Can divorced women easily find love again and is sexual market value a myth? Aliet and Zippy Okoth

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Lynn Ngugi

Lynn Ngugi

19 күн бұрын

The long-awaited debate is here🙏
On today’s episode Dr.Zippy Okoth and Unplugged author, Jacob Aliet debate on a high-value woman, a high-value man, sexual market value and why 90% of divorced women want 10% of high-value men who don’t want them plus whether men should raise children who are not theirs…..
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@user-yy9mt6kl3h
@user-yy9mt6kl3h 16 күн бұрын
There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all different. What makes one person content might not make another person content. But I've learned that there's always a way to fix things. Five years ago, my wife and I were facing divorce because of problems in our marriage, but we managed to resolve them. It was challenging, but we survived
@user-sk7kd8vs2w
@user-sk7kd8vs2w 16 күн бұрын
I get why what you're saying is important, and I honestly want to be happy as well. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart, I can't think of life without her; my love for her is deep. I really hope she comes back, and I'm fully committed to making it work. We've tried different methods, like therapy, to fix things
@user-yy9mt6kl3h
@user-yy9mt6kl3h 16 күн бұрын
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters
@user-sk7kd8vs2w
@user-sk7kd8vs2w 16 күн бұрын
Your advice is valued. I'll promptly look her up online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that pursuing this method will also lead to favorable outcomes for me; I deeply yearn for her.
@user-yy9mt6kl3h
@user-yy9mt6kl3h 16 күн бұрын
I promise you will not regret it
@rachaelkim843
@rachaelkim843 15 күн бұрын
@@user-sk7kd8vs2w .....Kindly do not wait for her to come back if you truly love her .......pursue her and fix issues..........if you have gone for therapy then its the right time to pursue...........just my thoughts.........Thanks
@isaacndirangu9259
@isaacndirangu9259 17 күн бұрын
Zippy Okoth is a classic example of uncooperative and masculine woman. She’s listening just to argue!
@veevivian8975
@veevivian8975 15 күн бұрын
Yes 😂
@Mzalendo2295
@Mzalendo2295 14 күн бұрын
Very true, emotions are in control.
@manuelmanuela420
@manuelmanuela420 13 күн бұрын
Women who like multicolored hair are very chaotic. I am very annoyed.
@wilsonnjuguna4976
@wilsonnjuguna4976 11 күн бұрын
No wonder she's divorced no man needs such big unreasonable woman
@francismurage895
@francismurage895 11 күн бұрын
​@@manuelmanuela420yes it's always a red flag( for lack of a different word)
@maryndinda1510
@maryndinda1510 14 күн бұрын
Am a doctor am 28yrs old with two children and I'll tell you the truth .........this man is 💯 facts....argue all u want but listen to this man young ladies....
@joylenekanyaris7567
@joylenekanyaris7567 13 күн бұрын
A doctor, not God.
@maryndinda1510
@maryndinda1510 12 күн бұрын
@@joylenekanyaris7567 I can never be God I reference Him too......
@Aly-be6rf
@Aly-be6rf 12 күн бұрын
It is indeed true. Majority can dispute but time shall tell
@isaacndirangu9259
@isaacndirangu9259 12 күн бұрын
A doctor at 28 with 2 kids….mmmmh, that math is not making sense!
@maryndinda1510
@maryndinda1510 12 күн бұрын
@@isaacndirangu9259 I won't argue with you about my credentials and my own life that I know am living....u r used to substraction maybe
@Faith-re2rh
@Faith-re2rh 16 күн бұрын
This guy is speaking facts..as a woman i am with him .I wish Zippy would argue with facts and not opinions.Alafu she interrupts alot
@cwy685
@cwy685 6 күн бұрын
I am a woman and I also agree with him.
@miyinzi
@miyinzi 18 күн бұрын
Matters of relationships are complex, and you need God’s guidance and favour. Human knowledge often contradicts itself, and each situation is unique. Only God can truly write your story. Many people today underestimate the power of prayer and serving God, leading them to make mistakes. By following biblical principles, such as avoiding sex before marriage and resisting lust, you can solve 99% of your problems. Trust in God's wisdom
@krystynaha2455
@krystynaha2455 18 күн бұрын
You're right
@petermacharia7171
@petermacharia7171 18 күн бұрын
💯
@cynthiaakinyi9829
@cynthiaakinyi9829 18 күн бұрын
Thanks for this...... It's very true......Its God that started marriage and only He has the blueprint.... For us who are single and have kids...we rely on God so that HE can rewrite our story...every story is unique every marriage is unique
@gatwirikinyua5694
@gatwirikinyua5694 18 күн бұрын
This is one of the most sane comment.
@marymbinya1895
@marymbinya1895 18 күн бұрын
💯💯
@yrimucollectionartanddesig2016
@yrimucollectionartanddesig2016 16 күн бұрын
Jacob Aliet is such a good listener, zero interruption and clarity of mind. .
