I really admire Cesar's patience. It must be really exhausting explaining the same things to idiots over and over again.
@godlord91285 жыл бұрын
That bein said, it can be enjoyable to share knowledge an such with others to in power someone
@imlostagainWTF4 жыл бұрын
if you are getting paid, its an easy job.
@jbodiesel4 жыл бұрын
The biggest problem is everyone has an ego, the fact that that Caesar can walk into your house and shut down your dog in a matter of minutes is deflating to a person that can't even control the dog at all. Notice on all his shows that people try to talk over him and try to explain thingsover what he's explaining
@theradionicrevival80684 жыл бұрын
@@jbodiesel in america at least, people are usually applauded and put into power due to things like being a dick with an assertively big ego, regardless of if you’re qualified or smart enough to warrant it Especially if you’re white lmao, but its more or less a things thats kinda encouraged here Its part of why a lot of the rest of the world often looks at us like we’re a bunch of tone deaf animals sometimes 😂
@jstu84 жыл бұрын
It’s not if you love what you’re doing and feel a sense of reward from helping & making a difference, but I know where you’re coming from lol
@bubulle30105 жыл бұрын
He's a great man. I love his calm and assertiveness.
@bokirez88433 жыл бұрын
Y
@harrymiles29063 жыл бұрын
Cesar is the best of the best when it comes to understanding dogs. I've picked up more than just a few pointers from him.
@shannond27076 жыл бұрын
"Just a sound my mom used on me." 😂😂😂
@cali24916 жыл бұрын
its a Mexican thing
@VoiceOfValidity6 жыл бұрын
@@cali2491 I don't think so. My mom never made any sounds, she just glanced at me and her eyes told me what to do.
@rebeccalankford98105 жыл бұрын
Sh....be quiet. Lol
@tinabrownie76965 жыл бұрын
🤷🏻♀️😂😂My mom used the ssh sound 😬Mexican ☺️
@MegaDescarada5 жыл бұрын
cali2491 yep! 😂
@Blue_Newt_014 жыл бұрын
I found this principle through experience once I realized my puppies would immediately respond to a very serious NO when they approached something dangerous such as an electrical cord, vs a meek half hearted NO that was sounded throughout the day over little issues. When you are serious in your intention, they certainly get it.
@TheSimmpleTruth2 жыл бұрын
Like babies and children, the intonation and energy behind the word or sound has the meaning, not the word itself. You can test it by using sweet words to scold a dog and you bet he will not see it so sweet. Likewise, you can use horrible, mean words to talk to a dog using a sweet and loving intonation and the dog will wag her tail and love it.
@studiodw124 жыл бұрын
To discipline a dog you must already be disciplined yourself There is a lot of precision in all his gestures words and attitude / posture, it is the determination and the discipline which prevails Do not believe that reaching your level is easy but by practicing your method there will be a certainty of progress
@marcusbrown17675 жыл бұрын
Respect his talent, period. No one has his skill.
@wibblewobble42805 жыл бұрын
Marcus Brown kzbin.info/www/bejne/pmWrd4KqhrudfLs
@rts100x55 жыл бұрын
every word he said, went over her head.......
@missandeiking67175 жыл бұрын
Discipline and being mean are 2 different things. A lot of people don’t discipline but yet complain too
@lotrec1005 жыл бұрын
This guy is absolutely amazing.. Wish all owners though loved their dogs as she does.
@KweenBriii5 жыл бұрын
Gosh I miss his advice so much. They completely stripped him of his platform. But no one will be able to replace him. Thank you for all your work Cesar. You trained me well.
@1981luisdaniel6 жыл бұрын
A very logic way of explaining how to relate wich your dog as a leader.
@drakekoefoed16426 жыл бұрын
People do not want to hear that dogs don't want to be free. They want the rules, boundaries and limitations. My best luck has been with 10 minutes on one issue, concentrating. My 7 mo pit has learned with little work that if he is next to me and I'm stopped, he is to sit. It seems like he's proud of knowing it, wanting to be noticed sitting. All my best results are Cesar's methods
@ginnyanderson5006 жыл бұрын
That is a synergistic relationship with your Dog. The best kind of bond. I had the same, with my female Doberman.
