When the person who tried so hard to save the relationship finally gives up
@juliiouus964 жыл бұрын
Both tried. Both really tried to save it, wanting to take a break from a relationship to strengthen a bond with the help of a counselor is trying to save it. That’s why Arizona is there, that’s why she suggested a counselor.
@dianarios23984 жыл бұрын
@@juliiouus96 tbh callie tried more harder in the beggining with the Africa thing and kids but at the end Arizona decided to try hard when callie didn't want to anymore
@cherizar18544 жыл бұрын
@@juliiouus96 callie gets more points tho cause arizona cheated
@Emma-in5dh4 жыл бұрын
Cherizar right
@aspensky54 жыл бұрын
jessicasadlibs arizona didn’t try that hard because when they separated she damn near had a whole other relationship with the intern so bye
@richieyh32115 жыл бұрын
I was so happy for Callie. She finally chose herself. She'd been running behind Arizona and begging Arizona to love her. Callie is choosing to love herself.
@carriefletcher41563 жыл бұрын
Yesss I was sooo happy that she gave up with Arizona becuse Arizona has been dragging callie down and boe shes free
@TheBible_ Жыл бұрын
Than they gave her child to Arizona. I never wanted to stop watching a show so fast 🤬
@sydneysykes4312 Жыл бұрын
@@TheBible_ as they should’ve
@TheBible_ Жыл бұрын
@@sydneysykes4312 you sound sick. That’s like kidnapping. Callie is Sophie’s mom and she’s an amazing mom. Giving her to Arizona really shows how messed up the system can be and is because bs like this happens all the time and people like you condone it. Just sick smh
@sydneysykes4312 Жыл бұрын
@@TheBible_ it’s not kidnapping when the child has been LEGALLY adopted and just so we’re clear not all biological parents are good ones
@lnkamal9 жыл бұрын
i actually loved this episode, it was so great to see Callie stand up for herself and let Arizona go. I was a huge calzona shipper but their relationship had become so toxic, it was so refreshing to see her choose herself.
@aniheaallen41737 жыл бұрын
lnkamal I'm in season 9, and I just spoiled myself. I ship Calzona hard too. Why? 😭😭
@JoeVitoMoubry7 жыл бұрын
lnkamal I agree with you. A part of me hopes that later in the series, they'll get back together. But I think this episode is one of the most realistic and relatable episodes of the series.
@lnkamal Жыл бұрын
7 years later after this comment, I found myself in a pretty similar situation to Callie and this episode hits differently now. 'no matter how hard we try we have to realise, something's just can't be fixed'
@TheBible_ Жыл бұрын
Their relationship didn’t become toxic, it was already toxic. Arizona was always a horrible person and Callie was always give and give and doing everything in the best interest of her.
@Bjubybu3 жыл бұрын
The most touching part about this is that Callie still does love Arizona, but realizes that they are capable of feeling happier -without each other (in a relationship) and therefore just wants the best for her (and herself of course). I think this is BY FAR the hardest scenario of how a relationship ends - when love is still there, but at least one understands that it is not the right think to keep going.
@heartSLB2 жыл бұрын
Ending a relationship when love is still there is like one of the hardest thing a person can do but at the same time you know that if you stayed it wasn’t going to work. So you just have to learn to walk away
@fatemadaya2153 жыл бұрын
“I can see now that constantly trying to fix us is the thing that’s been killing me, slowly..” 😭😭 felt that 💔
@Claulma19997 жыл бұрын
But no matter how hard we try, we have to realize some things just can't be fixed..💔
@teniola93045 жыл бұрын
PREACH!
@omosewafadoju38033 жыл бұрын
You took the words right out my mouth
@rebecabuendia46272 жыл бұрын
You can actually feel the freedom after this words
@bogarcia12695 жыл бұрын
Ughh Callie’s acting in this scene is so moving
@arvinreuben54555 жыл бұрын
Sandra Oh, Katherine Heigl and Chandra Wilson were always at the forefront with it came to acting chops, but I felt that Sara Ramirez belonged right up there with them. Such a good actress. Plus, she can sing.
