Cervical Cancer

[@brutalenforcer7699]

Hi John and Mandy, I was so shocked to hear about your news, I hope this gives you both a bit of hope. I was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer in 2020. Now after 3 years of fight I got news I am now in remission and the hospital are signing me off.. Mandy staying positive helps it helped me and I feel that you will pull through. All my love guys.

[@juliadevlin7815]

Stage 4 colon cancer is not the same as 2a cervical cancer and can easily be cured

[@brutalenforcer7699]

@@juliadevlin7815 yes I know that they are completely different, but the experience of having cancer, chemotherapy for 6 months was a hard journey for myself and my family, I stayed positve throughout and I found this helped alot. I am sure Mandy and John will stay positive as this horrible illness can be beaten back and they can have a happy and fun filled life together.

[@karendyba5213]

Good luck with all your treatment Mandy thinking of you both xxx

[@jusfernowmarchant263]

Hey guys x I was diagnosed with incurable brain cancer in November 2023. So I know the shock that you are going through. I think it’s great that you are sharing your journey on here, awareness is key! I am doing radiotherapy and chemo and plan on exceeding the prognosis the Drs have given me! Sending you positive thoughts, and healing energy. You got this!!! ❤

[@susanyates4233]

Such a shock for both of you. Eighteen months after I lost my beloved huband to cancer in 2019, I was diagnosed with endometrial cancer. This was during covid. Following surgery, I had chemo, radiotherapy and brachytherapy. I am now on a six month check up. I was also treated at the Queens Centre, Castle Hill, Cottingham, a place giving great positivity and care. I trust that Mandy will have good care, and come through smiling. Best wishes from Susan.

[@jennyjenkins9485]

I am the same as you, endo cancer. Radio, chemo and brachytherapy. Treated in peter mac, Melbourne Australia

[@barbhenderson4867]

Happy anniversary guys, keep strong and focused, ask lots of questions, my mum was diagnosed with 2a at 50,she was treated at Christie’s and lived until 82, keep smiling ❤xxx

[@nicholamontague1455]

Hey Mandy, I work at Castle Hill not in your specific cancer (Haematology). It's a great place but very busy!! The Chemo and Radiotherapy units are fab, we will look after you 💜

[@satur9]

When I got breast cancer, I shared "my story" on my blog. Also for practical reasons, so I didn't have to tell the story again and again to family and friends and acquaintances. I do so vividly remember the support I got online, it was amazing. It was indeed a big virtual hug, a very warm feeling. When I had my surgery, I imagined all those people from that online community standing around me and giving me their warmth and strength. It may sound really silly, but it gave me a lot of comfort.

[@199Paramedic]

The pair of you are, to coin a phrase, "ruddy Amazing!" Have been following you for a few years, but have literally seen every video, followed your journey, been inspired, laughed and cried. You got this!

[@martinevanheijnsbergen8929]

My husband got his stage 4 lungcancer diagnoses now almost 4 years ago. We both liked to be in control, but this rollercoaster you are now in, can’t be controlled and it will be the most difficult thing you will have to cope with. One thing I have learned is that you can think of every possible scenario (good and bad) and the reality will allways be different. My husband still being here is a miracle on its own. We sherish every day now, knowing he will have to leave us soon. Lots of hugs, keep hugging eachother. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@FionaJayneA]

Just jumping in to say all the very best to you both. It doesn't matter how you get through it, just that you get through it x

[@julie2756]

Hi Mandy and John I’ve been diagnosed with different cancers 4 times (and I’m still here😂) I’m under Grimsby hospital the same hospital group as you. I would say contact the nurse that was with you at the consultants and she can go through your records and explain things in English. In my experience it is just another day at the office for some but not all consultants. The macmillan specialist nurses are the ones who explain what’s what well. They’re understand how you feel and are there for you even on the days you’re just having a wobble. I had radiotherapy at Castle Hill but for breast cancer to me it was just like having an X-ray no big deal, not the same as your having but your nurse will explain what to typically expect. The staff are lovely in the radiotherapy. You will not have to pay toll fees for the bridge or parking fees so you might decide to stay where you are and just pay for fuel. I ended up having a hysterectomy and I instantly felt better. You may find some of the things that you’re putting down to the menopause are in fact caused by the cancer and may improve or disappear once you have treatment. I’m not medically trained I’m just telling you my experience things are much easier once you know what’s what you feel more in control. All the best you got this and your course treatment will be over before you know it. You can message me if you want to ask me anything. Take care x