@blownoutsalon5 жыл бұрын
Your talking about your pit but your profile pic is a cat hahahahaha lol but lowkey me to my doh is proud of knowing that what he needs to do
@blownoutsalon5 жыл бұрын
Dog
@MelissaRae19755 жыл бұрын
YASSSS my mom and all my tia's use that sound on all of us growing up
@notimetowaste12543 жыл бұрын
The world has known two great Cesar's: Julius and Millan!
@lisagreen6577 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Caesar
@DanielaPerez-yp1gb4 жыл бұрын
Thank YOU
@alextimson97455 жыл бұрын
Cesar is a top trainer. Many methods evolved from his training techniques. He seems like a top guy too.
@kimbagirl685 жыл бұрын
Very similar concept for teaching children!
@bogartnewton26415 жыл бұрын
My mom thinks anytime I tell my dig no or say something in a firm tone that I'm being mean. I'm not being mean I'm being firm and I expect my dig to listen. And yes he does listen.
@naimgrizzly72806 жыл бұрын
3:16 I used to think that like that too it's horrible to think like that let's say it's making an error while thinking it's good and you don't control your dog cuz you are not the leader anymore but smh cesar is always right in everything he says no matter how much your dog loves you
@iron60bitch626 жыл бұрын
The very first day I got my new dog I made no eye contact with him I didn’t allow him on any furniture I basically kept him on a leash and took him for several walks I did not make eye contact with him for at least three days he was one of the greatest dogs ever owned I miss him to this day
@iron60bitch626 жыл бұрын
Maantje My dog was also a Tibetan mastiff his picture is in there in my profile he eventually grew to be over 175 pounds very important that that dog who is that big understands who is in charge
@gailchypyha27815 жыл бұрын
Cesar is amazing with dogs. His technique is simple but direct and it works. I love his books. Thank you Cesar!
@rainbowdragon94973 жыл бұрын
@@Tbendo150 Not when you first meet a dog. You claim your space and cannot back up when they come towards you. If you step back they think you are acknowledging their leadership.
@georgie4 Жыл бұрын
Legend
@theonlinedogtrainerreview57475 жыл бұрын
thanks for information
@KINGTHEYORKIE6 жыл бұрын
he is so funny and what he says is soo True !!
@lisagreen6577 Жыл бұрын
My aunt got a new puppy and what Cesar does works like he said be assertive.
@chosenn6576 жыл бұрын
it’s just the sound my mum used on me my whole life 😂
@iliannabrett58285 жыл бұрын
Well honey, the reason your dog drinks out of the cups/mugs is because everytime he drinks you just laugh and wonder why. If you said "aht-aht!" and praised him when he stopped he would learn not to do it. Just a tip.
@revahills74764 жыл бұрын
That's so very true
@cmcphotography16 жыл бұрын
Hey cesar thanks for the good help i also found another way to keep your dog from bieng energetic it includes a ball i suggest throwing the ball around for 6 minutes when the dog isnt guarding the ball take the ball and throw it far uses up most of their energy
@HotSeat176 жыл бұрын
Lack of discipline and treating your dog like a human baby (anthropomorphism) makes your dog mentally unstable. This means you are abusing your dogs mentally by not disciplining them. That's not love.
@chillingdog41394 жыл бұрын
Please dont breed.
@saarlooswolfhund62373 жыл бұрын
Nalvar:pure bullshit babbling
@Djulimee7 жыл бұрын
I trained my own dogs although I'd never had any education in training dogs, ever. I found it was exactly the same as training children, although I have to admit, training dogs is WAY easier! I used the same methods as you do too Cesar, and I never had any problems. My dogs were little Cairn Terriers and extremely smart wee dogs. I guess intelligence helps hey.
@MoonlightNothing4 жыл бұрын
Mother knows Best!
@AliAli-dt8zt6 жыл бұрын
Did my mom take courses with him? All what he says of what to do with a dog my mom did with me :| am I dog or my mom worked with me as dog?
@nv72875 жыл бұрын
seems his system is fair - Human or animal everyone knows their place (that they are protected, and should just behave, follow the family rules, until they can take the reigns and be leader)
@skylarbix79125 жыл бұрын
Your mom sounds amazing!
