Calzona - "I don't think it was a mistake"

Arizona: Oh! Thank God! You came!
Callie: I've been wishing you hadn't told me, and that we could go back to our life, to being happy. Except we weren't...happy. At least you weren't, and so we do things, like have sex with other people.
Arizona: Callie, I made a mistake. One mistake and..
Callie: Yeah...I don't think it was a mistake. I've been picturing you screwing that woman, over and over again, and I can't think about it or talk about it anymore. I'm all done with that for right now. So, I'm not going into that room. But I think you should. I think you need to.
Arizona: No! Please, I really need to talk. I really need you to do this.
Callie: I know. You wore the red dress and everything.
The best Calzona scenes are the saddest ones, right? This scene broke my heart into million peaces, it was so painful to watch it, and yet, it has become one of my favorites Calzona scenes ever - how is that even possible??!! :'(

[@bubbabri1]

I think I've figured it out. Callie likes red and likes seeing Arizona in red. Think about it.The dresses Callie described as cute that they wore to Miranda's wedding-RED..when Arizona showed Callie her new prosthetic leg she wore a white t-shirt and RED panties..and when Arizona surprised Callie in the bedroom she was wearing a RED teddy. Arizona knows Callie likes her in red and that's why she picked out that particular dress which makes this scene even more poignant and sad. :(

[@Manupgirls]

You cant truly love someone else if you drop your pants for someone else. Cheating is NOT a mistake, its a Choice!

[@hannacal8347]

Facts ! If you really love someone you never cheat on him

[@shanaparrilla978]

Facts

[@brightdaysaheadofUs]

Except when you have PTSD.

[@shanaparrilla978]

@@brightdaysaheadofUs still not an excuse

[@emmalovesyourdog]

@@brightdaysaheadofUs picture this -arizona : i have really bad ptsd and should talk to my therapist or fricking wife also arizona: Frizk therapy let’s cheat on my wife

[@MiAtheRED]

I agree with Callie. It wasn't a mistake. Arizona wanted it. Almost always, consequences are not given a second thought when it comes to temptation, otherwise LESS people would fall into it.

[@emilie9281]

Amen!

[@renaorgan3873]

i’m a lot late to this but i think it’s like the situation where owen cheated on cristina to hurt her back. Callie hurt Arizona so Arizona hurt her back in the worst way possible

[@MiAtheRED]

rena organ it’s things like that that kill relationships. But I can understand wanting to hurt someone the way they hurt you. I don’t think Callie hurt Arizona on purpose. Callie had to make the call to save Arizona’s life by amputating her leg even though she promised she wouldn’t. This is a different kind of hurt. I’m not sure this is what you meant when you said Callie hurt Arizona.

[@MiAtheRED]

rena organ and you’re never too late. I’m still around. 😅

[@renaorgan3873]

MiAtheRED that’s what i meant. to arizona,callie hurt her by breaking that promise, and it also could’ve been a matter of ptsd.

[@donnahaynes138]

"Callie, we agreed to couple's therapy." "Yeah, we agreed to a lot of things, so..."

[@bubbabri1]

Just look at how Callie's face changes and lights up when she replied to Arizona's "I need you to do this" with "I know and you wore the red dress and everything" Sigh.....that said it all

[@h1a1n1n1a1h]

This is a perfect scene, it wasn't a mistake and Arizona going to therapy alone for a while is a good thing. She has to work on her anger about her leg before her and Callie can work on their marriage

[@leilanimartinez8903]

Hannah!!! Well put

[@karkayelee7290]

aside from the plot, i must say the acting is really good. every facial expression, sentence or word that came out fit the emotions so well u could feel the heartbreak in the air. callie's love towards Arizona is literally overflowing but she knows Arizona needs help. but overall these 2 are amazing actresses.

[@spashley4lyf]

I think Callie finally gets why Arizona cheated. She said "but I think you should". She needs counseling , she clearly has PTSD . I really hope they work it out :(

[@bagpuss121]

But By The Time Callie Finally Realised Why Arizona Cheated It Was Too Late And The Damage Was Done . And Telling Arizona That She Needs Counseling The Way She Did Was Not The Right Way To Do It .

