Women That High Value Men Avoid...Are You One of Them?

[@Renshai32]

He's correct. Too many women raise their son's to be men they wouldn't even give the time of day. They only care about what a man does for them. Not what his truths are.

[@quamifilms]

Faaaaaaaacts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@johnwayne2103]

Actually that is incorrect, too many single woman don't raise their Son's to be men, they actually become woman, ever see them when they get upset? They lash out like woman, they rage against whomever they want and become so animated by rolling their eyes and jumping up and down and clapping their hands together. never seen it? Next time when you see one of these young men get upset start taking notice. Tupac Shakur hits the nail on the head, "But I know for a fact that had I had a father, I'd have some discipline. I'd have more confidence. Your mother cannot calm you down the way a man can. Your mother can't reassure you the way a man can." A woman cannot raise a man! PERIOD. In some cases Their son's become Husbands, ever see the that incident where that Young man was going from HighShcool to College and as the family is standing behind him to hear his draft pick come up (Mom and Sisters, No father present) He choose a school his mother didn't approve and she slaps him upside the head? The boy is going to college who cares what school he goes to. He is their meal ticket.

[@quamifilms]

John Wayne yoooo! Good points.

[@keltis67]

John Wayne spot on John!!!

[@freethinker3334]

@@johnwayne2103 You're correct! I'm a single woman but not a single mother..His father has been present since day one and we co-parent now but I couldn't IMAGINE how they do it with 5-7children with no male influence what so ever smh his dad gets a totally different response when I have to have him step in lol

[@theKoreis]

I used to wish I were prettier, but I thank God that He did not make me "gorgeous" so I had to be clever, determined, and apply myself. I've been happily married for 14yrs and I treat my husband with respect, deference, a sweet heart and a sound mind. He's amazing but he's better because I support his purpose. That means I also serve an important purpose; I provide an invaluable service and he appreciates me. THIS is what makes happy relationships; not sex or money. Those things are just icing.

[@CiluhStyle1]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@voiceofreason5893]

Wonderful. Congrats to you friend.

[@pfunk42]

I love you! 😊

[@ares23dc]

Not sex? If you say so .... the moment my wife will stop having sex with me, I'm gone!

[@Letsbehonest37]

♥♥♥♥

[@SaintHop]

The fact that he breaks down every point and stays focus and on topic when dealing with toxic behavior is admirable

[@kingkaisauce5718]

Faxx

[@missmel3466]

Yes! That’s why I’m able to binge watch back to back to back, trying to catch up! And he’s not rude or disrespectful. The truth can hurt but attacking the messenger is like picking at a scab and wondering why it stings and won’t heal!

[@JamilGali]

it's the practice...

[@toosiie]

@@missmel3466 daaaamn sister that's a GREAT analogy! 👍🏾

[@mommyandtingz4792]

Lol

[@joealeman1204]

This is the my life raised by my mom who alienated me from my dad after their divorce. At 29 I realize I’ve been sailed down the river at the expense of what I could do for my mom and not what I could do or become for myself. RIP Kevin, you are the epitome of the father I never had.

[@danielrodger6016]

Same her bro Still learning this now about an abusive woman Theyre all manipulative in one way or another in my experience

[@joealeman1204]

@@danielrodger6016 I’m sorry to hear this. Best of luck on your journey. I hope the abuse and manipulation makes you realize that you need your own boundaries and your own red line in the sand to stand for yourself in ANY relationship. Stay up fam!

[@boywonder029]

This was me before my 27th birthday.

[@paulbodi9376]

An abusive mom leads to abusive relationships with women. But step by step much can be overcomed. Thank you Kevin! Thank God for saving knowledge! Much strength to us to become better men, my brothers!

[@JanieBee]

@@paulbodi9376greed. I was lucky to be raised by my father, even though he was raised by a single mom he was always present and provided for us. Other men in my family weren’t so lucky. Also raised by single moms. Many of them are unmarried, “bad boys”, wife beaters, forever below average intentionally. I count my lucky stars. I cry at these stories, how selfishness touches every part of our human culture. I will not be a wife like this who destroys men, ever

[@SuperDB215]

When my son went to live with his father in 5th grade, I had to repeatedly defend my decision to let him go. I know full and well that his father is the best person to teach him how to be a man.

[@tshaolin971]

Congrats you gone beyond your feelings, that's not easy for a woman.

[@SuperDB215]

@@tshaolin971 actually I was ok with it. We've shared custody since he was born. And he wasn't a baby anymore and needed more discipline than nurturing. We live 20 minutes from each other and my son is 13 now, so he goes back forth all the time.now.

[@latoyawatts168]

Omg I had that problem when I’m son dad wanted him to be at his house throughout the week I cried and learned to put my feelings aside and let him be with his dad because he his a growing boy and needs that discipline as well

[@tanitrarobinson7477]

Absolutely Queen!!!!! I've always said if I had a son I'd do the same!

[@dionnewalker2308]

@@SuperDB215 I had friends and family members talk bad about me when my son went to live with his dad at age 9 but it was the best thing for him at the time.

[@nataleeleon7740]

I’m 19 years old & Kevin is a man that a lot of y’all needed as a father figure. He gives it raw. A lot of females don’t like that but it’s reality. A lot of my female friends have unrealistic expectations of a man, & we’re only NINETEEN.

[@renmes2636]

Bingo. People don't like the topic because it's factual -- but true.

[@tamtamanayah8320]

PROTECT YOUR SELF'S 👑💛

[@Whoisreal666]

Well one of y'all come over here 🙂😆🤣

[@InspirebyKhan]

When I was 27, I was well established in my career and life. I decided to pick my Wife. I had a pool of options and I automatically disqualified anyone under 25 due to the simple fact of reproduction. I didn’t even bother with Women over 25, I had plenty message me. As I strategically made my way in life, I took the same approach picking my Wife. It worked out for me because I took it very serious… PSA for Every Women out there..like it or not… If you want a established Man, be ready to go for Marriage under 25 (typically graduated IF in college), **Real Men who want a Family start searching for that Wife. Therefore, make yourself seen to them and be a real Woman who can raise a Family, be a wife, a Mother etc etc etc…

[@editg121]

It is like getting a job. Everybody wants the one million dollar salary, but not many will get it. Set your expectation right.

[@Curbsidehustle87]

My mom raised me and she was a great mom but she raised me to be soft it took me 25 years to realize what type of man I needed to be high value centered driven and stoic

[@kedarisrael3024]

Bro, you recognize what your aliments are and chose to make the corrections which is good for you! Now read Dr. Claud Anderson, Carol Anderson, Malcom X, and Rudolph R Windsor books which will help put you on the path you need to be on with a open mind. I know 46 year old men who suffer from this faith and display those toxic females tendencies!

[@nickbeaucage1645]

44 Right here. Yup agree...lets also call ourselves "lacking encouragement", soft is fair, context is everything. All that, "women have to work twice as hard as a man", stuff was BS. Never ever have I seen any woman, save for crossfit, work as hard as the kind of man I am. Ever. Real talk.

[@novusordoseclorum1915]

that stoicism stuff can easily transform into suffering in silence. When you feel a certain way do like NWA and "Express Yourself". This emotionless Iron Man crap that Women like to push on us is Bullshhhhht. Live for you....... "Men's Mental Health Matter.✨

[@dallasbrat81]

I'm happy you survived . Too many single mothers send their boys to prison by neglect

[@joeyr2224]

Great stuff my guy. Don't listen to the people under this thread when it comes to stoicism. Look around you, look at the people, the men, who dominate in this world of ours. Overall, would you classify them as emotional or stoics? Politicians, CEOs, high ranking executives, etc. Stoicism is a philosophy that emerged thousands of years ago and we STILL talk about, read about it and continue to teach it. The longevity of the philosophy itself says a lot about it. The important thing like anything else in life is that you stay balanced and don't fall in extremes.