@ipo75964 жыл бұрын
Cuz u a bitch lol jk
@Yai19505 жыл бұрын
Thank you Cesar Millan😍
@mithzynelson31105 жыл бұрын
The infamous Mexican “shhhhh”
@protarget15 жыл бұрын
Don't people listen. Cesar DOESNT TRAIN DOGS. His first words here and he's always makes a point of it. "I train people, rehabilitate Dogs. HELLO!"!!.
@jordanhoon7 жыл бұрын
People criticize this guy. Funny thing is, if you watch other dog trainer videos that attempt to refute him, and then look at the likes and comments, they all point you to Cesar Millan. Don't listen to political correctness.
@davidgenius12847 жыл бұрын
Jordan Hoon no it's just blind morons like you who flock to any criticism of your cult leader and down vote videos with trainers who actually know what they are talking about. Political correctness my arse! You don't actually know that means do you. It's just one of your buzzwords you use to avoid any Criticism of positions you hold. FYI Cesar Milan is a Hollywood libtard. By the way it's not up to us to disprove Cesar Milland methods it up to him and his fans to provide scientifically evidence for your position (the burden of proof lies on you) I don't won't anecdotal evidence from a bunch of uneducated CM or a blog post either (unless it includes citations to back up their claims). If not you can either change your position or be an ignorant CM sheep. By the way just because someone down votes a video and leave meaningless comments with no substance doesn't make the video creators position wrong ( that's an appeal to popularity fallacy)
@nv72875 жыл бұрын
it's easy to see the truth, just watch the dogs - they relax and know they are protected and understood...
@amacuro4 жыл бұрын
@Thelondonbadger I'm so sick of these Cesar haters. They truly are brainless. Cesar is a genius and has proved it a million times. There is an amazing dog trainer called Zak George. The guy was so good that they showed him on David Letterman late night show. But i have seen him interacting with a dog that wanted to bite him and the guy was clueless. He was making eye contact, he was moving forward, he was using baby talk and he was throwing pieces of food to the dog who ignored them. It was painful to watch. Zak George hates Cesar btw.
@amacuro4 жыл бұрын
@Thelondonbadger I don't believe in miracles but I do think he's a genius. If you watch his episodes it always works, no matter how difficult the case
@khaoulasamet32895 жыл бұрын
i love cesar milan he's the best !
@lesleyallinson87385 жыл бұрын
My guide dog barks once when he hears the gate open just to let me know
@dulla84694 жыл бұрын
i agree with that, my mother is soft as hell, and she basically spoiled the dog to the point where she doesnt eat her food and always barks when we are eating, only eats her food if we dont eat infront of her and she will get hungry and eat her food but its impossible to eat anywhere without her knowing
@pamgraham38174 жыл бұрын
Ceaser is the best I trained my yellow lab from him we watched him every Friday night sadly I put her down 2016 from pancreatic cancer ...My life has never been the same... I miss her so much...I can't have a pup where I live...I'm lost xo
@TheSimmpleTruth2 жыл бұрын
So sorry! I hope feel better soon.
@ke30_5 жыл бұрын
Does this work on humans
@DanielaPerez-yp1gb4 жыл бұрын
Funny 😂🤣
@cacatr44957 жыл бұрын
A great many Americans no longer know what discipline means.
@theapearson84996 жыл бұрын
He was an illegal from Mexico that lived under a bridge and survived on 2 hotdogs a day. Kept working, one in a million, he has what it takes for the American Dream
@GS-kj6ur5 жыл бұрын
Are you a fat lazy person posting this
@FarmerFpv5 жыл бұрын
Meanwhile, your child is in the bedroom playing video games and you're scarfing fat free chips while you are posting this! Shut up with America this America that, every developed nation has the exact problem unless you are too ignorant to realize that?
@patience91545 жыл бұрын
I know they just think whipping into submission or letting everyone run rampant is the only two options. That applies to kids too. It’s really just selfishness and laziness
@xhulio244 жыл бұрын
You're right, especially in the western world we have lost the honor of correction... now if you even beat your own kids they call it abuse... my dad beat me I turned out fine! In most countries they still discipline kids this lack of discipline is mainly in America and the west. Correction is a form of love, period.
Many times I have to correct my boyfriend to say “is our baby” and get so upset until one day he get so mad and I told him I have 3 children and this is my dog not my baby don’t be so ignorant...treat the dog as a dog not like human . Since that day he stop saying “this is our baby “ to all the people when we introduce our dog now he say this is our dog ... he learn the lesson I can’t understand why some many ignorant people still treat the dogs as a baby and don’t let the dog be a happy and healthy animal as he is ... treat them with respect he is a DOG!!! Not HUMANS!!!!!