[@elicruz8174]

@@bagpuss121 why did exactly Arizona cheat?

[@slb12345vrs]

PTSD doesn't make you cheat

[@renslowcestdefinitivementpasmo]

She cheated because she was angry at her wife, horny and lady doctor was pretty and gave her attention, not ptsd. She needs to go to therapy for her issues.

[@hannahstepney]

How the hell could Arizona have cheated if she loved Callie as much as she did, and then beg to make it work afterwards? Sure, it could've been a mistake and she's trying to fix that, but you have a kid together. The father is dead. It's up to you two to raise her.

[@Emma-in5dh]

Right

[@btsarmyzona8541]

If it were me, I would’ve left her the moment that she told Callie that she didn’t loose anything in the plane crash. Arizona lost a leg, boohoo, but she survived. Callie literally lost her best friend, the father of their daughter. He is dead, and is never coming back. Sofia will grow up fatherless, remembering him only through pictures and stories. That is a spit in the face not only to Callie, but also to Sofia. Arizona said it was a mistake but they can move one, but she has to remember that George cheated on Callie when they were married. Arizona never stopped and thought how her actions would make Callie feel. And Lauren, my god, I can’t even start with her. It’s okay to lose control. She tells that to a married woman, one that should be untouchable. She destroyed a once happy family.

[@elladiedka4933]

Oh Shonda, please fix this! My heart is breaking. There is so much love between them! Great screenplay!

[@NaddieThePrincess]

This is probably one of the most objective views on Calzona, since Arizona cheated. It was never about hurting Callie, it was about finding a way to get out of that zone of numbness Arizona was in, for so long. However, the question remains, whether Arizona will be able to get back to her old self, or she'll end up unable to repair the damage. I think that they deserve a happy ending, but it's gonna be a long and bumpy ride for them.

[@gracethomas4167]

@@braelynandrade9759 Arizona’s side of this is correctly stated above, but callie’s isn’t. She was experiencing caretaker burnout, coping with Arizona’s changes as well as the loss of mark. Arizona’s need to get away from the numbness really hurt and numbed Callie.

[@siobhan_7386]

'I've been wishing you hadn't told me' ... except she never did... she left you to figure it all out for yourself :///

[@xgabriela3]

+callie grey damn don't hold back, hun. lmao but yeah she never did but the look on Arizona's face said it all when Callie found out.

[@damia.5974]

Gabriela fr

[@serenityrodriguez5305]

I like Callie noticed little facts about her and just stared at her as if she was her whole world and then it fell apart

[@danidev8981]

Arizona keeps thinking that she is victim and always brings up the leg

[@Certifiedkaee]

Frrr acting like callie didn't lose her best friend and that sofia didn't lose her dad

[@khfan4life365]

"Whoa...bitch." *cracks woman's wrist back to the correct place*

[@erialccrasher8073]

khfan4life365 Wish that's how we do things to just go back from it's normal place before the deformity.

[@chrisbecker4412]

Sorry for the fake patient's injury, but honestly, that sounded cathartic for Callie 😂

[@ldawn2]

Real love is letting that person go to find herself they will never be the same but they will find each other again. The plane crash broke something in arizona an callie knows she is the only one that can repair it even though Arizona does not know this yet

[@nilamarni6638]

cheating is a choice, not a mistakes

[@rico3916]

no second chances for cheaters 🥰 go callie

[@nr30199]

@ 0:15 Kepner's like see what you started😂

[@lillyess385]

Couple's therapy after cheating is pointless. It only traumatizes the cheated party more and gives the cheater to make excuses.

[@3019nene]

Their issues aside. I just need 22yrs of all the music Grey's played. Whoever was in charge of that on the show was the real star. They did not miss!😀

[@sourcherryprincess]

That is so true, cheating is NOT a smart choice especially if you see it in a sitcom. That’s what confused me about the storyline. I don’t know what Shonda was thinking adding that brutal custody scene Callie should have won full custody of her daughter after she found out Arizona cheated on her. I know she cares for her child more than her ex wife. I really think Arizona was over exaggerating after she had no choice but to lose her leg. Callie wasn’t trying to ruin her life and no she didn’t abandon her to go on a trip. What people were saying in the comments they’re being delusional.