@TheIpatnano3 жыл бұрын
So true!!! Those three actresses were the show!
@daisys72553 жыл бұрын
omg ive never seen anyone appreciate Katherine's acting she was soo good with her expressions and all and the rest of them were amazing too. also, Sara's singing gave me goosebumps
@confusedhomosapien62313 жыл бұрын
@@daisys7255 What? Everyone appreciates Katherine Heigl most of the time
@daisys72553 жыл бұрын
@@confusedhomosapien6231 I've barely seen it
@AlmightyPush_3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Sandra Oh, Katherine Heigl and Sara Ramirez did an excellent job with their roles! Honorable mentions: Sarah Drew, Kate Walsh and Geena Davis. Current best actress on the show: Chandra Wilson, Caterina Scorsone and Kelly McCleary
@CeltycSparrow3 жыл бұрын
I respected Callie's choice in this moment. She does love Arizona....but by loving Arizona she lost the part of herself that was happy. That was passionate about her work. That enjoyed being a mother. She was stuck. And when they took the month to be apart, she found herself again and she didn't want to lose that joy and freedom. I get it.
@toooldforcitylife3 жыл бұрын
Arizona said Callie is her anchor but when you're someone else's anchor YOU end up drowning.
@MarissaCooperButPoor3 жыл бұрын
Callie has always been my favorite character, she deserves the world and more. She just wants the best for everyone.
@nakia41988 жыл бұрын
I agree with Callie and understand why she wanted to stay apart. I would like them to work it out,but Callie deserves ,so much better.
@RedBalloonSky27509 жыл бұрын
Man..... I remember originally watching this thinking, "Oh God.... those are not tears of joy" before Callie said anything lol reality is, Arizona put Callie through A LOT. It's understandable that she wanted to be free of her. But I do want them back together!!!!
@mimiel79384 жыл бұрын
I am not up on date in my grey s anatomy ...what did arizona do ?
@RedBalloonSky27504 жыл бұрын
@@mimiel7938 there's so much lol along with abandoning Callie at the airport to go to Africa, then coming back like nothing happened... after Arizona lost her leg from a plane crash things took an even darker turn... she started mistreating Callie and shutting her out. Then just when they fought their way out of that, Arizona sleeps with some random doctor. Then when they get through that, Callie finds out that while they were separated Arizona slept with an intern which causes a chain reaction that ultimately leads to Callie getting in trouble. Then ultimately it came down to the fact that Callie had been burning both ends of the candle throughout their relationship and just got to the point where she needed to just let it go, phew!
@mimiel79384 жыл бұрын
@@RedBalloonSky2750 thank you very much !!!!
@RedBalloonSky27504 жыл бұрын
@@braelynandrade356 because she didn't leave Callie FOR Callie. she left for herself, which is fine! she had every right. the issue was waiting to leave her when they've already gotten to the airport and Callie had already dropped everything to go with her, that's one. two, Arizona came back and thought that simply showing her face would be enough to be welcomed back in. Arizona said it herself later on that she bails when things are tough. for me, her going to Africa alone was the best thing for Arizona, hands down. But at the same time that shouldn't eliminate the pain it caused Callie.
@vickyspieltinhaaren3 жыл бұрын
@@RedBalloonSky2750 also, every time callie wanted to talk or before the car crash, Arizona questions Callie sexuality like "are you one of those fake lesbians? Just having a vacation in lesbian land" or " i get the gay you"
@samsamsamtheman4 жыл бұрын
The best part of Callie is her acting goes above and beyond what most actors do. She tears me up deep inside to the core when she starts breaking out in a sobbing fest!
@teniola93045 жыл бұрын
My goodness Callie can really cry. hope to see her on a movie screen.
@Noneofurbiznsjsbaauabaaahhsbss2 жыл бұрын
This is a movie screen?
@yourfavcontentcreator_ Жыл бұрын
@@Noneofurbiznsjsbaauabaaahhsbss 🙄
@jacquidoucet83083 жыл бұрын
As much as I cried.... this was so great. Sara Ramirez is such an amazing actress. I felt every tear. Good for Callie for choosing herself.