[@jimbojackson4045]

17:21 Show starts 2:03:55 Women that high value men avoid 2:22:22 1st caller 2:33:40 2nd caller 3:08:52 3rd caller 3:20:05 4th caller 3:36:28 5th caller 3:50:30 6th caller 4:20:36 A message to CIA men

[@iknowsomething]

legend

[@mznunaya]

As a woman I have to say... and I mean this from the bottom of my heart... this is the most eye opening content I have ever heard in all my life. The brutal honesty you give is oddly refreshing and terrifying lol. And I just wanted to take the time to say thank you. This is powerful work you're doing.

[@pillowbugg]

Donavan Sharpe channel will open up your eyes further...

[@777DISCIPLE]

I wonder why this is brutal? This is common sense stuff, I’m not attacking you, I’m wondering what’s going on in women’s heads on a daily basis to make truth like this feel brutal?

[@ofon2000]

@@pillowbugg that guy is more of a jackass. This channel is much better

[@jaybee7303]

@@777DISCIPLE women are emotional first. So me personally process things with emotion. When I call my male friend with issues he only point out the obvious facts. Anything that has bothered me emotionally never even gets addressed🤣🤦🏽‍♀️. My grandfather is the same way. He is a realist and he doesn't care how it affects us emotionally.

[@jaybee7303]

Saying that to say we need to see things for what they are or try to understand each other perspectives

[@tanitrarobinson7477]

If you're not willing to invest in yourself as a women then don't expect anyone else to! I personally dont care to leave it up to anyone to care for me. I'm responsible for ME....married or not.

[@mmarsaw1]

I don't want to compete with a woman on any level. Pointless we are two different species. Biological and Mentally I'm not like you and I shouldn't be. What you bring to the table is not financial. We want Loyalty, Love and Sensuality. I like they way you all pick the lint out of my hair, rub my neck while I'm driving and how you all coo when you see little babies. That's a unique character of a woman and I don't want to see a guy doing that. Put that "Food for the Soul" on my table.

[@bushbeautyskincare3321]

Amen , sister!

[@dejaunajackson7666]

m mars yes!

[@IMDGTV]

You’re a high value woman.

[@ukhtiiiojo9186]

This. ✨🖤🖤

[@SlowBoil]

When I joined the military, my father told me NOT to date anyone who lived within a 50 mile radius of my base. He said once they knew your rank and how long you've been in the service, they knew exactly how much you made. This was sooooooo true. So, i dated women who lived 51 miles away from base, his advice still applied.

[@syn698]

just date a nurse she makes the same if not more

[@tebelleh]

Man you are crazy. I dated a girl and married one that lives 52 Miles of the Base.

[@normamay9317]

Al

[@coiledsteel8344]

@@syn698 Sorry, But Dating Isn't That Simple.

[@FBA_Ambassad0r]

💯 My parents said the same when I joined.

[@jackcurtis2]

Kevin's death was an incredibly profound loss to the world. Such incredible wisdom.

[@BriannaL0ve13]

I wish in my heart that I could talk to people the way this man does. So many of my conversations would be shorter if I communicated this way,

[@douglasjohnson3367]

I speak this way and my fiance love that but others call me mean

[@straightlead8]

When is the last time you weighed yourself?

[@ericlind6581]

This is how guys talk for the most part. Kevin is interesting to listen to cause he talks to women as if they were men and it’s a shock to women. But heck with equality of the sexes, women have to start getting used to it.

[@FrauMase]

@@straightlead8 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭

[@7contractors]

Don’t give a damn what they say. Keep going along the right path

[@Padoinky]

Back when I was 15-16, my grandma told me (RIP Grandma): (1) its as easy to fall in love with a rich girl as it is with a poor girl (2) never get involved with a woman that has more problems/issues than you do - nature always trends to equilibrium state, thus her problems will become your problems…. if she is psycho, she will not become sane b/c she is with you, but instead, chances are that you will become more psycho b/c of her….

[@jjnba6074]

Amazing words to live by

[@mtbiker4life918]

Wow! Lol. Smart woman.

[@lynettep7015]

Oh wow, love it. Definitely have to be careful what you allow in your space.

[@newmoneymarcus]

💯

[@lezzgp]

Thanks grandma

[@jasminesaez5061]

Just thinking I had to just be attractive and that’s all put me in a lot of toxic situations when was younger when I finally decided to level up spiritually, mentally and physically my options in better quality men changed

[@akeemjack8042]

Good for you

[@iammaximus614]

Think & Grow 📚

[@realrivalent9261]

PREACH!

[@andreaj5067]

Thisssss

[@leiladixon9486]

Where did you live during this time?

[@darnishashari2174]

So glad I was blessed to have experienced his knowledge and presence while he was alive for years. Only regret is not calling and trying to speak to him on his show. 😢 Great man!

[@bhamlin3]

I'm glad he cleared up the 6-figure salary. He nailed it. I'm an engineer with 3 kids living in a nice middle class neighborhood and maybe I can squeeze out a Disney weekend Vac. But private school, college fund paid for, gated community, cars at 16 years old, 2 week vacation in Europe ain't happening on $120k a year. Good luck finding that guy making $200k+ a year.

[@AskAW]

That's a challenging life to execute with $240,000.

[@ohmygosh6176]

I don't understand why private school is so important? When you apply for a job, the only care about experience, and how well you can do the work and get along with the team members. No private school is going to give you that. You have to go out of your way do internship and rack up experience. You also have to take the time and do research since the job market is so diverse it's impossible for school to Target the exact job you're going to get and training you for it. I started programming when I was in 8th grade since I love computer so much. Finding high paid job was very easy by the time I finished college. I only went to public school which taught me how to work well with others, communicate, discipline and responsible.

[@Armando316]

Not just that, but a lot of men who make that kind of money choose to not even deal with women on a serious level. They’ll casually date and all, but there’s a reason they got rich. And a major part of it is not spending that money on women.

[@rsmpride8267]

@@ohmygosh6176 Because public school your children are being brainwashed by the state. The fact that you are oblivious to this is why you don't understand why private school is so important.

[@justinthomas5512]

@@Armando316 That's correct women are pocket draining at best. It never ends more,more,more no thanks

[@munequa81]

It’s one thing to get a man, another thing altogether to KEEP a man.

[@flewis02]

And women nowadays don't put forth the effort to keep a high value man.... Only simps

[@munequa81]

@@flewis02 simps are low hanging fruit, they don't need effort and lazy women know this.

[@deltaradiance9034]

Can you keep a woman though???

[@flewis02]

@@deltaradiance9034 who cares about keeping a woman nowadays?

[@flewis02]

@@munequa81 you just made my point more valid... Lazy women WANT a high value man but will only put forth the effort to pull a beta male orbiting simp

[@fibrahim12]

If u can get 480,000 ppl to watch a 4 hr long video you are doing something right Kevin!! That alone is enough evidence that you’re the real deal.

[@thulani2640]

Lol that's so true

[@Jin-lx7or]

i was "raised" by a single mother for most of my life until 17 i went to live with my dad and i grew up more in the 3 years i spent with him than the 17 with my mother

[@accountmanager221]

As a Black woman heading into the 4th hour listening to this, I am exhausted by the inability of many of the women calling in to articulate themselves. Plus, between rambling on, interrupting and trying to talk over him, and not answering his very pointed questions, I'm amazed I made it this far. Kevin makes it worth it.

[@traindawg21]

Right. They can't even stay on topic. He asks them a question they jump to a whole different topic 😂

[@macplatt6183]

Women in general have never really been held to a standard of staying on topic and being direct when it comes to discussions. A lot of them think that they can just talk their way into or out of any situation that they want and this is the end result

[@Drippedvenom]

I understand, but when its hard to hear, I think some people shut off and only think of what they know. Sometimes its ok to be interrupted, to drive the point. This is all a learning experience for all.

