Caught Her In Bed With Another Man - JOBE

[@vukonabaloyi]

Every word that comes out of this man's mouth is so Profound!!

[@kingpk4429]

Full of wisdom...

[@sibbjj8204]

He will be ok what doesn’t brake you will make you stronger.As a woman some women need to appreciate what they have . Stop pressuring men to provide for your wants…get your own income !!!!!!!!!!

[@tam_tam3496]

Yes.. He's so intellectual ❤

[@LeonardEarnshaw]

Perfect marriages or relationships don't really exist; each one is special. What works for one person might not work for another. But I've come to realize that there's always a solution to every problem. Five years back, my wife and I were close to getting divorced because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to make things right. It was hard, but we got through it.

[@BruceKnapp-n4q]

I genuinely want to find happiness too. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart at the moment, I can't imagine my life without her; my love for her is big. I really want her to return, and I'm fully committed to making it happen. We've tried different ways, like therapy, to mend things.

[@LeonardEarnshaw]

Saying farewell to someone you love dearly is never easy, but in my case, I had the assistance of a spiritual counselor who saved my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

[@BruceKnapp-n4q]

I'm thankful for this guidance. I'll immediately search for her online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring about positive changes for me; I miss her deeply.

[@LeonardEarnshaw]

I promise you will not regret it

[@matimbabaloyi2585]

You are a man bra van me.......

[@SangeMbunquka]

This man is poet.The way he expresses himself is very interesting

[@Mabutton]

@@SangeMbunquka Lol he loves Tupac Shakur a lot forever posting him..

[@msnteetshabalala4138]

Im just glad that you're a man who knows God, may He heal you, may He redeem you, may He restore you then bless you with the love you deserve 😘😘🤗

[@tammymboweni5980]

He talks about an African god, not the God who created the Heavens and Earth

[@angelnokosjourney]

GUYS LETS LEARN TO ENCOURAGE EACH OTHER. WE ALL START FROM SOMEWHERE. THIS IS HIS PLATFORM AND HE CREATED HIS OWN PLATFORM TO TEACH HIMSELF. IT'S HURTING TO SEE ALL THIS NEGATIVE COMMENTS WITHOUT ANY COMPLIMENTS. I SEE NOTHING WRONG WITH THE INTERVIEWER SERIUS. WE ALL START FROM SOMEWHERE KEEP ON KEEPING ON BROTHER I DONT KNOW YOU BUT I SUPPORT YOU.

[@langagwizi6010]

You are still hurting my Bro,,you wanting to unmeet her is so deep,,I hope oneday you will be ok,,,it's just not easy being hurt by someone you love.

[@TheSARAFINA2000]

umeet??

[@fundimbatha1748]

What a sad story 😢...I pray God heal your heart and bless you with a good woman, you deserve better my brother you are a good man🙏

[@mphortantss5024]

She was blessed and wa senya tsotlhe.... Some women are lucky 😢. She has lost, she will never ever find someone like you

[@rixilebandi9953]

I love how he talks about parenthood. May God heal you. I can see your hurt

[@danisilemashaba9609]

Great interview what i like about Justice is he gives his guest a chance to tell the story without too much interrupting and asks there and there, but at the end of the day you will get to understanding of what really happened

[@zamangcobo3065]

As my grandmother use to say, " umfazi umnikwa uNkulunkulu neThongo" - our marriages these days have no.purpose at all

[@aprilLivibsto]

She really hurt him but I respect that he is honest about his feelings and I can relate my ex husband saw me as an opportunity as well ppl use you for what you can give to them and when you walk away they hate you for waking up and seeing what the Lord was trying to show you all along I’m sorry sir but thank God we know now

[@SaneleEugene-o3u]

THE FATHERS WE NEED,IN SA

[@mohlala41]

GOD BLESS HIM... WITHOUT JUDGMENT

[@Princess_Lehlohonolo]

Dear black king, your emotions are valid

[@BrotherM1978]

Imagine your wife cheating on you with a married màn and he goes back to his wife and kids and live happily ever after while her marriage ends because of sex. Most women can't think that far I suppose. On the flipside, men should quit cheating while married because when most women find out they don't forgive and it will take one moment for her to cheat and only to tell you that she cheated because you also cheated.

