Carlo and Ben share how HIV impacted their relationship | The Bottomline

Carlo Tabije talks about revealing to his partner Ben Padero that he is HIV-positive (Human Immunodeficiency Virus). Padero then recalls how he reacted to Tabije's revelation. The couple also shares how it impacted their relationship, and what measures they took afterwards to ensure their health and safety.
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[@loryrowe6581]

If you are infected with HIV you have to be transparent from the very beginning, not 7 years after. Whatever his reasons for not being honest....that comes out as selfishness on the carrier's part. You are not being fair to your partner or to someone whom you called very special. You are a lucky person that the viral is low. Don't be selfish and think only of your own advantage, that does not love at all.

[@ilovebilly4809]

You should tell your partner sa una palang, pero parang naiintidihan ko sya parang sa sobra pagmamahal nya ,ayaw nya mawala at natatakot na ma reject sya, pero he's very lucky to find a partner who is very understanding, at di nangiwan kahit ano problema at pagsubok, lucky guy sana all👍😀

[@NarsChad]

kng mahal mo talaga ang isang tao first palang sinabi mo na agad.

[@markydoodledandy502]

sa case n ganyan sasabihin yan huma ap lang ng tamang tiempo

[@saintperthnorthcloud3850]

Umabot ng ganun ktgal bago sinabi? Okay ka din sa humahanap ng tamang tiempo eh sa simula p lng na ngsinungaling mali na yung tiempo.

[@tridas319]

True ksi parang nandamay kpa

[@kluger2222]

Bilis mag judge pag hindi sa situation

[@iamwaward7067]

This show is an eye opener to everyone. People judge easily others just because they are not on that particular situation. Probably he has reasons why he kept his status of being HIV positive coz let’s face the fact that it’s hard to live in a society where people easily judge others because of the mistakes they have done. Yes, he might have the option of not doing the test with his partner because he knows already his status but the mere fact that he have done it together takes a lot of courage. Let’s not judge other people based on what their faults are but instead let’s help them overcome this fears so that they can live a normal life despite of what is happening with their lives. I salute also the guy with blue hair coz he firmly stands to stay with his partner despite of what he discover.

[@markjay1205]

An HIV positive person should tell anyone of their status. It's to protect the other person and for public health and safety in general. It's actually a crime in many countries not to disclose to a sexual partner one's HIV status. Lucky Ben he didn't contract it.

[@Brownismyname]

I searched bottom line was impacted and got this

[@marksantos5342]

if u hiv positive kahit mataas ang cd4 mo u need to take arv para sa ganun yung cd4 mo hindi na tuluyang bumaba

[@celwinster]

It’s a crime to not tell your partner your status… at least where I am

[@lopeelegores6660]

Hindi lahat ng HIV nakuha dahil sa paglandi... people with HIV suffers a lot from emotional , psychological at mental stress dahil sa stigma at ang iba will commit suicide dahil sa stigma at mapanghusgang netizen . Hinay hinay lng sa pagbitaw ng mga salita or comments

[@anthonybanlawijr.parangmag9727]

So panu nila nakuha kund hindi sa paglandi? Jack & Enpoy lang

[@markdaniel5355]

@@anthonybanlawijr.parangmag9727 pwede yun makuha through needle na kontaminado Ng virus Pwede yun pag nag sakin Ng dugo Na contaminado Pwede rin sa pag silamg Ng sanggol Ng ibang may HIV Know the different option before you open your mouth

[@EL-GONG-GONG]

Huy T*nga! mg research ka nga!

[@gamalielleonardo307]

Patawa Ka accla😅😂 m2m pamor aids pamor😅😂🎉

[@wildword]

Guessing it’s the love for each other that saved the relationship. Lucky guy in stripe despite of lying to his partner tinanggap pa din. If you have HIV and wanted to have partner should at least be open to each other. Just my thoughts. Goodluck to both of you. 👍🏼

[@saintperthnorthcloud3850]

I agree

[@abd12459]

It only means nag cheat ung lalaki na naka stripe 😬

[@kenkazumi5027]

yung partner ko una palang bago ko sya ligawan sinabi nya na status ko and pinagusapan namin possibilities na mangyari i love him so much kahit busy kami kasi pag gabi sya ako morning pasok pero pinupuntahan ko pdin sa work yun para ihatid alam kong mahal ako nun kasi hindi nya sasabihin sakin yun kung di nya ako mahal tsaka ayaw nya ako mahawa din kaya i love him so much

[@mikedelapaz1985]

Just really wanna hug them :)

[@jm-no3hy]

bakit di nya sinabi? it's a crime ata. na if aware ka abt your status tas di mo dineclare

[@johnmurlylawis4339]

Sino sa kanila Ang nagka shingles?

[@rickymagbanua108]

kung mhal mo yang partner mo sasabhin mo from the start 7 years tpos sasabhin mo ready k n. gusto mo p tlgang manghawa. paiyak iyak k p. u should be responsible enough

[@bubblesnlilacpinksoda6624]

Hahaha

[@timmydiagone6837]

Your insensitive comment towards these people who experienced stigma, shut your mouth nalang

[@jamesroymurillo8464]

@@timmydiagone6837 pero he has a point. Kasi pwede mahawa yung partner nya

[@rickymagbanua108]

timmy diagone bka ikaw ang insensitive or are you stupid? dont you get it it takes years for him to said his condition. act of cowardness. better study well your mental and health conditions before you comment.

