Scammed By TikTok Boyfriend - Avela

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[@ntiyiso985]

You might find he is not even married,it was his way of getting out of the situation

[@matodzindwammbi9898]

I totally agree with you

[@gwuministries2895]

She seems so sweet. That guy took advantage. Make him trend

[@cindyrambau4476]

She’s stupid not sweet,

[@pamelazwane2407]

My stinginess and lack of funds will always protect me from this

[@khanyisileshabalala1170]

Yuuuuu dali, asoze..... Ungenza cringy usistaz

[@pinkqueen916]

Same here😅😅😅

[@thandibuthelezi7509]

Thats so me chomie😂😂😂

[@AndiswaNanah-ks9tf]

Even to my boyfriend for years I'm so stingy I even feel bad ABT it bt my stinginess never allows me Shem 😅😅

[@modikiramaisa4619]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Baba2101]

The problem is DESPERATION…

[@katlegophalatse2749]

And people pleasing.

[@therealmncwanegwabeni7263]

Nokungazithandi 2

[@ntombee1818]

She's too desperate

[@christinatapiwakachingamir1674]

too much, and alcohol,she must stop or only drink with people she knows cause wooowza what story

[@CingwaneElihle]

I’m just happy she’s alive and lived to tell the tale because what do you mean you sent a stranger from TikTok your location and hopped into a strangers car IN SOUTH AFRICA.. wuu

[@zandibuckland1652]

A whole sawuda frika??? 😮

[@KatlyLisah]

Honestly though, she even gave him her card🫢🫢🫢

[@thembekangubane4629]

​@@KatlyLisah ne pin to a complete stranger😮ay bakithi

[@KatlyLisah]

@thembekangubane4629 bruh!!! I'm not okay on her behalf 😥

[@paballokota6378]

Don't judge, no one knows what you do in the shadows! Experience is a harsh teacher, she has learned her lesson.

[@angelamhlongo7304]

Fear alcohol and loneliness

[@preciousisiguzo2052]

I am lonely and I am non like her Usile nje lo Une low self esteem nje

[@mokgwadibaziggymolele9050]

That's true. You miss all the red flags when you mix those 2.

[@user-hq6lg2vh3m]

Dangerous

[@noxiek]

Eish

[@kesseltonnkosi]

savannah ne gordons

[@Ladyle4ever]

I wish i had a decent uncle, this woman sounds like a good woman who just need a loyal partner. I wish God can send you the right partner. A partner that is gonna love you right. ❤❤

[@nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369]

Lo udakwa sooo?🤣😂🤣🤣🤣

[@asanda138]

​@@nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@worshipermkhize703]

I think she's going through a lot hence she drinks alot. First seconds when the clip stated to play she mentioned depression

[@mondliafrikakahadebehadebe1006]

You wish your ankle to date a drunkard?

[@Nunec]

Decent?😂😂😂

[@user-dp3ws2gh6r]

He took you to Recharge for the 2nd time when u were SOBER and u still gave him card and pin😱 I'm happy he didn't ask u to get a loan for him because u would have agreed.

[@user-hq6lg2vh3m]

Hamonati jwang 😂😂

[@erensrhulani4451]

He was actually easy on her Could have been worse

[@yanganozewu2513]

It's so sad how life really works. Good people always find themselves in the hands of wrong people.

[@cindyrambau4476]

No ways you can’t be a good person and open your legs for a stranger on a first day. worst part bringing them to your house

[@samthew202guy]

The problem is alcohol lah , if you stop then you will make good choices sis you are good and kind hearted

[@mafadiphofa]

My brokenness will never allow me to do this, I mean INDODA must haibo 😂😂

[@mpumymahlangu9903]

The only financially generous Xhosa hun I’ve ever seen.

[@user-dp3ws2gh6r]

😂😂😂 so true

[@conniemogale5224]

Kwakwakwa

[@ceeysisandanenemba5847]

😂😂😂

[@MoAfrika-Afrika]

😂😂😂 One and only!