[@Dogs-knob]

I know exactly how you feel John, my wife was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer at start of covid, I had been her protector for 44 years and suddenly couldn’t help, I couldn’t even sit with her during chemotherapy, when the oncologist told us the findings I asked wahat the prognosis was and he said do you really want to know 😮 I lost my temper and said of course, he said without chemotherapy 4 to six weeks, I looked at my poor wife’s face and will never forget, she started chemotherapy 2 days later and we got a further 2 years thankfully, she passed away 2 years ago on the 22nd, I say this to have faith in the hospital and treatment and Mandy with any luck at your staging you should have many, many years together, bless the pair of you ❤

[@DavidJohnston58]

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[@marcusoutdoors4999]

It was extremely moving to read your comment. I cared for my wife through her treatment, it was everything I could do. Take care you’re clearly wonderful

[@ianbooth369]

One very brave lady and one very brave man 👍 my wife had bowel cancer 3 years ago just at the end of covid! So she spent three weeks in hospital and I couldn’t go and see her! I felt just like John! Useless ! I knew nothing, we hadn’t a clue! After three weeks in hospital when she came home we had no help and struggled, we didn’t know where to go what to do etc. Three years on, she has just had a scan as her annual check 🤞🤞🤞🤞 we think all is ok, but ! Still has a colostomy bag which she would dear,y like to ditch ! But! She is alive, and hope we can get away in our camper van this summer . I wish you both all the best, it’s hard fir the person going through the treatment, and I can’t imagine what it’s like, but!., as a partner I felt I was going through it as well, people kept ( and still keep) telling me to make time for myself, which is vital to support those receiving treatment.

[@audreyhansen3678]

My partner had testicular cancer which spread to his lungs and ended up stage 4 He had surgery and chemo and 10 years later he is clear and very well. He changed his diet to healthy and took extra vitamin tablets. Just take each day as it comes and let people spoil you.Sending you lots of love and hugs.You will get through this ❤️

[@caroleagar6790]

I had my radiotherapy at Castle Hill 5 years ago and can say you will be in good hands. The staff are wonderful. I used to have to get the transport each day as my partner was working which was tiring in itself so having John with you will help immensely. A funny story re the tattoo's, last year I was getting out the bath and my partner said what's that dot. I said it's a tattoo she said what you've had a dot tattoo. I said I've had 3. Then explained why. It only took 4 years to notice 😂 All the best Mandy, stay strong. ❤

[@christinewood8331]

John you can help and are helping by being by Mandy,s side supporting her and just talking about it, that's your best job ❤

[@Manos-de-Piedra]

My mum finished her last chemotherapy in December last year, Stay positive and keep smiling all will be ok!

[@mikemitchem4846]

Prayers to you and family. My wife is fighting the battle of endometrial cancer. Chemo hasn't been totally unbearable

[@sheilajoseph9953]

John, you are a big support for Mandy. Can i say you both are showing great strength. Just laugh when you can, cry if you want, scream, shout just live each day and enjoy something in each day.💚

[@RobandLynnontour]

Just wanted to add to everyone’s posts in sending you all our love and support to you both ❤

[@plove523]