@blipflipped66802 жыл бұрын
Sara Ramirez is non binary, they go by "they" and "them" pronouns, so its "actor" (not "actress"). That said, they are phenomenal, and this was all around a great scene.
@jacquidoucet83082 жыл бұрын
When she's playing a female character.... she is Callie, not Sara. Seriously, you took time out of your life to write all that?! 😂
@heartSLB2 жыл бұрын
@@jacquidoucet8308 why actor has though? If non binary folks don’t accept neither female or male nouns, pronouns or adjetives. I think it should be something else rather than actress or actor 🤷🏽♀️🤷♂️
@m.k.m.36852 ай бұрын
I was so proud of Callie here. Arizona was self absorbed.
@audreyadamson75024 жыл бұрын
This broke my heart more than anything ever has before. How could two people who loved each other soooo much get to this point. I’m happy that Callie finally realized she needed to love herself after taking care of Arizona for so long. And I’m happy that Arizona realized what she had infront of her that whole time, Callie was soooo good to her. Hopefully they find themselves again and down the line find a little bit of eachother still in their hearts and realize their still in love with eachother, because they were meant to be. ❤️
@Emma-in5dh4 жыл бұрын
They got to this point when Arizona cheated
@fraybirch19302 жыл бұрын
Sometimes people bring the worst of each other when they are together.
@donnahaynes1382 жыл бұрын
"The last 30 days have taught me so much. And all I wanted when we first came here was to know that we would leave together. But from the minute I sat down, I could feel it. I felt like I was gonna be suffocated. The last several weeks I have laughed more, I have done more, I have enjoyed myself more than not. And I finally feel free. And by being free, I can see now that constantly trying to fix us is the thing that's been killing me slowly. And I don't want to do it anymore, I don't want to fix it for fix us anymore.
@lani36634 жыл бұрын
I felt everything that callie was saying and that's why this scene always hit me so hard.
@Emma-in5dh4 жыл бұрын
True
@rizzyfierce7 жыл бұрын
As a big Calzona shipper, the first time I watched this, I just couldn't accept this bc all I wanted was for my ship to sail smoothly already! But now nearly three years later...now that I'm in the same shoes as Callie was in...now I understand it's true...that some things just really can't be fixed. No matter how hard you try.
@Alexajasmerr5 жыл бұрын
Yes I’m in the exact same boat except my ex is the one pregnant and I’m the one fighting. I honestly realized now that it isn’t worth it I’m losing myself loving her. I spent 4 months trying to fix us that I broke me more. I didn’t accept the calzona thing til I understood it 😭💯
@Hi-vr3kd5 жыл бұрын
I think once someone in the relationship cheats, its pretty much over and trying to fix that problem rarely works
@birdiewolf34975 жыл бұрын
I love how at the end Callie goes "welp. I guess I'll just go ahead and leave."
@HP18183 жыл бұрын
I cheered Callie on. She was Arizona’s shadow for so long and allowed so many hurtful things to slide because she didn’t want to fail again. Good for you Callie. Kick that biphobic cheating person to the side.
@helora10393 жыл бұрын
period
@torakunoichi3 жыл бұрын
If you truly love someone you would never even CONSIDER cheating on them
@bryannadavis18042 жыл бұрын
@@torakunoichi especially what was stupid about it all is that Arizona refused to sleep with Callie for the longest time after the accident because she was scared and insecure about her leg but then immediately jumped in the bed with someone she didn’t even know and trusted that person more than she trusted her own wife so yeah
@torakunoichi11 ай бұрын
@@bryannadavis1804 not excusing it but I can see why Arizona doesn’t want Callie to touch her: Callie’s the one who had to make the shitty call to cut her leg off A random person doesn’t have the weight of that decision hanging over their heads they’re just some person who can make you feel good and different about yourself Arizona should have NEVER cheated and the shitty thing is Callie tried so hard to be there for her
@user-ih1eq8zm2l11 ай бұрын
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@Kriziaisabelleb5 жыл бұрын
Callie: thank u, next
@Emma-in5dh4 жыл бұрын
Krizia Belen lol
@yuvireyes76003 жыл бұрын
one taught me love : George one taught me patience : Arizona one taught me pain : Mark
@CalleyPochePe3 жыл бұрын
@@yuvireyes7600 id say pain: erica
@Sunsetdreamin20023 жыл бұрын
@@CalleyPochePe no I don't think so
@confusedhomosapien62312 жыл бұрын
@@Sunsetdreamin2002 yes
@3109C4 жыл бұрын
Arizona is just so frustrating. Callie has been nothing but honest and loving towards her. The Sofia thing was wrong... but Callie deserved better.
