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@yshannng
@yshannng 5 жыл бұрын
When you disappear, everyone looks for you. But when you're alive, you are invisible.
@DipsyMum29
@DipsyMum29 5 жыл бұрын
You may think you are but you are very precious to those that love you XX
@sgsggsgsshshs8900
@sgsggsgsshshs8900 5 жыл бұрын
Urgh.. I feel you bro. But the advantages of being the 'gray man' are: They could seize golden opportunities without being a threat to other, and they could hide within the plain sight :)
@michele21auntiem
@michele21auntiem 5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes people who you are with everyday no longer see you or bother to hear you. Even when you yell for help.
@sorbpen
@sorbpen 5 жыл бұрын
@@michele21auntiem get better friends.
@robertmckee1749
@robertmckee1749 5 жыл бұрын
so true lol
@イチゴ甘い-c3b
@イチゴ甘い-c3b 4 жыл бұрын
I’m a young Japanese girl (trying to learn English in university) and I can attest that it’s really hard to live here. The constant pressure of my parents, peers, and yourself as well. It’s the standards that you have to achieve. Sometimes, I want to escape to Europe or USA and live a new life, to start a new "me" that no one knows. Then l realize a lot of people are like me, still trying to live normal everyday life. What is the meaning of life? Our existence? No one have the answer but ourselves. Plus living in another country, culture shock of their different ways might be hard. So I’ll try my best everyday and I hope you will too! ^___^ 頑張れ!
@samasama941
@samasama941 3 жыл бұрын
How about coming to Malaysia?
@brwntwn123
@brwntwn123 3 жыл бұрын
I would not recommend USA but Canada is a nice place mostly or Australia
@MikeBSc
@MikeBSc 3 жыл бұрын
Ganbatte, Ichigo san.
@El-wv1tf
@El-wv1tf 3 жыл бұрын
@@speakthetruth995 oh yes, Jesus Christ, that guy also liked to dissappear.
@heyho8361
@heyho8361 3 жыл бұрын
Funny, I am from Europe and I would like to go live in Japan
@rasklaat2
@rasklaat2 3 жыл бұрын
I did that as well. My father was a nasty, abusive monster. So after graduating from the university I left the country to distance myself and to be free from dealing with him. It wasn't easy at the beginning but now I am living happily, never having to worry about seeing that horrible person again.
@rachealkayuganda9814
@rachealkayuganda9814 3 жыл бұрын
🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️😰😰😭😭😭😭
@amandataylor6434
@amandataylor6434 3 жыл бұрын
Bless you. 🙏 May your heart be filled with peace.
@jocelyns5331
@jocelyns5331 3 жыл бұрын
@@amandataylor6434 Amen.
@heaveniridescence6993
@heaveniridescence6993 3 жыл бұрын
May God continue to bless you with a beautiful life.
@letswatch1250
@letswatch1250 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe call your old man
@michaelpcooksey5096
@michaelpcooksey5096 2 жыл бұрын
Helping a domestic violence victim to 'evaporate' is a true act of kindness. Extended support demonstrated in this video is outstanding. Being herself a victim of such violence makes it a very good situation for her clients. God bless her and her staff.
@mightytaiger3000
@mightytaiger3000 2 жыл бұрын
Got paid handsomely as well. That’s how she affords that Gucci wallet.
@Vickangelll
@Vickangelll 2 жыл бұрын
@@mightytaiger3000 and...?
@dadsmidnightcreation6794
@dadsmidnightcreation6794 2 жыл бұрын
Michael p coxy reported you
@dadsmidnightcreation6794
@dadsmidnightcreation6794 2 жыл бұрын
@@mightytaiger3000 reported you
@dadsmidnightcreation6794
@dadsmidnightcreation6794 2 жыл бұрын
@@Vickangelll reported you
@KC-to9xl
@KC-to9xl 4 жыл бұрын
To be a night mover for women, victims of domestic violence, what a badass job. Heroes in disguise
@kerimcandrew4628
@kerimcandrew4628 4 жыл бұрын
Thinking we should adopt this here in the states... Ya know? For all those PFA's they can't or won't enforce.
@-esmee-2697
@-esmee-2697 4 жыл бұрын
its so smart! idk why other countries dont have that
@elisabeth1011
@elisabeth1011 4 жыл бұрын
She asks so much money tho making it very difficult for women with children.
@mma_1993
@mma_1993 4 жыл бұрын
@@elisabeth1011 I think that's because she do extra jobs as well not just the ordinary movers.