[@charlac0893]

This hopefully will allow women listen and learn how they sound and come across. He’s much needed in the community. Just 20 years late. I’ve been thinking as he does.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

Single Black "independent" women are waaaay to headstrong.

[@TechnoMageB5]

34:38 Fundamental: When someone is lying to you, they are trying to control you. This is why we dislike liars - it's an underhanded method of control, a control we do not consent to. In this example as delineated by Kevin, she's not proud of what she's lying about, so she lies to manipulate [control] your perception of her. I admire Kevin not only for detecting the lie, but knowing to be persistent with his questions and not accept no-answers, deflections, and answers that didn't "feel right" (taking longer than normal to answer the question, drawing out the answer like she's making it up as she's going along, etc.) - all _potential_ indicators of lying.

[@harelnunn5971]

True most definitely, I like how he uses psycological intellect to get her to tell on herself, if he was loud an emotional she wouldn't respect the content.

[@Ahch_not_op_of_Judah]

Agreed

[@kobidebee2621]

U an attorney? Nailed it.

[@dcummings336]

Gaslighting at it's best with a True Detective/P.I. on the case. Not now but Right Now!😂

[@renewashington9119]

Kevin was Surgical wit that shixt!!! We ALLLLLL knew she was lying out the Gate, but it was truly Delicious the way KS revealed her deception Slowly and Surely

[@mataylor5]

Focus on making yourself marketable for what you are seeking

[@celinasylver1593]

👏🏽👏🏽

[@okayokayiapologizedang]

@Sunshine Day! No truer words were ever spoken , YOU SAID IT! YES you did!

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

And thr marketability is quite simple. If you can make your man feel like a KING of the castle everytime he comes home, he will never leave you. 1. Dress sexy 2. Massage. 3. Sex 4. Cook 5. Take care of the kids Men who are out there in the workplace fighting other alpha males all day do NOT want to come home to an alpha female who challenges the authority he naturally feel.

[@dockcom]

Let substance be the formation that the marketing is built on

[@meb4324]

Great comment!

[@strangeanimal1535]

Relationships, as a man, are not easy. At 50, still dating. Father of 2 teenaged boys 50/50 custody. I fought realy hard for them. The content here is precious to me. I thank you for it. My boys need me in ways their mom can't possibly understand. Hard life lessons is what boys need. My sons thank me for it. They understand why also. Men, you must fight for your kids. Be their rock. They need you to be. It's what men are supposed to be.

[@goldgodworshipping1116]

It's best not to get them Prego. God can create a black baby He don't need us

[@Abeleko]

When allowed .

[@oddjobz9858]

God bless sir

[@ArmyWolves]

It's great that you have joint custody. I agree that children, both male and female, need both parents with exceptions where the parents is abusive, narcissistic etc.

[@Claudia-lq3ns]

Keep fighting for your boys. Their mother is dense if she thinks sons don't need their fathers. Just because your the mother doesn't give you the right to call of the shots. Ugh, this makes me so mad. Good for you! Best of luck ⭐️🍀

[@bobby2169]

Mr. Samuels, This video changed my life as a black 29 year old male. I will make every black male in my family that grew up like this watch. I don’t care if it’s 4 hours long, this video solved 29 YEARS of misunderstanding for me Thank You

[@Drippedvenom]

I swear to show all my children this video.

[@rebekahkirkendoll669]

I feel the same way. It's almost like he's doing God's work. Sadly, the black family never had these kinds of conversations.

[@royalbohemian9757]

Be careful and eyes open even if you agree with what this guy says.

[@royalbohemian9757]

@@rebekahkirkendoll669 Gods work??? Omg. When you learn the truth about this guy...

[@dracoak7205]

Man, videos like this help changed my life too and I am also 29 years old.I am late to party but now going in right path.

[@dallasbrat81]

Again , kevin is correct , Prisons are full of men without dad's

[@biggmixxo]

& black women ate that shiz up. With that i don't need a man BS!

[@Afrocypher9590]

*That* my friends is exactly the self destruction of our own community too, when sistas traded in their _"black power"_ for _"feminism"_ that's all dat was need to destroy the former strong black 2 parent family household.

[@dallasbrat81]

@@Afrocypher9590 it was lead by white racist liberals . The kkk went underground created Planned Parenthood ,created plantation cities like Baltimore,Chicago told black women they didn't need men . "Woman power " made them good workers which business liked. They married corporate business

[@HagakureJunkie]

@@dallasbrat81 Shut up you insane, poor minded creep.

[@dallasbrat81]

@@HagakureJunkie no fool . You got a disagreement with an issue be a an adult and say it.

[@angryman5875]

Ladies, this gentlemen is dropping pure unfiltered knowledge. He has me reevaluating my life.

[@prestonjordan9735]

Bruh....

[@porshp8941]

exactly... same

[@bigboschannel]

You let a feminine woman hater make you reevaluate your life?

[@angryman5875]

@@bigboschannel I did not let anyone reevaluate my life. I’m made the choice. My life is great but anyone who has been in the fight know their is always room for self improvement. Wish you the best Sir.

[@bigboschannel]

@@angryman5875 I didnt say he reevaluated your life- I said you let HIM MAKE YOU reevaluate your life... based on what? The superficial NONSENSE this clown is saying????

[@miltonbrown8713]

This conversation is needed BIG TIME! Neither men or women know how to choose. I was one of them. Lack of a father in the household contributed, but it certainly was not the entire story. Consider the reality of a son, raised by a divorced or single mother, who did not know how to choose. She can't raise a man and she certainly can't present a model for the type of woman he should choose. What is the outcome? A son who doesn't know how to choose and life becomes an experiment with all types of women trying to find the right one after sifting through many...thinking they were the problem. The reality is the man did not know how to choose. Thus, the woman with two children with two different fathers presents an unfortunate and challenging situation. I dated a woman who fit this archetype. I should have fled. Instead, I wasted time because I did know how to choose and she helped me remain in limbo. If I only knew... RIP, K.S.

[@BosticReiva]

500 live viewers less than a year ago. Now he's clocking 20k easily. Godfather blew up fast, and for good reason. Keep preaching

[@xmochix604]

I love him and I’m new here.

[@allwayzgotdatfya356]

facts!!!

[@Mayorofdolton2025]

Making money off of bad advice🤣🤣🤣

[@cassandra2685]

@@Mayorofdolton2025 😂🎉

[@cassandra2685]

Thanx to all these poor souls he bashes in public

[@isabelreyes6387]

The women complaining about how he treats some of these callers. This is the most help this woman has received in YEARS. The truth shall set you free has never been truer. Also remember she called HIM so he could help her find a man she could take advantage of and USE.

[@xmochix604]

Truth. People don’t listen that’s why

[@tayrealedm]

💯

[@bengnaden2085]

Do you think he told her to give up the child to make her wake up to herself or do you think that was what he thinks she should do?

[@renmes2636]

Honestly. This is the most help many of us watching the video have received EVER. NO one in our community has spoken the truth with facts like Kevin has. The facts are ugly and so he gets push back. But is he wrong? I appreciate your comment.

[@matthewpauley138]

This is exactly why men are refusing to commit to women.

[@michaelmckenzie4986]

This guy is actually helping women with this information. But it would probably go over allot of their heads.

[@kevinlee9929]

YUP! Too many want to be pandered and catered to. Instead of hearing information that will actually help them.

[@Laoriginal718]

Facts

[@Laoriginal718]

Especially the baby mamas. You can’t tell them anything.

[@trailtrs1]

Definitely

[@adsmith122]

he does what is soooooooooooo BADLY needed in our community (actually on both sides) is someone who is calm and rational enough to refute and explain positions they are coming from so they don't feel threatened, put down or criticized as a person (as opposed to a position, or way of thinking etc)

[@anita36]

Sons need their fathers, no matter what. Thank you.