[@sandisiweloqo5560]

😂😂😂😂 literally the one and only!!

[@omphamashapha8971]

She has a beautiful heart,unfortunately people this days take advantage of that.Im sorry sis,but I honestly admire ur braveness,U r opening our eyes aswel

[@SibsM93]

Hai khona my sister you need to change, for your own sake. You're lucky to be alive after this incident.

[@PalesaS17]

You can’t be soo generous for men who won’t even bother to lift a finger for you. These guys are NOT your boyfriends, abantu be strada.

[@rachelandrews5746]

At least they used protection

[@royaledenoir5694]

Shame, such low self esteem, this is a deep seated problem. I pray she finds someone who will love her first who she is, not what she has!

[@MsRoriT]

This lady needs help. Can we PLEASE get a life coach to help this woman! 😢PLEASE!

[@kholofeloshubane2753]

I agree with you,she needs life coach,this can't be.

[@oratilemangwane5260]

More than anything I need this lady to understand how dangerous her actions were. Giving a person you hardly know your numbers,address and bank details is just unsafe and waking up with no recollection of what happened is really just so dangerous. I hope she becomes a bit more cautious. She seems so caring

[@mapulengnquthwane1793]

True anything could have happened, she put her life on danger

[@portiazulu8352]

Never allow a man that doesnt pay your rent to come to your house ok.😊

[@Athini_Myataza]

You're on point ke Lolo ✔️🙌👏 I have been staying alone since i was 19, i never allowed any guy into my space. I'm 32 years old now...

[@lettahkhutso3083]

If a guy ask me for R5 airtime I run for my life 😂😂😂 thank God im not drinking 😅

[@angelmathe1963]

I block same time

[@princekhumalo7737]

What if it's a test the guy is loaded he just want to see if you are a generous person

[@angelmathe1963]

@@princekhumalo7737 Ay his loss then. Why are we testing each other

[@makhadzimpfumba7126]

​@@princekhumalo7737 haii i test yani ... he's not Jesus ijohhh mxm

[@gwagon1933]

May I please have R30 airtime?

[@flowbeats_]

She lacks SELF LOVE. What a shame!

[@paballokota6378]

Don't go around judging people, everyone has their skeletons. Maybe you have a body count that can be shared amongst 50 women, thula!

[@Mbalings]

​@paballokota6378 but it's a fact. Akazithandi.

[@letlhogonolondhlovu6691]

​@@paballokota6378exactly, we don't know what's going on or what she might have been going through ❤ hope she's in a better place.

[@flowbeats_]

@@paballokota6378 I'm not judging her at all, just stating facts and praying she actually works on it.

[@nompumelelosisusa6003]

For the fact unike stranger I location, failed dismal, uyityisile team😢

[@Tumie-wn6iu]

Don't sleep with a man who isn't your husband!

[@user-ob6ej7oj2l]

Louder!!!

[@letlhogonolondhlovu6691]

Means I'll be celibate for life then

[@elizabethletsoso2558]

​@@user-ob6ej7oj2l🎤🎤🎤🎤

[@khethiwengubo8035]

I feel sorry for her, but I also feel we should take accountability of our actions... We have to take ownership of our actions.

[@dikeledixaba3510]

So true

[@gcebileh]

I know the feeling girl. Dating a jobless man. It's draining emotionally, financially and physically.

[@glenkhoza955]

Same as daring a jobless woman yho it draining 😂

[@relebohilepolilane3931]

That's not a scam. You just didn't date him to know him better. He thought he was just doing a hook up, and you were eager to spend money on someone who didn't know, and he came back for more. Honestly, you are to be blamed here. Let's learn to love ourselves and take accountability for our actions.