[@thetad1242]

Don't worry about the married men, Khama visits most. His marriage will be attacked.

[@cellb2619]

Khama Billiat? ​@@thetad1242

[@cynthiar6917]

His experience touched me. It resonated with me. May God restore everything the devil has stolen. May God Bless Him Indeed.❤

[@kagisomolapo21]

When he talked about peace of mind that stuff was fire.

[@SabeloMazw]

if you've never been in this sistuation in your life, i pray you have strenghth ngoba ijele is second away if you cant control yourself.

[@tebogomahapa1633]

Much respect to this brother, he is very articulate and seems to have done a lot of introspection whilst locked up...

[@MathaboMadihlaba]

The same thing happened to me😢, worse part I forgave him n stayed but it keeps on haunting me everyday n it hurts. Started going to therapy n I realised that I can’t be with him anymore coz I don’t see him as my hubby anymore. Wa ntena n eish I had to leave with my kids😢

[@basi2425]

Good for you mama!!❤

[@stumaez]

The interview lacked timelines, was all over the place, I couldn’t finish.

[@mafmosh53]

Just loved how he glowed when talking about raising and caring for his son. Stay strong man, you're truly blessed.

[@SamPhiri-ru8dc]

Heartbreak is real and uma ungacabanganga kahle one can end in jail... imagine the guy now thinks the world has 70 billion women. Heartbreak confuses the mind

[@becomingdrP]

😂😂😂What are you saying about 70 billion?

[@SamPhiri-ru8dc]

@becomingdrP listen to the guy... more than once has he said 'there are 70 billion women on earth'

[@draculainfused_1890]

That's obviously an exaggeration to put emphasis on the fact that there's a lot of women on planet earth and the only one he chose betrayed the trust he bestowed in her.🤣

[@MolefiMoseki-m7v]

😂😂😂

[@siphocyrilmkhencele8064]

Women will strike you so violently that you get bewildered by the numbers; please pardon the child of God .😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@khathutshelomphaphuli1595]

Good interview, however we need more from Jobe. I felt as if there is missing parts we needed to hear.

[@Sniper-my2vq]

I admire your resilience and spirit of overcoming such a traumatic experience. You just proved that life doesn’t end at a bad chapter but there’s still a whole journey and purpose to live for 💪

[@whowaswrongWWW]

Bruh! This guy keeps asking all the wrong questions...was frustrating to watch.

[@Kay_Plug26]

What was he arrested for since he said he didn't shoot nobody n didn't touch them? Also I truly wish he could've gave a re-enactment of the day he found his girl in bed with someone 😢

[@Ericchamile]

Nah, this guy is a very sensitive and calculative presenter,big up bro..

[@whowaswrongWWW]

@@Ericchamile If you were happy with it then you were happy bro, amehlo awaphakelani.

[@PureChristianContent-ej6wo]

He is a horrible interviewer man yoh😢😢😢

[@ShoSho-l5c]

Yazi nje ...

[@aprilLivibsto]

Amen in Jesus Name as Long you you keep serving the Lord he will remove the hurt /pain I truly believe that for myself as well

[@kgotsoparson6489]

It's great to hear such insightful words from someone knowledgeable. Wishing you all the best in your future endeavors and with your book.

[@simplytinkyyy]

What a wise man. I just wish the interview was conducted in a way that will direct the guest to tell the story chronologically to make the audience understand his story better

[@neovanila]

Justice there's so many questions you didn't ask amd you have a very good story teller guest...wake up bro

[@neosjournal_]

I really wanted to hear in detail how he landed in prison🫠 what lie did the wife tell in court heish

[@bekosithole9321]

​@@neosjournal_ I literally thought I missed it🥴

[@TheMAKHENSA]

ai, justice Justice.

