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Kevin Samuels

Kevin Samuels

Күн бұрын

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@THX5000
@THX5000 4 жыл бұрын
Ladies, no man cares about your degree, especially if you are unpleasant to be around.
@THX5000
@THX5000 4 жыл бұрын
@raj jar Most men would take a hot young Walmart cashier before an overweight Woman with a PHD.
@makeaway4554
@makeaway4554 4 жыл бұрын
@@Nicole-gu5pq they are beta males they dont count.
@makeaway4554
@makeaway4554 4 жыл бұрын
@@Nicole-gu5pq you must be fat?
@makeaway4554
@makeaway4554 4 жыл бұрын
@@Nicole-gu5pq youre not a man so you dont know what men want. Your family sounds like they are full of squares. They dont count. I do t know kevins definition of alpha male but just because you have money doesnt make you an alpha male.its alot of simps out here with money. For example the black panther parter wasnt full of millionaires but it was full of alpha males. Do the men in your family exhibit any of the qualities of the black panthers such as being armed, informed and unified.
@ghorn1217
@ghorn1217 4 жыл бұрын
raj jar It’s not about belittling women. It’s about clearly communicating their education, income, and career will NOT make up for deficits in other areas. That was illustrated by the Tomi Lahren video that’s all over social media. She wants credit for her career and accomplishments, because the men SHE wants have access to FAR more attractive women. Her career doesn’t bridge that gap, so she made a public video ranting about it.
@pw85___
@pw85___ 4 жыл бұрын
I had a strong feeling that Kevin has a daughter. This makes so much more sense now. This is why the advice that he gives these women is tough as nails, he speaks from a (black) father's perspective. Please keep on doing what you're doing brother. 🙏🏾
@patriciaboulware185
@patriciaboulware185 3 жыл бұрын
When my son was 15, he found a job in our neighborhood at a pizza shop. In 1987, my son got pissed with me because I wouldn’t pay $100 for a pair of tennis shoes. $60 was my limit. The salesman tried the to entice me by saying if he plays any sports he’s going to need good shoes. My son was about 6’3” at the time. I told him take the $60 shoes or home with nothing. He always worked. When he was 7, he and my neighbors sin had a paper route. You don’t see that anymore. So When he got his first paycheck he went shopping came home excited because he purchased two shirts, two pair jeans and a pair of tennis shoes. Granted this was in 1987.
@patriciaboulware185
@patriciaboulware185 3 жыл бұрын
… he said I didn’t know things were so expensive. I was a single mother and he never asked for much so there were times when I would gladly get him shat he asked for. You can shop for quality clothing for children. without going overboard. That woman is definitely on the wrong path with her son …pay now or pay later !!!!
@7mileawesumdre539
@7mileawesumdre539 3 жыл бұрын
Well said
@joeysoG
@joeysoG 3 жыл бұрын
@@patriciaboulware185 Oh Yeah He was tripping big time! 1985 $100 for some shoes is Extreme! Hell even $60 for some Kicks were generous! Early 2000/01 I was 15 & my Moms limit was $40-60 all I wore were Converse & Vans.. I always understood You get what you want when your an adult not as a Kid
@ManoftheMostHigh
@ManoftheMostHigh 3 жыл бұрын
I so agree. I have a daughter and the minute she is mature through nature she will unlearn a non beneficial mindset for a better one. She will be strong , within her femininity. ❤ I agree good brother. This is Vital truth. Truth heals , lies steal reality. Hence spinster dying alone...
@yavuzadam5766
@yavuzadam5766 2 жыл бұрын
I am a Turkish man 30 years old. I am living in America since last 6 years and I can relate to most advice you give to women out here Mr.Kevin . I make low six figure . I have to work long hours to make my money. I avoid American women like a plague. Even my mom and sisters have changed since we came to America. Toxic feminism has damaged them. I recommend them watching your show. I thank you so much for your hard work.
@Boc3phu5
@Boc3phu5 Жыл бұрын
I have also seen women who come to this country change.
@MoWorld2003
@MoWorld2003 Жыл бұрын
Yea they change for the better when they realize they have more rights and autonomy over their own lives.
@maxlogan7388
@maxlogan7388 Жыл бұрын
​@@MoWorld2003😂
@aprilrawls5162
@aprilrawls5162 Жыл бұрын
@@MoWorld2003 spoken like a toxic feminist.
@MoWorld2003
@MoWorld2003 Жыл бұрын
@@aprilrawls5162 spoken like a male-identified Mammie
@grumpyginger7475
@grumpyginger7475 3 жыл бұрын
I was literally yelling at the computer when the woman said she gave her 16 year old son a new car, a grand a month allowance, and Gucci clothing. He will never learn how to be a man.
@zsanettgalantay1772
@zsanettgalantay1772 3 жыл бұрын
Was doin the same lol i didnt even hv a phone till i was 16...that boy needs to go live with his dad, it might b even too late for that
@Pastregulation
@Pastregulation 3 жыл бұрын
Facts. I was like goddamn 😂
@alphagod7625
@alphagod7625 3 жыл бұрын
That's her man and if she did find a man, the son will always have say so
@kellyanne4207
@kellyanne4207 3 жыл бұрын
1G a month allowance for a 16 year old and all the rest? She's raising a pimp OR she's not telling the truth.
@Charlie_Alpha_Lima
@Charlie_Alpha_Lima 3 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for her son. He is going to grow up weak. His father needs to take him now. And that woman annoying as hell
@gd9259
@gd9259 3 жыл бұрын
This show is genius, hand this man an Emmy already...
@jakedovey1586
@jakedovey1586 3 жыл бұрын
Amen brother.
@fteoOpty64
@fteoOpty64 Жыл бұрын
He was a freaking saint. They said he died of high blood pressure. I am sure he kept those frustrations bottled in and it took its toll. Those abrasive ladies effectively indirectly caused his death. Salute to your effort Mr Samuels. I know you are a saint in heaven. Still doing your work in ways we cannot see.... Rip Sir❤🙏
@lamontthecapricorn9086
@lamontthecapricorn9086 9 ай бұрын
KS content went over many people's heads, men & women. The level of discipline, commitment and focus he put into his brand and messaging was brilliant. Nobody was better at saying the quiet part out loud than KS. Be the best version of yourself then choose from the options you have available and Accountability is Kryptonite was brilliant.
@AlbertChristoff
@AlbertChristoff 6 ай бұрын
@@fteoOpty64I thought same thing these women killed him is not even a conspiracy… they’re capable of killing people with ignorance and stupidity 😂
@gumbeauxorleans
@gumbeauxorleans Ай бұрын
And a posthumous doctorate! ⚜
@mrsalviboy94
@mrsalviboy94 4 жыл бұрын
Some ladies don't want a high valued men, they want a high valued life style. -Kevin Samuels
@sapper986
@sapper986 4 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@tom11zz884
@tom11zz884 4 жыл бұрын
I think that is " MOST"...not " SOME"...
@rimasingleinny1871
@rimasingleinny1871 4 жыл бұрын
hmmm
@veewilson6164
@veewilson6164 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, you can tell by the comments, they don't know the difference between Red Lobster and Bluepointe let alone the Russian Tea Room. These are 1989 style drug dealer girlfriend wannabes (no offense to the dealers out there).
@fender1000100
@fender1000100 4 жыл бұрын
Well they can whistle for it with their nasty attitudes for company.
@ruachunchained
@ruachunchained 3 жыл бұрын
Non-singles are also watching. We are trying to also fix our relationships and your advice hits home, Kevin.
@barrydaryle7817
@barrydaryle7817 3 жыл бұрын
Concur
@joeylu2234
@joeylu2234 3 жыл бұрын
Truth
@bradrichards8122
@bradrichards8122 3 жыл бұрын
Yup
@somedaynow1128
@somedaynow1128 3 жыл бұрын
Agree.
@maribelru2011
@maribelru2011 3 жыл бұрын
Got me eating right and exercising
@WesSites
@WesSites 4 жыл бұрын
I like the chat from Ivette saying "less than dress size 6 isn't a woman, it's a child". Nah sis, you're just over weight. My mom is 62 and a size 4, my sister just had twins a few months back and is size 4, shes 31. My ex was a size 2, she's 25. Don't try and put others down because you don't have the self control to get your weight down and keep it down.