@hase2944
@hase2944 4 жыл бұрын
it’s relatively expensive so I don’t think it’s helping many on the extreme sides
@RemusReddragon87
@RemusReddragon87 4 жыл бұрын
"Why do they choose to disappear " bruh have you seen society lately
@PinoyAbnoy
@PinoyAbnoy 4 жыл бұрын
@Smitty WerbenJagerManJensen some became worse cus of european colonialism.. like overworked culture via industrial revolution
@PinoyAbnoy
@PinoyAbnoy 4 жыл бұрын
@Jonathan Lunn its my reply to smitty.. some countries in africa or like in most former colonies... their current problems like neocolonialism. google england looted india, king leopold ii,
@PinoyAbnoy
@PinoyAbnoy 4 жыл бұрын
@Jonathan Lunn im not blaming all white people.. are you from england? but its the truth many countries got colonized by european countries. when you talk about these poor countries, or 3rd world, how did they became poor? like i said good england looted india, or french colonial tax, have you seen this video. Dr Shashi Tharoor MP - Britain Does Owe Reparations kzbin.info/www/bejne/nGimiGqJZd-rrJY
@nguyenduchuy52
@nguyenduchuy52 4 жыл бұрын
@Deep Soul nice talk
@holyshit2709
@holyshit2709 4 жыл бұрын
Because people suck
@daiki1493
@daiki1493 3 жыл бұрын
It's really true movie about telling Japanese truth. I was born in Japan, grew up in Japan but at the age of 30, I've moved to Taiwan to search for new life. Actually, both Taiwan and Japan are same insularism, small island countries. But cultures, way of living, ideas are pretty different. while I was living in Japan, I always took care about what others think about me, how you look others. I hardly breathed, felt be choked, felt be monitored by other's eyes. I always think "is it normal ?". After working in a big Japanese company for 6 years, I've decided moving out of Japan. Now, a salary is less than I worked in Japan, but I got high satisfaction and a fulfillment of heart through normal dairy life in Taiwan.
@nguyenanh4084
@nguyenanh4084 3 жыл бұрын
Ok handsome boy, good luck for you in the next time in Taiwan
@joelshajan8706
@joelshajan8706 3 жыл бұрын
How's the dairy life working out for ya? Is the milk good?
@J0J02007
@J0J02007 3 жыл бұрын
@@joelshajan8706 I think they meant daily life. It was a typo.
@joelshajan8706
@joelshajan8706 3 жыл бұрын
@@J0J02007 It was a joke man...
@sreelakshmi2584
@sreelakshmi2584 3 жыл бұрын
@@joelshajan8706 😂
@TheDramacist
@TheDramacist 2 жыл бұрын
I 'vanished' when I cut ties with my sisters. They're socipathic narcissists and I felt they held me financially and socially hostage, using their kids as bargaining tools whilst being physically abusive, lying, stealing and just the worst humans in my life for decades. When I nearly died from sepsis, they were total scum to me and took advantage of me. When I healed a year later, I changed my job and my contact details and just moved on to better things. I still remain on a professional register as a healthcare provider. But my sisters are not educated or informed people and have as yet to figure out this register exists. They dont have the money to hire someone to look for me, and if they did Id tell that investigator to leave me alone and ask for no disclosure. Im really happy with my friends and my home, my job is interesting and my career keeps progressing. Sometimes it's not the person who left that had a problem, it's the people we walked away from.
@alexandraasbury9974
@alexandraasbury9974 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, good for you!!! So sad your sisters were like that. I have two sisters and we don't always see eye to eye on everything but can't imagine hurting them like yours did. Take care, and stay healthy and free, Senpai!!!
@FreedomWriter3
@FreedomWriter3 2 жыл бұрын
"Sometimes it's not the person who left that had a problem, it's the people we walked away from." Amen! I'm glad you're happy. ❤
@gtechnosinc2518
@gtechnosinc2518 2 жыл бұрын
They have a big problem being narcissists,but try to forgive them,and pray for them so they can be better people,sooner or later they will change their attitude,and will look for you,and things will change forever for the good,hope you are ok and everything gets better in the future.
@wurirahmawati4337
@wurirahmawati4337 2 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for everything that happened to you.....you have done great work to not to be around them ..congratsss!! I hope you still have some contacts with and forgive them for your own sake (not for them anyway).
