Pamela Anderson isn't looking for sympathy - she's just telling her story

[@victoria.galvin]

The calm and respectful nature of this interview is so nice, and stands in such contrast to how Pamela was treated by many male interviewers in the 90s and 00s. I have watched a lot of footage and many interviewers were unfair and unkind. The humanizing of Ms. Anderson has been refreshing and beautiful to witness. Enjoyed the documentary and am looking forward to the book which I happily bought.

[@carolinelaronda4523]

Yes, I agree they really matched each other’s calm vibration

[@divagirllove3977]

misogyny runs our media systems so that's why she was treated so awful

[@fireflie78]

What a great interview! So happy that Pam told her story, I have such a new respect for everything she has gone through

[@surrrrferrr1000]

This man did an amazing job of being sensitive and compassionate and respectful.

[@TheShanlou]

Beautifully said. I so agree.

[@JukeboxJunkie7]

My respect for Pamela skyrocketed after watching the Netflix documentary. I'm now reading her book and loving it. What an inspirational, incredible human being. She is so much more than how the media and fame machine portrayed her when I was growing up. I'm so happy she looks so happy and healthy (and more radiantly beautiful than ever)!

[@cris_balm7460]

Beautiful inside and out :)

[@TaytoJack94]

@@cris_balm7460 yes! So beautiful inside and out ❤️

[@LeslieRae]

I agree

[@annee7787]

Well said!

[@donnaleesalerno]

Yes, quite relatable. I too, am reading her book now and appreciate her transparency. She is a beautiful, intelligent and empowering woman.

[@ellacarmel]

i love that tom matched her tone, demeanor and level of eye contact to make her comfortable in this interview. it was beautiful to watch a humanized, down to earth and calm version of pamela anderson, i loved this.

[@TerriBingham]

Tom's kind approach to the interview is so helpful. Glad her book made the NY Times list!

[@qian4413]

They both have very beautiful and soothing voices, and are very articulate. This kind of interview is rare nowadays

[@DustyAssStar]

❤❤❤

[@superenglishteachermama9710]

You go Girl! Such a survivor. Neither Diana nor Marilyn survived this media hell of destruction and abuse. They would be still alive and with us. Pamela did survive and came back!!!!! Pam we love you. You are a great Mama, a great woman and human. You are Role model and your 2 sons are ONLY your daily hard word and dedication. London-Paris

[@CeeTeeUSA]

I wouldn't go that far. She's got more wealth than anyone in the comment section here and lives a luxury life. She sold her sexuality, she wasn't forced. If she had problems they were self-made..

[@DustyAssStar]

❤❤

[@Sorsha]

Can we please get more Pamela interviews like this one?! This was fantastic!

[@lauragwillim1055]

I’ve watched many of her recent press interviews and she was so much more relaxed in this one. She looks so much more comfortable here.

[@MissSissi4]

@@lauragwillim1055I agree!

[@Hemant.s]

gotta get more interviewers like Tom

[@jayt4835]

Here’s the thing: Pamela has ALWAYS been trying to tell us there was more depth & variety to who she is. A girly girl who loves to be flashy? Absolutely! A woman of thought who has a passion for art? Also completely true. If you paid attention you could always see that in her. The problem was that the media never allowed the depth to be focused on - only the visage. THIS interview however did just that. Allowed the well rounded woman / artist / writer to speak her truth in a safe space with all the time she needed. Thank you for this, well done!

[@coreyo.conner7897]

I'm so happy for her! She raised her boys into compassionate young men. She endured hell and misynogy... abuse and never played victim... even when she was totally victimized by her looks, sexuality. Pamela is such a likable, highly intelligent person. I truly appreciate and respect her authenticity! 🙏🏽 🙌🏽

[@Radmxray]

I agree with most of what you said. However, in my view ( which is maybe wrong), when she was wearing all of those revealing, tight and skimpy outfits, she did that TO get attention, TO be noticed, TO be seen for her physical attributes. Was she a victim of Misogyny? Probably. But most women are. I say that because I've experienced it. But if you're going to market yourself as a sex symbol ( which was definitely her brand) you are going to be treated a certain way. I love her. I think she has beautiful heart and I think she's a great mom. But, yeah.... She was trying to be seen as super hot. 🔥 Which of course she is.

[@pearldaisy6382]

I think Pams choice not to be bitter and not display it in her book is innate. She inspires me to be better, to get past the grudges and live.❤

[@CeeTeeUSA]

You tapped into it. Women who were hot at one point and faded away as they age are usually in a panic. The ability to manipulate men with looks is important for these types. Had a girlfriend who was hot up to her mid 30s and got old. Today she's on Antidepressants and Benzos..