@MisTracy39TheVeganLady
@MisTracy39TheVeganLady 3 жыл бұрын
Well Said!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@noellefinlay998
@noellefinlay998 2 жыл бұрын
So true
@TheLala0077
@TheLala0077 2 жыл бұрын
Thankyou!!
@lalalululeelee3974
@lalalululeelee3974 2 жыл бұрын
I'm 37 and got down to a size 4, 6 months after giving birth to my last child. A 6-8 is acceptable on a very tall woman, because most tend to have a larger bone structure. I'm 5'3, I could stand to drop some more weight and would likely look best at a size 0-2. I don't look like a child by any means.
@brandonhanrahan1748
@brandonhanrahan1748 2 жыл бұрын
Well said and I totally agree with you
@tir107
@tir107 3 жыл бұрын
I make 400k a year and I do not consider myself nor do I want to be a high value man. Im an 8 to 9 and 6 ft 205. After hanging out with that crowd I found many of them to be very shallow and narcissistic. Not my game. I feel comfortable around more blue collar people. Just stay in your lane and do what makes you comfortable and happy.
@thehoneybunempress1664
@thehoneybunempress1664 3 жыл бұрын
Good for u. I feel the same. The more i learn about high value men, the more i realize i have everything i need and want with my bf. I think we should all strive to be the best version of ourselves without changing who we are at heart
@Why_Not_Us
@Why_Not_Us 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed. The way he describes HVM’s is so shallow and superficial. Other than that I agree with 98% of what he says.
@timgreen2426
@timgreen2426 3 жыл бұрын
His follow up question for assessment would be about tour parents. Their marriage, & their careers.
@TruMe2
@TruMe2 3 жыл бұрын
@@JT-oc2dn Will Smith & Obama stay on Social media. What does income have to with how much you are on the web?
@TruMe2
@TruMe2 3 жыл бұрын
@@JT-oc2dn Just work for it urself and see.
@timothythompson4036
@timothythompson4036 4 жыл бұрын
Now I realize my wife is a genius. At age 26 she married me. She was a lot smarter than 90% of these women. Kevin is telling women the truth.
@Mrs.T305
@Mrs.T305 3 жыл бұрын
And where are the other black men like you?
@heyyashleyyy2669
@heyyashleyyy2669 3 жыл бұрын
A genuine question: She’s genius because she married you at 26?
@yogotagetit
@yogotagetit 3 жыл бұрын
@@heyyashleyyy2669 yes
@ActionJackson669
@ActionJackson669 2 жыл бұрын
Calling her a genius for marrying you is a bit narcissistic my guy
@macrossluv
@macrossluv 4 жыл бұрын
Fat shaming doesn’t exist. It’s called telling someone they’re unhealthy for their own good. Deal with it.
@YungJay216
@YungJay216 4 жыл бұрын
It’s only fat shaming regarding women. No man on earth talks about you’re fat shaming me, as a man you’re either lose the weight or remain fat.
@sbusisiweshaba1715
@sbusisiweshaba1715 4 жыл бұрын
It's how one says it that matters most. People can be mean about it which isn't cool.
@dudleysquibbles6366
@dudleysquibbles6366 4 жыл бұрын
S'busisiwe Shaba Can’t women be mean when they reject the men that approach them, specifically the ones they perceive to be ugly?
@TheDCGuitar13
@TheDCGuitar13 4 жыл бұрын
S'busisiwe Shaba arthritis, amputations and heart attacks probably hurt more than words and delivery of them.
@nellynel6141
@nellynel6141 4 жыл бұрын
Dudley Squibbles Someone like Shaba will only say that when the tables are turned on her. Ask her if she’ll go out with a Man shorter than her.
@davidsimmons4731
@davidsimmons4731 4 жыл бұрын
Kevin really hit the nail on the head. There's nothing wrong with being an an average guy or girl. Not being High Value doesn't mean that you you have no value or arent a good enough man or woman.
@JoiCarlaBodyBar
@JoiCarlaBodyBar 4 жыл бұрын
So what level are you on?
@aishapleasant2561
@aishapleasant2561 4 жыл бұрын
right. My question is where is the value on the spirit, morals, and values. All this crap is temporary. We all valuable PERIOD. smh.
@tatanyawilliams5095
@tatanyawilliams5095 4 жыл бұрын
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@marleyjanim5033
@marleyjanim5033 4 жыл бұрын
@@JoiCarlaBodyBar what level are you on
@cherryblossom9226
@cherryblossom9226 4 жыл бұрын
One thousand percent agree. Ppl that are average that call him seem to be delusional
@gerrylk9
@gerrylk9 4 жыл бұрын
Kevin is a gift to these women. He'll be highly appreciated even more by more women and men in the future. He's not a beast, he's providing a service that's highly needed this day in time. Thanks for caring Sir.
@kdoc19961
@kdoc19961 4 жыл бұрын
Social media has ruined a lot of people. Kevin is right that we have made normal/average not good enough. People with middle class lifestyles are no longer satisfied. They want to drive Lamborghini, wear very expensive designer clothes, live in mansions and in the case of dating they want a high value man/woman. There is nothing wrong with a middle class man or middle class lifestyle. Women need to stop bypassing these good men trying to date out of their lane. Also, high value doesn't necessarily equate to a suitable mate. If you find a middle class man that treats you well you should go with that and not worry about trying to get a high value man.
@Ang_Nicole
@Ang_Nicole 4 жыл бұрын
This is so true.
@markiscouch6729
@markiscouch6729 4 жыл бұрын
@Technicians87 You are so right!
@tjandcj123
@tjandcj123 4 жыл бұрын
So happy 10 years ago I married my man. When we got married we both were bringing in about 70,000 yearly combined. Fast forward 10 years he is now making over 100,000, I work part time and we bring in almost 200,000, I stay home with the kids and do a hybrid home school ( teach at home some days and they go to private school the other days). If I would have been like majority of black women today I would be missing out on this incredible life we have built together by the grace of God. Also he’s an incredible father to our 2 kids and he has have taken us to France, England, Mexico, Belize, Nigeria, and Honduras all before the kids turned 8.
@markiscouch6729
@markiscouch6729 4 жыл бұрын
ElectricSpirit A man making six figures ($100,000) wins all the time. Peace. 🙏🇺🇸
@blissreframed1681
@blissreframed1681 4 жыл бұрын
@@tjandcj123 I am so glad to hear what a wonderfully amazing life you and your family have! Kuddos!💐
@humptydumpty20
@humptydumpty20 4 жыл бұрын
The JP Morgan woman left her husband because she thinks that she is better than her husband and deserves a higher value man. In other words, she lost respect for him. Also, IG and social media made people perceived "high-value" to be glamorous and "easily-achievable" and ignore the long-hours and hard work required.
@dadsarepeopletoo3785
@dadsarepeopletoo3785 3 жыл бұрын
She blew up her family for money
@humptydumpty20
@humptydumpty20 3 жыл бұрын
@@dadsarepeopletoo3785 yeah, all the social media hype gives women the false perception that high value man can be easily found when 90% of all women are competing for 10% of men.
@dcg590
@dcg590 9 ай бұрын
Money does NOT make a woman high value either. Kevin has several points that make a man hv also
@korettag
@korettag 4 жыл бұрын
A lot of these “educated” women cannot answer simple yes/no questions, they can’t make clear concise points and they giggle and talk like little girls. I don’t get it
@thesilentambience2833
@thesilentambience2833 4 жыл бұрын
It’s simple. The majority of women, even the “educated” ones, are children.
@Blit-X-TVLive
@Blit-X-TVLive 4 жыл бұрын
They sound even more like children when they get proven wrong & have no rebuttals.
@offrecord9802
@offrecord9802 4 жыл бұрын
It's called a Deflection....women deflect, change the subject or blame someone else when confronted with truths that emotional reasoning cannot fathom.
@albertoaguilar2651
@albertoaguilar2651 4 жыл бұрын
Which means they are not educated, with attention to what they don't teach in school.
