 child out of wedlock. It's what I have learned by tuning into these videos. I really believe Kevin is good at what he does. It might be hard for some people to hear, but he speaks the truth.

[@JBTHEJEWELER]

💯💯💯

[@allwhatilove914]

It's amazing how much hate he gets only for stating THE OBVIOUS!

[@loveismeallthetime4287]

She's not listening to hear. She's listening to respond. Baby, I'm 46 and thankful for my mother and her wisdom ❤

[@hankskiar1571]

Great teaching moment from the late great Mr. Samuels. R.I.P my brother❤

[@expiredsynx983]

“If he has ambition” gets me everytime 😂

[@letssee9]

They seem to NOT know what ambition is. They throw good men away.

[@fxfxwc]

Their "ambition" is to latch on to a successful man and drive 🚗 him to an earlier death.

[@abe1r550]

Laugh every time

[@letssee9]

@Robert Anna Disney!

[@InOrlando]

When I hear women say that, what I perceive is “he needs to produce more so I can spend it.” I produce more so I can invest it, not over inflated my lifestyle.

[@petert1692]

Immature= He wasn’t willing to be moulded. The guy evaded a major bullet.

[@ApriliaRacer14]

He was never going to meet her expectations.

[@thevanman4498]

I would like to know if aliMONEY was involved. Shared custody she could be paying him with her big realtor salary. She has an angry edge so maybe she is butt hurt.

[@wardiya3arbiya]

Didn't evaded much once had a kid with her. Their lifes will be always entangled.

[@skanda1832]

No, no. The plane already hit the mountain. He and she already irreparably injured a child’s life. 80% of everyone incarcerated was raised by a single mom. What a mess.

[@wardiya3arbiya]

@@skanda1832 many keep repeating this statement. Is there a study that you could link me too. This is a honest request

[@georgeblair3894]

You can ignore reality. You cannot ignore the consequences of ignoring reality.

[@Ben-Ken]

I'm stealing this.

[@Brandy3319]

@@Ben-Ken Me Too.. LoloLoloLoL!!!!!

[@imandalton4227]

Ain't that the truth

[@qmakesithappen]

That's a bar

[@qmakesithappen]

@@Ben-Ken on god lol that was a bar.

[@RobertCuillo]

Hey Kevin I can relate to being a stepfather. It was miserable. Can you tell us more about your experience as a stepfather? Maybe it will help men avoid making the same choices?

[@taurahelms3068]

80K is a good income with one child. She doesn't want to pay significant bills and a man with 350K. That is a huge leap.

[@thejourneyofraymond5752]

Even better solo dolo

[@chrisn2125]

She’s completely delusional.

[@darylcampbell9838]

Nah in this case I think Kevin is a bit off base. He asked what she wanted, and she simply told him. She tried to say that she had no problem working with kids, but he cut her off. She never said she didn’t want to contribute to paying significant bills. Those are words he put in her mouth.

[@newmoneymarcus]

Men in the $350K range have options and she would be far in the back of the line.

[@Rolexenforcer]

@@newmoneymarcus I'm 39, i retired at 36 and currently make between 100 and 140k a month, never been married and never will be. I have 2 kids with 2 different women, I've dated women with kids and never again, both times the child was used to hurt me. My first child I had when I was 28 and my baby mama was 21, my second child I was 37 and my baby mama was 20 and smoking hot, literally the most beautiful woman I've ever seen, I'm still with her. Gotta love the mentality of these women out here though, they've hit the wall head on and still want a high value man, as a high value man, as brutal as this will sound, we don't want them 🤷‍♂️

[@KBTadieh]

My mom strong African woman told me this..."you'll lose money chasing women but you'll never lose women chasing money" I don't even look at y'all anymore even at the beach. I'm busy building my business, y'all are busy having babies with no husband's...keep at it!

[@bones549]

Wise

[@Opinions-galore24]

My husband had the same mindset before we married. He's an entrepreneur and didn't worry with woman. He was focused on building.

[@irvingjorge6180]

That’s a good saying

[@HelloThere-xs8ss]

@@Opinions-galore24 ah, then you're cashing in in a few years

[@tspot816]

Damn, that is a great quote! Hope you don't mind me using that one!

[@06alwilliams]

This brother is trying his best to deprogram us from the smoke and mirrors we’ve come to accept as reality.

[@jgosier]

Facts

[@KevinP32270]

AGREED.

[@thee_morpheus]

Free your mind

[@06alwilliams]

@@thee_morpheus and your ass will follow

[@sonnyjim5268]

I just discovered Kevin a few weeks ago - finally someone that says it like it is. One observation I have is with these women the first words out of their mouths is they want a six-figure salary. I’ve yet to hear them say a man to love them, grow old, build a life, etc… It’s no wonder they are single and unhappy.

[@tobiasreaper3650]

You're mistaken. They want that high earning man to love them enough to the point where they financially benefit. They do not seek to sustain the relationship or love the man.

[@Barak144]

I hope her son doesn’t hear this interview of her calling him a mistake 😳

[@haroldbolling3187]

LMFAO

[@stephencook7337]

Yeah that’s crazy….