Practical advice today. Get you the UK equivalent of a 5 gallon bucket and some people poopie bags for it (Amazon). If you're tired and feeling poorly, the last thing you want to do is clean-up. My sister lived 3 hours away from a hospital and carried her bucket of supplies each trip. Wipes (unscented) for both ends, people poopie bags and toilet seat ring for bucket. Regular trash bag for putting people poopie bags after using them. A pee bottle with lady attacment. You should be able to get in and out of you van but might need an rv step platform to keep from stretching too much. A driver that doesn't mind you venting and is able to pay attention to the road while you emote. Gas up your vehicle the day before a treatment cuz some folks can't stand the fumes/smell. You will probably have more energy in the morning. Do your fun activity then. Save the washing cleaning etc for the afternoon or evening so you can sit and rest. Eat often when you can. You may or may not be able to tolerate certain smells or tastes. Have some plain comfort food on hand. Mashed or baked potato, white rice, cream based pasta like Mac n cheese, toast, etc. Be your own advocate. Medical personnel will take you at your word, no questions, ok then. Get a small notebook, write down every random question that pops up. If they see you are keeping a record they tend to be more forthcoming. Write down the answer, date/time and who gave it to you. Sometimes the nurse is the best resource but if they can't answer ask them to find out from the attending physician. Keep a record of your meds and reactions in this book. If the nurse takes your temp, oxygen and BP, ask them what it is and note it in the book. If you are unable, ask them to jot it down or John if he is allowed to be with you. Keep a list of all meds, Vitamins, supplements, herbal teas, etc, you are taking on you at all times. Every time you enter a medical center for treatment, they will ask you for this info, and sometimes you might forget an item. Yes, they may have the last list of meds but you may have stopped taking something because of adverse reactions and the admitting nurse may not be aware of the change. I don't know how they do it in the UK, but in the US you usually have a team that works with you for your treatment. There will be a team leader that you should be able to reach during work hours and an emergency contact. Post those clearly where anyone can see them. If you have an adverse reaction to a drug at home, you might not be able to make a call. Get a BP cuff, oxygen meter and thermometer and train you primary caregivers how to use them. Changes in BP, oxygen or temperature might need reporting right away or a call for an ambulance for transport. You may never need any of this, but being prepared can mean all the difference in an emergency. You are in my prayers for healing.

[@vanandcountry]

All the best both. After my visit to hospital towards the end I got more confident asking the doctors to write things down for me because it's like a blur when the consultants etc speak to you. They seem to just appear and then they are gone. Never be shy to say - I'm sorry I haven't understood what I heard please can you take me through it again a bit slower. Never a problem from any of the brilliant NHS teams. Take care.

[@LillianHenegar]

Telling your medical team to write things down and having someone with you for most if not all appointments are essentials!

[@royedwards8713]

Hi John And Mandy hope all goes well with the treatment 👌👌👌

[@Rich-n-Cooper]

Guys stay positive, while not the news you hoped for its good to catch it early. Sending hugs from Cooper and me and hope to see you guys soon.

[@Boudicca-England]

Mandy & John, firstly sorry to hear you are having to go through this. I have just been given all clear after 10 years. I was stage 3&4 cervical cancer. I had a fantastic consultant at Doncaster Royal Infirmary. I opted for surgery (radical hysterectomy) as if it came back as I understand once you had radiation you can’t have it again. I had extra parts removed as well as repair to bladder and bowel. Looking back I don’t regret my choice. I had a daughter that I wanted to see grow up and she is nearly 28 now. Going through a forced menopause was no biggie in comparison to what could have been. Don’t be talked down to by doctors, just remind them you are the patient and you have the final say…they have nothing without your consent. I wish you well, listen to your body, rest when it needs rest and sleep when it is tired. Much love from me and my family in Lincs

[@shirleylambden1561]

I think consultants sometimes forget they are actually talking to people who are probably struggling to deal with the worst news ever! Keep well, keep it together, take one day at a time.... Thank you for keeping us all up to date❤ xx

[@bringmeblueskies]

give her a hug from me. i spent spent 5 weeks in hospital after a massive pulmonary embolism the doctor told it could of killed me as it was one of the worst she had seen. been diagnosed Antiphospholipid Antibody Syndrome self injecting blood thinners twice a day. i am so thankful for the NHS and all the nurses doctors porter cleaners that helped me. and yes them make you like you wet your pants lol

[@debramanley7859]

You’re both doing SO well, stay strong. So many people are behind you. X. 💐

[@julieharding6631]

Thinking of you both and you are always in my prayers. You have each other which is wonderful. Bless you both xxx

[@rogertemple7193]

Take care and God Bless You both.💞🙏🙏💞

[@paulclarkson5494]

Good luck. Having a understanding and good communicating oncologist is very important to understand your situation. My wife had a incredible oncologist who had time to answer every question my wife asked and explained every procedure in detail. It made a massive difference to us on our successful journey 12 years ago 🤞🤞🤞. You can and will do it

[@debbiemccluskey257]

John, you are doing more than you think, being there for Mandy and supporting her though all this is really important,you need to take care too hugs to you both xx

[@phildyke7051]

Sorry I haven't commented... Shocked..but also overwhelmed with both your abilities to deal with this challenge... I've watched from the start of your adventures ... Best wishes xx

[@johhny711]

The NHS is a national treasure , I'm sure everything will be fine , stay positive. I had a malignant melanoma removed almost 20 years now .