@albertoaguilar2651
@albertoaguilar2651 3 жыл бұрын
Another thing is women use the littegirl voice as a defense mechanism when they don't have something to say or are caught, plus women since they figured it out the little girl voice disarms men because they are trained my kids on the call or the mother. You see it clearer in single mom, when you first meet their kids z those kids don't have attachment to you. So you can see the hesitation where your kids will absolutely trust you and mother and not think anything of it, but you get trained to relax without knowing, so when you see a women of 18 and over giggling you are in the ball park that she has dirty thoughts or got caught and trying to find her strategy to get out of whatever she is afraid you will realize, and if you get close the anger will come out , then think cause that's jack pot
@TheMegatron673
@TheMegatron673 3 жыл бұрын
i learned from judge judy and i quote "when you answer a question with a question, you're giving yourself time to come up with an excuse"
@carl5438
@carl5438 3 жыл бұрын
Judge Judy is the best. Love that show. She sees right through the games people play with the truth.
@21urbana
@21urbana 3 жыл бұрын
True!
@dadsarepeopletoo3785
@dadsarepeopletoo3785 3 жыл бұрын
Or repeat the question which they clearly just heard
@fleming1124
@fleming1124 4 жыл бұрын
The GUCCI lady was a good call. I made my son earn everything he got. He’s a doctor now. I didn’t buy him a car. He drove the van at the house. I paid for his college because I told him, if he followed what I told , I would pay for his school. So far so good.
@rickysauce393
@rickysauce393 4 жыл бұрын
Kevin is too good at peeping liars. Made me rethink a lot of my relationships. I didn’t think woman lied that much.
@daphneytennard3267
@daphneytennard3267 3 жыл бұрын
Yes they do.
@jaioncebollero1168
@jaioncebollero1168 3 жыл бұрын
Right to your face bro
@melvinbarnes6652
@melvinbarnes6652 3 жыл бұрын
It's blowing my mind to bro
@barrydaryle7817
@barrydaryle7817 3 жыл бұрын
💯👏You and me both brotha
@BobbyNewb
@BobbyNewb 3 жыл бұрын
They lie as if they fucking invented it.
@Vonda618
@Vonda618 2 жыл бұрын
Back almost 2 yrs later, still a fan! ✊🏽❤️
@xander-with-a-z
@xander-with-a-z 4 жыл бұрын
I work in HR. My Executive Director has a Doctorate and will tell you. She is 268 pounds. She is very hard to be around. 3 times divorced. The assistant Director has a master's degree and they tag team the men in the office. She cooks TERRIBLY and will watch to see who eats it and who doesn't.
@tiannalindsay2045
@tiannalindsay2045 4 жыл бұрын
Wow😳😳
@amandaslay6045
@amandaslay6045 4 жыл бұрын
This sounds like pure comedy!!!
@sicariiavantgarde1873
@sicariiavantgarde1873 4 жыл бұрын
Geez....I know the type. Not until I got older I understood the cause.
@rejubi-minkaokose6836
@rejubi-minkaokose6836 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 sounds like she just cooks to punish you all.
@rejubi-minkaokose6836
@rejubi-minkaokose6836 4 жыл бұрын
@ honestly! Miserable Mildred needs company.
@KalusBane
@KalusBane 4 жыл бұрын
To older women (and everyone else): women generally want a ready-made-man and men want a woman with as little experience as possible. You being educated, cultured, etc. is outweighed by your age and current looks. We don’t want a “well traveled” woman with experience, we want to be with you for so many of your “first”, wherein women generally want their man to be successful from the beginning of their relationship.
@mrsalviboy94
@mrsalviboy94 4 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@kwamenyantakyi8398
@kwamenyantakyi8398 4 жыл бұрын
My nigga
@jellygurl27
@jellygurl27 4 жыл бұрын
Why do men want that? Is it because of ego or do they feel they control someone with little experience.
@Nicole-gu5pq
@Nicole-gu5pq 4 жыл бұрын
Umm thats bullshit. It's typically the opposite. Hvm shouldn't expect to be a trainer, you should expect a woman to come ready and know how to move and carry themselves etc. Especially if they are in their late 20s and early 30s by then they have already been places and experienced cultures which should be something that a man would want to share as a common interest not be an introductory course to the world. Especially if she was raised to be a wife her parents already made sure that those boxes were checked by end of high school
@Nicole-gu5pq
@Nicole-gu5pq 4 жыл бұрын
@@Drunk-Fly @knineAtheart i hear what yall are saying. It just seems very counter and opposite of what the circle of hvm i grew up w. Educated myself and my friend group w. And these men were drs, judges, city leaders, lobbysits etc. Im not single so it really doesn't affect me its just reflective thinking about it
@stellakamau6994
@stellakamau6994 4 жыл бұрын
The home girl point is so needed. Ladies need to hear this. Bro energy will never get you a high value man, Watching sports with him, drinking beer, being loud and aggressive, fighting and cussing in public and wearing sweats and tshirts smhv
@EzeICE
@EzeICE 4 жыл бұрын
Praise the Lord!!! Finally someone that understands that energy doesn't work. Real men love real women. Feminine energy is sexy as all hell.
@EmDotDubb
@EmDotDubb 4 жыл бұрын
Love the last name
@fender1000100
@fender1000100 4 жыл бұрын
Yes but 80% of black women didnt get the memo. They are living in a dream world. And when they get REALITY. They cant deal with it and get up in their feelings and go on the attack. Instead of listening and learning. And that's why the single black women numbers are horrendous. And gonna get worse.
@Mrs.T305
@Mrs.T305 3 жыл бұрын
Rubbish. Alot of men are bias, they'll date women who are just like that and tell me that I'm too boring for them.
@stefansalvatore5893
@stefansalvatore5893 3 жыл бұрын
They will date but seldom marry if they think you are too boring for being classy then they weren’t read for commitment
@777zelda
@777zelda 4 жыл бұрын
I feel embarrassed for the women he’s speaking to. The cognitive dissonance is unreal. Feminism has really mislead women unfortunately. Sorry ladies , I wish our society didn’t feed you lies 😔
@joshuasterling2144
@joshuasterling2144 3 жыл бұрын
There's tough and whatever this is, its beyond categorization.
@barrydaryle7817
@barrydaryle7817 3 жыл бұрын
💯💯👏 Exactly
@sarahlu7797
@sarahlu7797 3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you.
@MisTracy39TheVeganLady
@MisTracy39TheVeganLady 3 жыл бұрын
First it was "Gangster-Rap to destroy B-lack men .. Now it's "Feminism" to destroy B-lack women! .. Certain people are always being played for a fool .. why?
@LofiTryfe
@LofiTryfe 2 жыл бұрын
@@MisTracy39TheVeganLady Indeed, this is the real question. BUT we have to take responsiblity for our own actions still while figuring that out. We can't chop it up to the government and white folk or the deep state.
@laj4186
@laj4186 4 жыл бұрын
The format in which callers are interviewed is awesome. Love this show!! Bringing women out of delusion!
@annettescroggins3905
@annettescroggins3905 4 жыл бұрын
I do agree with him about women losing weight and staying healthy
@ojalara3937
@ojalara3937 3 жыл бұрын
Lol as you should that’s not up for debate
@jhonathanreed1465
@jhonathanreed1465 4 жыл бұрын
Kevin is very well versed - This show is about to blow up 🧨
@nessava4965
@nessava4965 4 жыл бұрын
You were right!
@boomboom7096
@boomboom7096 4 жыл бұрын
When I hear a Woman say "I want to be a Power Couple" I go the other direction.
@meddeck
@meddeck 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. I hate that term.
@jimhanty8149
@jimhanty8149 3 жыл бұрын
A power couple.. huh..? What low aspiration … a fool, be a power person and you don’t need anyone to contribute… it’s your gig… your not dependent on a flake in the future… power couple my ass..!!!
@amosalexandrejr4829
@amosalexandrejr4829 3 жыл бұрын
@@daughterofYAHWEH shii thats what im tryna find out... Tf is a "power couple"
@MisTracy39TheVeganLady
@MisTracy39TheVeganLady 3 жыл бұрын
Beyonce and Jay z are considered a "power couple" .. But you can bet that Beyonce submits to her husband .. Even thought she's deceitful in her music! .. You already know Jay-Z is the boss!
@boomboom7096
@boomboom7096 3 жыл бұрын
@@MisTracy39TheVeganLady How a couple is perceived by outsiders has zero basis or premise as to how they came to be. I can appreciate ambition but when coming together with a Woman I prefer to hear more about the soul of that Woman. If she is fueled by pursuits of "Power" It's a No for me. 2) Most Women just weren't raised to be Wives. Most modern Women (@ least as Black Women go) were raised to be independent and strong vs self sufficient and open. End of the day I have no desire to be a Power couple with my would be Wife. Has to be some sort of balance and that isn't it (for me).