[@iamjustsaying4787]

@anita36 children need their father. Without a loving involved disciplining father sons become criminals and daughters become sluts.

[@MatthewDanielssss]

A strong male figure is definitely important in every childs life, even if it's not the father.

[@jimtoomey9522]

No dad = high chance of extended jail time.

[@kyoevans7573]

Women have to choose to become a wife before allowing men to impregnate them. Let's be honest is it better & healthier to be a baby mama or a shared load of a beautiful, loving, caring & responsible family?

[@anna-leighlondon8383]

Most of the time that’s true that a boy is better off with his dad. It depends on the Father. If he’s an alcoholic or drug addict or doesn’t want to be a father. the mother can be the best option. My opinion

[@alexandruulici9946]

I know is mostly about black women, but as a Romanian ( eastern Europe) i recognize a LOT ( if not all ) of patterns . This stuff applies everywhere :). Nice work.

[@kittysukii6331]

I'm very interested in ur comment so even in your country there is a gap between the genders as far as gender roles and or women being submissive?

[@renmes2636]

I appreciate your honesty and your comment. Hello from Miami. Blessings.

[@user-kd7kr1zu8x]

@@kittysukii6331 it’s the same everywhere outside of Scandinavian countries

[@MH-ut7zb]

It's not just Black women... This information applies to WOMEN

[@fixmepainreliefyogamhac4563]

Yes I'm watching I'm non-black I watch for a reason. That is that he is respectful but direct. I'd you want to get something done, that's what you need.

[@RebelInHerOwnRight]

He is telling the truth. We need more men like him raising daughter's so we don't make mistakes. Its just as detrimental for girls to have father's as it is boy's. Salute King

[@NeilPBrady]

Detromental? You mean important. Check your dictonary

[@isabellasophiarose1100]

@@NeilPBrady i think she meant to not have fathers

[@coryhill6575]

@@isabellasophiarose1100 either way she needs help 😂

[@KimmieSan97]

@@NeilPBrady detrimental* good thing there are plenty of dictionaries to go around. 😉

[@Kdot-of4gc]

@@coryhill6575 we all need help bro

[@CornellG]

Man, this is by far the best breakdown I've seen of yours in the two years I've been following you. Outside of your fashion segments, this was pure gold.

[@inTruthbyGrace]

@2:03:54 you can tell by his pauses in speech and breathing he was having a hypertensive episode for the next few minutes or so. People those subtle sensations of a sudden flush and maybe a heart palpitation or a feeling of momentary dizziness could be symptoms of hypertension that be fatal....that is how KS died, it is tragic that it was not caught and resolved before he died. This man has a tender heart and solid advice. I pray his influence lives on to instruct many BW and BM in the healing of the black family.

[@zyzzyz7035]

First girl is a perfect example of how a lot of women stop maturing past the age that they figure out they can get things because of the way that they look.

[@theKoreis]

IKR.

[@arnypalmy2170]

Woooo🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@davisholman6518]

@Kyntaurii At Peace THANK GOD, darling! You have ‘come to Jesus’ young - you have time to CORRECT YOUR BEHAVIOR!👍

[@liawolfie7995]

Well put.

[@altinawashington-key5675]

I thought the same thing, it was talking to a teenager

[@AngelGoodie]

This is why everyone ESPECIALLY women need to find themselves before looking for ANYONE else. Nobody is coming to save you. If your standards are getting in the way of you finding a man then babygirl you aren’t meant to have one 🤨

[@paulabarnes233]

You are so on point now I'm just type I've been single for most of my life and now im 27 still got my v-card not really looking for a relationship right now but I'm trying to travel and do me before I even get into a relationship nor do I have high standards of a man unrealistically that is but I plan to be successful one day and of course I would still like to desire a high-value man in that trem but right about now I'm just working on me

[@AngelGoodie]

@@paulabarnes233 Absolutely, you have to be able to add to someone just as you’re looking for them to add to you in some ways. So many empty vessels out here looking for Superman & Superwoman but it’s not real 😩 lol

[@paulabarnes233]

@@AngelGoodie I know I mean I met this guy last year ago on my job right but now he's up in Arizona I live in North Carolina by the way but he started from the bottom now he's on top if you know what I mean he owns his own business right he owns three businesses he has the truck and car very good source of income and he's an older guy now he even stated he would like to settle down with me but I told him I wasn't ready and he was like no prob he'll wait cuz I plan to be a overseas contractor and work and travel and go back to school and plans to build up my resume he even wants to purchase some land and build a tiny home I told him I would like to do the same thing and he was like no problem cuz he's looking for somebody to do with with my future goal is to be a cannabis farmer oh my own land and house live off grid and be real estate he even told me I wouldn't even have to work but I told him I prefer the work the only way it's about said Homeless if I own my own business I told him and he's cool with that nonetheless

[@FLaSHFReeeZ]

@@paulabarnes233 so you have no relationship experience? good luck.

[@paulabarnes233]

@@FLaSHFReeeZ and yet I still managed to score me a Henry anyway🙄

[@JeiCris777]

“People Lie or deceive on things they are not proud of” -KS DEEEEEP!

[@LeonArcher]

Stop talking about Kelvin.... Let's talk about what he is saying. If you weigh too much, loose weight. Period! No discussion, go get it done. Period! Why do black women always got something to say back. Do black women ever take correction, Keep their mouth close and move forward.

[@JeiCris777]

@@LeonArcher ummm yea. Sir...are you ok? Lol are you not reading my comment correctly , basically me agreeing and liking his quote. What are you talking about? Have a good and healing day 🥰

[@isbellliverpool4697]

I wish I could’ve met this man before he passed. I’m grateful I’ve finally ran across his videos! He’s hard on us but he’s real, and that’s what we need especially in the black community! I thank God for using this man.🙏🏾❤️🔥🔥

[@cancunjoe5586]

"People lie or deceive about things they are not proud of" - TRUTH!

[@ericlind6581]

Like appearance!

[@mercykatawola1394]

But eventually your behavior will raise red flags... no matter how much you hide, it slipped out.

[@aryanprivilege9651]

Indeed, which one is exponentially outpacing on exponential menziras, no human signs release for slaughtering. Ego climb kick, best insult is failure at woman’s only existential use. Man want Tide men snd bath in her usurping his, as vacuum.. says pretty no äääoffene notinsult, just wants more to eat snd murder, I’m lovely keto trail of Uber monster? Wow she sacrificed too feast onsouls of all. Sacrificed to kill anything human, my mom no wsjy worse.

[@joseyjeat2071]

It moved from her wanting a high standard man. To her getting a wakeup call. Thank God she called! She needed to know... God bless her and her family 🙏

[@kevinanmiles2602]

It's very sad how many people are putting her down😔 A lot of this comes from our/her up bringing as well,I've always been told by everybody how beautiful I am and it's getting me NO WHERE actually I think it's made me worse no I'm not a bad person I've only had a few relationships I'm 39 with one child Seems like I've become bitter Actually I really don't know what the problem is I just know I have one please pray for me 🙏🏾

[@thunder8185]

A lot of women have been coddled thinking being pretty and turning up is all you have to bring to the table. I'm suprised how many women don't mention being supportive, kind, a good listener. I'm even more shocked when these are grown women 30+ years.

[@ccc7405]

I’m in high school trying to learn femininity from all perspectives. Listening to a male’s perspective especially Kevin’s is so insightful.

[@rockefeller13]

It’s a good thing your learning young, high value men want a submissive women, as you date in future a word of advice pls don’t lead guys on your not interested in. It can also cause guys to disregard women in future or turn them into playas

[@Judah_773]

You on the right track. U find a husband when you're young, not after life's ills

[@handlebusiness9322]

This is not content for high school students.