@wycliffepoet5201
@wycliffepoet5201 17 күн бұрын
Jacob - stoic, factual, well spoken and researched. When he gave examples of men and women abroad zippy tried brushing that off by saying " Sema za Kenya" very shallow and evasive. Lynn- patient, good listener. Zippy- noisy, poor listener, all in her emotions.
@BKKM11
@BKKM11 9 күн бұрын
Exactly
@isaacmidega4879
@isaacmidega4879 8 күн бұрын
And laugh's like our village dog. Osama.
@mdmagubo1745
@mdmagubo1745 6 күн бұрын
Hahaa her laugh is so annoying
@deborahmoige2363
@deborahmoige2363 18 күн бұрын
He has facts but ladies we don't allow defeat .
@jamesodhiambo2370
@jamesodhiambo2370 17 күн бұрын
Very true
@mmkeya
@mmkeya 17 күн бұрын
"It is demand that determines the value of a product. A product cannot decide it is valuable and nobody wants it." Jacob Aliet. Wueh...!
@geraldinenduku2131
@geraldinenduku2131 16 күн бұрын
You can't trip this man! He knows his sh*t!
@tiberiusmaiko743
@tiberiusmaiko743 18 күн бұрын
This guy was very clear on his points those who use logic understand
@ExploringAfrica25
@ExploringAfrica25 17 күн бұрын
True but we cant get the whole point, our girl is really interrupting
@mlokole254
@mlokole254 16 күн бұрын
True, i noticed that. She felt attacked ​@@ExploringAfrica25
@KashKoala
@KashKoala 15 күн бұрын
The women think delulu is solulu
@ExploringAfrica25
@ExploringAfrica25 14 күн бұрын
@@KashKoala 😂 hatuna bahati kweli
@joyndungu4069
@joyndungu4069 17 күн бұрын
The ladies are really not giving the guy the opportunity to answer questions and i think , that's my opinion that he's trying to discuss facts and bitter truth that the older women negate though it's a fact.
@roseonama4202
@roseonama4202 14 күн бұрын
This guy doesn't want to see AR accept that men,in their 40s to60s especially Drinkers have Erectile dysfunction and can't satisfy a female who is at her wexual Peak at 35 plus..these women unlike the men don't need Vaiagra... they need 18 - 25 year Olds who have the energy to sexually satisfy them. This kind of male is insecure and goes with 20-25 year Olds to control them..these ARE WEAK MEN....Like this one 😅
@AbstractSurrealist
@AbstractSurrealist 12 күн бұрын
They are living in utopia. They don't want to agree to facts my friend Ndiko is trying to highlight. You are right with that observation.
@wewenanii8834
@wewenanii8834 10 күн бұрын
Well said
@samwelnjoroge6182
@samwelnjoroge6182 10 күн бұрын
This is true,they are just foolishly laighing ang ganging up on him
@incaseyoumissedit801
@incaseyoumissedit801 5 күн бұрын
"I'm waiting for the question" is the best caption so far. Zippy has no questions, just arguments
@wambuijoshua4847
@wambuijoshua4847 17 күн бұрын
This man is very kind with the advice, I wish women could take time and learn from him.
@boyka356
@boyka356 15 күн бұрын
Interacting with Zippy is equivalent to having a 12 hr job with no days off. EXHAUSTING.
@KateblessingJoe93
@KateblessingJoe93 17 күн бұрын
Aliet was interrupted too much. Lynn aki you dropped the ball on moderating.
@teresiahwachira1099
@teresiahwachira1099 17 күн бұрын
May be today she just decided let's talk change is good
@annem963
@annem963 12 күн бұрын
Very true! I was unable to watch to the end because of that.
@254tesoboy5
@254tesoboy5 8 күн бұрын
She is just feel offended I don't know why
@AlwaysOntop-cq1sn
@AlwaysOntop-cq1sn 17 күн бұрын
Women agree with Jacob 100% they want their sons and brothers that masculine, but not husbands?
@Tavernaccomodation
@Tavernaccomodation 11 күн бұрын
On point observation 💯
@becomingchannel9674
@becomingchannel9674 17 күн бұрын
If this is the woman they chose as their representative, I pity our women.
@denniskimani2824
@denniskimani2824 14 күн бұрын
I have seen young women complain on social media on how they get bullied by older women at work and now i understand why
@AlwaysOntop-cq1sn
@AlwaysOntop-cq1sn 17 күн бұрын
Oh my God, Lynn turned in the middle and it became a 2 Vs 1. Zippy asks questions she can't wait for answers she keeps interrupting, emotional!
