Cebu, a Sad Story

Hello. This is a special video that gets in touch with some feelings I had while in Cebu. You might want to get out some tissues. This is part of my series of my Philippines vacation that took place from February 3-19, 2024. I have other videos about other things. So check them all out please. #cebu #philippines #cebuisland #cebucity #poverty

[@user-ui9yo1kb9v]

In America, they do have lots of homeless people as well. But compared to those homeless people in the Philippines, they are more respectful, kinder, and friendly despite their hardships, they're happier.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@user-ui9yo1kb9v I live near Boston, and there, is a place called methadone mile. Many drug addicts gather there. It is extremely sad. But I never once saw any children there. I’m not immune to the homeless problem in the United States. This is about the Philippines.

[@jamesgilbert2181]

if poverty bothers you that much just go home this place will break you

[@shakeblue5573]

Omy goodness, a grown arse man crying cause he see poverty...Man up! Go visit the USA,,, its rich with poverty

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@jamesgilbert2181 not an option. But thanks for your concern. I will adjust in time. But I never want to be completely shut off to my feelings either.

[@normalperson9646]

Not his point. Seeing it merely reminded him of the struggles of others, his gratitude for the life and family he has, and keeping others in mind....be kind, be generous, and be humble.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@normalperson9646 thanks! You get me! And I appreciate you!

[@lcmichaels7215]

@@dannystravelvlog you will adjust in time. You will start to be able to determine who are truly working hard to make ends meet, who truly need the help being unable to work and those who just want the easy money. You will have to lead with your gut, then your heart. Two examples: 1) One woman I see almost everyday at the nearby 7-11. On several occasions, I've seen her pull an old beat up coffee cup from her bag, then buy a coffee with a 1000 peso note. Drink the coffee, throw that cup away, then put the coins into the old cup and beg for money from customers throughout the day, shaking the cup in their faces. Once I saw her routines several times, I stopped helping her. I talked to a couple of the 7-11 workers and they confirmed my suspesions. i asked why didn't they chase her off and they said their boss said to not bother her. 2) Walking into another 7-11 on the other side of town (I live in Cabanatuan) a little girl about 7 or 8 held the door open for me. I'm an amputee and the gesture was nice. I went to get my Coke Zero and I saw her just staring through the outside window where the ice cream was. She wasn't looking at me, not expecting anything from me. I set me bottle on the counter and said be right back, went outside to approach her. She stepped back, I think thinking she was in trouble. I just pointed to the window and said "you want some ice cream?" She shyly nodded. I took her inside to the cooler and let her pick what she wanted. Wasn't the most expensive nor the cheapest, just what she taught looked yummy. She looked at me and said "I take two?" I laughed and said why not. So she picked a smaller ice cream as well. I told her to go to the counter and when she did, the cashier yelled at her in Tagalog. The little girl held her head down went back to the cooler, put her picks away and grabbed the cheapest items in the cooler. I asked the cashier if the little girl was her daughter or relative (thinking she was teaching a lesson) and she said "no, just a pain who shows up sometimes." This pissed me off. I bent down to the little girl and said "put those up and get what you wanted." The cashier started yelling again and I said to her "enough, I'm buying the ice cream, not you. She can get what she wants." Cashier gave me a F U look, but rang me up. We walked outside to the building next door where a little boy no older than 5 was sitting. The little girl gave the boy the LARGER ice cream and said "Americano bought, say thank you." The boy sheepishly said thank you and I almost lost me. I gained my composure, gave each of them a 50p note and said my goodbyes. You will learn when to give and when to hold your wallet. And you have to remember, you cannot help everyone. It's sad but true. You have to pick your battles, and you'll sometimes choose wrong. Just part of the learning experience.