[@zodwadingiswayo8838]

Moral of the story, stay away from alcohol, specifically Gordons and Savannah😭😭😭

[@Andtherewaslight427]

😂😂😂😂

[@pennyp6984]

Jesuuuu lapho iziphuzo zam zombili😂😂😂

[@InamandlaMpanza-yx7np]

@@pennyp6984 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤

[@andisiwemaqokolo3397]

Lezozinja zotshwala ngiznyanya kabi

[@pennyp6984]

@@andisiwemaqokolo3397 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@lindaswit]

Sisi the guy is a ritualist🤞how can you only remember a first round and the rest you remember nothing...now you're unemployed!!! The guy took away your luck, you need to cleans - at church or egqirheni mntasekhaya.

[@auntieckmoyo3947]

Exactly my thoughts

[@thatomonau5459]

​@@auntieckmoyo3947shmss 😭very true 💯 Sisi 🙏

[@joycetsosane3513]

He's a ritualist indeed 😢he brought her bad luck

[@user-of9bx1uk3u]

This! Also maybe he pumped her out whisky she was under the influence.

[@Kabeyance]

Nah bro😂Bro is just energetic

[@mamakalami]

My young sister...you are beautiful and blessed. Do not allow men to toy with you. I know it's not easy to find a man who wants to stick around. But keep yourself safe and clean. There are a lot of men who prey on "allowing" women. Have standards and boundaries and dont be afraid to say No

[@mondliafrikakahadebehadebe1006]

How can they stick around while you're drunkard

[@mamakalami]

@@mondliafrikakahadebehadebe1006 they are drunkards too. Birds of a feather flock together. SA men have messed up standards for women. South Africans drink.

[@Julsm4484]

Yeah she must not be afraid to say NO😢

[@patrikhumalo6737]

Fell sad for this lady 😢specially when she said maybe I’m desperate I don’t know “😢

[@tehcmudau]

Come on, how on earth can you be like this in SA in 2024 Allowing a stranger as a woman in your house on 1st day

[@Andtherewaslight427]

I had a neighbor like this. She had so much love to give. I had to explain to her that it is dangerous to let a man you don't know endlini. And the ones who come to your house will know you do this often, so they won't take you seriously. She was very open to a relationship and love. The idea of it. So I am not shocked.

[@ThobakaMkhize]

M still chocked bhuty how did you allow stranger in your house maybe its that m a coward

[@user-hq6lg2vh3m]

Thina abanye singabafazi asisabi nix and its very scary 😟

[@tehcmudau]

@Andtherewaslight427 I thought all woman were very strict when it comes to men visiting their places, I'm out of words

[@tehcmudau]

@@ThobakaMkhize uyazi I still can't believe what I heard

[@malebohangmotloung6693]

I'm not judging neh, kodwa with so much human trafficking...this lady does not love herself shame, she does not know her worth she wants attention. I respect the fact that after she found out he has a wife she stayed away...I wish her happiness and peace in life

[@moedermolatlhiwa4475]

She sounds broken

[@ramatsetsempho8910]

Avela has long money, haibo!!! 😩 The red flags were there but she saw pink flags😭

[@khumbuzilemthiyane964]

Her problem is alcohol,not man.

[@sabelogwala3250]

Amanye amajita awanawo amahloni, I do not think I can be able ukucela istranger imali kangaka.

[@MissLerato]

Lol

[@nandempahlwa1565]

Yhooo utywala bu wrongo

[@qhamkajim5985]

Abazithandi futhi @Sabelo

[@nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369]

Look at you outchea fishing🤣🤭🤭

[@sabelogwala3250]

@@nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369 its very bold of you to assume I am out here fishing... but ke we all entitled to our opinion, noma kuthiwa iwubulima kanjani.

[@halacele8571]

Low self esteem plays a role in these matters 😢😢ai matters of the heart guys, it I was bad as it looks

[@MandyDikeni-cm4ef]

But muhle shame

[@angelamhlongo7304]

Jah when she mentioned paying R26 transport for her ex man....my heart broke for her😢 not sure if it's low self-esteem or the yearning for love

[@teem7303]

Sister is broken. Very low self-esteem.