@greysoncrack31593 жыл бұрын
This right here facts
@greysoncrack31593 жыл бұрын
Is
@pahrisarvie14283 жыл бұрын
Ummm are we ignoring the affair that put them there in the first place
@idiotinha1009 жыл бұрын
I watched the whole episode!!! And this episode was heart breaking!!! I am shocked!!! I can't believe it!!!! Omg i can't handle it!!!
@smssms71679 жыл бұрын
i hate it when things dont happen the positive way.
@GamerxC-xo2jt7 жыл бұрын
idiotinha100 it hurts watching this!!!!! 😭😭😭😭
@GamerxC-xo2jt7 жыл бұрын
idiotinha100 it hurts watching this!!!!! 😭😭😭😭
@Emma-in5dh4 жыл бұрын
I understand why they broke up non of this would have happened if Arizona didn’t cheat
@kathrinamanuel61743 жыл бұрын
They really love each other to point that they forgot to love themselves. That's the real point of their break up.
@Zippy-dj8ev5 жыл бұрын
I was so happy when Callie said all she did here. As usual, Arizona was all about herself and what SHE needs, and what SHE is ready for, and SHE loves Callie. Callie always deserved better. Arizona really put her through the ringer, over and over and over again, always proclaiming at the end tthat the one thing she needs is Arizona when the truth is that she wanted Callie AND she wanted to have her own way whenever and whomever she wanted. Wanted Callie to keep waiting for her. To keep taking her back. So, yeah, bravo Callie!
@jessiferneptune75837 жыл бұрын
I loved Calzona right up until the point Arizona did a George and cheated on Callie after everything she had done for her. At that point, all I wanted was for Callie to be happy with someone who deserved her... Which was DEFINITELY not Penny, but still... At least she's happy.
@braelynandrade3564 жыл бұрын
Arizona and George don’t “deserve” Callie cuz they cheated? Yet Callie cheated on Erica and George and they both forgave her
@123headsdud4 жыл бұрын
Braelyn Andrade that’s different
@damia.59743 жыл бұрын
Braelyn Andrade she didn’t cheat on George💀
@happyaccident1052 жыл бұрын
@@braelynandrade356 the difference here is MARRIAGE. Callie had sex with Mark AFTER she broke up with George while they were just dating. And Callie had sex with Mark while she was dating Erica but ... Erica and Callie hadn't had any exclusivity talks at that time. They were DATING. George and Callie were married when he cheated on her. Callie and Arizona were married when Arizona cheated on her. HUGE difference. HUGE.
@Fandomsaddict8 ай бұрын
@@happyaccident105doesn't matter if you're married or dating cheating is still cheating. You don't cheat on the person your with regardless if your married or dating
@xgabriela36 жыл бұрын
This break was such a coin toss, either one of them would realize there were other things to be happy about instead of always fighting and trying to fix things. Arizona realized how much she loved her, and all she needed was Callie to be happy, but on the other hand Callie realized she loved her, but it was killing her in the process. I LOVE them together, and i do hope they get back together sometime. As Callie said, "i should be myself for a while, i should love me, and you should love you" its so, so important, they need to learn to love themselves before they love each other again and get back together.
@evanstallard15157 ай бұрын
Alex and Izzie have reconciled. Jackson and April have reconciled. Maybe Callie and Arizona can too.