[@BlueAcaraify]

Ouch! My heart!! :(

[@Maryfamouslady]

Thank you! And thank you for posting those vids, never stop :)

[@jhemdaang7241]

the hardest scene to watch ;(

[@elladiedka4933]

Can you proof it or is it just a feeling? It drives me crazy. Even 10x05 had a heart breaking moment of them!

[@ladysoreal]

Definitely Agree!

[@siobhan_7386]

Anyone else think arizona should’ve worn the blue dress?? To match her eyes

[@yingyang212]

this was heartbreaking to see them like that but i am afraid this will be the end of Calzona well Shonda Has what she wants a break up by the most populair and loving lesbian couple in tv history. this is hoping not turning Callie in to man again.

[@Maryfamouslady]

Can't stop watch this scene.. Btw what's the song? Thnk

[@Maryfamouslady]

"But I think you should" ....

[@bubbabri1]

I need to know what is the significance of the red dress.

[@trishiagorgoya1328]

What the title of the song

[@thisnigerianlovesdrinkingg4522]

April has gorgeous hair 0:33 0:39

[@firdaousphoenix2038]

What's da name of the song in the background ?

[@andreaangulo1879]

Firdaous Phoenix John Legend's You and I

[@LyssaJo-dw3mx]

Love how some people are calling Arizona a horrible person for cheating when almost EVERY SINGLE CHARACTER has cheated at some point in the show 🤣 Edit: I’m not condoning her actions at all. However, I don’t think it’s fair to hate a character in this show for that reason since the writers are known for making the characters cheat for the sake of drama (which is such a lazy plot device imo)

[@ismaelleal7314]

What episode?

[@ladysoreal]

Definitely Agree

[@jca_002]

What season/ep is thhis

[@Emma-in5dh]

11 I think

[@amuletteastynomia2571]

was this after the 90 days of silence? or before?

[@juicyjuicee1658]

This was before

[@bagpuss121]

It Was 30 Days With No Talking Or Intimacy Or Sex Of Any Kind With Anyone .

[@maureenavilia208]

This was after 30 days coz I remember Mer and Callie had the same thing of put a brave face despite our spouse not taking to us, Mer and Derek were doing the same thing but for them Maggie came in and they broke their rule by having sex while showering coz maggie was coming for dinner

[@palakmadan2]

I was wondering that too..

[@palakmadan2]

T'awwww!

[@ICS010465]

That is real love

[@sineadk2883]

So much hair in this....WTF if you're not going to wear a hair net at least tie it back 😁😆😅

[@Queen.Sindel]

Ok so whos the other woman she slept with?

[@treelord8813]

violet erin lol

[@leilanimartinez8903]

Dr. Boseman. I think I spelled her name right

[@laurenamaya2024]

@@leilanimartinez8903 Boswell

[@hkfljj9462]

this is the end of Callie and Arizona???

[@lisag2814]

This is the moment callie messed...arizona was trying

[@mehrnoushrm4112]

Lisa G callie tried too but arizona cheated so she has ever right to not want to go back to that relationship

[@Emma-in5dh]

Lisa G was Arizona trying when she cheated or threw tantrums about her leg and I get it it’s hard but she did it to save you life not as a joke

[@maureenavilia208]

Callie was trying then Arisona went ahead and slept with an intern Leah so Callie had a right to walk away she was hurting plus arizona needed to work on herself after the plane crush

[@renslowcestdefinitivementpasmo]

In the words of our great Diva Jojo "sometimes it's just too little too late". Especially when you cheated on the woman who's been working her ass off the take care of your daughter and you alone, despite you acting very rude and ungrateful.

[@mimish3315]

Trying after cheating and mistreating Callie? how noble of her, that means she must be forgiven 😄

[@hanbella5665]

Arizona,u won't happy anymore bcoz ur ex need a happy lives without a liar like u

[@ladysoreal]

Definitely Agree!