@BethaMargaret
@BethaMargaret 17 күн бұрын
Lynn at some point forgot her role..to be neutral and moderate
@user-rx8in5gh6b
@user-rx8in5gh6b 17 күн бұрын
remember she s a mature divorced woman from 2 marriage, a ben10 type...very controlling. spreading the gospel of divorce
@carolkami.671
@carolkami.671 17 күн бұрын
💯
@Collins.K.Cheruiyot
@Collins.K.Cheruiyot 14 күн бұрын
​@@user-rx8in5gh6b😂😂
@Isabokeh
@Isabokeh 10 күн бұрын
Listening to this has been extremely exhausting. Thanks Aliet!
@timonoginga6316
@timonoginga6316 16 күн бұрын
Mr. Aliet nailed this. It was his show and he succeeded in terms of delivery, calmness, cool and confidence. Was willing to answer every question thrown at him but was often interrupted with new questions. Overall, a good show. Kudos to Zippy and Lynn as well.
@judysharon864
@judysharon864 15 күн бұрын
Next episode on high value men and women let's meet Aliet and Benjamin zulu.
@josephmwangi4417
@josephmwangi4417 6 күн бұрын
Benjamin zulu is just a kafukuswi
@monicalewisky4925
@monicalewisky4925 5 күн бұрын
​@@josephmwangi4417meaning ?
@edinahmokaya8347
@edinahmokaya8347 18 күн бұрын
I am a woman and I totally agree with Jacob. Zippy is taking it too personal, Jacob has points if you listen carefully. Lynn is getting the points better.
@bettyooko3727
@bettyooko3727 18 күн бұрын
I agree. Zippy needs to be a better listener. She needs to know that Aliet is not talking about her.
@ruthpeteh4958
@ruthpeteh4958 18 күн бұрын
Zippy is not patient
@fiddiggokirimi9630
@fiddiggokirimi9630 17 күн бұрын
Zippy needs not to take it personal, but listen to this guy's points.
@samuelkamau1044
@samuelkamau1044 17 күн бұрын
@@fiddiggokirimi9630 Fully agree with you. She need to calm down.
@AlwaysOntop-cq1sn
@AlwaysOntop-cq1sn 17 күн бұрын
Thank you Edinah Zippy is thinking Aliet is talking about her life. She is not listening
@kigg_welds
@kigg_welds 16 күн бұрын
i love the way lynn agrees with him when he makes a good point but the other one is really stuck on the age thing, she is defeanding her age
@njerimuturi353
@njerimuturi353 6 күн бұрын
😂😂
@Gorgeousij
@Gorgeousij 18 күн бұрын
Am on my way to sixth floor and get a divorce from my husband of over 30 years,looking forward to getting a partner and friend.
@ndondiafrika249
@ndondiafrika249 18 күн бұрын
trolling hehehehe lol
@TheRubymark
@TheRubymark 18 күн бұрын
All the best, may you find that partner and friend 🙏🏽
@engulfed4372
@engulfed4372 18 күн бұрын
Get cats😅
@stephenmutiso9498
@stephenmutiso9498 18 күн бұрын
Utangoja. Married for 30yrs which means your late 40's or 50's. Pride comes before a fall, Uour taking the course because kids have grown up.
@moseskariuki3752
@moseskariuki3752 17 күн бұрын
Heloo, delulu is that you? karibu, come in.
@Gatsiga
@Gatsiga 14 күн бұрын
I love Lynn shows but in this one she has failed to mute zippy ... the lady is interrupting left, right , center no no this not good..
@josephsturford
@josephsturford 10 күн бұрын
i second you, was taking notes every time Aliet speaks but Zippy ni nani? Akuna statement nimeandika full due to this interruptions.
@WorldStagee
@WorldStagee 17 күн бұрын
Lynn decided heels 👠 off. The good thing is you ladies didn't have wigs...they could have come off too. What a conversation! I really liked it.
@leahanitareddig
@leahanitareddig 18 күн бұрын
Giving birth at your 40 does not affect the ability or disability but lifestyle is what is affecting that. I have seen 50% of women who have given birth at 40 are very healthy
@shikuliz4134
@shikuliz4134 18 күн бұрын
Absolutely true asunta wangura is a good example of women who gave birth to healthy babies after forties
@damariszuckschwert9489
@damariszuckschwert9489 18 күн бұрын
My mum gave birth to our last born sister at 40. And she's the one ako more chopp kwa family. Advice zake zinazaaga matunda mazuri😅😅
@ndondiafrika249
@ndondiafrika249 18 күн бұрын
what happens to the other 50%?
@irenemugo9844
@irenemugo9844 18 күн бұрын
I’m 45 and have a 2 year old so can prove him wrong
@Hot_PlateMeals
@Hot_PlateMeals 18 күн бұрын
Amen
@fionaawuor1616
@fionaawuor1616 8 күн бұрын
Jacob is spewing wisdom every chance he gets, he is soo good at his craft. I wish all of us women would just listen to him and understand our values and place in the men's lives, all of us would be very happily married. What stands out from his points is that every woman is born with a value to protect, failure to do that expect the society to treat you without grace, it remains a scar to look at forever.