@lamikacutting4 жыл бұрын
when you finally realize enough is enough
@codieancliff14943 жыл бұрын
Trying to fix their relationship for so long,callie forgot how and what really makes her happy its nice to have the old callie back
@mariakrystel67413 жыл бұрын
it's been 6 years and this scene still broke every piece of my heart. i still can't understand why Shonda had to ruined this perfect couple :(
@omosewafadoju38033 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry to say they were never perfect ever since Arizona cheated their relationship has never been the same Callie tried everything to forgive Arizona but Callie will always see Arizona “ as the wife who cheated because I tried to save her life” it’s just mind blowing that Arizona doesn’t realize that if Callie never cut off her leg she would never see Sofia take her first steps, or say her first words. But to me the relationship has never been the same since the accident and when Arizona cheated. And I also respect your opinion
@zahrairavanynajafi74904 жыл бұрын
This scene is so heartbreaking why am I watching it again??
@msbruny4 жыл бұрын
It's the best scene in the whole series. It was real and relatable..
@donnahaynes1382 жыл бұрын
"Maybe instead of loving you so hard, I should be myself for a while. I should love me. And you should love you. And together we love Sofia rather than..."
@euphoria1862 жыл бұрын
sara is such a good actor
@danielagonzalez94843 жыл бұрын
This scene has saved my life so many times...
@rosannasordo4 жыл бұрын
I sooo love this scene. One of the best episodes of Grey
@zeinabelshafay45315 жыл бұрын
No matter how hard we try we have to realize somethings just can't be fix
@jaimecash62899 жыл бұрын
Omg this made me cry. What a great scene.
@maria9015 жыл бұрын
This is what happens when you push your issues down. You end up feeling trapped in the relationship and like it's a burden. They should have dealt with their issues ages ago rather than rushing things and trying to act like everything is ok until someone does something big like cheat.
@happyaccident1052 жыл бұрын
I really loved Callie and Arizona in the beginning. I did. But after Arizona left Callie over kids and then left her again to go to Africa and then checked out on her emotionally when Mark died and blamed Callie for saving her actual life by removing her leg ... then denied her sex ... then CHEATED on her with a total stranger ... I was kinda over it. The final nail in the coffin for me where this ship is concerned was Arizona taking Callie to court for custody of Sofia and THEN deciding in the end, after she OBLITERATED Callie by taking her child ... that Callie's initial idea of sharing custody of Sofia was the right thing to do. Arizona acted like she was doing Callie some huge favor by letting her take Sofia to New York but it was Callie's idea to begin with. That's how Callie wanted it. They didn't need the courts or Arizona having full custody of Sofia. They should have worked it out together like Callie wanted them to do. Arizona is just really selfish and self-involved. She claimed to be a good man in the storm ... and then avoided Callie over stupid chicken pox because she wanted to stay in the sexy place instead of taking care of her. She eventually caved but it took seeing Mark actually being there for Callie to make her realize that SHE should be there. She's just ... awful in so many ways.
@nr301992 жыл бұрын
My dear friend I applaud your entire statement. There were no lies told in this entire statement. This entire statement is 💯 percent correct.
@wendywendy8379 Жыл бұрын
Yes! Thank you! You totally get it! Unlike the lunatics defending Arizona taking custody of Sophia on that clip! Omgosh… I just said basically the same thing you said to those people on that clip. I just can’t even with those people. Arizona is just the worst! Callie is too good for her!
@thisnigerianlovesdrinkingg4522 Жыл бұрын
Her leaving over kids was valid
@marilymmedina72446 ай бұрын
Muy buen resumen 😮❤
@misslaurynhill3 ай бұрын
yes like oh em gee
@sexyjerseygurl20118 жыл бұрын
this made me melt and cry
@alondramontejano20416 жыл бұрын
Go Callie.. ❤️
@Digstuf3 жыл бұрын
For some reason, I really enjoy watching this episode, despite it being such a sad Calzona episode. My shipper heart hurts, yet still finds room to appreciate it. I think it's because for so many couples on TV we get slow burns, which I love, but we didn't really get that for Calzona they jumped quite quickly into their relationship. I also appreciate the fact that both Arizona and Callie are much more mature in this episode, it really shows.