[@josnihoul]

John, the best way you can help Mandy is to be there for her. So don't worry about your tractical support, you are more than OK. ! All the best for both of you !

[@nettypoole]

Hello Mandy and John, I’m a long time, silent follower, but I thought it might be helpful for you to know that my husband had cancer treatment at Castle Hill Hospital, and we spent a lot of time at Butt Farm Caravan and Campsite, it’s very convenient for Castle Hill. I hope all goes well with your treatment Mandy, I’m sure you will both come out smiling, and put this all behind you. Kind regards Janet

[@debbiedavis3686]

Its such a blessing believe me to have such a strong and loving husband who cares and supports you mine has literally saved my life. Happy Anniversary guy's and so much love to you both keep strong and your amazing 👏

[@caravaningincarathevan467]

Bless you both xx

[@PoshcatsCamping]

You are starting a long and challenging journey. Not quite the kind of journey you are used to, looking for parkups and finding places to get water and service your tanks. However, we totally understand John wanting to plan and help with everything practical. We would be just the same. You must feel like you are in a traffic jam with a ferry to catch in bad weather with nowhere to get shopping 😉 We think that everything will start dropping into place and John will be the perfect support. Look after each other and enjoy the gaps in your treatment when you can 👍🏻🚐🚐💙 Trev n Sue

[@johnbateman3244]

You both helped me more than you will ever know during lockdown when I was in a very bad place. Watching you was a breath of fresh air and a lifeline to life outside of lockdown. I can't help you in any practical way even though I would do at in a heartbeat if it was possible. All I can send is a big hug and my eternal thanks. Stay strong and stay safe. 💙❤️👍

[@jillgreen9503]

Just watched your video and I just want to jump Into the screen and give you both such a big hug. You are both an inspiration to each other as well as to all of us watching you go through this . Stay strong and keep us all informed at your own leisure. We are all routing for you xxxx

[@Gillby47]

Over the years I have picked up so many tips from you both,loved Johns miracle little saw and everyone of Mandy,s cooking tips,today I used the wet towel trick to clean my little grill.So now it is time for lots of good people to give you both love and tips.My son first had cancer when he was 14,he has had many more cancers over the years.One thing I will say about when you have your treatment is rest as much as you want and eat what you fancy,if you can't eat don't fret about it.On your weekends off if you feel well enough do something fun.❤️

[@stevestpierre]

Sorry to hear you have cancer. You can beat this with the right treatment and family around you, I was told that i had terminal cancer of the pancreast in august after having a major operation in October which was unsucssful i am having chemo. hopefully it won,t but with me i do get very tired a lot and have some aches and pains sometimes with sickness and direa. all i can say is try and stay positive and with family around you can beat this. Sending best wishes,

[@ginamaloney]

Hey Ive just watched the video and thought I’d share my story of cervical cancer with you. I was diagnosed with 3a way back in 2011 when I was 19 and my son was 1. I was treated with cisplatin chemotherapy once a week for 4 weeks. Alongside I had 6 weeks of radiotherapy(the last 2 weeks were classed as intensive). My advice would be, eat as healthy and nutritious as you can. Maybe start juicing to get nutrients in(organic when you can) I found the ginger ones really helped with sickness. I didn’t loose my hair thankfully my worst part of treatment was with waterworks(pain when passing) and sudden onset of menopause. I wish you well on your journey, hope to see you on a campsite in the future and give you a big hug Thanks for the videos guys! Take it easy❤

[@SandraCook-j4v]

Sadly I’ve only just found your channel so have only just watched your health diagnosis, but I am looking forward to forward to watching the rest of your videos 🥰

[@shirleymurray2232]

So lovely to see you two smile and giggle. And I know you are having dark times too.. that's inevitable. But the love you have for each other is tangible.. and it will be your strength! Love you both.. and candles will burn daily for you here in Ireland. ❤❤