@annem963
@annem963 17 күн бұрын
You have to listen to understand and not to defend . Aliet is deep and factual ....and by the way am a lady.
@cynthiaakinyi9829
@cynthiaakinyi9829 18 күн бұрын
I like what Aliet is saying.... When you are dating you should check all these redflags and see... Get time to know this person
@wycliffepoet5201
@wycliffepoet5201 17 күн бұрын
I endorse Jacob ALIET'S message. 100%
@denisehaguma535
@denisehaguma535 17 күн бұрын
Of course most of African Man will endorse him
@wycliffepoet5201
@wycliffepoet5201 17 күн бұрын
​@@denisehaguma535because he's speaking facts
@aminayusuf3051
@aminayusuf3051 18 күн бұрын
This guy is talking a lot of sense but mnamshambulia sana kkkk
@kwamemiyai9512
@kwamemiyai9512 18 күн бұрын
Wueeee, liet kabisa🔥🔥...Aliet amechokora the 40 year old war veterans. Ladies he is stating facts, he is not throwing shade 😊
@phillipsidhojapap1461
@phillipsidhojapap1461 17 күн бұрын
Interesting conversation here.. though mnaingilia the man for giving very honest opinions. These are things we men keep to ourselves, but they define our interactions with women. So if you want to understand a man, listen to Jacob, whether you agree or not. Jacob handled himself excellently here, but the dr. is very defensive
@linetkamau658
@linetkamau658 17 күн бұрын
Aliet is very logical and has good points .However,one needs to listen to him without emotions to understand him since he airs views without filtering or political correctness (sic) which can be triggering to many .
@FelixAijah
@FelixAijah 15 күн бұрын
Good that you're able to see that. That mm means you're brilliant enought.
@mariahrop963
@mariahrop963 15 күн бұрын
Correct
@DanielGatheru-dn1fn
@DanielGatheru-dn1fn 14 күн бұрын
True
@paulkaranja9257
@paulkaranja9257 14 күн бұрын
If you are real, not AI, you are or will be a blessing to your husband and children. Generations after will speak highly of you.
@mercymutegi298
@mercymutegi298 18 күн бұрын
ALIETEEE,,,, I AM AT MY EARLY 40'S. THIS IS THE TIME I AM EMBRACING LIFE ALOT. EMOTIONAL, SPIRITUAL AND PHYSICAL LIFE. TO A WOMAN OF TODAY, LIFE IS SWEET AS SHE GROWS OLDER
@janetmusau3356
@janetmusau3356 17 күн бұрын
Very true My situation right now
@phillipsidhojapap1461
@phillipsidhojapap1461 17 күн бұрын
let us laugh for a moment.. you are older as a woman, you become more invisible to society
@joycewamuyu5660
@joycewamuyu5660 17 күн бұрын
​@@phillipsidhojapap1461what is the advantage of being seen..? Do you live for validations..?
@candidajamesa5650
@candidajamesa5650 17 күн бұрын
@@phillipsidhojapap1461 and that is not a bad thing.
@marymusanga2199
@marymusanga2199 17 күн бұрын
​@@phillipsidhojapap1461 Society that doesn't care.......it's better to enjoy life rather than be dictated by society and be miserable
@Kevin_acee
@Kevin_acee 15 күн бұрын
Any Wise Man will Listen to Mr Aliet.
@ndungugitahi1804
@ndungugitahi1804 14 күн бұрын
When you bring a butter knife to a gun fight. The guy is obliterating these old women with facts!
@petermuhoro1510
@petermuhoro1510 8 күн бұрын
"These old women" hahahaha
@footballarena8240
@footballarena8240 13 күн бұрын
Zippy argues to win
@rosemarymwangi7349
@rosemarymwangi7349 15 күн бұрын
Lynn bring a conversation on how women and men can live in harmony. No wars or no ego. I wonder when people will stop this man vs. woman narrative. It doesn't exist. Or when we will stop competing who is the worst gender or who commits the most sins. There's no competition, it's all in our heads. If you find love in a man or a woman good for you. If it doesn't work out or end up in divorce, that is not the end of life you should even clap for yourself you tried. If you don't find love, no one has ever died for not finding someone.
@mufunyiibrahim3655
@mufunyiibrahim3655 14 күн бұрын
It started with feminists
@rosemarymwangi7349
@rosemarymwangi7349 14 күн бұрын
Blaming who started what will not help. I don't support feminism I support humanism where every human being has fundamental human rights. And God hakuwa mjinga putting man and woman on the earth...
@Mzalendo2295
@Mzalendo2295 14 күн бұрын
@@rosemarymwangi7349 And remember God assigned duties and responsibilities to each gender. As long as men and women know their roles and lanes in relationships then that harmony will prevail. Indeed men and women are all human beings, but they are wired differently and biologically they are different.