[@OkeyNgene-v1b]

The same here. I'm confused how he ended up in the prison. Someone should explain to me please 🙏​@@neosjournal_

[@geniatiyo7696]

Thought I was the only one who finds him boring

[@ThandiNkosi-z9e]

Healing my brother, upon you, life goes on, ukubuhlungu you will never trust a woman ever again,

[@neegee3755]

I felt him when he said people map out their plan through your life . I was also love scammed 💔

[@leonard9636]

How did you know you were, I'm asking because I'm pretty sure i am at this point and need to confirm

[@neegee3755]

@@leonard9636 please watch episodes on boldly Owami on different ladies sharing their experiences. That’ll help you a loy

[@southernafricanboy4148]

I'm 51 end of this year and have lived in Zimbabwe, England and Scotland What I've found unless you are exceptionally handsome and of charismatic, you are 90% going to get cheated on Choose wisely chaps. Majority women aren't honest and WILL CHEAT. It's just a simple hard fact. Study them and you are going to catch them in a lie and once that happens she will mostly cheat on you😢 If you ever feel this woman is too pretty to be wit me or too good to be true. Listen to that inner voice You can get a woman using money but in my experience women respect the women they actually love than little you with your car, house or money. Women are ruthless like that My last point women usually love men they are sexually attracted to. A looks so matter. If she very pretty and you are average looking, believe me someone will steal her. Whereas if you are a handsome dude in your own right she is actually scared of losing you. If the gap. In looks is huge, she will cheat on you. Women get turned on by looks not money Danko. Go with people your own league

[@qinisomabena9562]

I'm sorry but this is a bit immature and childish.

[@zulu9357]

Money counts mostly

[@geniatiyo7696]

​@zulu9357 True Also affection, Attention, Vacations etc

[@sibongilemaphuthoma8820]

Intelligent and a good articalate story teller. Sounds like a good man

[@AnnaTshabalala-c8p]

I actually love this guy🙇‍♀️🤞 n i can actually feel the pain u went through broer, but believe it or not God wil see u through

[@dennisguidao-oab1169]

You are the man, Brother.

[@neshmatshiambwa8562]

His story is so heartbreaking.. He seems like a good man... The fact that he didn't take law into his hands makes me very proud of him.. I'm giving him flowers for that.. Such a God fearing man.. He deserve a good woman 😍🌹

[@whosbusii]

He sounds so broken🥲,I hope he heals

[@Mabutton]

Indeed a good man my gee kwazi sithole🤭🤭🤭....

[@tholakelephakathi1811]

Amajodo awela angela mbiza this guy he is a man heal mfana heal and live your life

[@sandisoM85]

........ This seems like a sad story and all, and i want to sympathize with his, but i got some many unanswered questions. Like Did he cheat first in the relationship (causing the infidelity?). Why was he arrested, did he beat them up?. But non the less, great interview, and i hope these types of stories teach us men out here, that it is very important to to watch the woman you want to bring around you, and how you represent yourself to a woman. Coz if you are that type of guy who will flash your money as a Pic-Up line to a woman, don't be surprised when she acts the way she does down the line, coz you used money to get her, instead of showing your good qualities.... And 95% of the time Slay Queens don't hide who they really are, but we men choose to be with those types of women coz that's what's is "In"..... There are still amazing good women out there, you just got to know how to spot them amongst the HOES lol... And i don't like it when he says women are to blame for High Crime, coz no woman will put a gun to your head and force you to go do Crime to spoil her with the "High Life", we men like to Flash money and assets to attract these wrong types of women 😅

[@RockVakalisa-nf4gh]

Do women wait for their men to cheat first in order for them to cheat , especially like that ?

[@GraceMathabo-oj3dv]

​@@RockVakalisa-nf4ghin most of the time, guys cheat first and women get tired of it and then opt to cheat to save the marriage instead of divorcing because of the children

[@SifisoShange-cm5tk]

​@@GraceMathabo-oj3dvPlease shut up and stop promoting ubufebe la.

[@geniatiyo7696]

True They gotta maintain what they started

[@zozomphahlelemphahlele1361]

I don't know what brought me here, but I have learnt a valuable lesson. Don't waste another person's time, don't take for granted the work a man does behind the scenes to forward you a comfortable life. Value your body. Thank you Sir, those lessons I take them and I am running with them.