[@ntombiyakhemasoeu6146]

@@teem7303 low self esteem

[@ThuleM]

She mentioned that she had been dealing with depression ngotshwala.

[@teem7303]

@@ThuleM I personally hope she learned from this experience and gets the help that she needs before ending up having a child/kids with someone who only saw her as a snack. Such woman are preyed upon and then left to fend for themselves and see how they get outta the mess.

[@moe_ramz]

These women are creating sassy men. Fuck, that’s why these men are out here expecting the most from us. Mama, stop your nonsense please!!! Umfazi doesn’t bheja. 🤢

[@gwagon1933]

Kusho bani?

[@NdabezinhleMaphumulo-tm5yq]

Ay kahle wena

[@sihlemasondo2898]

U don't beja u broke

[@moe_ramz]

There’s no masculine male on earth. Who wants a woman to take care of him financially, again. Women are becoming masculine, and are allowing sassy(feminine) men in their space. Just check the comments. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@dumisanindlovu4396]

This is the most bizzare story I've heard in a while. This lady is so irresponsible with her life and you guys want to shift the blame to the guy😢... Self love and accountability is important Sesi, and quit alcohol.

[@nmm1835]

That man had malicious intent from onset. In my eyes he is worse than this woman. He is a married man who meets women for sex an money. In fact he is a male prostitute. Sisi yena was drunk and stupid decisions.

[@sebolawejudy1137]

No one forced her, she did those consciously so, and to my surprise she knows her and alcohol don't mix, how can you allow someone you don't know in your space. She was very irresponsible I agree.

[@cheenamaake9651]

That man is a spirit harvester.He was sponging off your soul.all the asking of money and so so was the test to see if he succeeded 😢😢😢❤

[@senzomthembu261]

There's no job,no wife probably no childrens also.

[@suigeneris5193]

He didn’t scam you ke kodwa because you would’ve continued giving him money if you had not found out he was married.👀

[@Me-xoxoz]

Lapho sekumele sibele definition of Scam 😂😂😂

[@Mandee202]

Being married doesn't stop him from paying back the money he promised he will pay. So he scammed her...period.

[@mamolokotshivhula8650]

I think you could have asked her about her relationship with her dad or if her dad is present in her life...would have been interesting to hear more about that. Thank you for a beautiful conversation, that is creating awareness on the type of men who are out there

[@SingularSoulJourney]

Expose him so he doesnt scam others

[@Fame_Junior]

Handle: cold

[@annahboshielo]

Even if she does, there are women that are still gonna fall for him. Especially since he can go 6 rounds in 1 day 🤭🤭

[@tebogot4835]

I was feeling sorry for her till she said "ngiya betcha mina" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@user-fs4yv6tz8c]

😂 u betche nge 4000

[@sarahramanala4679]

Hawu Tebogo 😅

[@Ndlunkulu29]

😂😂😂 Ei nina

[@monicagunuza-ur6yo]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@karaborapitse1256]

😂😂

[@victoriamokoatle8241]

The type of men I met are exactly that type that want to be fed by us women it's disgusting I relate with u 100%

[@princekhumalo7737]

But you guys have been feeding of us for ages and we never say it's disgusting. Scamming is wrong, but helping your partner is not disgusting

[@Julsm4484]

When you talk to a guy, just take it slow and say NO if you see the first red flags you've been seeing from all the other guys

[@user-hz1cs2ti3n]

I don't think is married he was running away bcz he owe u I'm sorry sister ur beatiful pls reduce alcohol bbe man will take advantage of u love urself sesi

[@claudiamakhathini7515]

Dats crossed my mind 2

[@andiswamata8710]

Oh thank God I am stingy

[@AsandaMazwi-the-real-one]

Me too 😅😂😂😂 there’s no ways you can even get one beer from me shem

[@Ladyle4ever]

Same here, team stingy women. Aren't giving a man my money.