@rosemarymwangi7349
@rosemarymwangi7349 14 күн бұрын
You are right. For a husband: love your wife as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her (Ephesians 5:25), He who loves his wife loves himself, Honor your wife, Understand your wife (1Peter 3. For a wife: Respect your husband, submit to your husband.
@rosemarymwangi7349
@rosemarymwangi7349 14 күн бұрын
And the keywords "wife and husband" not "woman and man" if a person is not your husband or wife, you owe them nothing of the above.
@ndungunahashon1759
@ndungunahashon1759 15 күн бұрын
Zippy is simply messaging women who have lost their way and misleading them even more, unlike Jacob who is ready to approach this topic in a pragmatic way, theres a lot to learn from Jacob.
@julieotieno5800
@julieotieno5800 17 күн бұрын
Actually Aliet is making a lot of sense if you listen to understand... ladies it's a fact men are logical by nature.
@moseskariuki3752
@moseskariuki3752 18 күн бұрын
You can tell that the ladies felt the masculine presence ,their body language ,eagerness to engage,keenness to his responses says it all,also i lost count of the number of times that zippy heartily laughed which is also indicative of the masculine musk that she was inhaling.
@dorisgakii6926
@dorisgakii6926 17 күн бұрын
🤣🤣🤣Aalaaaaar!!!
@cherylachieng1478
@cherylachieng1478 4 күн бұрын
Hizi ni nini sasa😂😂
@sallyandrews17
@sallyandrews17 18 күн бұрын
It's not the skills of marketing that matters but the quality of what is marketing.
@AC-fp6mx
@AC-fp6mx 17 күн бұрын
This Zip woman does not listen, she may need a young man to control but when he grows old she will divorce him. I think she does not know what she wants, the problem is that she is confusing many people🤔
@teresiahwachira1099
@teresiahwachira1099 17 күн бұрын
But to be sincere zippy is good it's the confidence for me well empowered when u have it all don't allow this people to undermine shins ndio hufanya wengine wakunje mkia
@ngugi5444
@ngugi5444 14 күн бұрын
Leave a man to respond, why ask him and then interrupt him when he wants to answer your questions. This lady Zippy thinks she's wise & strong but I think she's just argumentative . She's using this show to justify herself from bullying men.
@shift7522
@shift7522 18 күн бұрын
Let the man finish two sentences yawah
@MariamaGNP
@MariamaGNP 18 күн бұрын
What Mr Aliet is saying is true about women not being respectful to themselves. Most of the time people are infidel to themselves without knowing they are. We practice infidelity to ourselves first. Like, when we have all these qualities we are looking for in a relationship and when someone comes up to us that doesn't even fit to those qualities, we go in and start having relationship with the person and then the relationship does'nt work out. That is cheating on ourselves. Because we went in at first hoping the person will change. And when the relationship doesn't work we turn to be disappointed. 😊
@cn-yg6vf
@cn-yg6vf 6 күн бұрын
Men cheat on themselves by getting with women based on looks only, I agree with you
@KateblessingJoe93
@KateblessingJoe93 17 күн бұрын
Zippy's arguments are anecdotal. People she's seen heard etc. Aliet is pointing to scientific research.
@blackmanimage
@blackmanimage 15 күн бұрын
I agree, she was not the right person for this convo
@LennieMuriithi
@LennieMuriithi 18 күн бұрын
Haki Lynn it's like am studying this channel like a subject, sijui graduation ni lini. Very educative.
@kawiramurega
@kawiramurega 18 күн бұрын
Lynn I really waited for this to be aired, I knew these two together itakuwa fireeeee😅 Ngoja saa nisikize.
@dianakarumbiofficial4765
@dianakarumbiofficial4765 18 күн бұрын
Kama Lyne ametoa viatu i agree the house is on fire. This two guests of today are firely men!!!!
@nyusozanairobi8749
@nyusozanairobi8749 17 күн бұрын
Men? 🤣 😂
@translationafrica2629
@translationafrica2629 18 күн бұрын
Thank you Zippy for bringing in some great perspectives into this conversation
@thekenyancomment254
@thekenyancomment254 18 күн бұрын
We need more men like Aliet who are standing up for men with very brutal honesty
@translationafrica2629
@translationafrica2629 18 күн бұрын
No No he is delusional 😅😅just his opinions
@Kevin_acee
@Kevin_acee 18 күн бұрын
True
@AmazingConnie
@AmazingConnie 18 күн бұрын
@@translationafrica2629 😂😂😂...naaa you didn't have to say this
@charitykalulu
@charitykalulu 18 күн бұрын
Enjoyed the conversation, learned alot fr both angles
@phillipsidhojapap1461
@phillipsidhojapap1461 17 күн бұрын
@@translationafrica2629 a woman thinking a man is delusion.. can't be a coincidence
@melankoli1225
@melankoli1225 18 күн бұрын
I've never seen a man who takes accountability, they always evil deeds, and always blame women. Right from relatives
@joab0boge957
@joab0boge957 17 күн бұрын
I picked nothing from Dr Masculine Zipi.. just laughing at her own jokes. Aliet gave verifiable facts
@daniellouis8722
@daniellouis8722 17 күн бұрын
I've never seen women take accountability
@phillipsidhojapap1461
@phillipsidhojapap1461 17 күн бұрын
@@daniellouis8722 they don't.. hata hawazi apologize akiwa wrong
@BKKM11
@BKKM11 9 күн бұрын
Women are the worst at not taking accountability. It is always a man's fault.