@Deblaccboii
@Deblaccboii 4 жыл бұрын
Lol that lady had to go somewhere else in her own house, because her son’s TV was too loud🤦🏾‍♂️... I’ll be honest, when I was younger, all my father had to do was look at me 😂 smh
@harrasa
@harrasa 4 жыл бұрын
To be fair back in the day a phone was attached to a wall. If there was noise, the noise had to leave. Now you can leave the noise
@nellynel6141
@nellynel6141 4 жыл бұрын
Ian Harrison A touch tone phone on the wall right. If it was a rotary then we gotta go back another decade lol.
@TheDCGuitar13
@TheDCGuitar13 4 жыл бұрын
As small as it is, her children not respecting her authority is DIRECTLY the cause of no man being around
@imandalton4227
@imandalton4227 4 жыл бұрын
Mine too
@dddjjj12221
@dddjjj12221 4 жыл бұрын
@@groneass2006 😂😂 i know thats right!!
@AcrossTheTable419
@AcrossTheTable419 4 жыл бұрын
This comment section terrifies me. We have men, like myself, who wholehearted agree with Mr. Samuels. And with that, we have some women who would rather insult and shame the men who do, claiming they aren't high value simply to say it with no evidence of this claim instead of listening to what we are saying and acknowledging it for what it is. Ladies, I'll put this in basic terms. It isn't that we don't care about your accomplishments, money, or possessions. The problem comes from when women let those things define them as a woman instead of BEING A WOMAN defining you as a woman. Some of you are new to this channel. If you were following him from the beginning, you would see that he is HARDER on us men than the women because we are supposed to be the leaders and now, MORE THAN EVER, we have to put ourselves in the position to be such. What is being said, for the majority of the time, is what we, as men, have been trying to say for YEARS. It may seem harsh or crude, but it's the truth, nonetheless. We can't say that we love and respect you as black women and continue to allow you to be lied to. And yes, ladies, no matter how you feel, WE LOVE AND RESPECT YOU. However, I understand that this really isn't your fault. This was systematically done dating back to the 1960s. You are just products of your teachings and environment. I get it. What we need you women to understand is that we see the error of your teachings. You've been put in a position to be like men. However, ladies, you have entered into a space where men are willing to lift that load that was put on you so you can quit fighting nature and just BE women. We are, also, tired of fighting with you to do so. We are trying to get to a point where you can trust us men to facilitate the needs you've been fulfilling out of necessity. Yes, ladies, we want you to lay down your "armor" and just BE WOMEN. Just my thoughts. Peace and blessings.
@Eyana_visions
@Eyana_visions 4 жыл бұрын
Wow I agree with you! I honestly didn’t hear of feminine or masculine energy, high value men or women until the beginning of this year😬 but I am working on being more feminine well appearance wise, I noticed I get different responses from men when I’m dressed up and not looking homeless. I’m 27 no kids, never been married, I have a bachelors in English Literature & I have a skin care line, I’m worried it maybe too late....
@AcrossTheTable419
@AcrossTheTable419 4 жыл бұрын
@@Eyana_visions My dear, Mr. Samuels would say you are in the "danger zone," however, you're not too far in it. You're young enough to have children without it being life threatening. All of those accomplishments are great. No one is knocking you for having that. I applaud you. But in order to have a high value man in your life, those accomplishments can't define you as a woman. That's a nonstarter. Most of us will ignore you if you lead with that simply because we look at it like this: You're supposed to do those things as a grownup. Who are you besides all of those things? THAT'S what we're looking for. 27, no kids, you kinda have your feet in the "danger zone." You're in a good spot unlike the women who call in and the other women who try agree with them who are SUBMERGED in the "danger zone." All is not lost. Just...try to look at yourself for WHO you are and not WHAT you are. Just my thoughts, my dear. Peace, blessings, and good luck on your journey.
@v_p_low2373
@v_p_low2373 4 жыл бұрын
I read your comment. Thank you for the way that you explained your points. I also appreciate how you responded to the other young woman. If you do not mind, I have a question as well. Do you mind elaborating on your point about a woman not allowing her accomplishments to define her as a woman? I am seeking to understand not to judge or condemn. Similar to the other young woman, I am 28, no children, and in a traditionally male career [danger zone and not desirable to HVM]. I was encouraged by my parents (mother and father in the household) to always do my best in school and work hard enough to become successful. I obeyed my parents. I also learned to cook and keep a house clean because I was taught by my grandmother that housekeeping is part of my role in a marital household. I have no problem with that at all. I actually enjoy cooking and cleaning. I have been listening to Mr. Samuels, gratefully, and I have learned things about men that never occurred to me were different from women. I had my nose in my books too much to pay attention, which I now realize was a mistake. Some of it makes sense now, but I did not realize or understand that men and women are so different in our desires. Any feedback that you provide would be much appreciated. Thank you.
@AcrossTheTable419
@AcrossTheTable419 4 жыл бұрын
@@v_p_low2373 Honestly, my response to you is similar to the previous lady. Those accomplishments are great. You're doing your thing...for you. And like the previous lady, you're not deep into the danger zone. 1. You don't have a premade family. 2. You know how to keep a house in order from the female side. 3. You haven't reached the age where having children will possibly hurt you or the child by not having the physicality to carry full term without complications. Those things are working in your favor. My only advice would be to embrace your feminine side instead of tending to it every now and again. Define yourself by being FEMININE FIRST, and, in all honesty, that is determined by the man who chooses you. High value men have a standard, and it varies for each man. But, at base level, we want a FEMININE woman who is cooperative and inspirational. Just my thoughts. For anything else, you should either call in when the next show is on and ask Mr. Samuels or book a session with him. He does this for a living and is FAR more experienced than me.
@abetterhealth
@abetterhealth 4 жыл бұрын
Very well said Signed, A feminine woman.
@OmahaTonyG
@OmahaTonyG 4 жыл бұрын
I previously thought I was high value, but now realize I’m an average guy. It didn’t occur to me that it is more than income, net worth, and profession. It is a mindset, and I have a very blue collar mindset.
@shaunahill322
@shaunahill322 3 жыл бұрын
Good for you! No shame in that at all
@sacramentosistah
@sacramentosistah 3 жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with that!
@BigShrimpin416
@BigShrimpin416 3 жыл бұрын
And that’s OK! Nothing wrong with that at all!!!!!
@mommymj9529
@mommymj9529 2 жыл бұрын
I learned from my dad that a blue collar man will never let you go hungry. During recessions these white collar high value man contemplate suicide because the stock values go down, they are under pressure because they are about to be fired. I was in Finance and I've seen it happen. It actually happened to me during the 2007-2009 recession. I became a truck driver, met my truck driver husband. Now we have 3 kids, 26 trucks, and when recessions come there is TOO much work. If anything ever happens I know he will go to a day labor, warehouse, construction and will do anything he has to do to provide for us. Blue collar mindset is where its at.
@PASSDA
@PASSDA 4 жыл бұрын
High character and high value aren’t the same.
@annettescroggins3905
@annettescroggins3905 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@devilsoffspring5519
@devilsoffspring5519 4 жыл бұрын
Character, conscientiousness, thoughtfulness, whatever you want to call it, has no intrinsic value. Physical attractiveness and wealth have value. Character might make a person more tolerable to be around, but it sure as hell isn't attractive in and of itself.
@navytanutrof1823
@navytanutrof1823 4 жыл бұрын
But those women don't want quaractor, they want high value i.e. money.
@juliannesharpe3066
@juliannesharpe3066 4 жыл бұрын
@NO SWEETHEART A Good/Sound outweighs or should outweigh a person's physical attributes or financial status.
@jrr7031
@jrr7031 3 жыл бұрын
Yea, I get it. But your typical "modern" and "hypergamous" woman would trade high value for high quality any day.
@ericg4568
@ericg4568 4 жыл бұрын
When a woman says toxic, she means, I can't talk to him the way I want to, most likely the way she speaks to a child.
@sarah1484
@sarah1484 4 жыл бұрын
Yep
@riddickj16
@riddickj16 4 жыл бұрын
💯
@quietatse
@quietatse 4 жыл бұрын
Feminism has a lot to answer for.
@ericg4568
@ericg4568 4 жыл бұрын
@@peacegiver1000 maybe it's you who are generalizing?