[@cielitolindo7080]

00:35 - About Pamela’s book being a bestseller 01:00 - Pamela’s press tour 02:40 - Childhood 04:45 - Feelings while writing a memoir 07:26 - Poetry and Pablo Neruda 09:55 - How was Pamela discovered 13:02 - Shooting for Playboy 16:20 - Baywatch 17:59 - Tommy 19:30 - The tape 20:20 - About “Pam and Tommy” 21:35 - Pamela’s sons 23:25 - “I’m not a victim” 24:23 - About weaponized empathy 25:20 - Moving back to Canada 30:25 - About loving people

[@rosechardonnay5351]

I just finished Pamela's book and watched her documentary and it was amazing!!! Such a kind, sensitive, intelligent, and compassionate human being! I'm glad she can now tell her story and break away from the caricature the media made her into and can be seen as the amazing activist and philanthropist that she is. She also raised two wonderful articulate, kind, intelligent, loving boys that clearly love their mother very much! You are a winner Pam!

[@enriquecajigas7]

Loved the part when Pam said "why not love somebody in spite of it all, you cant change people, you can only love them" and you said with your eyes closed "beautiful" and she giggled 31:12

[@pinki3dt]

I love how soft spoken she is. Pamela is so beautiful. I’m glad she got to finally tell her story. She’s an icon.

[@annapachaclarke2392]

Always admired her, and not just her beauty. I always saw the beautiful heart, sense of humour and intelligent mind. She never put anyone else down, no matter how many others tried to belittle her. I totally understand how she had to take control of her body, after people taking advantage of her. She is an awesome woman ❤❤

[@alisonluke1535]

So happy for her ❤ From one Canadian to another, thank you Pamela for sharing your story! (and thanks Tom for such a nice interview).

[@lucy1231]

I have so much respect for pam she has had so much crap thrown at her over the years and survived abusive relationships but still speaks kindly and full of love Shes an amazing woman and a brilliant mother

[@stephhill8710]

Her perspective on her own trauma is beautiful and inspiring.

[@CeeTeeUSA]

If she had trauma it was mostly self inflicted. Her parents clearly shaped who she became and that part was out of her control.

[@Iamstarlarose]

Blown away by this interview! The way you approached each area of her life was beyond compassionate and you held safe space for her throughout. THIS is the way forward, THIS allows people to be celebrities, express themselves, create their art and still be allowed to show their humanity. Pamela is surely part of the full time optimism crew, as am I, it is rare and beyond beautiful in every way! I enjoyed this so much. I am pretty sure myself and Pamela have the same books on our shelf! LOL. 🥰🙌

[@brendajohima]

What a fantastic conversation, Tom, you have done this interview with class and kindness (of course!) … and I just LOVE Pamela Anderson. Her kindness and love for all is palpable and her brilliance, wisdom, smarts and multi-talents are so inspiring! Her story? Incredible and I’m so grateful to her for sharing this all publicly. Much love to you, Brenda

[@rachelbeau4629]

What an incredible interview. Unbelievable. She’s so brilliant & thank you for giving her a safe space to express. Unreal.

[@suzannevanmaurik8494]

My god this woman is amazing. I'm so glad she did the documentary - I had absolutely no idea about the things she went through, and how genuinely talented she actually is. I'm happy for her, and happy to know more about her.

[@cosettelaplante699]

She's a very thoughtful, insightful, inspiring, kind person.

[@rose_quartz_loveandlight]

iconic and so beautiful ❤ so great to see Pam getting the respect she has always deserved 🌹

[@BeeKay4444]

Always want to give Pam huge kudos for being such a powerful advocate for animals. I adore animals and her work has drawn attention to things that must change. ❤

[@Accomandoc]

Pamela is SO well spoken!!!!!!

[@jkxkr]

I applaud both of them 🙏🏻 Her for being so extremely strong and doing so much for others and him - for being so respectful so smart about it all 👏🏻

[@sgd.6830]

Pamela is pure class, with a kind ❤

[@ambsat]

“I feel people are really rooting for me.” Yes. We are. Good for Pam. “A real person” all along…everyone is. Fantastic interview~great questions, really tuned into Pam and what to ask next. I could have listened to another hour. I’ve heard this interviewer before, by randomly finding interviews of other people in the past, and always enjoyed them, and your style of honest, direct, thoughtful interviews. Thank you!

[@MissSissi4]

Me too!