@suzelaineschwab3469 Жыл бұрын
I love this scene so much!! Callie deserves so much better
@spginger48744 жыл бұрын
Calzona was my main ship, but I knew it was over the second Arizona cheated
@marianida.e.desantores96175 жыл бұрын
go Callie Torres ❤
@cyntanaa2 жыл бұрын
I don’t understand why Arizona didn’t go therapy from the beginning ? She definitely needed it, if she did all of this would have been avoided. I’m so happy for Callie, she did nothing but put Arizona first from agreeing to not having children, to agreeing to go Africa then Arizona leaving her at the airport, car crash, losing mark and nearly losing her wife, being emotional abused by her wife then cheated on. Sorry Callie has been through alot and not once did she think about herself.
@Jenniferrr4447 жыл бұрын
Broke my heart
@vexylrei34068 жыл бұрын
They are destined for each other, I hope that when they are dating new people they finally realise that they can't live without each other.
@emma2208h9 жыл бұрын
Oh no! I hope they reconnect some way and soon! !!
@GeorgiaHelenaMoran133 жыл бұрын
This scene gave me the courage to finally leave my toxic relationship. I owe this show so much. Finally time to love myself.
@himani_gosain3 жыл бұрын
The exact situation I am going through. Thanks for this
@cityboydanny17583 жыл бұрын
Arizona never deserved Callie
@nr301993 жыл бұрын
That part!!
@aliceeduardapaula35394 жыл бұрын
I FELT SO MUCH PAIN IN SARA (CALLIE) IN THIS EPISODE
@shannarattan8963 Жыл бұрын
Callie 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@li528ify5 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this
@cityboydanny17583 жыл бұрын
Marc was the only person Callie never had a problem with
@confusedhomosapien62313 жыл бұрын
Mark was her soulmate
@wendywendy8379 Жыл бұрын
Mark was the best!
@ThorOdinsonTMHiddenMonster9 ай бұрын
I think Marc and callie would've a better relationship
@jenperez.x3 жыл бұрын
Back then when I watched this scene I didn’t understand. I was so sad that they broke up. Now that I rewatch it I finally understand. You must love yourself in order to love someone else.
@meowchiiieeeeee4 ай бұрын
I know i am 9 years late but i understand Callie 😢 i cried a lot in their journey but this is the reality 💔 they tried so hard .. and i believed Callie deserves better. People all calling her out for acting like she is in the plane crash but the truth is she is just sympathetic towards her partner's feeling ,support and understand her even in her worst days due to PTSD and blaming her for that leg and worst she cheated , her reason is because lauren accepts or likes her for what she is now without realizing that Lauren knows her less than a week and disappear in the morning when she knows that Callie found out about it🤦 gosshhh .. her reasons ? I am not buying it
@susankoech4 жыл бұрын
Callie was like: Aighttt I'mma head out.
@katarinaclarion63515 ай бұрын
"i dont wanna do it anymore, i dont wanna fix it or fix us anymore.. maybe instead of loving you so hard .. i should be myself for awhile .. i should love me.." 😔🥺 callie's character is loving person but she gaves up for choosing herself.. callie deserves more.. slow clap for sara ramirez on this scene 👏👏
@yamilafredes8556 жыл бұрын
they're a beautiful and perfect couple!♡☆♡♡♡
@09spashley9 жыл бұрын
heart broken!!!!!!!!!!!
@nick-iy5qh6 жыл бұрын
callie didn’t deserve to be cheated on again!!!!! queen of being free of toxic arizona
@gardenhead9049 жыл бұрын
Huzzah!!! Finally they have broken up. I used to like the as a couple, but the last 2 seasons, yeesh! On to greener pastures and new love interests, these two had become the new Crowen.
@AnonymousAnonymous-xy9tz8 жыл бұрын
+gardenhead904 hey how about you shut your punk ass up ok. I have also lost a little calzona hope BUT I SURELY DONT HOPE THEY GO FUCK OTHER PEOPLE. I mean really. Calzona shippers are mourning, thats why we come to this episode. And you had to make your punkass comment like some little punkass. I hate you.