@avneetsingh91904 жыл бұрын
No
@classicheraldgameplays53645 жыл бұрын
Can i use that sound on my mother☺.
@karenhaynes879710 ай бұрын
Hmm you don’t have to be mean just assertive, wish I knew that when my kids were small
@Vodallus6 жыл бұрын
What would cesar do if his couch was chewed up when he got home?
@AmyAlways6 жыл бұрын
insightful :)
@pjstar20096 жыл бұрын
She’s still clueless. Unbelievable
@sagi11425 жыл бұрын
Cesar is the best!!!
@Frankie-O5 жыл бұрын
Meredith is so hot, pretty, and beautiful; she is also sweet, lovely, and flawless; such a guardian angel and true blessing!
@sluna5085 жыл бұрын
How can I potty train my puppy ?
@Ferris-yz8ct5 жыл бұрын
Shawnee Luna take your puppy outside every hour to go potty. Whether it needs to go or not. Do that for a few days. Then few days later take puppy out every 2 hours or so. It shouldn’t take more than 2 weeks. Gradually increasing time that you last took your puppy out.
@JM_Hansei6 жыл бұрын
Now you learn humans from Cesar, how to treat correctly a dog and not being your little kid. Dogs are NOT humans and cannot be humanized like many many people do to them. It's like Cesar himself says: Love, exercise and DISCIPLINE.
@ROBDee-ho9lu5 жыл бұрын
Exercise, discipline and love.
@sabinajamin5 жыл бұрын
@@ROBDee-ho9lu YOU ARE SO RIGHT; HUGS FROM GERMANY xoxo
@enedinapereira8474 жыл бұрын
Coloca o Cesar de novo para educar os cães por favor
@Channel-kf8zt6 жыл бұрын
Cesar's techniques are sensible and simple, and they work..Your dog is not your equal and does not want to be.
@longbowshooter52915 жыл бұрын
Two rotts and a chi/weenie. If someone knocked they would run to the door, bark 4 - 5 times, then look at me. I would either tell them "place" and they'd go to their pillows and stay there as I let people in, or I could say "get it" and they'd bark, but not crazily, until I told them to stop. It IS the owners. I keep saying - I've never had to train a dog how to be a dog.
@samhartford86774 жыл бұрын
The EU has been trying to do this trick on Brexit Britain for four and a half years. A bit of progress, but apparently they still need their deal renegotiated, remainer and leaver alike, because the EU did not give the UK what the UK wanted. Patience. If you play in the team, you play by the rules.If you do not play in the team, you are out, but when you come in, you play by the rules. If you want to come in and not play by the rules, you are mistaken and will get a 'schiss!' from any dog trainer.
@iCazZiStronZi7 жыл бұрын
My dog doesn’t respond to that sound lol but hes only 2 months old
@cmcphotography16 жыл бұрын
SUBIE4estr XT ours respond firmly to SHhhh
@rainbowdragon94973 жыл бұрын
It is not the sound it is the energy behind the sound. Sometimes Cesar uses no sound at all.
@leoniabarlow5236 жыл бұрын
Wrong video it posted on
@renhoyze5 жыл бұрын
I'm trying to be assertive with my puppy but it doesn't phase her lmao!
@CGJUGO804 жыл бұрын
Never run out of patience, guys! Some dogs are more stubborn than others and may take a while but it will work.
@rainbowdragon94973 жыл бұрын
Consistent, repetition and patience. Reward at the right time.
@Pimpingyomamma5 жыл бұрын
My dog is my son he’ll listen to me respect me and love only if I do the same for him. people don’t understand that. so give me a hell yeah for the dogs/ animals that get treated with respect and love give me a gun for the people that hurt and give up on there animals.
@terry917455 жыл бұрын
"Disciplining" your dog is patiently & consistently communicating to your animal (or child) what is acceptable or unacceptable behavior. If you are CONSISTENT in your communication, discipline can never be considered "mean". The problem with people is they lack discipline (patient, consistent communication). Thus, when an undisciplined person decides to own a pet, since they don't know how to properly discipline their animal, they end up confusing the animal into thinking, "I'm the owner". In other words, their dogs think you're their "bitch". :) What's my point? If you want to lead a healthy, happy life, watch how someone "disciplines" their pet. It will reveal much about that individual. Never marry a person who yells and screams at their pet (or, anything, anyone, else, for that matter!). Undisciplined people can never be happy or satisfied and, thus, will make the person their married to, just as unhappy as, themselves.