[@leratoloyal7981]

Yeyi😂

[@neliswamatwa5756]

@@AsandaMazwi-the-real-oneMe too sana😂😂😂😂I don't even spend my own money for transport to visit a man shame!

[@isaEm12]

In my case, stingy and broke. I don't drink alcohol either.😮 yho. Safety yona?

[@malebomaleka5802]

My lady stop doing things for men, they will take advantage and not even feel sorry for you.

[@portiamorifi5054]

I will never look at Gordon's the same after watching this😭😭😂😂😂😂

[@tshegofatsotlhoaele1530]

Same😂😂😂 everything is centered around Gordon’s and yaze ya moshela usisi 😂😂😂

[@ruuuruusamsr1891]

Me too 😂

[@user-rx5sp7kk6m]

The problem here is Alcohol, period. If you are unable to stop on your own, get help. The situations you get yourself into will only get worse as the depression from the outcomes of your behavior slowly seeps in. Its never too late to do better.it will only get worse please stop.

[@KatMug]

The interviewers side comments are dusting me : “wak’phinda futhi!“ 😂😂

[@londiwenombuso3229]

😂😂😂😂 kodwa yini

[@nhlanhlamanana8081]

😂😂

[@nkaisengmabaso6793]

Man said i" see the money part mara 9 rounds vele" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@KatMug]

@@nkaisengmabaso6793 that part 🤣 he was really stuck on that part if he could he would’ve asked for more details

[@nkaisengmabaso6793]

@@KatMug I feel like he did ask more after the camera's were switched off cause man was intrigued hey 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ntombisoko1121]

Avela dont beat yourself too much you have learned your lessons just dont repeat them again,heal and move on with your life,we all go through lessons in life in different ways,believe me other people have been through the most,others these things happen for years they even end up marrying themselves ending in divorce and depression sometime even death for love and not have a chance to come out and tell,just be grateful you still alive and you can work on yoursef.

[@Eugene-kv9ri]

Stop alcoholism.

[@user-ed2bv6rn5k]

This women meet wrong men while we around.😭

[@Ladyle4ever]

You're not working? You gave a stranger your bank card and pin? Bought him alcohol? And gave him some cookie 🤔🙄😪

[@jaquilinegwanzura1218]

even me im shocked yoo

[@user-td7ji3gp5y]

😂😂😂😂😂Ooh yhini bulambile😂

[@m-lloproducts6008]

Kushoda uku Kungcono 😂

[@forexchartz5855]

ya im shaken

[@user-hq6lg2vh3m]

Scary stuff losisi azenzayo under desperation for belonging and loneliness

[@mscarolMula]

Hayi Girls☹️. Mina the moment indoda starts to ask me to buy, I run away. Especially in the initial stage of relationship, is a red flag. For someone that we have been dating and build relationships I wouldn’t mind. Mogel she was too ignorant shame.

[@phetulosithale-qu8rv]

Yooooooo hai this is too much.... my safety comes first...

[@sel220seko]

That scammer is not married

[@ayandangcobo7933]

That's what I thought as well.

[@user-rv3en2ge4l]

Thought as much

[@user-zs8oq9fm2f]

Bajwaele ukudla imali zabantu yena akaqali

[@gabokoemoletsoalo6034]

Sorry sesi, you are such a good person. You've been taken for a ride. Heal and move on, you'll not get your money back

[@khanyisileshabalala1170]

The strange thing ukuthi usistaz uyathetha....umxhosa. Hayi odadewenu will hit you wena. I thank God for the gift of stinginess and overthinking

[@senzomthembu261]

Finally women r catching up with the reality that men r daily facing.

[@owamindaba4990]

😂

[@thendomutavhatsindi2009]

Low self esteem, lack of love and affection from home, causes many underlying issues when you become an adult.

[@nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369]

"He never told me he is married" ma'am did you ask?