[@KillaSmit20789]

@@rockefeller13 🤣

[@appahoopjack2514]

At your age, when I began dating, my grandmother told me NOT to listen to women because they do NOT know what the hell they want

[@philmaturanodrums]

This cat was such a great needed man. I am so sad he is gone.

[@SnickerbarConsciousness]

Me too man.

[@kennedym8570]

Listen to him ladies, I'm Kevins age. He is speaking nothing but facts. He reminds me of my Dad growing up and still today. No nonsense!! Love it!

[@bingram2011]

He certainly has valid points. He is very condescending towards guests. He can certainly communicate more effectively without quite as much condescending communication.

[@georgeshibley9529]

I think tone policing is part of the reason people aren't learning. We get worked up about the 1st world problems, not the message itself, so we condition ourselves to bicker about the surface level bs. Try telling that tone shit to people in the military or a professional Kitchen and see how that shit works.

[@stevejohnson978]

@@georgeshibley9529 Thx for speaking the truth!

[@georgeshibley9529]

@@stevejohnson978 I do what I can!

[@royalbohemian9757]

Screw him. I don't GAD what kernels of truth he spits. A broke clock is right twice a day, and his whole vibration and affinity for white women. His rude and nasty lack of respect towards Black women is sad. Our sick culture loves bullying.

[@whysoseriouswhysoserious8753]

Do you guys remember the movie, “BOYS IN THE HOODZ”, when the mother had trey live with his father, then got her shit together. Women watch that movie again as an adult, it will change your life.

[@highwayjunkieb]

Plus trey learned so much more from his dad 🙏🏾

[@shadonnamarie93]

i actually loved that, it saved his life

[@fohnacidemooky-mooks4796]

"Boyz in the Hood"**

[@cutedeltalawgirl]

Actually, she already had her shit together professionally. She gave him back to his father because she recognized she couldn't adequately rear him because he was "getting out of hand" and needed his father's guidance.

[@ladyT10]

@@cutedeltalawgirl she also said she was going Back to school

[@MrJhop27]

Lord have mercy, agree or disagree he is talking that real life. No filter, no fluffy stuff, just the truth as he sees it and feels it.

[@agentsmith8568]

He is talking to these women like they are his children, this is worth more that gold or rubies. Brother Kevin is casting pearls before swine at this point.

[@EyebrowQueen]

Yes he is...good to hear a mans point of view

[@alishafrazier8025]

I agree!!!

[@illwitness]

This is a masterclass in conflict management with women. This isn’t taught anywhere in mainstream society but we’re witnessing pure brilliance right here.

[@carltonlambert7608]

Old school tongue lashing. We was raised on this kind of hard talk.

[@ThePaydayer]

I'm upset that this man is gone, I was hoping for further guidance.

[@MrsShaunaK23]

I thought for sure I wouldn’t find a man to love me after my failed marriage. I got married early and we conceived a child early also. I felt like damaged goods even though I was still “young.” But here I am some years later, engaged to an average man to most but above average to me.

[@Loganberriez79]

Submission and humble.. the qualities you've demonstrated that most women lack

[@wattakesselly6463]

So happy for you ❤️

[@MrsShaunaK23]

@@wattakesselly6463 thank you sister

[@telescope3]

Keyword: "married". Man #2 vetted you as someone who was at least wise and valuable enough to get a legal commitment from a man before making babies. It just didn't happen to work out. So you get another chance to do it right. Good luck to you and your family.

[@CultZide]

Why is him being average relevant are you average too ?

[@gabehc8689]

Hey Kevin. I'm a 19 year old young man. You've taught me so much about being a man. My father hasn't been the best example to me and I realize what my position as a man really is. My mom raised me singularly and I'm seeing where she fell short.

[@ulyssesflaggiii2121]

Keep listening and taking his advice... this brother doing is doing great work.

[@JamilaS84]

You can even learn from just hearing what sort of women are out here. I'm 28 & I believe what's most important is not just listening to another's man advice but knowing what you want and need as a man and not submitting to a woman's will over your own. Also, get yourself into a church and ask the Lord for wisdom. You're so young and I'd hate for you to end up being yet another statistic. Much love from your sis. ❤️

[@ulyssesflaggiii2121]

@@JamilaS84 great feedback

[@JamilaS84]

@@ulyssesflaggiii2121 thanks brother 😊

[@christopheroliver6733]

Kevin , Your totally on point with these women !!!

[@kurtericmunroe9358]

The creepy laughter we hear when people are caught living a messed up life is terrifying.

[@kewthim]

hahahaha i've been looking for the right way to say this for years .

[@MrDragon9000]

Everyone wants to be right but never wants to accept when they are wrong.

[@Garadaghli]

I can’t believe I was so offended by Kevin when I started listening to him, but I still enjoyed listening. Now I love him and learned so much and feel good when I listen and learn!!

[@domlesoir]

u learned to love the truth

[@SengwaMina]

Right.. love him!

[@JocTillery]

What u think of Vivica A Fox and all the other ppl celebrating his death? Sayin God took him as karma, cuz he was mistreating ppl.

[@Garadaghli]

@@JocTillery I had no idea... until you wrote this. I am actually heartbroken and crying now

[@JocTillery]

@@Garadaghli you didnt kno he died or you didn't kno how he was being criticized after he died?

[@eval7952]

Is this a thing? girls who marry young men enlisting in military right out of high school, have a kid, and divorced in 5 years. I’ve seen this happen so many times.

[@BrandonBrazzle84]

Hell yeah its a thing. I've seen soldiers get married after a weekend

[@eval7952]

@@BrandonBrazzle84 my boy had a cute ass girl, right after high school they break up and she meets an army guy and marries him right away, had a kid w him, divorced in a few years.

[@vociferonheraldofthewinter2284]

My husband is retired army. We saw this at least once a month. "Hey, sergeant. I met a really wonderful lady at the Grey Goose (strip club) last Friday night. We got married over the weekend. I need to get her on TriCare. It's cool. She's only got the one kid... Yeah. I know I'm deploying in three weeks, but I'm sure she'll take good care of my car, apartment, paycheck, bills, and dog while I'm gone." Young people who are 'marriage minded' don't see the other person as an actual human being. They have a picture of what married life looks like and just assume that anyone who agrees to marry them will slip into the role. It never seems to occur to the average 19 year old that they should vet a potential spouse.

[@ronwilliams329]

This is at epidemic levels in the military

[@bowlingbbabe]

Every military base...

[@joymosley8997]

She was a child who raised herself. No leadership, no guidance, no covering just left to fend for herself. Shes so lost. I feel sorry for her, but he gave her EXCELLENT ADVICE!!!! Its tight but its right!!!! I hope she listens and gets some real emotional help for herself.

[@acwright28]

It’s tight but it’s right amen!!!!!! 👏🏾

[@dndwes6071]

Frfr

[@KierraLovesHipsters]

Yeah I really felt bad for her because of her background

[@jahkarimirza7286]

Western culture puts down fathers but when a father isn't there you truly see his importance. Never down play a fathers role but feminism ruined that.

[@godizself1]

No many father's ruined it themselves. Others, women and men, have had to take up the slack.

[@gravestone93]

@@godizself1 as many women ruined the idea of father's and the title of Dad with deception, lies, child alienation and hatred. The stories that are not told....

[@meb4324]

@Thaiquer Williams exactly they hold no accountability!what the french toast as Kevin would say!🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷

[@wunderbarbieoftheworld2531]

@@gravestone93 ...Ideally, a child should be raised by both parents. Hopefully healthy minded and whole. When males step up to parent their offspring, whether with the mother or not, only then can they can expect the earned alcolades attributed to a Father... Also, you can't disrespect the mother of your children and expect your children to view this as healthy behavior. Men need to be just as careful as to where they deposit their seed.