@ericg4568
@ericg4568 4 жыл бұрын
@@peacegiver1000 AARREE YOUUUU SUUURREE???
@phanda7877
@phanda7877 4 жыл бұрын
Bless you Kevin for giving the last caller a reality check! My sister falls into the same category of women. For years I have encouraged her to change this behavior. Her son, my nephew is not her pseudo husband! Upon graduation, he had planned to attend college which would require a plane trip away from her. However, she convinced him to attend a local college where he would not have to struggle as much and save on housing costs by living at home! What a heart breaking situation. I am only an older sister. Our older brother had tried to step in when he was younger. She interfered in this process after our brother ‘got in her sons' butt’ for behavior unbecoming of a man! In high school, despite her disapproval (he'd have to rise at 4:00 a.m.), he made the decision to workout with his uncle, and learn from him. Their time jogging hills, swimming laps and weight lifting has produced much growth. He will graduate college this year with a degree in security technology. Single ladies, please do society a favor. Stop the madness! Sisters, can you put your ego aside for the sake of your sons masculinity and all it embodies? Again, thanks Kevin for offering women this much needed platform. My hope is they will take to heart your comments and change these negative behaviors.
@primecapital6577
@primecapital6577 2 жыл бұрын
This is forever a legendary show✊✊✊✊🔥🔥🔥🔥. Thanks for speaking up Mr Kelvin Samuels🙏🙏🙏
@darrylwilliams8656
@darrylwilliams8656 4 жыл бұрын
I'm not a high value man, but I love the content.
@halcyondays8945
@halcyondays8945 4 жыл бұрын
High value does not mean high status or income - even though that’s how most interpret it. To me high value is about character. If you’re kind, dignified, thoughtful, hard working, honest and try to be your best every day you are a high value man in my books. I am not young, thin, rich model-material but I am a high value woman because of my character, my desire to improve myself and the world around me. I’m sure many would say I’m wrong and naive but I’m quite ok with that. Character is what creates or lessens value in my eyes. Have a beautiful day
@SimplyaLady92
@SimplyaLady92 4 жыл бұрын
Look at you being honest!
@mohalemokoena1702
@mohalemokoena1702 4 жыл бұрын
Yet.
@e69alpha
@e69alpha 4 жыл бұрын
Fo sho. I don't even want the life style I ain't built for it
@scrutinizethis
@scrutinizethis 4 жыл бұрын
@@halcyondays8945 when you said “my opinion”, that said EVERYTHING 🤷🏾‍♂️ you can’t determine your value out here. The world is your mirror 🪞 work on yourself and you will reflect what you TRULY ARE, without “talking about it” 🎯💯👌🏾
@tdogg65
@tdogg65 3 жыл бұрын
I got a little triggered when he described "The Perfectionist" because I TOTALLY married one! Checks every box. And then what REALLY tripped me out was when he described the "Perpetual Victim/Cry Baby" because she's THAT too!!....And she's a Psychologist with a Phd. I swear I AM NOT MAKING THIS UP!! This guy knows his stuff!!!
@4umsu
@4umsu 3 жыл бұрын
I married a perfectionist. She’s a doctor. Perpetual victim. Pain in the ass. That’s why we’re apart now.
@benji89917
@benji89917 3 жыл бұрын
How are you putting up with that?
@tdogg65
@tdogg65 3 жыл бұрын
@@benji89917 It's tough but I'm just focusing on my own happiness and trying to stick it out for my son
@benji89917
@benji89917 3 жыл бұрын
@@tdogg65 man, you are a legend 👊 keep that selfless attitude going. Do it for the kid ❤️
@andrewh5212
@andrewh5212 3 жыл бұрын
Get out bro. You will be happier and your son will see it. I did and was much happier. I wish you well bud.
@hammypie
@hammypie 3 жыл бұрын
The worst thing you can do for your child is to SPOIL THEM because it’s very difficult to undo bad character when they’re an adult. You have essentially ruined their life.
@MisTracy39TheVeganLady
@MisTracy39TheVeganLady 3 жыл бұрын
That's what "spoiled" rotten means .. When something is spoiled you throw it out! 🙄
@LarryHorse-nj5qo
@LarryHorse-nj5qo 7 ай бұрын
Absolutely right. I made low six figures most of the time my son was growing up. I taught him that he worked hard, we would earn the right to play hard. Education was non-negotiable. Being respectful and responsible non-negotiable. He's doing well studying engineering in a top university with scholarship. He would tell you I was tough but I was always there. Raising him was and still is the highest priority even above my own life. I immigrated here from Puerto Rico so my mentality is still traditional/old world. 99% of the people I know don't understand me, even my family who grew up in US.
@TheYungmeech85
@TheYungmeech85 4 жыл бұрын
Watching these streams confirm that, many would rather hear pretty lies than the ugly truth.
@TheDCGuitar13
@TheDCGuitar13 4 жыл бұрын
When I heard the word allowance, I almost shed a tear for that young man. He might think he has a nice life and I know his moms means well, but an awful life being berated for being a feminine man by men and women combined awaits him. As well as never being able to stand up for himself. 😢To many feminine men are being raised by single mothers who don’t know how to be women let alone raise a man.
@AnaSpeirs
@AnaSpeirs 4 жыл бұрын
Doesn't an allowance enable children to learn about work and budgeting? What's feminine about it?
@zsanettgalantay1772
@zsanettgalantay1772 3 жыл бұрын
He wont know what hit him when he gets out into the real world
@MisTracy39TheVeganLady
@MisTracy39TheVeganLady 3 жыл бұрын
"too" many feminine men 🙄
@primecapital6577
@primecapital6577 2 жыл бұрын
@@zsanettgalantay1772 exactly bro. Reality will show him the other side of life😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@theunpopulartruth
@theunpopulartruth 4 жыл бұрын
From my most manly center, I absolutely love you! The realness and accuracy is what is needed into today’s time.
@freshfade28
@freshfade28 4 жыл бұрын
That last caller was crazy smh. Thank you Kevin for what you do
@lovedetoi5910
@lovedetoi5910 4 жыл бұрын
Really loved that conversation with the last caller . We really do need to open our eyes and start realizing that we are actually destroying our children’s lives , and this nonsense needs to stop! We are not doing these kids any favour by stopping their fathers to be involved in their lives ;we are ruining them . 🤦🏾‍♀️EVERY child needs their father, and it takes a MAN to raise a MAN!!
@wshelby83
@wshelby83 2 жыл бұрын
This is very true!!
@PillCosby407
@PillCosby407 4 жыл бұрын
As a black man I'm happily I'm married because listening to these ladies is terrified. If I was a single dude it would've been to much for me. I don't have time or the patience to all the good black men out there good luck.😓
@dapeace316
@dapeace316 4 жыл бұрын
Pray for us young single brothers mehn, please we need all the help we can get
@fender1000100
@fender1000100 4 жыл бұрын
@@dapeace316 You can say that again. And it's only going to get worse. Soon there will be 80% single black women. And they will STILL think none of this is their fault. It's a gender disaster. And sadly it's not going to change.
@eastwood2414
@eastwood2414 4 жыл бұрын
Facts!!! I wouldn’t have the patience for the BS. And fro what I’m hearing....there is A LOT BS out there. Smdh
@scaggly9239
@scaggly9239 3 жыл бұрын
I've heard so many Gen Xers say they're so happy they don't have to date in these times. Makes me mad lol.
@Boss0Leeny
@Boss0Leeny 3 жыл бұрын
PASS PORT lyfe Fellas. Trust Me❗✈✈✈😉👍🏿💯
@lacaius28002002
@lacaius28002002 4 жыл бұрын
Why are these callers so long winded with their questions and answers..just get to the GD point. 🤨👍
@lacaius28002002
@lacaius28002002 4 жыл бұрын
Tierra was get'n it 😍😍😍
@Jaslath
@Jaslath 4 жыл бұрын
Because contrary to what we're told, a lot of women don't know how to communicate effectively and/or efficiently.
@lacaius28002002
@lacaius28002002 4 жыл бұрын
@@Jaslath I agree
@EzeICE
@EzeICE 4 жыл бұрын
@@Jaslath Yup.
@imandalton4227
@imandalton4227 4 жыл бұрын
@@Jaslath true
@MzBrown_
@MzBrown_ 4 жыл бұрын
I love this guy. I am so glad I heard this show about the mom with the young man. I have the same beliefs re raising boys. This was a bonus. He needs to have a TV show and a podcast. He is one person who can help all black women of all ages along with his base, black men. He should help everyone other than high value men. He must expand his target audience which he tends to do anyways.