@dontgivebumsachance1979
@dontgivebumsachance1979 2 жыл бұрын
I'm about ready to disappear
@robertcaffrey6097
@robertcaffrey6097 5 жыл бұрын
I would love to see the expression on the face of the abusive husband when he returns from work to find his wife and kids have disappeared and the house in empty of belongings.
@e.theresebradley5966
@e.theresebradley5966 5 жыл бұрын
Robert Caffrey Love it..
@renatalivlove75
@renatalivlove75 5 жыл бұрын
Haha..me too..probably not a good sight
@vijayalakshmiramkumar2161
@vijayalakshmiramkumar2161 5 жыл бұрын
Who knows ..may be...he went ....hip hip hurrah...
@BarbiieDee4life
@BarbiieDee4life 5 жыл бұрын
But let's hope he doesn't find them or the wife doesn't return.. it's common for a victim of an abusive relationship to go back to the abuser..sadly
@k-yk-y5044
@k-yk-y5044 5 жыл бұрын
These movers should install cctv cameras in the houses! If I were a wife leaving my abusive thusband I'd love to see him walking into a empty house and kicking the couch instead of me! 😂
@harlowjademermaid1882
@harlowjademermaid1882 3 жыл бұрын
"They bring you flowers when you're dead, but no soup when you're sick."
@OssamabinKenny
@OssamabinKenny 3 жыл бұрын
Are you trying to be deep? You bring your dead friend flowers once a year but if he's sick, are you going to bring him soup 3 times a day until your friend is back on his feet? You put your parents in a home and throw away the key, what chance does your friend has? huh?
@Wolfsgejaule
@Wolfsgejaule 3 жыл бұрын
@Juan Carrero Yes, you are the smartest being on this planet, and everyone else is too stupid to understand. *slow clap*
@og-greenmachine8623
@og-greenmachine8623 3 жыл бұрын
They complain if you smoke when you’re alive, Then incinerate you after you die...
@venusreena2532
@venusreena2532 3 жыл бұрын
Yes... strange how that is..
@Soul_Alpha
@Soul_Alpha 3 жыл бұрын
Pretty much.
@TheOddJapaneseGuY
@TheOddJapaneseGuY 3 жыл бұрын
“Dead people receive more flowers than the living ones because regret is stronger than gratitude. “- Anne Frank.
@BalboaBaggins
@BalboaBaggins 3 жыл бұрын
One of the most beautiful and strongest quotes out there.
@silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892
@silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892 3 жыл бұрын
@Razor Lover A middle-aged very german daddy and WWI veteran, who wrote about a young girl's most secretive sentiments on early menstruation, in midst of a World War and constantly life-threatening hiding from the Nazis. ...
@FuckkYT
@FuckkYT 3 жыл бұрын
Anne - writing with a ball pen before it was invented - Frank hah?
@yourbot9788
@yourbot9788 3 жыл бұрын
And first flower for men will be waiting at their grave
@emiogawa86
@emiogawa86 3 жыл бұрын
Oh ok --Albert Einstein.
@kayumochi
@kayumochi 2 жыл бұрын
I lived almost 20 years in Japan and can recall two women who each had a parent who vanished (and it was a traumatic experience for both of them) and there was an entire family in our neighborhood who vanished as well. What is even more prevalent is suicide. There were three in our building alone.
@maggiemae7539
@maggiemae7539 2 жыл бұрын
I have read about the suicide forest.
@Designer_TopG
@Designer_TopG 4 ай бұрын
Thats fkd up. Ppl need to help each other. But don't reveal to outside where you're at.
@saoirserose2696
@saoirserose2696 3 жыл бұрын
My stepdad was verbally abusive and always breaking things when he was angry, when I was 12 after 2 years of his apologies, anger management which helped nothing, my mother decided it was time to escape. We pretended to load trash bags for the laundromat... it was the most anxious and terrified I had ever felt, he was watching tv, and while we handed bags to our mom to put in the car out the back door, I could feel at any moment he’d figure out our plan because there were so many bags. That’s exactly what happened. He grabbed a hand gun and threatened to kill himself in the yard, when he started shooting we dropped to the floor, I held my 7 month old brother under one arm and my 8 year old brother under the other bellies to the floor. My mom called police and they escorted us to the state line. I have so much respect for law enforcement, they saved our lives that day and walked into a situation where they could’ve been shot to rescue us. Years later we found out that he had been diagnosed with bipolar disorder, depression and paranoia, mental health is so important, I think men especially in America don’t think they should seek help out of shame or appearing weak.