[@daphuckuwant]

A lot of kids are mistakes.😵‍💫

[@Town_Bound]

Well to be fair it sounds more like the father was the mistake, bc its not like she didnt want kids

[@nikko7411]

Ikr

[@kaleemlylesdawson273]

Godfather I just want to thank you. You have helped me to see my own value when I used to just be happy a was talking to a female. I'm a 32 year old black male living on my own, with no children, no police record, and a good career making 52k a year which will in a couple of years will increase to 75. I am a catch and don't need to just "settle" for the "baby mama" unless I truly want too. Yes I'm not the 6 figures man, but I plan to be there one day. Thank you for helping all of us and doing what you do. Please continue to keep it real and do what you do. ✊🏾

[@BlockchainBey]

On God.

[@ghariiscool]

✊✊ good job brotha keep up the good work

[@OhTHATSLc]

Don't miss out

[@schawnettarobinson8584]

Keep up the great work!!

[@christinevillanueva54]

Wear condoms! Don't be tricked!

[@itsjustapodcast]

Yall listen.. he's not saying you can't get a man he's just saying the man you're trying to get is looking for younger hotter with no kids.. youre older bigger and have kids.. why is that hard to understand?

[@wmckinley43]

You define rly hit the nail on the head brother.

[@kevinleewilliams5119]

Because they've been told they are special their entire lives, its literally like the matrix red pill, blue pill scenario, it's why they always react the same way, because it's new to them.

[@mr.brightside2671]

Because they feel half of us are so beneath them that we aren't even visible or worth acknowledgment. That's how delusional they are.

[@thedadyouneverhadchannel3544]

Bc they can’t take accountability for anything always someone else’s problem.

[@geremymason5936]

It kills me when they say they wouldn't recommend their daughters do what they do or their sons marry women in their situations but they are the exception so nothing applies to them.

[@swatisquantum]

As a man, I can’t imagine being interested in a woman with a child. They’re invisible to me as soon as I find out. I know that the child would never appreciate me.

[@sg7392]

Or her by the sounds of it.

[@darkknightmentality5979]

The best line of the night. "If you're good at something, never do it for free" - The Joker

[@oghren6617]

Not black but I’m glad I found this channel

[@acttemp6170]

I'm curious about what you seeing in your culture.

[@bucknasty8597]

@@acttemp6170 the same shit. Just more blue hair

[@acttemp6170]

@@bucknasty8597 SMDH

[@MrHowhot]

Any man can find value in what he's saying

[@fuhk]

@@MrHowhot Not just men, women as well. He gives information that will help build anyone up if they allow it to.

[@DoremonUCR]

Kevin is that role model, big brother that all of us wish we had or knew during our youth.

[@mrelove72]

Facts!!!!

[@andreasrademacher5715]

Rather father...

[@GDMetellus8]

FACTS, For sure. 46 years old and I didn't have a male figure in my life to tell me this stuff. I had to catch pieces of being a man over the course of my adult life and KS is helping me put it all together. Better late than never, Thanks Godfather.

[@patrckhh20]

No I had a father.

[@tonyscott1066]

Dad or brother 💯

[@RMartin1031]

The father is still being in the son's life seems like a very mature thing to do in my opinion. So I wonder what was the real reason she bailed out of the relationship.

[@emanuelmota7217]

Good point.

[@ronj7658]

He doesn't want to marry her.

[@sg7392]

She may have been thrown out.

[@Meekmillz27]

He has to trademark “immatoure”.

[@imoses1980]

Facts 🤣

[@greg6909]

That's the correct pronunciation I believe. Educated people say it that way it seems.

[@you3ee]

@@greg6909 No. its the INCORRECT pronounciation. Only Southern black people pronounce it that way. no one else

[@marvellous2365]

Facts 😂😂😂

[@Bodybagbart]

It's pronounced muh-chur google it

[@legatrondadon8483]

Hmm “you don’t get to choose like you were able to at 23 when you have a child and are 32” My mans said you don’t get too choose. Damn

[@imoses1980]

Legendary stuff KS is speaking. He's waking single BW up big time with cold hard truth/facts!!

[@robertoayala809]

Kevin is keeping it real! 👍

[@biggmixxo]

Tell'em again fam.

[@darthkek1953]

It's called THE WALL. The Wall cannot be bargained with. It cannot be reasoned with. And it absolutely will not stop, ever, until it hits you in the face.

[@danielpittijr6283]

I am a panamanian man, who found this channel last week, and i enjoy this channel. Even thought i live in another country.

[@LeesaLilHop]

I am also Panamanian 🇵🇦

[@WaterGates1]

Afro-Panamanian here... 🇵🇦 Wadup, kinfolk.

[@JTD2001]

@@WaterGates1 same i got 🇯🇲 and 🇵🇦 in me

[@PappaMustafa]

I've dated a Panamanian woman for 3 years and survived. I'm a honorary Panamanian lol

[@jerroldbates7015]

Are women like this, where you live?

[@Sirfatandblack]

"I don't care if he makes $50K if he has desires to make more" What if he doesn't? What if $50K for him is comfortable? What if he gets laid off or injured to the point where he can't work? This chick isn't looking for a Husband, she's looking for someone to swoop in and solve her problems for her

[@sg7392]

She just wants a walking wallet.

[@vindobonaification]

Most of those women are just looking for a sugar daddy