[@mike.p.1400]

I just moved here. Two weeks now. In the province of Leyte. I’ve been here before. Several times. But now I’m trying to live here with my wife. Very tough going so far. There are many issues. But I’ll name two. Privacy and the food.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@mike.p.1400 enjoy what you can. Your wife is the best reason to be there. Maybe we can meet someday

[@rogerwilco4736]

Gotta agree about the food I live here and it's incredibly difficult to find good quality fresh food except certain fruits and most processed food is laden with sugar

[@rayklein1125]

7 or 8 pesos? You sure you could afford it.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@rayklein1125 thank you so much for the harsh comment. I probably should’ve emptied my pocket and gave him several thousand pesos. What was I thinking? You’re absolutely right. In that moment, I did not act properly. I did not do the next right thing. And that will probably haunt me for the rest of my life. I’m so grateful to you for bringing it up

[@rayklein1125]

Danny the comment was not meant to be harsh. A few thousand pesos? I don't think so sir. 50 pesos would have been enough to fill that little kids stomach. I don't tolerate beggars here, but if I see something like you experienced I can't help myself. We can't help everybody, but a little kindness here and there goes a long way. All the best. Ray

[@vpw65]

@@rayklein1125 why not implement population control instead of being a perpetual beggar.

[@hughjanis6439]

I'm afraid that I will have the same reaction as you if I go there. I could feel your emotion. I would be the same way. I am helping a single mom in the Philippines. People would think I'm a fool and that I'm being used. I don't care what people think. I know she needs my help and I have been blessed with a great job and I can afford to help her. I ask for nothing from her.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@hughjanis6439 I pray every day that God can use me in anyway that he needs to use me for me. It’s as simple as that.

[@MrJoe1199]

Bravo. I am also doing exactly what you are doing. Good on you that you don't care what people think. People are always afraid of being scammed; sure it happens but you have to understand the Pinoy, they are very very proud people, and if they ask for money, it is because they NEED help 90% of the time (swallowing their pride is HARD) and only 10% scam. Worth the risk if I can help one family, that's my take on it.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@MrJoe1199 again, I agree

[@mysticvirtue8886]

I help a mother of four there who had a stroke, I love helping them and pay for their schooling too, the kids are so appreciative

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@mysticvirtue8886 I am blessed in knowing good people like you. Thanks for watching!

[@peter-pg5yc]

Hey just like california, frisco, san jose,oakland..

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@peter-pg5yc I know. Poverty is everywhere. But poverty in America is different. It’s hard to explain in words. You just have to see it to understand.

[@DionneLeslie1]

​@@dannystravelvlogindeed

[@peter-pg5yc]

Reality most of the world live in abject poverty..we in america dont have a clue

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@peter-pg5yc that’s exactly it! And this video was my wake-up call.

[@RealGaryGibson]

I would recommend staying away from the street food. They have very questionable sanitary standards as well as their food sources. I know it's cheap and tasty but you are risking your health. I know because I live in Cebu and my gf and her family tell me this.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@RealGaryGibson I will consider your advice. But sometimes I just want to live on the wild side

[@RealGaryGibson]

@@dannystravelvlog It sounds like you haven't been sick like I was yet.

[@allanbalbuena3659]

Enjoy your stay there, Danny. I could see your kindhearted person.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@allanbalbuena3659 Thank you!

[@arturocarreon6153]

I watched all your video friend, I really salute you. You have a big heart . Take care always friend.

[@dannystravelvlog]

Thank you! I really appreciate that you watched it. It was definitely from my heart

[@MrJoe1199]

Subscribed after seeing this video. You show the Philippines TRUTH, not some fake resort fantasy... THANK YOU!

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@MrJoe1199 thanks for letting me be me.