[@markydoodledandy502]

sabi nga love has no shapes... hindi naman yan pag may something hihiwalayan mo o lalayuan mo, kung mahal mo , mahal mo tanggapin dahil parang diabetes yan at cancer. tanggalin natin ang STIGMA

[@LoveVlog888]

Marky DoodleDandy agree tanggalin ang STIGMA

[@randolphreyes9727]

Still hindi pa rin nya dinisclose yung status nya and I really doubt it na may balak siyang idisclose feeling ko nacorner na lang din talaga sya dahil sabay silang nagpatest. Right ng partner nyang malaman yung status nya bago pa lang mag start. Yang mga ganyang cases din ang nagiging dahilan kung bakit may stigma sa mga PLHIV. Hindi lahat gusto at willing makipagrelasyon sa HIV+ pero pano nga nila malalaman kung yung isa hindi dinisclose yung sytatus nya.

[@loryrowe6581]

I agree to eradicate the stigma amongst people with HIV+. You have to be honest and transparent to your partner about your health condition. That's deception, you kept it a secret for 7 years because you are afraid that your partner will leave you. You are thinking of your own selfishness not for the goodness and wellness of someone you love.

[@josiahtejeros4896]

Is it an strictly English speaking show?

[@gigopascual1743]

Josiah Tejeros haha nosebleed nga ako haha

[@b17valenciamcjanreyd.8]

Yah kasi it's also aired on the ABS-CBN News Channel (ANC) which is an English-dominant channel.

[@jaysonaguilar6088]

Not really, It's just an example of "speaking english makes me intelligent" person show

[@NarsChad]

ung blue hair ang nagdala lol

[@ravelive6421]

Malapit ka na tito Boy wid ur partner..

[@mariennewacas8752]

Please stop social stigma😒

[@mva6213]

Mali may element ng deceit

[@ludovicarossi1913]

#Drkanayo Peterson rock my world. Let’s give thanks to the lord and everyone looking out for me. My hiv status was revised, cured by 14 days negative I am so happy cause I’m living my best life

[@vingmail4897]

Ano po early syntoms

[@wadter1606]

ginamit pa si lord.

[@bubblebutt4919]

Blue hair nagdala natakot hiv kay ateng

[@jgpf12]

Repent

[@b17valenciamcjanreyd.8]

What are they gonna repent? That they love each other? Is love a sin?

[@jgpf12]

@@b17valenciamcjanreyd.8 I can't blame you of your ignorance read Romans 1:27 and the men likewise gave up natural relations with women and were consumed with passion for one another, men committing shameless acts with men and receiving in themselves the due penalty for their error.

[@terencewoelke]

Lol itatanong kay lord kung itutuloy pa ang pakikipag talik sa lalaki 🤦🏻

[@gamalielleonardo307]

Greatest gift nio yan as m2m soon to be xpired na kaung 2😂😅 sodomat gomora😊 wag sisikad sa matulis!!!! Sundin mo c god. Bago ka. Mamatay❤🎉

[@kimandrew794]

selfish mo, hahawaan mo pa walang ka muang muang

[@sammarupoktv6231]

Mungtanga.. Dpt sunugin nya sarili nya ng hnd n makapandamay ng iba, ang lalandi kc

[@markydoodledandy502]

girl pakinggan tanggalin ang STIGMA about HIV kung iniintindi natin ang pinapanood natin.

[@LoveVlog888]

SAM MARUPOK TV grabe ka nmn sa sunugin so kong ikaw ang nasa posisyon nya susunugin mo rin sarili mo! Stop the STIGMA

[@saintperthnorthcloud3850]

Ayan n nmn yung irrational na comment nung marky pano nga mwawala stigma kung simula pa lng sinungaling na, dba mas nkktakot yung ganun. So ano tawag dun love ba yun or selfishness. Gus2 nyo mwala stigma eh d magpakatotoo ka and hayaan mong tanggapin ka hindi yung manloloko ka pa.

[@hervzval7970]

Sa pilipinas ganyan ang Culture. May sense of denial, sa ibang bansa, even here in Australia it's a criminal case if you didn't disclose ure hiv status.

[@javondelacruz6274]

Wag niong idamay ang Dios...ayaw nga niya yan

[@b17valenciamcjanreyd.8]

Why do homophobes like you always use God's name just to destroy the LGBTQ+ Community?

[@ryanmiguelbataclan3690]

@@b17valenciamcjanreyd.8 internal homohhobia. Alam natin na ganon din sya. Lol!

[@anthonybanlawijr.parangmag9727]

Nakakadiri eiwwwwwww haahahah

[@happy_f33t15]

Mikhail Terranova be compassionate..Nakakadiri ka jan!

[@LoveVlog888]

Mikhail Terranova mas nakakadiri ka! Demonyo ka! Hindi mo alam ang mga pinag dadaanan ng mga taong dumadaan sa ganyan

[@DigitalNomadFella]

attitude is ateng, lungkot ng buhay mo attention seeker, you got my attention. Be happy.

[@gwapakoyummy3088]

Hindi yan nkakaderi sa mga lgbtq ikaw pa ang naging masama nyan kc sa pagkaalam nla cla ay tama dahil sla ay masaya