CAREGIVER DAY IN THE LIFE | FAMILY CAREGIVING | ROUTINE

Life as a family stay at home caregiver. A complete day as a family caregiver to my mom. I share my daily routine, schedules, and care. Caregiving is straight up difficult for everyone. But, after time I'm making it work for all of us in our home and spreading some inspiration and hope to others. Remember, everyone's caregiving journey is different. Here's a glimpse into my journey as a stay at home caregiver.
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[@keyeradragoo1753]

I'm a 25 year old full-time family caregiver who cares for both of my parents with disabilities and my older brother with down syndrome who recently went blind. Thank you so much for posting content to inspire us and make us feel less alone. Caregiving can be super lonely especially my being pretty young because my peers simply cannot understand. Sometimes I get overwhelmed with to-do lists and watching you has helped me get ideas on how to make things easier on myself. Just thank you. You are amazing! Sending all the love 💕

[@DeeLovelyLife]

Oh Keyera I am so happy you found my channel!! You are a strong and courageous caregiver!! You definitely have your hands full for sure! I hope you enjoy my content on here as I show in my weekly vlogs and caregiving series! Hope you visit again!

[@joannabusinessaccount7293]

Hey Keyera, I just want to say a prayer for you and give you a kudos and a prayer for your days to be filled with peace.

[@YelenaElle]

I am a registered nurse and I just want to say how wonderful, caring and beautiful it is the things you do for your mom. You take care of her but not only that you do, you do it with love and actual care. It really is so special and beautiful and I hope many people who watch your video or learn from you will help do this for their loved ones as well.

[@DeeLovelyLife]

Thank you Yelena. As an RN, I'm sure you see so much. I worked in healthcare, and I'm now seeing from the patient side of things. I'm very grateful for all the nurses who do so much for our love ones! And thank you so much for stopping by my channel.

[@Gjjfcnji]

I’ve seen a lot of people eat that banana cereal breakfast. Light and delicious 🎉🎉 Great video!! I’m hoping to be a caregiver very soon!

[@DeeLovelyLife]

You can do it!

[@Tee_ri]

Absolutely love this! Look forward to watching more of your videos - thank-you for sharing your journey as a caregiver ❤️

[@pamelaruth6909]

You are amazing and a gift to your mom. Gof bless you all. TFS and take care........................

[@DeeLovelyLife]

Thank you! You too!

[@stephanieruiz8287]

Dee you have always been my favorite youtuber!

[@DeeLovelyLife]

I’m so grateful for that! Thanks!

[@oxford1157]

Excellent video Dee. You days are so full but you are always sweet and collected. Hope you get tons more subs as you really put out quality and interesting content. Have a great evening! Sleep fast…

[@DeeLovelyLife]

Thank you so much! I sure appreciate that!

[@montananative9786]

Thank you, what beautiful family, Queen G is cared for with such honor and grace by both you and Jay.

[@DeeLovelyLife]

Thanks! We try our best every day!

[@stephanierobinson7525]

You are amazing!

[@DeeLovelyLife]

Thank you so much Stephanie!

[@nancypeteja6560]

Dee, you & Jay are an amazing team!! You are so thorough with all that you do for Queen G and you still manage to lsugh!!! Y'all will be truly Blessed for all that you do. Great tips for those who do the same....Caregiving! 😉👍💖💐

[@DeeLovelyLife]

Thanks so much Nancy!🥰

[@EbonyIvyThymewithLeona]

Dee, you are so good at sharing wonderful tips to caregivers and women in general. We could all use these tips.

[@DeeLovelyLife]

Glad you think so! Thanks Leona!!!

[@Chelle-kd1po]

Oh, my goodness, I need this right now! I am getting ready to move out of state & into this role. I will be watching. New sub. I would love to see a planner video.

[@DeeLovelyLife]

Thanks for subbing! I have two videos in my caregiving playlist with my planner! Good luck in your caregiver role! Keep in touch!

[@inmimisday]

“No matter what happens, life should be lovely” 💕 this touched my soul Dee 😍

[@DeeLovelyLife]

I'm so glad it did!

[@alliyahaleciascott]

U seem like An amazing caregiver

[@DeeLovelyLife]

Thank you!

[@walkingexercise5375]

You a such a wonderful and sweet caregiver for Queen G and supervisor kitty!

[@DeeLovelyLife]

Thank you, I appreciate the compliment. Kitty keeps me on my toes!

[@marciejones3538]

Dee, you are just an excellent daughter. 🤗🥰

[@DeeLovelyLife]

Aww thank you Marcie. I try my best in every way.

[@marciejones3538]

I hope someday when I need it, my daughters will take great care of me too.

[@user-oq4qt4yx9q]

Good afternoon Dee. Wonderful video as a caregiver.!!!!!!GREETINGS for you and your mom queen G.!!!!!💜💜💜❤❤❤❤❤👌👌👌👌🌠🌠🌠🌠

[@DeeLovelyLife]

Thank you so much!! Have a great day/night!

[@user-oq4qt4yx9q]

@@DeeLovelyLife good night.!!!!!❤❤❤❤🌠🌠🌠🌠🌠from Greece.!!!!

