“Chan got his anger issues from his dad”

[@coffeelove6549]

He's such a great friend we ALL ever need 😭😔🤙

[@elyseguillory689]

Fr bro

[@strryyy]

yeah hes just so comforting, idk why but i trust this man with my life 😭

[@Kuromi_-68t]

Fr

[@skzstay2008]

I just a great dad to 🥺

[@Kpop-Stay.09]

my bestie was like this but she broke my heart so😢

[@KonohanaSakyuka]

He's being so careful . He's like: "😓...Don't cancel my dad please."

[@skz4l1f2]

Real ❤

[@chadstchad]

anyone wanna cancel mine?

[@Leeknowsnothingandeverthing]

​@@chadstchad if you cancel mine I'll cancel yours :)

[@ankitamenon8780]

Yeah anger issues are usually hereditary mostly not because of genetics but the environment you are brought up in

[@wonyamiiii143]

Yess so true!

[@BANGCHANSBABYGORL]

Fr I get mine from my dad too

[@kpopstan._8983]

​@@BANGCHANSBABYGORL Same here, and I hate it 😤

[@aurthor5474]

I get mine from both of my parents, so you can guess how well that goes in fights lol

[@zosia._.812]

He is just like me :") I hope that he is not feeling bad of what he said on this live I understand him :((

[@pang2817]

If I don’t have a husband like him, I don’t want to marry. 😭👰‍♀️

[@laurastayatinyharmony9923]

Same honestly. If it means that I have to stay single forever, then fine. I’ll just marry a cardboard cutout of Chan or something 🤣

[@corry9]

​@@laurastayatinyharmony9923I'm totally joking,but your comment is giving Oli London🤣🤣🤣 Minus the plasic surgery and crazy koreaboo stuff

[@corry9]

The sad truth😂😭

[@Eren_from_skz]

Same with me💀😭

[@MiriamSacker-eb2dw]

​@@laurastayatinyharmony9923😂😂😂😂😂

[@45oliviasinha6c4]

He is so humble to speak bout his problems...Chan isn't an idol, he is an angel and a very great man...😊😊😊❤❤❤

[@_mubasshira_shaikh]

I have a short temper and I just can't express myself when I'm angry...coz sometimes I end up saying things I don't't even mean..and I don't share much of this side with my friends... I'm an extrovert but I'm book.

[@samikshasinha2202]

I can unfortunately relate to this..

[@user-jv1vs9cw8f]

Talk with your loved ones and tell them when you're angry, you need time to yourself to cool down, in your room/space alone.

[@Royalty82]

@@samikshasinha2202 same here

[@Yearofthetiger25]

Yeah i have a hard time articulating in the moment so, some of the anger is at myself because I can't get people to understand why I'm upset. But to the other people, they just hear me sounding angry and they don’t get why. I mean usually I do get angry because of they did but, I find it hard to, in my opinion, properly articulate why they made me mad so then I just get more frustrated trying to use my words to explain. I need space and time to figure how to articulate what I want to say but I'm not always given that time.

[@agustdrip1960]

Yeah i have the same problem

[@I_love_Nollen]

What calms me down when I'm mad I just put headphones in and listen to straykids ❤ they are the best

[@assia9146]

for me i always watch videos of "funny chan's room moments" it makes me calm down right away and sometimes it even makes me laugh my anger out

[@holgergelinek6798]

Yeah or just listen to ther voices no matter what they speak about😂😂😂 I love Bang chans very calm voice😊😊😊

[@YoNg_LiKs_ChIKeN]

stray kids are the best therapists shhh😅😂😂😂

[@paborachaisot8]

yep agreed therapy is expensive but Straykids content is unlimited and free 😃❤️ #Straykidsbesttherapists

[@mayko2468]

He is such a good human... Acknowledging ones flaws, reflecting on them and working to get better is peak maturity

[@parker25489]

If you can’t speak to someone right away, in my experience it helps a lot to just write down or type out all of your feelings in full and keep writing until you run out of steam

[@vanessapaviag]

I’ve never wanted to be friends with people more than I do stray kids. Like they’re just this group of people who seem so caring and sweet and fun and I just love them sm

[@ReRe7777]

Channie always gives the best advices

[@ElizabethRae]

Speaking it out. Music and dancing. Both work for me.