[@MyChannel-di2ho]

Look after yourself John as Mandy will need you. Big hugs to you both, cyber love and strength being sent your way, from New Zealand. You are both in our prayers and thoughts 🙏❤

[@lynwright7705]

I do watch your videos, but I don't really comment. I have shed tears for you both, and wish I could do something to ease what you are both going through. This... 'trauma'... will change you both, and change your view of life. Stay strong. x

[@DavidJohnston58]

Still hoping and praying for Mandy to have successful outcome, and for John for the strength to give Mandy the support that we know he will give. And for my 33 year old daughter who has been suffering pain as we wait for biopsy results from last weekend. 🙏🙏🙏

[@anns6393]

I know you say "talking" helps you but I feel it is so generous of you to be so open in sharing your experiences involved in your latest journey 💗 Ann

[@paullancaster297]

Can't put it better than 199Paramedic, you both are Amazing. All these memories you are making now will give you something to look forward to doing again after the treatments are over. Great to see you both smiling, it's one of the greatest bits to help you through. John I feel your frustration, my wife has Huntingtons and the only thing I can do is be there, and you've got that covered mate. Fingers crossed, and hopefully you'll both be heading on the roads again soon.

[@davidrobinson630]

The ups and downs of life online......proud of you both !....Thank you for your sincere honesty, humour and showing hope for your future 👍 Wish you both the best and courage for the things to come....Good luck !!!

[@AutieTravels]

Good luck with your chemo Mandy. Sending love. My mum had cervical cancer over 20 years ago and will be celebrating her 80th this year. The treatment sounds different to yours, but the stage was the same. Wishing you all the best and the strength to get through it all. ❤

[@susangoodall5037]

You two are both amazing. I just can't imagine what your emotions must be like going through all this. John. Just keep doing what you are doing to support Mandy as her health will alter going through her treatment. I think the reason Dr's seem so flippant is because they see hundreds of patients and it becomes like a production line. I'm sending you both such a big hug. And hope you can both stay positive. But there will be days when it feels so hard to do. Lots of love. Sue ❤❤❤

[@eileenfleet574]

Happy anniversary Big hug to you.both.❤think of you both

[@JonTanOsb]

I get car sick if anyone drives but me. Zip-Lock bags are great. They don't leak and you zip them up so they don't smell. Stop at a gas station and drop them in the garbage can. I'll have to pack them in a bag when my son drives me to the hospital at the end of next month for my test to see if enough blood is getting through my heart. Twice, doctors have told me I have cancer, and that's why I'm always so tired. Tests done, and I wait and wait, finally track them down to see what the results were. Nope, not cancer. The first time I was elated, the second time pissed off. Why can't doctors just say, "I don't know," rather than let a person live with that uncertainty? Sorry, a bit of a rant there. I do hope everything goes well for you, dear girl. And Happy Anniversary, you two. :) Jon in rural BC, Canada

[@lindaeastment4542]

Hi John, Hi Mandy, I Both I found Mandy’s channel last week & I subscribed I have just found your joint channel & I have subscribed to your joint channel 👍 Mandy, & John, I really wish you both all the very best in your journey I am sending you both lots of virtual hugs & a lot of love to you both 💞🦋 Lin

[@scaryd0ll1]

We are sending you both so many hugs! I see Mandy as a mom figure to me. Even though I don't know her she reminds me of my mom, who i am not very close to and haven't seen for a while. So she gives me a lot of comfort by just talking and sharing life. We love you both so much and we will always support you no matter what❤

[@friends4ever43]

Hi John and Mandy , all I can say is my love goes out to both, you got this all the way Mandy, stay strong, we are all behind you, I don't always comment but I have been following you for years ,,thank for everything you bring to your channel, My partner and sister has had cervical cancer and doing just great, Take care both of you ,🌈👍💛

[@brendalloyd1903]

Keep your chins up and think positive. bless you both xx

[@carolineconsidine3547]

Hello...I watched your video last night and can understand your frustration and how upsetting this can be. I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer 2 years ago and a consultant with the bedside manner of a brick told me the news....we wish you a speedy recovery....lots of hugs...take care and we think your amazing... xxxx