[@MrJoe1199]

@@dannystravelvlog heh :) that's why I'm watching. There's plenty of other channels where they say "oooooooh no you are being scammed' :) I don't need that from YOU

[@ferney2936]

Hi Danny, thanks for posting this. Now I know to stay at that hotel in Cebu & I'll look out for the street people you saw. You have a great heart & you should be proud. I'll be following your journey from here. I guess KZbin served me your video because I've been searching for travel & accommodation in Cebu, so Google's snooping has had a positive effect this time.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@ferney2936 good to hear. I was post more soon. I do room reviews on many of my videos

[@rocketman1828]

I stayed at the Pillows for a month. Just around the corner is Fuentes Circle with a Robinson's Store and many nice stores. Up the Street from the Pillows is a major hospital. Many medical clinics near by. I didn't see the poverty you relate to in the area. Yes there is poverty in the Philippines but Ce

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@rocketman1828 that was part of the situation. I was surprised to see people sleeping on the sidewalk. And I would have adjusted to that, but the child eating his food squatting down was a soft spot for me. I love all children, and I would like to be able to help as many as I can. I know it’s difficult, because if you start handing out money or even food, then you can get swarmed with other needy children.

[@honeymaenunez8367]

Living in big cities and populated areas in Philippines is mix people lifestyle. You can see the contrast of very rich people in nice high rise buildings and shanty& dilapidated houses of poor people. Some are even homeless. The government is corrupt. All walks of Filipino people strive to survive from homeless to very rich who owns business. Govt is not helping providing jobs and shelters. Business people find difficulty running business because of many permits and taxes imposed. The govt offices who issue permits and taxes are milking on the businessmen.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@honeymaenunez8367 I know we can’t solve all the worlds problems. So maybe we could try to solve the problems in the world around us. Even if it’s just a small way to help people. I think every action helps.

[@dannystravelvlog]

You should all check out my other videos. They are not all drama. But they are all from my heart

[@CreatorsBurnout2Brilliance]

amazing, eye opening, very touching, great reminder of gratitude for all the simplest of things we have.💯💯👏🏼👏🏼

[@dannystravelvlog]

Thank you thank you thank you! I am a man with a grateful heart.

[@mariatheresahuizo8182]

I am so sad ..am a filipina..am living in cagayan de oro city...I study hard and pursue my dreams in order for to have a job...and I am grateful and thankful to God...for I am blessed...I work hard for me to live and have my needs .foods and shelter...I share foods to those kids whom I meet in the street

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@mariatheresahuizo8182 you are a good person doing God’s work. Thank you.

[@mariatheresahuizo8182]

@@dannystravelvlog .. I am joining an organization helping those in needs...I joined feeding programs , and community outreach as well Medical Mission...Life is unpredictable🥰May Bless us all💕🙏

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@mariatheresahuizo8182 we all do what we can

[@MichaelPrudhomme-u7x]

You're a good man. I've seen some other ex-pat tubers who try to give something every day that improves a life. Even if that's just a meal. You can not fix the world but you can reach out, be real, and help somebody every day. It is a very good mission to add to your journey there.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@MichaelPrudhomme-u7x thank you such much for understanding me and my mission. I truly appreciate you!

[@rocketman1828]

Cebu City is a great community and far from being poverty stricken. Take a cab to the Casino and film your vlog there or the mall across the street. I assure you that mall does not stay open for foreigners only.

[@MarkSantos3729]

must be your first time in the PH. Just remember, you can help a few but you cant help them all. Its in every country.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@MarkSantos3729 I understand. Thank you. And yes, it was my first time

[@MrJoe1199]

@@dannystravelvlog if everyone does what you do the world would be a much much much better place. I know you know, and therefore you and I know that helping others is helping yourself. It does not matter that you help only one or several and not BILLIONS of people. Think of it like this: that little child you gave 7 pesos to, you helped her to live one more day so she could live to fulfill the task she is on earth for. Wouldn't that be super awesome? :)

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@MrJoe1199 you are the reason I make these videos. Thank you sincerely for watching.

[@udirtypuppy5174]

you made me cry with your content on this video. Good men are brothers in arms.