[@AngeezSoul]

Pamela is Clearing Generational Patterns in Both Directions of Lineage....Huge Courage and Love. Changing Herself Changes All

[@grizeldaxxx4568]

So true, She inspires Me

[@mercyrodriguez2700]

She’s so adorable and has such a calm nature about her. ❤

[@cindyfitzgerald4500]

I have so much respect and love for Pam . She is so beautiful inside and out.

[@JLady4]

I read the book and watched the documentary. What l took away from this mostly is how present and astute Pamela Anderson was and is. I think this is because of her journaling, and her Literacy skills. If any of us want to understand how to be present in life, Pamela Anderson should be your inspiration.

[@lilianab4756]

👏👏👏💕💕💕

[@DustyAssStar]

❤

[@AnneLindsey1]

Such a good a respectful interview! I’m so glad she has been able to do all this especially with the help of her boys. She’s obviously a deep, sensitive and highly intelligent woman! Go Pam!❤

[@a.s.4601]

Pam is a deeply intelligent woman. She was exploited by men wanting to make a profit off of her.

[@TheSublimeFactor]

I really like how real she always is, she always replies honestly and how sweet she truly is.

[@perry5509]

She's right the book really was so cinematic to listen to, the way she described things was insane it created such a vivid image of who she is at her core, and who she's been at each stage of life

[@ashleyconnell5987]

Love her spirit! Such a lovely soul.

[@maryforester9122]

She is very impressive. Very well spoken.Glad she was able to tell her story in her own words. She's not just another pretty face ,as she was portrayed in Hollywood. It's nice when you find out someone is 💯 REAL. It's refreshing. Her interview was very truthful and real. It's what people want to hear. She has not let her abusers ruin her. She turned it around and used it to empower herself and her life. She deserves everyone's respect.

[@DustyAssStar]

❤❤❤

[@anacristinacosme]

What a great interview. Pamela was very misunderstood and I'm glad she's taking her power back ❤️

[@JannetteRoadsStevens]

Love her compassion for animals , PETA and her support for Assange. Lovely person.

[@sillylittlebirds6259]

Great book, had me in tears for her childhood & my own self reflection. God Bless Pamela Anderson ❤️

[@jsmum196]

I really love Pam. It's so nice to hear her voice, her stories and about her life going forward. She's wonderful and I hope we continue to hear and see her.

[@beachbliss9366]

I’m listening to Pamela’s book on Audible. Pam’s gifted with a pure heart. She’s so amazing! ♥️

[@DustyAssStar]

Yes

[@Lovemysweetheart]

She has a beautiful heart…. She’s such a sweet and loving woman. Thank you Pam for sharing your life events. God Bless You 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️

[@diegodeleon5787]

Great, insightful interview! Her book really moved me. I never thought I would find myself relating with Pamela Anderson. I highly recommend the audiobook. Her voice is so calming, and she really paints a picture for you. Such a beautiful book.

[@jazzwithwings]

Pam I really came away from this with a changed heart. You are so authentic and loving. Really refreshing in this day. You have certainly found your purpose. Soak up every minute with your parents. When they go you can never get it back. What a wonderful interview. Bravo!!!!!

[@JustaGirl.357]

Glad she's telling her story. So many women can relate. Myself included. She did the best she could with her trauma and used it to her advantage and became a sex symbol. It's like having a disability almost, and making the best of it. This is helping a lot of people.

[@hsk2909]

Could not have said it any better myself. Here, take it ...🙏

[@joycegibbs5267]

she’s so pure, kind, wise & beautiful. She’s also an animal activist so pretty perfect in my eyes !!

[@jlbaker2000]

Paul McCartney presented her with an award for her animal rights work.

[@Cynthia-s2p]

I really relate to Pamela,both the powerful woman and the sensitive intellectual artist. I’ve had so much undeserved adversity and am now able to protect my vulnerable child parts and not allow bullies to define me. I’m so inspired by her telling her story and cannot wait to read her book! Thank you,Pamela!🥰😇

[@SunnivavinnuS]

This was a great interview, thank you! So nice to see the real person, not entertainment. I've always loved Pamela, what a positive person 🙏💖

[@TaytoJack94]

Loved her book and her documentary! She’s a true gem! ❤️❤️❤️

[@mareesimonis7656]

Great interview Tom, you hit just the right note with your thoughtful questions. In many ways a perfect conversation.

[@elizabethl169]

Wow, she's way more intelligent and special than I think a lot of people realized!

[@aquajuwel7098]

Truth

[@claudiataylor9207]

That’s what I love about her she doesn’t play the victim like all these celebs she’s proud of her messy past and crazy experiences! She’s thrived off it learnt from it and now realises her worth she’s not going woe is me she’s saying wow is me and I love her!