[@ivypholosi1348]

It'll be alright. You are man enough. The right woman will find you, you will find her. You Deserve it. You have good values, a good head on your shoulders, that's rare in most men. Keep it up!

[@senzongwenya847]

Okuhlula amdoda kyabikwa.................. I really feel for you, can't even imagine how I could have reacted if it was me

[@Lesedilekganya]

I would learn a lot from m this brother he is very wise

[@SifisoShange-cm5tk]

Did you do DNA test of that son you think is yours.? You don't know moss when she started cheating.

[@chipashamoyo6435]

💯

[@geniatiyo7696]

Would have liked to know as well.

[@owentinashe9366]

i like the way he articulates his words and thoughts you are strong the way he smiles when he talks about his Son shows he was in love for real unfortunately it was a human an a donkey.

[@nomgcobocordeliabushula4345]

this is full of educational especially for our children hence uBhuti he's so hurt he's also so motivational & speak out aloud Bhuti wam for the sake of our kids i'm a Mother of 2boys aged 22 & 19 yrs old i so wish bangalimamela le information yalo Bhuti. just trust God is gonna heal you my Son🕯️❤️🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@kingpk4429]

Love the Lord your God with all of your heart, all of your soul, all of your mind and all of your strength..... All the needs and wants of this world we will leave them here😢😢

[@kingsleynwoke7338]

This is a good guy. The way he speaks is so inspiring. It is very painful what he went through. I think the wife took advantage of his health situation or she needs to say why she did what she did. Indeed nothing is more than peace of mind. So sad.

[@Zion-g4h]

Loved this story, great man with a good heart!

[@chantellemodisane]

He should’ve asked him if women are meant to be monogamous…🙃 since she’s so pretty Red flag #1🚩 - “she’s going to be bear me beautiful children who won’t depend internal beauty” he never saw or experienced his wife a human being, just a commodity or someone “pretty” to have on his arm

[@MissGoitsiLaurent]

100% agree with you.

[@ksnjos001]

If all women are going for true love the world will be peaceful... but that's not the case majority of the time! Men and Women are both culprits!

[@VirimaiChigariro-ge7iq]

Imagine how many beautiful God-fearing women are watching this and trying to tell my brother in the video that he must immediately stop crying because they are not the same as the woman who hurt him. People, please dont take antidepressants and sleeping pills. Just find a God-fearing person near you to freely tell your story. The grace of God will locate you once you make that step. Depression is an illusion created by satan for you to either kill yourselves or just fall apart, bcoz the devil comes to steal, kill and destroy. Life is beautiful. Nobody has to continue like this. If i knew this guy, i would personally like to help him. Theres no need to replay those images in our minds. We need to find a positive stimulus to keep us busy on a daily basis

[@siyabongadhlamini1518]

Maybe angzwanga.. Uboshweleni udog?

[@lenfordmxolisidlamini6881]

70% of men are going through such pain,yet its the husbands that are blamed and accused the most. According to me this interviewer is doing good for questioning the way he does,which will gradually ease this man's pain severity he has been carrying. Man, I empathise with strong gentleman. God will forever be with him.

[@veronlizmemhmd8673]

Only 10mins watching and I am convinced he lives for God. He is favoured and God is still going to bless him. 🤣Just on a lighter note does he know Druhill an RnB group from USA, they have a song called "Someone'sleepin'on my bed" Ngxesi uBawo uzowapholisa amanxeba.

[@phutegorebone7948]

Part 2 please, reason for prison and how was it nd after

[@ZukiswaKoti]

Can this interview be started all over to allow the interviewer to ask all the missing questions

[@sepomushaukwa9006]

But what’s the problem this happens to women everyday🤣🤣🤣

[@VincentMadinane]

The way he emphasize his words when he is speaking

[@Hlare_gadi_rengwe]

Says it all

[@Ezisemoyeni...]

Yoooh hai yaze yaze yahlangahlangana le interview...this guy akachazi ukuthi kwenzakaleni after catching his woman with the other guy...