@AdmiralBison
@AdmiralBison 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, Mental Health Care is an extremely important medical need that is criminally not given priority, resources and national attention. I do see "help" lines at work places, but this is not enough it ought to extend to homes, public and the national psyche overall. Health care along with Mental Health care and emotional community support ought to be a critical foundation of a functioning society and not just always be about GDP, money, stock markets etc... I think an Economic system based on the human condition, resources and evironment/natural ecosystems should be an alternative to Capitalism that mostly prioritizes money and ownership of everything by billionaires.
@ee1yd
@ee1yd 3 жыл бұрын
I don't personally know any men that don't seek help from appearing weak, but I could see some having that mindset
@nicanorstrugaru7899
@nicanorstrugaru7899 3 жыл бұрын
Youre a hero
@KagomeYasha023
@KagomeYasha023 3 жыл бұрын
Wow I’m surprised the cops didn’t shoot your dad they usually will say,” they have no time for mental problems.” Anyway lucky but we don’t have enough mental health resources in America, it really is criminal (like somebody above said) our country is run by greedy criminals though so what can be expected.
@shinkumiko6225
@shinkumiko6225 3 жыл бұрын
at least in your country they have the so-called options and actually diagnose the problem and really "help" people in need. You met good people and saved your family. Wishing you well all the times...
@pault9544
@pault9544 4 жыл бұрын
Their country and it’s people are under so much stress. It’s sad because I think Japan is really an amazingly beautiful and fascinating country. I just wish they’d stop putting so much pressure on themselves.
@LifeLikeSage
@LifeLikeSage 4 жыл бұрын
More like pressure on each other. Some people don't want to live to work, some people work to live.
@ggurks
@ggurks 4 жыл бұрын
Of course there are those cases, but the majority of the Japanese are very friendly, caring and nice people. I had a feeling in Japan that they take more care of eachother than it's common in the west. They are not only very polite, but they sincerely want you to be and feel well. All societies have their problems, so also the Japanese, but all in all they do pretty well
@pault9544
@pault9544 4 жыл бұрын
@@ggurks I’ve experienced the same thing. I actually speak some Japanese as it was my minor focus during undergrad. They are indeed very considerate and polite and it definitely goes beyond that. I’ve never been to Japan but someday I hope to spend a good amount of time there.
@chanichanti4241
@chanichanti4241 4 жыл бұрын
They don't have God and they don't have hope joy
@LifeLikeSage
@LifeLikeSage 4 жыл бұрын
@@chanichanti4241 The depression is more likely a side effect of modernization and how humans are maladapted for the current problems a technologically advanced world has. Things like the Hikikomori phenomenon in Japan mirror the dropping marriage rates in the west. What do the two have in common? Advanced western civilization, not a specific deity. And even then, some do worship what they call kami-sama.
@alizain5420
@alizain5420 3 жыл бұрын
"His brother said there was nothing in naokis past that he would choose to dissapear".Trust me u dnt know another person even if they are family.
@electricdreams9446
@electricdreams9446 3 жыл бұрын
You know what? I can't admit to anyone (family or friends)when I got a scholarship to a fancy school in year 6 and 7 , the rich children there did not like me. I was shy and from the wrong side of the tracks and had gone to a crap school where the only sport we really did was swimming a few laps and riding our bike home fast through the bad neighbourhood. 🤣They all played tennis like experts and rode horses and played cello. They were much more scholarly as well, with beautiful handwriting. Totally alien to me. Seems strange but it affected me for life. I never told anyone. I went back to my rough old school but never felt the same again. Never told a soul.
@Love-jf7rs
@Love-jf7rs 3 жыл бұрын
@@electricdreams9446 You’re not alone. Came across someone who had a similar experience to you. They got accepted to a nice school, and every evening went back home across town in a uniform-suit, where everyone would be looking at them there. So they felt out of place at school and going home to their own neighbourhood. Eventually they got through, went to a good university and got a high-paying job and was able to buy a nice house. Then they found God and everything changed; things they focused on and valued before no longer mattered, and other things mattered more. The person is now focused on helping and supporting people, and focused on the eternal life afterwards. The person’s experience in the school helped and are relevant to where they are today.
@electricdreams9446
@electricdreams9446 3 жыл бұрын
@@Love-jf7rs 👌
@MelchizedekKohen
@MelchizedekKohen 3 жыл бұрын
nobody will know if you dont tell them family or not
@sgtmomOK
@sgtmomOK 3 жыл бұрын
@@MelchizedekKohen Sometimes nobody listens or wants to hear.