[@waterwitch8902]

When im angry I shut down. It takes time to discuss it, but I will talk about it calmly.

[@emocionallysick]

Chan is really so cute His smile gets me every time

[@Straykeys]

Thank you Chan for being human so we don’t feel alone ❤

[@mist5663]

I can relate, I also believe him when he says that his dad is different now, my dad too, now he actually acts like a father, but i used to be terrified of him, he was so abusive and now he's like a panda or golden retriever which is CRAZY, I also try not to repeat the same mistakes, I hope and wish he always is surrounded by loving, understanding, caring people with whom he feels comfortable and talks, our boys are very stubborn so I hope he sees that he's never alone

[@fifabublz17]

I love that he’s open about his struggles. We will always support you Chan

[@karlitaesparza122]

Yes I have anger issues to but to calm me down is just listening to Channie's videos actually calms me down,I feel his more then just an idol his a great friend ❤❤❤❤

[@LailaRivera-bp8no]

I feel like Chan would be the perfect big brother, like you could talk to him about anything and he would still love you no matter what you are going through yk like he would always be there for you🤍

[@HyunjinFr0mOhi0]

Me trying to imagine chan with anger issues when he's a literal angle

[@michellebyler1811]

Bro this boy needs to be hugged and protected like watching his lives is like going to a therapist for free 😭💗💗

[@lilinara27]

I love he is so honest on matters like this

[@noorpie143]

Kinda of topic, but why does he look so insanely handsome here-

[@kitconnorsfavperson]

IKR

[@shrutipanday5918]

he always looks insanely handsome

[@noorpie143]

@@shrutipanday5918 yup true, but now even more than usual

[@shrutipanday5918]

@@noorpie143 yess he slays effortlessly all the time

[@andreiaviviane505]

❤❤❤ chan is so cute ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Lucky_422]

Chan is the husband material we all need

[@harshithavijaykumar9986]

Bro why couldn't all men speak of how they feel,just like him 😭

[@natd602]

I love Chan for talking about this. The more you hold it in, the angrier you get and that’s just more stress on you than anything.

[@nondumisomthembu3854]

This man is an angel on earth....I mean even the way he talk you can't help but smile at how genuine he is about everything.

[@Logan-zl7xi]

My dad is angry all the time, it's kinda depressing to know that Chans dad was too.😔

[@VixenVulpix266]

Amazing and wise advice from Bangchan

[@tasneemhassan5086]

He’s our free therapist

[@_starryx]

Chan would be a good therapist

[@pravasthi5455]

Lol me too I got anger issues from my dad 😂😂

[@I.even.breathe.Kpop.]

Everybody : Paying for a therapist Me : Taking life notes on Chan's lives

[@B4likebefore]

I also have the anger issue i think, I’m normally really patient but when it reach the highest i would be like sth ,i hope i can find s/o that i can share my feelings ☺️

[@hYunJiNs_PiGtAiLs]

Chan is now officially my therapist 😂❤ Also he looks so hot here

[@violetmoon6233]

His such a pure down to earth Aussie . We need more people using their platform in a positive way . Males definitely need support too .

[@dnlsk25]

he’s being real😭

[@user-pe9ev8rd5n]

This is why he’s our daddy- he’s so wise and nice and sweet

[@jaidabrown9297]

I love channie

[@jasminherrera4249]

girl how could I not simp on him, when he's this sincere and even this fine

[@Felixrighttoenailhairlice]

chan always have the best advice if idol do not work out he can be an advisor,counsellor,or therapist 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚

[@lashondajones3382]

And that's why he's my bias in skz. Imagine him coming to you with every problem. I'd listen to him all night.