[@whowaswrongWWW]

@@Ezisemoyeni... it's the interviewer's job to ask the interviewee to take us through the scene moment by moment. A job which he failed to do.

[@Ezisemoyeni...]

@@whowaswrongWWW hai he really failed bandla...😒

[@danisilemashaba9609]

He did explain ukuthi they both run away and he was shoved aside that hurt het leg, but.......... Mmmmm how did they end up in court

[@WandisileGila-nu9th]

So inspiring story 💪❤Big up to you Father Africa💪❤

[@slindilenancy1793]

I learned a lot in this yoooh Jehovah God help us

[@NtsakoAdvice]

That guy can actually talk ❤❤

[@17junemama]

I find this guy a smooth talker. I would like to hear the wife’s story.

[@KatlegoAnne]

Me too

[@rixilebandi9953]

Every time he said 70 billion women it jerked me. And the interview continued like it was a normal statement.

[@Xipalaje]

😂😂😂

[@tshepisomphuthi860]

Stay strong brother 💪🏾

[@TheBoss-hy4vl]

The song he was talking about earlier on that inspires him is Mavovo By Zola.

[@kingpk4429]

What happened to Zola is painful, I guess he refused to bow to someone gates.

[@SimphiweZwane-rw2jy]

You were treated like a fool because you loved wholeheartedly. You were taken for granted used. Hade brayami

[@Hlare_gadi_rengwe]

Is it wrong though to give wholeheartedly,some women are just dogs nje

[@tuppsmedianetwork7477]

is sure a Dreamer "out of 70 billion women in the world"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@leondubel6180]

I wish to go back to the past and unmeet her , that hit hard!

[@KayDayce]

May God grant you the same supernatural healing and forgiveness that he gave me. I went through the same thig with my weddings' best man (childhood friend) broke up a 15 year marriage now divorced with 2 kids. That healing exists brother especially when you so close to God. I'm just wondering what charges sent you to prison and how long did you serve

[@beeyoutiful4086]

Mmh😢 heart breaking story. It really broke his heart and shem I understand the where 70 billion figure is coming from. He still hasn't healed😔

[@OkeyNgene-v1b]

Very sad story. May God help you to recover from such ugly experience 😢. But I think I missed something from his story. Can somebody please tell me how he ended up in the prison after everything he went through 🤔

[@Ahava222]

Cheating on its own hurt but in ur house in ur bed it's witchcraft straight. Ur murdering a person's soul

[@sosinati3358]

She even set him up to have a bad christmas and always attach December to that pain.. dang.. but God is good. Amen

[@Masduli528]

Lol its so crazy how this interview came about from a woman that did wgat millions of man do daily😏 Great interview tho very educational ... Just hope it wasn't centered around a woman that cheated but rather about his life and why he was in jail and his book.. This guy has alot going on in his life apart from this cheating business Just my 2cents❤

[@laylaybebee3604]

Ey boet l love the way u express yoself .Everything that happened to u, is the same thing that happened to me. Sorry for what u experienced.

[@kylelangton2718]

As a man, you must never accept "work husband" bullshit.

[@pascalsegoete1706]

What is that?😂

[@kylelangton2718]

@@pascalsegoete1706 It's the new term used by women when they friendly- friendly with male coworker, so they down play it by saying that he's her "work husband".

[@justanmpowereddude5021]

As a work husband, I can confirm that Kyle is correct. Never let male co-workers get close to your woman. My current partner used to be my work wife 😂

[@Buhlebendalo_Mavika]

@@justanmpowereddude5021😅😅

[@MissGoitsiLaurent]

@@justanmpowereddude5021 🤣 does she currently have a work husband or. Just kidding my brother

[@kgomotsomoeng4839]

May God heal you

[@KgaogeloBoledi]

You're a very good storyteller, brother.

[@smoothrazer7996]

"If anyone has a time machine ngicela ungisize" - Jobe/ This goes both ways men or women should not be going through such. There is nothing draining like mending broken heart. If I had a time machine brother I'd borrow you mine.