[@Lotusmama100]

I just discovered this channel. What a great interviewer Tom is! So refreshing to hear sensitive; intelligent, and respectful he interacts with his guests. I am a fan now.

[@odorutori]

She sounds like she did really well as a parent listening to how her kids stand by her. Especially rare in Hollywood.

[@jenpw1525]

Those boys aren’t entitled and spoiled like most celebrity kids are. They are empathetic, nurturing, hard working young men.

[@florence1395]

If she can help anyone then that’s awesome! She’s been through a lot, & so have many people & I think she will definitely help them, so bravo 👏 from France 🇫🇷 🌹

[@missrotf]

Wonderful interview. Really enjoyed the interviewer and his questions and demeanor and simply…his kindness and interest in her. Thank u. Always loved Pamela Anderson and felt the world just used her like everything and everyone else. Good for her. Super inspiring 💜🌸

[@LizaLavolta]

Great questions, great exchange. Finally, a quality interviewer for Pam

[@PapiShampoooo]

There is literally no other 90s blond bombshell like Pamela ! ✨

[@Trendspottify]

„You cannot change people. You can only love them.“ Well said, Pamela.

[@Texasgirl10Growing]

She’s still so beautiful! This is the best interview I’ve seen. ♥️

[@laurastrobel718]

Wonderful interview. Tom is on the same wavelength with Pamela and shows great empathy towards her. 🙏💖

[@dextermoore278]

This was one of the best Interviews with Pamela because Tom was so respectful to her. I love how Pamela said that we have to break these Generational Curses of Abuse. Women shouldn't have to walk on eggshells around men because they are scared. We need to break these cycles of abuse for the next generation. I am sure Pamela will have grandchildren one day, and she will absolutely love being a grandmother. I think that will be very fulfilling for her. Pamela is a really sweet and kind lady. I love the Documentary and the Book. Pamela is an inspiration to everyone.

[@Green.heron24]

I like her and wish her more peace and joy. I think the interviewer did not pick up on her emotions, that she had a long press tour and was tired of reliving her experiences of abuse. Be aware of women's feelings that they may not want to keep talking about past abuse as it can retraumatize them, but instead ask about future hopes, dreams and better goals for moving forward.

[@Shishu00]

I noticed she doesn’t like to make eye contact. I’m the same exact way when nervous, love her she seems so sweet and soft

[@MelanieAbalos-b7q]

When the interviewer speaks, she makes eye contact; when she speaks, she rarely makes eye contact.

[@LiveLoveLaugh22]

She comes across as the average woman who at times in her life is full of anxiety. Even comes across like she had or has an OCD personality with the worries she’s had since a child. She is again like many women & has learned to navigate & enjoy life for what it is- a gift❤Blessings to Pamela & her family. I love that she realizes how lucky she is to still have her parents.❤

[@sue8494]

After watching the Netflix documentary I said to myself I wish I was her neighbor. Such a kind human being and what a nice friend she would be. Such a beautiful soul inside and out. ❤

[@BeeKay4444]

Appreciate the interviewer……respectful and knows how to listen!

[@44CJW]

Lovely interview. Very thoughtful. So glad you are home Pamela. ❤🇨🇦

[@txspacemom765]

I think there is the Hollywood Pam we think we all know and then there is just Pam. I love her! I feel for her and I get her. Watching her documentary, she was used, abused and still came out of top. She has 2 wonderful, respectful boys and I love her heart and all she does for animals and the planet.

[@robbremault8145]

Such a sage with life experiences that make us all real - thanks Pam!!! X O California

[@Warnerchild]

as far as i'm aware i'd never seen a video with tom power before - after recently watching the matty healy vid and this - i wonder if he has always been this good - i love how he listens and is happy to divert if something pops up in the conversation and does it all with a great amount of warmth with the availability of humour and seriousness

[@diannp6153]

She was the most beautiful woman to come on the scene back in the 90’s. I love the documentary, her son did an amazing job of capturing her story. ❤❤

[@waniliaa]

The best interview with Pam i have seen. And i felt like Tom was amazing too letting her speak but also asked right questions. I love this «You Cant change somebody, you can just love them>

[@jessicak8896]

I’m so glad she’s number 2 she deserves the most publicity! Bring her back! I love Pam!! Beautiful as ever, I still want to be Pam Anderson when I grow up💕❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Pippi-rippi]

This was a really sweet and loving interview. I could feel the respect from the interviewer. What a great guy, leading the conversation towards what actually matters.