[@Kira-qc9lu]

I need someone like him in my life

[@suzyy1999]

He’s so pleasant person☺️

[@dori6300]

It's just scary to see chan be mad/angry cause you dont expect it from someone like him. We love you channie❤🤙

[@YvonneBVidal]

He so wise so young but so wise so proud 👏 🥲 of him he is definitely a role model 💖

[@edgerunner8424]

Bro my younger sisters just literally fought before i watch this clip, they won't even listen to me as the elders & continue shouting at each other when i already give out a solution. So i just called my parents and let them hear how bad the argument was silently without them knowing before i open the speaker for everyone, they instantly went quiet. Im so tired, they're going to be in a deep shit when my parents get home.

[@Beautifull407]

Whenever I get angry, I turn to you, Chris... You're literally my happy pill. The anger tends to just fade away the second I see you.🖤

[@bangtanseuphoria8875]

This explains what I.N meant when he said " Chan Hyung when his hair were red" 😂

[@luluduncan_freaky_queen_leo-1]

Chan is a such a beautiful human. If the world was more like Chan we would be Alot better. What a joy he truly is.. many blessings 🙏☮️🌞🌻💙🤍🖤💕

[@leeknowsgalaxy]

I need a brother like him 🥺💞

[@leeknowsairfryer7181]

We STAYs may not know him personally but I think most of us trusts him more than we trust our parents and friends

[@vaanipapadakis2226]

He’s such a cinnamon roll I can’t imagine him being angry.

[@ourhmdn]

He makes my standard going high and higher 🫣

[@hiba7347]

Bangchan has a really similar personality to me I'm glad to have someone that understands me

[@cloudymoon2893]

When he gets angry the most? when Seungmin calls him old 😁

[@isaortiz-ik9yc]

that what I've been doing holding every anger in me and not telling anyone what kinds of problems i have and when i even sad because i don't know

[@Stray_kids_is_always_number1]

Just Like his kids like father like son❤

[@ElifKocabas-ni8rx]

If I don't understand anything about it, hearing bangcha's voice ahh perfect saragee❤❤❤

[@user-zm1uz2dx5r]

Good kind bangchan ❤

[@miriamgondekova792]

Nobody understands how much i love him 😭😭

[@ConnorBrady-uw2vf]

Honestly I tried it when I first heard him talk about it and it does help. Channie we love you so much and can’t thank you enough for what you do for us ❤❤

[@rm.makes.me.smile_]

Moral of the story: you can break the cycle 💛

[@Janet_Blessings]

I ❤❤❤❤ your eyes.full of purity and kindness. Don't be stressed okay.

[@anuththarajagodaarachchi]

We miss him soo mich.😢

[@solarseren]

But I literally don’t have ANYONE to talk to. Not my family, friends, teachers or anyone. It’s like I’m forced to keep everything to myself and only show my feelings when it benefits them, even if it hurts me ☹️

[@disgusted_Lee]

we miss him. dont we?

[@carnagecabage8323]

I dont get angry like I used to be angry. But I was in a bad situation before so it felt like the world was against me. Now, even with increasing pressure to measure up for my future, I feel so much more chill (i blame it on skz 😂)

[@who_knowit]

that's why i loved bangchan

[@ilawinterburn2111]

He always gives such good advice. Me and my best friend always message each other when we need to rant about something. Also It's totally normal to struggle with your temper when you're younger because your hormones are all messed up. I know I got angry a lot more easily when I was a teenager. I have a lot more patience now that I'm in my 20s.

[@khaoslee]

I also got it from my dad, it's really really hard to hold anger in especially when you're in an environment that can easily trigger anger. My jaw often hurts because I clench my jaw so much trying not to explode, I had a habit of pinching or digging my nails to my skin to control my anger before but I've already abandoned that habit. Now usually breathing helps, I pause everything I do and then just do deep breaths on the spot. I always feel guilty everytime I can't control it tho because my words are harsh when I lose my shit, then because I feel guilty the next thing I'll try to hold in is crying lol

[@flowerbomb978]

As you get older anger simmer down. Things and people won’t faze you anymore. I had to learn this.

