I am looking for my Grandmother, she was married to a gold mining equipment tycoon named Arthur weaver Ralston , they were married , her maiden name was Cabatuan , it is said she had her own church there and could not leave her congregation, so she stayed behind when the Japanese took control , this was before and during WWII , where the husband was white and had to leave the Phillipines, he had to take his two kids with him , Mary "ling" and Arthur Jr,