[@Shareshten]

KINDNESS! She is so wise. Her beauty maybe distracted us from her Ghandi nature and how much she is here to lead women and all people's minds. Thank you Pamela for your bravery and love for the world.

[@hsk2909]

Ps. Love Love LOOOOVE the fact of absence of evident plastic surgery. Hat off 100 times for that Pamela. You seriously look amazing and the fact that your forehead reflects a part of your facial expressions and your smile is not a strange frown and jawline not pulled back as if by a rubber band that's about to break any moment, it's just amazing for someone so famous in these days. So so love it, keep keeping it real, you're amazing! 😍💋❣

[@taylorwilliams4179]

Wonderful, insightful interview. Pamela's so well spoken and I could understand when she talked about her as a writer. Such an inspiration to be positive and happy as you can be

[@angelaholmes8888]

I can't wait to read Pamela's memoir I really enjoyed her documentary glad she's decided to do this

[@sallykins3800]

I’m lucky that I got to find out that she was more than just a famous Baywatch/Playboy/Pin up for a long time now , her long time activism , her petitions for animal welfare, her support for Julian Assange . She truly is a compassionate, wonderful woman .

[@pamelabonaparte9383]

What a great conversation…..I swear he’s the only one that got it ! We all have a unique journey ❤👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@Accomandoc]

Absolutely beautiful inside and out!!!!

[@AngeezSoul]

Thank You Tom and Pamela, Very Insightful Conversation....Expanded and Evolving Masculine/Feminine Dynamics

[@inaj27]

Never did feel sorry for her , she just showed her strength!!! People need to change their perception

[@StellaAdler_]

A sweet, gentle and genuine soul. Just like marilyn monroe, in the 90’s i remember people just called her a “dumb silicone blonde”. We should all try & be kinder and less judgmental as a whole because honestly, u never ever know what a person is going through. Pamela, u’re a beautiful inside and out woman and we need more interviews with u 🙏🏼🧿❤ And to the interviewer, thank u for being gentle & kind. A far cry from howard stern and his disguising questions whenever she was his guest 🙏🏼

[@lynnelizabeth9343]

Thanks for showing your authenticity and vulnerability

[@rhymeandreasoning]

The paper in those journals that she got her thoughts, feelings, emotions written out on, helped to take some of the weight of the burdens that she was carrying. Once she put her thoughts/ feelings onto paper, that paper/ those journals were lightening her personal load. They look the load off of her shoulders to a certain extent, and carried the weight. And I like how she says, that when she wrote stuff down in her journals, at least there is proof. Proof of existence. Very insightful.

[@Pleasureoriley]

I have always loved Pamela, even during her crazy days before kids. To watch her evolve into this gracious being makes my heart sing.

[@jordanah1239]

I love her, she is so authentic and brilliant, what an amazing soul 💖

[@donnapiraino3323]

Pamela is very Authentic…Intelligent and interesting…She is very sensitive and Empathetic..She surrounds herself with Love, Compassion, and kindness ♥️♥️♥️♥️I admire and adore her ♥️🙏🏼Great interview

[@BeeKay4444]

What a lovely soul wrapped in a beautiful being. A good Canadian girl is what she has always been. I am so proud of her for not allowing Hollywood to tear her up. She is elevated and has been kind enough to allow us to see her just a little. Be bless lovely lady. 💖

[@rockindudu2765]

This is one of the best Pam A interviews.

[@DVASJC]

I love Pamela coming back us!!! Her true audience is now able to give her, her flowers and fully support and love her!!!

[@Jordana1018]

A great interview…a good honest interview of a truly beautiful bright soul. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼bravo

[@michaeld.williamsiii9026]

😊This interviewer is pretty amazing and so respectful in his interviewing I’m really intrigued as a person studying broadcast journalism. Pam Anderson I’ve got so much, respect for she is an inspiration.💛🙏🏾💛

[@inkybluecompanionanimalres7795]

Love Pamela! Tom- you are an excellent, sincere interviewer

[@LP12191]

Great interview- the interviewer was respectful and listened well.

[@susansorel8153]

She is just a beautiful person. That was such a wonderful interview.❤❤❤

[@michael100807]

Great interview! Thank you! I love Pamela! She's my hero! :))

[@Reunion4ever]

Love Pamela’s depth and spirituality. Love this interviewer’s smooth, insightful and respectful style. Subscribed ❤

[@zanevolk6810]

I’m 35. She was my first Crush in the 90s. I love her even more today. Go you Miss Pam. Strong woman!