@terryterrestrial5327
@terryterrestrial5327 3 жыл бұрын
Kevin really hits the nail on the head, my mom was similar to the last lady he interviewed but she didn’t buy me everything. Still I wasn’t allowed to work and earn on my own. I just had to accept what she thought I should have. This cause a lot of complications when I tried to accomplish tasks and acquire money. I had to constantly miss opportunities, make mistakes, and navigate minefields. Boys need to be able to earn their rewards, learn from, mistakes, and take risk.
@diondavis6547
@diondavis6547 4 жыл бұрын
Damn. Knowledge is power and this man is bench pressing 18 semi-trucks. Pay attention folks!
@michaelkangyungjaifreitag2423
@michaelkangyungjaifreitag2423 4 жыл бұрын
😂🤣🤣🤣 Spot on! Cracked me up.
@mackmittenz01
@mackmittenz01 3 жыл бұрын
Man this comment is underrated 🤣🤣🤣
@melodyannelove4866
@melodyannelove4866 3 жыл бұрын
Forget about only “high value men” , you must be fit and healthy with any man as far as my reality goes. Vitality, sexual capacity, and so many other female truths as far as nature must be met. My generation and the next have been so untethered and lied to it’s just a sick sick perversion of nature’s truth. And I absolutely do not believe any woman who says she’s happy or empowered being ALONE! We need good alpha men to submit to and be guided through life. Thank you Kevin for speaking truth, it’s plain to see you truly care, it’s evident by the amount of energy you continue to put into insight, for most of us it’s literally enlightenment. I had zero ideas about life or men until the man I serve literally helped me wake up out of this damn la la land I was living in. Bless you and everyone living by nature’s truth. ❤️
@DrB_84
@DrB_84 4 жыл бұрын
2:46:43 The woman who is giving her son $1000 a month was mind-blowing. He is being pampered and won't know how to earn things on his own. I barely got $5 at his age for allowance.
@rimasingleinny1871
@rimasingleinny1871 4 жыл бұрын
and he's going to belitlte woman and think they are supposed to take care of him
@lalalululeelee3974
@lalalululeelee3974 2 жыл бұрын
Allowance, what's that? 😆 School clothes and such, I had to work for it past 12.
@Mark-cj9ju
@Mark-cj9ju 3 жыл бұрын
your comments about women in HR and their mannerism is 100% on point. The music is on point as well. lol
@AllThingsTiffanyTV
@AllThingsTiffanyTV 4 жыл бұрын
Are the women calling in, afraid of Mr Kevin? Every question he asks, they are second guessing their answer. SPEAK UP. I’m really shocked at how These are Business women who are speaking like this. If he is intimidating with simple questions, how can you date a HVM? I’m new to the channel, let me sit back & watch more!
@Mrs.T305
@Mrs.T305 3 жыл бұрын
Try being questioned by someone like him and you'll see how they feel.
@socababy4710
@socababy4710 3 жыл бұрын
It doesnt shock me. Ive known & seen this for yrs. Degrees dont make you any more socially smart then the next person.🤷🏻‍♀️
@kingdom4610
@kingdom4610 3 жыл бұрын
They r lying. No degrees.
@TheColumbiakid
@TheColumbiakid 3 жыл бұрын
Call in and tell him
@offrecord9802
@offrecord9802 3 жыл бұрын
Welcome...
@julesinfall
@julesinfall 3 жыл бұрын
You're right. My mother did this. She coddled my brothers and was really hard on me. So, I ended up married to someone who expected coddling. Not good.
@MrBrick68
@MrBrick68 2 жыл бұрын
The way he broke that last caller down to get to the truth was a work of art. R.I.P. Godfather
@Transportador33
@Transportador33 3 жыл бұрын
I make 6 figures, live in metro Atlanta. Married. I cannot imagine putting up with the type of women that call into the show. What I do appreciate is this show does well to elucidate what I've noticed in listening to women over the years.
@munib1000
@munib1000 3 жыл бұрын
KS went in on this podcast. He honestly helped each and every single one of these women see this reality.
@leonelorozco2514
@leonelorozco2514 4 жыл бұрын
This is a Great show. Mr. Samuels was on point. Respect for his work. Ladies listen to his advice. Specially Young ladies.
@honeylemon2372
@honeylemon2372 4 жыл бұрын
She broke my heart when she came at Ross and Tj Maxx those are my STORES!
@meddeck
@meddeck 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@NubianOne
@NubianOne 4 жыл бұрын
Called me poor without uttering the word, lmao.
@hammypie
@hammypie 3 жыл бұрын
Even rich ppl can shop there, only fools don’t like saving money haha
@itdoesmatteryep8822
@itdoesmatteryep8822 3 жыл бұрын
There's no way that should have broken your heart. Those stores are fine. The heartbreak is going to be the sixteen-year-old boy wearing $400 t-shirts when he tries to make it in this world.. If we don't learn how to work without being up under mommy we are in trouble.
@mr.marseille8429
@mr.marseille8429 4 жыл бұрын
DL Hughley said it best: If I can't lift you, I can't love you!
@faybury4428
@faybury4428 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@BigShrimpin416
@BigShrimpin416 3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@luthiellouinordjr902
@luthiellouinordjr902 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938
@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938 8 ай бұрын
The number #1 thing Kevin does is make people self aware. That is important
@Mcdowells
@Mcdowells 4 жыл бұрын
Did y'all hear that sista say friendzoned all of those dudes? That's the blueprint on how you end up in............THE DANGER ZONE 😂✈️🎶
@jacquelynhorton7563
@jacquelynhorton7563 3 жыл бұрын
Truth
@greatscott7003
@greatscott7003 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sitting here thinking about all the single female attorneys I know. And issa lot of them.
@id.icebergslim
@id.icebergslim 4 жыл бұрын
thank you Godfather, black men all over the world appreciate you!
@picklejay7822
@picklejay7822 3 жыл бұрын
You look like Lloyd Banks bro.
@rowdyrich69
@rowdyrich69 3 жыл бұрын
Correction, MEN all over the world. lol. Don't have to be black for this information to be useful.
@yvonnef6240
@yvonnef6240 4 жыл бұрын
I'm just listening to this show, and I swear I almost crashed my car! The description of the HR chick who's rotund and the parking memo was HI-LAR-I-OUS!!!! And the music being played with it just took it over the top.
@kenyamyhomemycountry9155
@kenyamyhomemycountry9155 4 жыл бұрын
Great show Kevin. Still looking forward to the show on weaves, wigs and tatoos.
@glendamaynard
@glendamaynard 4 жыл бұрын
Oh wow! Did he say he’s doing a show on this?
@annettescroggins3905
@annettescroggins3905 4 жыл бұрын
Damn
@meddeck
@meddeck 4 жыл бұрын
Did he say he was going to do this?
@RealMrUndisputed
@RealMrUndisputed 3 жыл бұрын
Some times this show can get so intense and so deep. God Bless you God Father.
@BigShrimpin416
@BigShrimpin416 3 жыл бұрын
This man is SHARP! In every sense of the word!
@blkimble
@blkimble 4 жыл бұрын
I can't tell you how very much I am enjoying this video. What a treasure!
@faa1412
@faa1412 4 жыл бұрын
Actually, alot of male doctors, physicians in high ranking positions tend to marry other doctors, physicians, and women in other high-value positions.
@jrr7031
@jrr7031 3 жыл бұрын
Ive never seen a fat woman doctor.
@jrr7031
@jrr7031 3 жыл бұрын
@@Kelly-pp1et so, ive made this comment before because I was curious. Now, this iw just anecdotal...but from my observations it has to do with social circle. If thr man and woman werent high school sweethearts...they met in med achool and developed porpinquity, due to long hours and close contanct. Other than that they met at their jobs. Like I said, it's social circle. Which is why you cant go out there and meet a millionaire... You dont even know WHERE they hang out.