[@grogers511]

I’m rewatching this. I needed a little inspiration or “you can do this” mojo. We’re dealing with a new challenge. A different - and challenging - phase in caregiving. And, I admit it’s wearing on me. I love that quote too. Caring for those who once cared for us is indeed one of the highest honors. I think back on these past 15 years as her caregiver. My husband and I frequently say having her here with us has blessed us more than we imagined possible. It’s true. My husband is great with my Mom too. ✳️ I’m representative payee for my Dad. I do the annual reports online. His is simple. He’s in a memory care facility and the monthly cost there is 6 or 7 times the amount he receives in social security. ✳️ I take the same vitals for my Mom. Not every day though. A few times a week. We had to switch to a wrist BP monitor because Mom just wasn’t tolerating the squeeze on her arm and I was having a hard time getting it adjusted loosely enough to not create pain - which of course increased her BP which defeated the purpose. 🤷🏼‍♀️ The wrist monitor is working fine. I have one of Carrie Elle’s meal planners - and I’ve NEVER used it. ✳️I really should get a baby monitor. Since she’s mobile - she’s sometimes up in the night while we sleep or up earlier than us. Especially if she’s having a pain episode. I could get on top of it sooner. She will not wake us up. I tried a monitor years ago - but she would turn it off! So, I gave up on it. ✳️ Mom’s hearing is too bad for listening to TV or audio books or music. But, her eyesight is great. So, she reads a lot. Lots of books. Magazines and the newspaper. In the evening during supper prep - we have what I call “current events” time. Mom will read aloud from the newspaper and give us her take on the topic. Sometimes, it’s a comedy routine before supper. ✳️ We tiptoe around here during Mom’s naps. She needs the restorative sleep. We need the quiet time. In the kitchen - we muffle sounds with dish towels. Since, her hearing is so bad - any clang noise is startling to her. A sudden noise in her dulled quiet. ✳️We’ve never called in outside help. I don’t think M9m would be receptive. I’ve had a close family member come in and clean for me. But, that’s been far and few between. ✳️ Such a good job you both do as caregivers. Queen G is blessed to have you both.

[@DeeLovelyLife]

Oh I hope all is ok Ginger! And I'm glad you rewatched for some kind of comfort. We too used the dish towel to muffle the sounds in the kitchen. I wish my mom had better eye site. The stroke took partial of it away. I really want to call in another relief caregiver once a week, but now that there is another surge or peak, I don't think so anymore. I sure hope you know that my thoughts and prayers are always with you. Together, we will make it for sure! You're such a wonderful caregiver and daughter to your mom. It sure does shows!

[@grogers511]

@@DeeLovelyLife It’s not a terrible problem. Mom (95) is adjusting to needing to wear pull-ups or pads. It’s a challenge. Her short-term memory loss won’t let her remember to replace them with a new one. And, I’m not used to needing to check her. I’m thinking of putting a sign in her bathroom. But, when I say “here Mom, put these on so you’ll stay dry”. She says “I don’t have a problem keeping dry!” 🙄 So, I’m watching her and keeping a mop handy. It’s like reverse potty training. ✳️ And now… my dear sweet husband fell and somehow perforated his small intestine. After a few days of stubbornness - I called an ambulance to get him to the hospital. He had emergency surgery. So, our team took a hit. ✳️ We shall persevere. And, call for help when needed! My cousin stayed with Mom so I could stay with hubby at the hospital. Our neighbor is tending to all our varmints and collecting eggs. Challenges… to give me longer legs for deeper strides. ❤️

[@judyjones9566]

I care a love one and the mood swings are everyday so stressful

[@DeeLovelyLife]

That can definitely be a challenge. Hugs your way Judy!

[@judyjones9566]

Thank you

[@wendybecker4223]

Does Queen G use the therapeutic "hand putty" from physical/occupational therapy? My mom uses the green putty and the therapist put in these plastic beads. I knead it up really good and then she has to pull out the beads. Thought I would mention it for fine motor skills. Everyone is different though. My doc told me not to use it for my own hand pain.

[@DeeLovelyLife]

I never heard of that. I’ll have to check that out Wendy! And the water color with Bob Ross too! Thanks so much!!!

[@HealthyGemini]

This video is SO HELPFUL! How did you learn to do this all of this correctly for mom? Did you get an of advisor or attorney to help you regarding the social security and pension etc. ? I am in the “wreck stage” Quickly navigating mom’s finances and running two households essentially. 😢

[@DeeLovelyLife]

I read and researched most things myself. I also spoke to a clerk at the social security office who explained it all to me.

[@HealthyGemini]

@@DeeLovelyLife Thank you 😊

[@janetsavona7590]

Did you ever consider a Facility for her? That seems like a lot for you to have to deal with?

[@DeeLovelyLife]

Yes, but I will wait until I am no longer capable to care for her myself. For now, with help it’s manageable.

[@DC-ef8op]

Please tell me how you afford to be a full time caregiver? I know that you can claim a loved on taxes so that helps.

[@DeeLovelyLife]

It’s challenging for sure! But somehow I make it work.

[@BornByMoonlight]

You contact social services & they will assess the personal & their needs & guide you through the process. You can be paid to be a caregiver for a family member.

[@DeeLovelyLife]

There are specific requirements to get paid, each state is different. I don’t qualify in my state of California.