Byron Katie - My father abused me & My dad sides with them

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@helioschan7705 6 жыл бұрын

My goodness... I am in awe at Katie's ability to bypass this woman's mental barriers and operate on the REAL issue at hand. The woman was just trying to "mitigate" the suffering by working on more shallow issues. Katie saw through that and jumped right onto the little devil that was playing tricks on this woman's mind. Ruthless compassion--that is the power of Truth.

@juliaxo2872 5 жыл бұрын

I don’t know about this one. I was thinking about trying it out on sexual assault where I actually somehow managed to use my tiny child muscles to escape and say no. He assaulted me True yes Feel angry want him to hurt and feel regretful and I want to feel his shame and regret If I didn’t carry that thought I wouldn’t be so angry and relive the movie in my mind Turn it around I assaulted me? Yes by remembering it over and over again in my mind. What he did to my body. Making myself relive it a 1000 times instead of one incident I assaulted him? Yes in my head when experiencing the assault again I throw rocks at him and wish him torture. I loved him? Yes, strange enough. By wishing him to feel regret and empathy I wish him love. I guess the torture I would think be a tool to awake his empathy and regret but does it work? No. An unaware person won’t be able to think this is the kind of torture the girl I abused perhaps felt. So I wish him empathy. Then he will feel remorse.. Psychopaths got no feelings (or flat emotions why they need adrenaline kicks and crime to feel something and feel alive) I don’t know if I managed to do this correctly but I can see how it kind of shifts my secondary feeling (anger) to a primary feeling (sadness) which is a good thing in psychology.

@JaniiLaGarbosa 5 жыл бұрын

Julia Xo „I wish him to feel regret and empathy, I wish him love“ try to turn it around honey. It‘s beautiful to see your mind working, thank you

@fredx94 7 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for putting all these up

@alwaysinthenow 7 жыл бұрын

you're very welcome :)

@Gratitudejoy21 5 жыл бұрын

SOOOOOOO BRAVE AND SOOOOOO FREEING, this lady on abuse of father!!!!! You have helped me through this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DEEEEEP DEEEEEP GRATITUDE from Belgium, Europe 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

@alicecasey9612 5 жыл бұрын

I found this disgraceful to make this woman responsible for the abuse she suffered from her father, she was a three year old infant, I am disgusted and disappointed with you Byron Katie.

@mariastrandving3158 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, I totaly agree! "He asked to put your hand there?" "Did he abuse you?" Answere: He abused his right as a father towards his 3 year old innocent daughter who thought he was teaching love. It is never a childs responsibility to figure what´s right or wrong when it´s still in parents care. End of story.

@ItsAllGodAnyway 3 жыл бұрын

She is human, too. I have to agree, however, that a 3 year old child can’t abuse an adult. That is nonsense, even if her intention was to free the woman.

@MG-oi2zy 2 жыл бұрын

Wow, this conversation is shocking! I wonder how this woman felt in the weeks and months after realizing she was coerced into admitting she is responsible for the abuse as a 3 year old...

@10666W Жыл бұрын

I think that it’s shadow work and not every turnaround should be taken literally. It would be nice if she would clarify her stance beyond the disclaimer she gives. I’ll go through the exercise myself and see what happens.

@mariastrandving3158 3 жыл бұрын

"He asked to put your hand there?" "Did he abuse you?" Answere: He abused his right as a father towards his 3 year old innocent daughter who thought he was teaching love. It is never a childs responsibility to figure what´s right or wrong when it´s still in parents care. End of story.

@ItsAllGodAnyway 3 жыл бұрын

Agreed. Five hundred fold.

@yonahhaddad7133 4 ай бұрын

I think Byron Katie would agree with your comment, but the work is not about assigning blame to a perpetrator of a crime or bad behavior. It is about freeing oneself of pain. Thinking that I am a victim of incest or child sexual abuse does not resolve the issue. What happened happened . The past is already gone, but the pain remains. The person chooses to reexperrience it . The work is about taking responsibility for your outlook on life, the judgments you placate on others, the self hate and harm you unjustly do to yourself. What the father did was absolutely wrong from a moral standpoint. The woman in this story for her own sanity has to move on from that drama, and the work will give her this ability. She needs to become clear about what happened. She played a part also in it, eventhough as an innocent child but yet she had her specific reasons, she wanted her father's love. Just to recognize that is enough healing.

@Vlatka211 3 ай бұрын

With that attitude, you stay forever in this abuse.

@lexqbeanable 5 жыл бұрын

It's like witnessing miracles... one miracle after another. And I applied the work to a traumatic crime i was moments from witnessing, but i was a part of the aftermath and that was traumatic enough. I felt like a panic attack was coming.... i was praying and I remembered BK and applied it on my drive home... no paper... and wowwww miracle... truth.. i let it rise up in me. First the answer was yes, then no.. and the miracle began... PEACE. And the next morning when i remembered the situation... i held on to the revelations from the work for dear life. That was easy to do and it was just miraculous.

@alwaysinthenow 5 жыл бұрын

how wonderful for you

@pamelacaballero6111 4 жыл бұрын

12:36 the confusion comes when you think he made you do it.

@stephanieruston6176 7 жыл бұрын

So beautiful. Divine.

@natbergman5367 2 жыл бұрын

She should apologize to him- is that true?

@ClearOutSamskaras 5 жыл бұрын

32:00 "I need my father to acknowledge me as a person." 58:13 The infectiousness of the essence within you that projects out and onto and into others, just like halo projects from flame.

@TheCo11ection 7 жыл бұрын

thankyou thankyou thankyou thankyou for everyone of these audios please tell me if there are more available i want as many case studies from katie as possible they are provign to be a life changer

@alwaysinthenow 7 жыл бұрын

check out the link under the video for the full playlist, 107 recordings :)