[@171TITO]

Sometimes, a father that's present is worse than a father that's absent. A man who is regressive can do more damage by being around the family. Keep trash away from treasure!

[@JanieBee]

This episode genuinely made me cry…I can’t fully explain why. But as a girl raised by a good father, who was raised by an emotionally unavailable single mom. This episode just strikes a cord on so many different levels. I REFUSE to be the kind of wife and mother who might as well have not been there. Absolutely refuse.

[@thestuffoflegenddanielloer7883]

When kevin is getting interrupter or "talked over" he just repeats the start of his statement until she stop interrupting and starts listening. My havit is to allow the other person to speak, but thats a good way to get trampled on and disrespected in a conversation. He commands respect without losing his cool. I love this channel.

[@JamilaS84]

I would love for more men to not allow women to trample over them. It's so annoying as a woman to see men be so disrespected 🥺

[@blakdrago7202]

It's amazing how Kevin ask the simplest questions and get complex answers.

[@Mayorofdolton2025]

Its amazing how I asked him the semester of question and he couldn't answer. Why can't he stay married. The common denominator in all his failed marriages is him. So how you giving out advice and he can't even hold on to a healthy relationship 🤣🤣and folks actually listening to this garbage

[@blakdrago7202]

@@Mayorofdolton2025 He failed in a marriage but yet gives advice to help you to not make the same mistakes as he did and he admitted fault. There isn’t anything wrong with that what is wrong is your attitude, shame, guilt, and need to be right. People listen to reevaluate themselves so they can become a better person and know what they want out of relationships obviously you didn’t catch that yet so continue watching his videos.

[@Mayorofdolton2025]

@@blakdrago7202 dude let me help you out. He can't tell my ish about marriage when he done had two failed on. Now let me help you. I've been married for 32 years. Me and my hubby been to gather ever since our first date. He propose two months after dating. Now if yall want some real advice on how to be married and stay in a relationship come holler at me. In the meantime you guys listening to bitter Eddie and yall still single🤣🤣🤣. This dude hate black women and he's bitter as hell. You sound like an a$$

[@blakdrago7202]

@@Mayorofdolton2025It seems like you are butt hurt about something if you got a man why would you be listening to Kevin in the first place? Lol Btw I have someone been together for four years and she got big rock on her finger. Are you married?

[@Mayorofdolton2025]

@@blakdrago7202 okay I see you good and special. I just said I've been married for 32 years goofy. Show proof of the big rock. You know folks do a whole lot of lying on the keyboard🤣🤣😍

[@rorounique1]

Though I don't agree with everything he's saying I wish someone would have talked to me like that as a young girl. If I could stop young women today from becoming single mothers I would. I know this isn't the topic but that part is near and dear.

[@DeJaVu337]

You CAN, simply become a community leader, and they pay salaries. Ask Obama.

[@makeaway4554]

Nope we dont need no single mothers leading in the community. We need married women leading showing the example of what they should be.

[@Mighty-VizioN]

@O speak Truth I was thinking the same thing. Why must we start by saying " I don't agree with everything he's saying"? I guess women like her believe that would be submissive, and not strong. And a lot of these women have a problem with the word submissive, and cooperative as it seems.

[@DeJaVu337]

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[@suussuzy4522]

The chances of a married black woman leading is as slim as anyone seeing a black man as a leader of his community.

[@kyoevans7573]

I THANK GOD FOR THIS EVERLASTING WISDOM. My mother is a teacher she's gonna stop teaching once I pass the Bar. I'm in my 1st year of Law school. As a Black man I've been the only Black man in my classes over the last couple years.

[@Yusuf-fh5tr]

Congratulations

[@randolphduke]

Congratulations to you! I'm white and I think the country needs a lot more black people like you. Best of luck in your career!

[@bhead8001]

Right on, Write on Bruh!!! Congrats and keep up the good work!!!

[@kyoevans7573]

@@bhead8001 Thank you for the positive feedback 😇

[@Claudia-lq3ns]

Congratulations and best of luck sitting for the Bar 🙏🍀⚖️

[@JMK719]

Kevin’s knowledge is so admirable. Absolutely right about the military part. This man really knows what he’s talking about.

[@asdfg9995]

the amount of patience this man has to explain life lesson to those who barely scraping by.

[@JamilaS84]

His passion is really to help 🙏🏾

[@asparrow9876]

@@JamilaS84 It truly makes him shine. I love this man so much I wish he was in my family lol. Had I grown up with his advice I would've been a better man from the beginning.

[@JamilaS84]

@@asparrow9876 yeah I had a good dad that spoke his mind lol. I know I'm blessed

[@asparrow9876]

@@JamilaS84 God bless your father. Bet he was a cool ass dude.

[@DejiDigital]

So many black kids grow up fatherless cuz some women just wanna prove a damn point.

[@lupenstationChannel]

No cause the dad are deadbeat..so the woman has to raise the kid on her own😒

[@wcclarence2147]

@@lupenstationChannel In some cases, you are right. What are the other reasons though?

[@telescope3]

​@@lupenstationChannel Who CHOSE the deadbeat? Yes, there ARE deadbeat men in this world. There always have been. So what. DON'T PICK 'EM! "I was lied to!" Not an excuse. OF COURSE deadbeats tell dumb chicks the BS they know they want to hear. This is nothing new. There's crack and rat poison in the world, too. Smart people CHOOSE not to smoke/drink that stuff. Who a woman decides to create children with is THE #1 most important decision she will EVER make. OWN YOUR LIFE CHOICES, LADIES, and stop expecting suckers/govt. to bail you out afterward.

[@majin_blvine]

And the point is never proven💔

[@Darthmgtow]

That's because you women CHOOSE unsuitable fathers and REJECT suitable fathers. It's ALL on you women. Simple...

[@tiaraoliver3072]

28 and have been listening to KS for almost 2 weeks now.he tells the ugly truth which is needed nowadays and further on in life.

[@MomLifeModestWife]

I am so glad I found this video. I never plan to leave my husband, but this clarifies more to offer on what I need to teach my daughter. What the importance and responsibility of having a child really means, and in picking her husband wisely. Thanks KS!

[@coriettapadilla9977]

@Karameli I was just thinking the same thing. I love being a wife but this really inspired me to keep teaching my daughter how to be a solid woman,mother and wife.

[@justanothermaid]

Same! Trying to assure I'm passing on the right things to both my sons and daughter.

[@gabeal2892]

Honestly this man was a wizard or something. in the very beginning he mentions a police officer making $250k in California and 1 hr into the vid, she finally reveals that’s what her ex-husband used to do…😮

[@likethecolorgreen]

Same here. Not leaving my husband. The father in heaven has blessed me with a son and daughter. I for sure take in what Kevin says so I can teach them both.

[@MomLifeModestWife]

@Water King I am! I’m never leaving his side. 💕 thanks 🙏🏼

[@alchemyglows]

This is extremely insightful. The questions Kevin asks to gain deeper insight show his genius. It also indicates intent. I'm not sure how anyone can be offended by him exposing the truth in what people say combined with the results they see in life. This is a necessary wake up call for many.

[@dreambig1589]

ok

[@dreambig1589]

ok

[@bulalidazana3127]

"Pretty rich" concept is on point!! I'm a 33 year old lawyer, had to make huge sacrifices to get here. Women get the same social currency just from being born looking a certain way, they don't have to "work" for it. It leads to a totally different psychology between men and womxn on the same "level".

[@brittanymitchell6948]

I agree 💯

[@sassygirl4728]

Womxn?

[@B.Piercesports]

@@brittanymitchell6948 Michigan?

[@iamme2946]

Dusty lawyer. So you’re jealous of the nature of a woman and wish to be like us? Ewww you’re feminine for sure! Damn shame.