[@kagisomogoshane5094]

My Question exactly 😂😂😂

[@sinazomakileni3938]

Haybo why must she ask!!bethuna the dating pool is something else😂is the person not supposed to disclose such information marriage is a big thing i would expect to be told

[@zee4458]

@@sinazomakileni3938unyanisile

[@teemac2894]

So if I don't ask u don't Tell? Lmao a joke and a half

[@nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369]

@@teemac2894 he owes nothing, nisazodliwa Teemac ngoba you are educated fools.

[@teem7303]

Ehhhh kante this is what's going on in the streets? Hmmm..... Kunzima mos I feel sorry for this sista 🥺

[@prettyaf2512]

Therapy can also help to find out the root of the problem

[@NkosinathiMasango012]

The problem emhlabeni is to make sure you balance ukulunga kwakho. Truth is most people like this sister end up being taken advantage of. There are many people out there who are taking chances, be careful of who you entertain in your space and time.

[@zintlemvunyiswa7270]

She needs to work on loving herself. It's strange that she allowed a stranger to her place like ayenzi sense Tu shame

[@On_PointwithN]

It's the second time I watch the interviewer and it surprises me that on both occasions he laughs when women have been violated.

[@MbaliRadebe-ce3vs]

The comment I was looking for! He laughs at the most inappropriate times, his line of questioning sometimes... very off putting.

[@On_PointwithN]

@@MbaliRadebe-ce3vsyes I just don't get it. If he wants to have these type interviews, he needs to develop empathy and understand serious issues that don't require his laughing. It's very much off putting and inappropriate.

[@zweletu3]

Not the first time I see him do this! Very disturbing!

[@thelazysnapper]

If I was the interviewee I’d really feel like shit if the interviewer laughed at my pain. And also his side comments are also off-putting “wadliwa futhi” like what happened to showing some empathy.

[@khanyisilevilakazi6786]

Some of y'all are so judgemental hence people will forever be ashamed to share they're stories. Come on it's 2024 majority of women go through such in the name of wanting to be loved and appreciated. Pity we meet such man who are aware that we need them. Nevertheless as women let's refrain from excessive alcohol drinking. Love and light sesi🥺💔

[@neziswadungayezi2275]

Forget about that money nono you have learned the hardest way remember he knows where you work and stay

[@shir_shan]

Shocked. A stranger. Women need to be more careful.

[@ntokozomazibuko9670]

But.... Im not judging, I'd genuinely like to understand how you find it okay to spend money on a man you JUST met?? Johhhhh my stingy ass would never return the minute you ask me to fetch MY alcohol haibo!!! tjerrrrrrr bring the alcohol in MY HOUSE FOR US TO DRINK??? Usile this guy mxm

[@user-sn8pb5ro5x]

Yoooh nuu askisi hle ukhuleke and nalesimo usikhulekise unkulunkulu uzakupha owakho u husband ozokuthanda okweciniso ungaphinde cc uphe abafana imali eyakho imali kumele isizekwakho sonomndeni wakho nendoda yakho ngiyazicelela okunye ungasaphuzi kakhulu mtase uzikalele or ubuyeke 😭😭❤️

[@thandekilenkomo2247]

That's why there's high rate of women being killed, kidnapped, trafficked.. you guys risk so much ngempilo zenu.... Thank you God for ukungabuphuzi utshwala that will save me from many things

[@tshegofatsos8167]

I admire her honesty. I pray for her restoration mentally

[@zazimazi9265]

This normally happens to rural girls when they get to cities/township's

[@Thando_Khumalo]

Abantu besifazane ba-brake ke nono, mina le bravery andiyifuni. Sis is a blesser

[@coachMims]

She need a life coach bathong, this story time 😢

[@ayandangcobo7933]

Na shame she is too young, expects say that your brain only fully develops after 25 years. This is so sad and i hope she learnt her lesson. Bless her soul❤

[@nothandosikhosana1644]

Accountability is also important you can’t be drinking with strangers and inviting them to your home ..it’s important to build your self esteem as a woman it helps you in situation like this

[@thuliendlovu719]

Yep. South Africa is generally unsafe for women and sadly that's not on us. However, we need to take accountability of our actions whilst we fight the battle. I don't think it's wise to invite strangers in your home. Talk more of having intercourse with them, whilst intoxicated, without tests.