[@NontuthuzeloDamba]

Matured man indeed ,i like his thinking

[@noxolohani2453]

I'm so sorry bruhhh 😢you will be fine, not today, not tomorrow, not next week but eventually you will be fine

[@NomthandazoPertuniaMnisi]

Ntwana u ara a very very good interviewer❤

[@aprilLivibsto]

You are also very smart we are not blamed for what others do we just have to know what happened and try to avoid it in the future

[@mikekutoane911]

The best interview I've watched 💯💯💯

[@Ncubefamily249]

emhlabeni 70 billion amantombazane ,, yiwuphi lomhlaba lami ngize mnumzane? xola mfethu simanxebanxeba sinje yinsizwa esakhulanazo.

[@17Reefa]

Ehhmmm if this was a Woman's story would it even be a qualifying story?

[@robinhabi6021]

Man of the year…❤❤ #Wisdom❤

[@InfoHubZA]

8 billion people + 62 billion aliens = 70 billion people

[@michaelmahlalela7174]

and 1 Drillion Trillions

[@ManDownSA]

As for aliens 😂

[@delisilenhlapho3630]

😂😂😂😂

[@rianablaq5988]

Aliens neh

[@beeyoutiful4086]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂m finished

[@lukesibanda8332]

The dude must be corrected. There are 7 billion women, not the 70 billion that he keeps on emphasizing!

[@Mriski981]

U also wrong the population stands on 8billion both women and men. So u cnt tell 7 is women while 1 is men

[@lukesibanda8332]

@@Mriski981 that's not the point I was making. Besides, you can't be sure that the population is 8 billion yourself, because the last time I checked, it was 9 billion. THE POINT I AM MAKING IS THAT 70 BILLION IS EXTREMELY EXAGGERATED, FAR OFF THE MARK.

[@chantellemodisane]

Nawe you’re wrong😂😂😂

[@lukesibanda8332]

@@chantellemodisane I did not purport to be right.

[@leonard9636]

@@chantellemodisane 😂😂😂😂😂

[@abrammathosa215]

Really sorry about what happened to you grootman🙏🏿.

[@mosesphiri9270]

Great story, big man sounds like a good story teller the interviewer faild us big time

[@tammymboweni5980]

We will accept the 70 billion people theory bcz you're hurt

[@langabi408]

😂😂😂net for what he went through

[@Hlare_gadi_rengwe]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 mara nawe

[@Xipalaje]

😂😂😂

[@Hlare_gadi_rengwe]

He'll heal u my brother i swear.sorry 4 going through that roughh path

[@Neo_Lleo]

I think he concentrated too much on his son and forgot about that woman's needs and wants, the time she gave him a son , i did the same and i learned this a bit later ... when u buy that kid a toy present , buy her something also so she doesnt feel left out or not seen...fr me in her own words she said " i feel like our son ruined the relationship "...i cldnt believe thats how she really felt at the time but i thought about it..

[@redgebency8760]

using the kid as a decoy. cheating is a personal choice bro. Sorry for your experience, but she lied to you dawg.

[@sir_michaelbosman]

​@@redgebency8760 true

[@draculainfused_1890]

There's no justification for promiscuous behaviour. The child ruined the relationship and she never thought of taking it up with him and opted to open her legs to another man instead. Oh please!

[@Neo_Lleo]

@@draculainfused_1890 read to understand not to reply . , every person needs to own up to what they did wrong.i never said she was right and justified her actions.

[@noluthandomagazi]

Mpm n​@@draculainfused_1890

[@NoluthoNdinisa]

Yho ubhadlile man indlela ocingangayo❤

[@NeoMphatwe-yi9bg]

We don't know why the guy ended up in jail but I blame the interviewer for that

[@kabelontobo303]

Sometimes is just Karma guys. You do it to so many girls and then comes that one, that special one just for you. 🤣🤣🤣

[@mbalisphiwe5956]

😂 Exactly, this relationship was karmic.

[@switchsithole50]

What a sad 😢😮 sorry hopefully she's regretting where she is

[@noxolosakang6547]

Xola, my brother, it's her loss. She has lost a man who loved her. May God heal you and complete you.

[@Hlare_gadi_rengwe]

Amen to that