@jrr7031
@jrr7031 3 жыл бұрын
@@Kelly-pp1et I want to say the ones you know are the exception, not the norm. Again, were those couples high school sweethearts, or did they already have a history? Again though, without a quantitative study.....we are only basing our opinions on what we observe. You know we do data over here in this space
@jrr7031
@jrr7031 3 жыл бұрын
@@Kelly-pp1et lol well that's why if I dont have data, I will always preface with 'prima facia' or 'anecdotal'
@jrr7031
@jrr7031 3 жыл бұрын
@@Kelly-pp1et blessings to you. Agree and disagree though. For us(cuz clearly you got some kinda common sense and are smart) that works. I DISAGREE though, because that is how stereotypes get ingrained in a society, you know? Like, all Indians are either doctors, or own hotels and corner stores lol 🤷🏾‍♂️
@SolomonTheGeek
@SolomonTheGeek 4 жыл бұрын
It Is terrifying how accurate this is....especially in the workplace. Glad I'm not the only one that sees this happen, I thought I was the weird one noticing all these red flags in the STEM field
@wunii697
@wunii697 3 жыл бұрын
That last interview was powerful as hell. I'm 45 and I saw this when I was 7 in some of my neighbors cribs.
@milesrashaad7402
@milesrashaad7402 4 жыл бұрын
Book a career session gentlemen. Learn in a one-on-one session how to become high value. Especially if you are in sales. I am closing twice as many deals in 1 month now that I met with Kevin and understood how to earn more income with intentionality. He told me what resources and career positions matter for corporate sales.
@AL-Broadcast
@AL-Broadcast 4 жыл бұрын
Would you care to share?
@milesrashaad7402
@milesrashaad7402 4 жыл бұрын
@@AL-Broadcast Having a sales coach, having a sales system, and working in outside sales that allows me to maximize my earning potential. B2B for starters.
@arthurokello6314
@arthurokello6314 4 жыл бұрын
@@AL-Broadcast honestly It is disrespectful to him for you to ask him for free information that he paid for. It is literally asking something for nothing. If you want something valuable, it keeps value when you pay. If you are a man you should be ashamed
@samhouston1646
@samhouston1646 3 жыл бұрын
@@arthurokello6314 exactly! Couldn’t of said it better myself
@Michelle-qw4pl
@Michelle-qw4pl 4 жыл бұрын
I am loving this! You pulled my number for sure! I’m in category 3. Thank you for this clarity and honesty.
@freshgrowaquaponicfarm3658
@freshgrowaquaponicfarm3658 Жыл бұрын
Bless you, wise woman
@sarah1484
@sarah1484 4 жыл бұрын
That last caller doesn't know that she's creating a monster that society is going to have to deal with. My husband's step brother is the same way. This dude has had so many breaks in life, it's ridiculous. These women don't understand what they're doing when they do this.
@ericg4568
@ericg4568 4 жыл бұрын
The executive lady, is turning her son in to a perpetual mamma's boy!
@NCGNTO202
@NCGNTO202 4 жыл бұрын
We call them "Sonsbands." I find it disgusting and have seen real life examples of it.
@ericg4568
@ericg4568 4 жыл бұрын
@@NCGNTO202 My Ex-wife tries that crap with my son, but I have schooled him on how he should respect his mom, but not to be bullied by her, as she tries to turn her venom for me on to him.
@patrickgroll2046
@patrickgroll2046 3 жыл бұрын
That's exactly how my ex-wife is with my mid-20s son. Exactly!! He has a great job and a gf but he does live with his mom (far away from me). She has done a wonderful job making sure he has very little interest in ever coming to see me
@davisholman6518
@davisholman6518 3 жыл бұрын
@@patrickgroll2046 So sorry - she is 100% WRONG.
@davidakero6086
@davidakero6086 4 жыл бұрын
16 yr old getting $1000 a month! He will look for an older women to give him money. Sugar mommy relationships are in his future.
@NoxHypnotic
@NoxHypnotic 4 жыл бұрын
@Hill Jimmy He's not conditioned to. He's been getting it just for being there during his teenage years.
@challow90221
@challow90221 4 жыл бұрын
Hill Jimmy how do you have ambition when your allowance is 4x your pay? Dont worry...ill wait.
@ClintonCJr
@ClintonCJr 4 жыл бұрын
His Momma better not get no man, he gone be jealous AF!!
@challow90221
@challow90221 4 жыл бұрын
Clinton. C. Jr your on to something...i dont see a good scenario here...something is goin to give and every relationship she has (including her own family) will self destruct. She Fucced up big and there’s no going bacc.
@tom11zz884
@tom11zz884 4 жыл бұрын
We don't really know if she was telling the truth or not. One thing I know is that women love to make up BS just to make themselves look good..
@Plagueis313
@Plagueis313 4 жыл бұрын
That frumpy sound has me on the floor 🤣😂😂
@MsChellaJay
@MsChellaJay 3 жыл бұрын
Right
@marangmasegomutloane3619
@marangmasegomutloane3619 2 жыл бұрын
Rip Godfather...love love your wisdom and honesty...😇
@ObservantPiratePlus
@ObservantPiratePlus 3 жыл бұрын
Does anybody else like to watch Kevin with a soundboard up to add to the fun? And what Kevin said about HR women, also applies to HOA women. Big time!
@remdniro
@remdniro 4 жыл бұрын
That is sad but true. When I was a single Man dating was horrible.. Seriously , I was swimming in an ocean of baby mamas, divorced chics that file 1st and overall have a past of back to back failed relationships. Those women will aggressively pursue you but not for you as a person but for you as an ideal that exist in her head. My advice is that for single women with no children to put themselves out there and let it be known that you're single no children.. never married... and available.. It must be said women with children have different motives when it comes to relationships.. So, fellas you can see how they conveniently Miss understand an attempt to make unintelligible excuses all ending in their acceptance. 👇Just look in the comment section👇
@KCoopp9
@KCoopp9 4 жыл бұрын
That’s not always true that single women with kids have different motives. EVERY woman wants a man to be masculine, lead and provide. Idc if they single with kids or no kids
@KCoopp9
@KCoopp9 4 жыл бұрын
The Naked Truth Report why would I need a man to take care of my daughter who lives with her father?
@HeatGoesOn
@HeatGoesOn 4 жыл бұрын
@@KCoopp9 then this dont even apply to you
@coleworld904
@coleworld904 4 жыл бұрын
Alike Cooper that is even a worse red flag because it takes an act of god for a man to win custody of their kids today.
@KCoopp9
@KCoopp9 4 жыл бұрын
The Naked Truth Report why are you bringing up politics and Mrs Harris?
@kenethw172
@kenethw172 3 жыл бұрын
Kevin thank you for defending good black men love this show binge watching for four days a lot of info you can get from his show
@seanrichards9957
@seanrichards9957 4 жыл бұрын
Wow Mr Samuels you were full blown psychic with the lady with the 16 year old son,,,great show kudos
@Exostars77-A
@Exostars77-A 3 жыл бұрын
Before graduating High School every African American boy should listen to the best of KS condensed into 20 hours. I tell you this - as a HVM at the very top of one of the leading professions - if I could have listened to this sort of content between the ages of 18 and 22, some of the mistakes I made in my 20s and 30s with women might have been avoided. Young men take note.
@Delariuso74
@Delariuso74 4 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate the image you display! Black educated and Red Pilled!
@brotherj7328
@brotherj7328 3 жыл бұрын
I watch with my wife of 27 years. We both find it educational and entertaining.
@tiffanythornton1937
@tiffanythornton1937 4 жыл бұрын
Kevin, you could have been a comedian. LOL! I love your show!
@BellaFelicia
@BellaFelicia 4 жыл бұрын
That last call taught a powerful message. I hired a young man that had to call his mom and ask how to feel out the tax forms....29 years old 4th job. I was shocked. This same guy had to ask his mom for the security deposit for his apartment. He was moving out of an apartment he previously shared with his baby mama.
@tamarastone141
@tamarastone141 3 жыл бұрын
Sad....smh......
@MisTracy39TheVeganLady
@MisTracy39TheVeganLady 3 жыл бұрын
The more things "change" .. the more they stay the same! 😔
@JoshBrezzy
@JoshBrezzy 4 жыл бұрын
No matter the weight, age, or dress size... they still want a HVM🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️
@JoshBrezzy
@JoshBrezzy 4 жыл бұрын
@@kahleesaangelofthenight2895 Well...congratulations on having a husband & don’t have a house full of cats!😂
@jrr7031
@jrr7031 3 жыл бұрын
@@JoshBrezzy Wasnt no damn husband named....lol sounds like attraction, but not kept.