[@SueTurner-x9n]

When I had my radical hysterectomy I found getting in and out a van a lot easier than a car as your not bending so much and can just slide out ❤, you will get tired and need rest time I do think I would have been better in our motorhome than in home ,no steps and much nicer to be able to just ride out and see something different if you feel up to it ❤❤❤

[@MrHotsnakes]

Good luck to you both during this horrible time. I'm sure Mandy will smash it

[@meanderingmanships]

Hi John and Mandy, we're sending you guys so much love and positive energy right now. Just try to be kind to yourselves and one another - your heads must be spinning with this news and all the planning and adjustments you need to work through, on top of your diagnosis Mandy. Not sure how, but if we can help just ask. Stay strong. Gaz and Becs 😘

[@marjoriewatton8546]

Wishing Mandy all the best. Know what the stress is like for you both. My husband had a T2 cancer six years ago, apart from many other health issues since (not cancer related) he is still going strong. No aged 86. All the best💕

[@lindajames7759]

Mandy and John, unfortunately it is just another day in the office. The level of cynicism is appalling but it is incumbent on us to call them out, don’t stand for it, you are worth their respect 🇬🇧🇬🇧🇬🇧❤️❤️

[@davidarchibald5578]

Your on a conveyor belt to them. I find it on the whole an impersonal experience these appointments . I have a catch up once a month with the head consultant who is by far a more personal experience. 20 years ago went through the same thing doesn’t seemed to have changed a great deal. You have done the right thing by openly talking about your personal journey with cancer well done to both of you. Xx

[@EmmaBakesCakes]

Hello Mandy and John. You were suggested to me via KZbin. Anyway, I’m a newbie here on your Chanel. I look forward to getting to know you guys on here as I watch some of your previous posts. Happy Wedding anniversary xx

[@packingourtrunks]

Mandy & John - we send you both massive hugs and positive vibes - we are currently nearly a year into our full-time vanlife and we were in no small way inspired by you two, which we will always be grateful for, and still are. Stay as healthy as is possible right now and keep looking after each other and out for each other. You are both brave, strong and bloody lovely people and deserve all the love and support that's coming your way. Nicky & Kevin xx

[@WindsweptCanadian]

Bless you and your loved ones on this latest journey. 🎉 So lovely to see you both fighting this together ❤❤.

[@DebDeBoop]

Even though I am a fairly new viewer I have been watching old videos and catching up,my life has been directly affected by cancer,my son who is reach a cure date and has been clean for 27 years since,and my heart goes out to you. I wish for you another big hug and definitely look after yourselves and each other. Just remember you are loved and we are all pulling for you!❤️❤️❤️ Have happy anniversary and a nice evening celebrating it as well. One hint that might help is get a journal and write all these things down so you can use it the next time you talk to the docs or nurses…..I just know that it helped me.

[@smiffstravelsaroundaustral1620]

Thanks for the update, we have been wondering about your results. Pity you had such a crappy meeting with the "Doctor", very poor bedside manner. But fortunate you have your liaison person and she was able to answer some of your concerns from the meeting. Also happy belated wedding anniversary - you are such a wonderful support for each other. Enjoy your nerf time with your grandson! 😂 Take good care, all the best and love from us in Australia. ❤🥰

[@ericmiller9382]

Thank you for being so honest and sharing with us. Please keep your spirits up. Perhaps it is a comfort to know that so many who have never met you think the world of you

[@DebbieJennelle]

John and Mandy I’ve been watching you guys since the beginning of.. I don’t don’t post much at all really but I love watching you guys and I just wanted to give you guys my heart and tell you that I’m with you and that I’m praying that Mandy will get better and be healed in Jesus name pray amen

[@anthonyellis1409]

John just being there for mandy is all the help . You can be .