@karlimotv9480
@karlimotv9480 14 күн бұрын
I like the calmness in Aliet. This is a trait I should cultivate especially when dealing with ladies
@the1kenyanetertainer
@the1kenyanetertainer 10 күн бұрын
It's not easy as they are yapping too much and not giving him a chance to explain his thoughts
@kijanayaaput8940
@kijanayaaput8940 9 күн бұрын
It is demand that determines the value of a product. A product can't decide that its valuable if nobody wants it😂...
@omarsakwa-zs2zy
@omarsakwa-zs2zy 18 күн бұрын
Lynn ngugi has plugged me to you dama..am watching from santorine Greece 🇬🇷
@MagomaOkongo
@MagomaOkongo 17 күн бұрын
I understand Mr. Aliet. He is reserved in mentioning outright that young spring chicken ladies should use their green femininity to lock down a well framed and high value man who can take care of her in all aspects as she desires.
@patriciaembenzange9978
@patriciaembenzange9978 18 күн бұрын
This Jacob guy really contradicts himself. I'm glad I listened.
@the1kenyanetertainer
@the1kenyanetertainer 10 күн бұрын
Women will always see the wrong in the right due to their contradicting self
@Becky370
@Becky370 18 күн бұрын
Karibu nichelewe 🏃🏃🏃just tuned in right now ✅ we gonna learn more here! Good morning everyone watching ❤
@rachealwambari4451
@rachealwambari4451 18 күн бұрын
Weuwe....This conversation take away...differing without personally attacking
@cecilianduguta8241
@cecilianduguta8241 18 күн бұрын
The man is talking truth. Give him chance ladies.
@AlwaysOntop-cq1sn
@AlwaysOntop-cq1sn 17 күн бұрын
Thank you at least someone said it
@carolkami.671
@carolkami.671 17 күн бұрын
Yes Indeed, I too find that the ladies are talking more than listening..
@cecilianduguta8241
@cecilianduguta8241 17 күн бұрын
@carolkami.671 like they are are not listening to understand. They are listening to respond . It's kinda........
@CelebrityBuzzKenya
@CelebrityBuzzKenya 17 күн бұрын
Lynn I love how you listen first...you are a good listener which makes you very good at understanding both sides perspective
@candidajamesa5650
@candidajamesa5650 18 күн бұрын
This conversation has been engaging. Beautiful work LNN network.
@danielchulu2198
@danielchulu2198 18 күн бұрын
Jacob has a different way of looking at things, not the usual way but factual
@thebogonkos
@thebogonkos 18 күн бұрын
I like how aliet is calm and composed. Reading his book is one of the best things that has ever happened to me. Slowly unplugging
@Itsmeagain00
@Itsmeagain00 17 күн бұрын
Keep going bro,that book changed my life for the better. Also read 50 memos to men by Silas Nyanchwani. You will be a boss!!
@thebogonkos
@thebogonkos 17 күн бұрын
​@@Itsmeagain00 I will definitely check it out. Thanks man
@nellyndambo7633
@nellyndambo7633 18 күн бұрын
Just tuned in to learn more Nawapenda bure Team Lynn❤ Stay blessed always
@NsubugaLatifah
@NsubugaLatifah 18 күн бұрын
I was patiently waiting this wonderful people now here we’re ✍️✍️✍️✍️✍️
@waziliumali5729
@waziliumali5729 16 күн бұрын
One thing I liked about the guy called Aliet is the listening skill, he was listening to what women were saying in that conversation, but when it comes to his time yhoo!! It was ambush. At some point it was no longer a conversation but interrogation even Lynn forgot that she's a moderater.
@GoodBoyKE
@GoodBoyKE 18 күн бұрын
Hey doctor, give Lynn her chance to ask her questions and don’t interrupt her
@crispinlukalia560
@crispinlukalia560 17 күн бұрын
Good stuff Aliet .. am following you straight up!
@oguta_254
@oguta_254 17 күн бұрын
Aliet arguments are based on biological reality while zippy n lynn arguments are based on perception 😂😂❤
@joylenekanyaris7567
@joylenekanyaris7567 12 күн бұрын
Biology is man made
@BKKM11
@BKKM11 9 күн бұрын
​@@joylenekanyaris7567since when? You don't grow old because you want to but because God made it so. May be you have another definition of biology.
