Can A Woman Help A Mother-Enmeshed Man To Break Away From His Mother?

[@oliverjrcooper]

Enmeshment - How To No Longer Be Attracted To A Mother-Enmeshed Man - www.amazon.com/Enmeshment-How-Longer-Attracted-Mother-Enmeshed/dp/B0DGX8RBS7

[@iamaliveyoucantstopnow]

short answer: NO

[@oliverjrcooper]

I'm curious, @iamaliveyoucantstopnow, how did you come to that conclusion?

[@loreleiletslivetogether3767]

It’s best to date a man who is 100% available financially, emotionally and legally unencumbered. The gentleman should be living alone, ready willing and able to commit himself and take a woman into his home and make her his first priority, to bond with her to form a primary relationship. The Bible specifically mentions the man should leave his mother and the two should cleave together as flesh of one flesh.

[@M_SC]

Take a woman into his house? Ew. You should look for a marriage not a hotel

[@PassionateFlower]

​@M_SC Listen Cupcake, I know it might be really triggering for you sweety but the reality is that if you are a woman and you are not trying to date dusty bottom barrel men and you have marriage in mind then you will aim for a dude who has it all. There are billions of women on the planet who absolutely prioritize getting involved with a man who can provide stable housing over a man who can't and in a world full of inequality towards women including socioeconomic disadvantages and many hostile male dominated industries due to the patriarchy you can bet your last dollar there will always be women choosing to invest their time in a man with assets and homeownership to offer in addition to his love because it could mean the difference between her being homeless versus not homeless and so many women on the planet are more than willing to struggle way less by strategically investing their time, body, resources, and emotions into a man who can provide housing which also equates to a degree of protection for many otherwise financially vulnerable women. You don't have to like it sunshine. Thems just the facts😉💋✨️

[@oliverjrcooper]

Hello @loreleiletslivetogether3767, I wanted to reply to part of your comment. So, you said, "It’s best to date a man who is 100% available financially, emotionally and legally unencumbered." I agree, this is a good idea. However, the challenge is that if a woman had a depriving childhood and hasn't dealt with any of her early wounds, she is likely to be largely driven by unconscious forces. This hidden part of her will then cause her to be drawn to men who will allow her to replay her early experiences in the hope of finally receiving what she missed out on. This is why inner integration is so important. The first step, of course, is for a woman in this position to realise what is going on and that alone is a big step. After this, she can start to resolve her inner wounds.