[@Farang189]

Thanks for sharing.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@Farang189 thank you for watching

[@Old_Grey_Wolf_]

I have been privileged to have visited 42 countries and conclude there is no limit to man's inhumanity to their fellow man. Re the P.I.? I myself have been a resident for 10 years and will always give food ( never ever cash) to those that ask. As a Pyschologist I often refer my clients (as well as myself) to the Karpman triangle which,in short, states all rescuers become victims be it financially, emotionally or simply being kept up all night thinking. In the final analysis of any or all countries I visit i first look at how the locals treat each other as a guide of what to expect when I arrive. I do not speak or engage with any expats ( except as clients) for the very reasons you will see in the comment section,however you mentioned you are about to meet up with some "good people" in Duma ( where i have lived)should that be the case, keep them close and cherished but above all listen to them carefully. Thank you for your time in the making of this video as a reminder to us all that gratitude is an action, not merely a fleeting thought.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@Old_Grey_Wolf_ I appreciate your comment. It’s all good advice. Like everything else in life, this too is a learning experience.

[@dannystravelvlog]

Definitely the most emotional video I ever made. I still feel the feelings when I watch this.

[@MrJoe1199]

Understandable, Danny. It;'s a feeling of suffocating, of not being able to breathe. But the Filipinos and them being so happy-go-lucky makes it worthwhile, and if they ask for help or money, believe that they need the help or money and do something small to help. Good on you for considering it a mission.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@MrJoe1199 we should get together for a coffee some day

[@nicolacrickmar8829]

You should have bought him some food and water. There are homeless in every city unfortunately, in every country there are thousands/millions, some poor people only have a slum type shack to live in. They are usually uneducated if they struggle to support themselves. The Philippines have a lot of wealthy people too, and the the towns and cities are well established with hotels, restaurants, coffee shops. It is isn't the third world country we are led to expect. Africa, India, Cambodia etc all have slums and homelessness, just like the rich countries have the US is a good example of rich and poor and homelessness!

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@nicolacrickmar8829 good points

[@haroldsandiego9975]

This is the time you count and share your blessings.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@haroldsandiego9975 Absolutely my friend!!

[@princessjones983]

Hi Danny, I feel you. I’m a Filipina now living in Europe and every time I visit my country it breaks my heart to see poor families living in the street. More so in Manila and Cebu. please blur kids faces when you show them in your blog.

[@aclau7]

This why traveling is very important, it’s an eye opener. You just don’t depend on what you see on tv, news or social media, you have to see & experience yourself. That’s why when I migrated to the US, it was an eye opener. I still want to retire in the Philippines.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@aclau7 Exactly! I am grateful I was able to capture my emotional reaction. My skin will grow thicker, but I never want to forget my initial visit.

[@ralfw.6483]

7 or 8p meant the world to him?? Yeah - approx. $0.12!!😮 100 or 500P were out of the question??🤪

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@ralfw.6483 you are so right! I am a person who in the moment made a poor choice and now I will be living with it forever. Please forgive me! I only tried to do what I thought was right. I failed. And I need you to show me what I should have done. Thank you!!!

[@ralfw.6483]

@@dannystravelvlog 😎👍👍

[@user-qs5hz4mf3p]

You cant be there your to empathetic. The poverty situation will constantly make you sad. Your too nice of a guy...

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@user-qs5hz4mf3p thanks for the compliment, but I don’t want to be anywhere else. I will grow thicker skin eventually.

[@elpebalaba62]

❤❤❤

[@evangamez702]

Nice video!

[@dannystravelvlog]

Tough one to make! Brought back all the memories and feelings.

[@rogerwilco4736]

Of your going to live jere you cannot let your heart rule you'll never save everyone and you'll be conned out of your life savings ive seen that happen to dozens and dozens of expats over the past few decades

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@rogerwilco4736 good advice

[@usaalways]

I get it. When we see for ourselves what we know exists in the back of our heads..then suddenly turns to reality..but what I am seeing from you is a man who was completely sheltered from the struggles of life... kept away from areas that even had the slightest of poverty his entire life. You've never been to , let's say, a city block in America with gleaming streets... then around the corner a homelessness encampment with kids begging and men in filthy clothing? Or is this just an act(most likely) 🙄

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@usaalways I liked the way your comment began, but then you decided to judge me. So, thank you, but you are wrong about me. And I would never fake emotion. It was hard for me to post this because of the feelings that came up. I have not lived a sheltered life. I have seen many things and experienced many things that other people have not. What you saw in this video was my genuine reaction to a sad situation. By the way, your channel is awesome! I hope you get more subscribers soon. You have some real talent creating content. I’m impressed!