[@Stayforever_1998]

Channie Hyung you still have it😅

[@aditiarora349]

I wish someday we all can have a friend like him , his future wife will be the luckiest one 😌😌😌

[@Tarannumnaaz-rl6qz]

Chan u can always talk to us and share ur problems we'll always be there for u 🤗

[@calgirl80]

Anger is a human emotion. It's ok to feel angry. Don't keep it bottled up inside because then you'll explode and that's worse. I have an explosive temper and a short fuse. I'm a fire sign, what do you want from me? But I deal with anger right away. And calm down almost immediately and let bygones be bygones. I just have to let it out, and then I'm good. I can't stay mad for long.

[@Lady_Kunoichi]

Anger stems from not feeling heard. Over time, you become resentful, lost, underappreciated and neglected by the people closest to you. So it festers into anger. One day you meet someone who validates you and encourages you to speak up even if it's uncomfortable and soon it will allow you to deal with that trauma over time. It's a process but it's possible.

[@ankanamajumder4242]

If I am alone if I don't heve anyone to express not even my parents then how can i deal with this?

[@Imthatstayurlookingfor]

Im so sad that chan stopped doing these lives,he was literally like my therapist😭🤚

[@kuromi-mr1ln]

loving the expressions and the hand movement- lol 😃❤

[@urgaycousin11]

"i know that you got Daddy issues and I do too" - The neighbourhood

[@dhyanipatel2761]

just imagine chan with anger issues just like in dark dominating romance books 😶i will fall for him from head to toe

[@jovietosalem623]

I'm introvert so they always surprised if I'm angry.

[@Funneh0o0]

The real reason I Opened up

[@daily-mariff]

HIS ACCENT

[@Premses_Chan]

I got that from my dad too and he is no more with us (didn't die he just leaved us) it's hard to control yk :(

[@tiramisunsun]

My dad has anger issues too and made lots of progress those years. I can relate to Chan so much

[@lovelyt1ny3]

Not Chan being a therapist 💀

[@isa4124]

Me acorde del fic de wattpad “Here’s your f*king halloween” 😭, que bueno que este chan si se puede controlar

[@nae_to_cleasadair]

I get unreasonable feelings sometimes and for me sometimes it's NOT good to say it to the person I am feeling it towards. My brain blows things up out of proportion and even makes illusions. So for me, I wait, and I listen to loud music. Or I rant and rave in an empty room. Until the unreasonable self has calmed down again. And when I can see straight again, I am ok with people, and if I have to talk about it, I can do it without saying regretful things.

[@user-xt9pz5yz3z]

And people still idolize him like "he can't did something wrong!". He is a human. Still just a humaan. Ha can be wrong, angry and not perfect.

[@terimaue4155]

Such a nice person!

[@yashom306]

Damn he's so charming 😍🥰

[@maddieisfoive]

I used to have really bad anger issues growing up. I learned to manage them at about 10 and now I only get mad if someone is disrespectful to someone I love. We’re so much alike💀

[@allegra1898]

In yhe end he doesn't know what he wants to tell and the question probably wasn't about himself 😂

[@leahbanana2769]

I have anger issues I can’t express what I’m feeling. I start yelling and being distructive or I start crying and roll into a ball. I got it from my father 💀 and I understand completely. but when I do…I feel bad because when u tell them they always say well I can’t do anything I feel bad can you not tell me which I get mad and I overwhelmed and cry like why can’t you just listen to me yk bangchan love you❤

[@suchandrasaha]

He is literally A psychologist to us ❤

[@HanJisoong-]

"I'm honest with you guys" then show us your laptop👀 show us your laptop chan👀👀