[@divinegoddess3060]

And whom fault is that or is that society, y'all sound traumatized. Some woman get that treatment and some woman have to go through proper channels some men still see woman as second rate like where u live under a rock. And your a lawyer I guess

[@vernaharris4700]

A real woman would do what is in the best interest of her child. I agree 101%.

[@leonhenry4478]

But clearly 76% of black women don't agree hence the fatherless households

[@Claudia-lq3ns]

Absolutely 💯

[@elitedrumlessons6174]

I've been married 15 years and have a young daughter. A lot of the things he says I already had in my head a long time ago. However he articulates the position in a concise, well-thought out manner and these truths need to be shouted from the rooftops.

[@CandiceWilliams_]

🤣 this man's honesty is too raw for some women. He said she's looking for a fairy godfather. Too many women are but are too proud to realize/admit that.

[@telescope3]

The average sista would rather be told a sugar-coated lie by a grinning, stylish fool than be told the truth by a gruff wise man with no shoe game.

[@CandiceWilliams_]

@@telescope3 😩true! Sad but true.

[@theheaddhunter9072]

That's only after being taken advantage of by a man that wasnt her equal. She isnt a gold digger, she's trying to see if the grass is really greener on the side she's already on

[@ezramantini8078]

Y

[@levianthony3944]

It isn’t “his honestly”. It’s more so THEE TRUTH. Big difference.

[@ElibettColon]

Wow! It’s sad because a lot of single mothers think like this.. Thank you Kevin for being such a powerful man and sharing this knowledge. ❤️ your a blessing to us

[@biggmixxo]

Waaaay too many sistas think like this.

[@scrateshooter]

Men are checking out and going Galt. MGTOW Romans 10:9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.

[@jaceace82]

Pure gold comes out of this man's mouth. Tough love is needed to actually make people realize what's actually going on. He only speaks facts.

[@uptowngeorgiaave900]

🎯💪🏿

[@MsClever26]

I shed a tear for her, she was so receptive to the HARD truth. she will get there!! God bless her for being stronger than she thinks

[@becomingonpurpose2275]

@Joshua LaSalle she made a million dollars during quarantine. Why she need his money?

[@TheTeeChannel7]

He is telling the whole entire truth about raising a son. I had this revelation years ago.

[@veevee814]

I chose for my son to be raised full time by his father starting when he was 5, we broke up when he was a 1 year old. For the reasons you stated. His father at the time was remarried, both of them working and willing to provide a stable life and move to a county with the best schools for my son. I can tell you most women don't do this because of pride and selfishness first. They also don't because they choose bums to lay down with and have babies. Many not capable of or in a position to take care of a child. They also don't want to be looked at as a bad mother and want to be praised as a single mother doing it all. Women pump this narrative to other women like their some kind of super woman because you holding down two no good jobs and leaving your kids at home alone to raise themselves while you still pick these no good boyfriends that come in and out with no value to the situation. They fear of being ostracized by the women in their family and pay child support. I went through it all, from women in my family banishing me from the family. I became somebody to gossip to take their mind and attention off themselves. I didn't have my father in my life and my last stepfather sucked. So to break the tradition of women running the show wasn't heard of. But I asked where are we running to? You're leading us nowhere, but to become over weight, uneducated, alcoholics and narcissistic smokers. Most of them like myself were fortunate to land good government jobs to sit in until we die, never really accomplishing anything. My son now at 22 y.o has just finished a four year college during Covid 19 and about to start a job in his field. I too went back school and now a PHD scholar because I used my time wisely. Those same women are now in awe of me. That I dared to be different and go against the grain. If you really believe in God you wouldn't be afraid. This would not have happened had I not had the fore sight and believed in my God, the love my son more than life itself and stay focused on the I was meant to be and live and the life I wanted for my son. When you put yourself in the position I did and the young lady did on the call you no longer have those options on waiting for a man to save you. Even though I met great Black men along the way I chose not to settle for that because he deserves someone to make him a priority and I couldn't do that while on my journey. Oh I paid child support every week and never missed a payment with pride. I have an excellent relationship with my son. So Thank you for you candidness, harshness or whatever they want to call it. I call it the real truth.

[@BooHefner]

I absolutely love you!🖤🖤🖤

[@TheRamyEra]

Wow! Well done! That is not easy. I commend you.

[@Wingstofly-0104]

Thank you for sharing

[@AllThingsTiffanyTV]

Wowwwww. This post was everything. My son’s father has custody as well . I pay child support faithfully as well and I’m so happy I do. God definitely loves his children and never fails when it comes to guiding us in our path. I used my time wisely as well. I intentionally went to therapy and became the best woman so that I can be a better mother. I’m in such a better place. We’re damn good mothers but you’re right about ppl talking down on us and now they are praising us . Crazy how life works...Everyone is now saying omg you made the right decision. Ppl have to do what’s best for them and not think twice what others say! The Good Hearted will Prevail! Thank you for sharing 💕❤️

[@October3074]

Yaaay! 🎉 I'm so happy 4 u and your son!

[@kellybuehler5249]

I miss this man so much. We lost a good human on this earth. Sending my best to his family especially his daughter. ❤

[@jluc101]

Almost shed a tear when you told the story about King Solomon. “She would rather give her son away, then sentence him to DEATH!” Sisters must understand how real this is. ESPECIALLY Today.

[@ChatsWithChan]

Boys need to be raised by men

[@georgeshibley9529]

We got lady dudes all over the damn place. Men who can't handle being men.

[@BlessedN777]

I guess a mother is not needed

[@gkimunge]

@@BlessedN777 you missed the point by a mile.

[@katinabracken9829]

You agree with anything a man say 😩😭

[@jakwiq]

@@katinabracken9829 The problem is that you don't know the difference between a man and a male.

[@joymosley8997]

He may not have been a good husband, but that doesn't make him a bad father -Steve Harvey

[@kmccurtis19]

No such thing as a bad husband but good father. A good father would first try to be a good husband as an example to their children. He would show God’s property hierarchy which is God, wife/husband, then children.

[@matthewaddai5336]

@@kmccurtis19 strongly disagree, and fails to account for relationship dynamics between each party.

[@christina4012]

@@kmccurtis19 ❕❕❕

[@summerj1471]

@@kmccurtis19 THANK YOU!!!!! How are you a good father but disrespect or mistreat the mother of your children as IF this helps the kids in anyway.... ppl can be so ignorant!

[@summerj1471]

@@matthewaddai5336 You can strongly disagree all you want but you are ignorant if you think not being a good husband to your wife is positive for your daughter or son. They learn from what you do not what you say. So take your strong disagreement to the left and read the Bible or any book for that matter OR ask a grown woman or man who witness their dad mistreat their mom and how it affected them.

[@thomaskuehn5022]

Before I was 20, I read at least 3 books on lasting relationships written by women married with children. As a man with married parents, I still felt inadequate and wanted to understand women & relationships on a deeper level. I haven't seen one single woman on Kevin's show, name books they read on men and relationships, written by married men with children. These things don't just come naturally, it takes a willingness to learn the art of love and relationships. Before you ruin all your chances, not afterwards.

[@SAL-b1g]

Yes there's the internet I can look there too. But could you recommend books or male authors on the topic you just mentioned or other topics that could help a young lady like myself. Thank you ✨

[@jadey.wadey20]

@@SAL-b1g Make It Work by Tony Gaskins is a good read!

[@Zphibeauty]

I’m glad you took the time to help this young lady see herself.

[@NamaGVida]

It wasn’t a good show. It was AN AWESOME SHOW!!!! Each call had a strong lesson with a lot of entertainment!

[@j.sebastien]

"You're looking for a "Fairy God-Father", I had to take a step back to enjoy the wisdom in that analysis. Well done Kevin

[@WeAllWeGot333]

Kevin is the man

[@joy_villa]

Yes!!