@josphine254
@josphine254 18 күн бұрын
Personally I can't deal with a man like Aliet! Those who can, go for it! Salute to the wife! She has extra energy. Good day all
@TheRubymark
@TheRubymark 18 күн бұрын
You and I both. It’s just exhausting….wueh!
@20minutesKE
@20minutesKE 18 күн бұрын
😂 😂 😂
@suenderi5835
@suenderi5835 18 күн бұрын
Ata Mimi wueh 🙈 The Negativity towards Women Siwezani....
@Kate_benard
@Kate_benard 18 күн бұрын
Was wondering if he is married until I saw the ring.....it is exhausting!
@maryannemutheu1172
@maryannemutheu1172 18 күн бұрын
Same whatsapp group !
@christinenzioki4588
@christinenzioki4588 18 күн бұрын
Please don't mislead young women. She will rush and get married at 22-25 years then realize that baby will need sustenance for the next 18 years till they finish school. Aliet himself wouldn't allow his daughter to run after men because she is 22-25 years. Please women settle down when you are financially stable
@ayuma4747
@ayuma4747 18 күн бұрын
On this point he needs Zulu to show him the way😂
@carolmacharia7248
@carolmacharia7248 18 күн бұрын
​@@ayuma4747He really needs Zulu
@user-sn1pn8um7g
@user-sn1pn8um7g 18 күн бұрын
Zulu is really needed in this show
@clareshiko8550
@clareshiko8550 18 күн бұрын
Benjamin Zulu please
@Wakio231
@Wakio231 18 күн бұрын
Jacob is very controversial 😂
@davidkihara2912
@davidkihara2912 18 күн бұрын
Very interesting conversation...Well done!
@evanceawino8748
@evanceawino8748 18 күн бұрын
Dear Aliet, Thank you for representing the men well and it was a nice class for Zippy. Am sure she has changed her ways. Most men in their 40s are cheats because when they were young and broke, most young women rejected them. At 25, no woman looked their way. Now, at 40, he is a lot more financially capable, but love and monogamy dont matter to him because he has a skewed and commercialized view of relationships due to past experience as a young and broke man. He goes after every woman he can afford, and sadly, money fetches women. He never stays faithful because it is a reckless mission of retaliation for him. The Older women get heartbroken; they cry and lament, but it is a vicious circle. The younger woman is on a daunting journey of finding rich and faithful love, but most men don't think that way. Quite qranted, most men stay loyal to women who contributed to their wealth. A rich man will see you(a broke woman) like another item he can purchase; a man you have no significant contribution on his success put you at a disadvantage...it is a risk if you are chasing true love.
@ichooseviolence2532
@ichooseviolence2532 12 күн бұрын
I couldn't have said it better. Sai hawatutaki coz we are broke but believe me nitakuwa mbabaz and revenge is a must 💯%
@AlwaysOntop-cq1sn
@AlwaysOntop-cq1sn 18 күн бұрын
3hours oh damn! I am sorted for the evening. Let me listen to Aliet ooze wisdom.
@noahamolo5364
@noahamolo5364 18 күн бұрын
Great respectful debate. Well done. We need more such debates. When we listen to each other even if we have different perspectives we learn from each other. We have become very used to listening to opinions that reinforce our own beliefs and such debates where we talk to each other about our differences are healthy.
@dailymotivationvideo5359
@dailymotivationvideo5359 4 күн бұрын
100 percent true, I go with this guy from the previous show, not because am a man but true men don't like argument regardless of their status and ladies should not know this, they have to believe.. Jacob my guy next show should be given 80 percent on air,
@cantoncornel6948
@cantoncornel6948 15 күн бұрын
Great conversation but Lynn next time if you are the host or moderator don't be carried away and bacome a debater too ,yes you can ask questions but on this there's a time it appeared you were ganging up against Aliet ,Dr Zippy asks a question before Aliet can answer you interrupt him with another question or argument ,however much the topic might be emotive ,just try to kill that urge of joining in as a debater too,anyway nice debate with lots of great insight from all of you
@jaelmulovi1615
@jaelmulovi1615 17 күн бұрын
There's no formula in life, love yourself and choose happiness.
@selinaonyang0895
@selinaonyang0895 16 күн бұрын
I agree with you
@Kevin_acee
@Kevin_acee 15 күн бұрын
There is formula.
@Mzalendo2295
@Mzalendo2295 14 күн бұрын
There is no single formula, but why take a path on which most of the people who have used rarely reach their destination. I'd rather take that route on which most people who used it reached their destinations.
@DIon..Godismyshield
@DIon..Godismyshield 13 күн бұрын
Correct Jael ❤
@gerishomwafula5899
@gerishomwafula5899 9 күн бұрын
Is that not formula? Delulu
@catherineerick6232
@catherineerick6232 18 күн бұрын
Aliet In Marriage Accountability is a driving Value that is where trust is build , wuestions must be expected and they must be answered, that is part of Leadership with Responsibility
@Guled3
@Guled3 17 күн бұрын
Lynn, the sofas and interior decor is amazing 👏
@InspiredCreators
@InspiredCreators 11 күн бұрын
Lynn you're a gem thanks for having this conversation
@gakahuruko2331
@gakahuruko2331 18 күн бұрын
Zippy is interrupting a lot. can't let the man give his points.