@yahuyahu13626 жыл бұрын
My golden retriever is 7 years old.she is very scared to go out for walks all along. I literally have to pull her out of the house..outside she is scared of certain areas and corners..she has never gone to the roads to walk as it freaks her...Can any dog lovers help me. None of the dog owners I know faced this problem.
@yahuyahu13626 жыл бұрын
Really? Pl let me know which one?
@BeccaXHarpey6 жыл бұрын
A few iv seen where the dog is afraid. He is very patient with the dog, keeps a calm energy pulls the dog but gently not over the top and stays in that position and after a few seconds they usually follow, or he does another method of walking at speed confidently and not expecting any reaction past where they normally stop. Just keep looking for the episodes. One was a great Dane that would not go into it's owners work place and it took quite a few times
@skylarbix79125 жыл бұрын
Stop taking her for walks.
@DanielaPerez-yp1gb3 жыл бұрын
🤣💘
@randominternetviewer1662 жыл бұрын
Ceasar secretly has that conqueror Haki
@culloutoltec91115 жыл бұрын
the man is a Shifu
@marysuekrier87606 жыл бұрын
Help me Cesar Milan. My little 5 pound dog Lucy likes to chew on my hair. I have long hair. She is a smart little dog and knows how to come and sit.
@BeccaXHarpey6 жыл бұрын
If u watch his programs just copy him, don't be soft with it. Just say hey no and make it sit. And if u know it's going to do it, stop it before it gets to that point
@breakingames77725 жыл бұрын
Mine is way over affectionate
@Goztepe-uf6si4 жыл бұрын
Secret is food, if you supplement your training with food, they learn, period.
@misstigermilk5 жыл бұрын
Her dog has bitten people, and she thinks that behavior is cute...
@ritagriffiths60675 жыл бұрын
I sent message after Message to that man and not once has he got back to me ??????????
It’s the owner, not the dog. Same with out-of-control kids. It’s the parent, not the kid.
@thisgame25 жыл бұрын
AFTER YOU REALLY LEARN DOGS YOU START TO HATE OWNERS OF DOGS, I CANT STAND THAT ALMOST EVERY FUCKING IDIOT HAS A OMG GO CRAZY ATTACK WHEN THEY SEE THE DOG, ITS SO FUCKING SIMPLE , THEY TURN THE DOG MENTAL
@IONE_the_Enby6 жыл бұрын
Right, well how on earth do I train a rescue pup who never had rules, boundaries and limitations? Any progress I make is immediately null and void the next day 🙄🙄
@BeccaXHarpey6 жыл бұрын
Keep at it. Thank you for rescuing him or her. Maybe try just recapping more than once a day for a few minutes, it will take time and even when u think they've got it, still keep it up x
@skylarbix79125 жыл бұрын
I hope it worked out, you are negative. I bet you don't have the dog anymore.
@jbtrollhunter35852 жыл бұрын
Somebody said shock collar?
@thaidaym5 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend's dog was barking for like 3hrs straight last night... I was WTF have you been doing!?
@AkosuaFire4 жыл бұрын
thaimbomb lol!!
@iron60bitch626 жыл бұрын
All dogs bark saying that her dog is a barker is basically her telling you I’m a clueless idiot and my dog does whatever you watch and I cannot stop at people like this make me sick
@Justfun-xx6xe3 жыл бұрын
That's how you train your babies
@FarmerFpv5 жыл бұрын
So many trainers are jealous of Cesar its so funny to watch them get upset over these videos!
@lokeshrahul85048 жыл бұрын
literally Cesar ignoring the dog to not take the food right, if I do that my dog runs away from me ,
@DracosTube8 жыл бұрын
I assume you mean that your dog runs away from you if you try to keep it away from the food in the way Cesar does it. That could be because you put too much energy behind your assertiveness. Some dogs are quite sensitive, so the same amount of assertiveness may be just right for a confident dog, but too much for a more sensitive one. Try to adjust your intensity so that you get the point across, without overwhelming the dog. Just my two cents, hope it helps.