[@jbarron4596]

This woman is in need of therapy. Stay away from this type - if you’re falling for her looks, you deserve the heart ache and emotional turmoil that will inevitably result.

[@rorounique1]

I didn't think I was going to like him but after watching for a while I do. I thought that he was going to approach this with a superiority standpoint but he's just being real.

[@hplifestylelessonsandfun9131]

So true! Too many women won’t accept the truth.

[@KalimahSBICeo]

I thought the same...He has an very arrogant aurora! I do like how he gets down to it too

[@redevous]

He speaks straight facts! His point of view brings value.

[@CelestialSci]

most of the men who agree with him frequently pay for sex. I guarantee you that one. Their prostitutes make them feel like ladies' men. He's not real he's delusional.

[@KalimahSBICeo]

@@CelestialSci he can have good.advice without the disrepect! I seen this in his arrogant self when I first seen his channel.. He thinks the suit and frames give him value.. However his character is poor! And yet he tries to read someone else as if he doesnt have work to do himself.. I swear he acts like a man that's been hurt by "women" ie: mom/ gma/ he school sweet heart ECT.. before "bitter women" have this same energy 🤷... So now he has a platform for his hurt pain and suffering💔..

[@nknarula]

Bless you Kevin. As a man raised by a single mother, you are spot on and I think you just saved a little boy.

[@kiarisby2471]

Hard truth that women need to hear. I’m here for it.

[@adriantoogenuine]

KZbin: AdrianTheGenuine ✅

[@MrStantma]

We as Men need to hear this as well

[@zealchristian799]

It never a hard truth, just a common sense. Some women make it hard for themselves.

[@Judah_773]

I had an ex yrs ago that would always call me to apologize about her attitude because i was the only man that told her the truth about herself. The truth and accountability is hard to handle for most women but those who can accept it, makes them better

[@tarrondrichburgh5536]

R. I. P big brother. Thanks for your visit here. In this plain.

[@meccahdawn]

Wait a minute... Did she say 80 to 90k for 3 children In Cali? She has no concept of money at all. Most of the women that call in have no clue. Wow!

[@bleanneh]

I couldn't understand how she was a single mom living on her own and thought that?!

[@October3074]

@@kiyanania 😂😂😂

[@Janthony1977]

She thinking 80/90 in Washington state

[@Iamfree33]

I’m in So Cal with my hubs and 2 children and bringing home 120k per year as a unit, and we are barely make it 😭

[@davidcombs3617]

A lack of reason and accountability. If things don't work out: they can file for divorce first and blame the man. For everything, even the kids.

[@bigt524]

Fathers are just as important in their daughter’s lives as they are in their son’s lives. Usually, the only man that has the guts tell a female the truth and correct her when she is out of line is her father. Practically every other man (outside of her family) is either afraid of backlash from not being politically correct or wants to exploit the women one one way or another.

[@dshooter6391]

The absolute best women I’ve had are those who had their fathers in their lives!

[@Ra-vi7eu]

Man…. It’s almost impossible to provide some constructive critique to some women. I have friends that I have tried in the most direct, respectful, and kind way to engage them on things they may want to try to address/correct…. And it was met with the most masculine aggressive and combative pushback. I’m not here to argue with some one that doesn’t want to even explore what they could do better. So I let her be…and it’s sad to see her alone, she’s a beautiful person. Less aggressive energy and I’m sure she could attract the guy she wants.

[@jacoblottie9001]

😂😭😂😭I lost my life when he said “So u want a Fairy Godfather?”

[@sibzism]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 it killed me

[@universalz3017]

💀 💀💀💀😂😂😂

[@adriantoogenuine]

KZbin: AdrianTheGenuine ✅

[@allaboute8560]

Lmao

[@teresiabryant50]

You cant just listen to clips and commentary when it comes to this man, you have to listen to his entire shows. Our community needs this!!

[@uptowngeorgiaave900]

🎯💪🏿

[@kgrant70]

Hello Kevin , You are absolutely "SPOT ON" on so many levels. Some of the things I especially agreed with, that you said was the following: 1)Men(especially "Black Men") have to "increase their value in order to set bounderies and not accept a lot of nonsense. 2) Do not let sexual urges steer you away from your life's mission!

[@fitjuella]

This is my opinion, I don’t believe she needs to go back to him. She needs to work on herself first before going back to any man or putting herself in any situationship. She’s not mentally, financially, spiritually ready for it. She didn’t get the chance to know herself well, or love herself. She’ll definitely end up in the same circles again until she learn those life lessons. ( the universe has a great sense of humor) What this girl need is serious guidance like most of us. I like that he’s being really blunt and open with her. Her entire energy shifted when he started asking her about what she’s bringing to the table. Great way to make her aware. Hopefully she gets the help she needs ❤️ love your channel btw 🙏🏾💯

[@bleanneh]

What i took from that is he is saying she would have a better chance to improve her situation by getting everyday help from the child's father, not just financial assistance. She has no support system where she is now, at least she would have his dad there to help with her son so she can take that time to get herself together. But, this is only considering that he is the type of man that is going to step up and be a great co-parent with her, emotions aside on both parties.

[@drichardson1251]

My Ex actually approached me and said, "would it make me a bad mother to let our daughters' live with you?" I said NO, not all, let me do what needs to be done, and YOU work on being a part of their life - you're the mother. However, her mom, mom's friend (lawyer) and her sister... was in her ear saying not to do it and to take me to the cleaners. (Sooooo MUCH money fighting in courts for full custody) Can't make this Schnick up!!! When in there senior year, graduated, the joint custody challenges (mediated) and the money stopped, it was at that moment she was done. So college, cars, all their expenses and living situation, NO longer required her involvement. The kicker - her Mom just today says I always knew you were the better parent. SMDH!!!

[@GettingItDone59]

For the survival of our race and the good health of our families, we need to heed the messages Kevin dropping. Healthy and successful families are the foundation of any thieving Community.

[@daughterofzion9017]

Has this man studied law or psychology ? As a psych major who reads people well, I am hooked to this channel right now! This page is really eye-opening and insightful !

[@theactiveactivist515]

Well rounded men read and know about many different subjects. We are what you call Renaissance men.

[@daughterofzion9017]

The Active Activist 👏🏽🔥🔥

[@charlac0893]

I’m a Licensed therapist and find him to be so refreshing. I’ve wondered where he’s been for the past 20 years. Taking notes from him. Wished I could be more direct with my clients. He’s definitely influencing me to take things up a notch, and decrease the sugar coating.

[@daughterofzion9017]

@@charlac0893 wow, thats awesome! & I totally agree he def is refreshing to listen to..

[@AJweathersby]

@@theactiveactivist515 Peeped the Tariq Nasheed reference

[@helenhenson907]

It took a long time to peel that onion "Thank you" for taking time with her.

[@tomterrific3344]

Lol, that last lady kept beating around the bush lmao 🤣

[@dayb4valentines213]

I love how well you speak, and how you ask tough, uncomfortable questions that a normal man would never ask a beautiful woman. Had you not asked her those things she would still have the same mindset, but since you challenged her and spoke truth to her... she was moved she needed that push to be moved...Im sure that lady has now stepped out the house with a new perspective, new purpose and great confidence to make better decisions. Because I did!!! Good chat! How much do I owe you? This video was recommended to me by KZbin. New subscriber. Xoxo.

[@coffee_uk]

Reminds me of Chris eubank.

[@thetruth14444]

SOME MEN DO ASK TOUGH QUESTIONS

[@sonicthehedgehog8348]

@@thetruth14444 : Beautiful Women don't like to hear honesty, that's why these lady callers have these push backs when talking to the host. Especially the Christian ladies.

[@buyi249]

Rest well Godfather, your content is almost biblical to some of us.. we live by your wise words. Thank you for all you have done for us.