@Emma-in5dh4 жыл бұрын
Why is everyone cursing like first of all it was an opinion and I understand people are moarning but the reason I came to watch this is so I can comment that thank god they broke up because after Arizona cheated I hated her couldn’t look at her the same and remember this is my opinion you are aloud to disagree but not to tell me I’m wrong
@etherealsalad26983 жыл бұрын
I never liked Arizona and I always thought Callie deserved better... this was honestly such a beautiful moment where Callie finally realized that she was better off without her and I really wish they followed through with it and gave her a better love interest than P*nny lmao
@mystya77411 ай бұрын
Sometimes the truth has to be said... We all grow and sometimes even growing apart is best for everyone We all should focus on loving ourselves more that's were the healing is ❤ Because sometimes some things are better left broken 👏#Free#unconitionallyloveyou#BebetterDoBetter
@euphoria1862 жыл бұрын
see like the moment when you can kind of feel like callie isn’t crying cos she’s happy and like everything changes in that moment
@wendywendy8379 Жыл бұрын
Oh you all should see the lunatics pulling for Arizona to have custody of Sophia on that clip. I just had to remind them all how awful Arizona has been to Callie from the very beginning of their relationship. She never even wanted kids. Then she wanted to die after she lost her leg… Arizona didn’t think Sophia was worth fighting to live for then. She just wanted to hate on Callie and blame her for her leg, and hate her for not being on the plane, and use that as an excuse for cheating on her. Then go to this crappy therapist who gives them the worst advise and Arizona is all to eager to take what any sane person who really wants to save their marriage knows is crappy advice. There is a reason people tell married people to never go to bed angry at each other. This is that reason. Animosity stews and grows with each silent night. So 30 in a row… That was cruel and wrong of Arizona. And bad advice from a “marriage therapist.” It did give Callie the confidence to stand up for herself…finally! And I give the therapist no credit for that at all. Arizona is the reason their marriage ended and they even had to have joint custody of Sophia to begin with. Then she gets jealous of Callie for moving on with Penny. And takes custody of Sophia. Because she hasn’t hurt Callie enough and just can’t stand to let Callie go in with her life and take her child and be happy. No Arizona has to be selfish once again. I truly cannot stand how Arizona has always treated Callie! Arizona is just a rotten and selfish person.
@earlysunzetz7 ай бұрын
Arizona loves Sofia and called her her child before she was even born... I agree with a lot of Arizona slander but invalidating her as a mother isn't right. And tbh she deserved to win that custody battle. Sofia was her daughter too, and Callie was trying to make a huge change while assuming Arizona would just lie down and be ok with it.
@earlysunzetz7 ай бұрын
Arizona loves Sofia and called her her child before she was even born... I agree with a lot of Arizona slander but invalidating her as a mother isn't right. And tbh she deserved to win that custody battle. Sofia was her daughter too, and Callie was trying to make a huge change while assuming Arizona would just lie down and be ok with it.
@LoneAries772 жыл бұрын
one of the best moments in greys.
@GamerxC-xo2jt7 жыл бұрын
It hurts
@Emma-in5dh4 жыл бұрын
“Your the only one I want” girl don’t even like you cheated on her with someone else so the only one you want really sis don’t
@helora10393 жыл бұрын
period
@aliceeduardapaula35394 жыл бұрын
A Callie encenou tão bem nesse episódio. Senti que ela estava triste de verdade, aí...
@boxcatorce7 жыл бұрын
this episode was told by the two of them. right? cuase I think I hear Arizona's voice in some scenes and Callie's in others. Am I wrong?