@sunilkc64728 жыл бұрын
Do уou want а hарру heаlthy dоg who bеhаvеs? Оf соursе! With this sitе, yоur dоg will dо еverуthing уоu saу аnd yоu will both havе tоns оf fun! ==> twitter.com/18cff12d366a22c46/status/742623739800653824?lKOb=3cc40148-3db4-4e8a-9e17-da4961f940a3 Cеsar Мillаn Reveals Тhе Seсret То Тrаining Your Dоg | Тhе Меrеdith Vieirа Show
@lokeshrahul85048 жыл бұрын
Luis so proper eye contact and low intensity is the key , i tried that it didnt worked , but anyway thanks for reply.
@DracosTube8 жыл бұрын
Well, those are two key elements, but they aren't the only ones. I wish this kind of thing was easy to learn/describe, but it isn't. Don't give up, keep trying in different ways, with different dogs. It has taken me a lot of trial and error to understand what Cesar teaches... the big advantage is that dogs don't rely on memories as much as we do ;-) Also, your internal state is very important, strive to always be calm and confident in yourself and your control of the situation. It's a long process, but keep watching what Cesar does with different dogs, and keep observing dogs and how they behave, and don't be afraid of trying things out. Some things will click sooner, others later. Good luck!
@lokeshrahul85048 жыл бұрын
thanks lois love you
@kathyfann5 жыл бұрын
How to house train a bilingual dog. I don't speak Spanish. I tried bonyo and potty and business. He never walked in a leash we are working on that. He hops and grins and enjoys his life he is a 15 month old Maltese I have had a month with him. Being consistent but I do travel quite a bit in my RV. Charlie is best in the RV. But at home the back door can be left open for him, but he goes in the house. I have been stern when I find it. Tell him he is to go outside for Banyo. He looks at me like he has no idea what I am talking about. I don't know how to communicate with him He won't let me pick him up he jumps in my lap when I am sitting. He is so sweet he never barks so he doesn't seem to have any other issus. He is a kind little soul.
@mariomegee61056 жыл бұрын
Who Love's your knowledge? All Of Us Do😛, the owners of Pets.
@sagnikpradhan35944 жыл бұрын
Alright Alright, I will be the asian mom with my dog.
@kirstinetermansen57268 жыл бұрын
I just had idea Cesar M - vidio with a silent Alarm ( grafic ) look the body l Untrue ages Shade attack Sad lonely Or borred And when its - Hi Dog keep, this seriel - behavior / - Over this time The alarm Set off - Grafic Human can see, it in lines - days, weeks,
@locarsybanez25395 жыл бұрын
I usually give them the stick when I show my dominance around our dogs that they are afraid of me than being friendly.
@saarlooswolfhund62373 жыл бұрын
Obviously disordered
@iron60bitch626 жыл бұрын
Woman should not own a dog she’s clueless
@lauranyc49665 жыл бұрын
Same goes for humans lol
@nv72875 жыл бұрын
She was ruining a perfectly good dog... through "kindness" Dogs run in pack formation if you are not the leader, they will take over that role. And try their best to care for you..(even if they are too young, or dont have the skills, which creates a lot of stress for them) She needed to really have her dogs best interest at heart and not be a buddy but a fair leader.
@generalsaufenberg49315 жыл бұрын
it`s the same with kids. they have to respect you. you are not their friend, you are the dad! kzbin.info/www/bejne/rGKwY4JoiNCEf5o like Steve Harvey said^^
@saarlooswolfhund62373 жыл бұрын
Stonaged bullshit
@TheBigUSO-ROB3 жыл бұрын
He be abusing the dogs lol
@catlandess68866 жыл бұрын
Nuff said. Respect for you doesn't mean that you are an evil parent right? Same thing.
@truth01493 жыл бұрын
He's a dog expert , yet she's offended by the Truth . Errogance !
@AMITKUMAR-wy5vm6 жыл бұрын
I think whisperer of dog is the a big cheat among us
@oliveriosteinn5 жыл бұрын
Cesar is slowly morphing into Ellen DeGeneres.
@jswarpaint62155 жыл бұрын
Cesar runs around talking to liberals about discipline and structure which is what they need but something they are completely oblivious to and will never understand.