@happiness_713
@happiness_713 17 күн бұрын
She's not a good listener....
@the1kenyanetertainer
@the1kenyanetertainer 10 күн бұрын
She has no qualities of someone to teach others
@judykalama6447
@judykalama6447 17 күн бұрын
Hi Lynn I didn't see this coming let me sit and enjoy they are all brilliant 😊❤
@omarsakwa-zs2zy
@omarsakwa-zs2zy 18 күн бұрын
Lynn..the show is fire,Dr zippy n Jacob 👞 shoes matching, congrats 👏
@sharonayere9010
@sharonayere9010 18 күн бұрын
I have enjoyed the show. Well done ladies and gentleman.
@madamwakesho
@madamwakesho 18 күн бұрын
When we divorced now with my ex-hubby, whom we had wedded in church, he was all over tarnishing my name. He played victim and tarnished my name at the slightest opportunity he got. I was quiet all through. This is a man whom I took care of. Took care of his business, I paid all the bills, i fed him , clothed him, etcetcetc. So I disagree with this man totally. Most men today have no chills. They are big babies who want to be kept by women while they lay their lazy asses at home.
@simonjomo9122
@simonjomo9122 18 күн бұрын
😂 this is interesting.....you entertain nonsense for years then come here to say most men nyenyenye...kwani you were married to how many men?....a sober woman in your situation would have walked out as soon as the man started dropping the ball....but sasa ulikwama apo ukijifanya bob the builder then, then suffer buyer's remorse after suffering through bs of your own making then come out here saying "men, this..men that".....your poor choice of a spouse is your own fault....not mens
@Shukamimana
@Shukamimana 18 күн бұрын
Sorry sis but u were dealing with a feminine man 🤫
@lilianchybire9610
@lilianchybire9610 18 күн бұрын
I hope you learnt, why would you be Barbara the the Builder? Women do the most and need to stop and see, when a relationship is not going anywhere and call it a day. Pole lakini.
@madamwakesho
@madamwakesho 18 күн бұрын
@lilianchybire9610 I sure learnt. And teaching it too.
@perismkala4275
@perismkala4275 18 күн бұрын
@madamwakesho we all have our past the good thing is you learnt and now you know better... it's your story and don't let people judge you by your past ❤
@love_nikita27
@love_nikita27 18 күн бұрын
Not me trying so hard not to roll my eyes every time Jacob is speaking.☠️ Anyway if more people understood our assignment on Earth is being in a relationship with God, I think our relationships with each other would be beautiful.
@fnyaruhanga
@fnyaruhanga 18 күн бұрын
Mine a rolling seizure style😂
@love_nikita27
@love_nikita27 18 күн бұрын
@@fnyaruhanga 😂😂😂 I can imagine.
@becomingchannel9674
@becomingchannel9674 17 күн бұрын
How can you claim to have a relationship with God if you can't have a relationship with a brother you can see and touch 😢
@love_nikita27
@love_nikita27 17 күн бұрын
@@becomingchannel9674 I just don't agree with most of what Jacob is saying. That's all.
@abbychepkosgei5766
@abbychepkosgei5766 16 күн бұрын
This is deep ❤
@deniskinyua6986
@deniskinyua6986 17 күн бұрын
Wonderful conversation, people should listen to this without emotions in order to understand. Very informative Convo
@suenderi5835
@suenderi5835 18 күн бұрын
Know Your Worth!
@JosiNdongFarmsBondo
@JosiNdongFarmsBondo 18 күн бұрын
no books can define man woman sexual relationships only GOD Almighty
@Ogachocaro
@Ogachocaro 17 күн бұрын
With an open mind, u will get his point clearly which is very true
@trixieke8462
@trixieke8462 13 күн бұрын
​@@Ogachocaro science tries to play God. I believe the Bible when God says he specifically ties the womb of a woman. Sara gave birth at 90
@paulaabuta8276
@paulaabuta8276 17 күн бұрын
The ladies keep interrupting Aliet to a point he ends up not answering all the questions.
@PhilistarBonyo
@PhilistarBonyo 17 күн бұрын
What a wholesome conversation! Asanteni sana
@raiali5131
@raiali5131 11 күн бұрын
Very mature argument... The higher synthesis of these two guests' thoughts made a better understanding ........
@ngachanaomi8860
@ngachanaomi8860 16 күн бұрын
Lynn forgot to be a moderator the whole conversation and joined the discussion 😅😂
@maxwelsawo7610
@maxwelsawo7610 11 күн бұрын
😂😂
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