[@hlspicer4257]

So many beautiful comments that I’d like to reiterate but simply sending you both love and light and a huge hug 🥰 xx

[@isobelchapman9548]

Hello dearest two lovely folks. I used to live in Yorkshire and Castle Hill, Cottingham, always had a superb reputation …….you will be in good hands. There really is nothing worse when you have a host of questions and a visit just doesn’t pan out the way you had hoped. What you mustn’t forget is to continue, when you get the opportunity to ask questions, again and again until you are completely clear in your own mind. Please hold onto the fact that there are so many of us, your extended KZbin family, thinking about you both and praying for you. Oh, hope you survived the battle with the grandson, great memories being made all the time, God bless lots of virtual hugs coming your way xx

[@GavinThomson-y7p]

Hi Mandy & John we have been following your channels for a while and would just like to wish Mandy well with her treatment and a speedy recovery. We know castle hill hospital quite well as have had to attend several appointments there, just a heads up that parking can be quite a challenge and you need to allow at least 30 minutes to find a place. Finding a place for your van may be even more of a challenge. If you haven’t been before it may be work visiting before your appointment date to see if you can get the van parked. We found it added more stress to a an already stressful situation that you can do without. Hope this helps, wishing you both the best

[@stevehardwick5903]

Hi John been where you are and my heart goes out to you two wife had breast cancer 5 years ago while looking after her 90 year old dad One thing people don’t realise the strain it puts on the partner while trying to be positive for the cancer patient as well as the strain on the relationship Myself and wife Doris sends our hugs to Mandy We felt that we was the only people in the world during Doris’s appointments we was in a private room with the consultant and nurse

[@GaryScoble]

As I’ve never had the Big C I cannot imagine what you are going through. I can imagine what your family are going through as I’ve had both family and friends who have had cancer and it is frightening for all concerned. Some have passed but others have had something in them to fight and survive and I sincerely hope you do the same. Sending you all the love and support from someone who met you very briefly at the NEC. Take care to you both.😘

[@MatthewsBrother]

J&M just wanted to say how sorry I was to hear about Mandy’s illness. I know lots of people will have said this already but just concentrate on yourselves, post when you want, and remember will are all willing Mandy to get better. ❤

[@lynkirby7008]

I’m still thinking a lot about you and John and what you’re both going through, you in particular Mandy. Sending healing and another great big hug for you both. It is so positive that the doctor said it can be healed so that is something you need to hold onto as you go through this journey and come out the other side and back into the sunshine.

[@sandraashby9804]

Great news that no further areas identified. Sorry the doctor’s bedside manner was poor.As a nurse myself I was going to suggest speaking to your nurse. Nurses are always the most down to earth source of information. This assessment period seems forever to complete. Your plan to have fun with your grandson and meet friends is just the tonic you need. Sending you much love ❤

[@stevelippett6227]

I have been watching you for many moons and my wife has been going through cancer treatment for the last two years, so I sort of understand, if that’s possible, what you are going through. As you have said everyone is different so I would just like to wish you all the very best and hope the treatment goes well. John stay strong, Mandy will need you more than you know

[@wheresmomdad3884]

I feel your frustration, I remember when I was going through your stage of my diagnosis, I was also stage 2 (of aggressive breast cancer) and I just wanted to know everything. Looking back and with hindsight I was given just enough information that my brain was able to process at that time. You are both doing amazingly and although the next few months might be bloody hard, it is all doable. My treatment plan started with surgery & radiotherapy and then changed to include 18 weeks of chemo and one year of immunotherapy, it is scary when something changes but when you actually get to see the oncologist you will be able to get some proper answers and get the information that you need at that time. I think if I 'd have known all of what I was going to need at the start my brain would have exploded. You will be inundated with advice (and here's some more), we are all different and there is no one-size-fits-all so don't assume you will feel the same as others and therefore prepare like they have done. You are you, so just ask for advice as and when you need it, believe me, it will be forthcoming,. Thinking of you both. Stay strong - you've got this 💪💪 Sarah xx

[@ianwheeler7903]

I am having a laugh at the hospital parking part of the video. It was mayhem at our local hospital the other day with people having no idea of how to park and pay. There was a cue of 20 cars trying to get out while a person left their car at the barrier and went off to the pay station to pay. It was carnage. I have been looking after my wife, following heart surgery and she has been getting very frustrated that she cannot do what she normally does. She has a 12 month recovery ahead of her, but it is tiny steps at a time. You hang in their the pair of you and keep smiling. 🙂

[@rogerspeck9929]

Hi John + Mandy 🙏 for your treatment and recovery. Wishing you both all the best. 👍 xx

[@janl7552]