[@user-dy5pq7tp7g]

I’m right behind you in 57 days 😊

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@user-dy5pq7tp7g enjoy every minute! It’s really up to you if you want to have a good time, you will.

[@user-dy5pq7tp7g]

@@dannystravelvlog Well yes this isn’t my first time, also I’m moving to the Philippines in about 4 to 6 months as I will retire…..been at this over 5 years….

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@user-dy5pq7tp7g stay in touch. Maybe we could have a coffee sometime

[@Mikeycambovideos]

Philippines needs more top rate schools and basic social services, and a lot less SM Shopping malls popping up everywhere. Maybe some government regulations could actually have a good impact on the future of its people, instead of letting Chinese investors get all the profits.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@Mikeycambovideos good points. Social services in the Philippines has a long way to go be effective. I have come across many people who need services but don’t qualify. Which makes me scratch my head and wonder why.

[@turbofletch9741]

Sir I think you should go to live in a very high cost of living city

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@turbofletch9741 hahahaha. You really don’t know me. I would never do that.

[@stevelawson68]

The truth is filipino people may be poor yet they are much happier than western countries with far more wealth. After living there i can attest to this.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@stevelawson68 I agree. It amazes me. Westernized kids are never happy. Send a Filipino kid a cardboard box and they can play all day. Amazing!! Thanks for your comment.

[@stevelawson68]

@@dannystravelvlog The worst is when you see street children sleeping on the sidewalk that you can tell have not had a meal in a while. My wife and I try to help as much as we can in our Barangay. I wish you well in your travels. Stay safe and avoid needy women.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@stevelawson68 thanks Steve. May I ask what island you’re on?

[@stevelawson68]

@@dannystravelvlog Cebu. Brngy. Bon Bon up past Busay. My wife's family owns the equivalent of 300 acres up there in the mountains.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@stevelawson68 That’s beautiful! I went to Busay Tops the day they reopened it. Great experience. Video coming soon

[@johnmelon2466]

Enough of Drama old man... even Filipinos are poor they are still happy and have positive vibes.

[@SimplyJo-ot3zw]

I understand that you want to convey a positive vibe but please be kind and emphatic enough with his emotions. Just be thankful others feel that way because in truth, PH is really far from the advanced countries. It's really a pitiful place when the standard measure is material or economic because there are a lot of poor people. The man is not talking about drama but just talking about the reality that touched him. It takes a good soul to feel the poverty of others.

[@stevelawson68]

The truth is they are poor but the majority of families are happy. From what I've witnessed much happier than families with much more wealth in America. ​@SimplyJo-ot3zw

[@Frightcontrol]

stop the good and happy vibes, and the how happy filipinos are. No. they are suffering. Stop sanitizing poverty with, nah, they are happy in it anyway. There is no happiness if you are living in the streets, if you are hungry.

[@Frightcontrol]

@@stevelawson68 thats a myth, im filipino, just cos people are smiling doesnt mean they are happy in the full sense of the word.,

[@stevelawson68]

@Frightcontrol Well, I live there, and we have a very large family and many friends. The people I know and that I encounter are happy. So your point of view and opinion is yours. Mine is based on my personal experience. Cheers!

[@anneb3170]

There’s a lot of poor people in the Philippines because of overpopulation and don’t job for everybody

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@anneb3170 yes. I understand. If I could, I would give everyone a job so that they could feed their families

[@brianmclean643]

You better man up fast, or go back home

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@brianmclean643 Yes sir. I am a man. And I am not afraid to show that I have feelings. I care about people. It’s not a weakness. But thank you for your concern.

[@glidden67]

Why do they have children if their situation is so dire?