@catys.m91083 жыл бұрын
No You are right
@rachelmontgomery33353 жыл бұрын
you can see how numb and done she is at the beginning
@loretonovoa49539 жыл бұрын
Quedé en coma inducido luego de ver a Sara Ramírez hablar :'( mi
@savannahverhalen81395 жыл бұрын
more than being stuck with someone who feels stuck
@thethebest32636 жыл бұрын
HEARTBREAKING
@biankasabau72904 жыл бұрын
Crying so hard
@fionajackson60366 жыл бұрын
my girlfriend just sent me this after breaking up, grrrr
@clauudia3236 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 ...I'm sorry
@serietvaddict86184 жыл бұрын
Fiona Jackson *respect left the chat*
@crystal8371 Жыл бұрын
Years later, just noticed that Arizona was wearing red 😭
@ThatWeirdoRightThere3 жыл бұрын
Good on Callie for choosing herself. Because truthfully that’s all Arizona ever really did, was think about herself. She spent so much time worrying about how she felt after losing her leg that she didn’t even stop think about what it was doing to Callie and Callie deserved better than that. Callie fought so hard to save their relationship and Arizona’s life while Arizona just spent all of that time being mad at her for trying to save her. Even with Arizona’s PTSD, Callie deserved more than just being her punching bag.
@katherinemuller32035 жыл бұрын
and... they still ended up together at NY
@Emma-in5dh4 жыл бұрын
They never made that clear
@himani_gosain3 жыл бұрын
I choose to be okay.
@munkayttaja6913 Жыл бұрын
Callie deserved better the second Arizona cheated. And Arizona deserves some bad karma
@sarahmjohnson70874 жыл бұрын
I know of mark was there he what is said to his best friend that you deserve better
@dianaa26913 жыл бұрын
i am so happy for callie. she finally choose her happiness. their relationship was becoming so toxic since arizona cheated on callie, and i honestly felt so happy for callie, they both deserve someone better for eachothers.
@MsJourneyfan9 жыл бұрын
According to Shonda, Callie & Arizona will begin relationships with other people in season 12. I think they'll get back together before the shows ends, though ...... at least that's what I hope for!
@matthewchan3635 жыл бұрын
If it's really true love then you wouldn't cheat on your partner and emotionally abuse her. Everything Callie does is put Arizona's best interest at heart. Even if the execution isn't perfect, none of it was Callie's fault. Callie did not break Arizona's leg, but she had the best interest at heart because she knew that Arizona's life was more valuable than just be a leg. Callie baby's Arizona for more than a year and in turn she gets emotionally abused. Callie is stressed out, burnt out and used her utmost effort to try and make Arizona happy yet Arizona continues to put Callie through an undeserving hell and cheats not once but 20 times. I understand, Arizona may feel that she doesn't want Callie to keep fixing things when others already see her as enough, but Callie sees Arizona as perfect and wants things better for Arizona - this is the reason Callie baby's her because she thinks of new bond with Arizona as true love.
@Emma-in5dh4 жыл бұрын
Amen sister
@braelynandrade3564 жыл бұрын
Arizona cheated once they were separated when she was with Leah
@teachabheya98714 жыл бұрын
I miss them
@franciscarolinahernandez38597 жыл бұрын
Shonda broke this...
@lilymartin26303 жыл бұрын
The most romantic divorce
@michellefavre8264 жыл бұрын
It's like you want a couple to be together and hate the writers for messing things up. But the way the story was going I actually cried of joy with Callie, you deserve better honey. Fuck Arizona P.s. I love the therapist's face. "Dammn"
@greysoncrack31593 жыл бұрын
Yesss and the therapist is just like “oh shit”
@wendywendy8379 Жыл бұрын
Worst. Therapist. Ever! Good for Callie though! Arizona has always been a jerk! That’s putting it mildly!
@bryannadavis18042 жыл бұрын
I am on Callie side because at the end of the day Arizona would not sleep with Callie for the longest time after the accident because she was scared and insecure about her leg but then immediately jumped in to bed with someone she didn’t even know like Callie had the right to not wanna do it anymore once a cheater always a cheater
@Key-ps2iy Жыл бұрын
Once a liar always a liar. Once an insulter always an insulter. Once a judger always a judger etc. You are not even one nanometer better than Arizona, you are full of dirt like every human. Only God is good and without his grace we keep doing dirty stuff. Just don’t speak
@Mravobike3 жыл бұрын
That therapist looked super unimpressed and awkward lol
@Alchewand9 ай бұрын
Anyone else recognize that the therapist is the teacher from thats so raven
@earlysunzetz7 ай бұрын
also the local mechanic from gilmore girls and veronica's obgyn in shameless lol