[@ednabengu-ep2im]

Avela there's a lot you can do with your life, join church go to ladies gatherings #Hlukana notywala you're too beautiful.

[@zimkhithantokozo6708]

Yuuh ubesile ke lowe drink😂 haybo wancenda ahambe

[@lesley_lezley]

Hope she's getting help coz unfortunately, she had made herself a target for these men by telling the whole world her weaknesses.

[@ws9518]

So all they can discuss is this 6 issue? Instead of the risk she put herself in. This is how people go missing, kgnati they are murder and buried somewhere. What about safety????? Unless if they to talk about it because I haven't finished the podcast. As for the marriage part I think the guy was lying about being married , just a way of getting ride of her and on to the next

[@thulidaretorise]

Sometimes the green flag can become a red flag. Cc you need to set some real boundaries in your life, build up your self esteem and assertiveness. Forgive yourself and love again. You're a great lady with a warm and loveable personality.

[@mimisibiya8484]

You seem so sweet and wholesome but you need to take accountability for your part as well. This seems routine for you and some internal work is needed.

[@rosamaphanga2488]

Sthandwa sam the problem yi gordons😮 m sorry for what you went through...

[@thategomagane7938]

🤣 This is exactly why I don't drink it. It is deadly that thing. Worse + savanna 😭😭😭 2 deadly sins combined tjo! Recipe for disaster

[@keitum3516]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@nomondemapitiza2629]

Big up to you brother for being a responsible man❤

[@mbalenhlempungose1139]

i love this girl, all the way from tiktok i've been following her

[@snenhlanhlandlovu6976]

Lokhe ngithi “Yoh”😮

[@gwagon1933]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@khanyisamajodina7684]

Quite alcohol sisi ,i thank God i have never consumed alcohol emzimbheni wam and i will never am so proud of myself am approaching 40 , most people loose their dignity because of utywala 😢😢

[@amandamgobhoza2882]

Ay akazwe ngiyizwe into enje😮😮im just glad she is alive

[@mokubung]

Such honesty and openness. Stop beating yourself up. Love is a beautiful thing when it is true. We all yearn to be loved and feel appreciated in one way or the other. You need to be aware of your feelings and whether they are misdirected or not. Love and desperation are a remedy for disaster

[@abigailtakobana2950]

Saw her when she was narrating her story on TikTok, she is hilarious 😂

[@teem7303]

What's her handle?

[@nomfundonolwazi7244]

The name of this lady on TikTok please

[@ThalithaRakoma-rq3fs]

What is her name on tik tok

[@ahviwe]

Tough lesson, but it’ll grow you ❤

[@lindi-un4xo]

Honey , you are a good and refreshing my fellow South African person that doesn’t expect any men to keep you. I think that you are at the moment deflated, and you need to pick yourself up and you will. There are good men around and alcohol is not a demon. ❤❤❤

[@sinegugumaphumulo4100]

You need to love yourself more🤞🏾🤞🏾🤞🏾if awuzithandi abantu badlala ngawe. Ncese oe❤

[@tobelamtshotshisa1322]

Girl, go to small claims court. The court and justice will deal with him. Yes, the justice system is sometimes flawed but the small claims process always works like a charm!

[@bibimkeys6259]

Tell me one reason to trust a drinking woman, girlfriend or wife when it comes to LOYALTY and personal SAFETY?!!

[@zolandlovu44]

The interviewer failed to ask the right/relevant question... Dear Avela #tighthug sisi ❤

[@ThulaniMdakane-vt5wm]

There are many ladies who are through such but what shocks me is that when you met ladies like her in a mall or checkers they rude or moody to nice guys trying to greet them and yet they are attracted to toxic guys said reality😢 she doesn't deserve this