Oh John & Mandy, bless you both. Seeing you go through this reminds me so much of what my darling Chris & I went through back in 1992, when Chris was going through cancer treatment… the worry, the fear, the countless questions awaiting answers. Chris could only take on board so much information before getting to emotional overload, so I would be the scribe and jot down answers and information wherever I could. The consultants, doctors, nurses & their teams were absolutely amazing… like angels on Earth. I am thinking of you both as you go through your scary, uncertain times… sending lots of love and big hugs to you both. xxxx

[@dianegriffen2756]

Mandy - you've got this. Take it one day at a time. xx John - it's ok to cry. The one you love is going through a tough time...as are you. xx Both - congratulations on your wedding anniversary. Focus on the good stuff. xx Love and hugs to you both. xx

[@Montykoby]

Hello guys, i seen the video pop up and denied watching it due to my personal stuff with my Dad having cancer, i didn't want to see Mandy like it as we have followed your fab travels, she's a fighter and massive hugs to you both.. xxx

[@keepitreal_1]

Sorry about your diagnosis, it's good it was caught in the early stages, there is a KZbin channel called The Dog Poo Fairy she is an identical twin who's sister's battling cervical cancer, they are trying to raise awareness & get people to advocate for their own health because she was let down by doctors who kept ignoring her. Emma the lady who does the channel is lovely and I'm sure she would give you advice on things to expect etc because shes helping others. You may find it helpful to watch or contact Emma who is looking after her twin Soo and mentioning things that help etc. Good luck

[@marcusoutdoors4999]

I know this may sound weird, but when you start chemo and radio therapy, you kind of get into a strange routine, in my wife’s case 5 days on 2 days off for 5 weeks. It was incredibly hard. But, John, I am sure you will be a rock and make sure Mandy is as comfortable as is possible. We ended up staying in a little flat on the grounds of the Freeman hospital in Newcastle, directly across from the Maggies Centre (they are wonderful). It was at the back end of Covid so we isolated as much as we could as we didn’t want any bugs interfering with the treatment. Our crazy regime included a streamed episode of Death in Paradise each night. Crazily the flat only had one picture on the wall which was a cutting from the Guardian of a Great Dane dog in a sidecar. We now have a motorbike and sidecar (a Ural). There’s no nice way of putting it, it will be hard, physically and mentally, but we met so many amazing people on our journey. Mandy I’ll be thinking of you ringing the bell when your treatment is finished.

[@kathyrosoman7379]

I was stage 3 breast cancer and i am better now so be strong its so different nowadays x

[@sharondown5696]

I've been watching you both for about 12 months after finding your you tube channel after watching camper vibe. I just wanted to pass my best wishes on to both of you ❤

[@traveladventuresaustralia]

Just listening to what you are saying about the information meeting. When my sister and my dad had cancer, every meeting we asked if we could record the conversation because there is always things you miss. We recorded every meeting it certainly helped with processing the information later.

[@tracyandian1335]

Stay strong guys, you got this. Time goes over so quickly, before you know it, it will be over and done with xx

[@DA11NOON]

Hi guy's thanks of update. We are thinking of you both. I felt the same as you John it is very hard not to do something But when the treatment starts you can do so much more to help mandy. Just be there and talking You have got this guy's 👍 Karen has got 11 more days to go . Be safe guy's

[@katelumsden491]

Although I’ve followed you for a while,I’ve never commented,I’m praying that treatment goes well for you and it’s been caught early,all my best wishes.

[@anthonyellis1409]

John stay strong for mandy . Hope she be OK . It is and will be hard for you boff. Hope you all the best mandy john

[@MartiganBlue]

Sending love and prayers. Wishing that we all could divide up any anxiety you feel so you could have less. I guess that may not work, but we’ll keep trying anyway! ❤❤❤

[@emmaandshaunexplore]

Just do whatever you guys feel like doing! Sharing and talking about it on socials, can be a therapy and if it helps then we'll all be here to support you! 😊 I would suggest from a comfort perspective and seeing my mum go through a similar cancer, Mandy, you will probably want your own space, bedroom to rest/sleep. I personally think it would be tough to stay in the vans. Even if you just do that at the start and see how you get on, then adjust as you see fit. Xx