@bertranddumond2914
@bertranddumond2914 3 жыл бұрын
@@kahleesaangelofthenight2895 you better hit the gym cause man don’t care about your degrees unless they’re bum trying to used you for your money
@barrydaryle7817
@barrydaryle7817 3 жыл бұрын
True
@e0334
@e0334 3 жыл бұрын
Tap,Tap,Tap,Tap waist on Tibba Tap,Tap Tabba !! This brother is on top of everything 🤣. Keep speaking truth to power King, way to rep the Brothas and Sisters✊🏾✊🏾
@moneymitchamp
@moneymitchamp 4 жыл бұрын
I ain’t gone lie Kevin. It’s women out here getting beat up. Thing is, those women don’t leave or they definitely aren’t in a head space to think about getting advice from KZbin or a therapist.... those women watch love and hip hop/hip hop counseling as therapy and get advice from moma and auntie..... QUICK STORY...Went on a date with a woman, the 1st topic of our conversation was that she had to break up a fight between her “guy friend” and his girlfriend. He blacked her eye... I asked “ so, you have a guy friend that beats up his woman”? I told her I’m not a fan of a woman I like being friends with a woman beater. He’s a sucka... NEVER HEARD FROM HER AGAIN
@amandaslay6045
@amandaslay6045 4 жыл бұрын
domestic violence/abuse has been getting worse during the pandemic. Yikes
@kwamenyantakyi8398
@kwamenyantakyi8398 4 жыл бұрын
Goof for you she would've fucked up your life my guy, never ever ignore a black flag like that!
@moneymitchamp
@moneymitchamp 4 жыл бұрын
Kawaki Nyantakyi you right about that
@moneymitchamp
@moneymitchamp 4 жыл бұрын
Amanda Slay facts
@devilsoffspring5519
@devilsoffspring5519 4 жыл бұрын
@@amandaslay6045 Nothing like spending time together to make humans detest each other :)
@laj4186
@laj4186 4 жыл бұрын
Whoa!!!! The money she spends on a 16 year old boy!!! My parents gave us girls a nice life with used cars at 16, dinners, vacations nice home and clothes. They did not get into big labels and when asked it was a no.
@pheebsj1540
@pheebsj1540 4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a good childhood
@hughflucas7075
@hughflucas7075 3 жыл бұрын
Bruh you had it real easy most 16 year old kids don’t get cars. You make it sound like she is spoiling her kid(which she is) but you were spoiled as well.
@laj4186
@laj4186 3 жыл бұрын
@@hughflucas7075 Nah that's not spoiling. I worked and paid for it also, as my Daddy taught me responsibility. Adults shouldn't breed if they can't provide for their offspring.
@hughflucas7075
@hughflucas7075 3 жыл бұрын
@@laj4186 no you had it easy, you don’t realize it because you thought that is how life works. But no you probably wasn’t spoiled but you still had advantages and grew up in a financially stable home. Vacations, cars, and stuff like that is a luxury some kids don’t get. They only get the basics. You, my friend got extra. So yes you were a lucky kid, and when you say my “daddy” it just gives me that spoiled high school girl vibe lol
@hughflucas7075
@hughflucas7075 3 жыл бұрын
@@laj4186 when you say all I got was used cars, vacations, and things like that you just sound spoiled lol
@goodmen2973
@goodmen2973 4 жыл бұрын
This show was Gold! When he talked about the woman in Timberlands and Lingerie I lost my shit 37:18 😂😂😩
@TyreseBuie
@TyreseBuie 4 жыл бұрын
Ice COLD bruh an they do it too themselves. Fact is the bulk of these heffas cant be pleased better to focus on our happiness let them get in where they fit in. Nothing is ever their fault you notice.
@goodmen2973
@goodmen2973 4 жыл бұрын
tyrese buie great advice on keeping on the grind and happiness.
@moneymitchamp
@moneymitchamp 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@CwellASMR
@CwellASMR 4 жыл бұрын
Facts I was out like a light 🤣🤣🤣👌🏾
@jaydrich8115
@jaydrich8115 4 жыл бұрын
Good Men “wasup dog cmon in mane “ black tear drop under the eye” maaan kevin be killing me 🤣🤣🤣
@tiffanypearsall6219
@tiffanypearsall6219 4 жыл бұрын
It's unfortunate, but women who are well accomplished do themselves a disservice in the dating and marriage world whether it's with a HVM or an average man. A HVM is unimpressed and doesn't care about how career driven they are. An average man will likely not make as much as she wants him to because of her level of achievement. And even if she says his earning less doesn't matter, over time it will and she'll be resentful being the breadwinner of the household.
@davidsimmons4731
@davidsimmons4731 4 жыл бұрын
A woman's accomplishments doesn't bother me. I dont mind dating an accomplished woman. The issue, to me, is when those accomplishments become a substitute for things like femininity, agreeableness, etc. Similarly, just because I make a lot of money, that doesn't change the fact that the any woman I date still wants a man treats her like a lady. My momey doesn't insulate me from that, just like her accomplishments doesnt insulate her from doing things as a woman that men like such as cooking, maintaining her appearance, etc.
@brooklynforever1990
@brooklynforever1990 4 жыл бұрын
David Simmons You sound reasonable and not angry like some other posters.
@davidsimmons4731
@davidsimmons4731 4 жыл бұрын
@@brooklynforever1990 Thank you. To be fair, I think a lot of the men are saying the same thing, albeit with harsher language. Kevin broached the subject in his video, but if you paid attention then you noticed a common theme, attitude. A lot of times, accomplished women feel as if their success in academia as well as at work allows them to circumvent what men primarily find attractive about women; that being beautiful, femininity, agreeableness. For example, many of them belive that because they're accomplished. how they look shouldn't matter, or that cooking for a man is now beneath them. Conversely, they still expect the man to pay for dates, give presents, etc. His money, in their minds doesn't absolve him of those things.
@jrr7031
@jrr7031 3 жыл бұрын
100% agree. She will resent that person cuz in here head she expects that her husband will pay bills, and all expenses. He cant. Then, she will feel like she "settled" even if that lower earning man treats her exact like a wife and makes her happy. Especially if she is moving into thay danger zone.
@raionhato6299
@raionhato6299 3 жыл бұрын
@@jrr7031 it means she never cared about you perhaps never saw you or listened when you spoke(weird laughter at something you said that wasnt funny is a clue) but had a vision of what she wanted a man to be. ha women try to define your entire personality and being. become resentful, angry, combative and cheating when you dont measure while loudly telling you you attempting anything of the sort with her is abusive behaviour, shamming etc. lol 'you weren't the man i thought you were' often comes out later down the road when you always said what you meant and meant what you said from jump.
@keniaP10
@keniaP10 4 жыл бұрын
He’s on it! All his points are valid! Throwing FACTS left and right. Damn
@smitch6803
@smitch6803 3 жыл бұрын
I listened and I was rolling! True but ohh so funny! I work in HR and Kevin has a point! Listen and learn. Your honesty is priceless, Sir. ❤️
@lesliethomas5088
@lesliethomas5088 3 жыл бұрын
I am literally shopping for a Dog. I just need to make time because I work so much and don’t want to abandon the poor thing. But After listening to Kevin these past few months. I realized Yep. I’ll die Alone! Lol. Im still good looking. But in my 40’s. I will use this experience and teach other women young women how to have and hold a husband. I hold full Accountability
@trustfund82
@trustfund82 4 жыл бұрын
Mimi's boy is being set up to fail. At 16-18 I hated my dad because he was tough on me and made me adhere to a strict daily routine and did not tolerate laziness or entitlement. Looking back, I can't thank him enough. The world is a hard place for a man, it's harder when you're weak and undisciplined. I know parents like her feel they're being loving and caring when they coddle their teenage boys but the future ramifications of that are not so good.
@Mosaickool
@Mosaickool 4 жыл бұрын
Imagine if the other talk shows on TV were like this we would have so many more happy people getting married and starting families because they learned the truth about relationships.
@lanishiaguider8887
@lanishiaguider8887 Жыл бұрын
Convo with Mimi just broke my heart. She was clueless and destroying her sons future.
@fraulein_farah
@fraulein_farah 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing episode … shedding a lot of light KS!! These are things women would need to hear from psychologists : REAL TALK. A lot of them unfortunately just coddle and comfort, prescribing the blue pill perpetually ..
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