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@glidden67 Good question, it seems to happen in poor communities all over the world.

[@mariapug]

It is because of the influential Catholic Church who tell people that using contraceptives is sinful and having children is a blessing. The brainwashing from the CC starts very early from childhood. The Philippines is the only country in the world that doesn’t have divorce. However, this might change soon. Also, no separation of church and state. Politicians are afraid to displease the CC.

[@glidden67]

@@mariapug Thank you.

[@elizabeth8986]

Hi

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@elizabeth8986 hi

[@mikefay100]

You felt so bad so you gave the homeless boy 7 or 8 pesos? C’mon man 🙄

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@mikefay100 you are right. I was wrong. You win. Thanks Mike.

[@ElyPowell]

Dude he was moved because it meant so much to the boy. If you were a giving person you would understand.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@ElyPowell thank you!! I’m tired of apologizing for trying to do the right thing. I even made a video about it. Called “My Emotional Response”. Check it out if you get the chance.

[@dannystravelvlog]

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[@mikefay100]

@@ElyPowell I am a giving person, that’s the point. 7 or 8 pesos is about 15 cents. in my opinion to make a sappy video with faux tears of how it pained him so to see such poverty. Imagine seeing a homeless person in America, giving them say 30 cents and afterwards tearing up to your friends of how you witnessed such poverty and wished you could do something about it. Total foolishness going on here.

[@1goodthing]

He cant buy nothing with that. Im sick of KZbinrs filming poor people for hits and giving next to nothing. Im giving away 500 Pesos at least every day and employ a tricycle driver without filming.

[@dannystravelvlog]

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[@dannystravelvlog]

Please watch this and try your best to understand

[@pamelasewell3139]

You are staying in a cheap hotel and that's what you get from that neighborhood. Not all are rich just like in the US and probably worst than Cebu. What are you trying to get from this video? You don't need to compare Cebu to anywhere you are.

[@anneb3170]

Yah there’s a lot of poor people in the Philippines because of over population.

[@johnevans191]

Not sure what your expectations were. Phillipines is known to be a poor country. Overdone emotions 😢

[@Jammer411]

Dramaguete woohoo. Meet up with Gio, Paul, Mark, lol

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@Jammer411 I did, check out my other videos

[@f0xykitty]

You must be American? C’mon, even in first world countries there are so many homeless people.

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@f0xykitty I am American. We have homeless people here. It’s just different. It doesn’t effect me the same way

[@normalperson9646]

@@dannystravelvlog I see the difference too. In America, there are safety net programs such as food stamps, subsidized housing, food banks, free health insurance for low-income citizens yet some recipients are entitled, angry and anti-government. In the Philippines, despite their daily struggles, when approached most are happy to help and be friendly.

[@DionneLeslie1]

​@@dannystravelvlogin the Philippines the street kids or homeless use Rugby, in America they use high end drugs

[@DionneLeslie1]

If you're a Foreigners don't give penny they'll throw it back to you 😅 foods is much better

[@dsrrellgriffith1161]

yes,,,but most of the homeless are caused by their problems like,,,alcohol, drugs, mental illness,,,,You can get some support in the usa, the poor in the Philippines have no support and are not drug addicts or alcoholics,,,,,maybe some

[@compassionatekitchiekim]

Hey! Don't make dramas in your Channel to get more viewers/supporters/Subscribers, go back to US to have a happy life!

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@compassionatekitchiekim thank you for your concern. I was just telling my story. My life is happy and I will be coming back to the Philippines. Where are you located?

[@compassionatekitchiekim]

@@dannystravelvlog I'm from Isabela Negros Occidental

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@compassionatekitchiekim Great! How far from Dumaguete??

[@ericeagleton]

Move on

[@dannystravelvlog]

@@ericeagleton I have. That was but a moment in time. I love my life today. Everyone should, or they should, how do you say it, move on.

[@internationalfranchisealli5547]

Welcome to the Philippines

[@ghislainolivier1389]

Hey tourist, stay home if you can t afford that! Better you go home.