@1234kingconan
@1234kingconan 4 жыл бұрын
“We hid their identities” - shows their faces clearly from multiple angles
@rachelvillarim3279
@rachelvillarim3279 4 жыл бұрын
1234kingconan exacly 😒
@michielim7422
@michielim7422 4 жыл бұрын
Gd pfp i see you
@muthoninjoroge2763
@muthoninjoroge2763 4 жыл бұрын
And shows the directions the roads
@sanjogpawar1874
@sanjogpawar1874 4 жыл бұрын
The people used in this documentary are obviously not the people they are talking about lmao
@svenshrempf
@svenshrempf 4 жыл бұрын
Man, people are stupid...now that most are in lockdown, even braindead people can watch more youtube videos now without even understanding what they were watching.. it seems the OP brain stop working after that quote..
@herkit3270
@herkit3270 4 жыл бұрын
i realized something. When I'm in a group of people that knew me for a long time and my past. I would feel like they are still judging me for things that i did. But when I met a stranger. It was easier to talk to and made friends. Because they have nothing to judge then. That's why some people decided to just.. vanish. to build a new you.
@generalgta3528
@generalgta3528 4 жыл бұрын
Hey, do you watch anime? Please reply!!!
@herkit3270
@herkit3270 4 жыл бұрын
@@generalgta3528 yess loll. My fav were assassination classroom :)
@generalgta3528
@generalgta3528 4 жыл бұрын
@@herkit3270 Have you watched The Pet Girl Of Sakurasou, Bunny Girl Senpai, or Inuyashiki?
@herkit3270
@herkit3270 4 жыл бұрын
@@generalgta3528 nope but I'll watch em when i have time hehe
@generalgta3528
@generalgta3528 4 жыл бұрын
@@herkit3270 Have you not watched even one of them? Have you ever heard of them?
@jackcumming3663
@jackcumming3663 3 жыл бұрын
I took to the road for years.. I even joined a carnival. I just wanted to be anonymous. No one in the carnival was interested in your name..they all had their own stories..stories, like mine, they kept to themselves. Mine was simple. I was brought up in a large, poor family..with a father that drank and was overly domineering. So at a young age I just up and left without a word. I had just had enough. May I say..the sense of freedom was overwhelming. I am now 71..and in a great place in my life. The lessons I learned on the street, kept me ahead of the game. I was totally off grid. Everyone should experience surviving off of their wits..and seeing all the BS, people live with. When you have nothing, you have nothing to lose. When is enough, enough ? As far as this life..its not real. Put it like this..life is simply you, the soul, having a physical experience.
@mbr0916
@mbr0916 3 жыл бұрын
💞💞💞
@cristinaplanzoscarsella448
@cristinaplanzoscarsella448 3 жыл бұрын
Did you ever contact your mom?
@GodiscomingBhappy
@GodiscomingBhappy 3 жыл бұрын
inspiring story....i have a very similar one ..still striving to make it the best it can be. love.
@proculusjulius7035
@proculusjulius7035 3 жыл бұрын
"when you have nothing, you have nothing to lose " that's very wise. Thank you old man.
@starlight-xt7po
@starlight-xt7po 3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful analysis of life. I see things similarly to you.
@albatross7439
@albatross7439 2 жыл бұрын
It makes me so sad to think about Naoki's brother and how when his parents die he will be alone with no closure. It's awful how his disappearance has had such a negative impact on his family :( I really hope they find out what happened to him one day.
@tranngochoa964
@tranngochoa964 2 жыл бұрын
In this world, many people have gone in that way every day. I personally wish that I would go that way too. However, the most important point here is that how good one's life is when they are living.
@pr7ish
@pr7ish 2 жыл бұрын
i think he's somewhere in the south china sea, it happens all the time
@rose25hoon
@rose25hoon 2 жыл бұрын
I think this case may have been human traffic; all his belongings there and him no where to be found? So many years? He was young and a target for human traffic.
@NoNamenoonehere
@NoNamenoonehere 2 жыл бұрын
@@rose25hoon very true it happens lot more then ppl realise ,even in the west,there just put down as runaways but been actually been traffic to other-side of the world or worse
@kirinrex
@kirinrex 2 жыл бұрын
Most likely he jumped off the ferry. His passport, money and important things were placed neatly on the bed so it would be found quickly and his absence would be noticed. My guess is, he tied weights to his ankles and jumped. I doubt this is human trafficking because they'd want to leave as little evidence as possible. Important documents and clothing would be burned, money would simply be taken. They wouldn't want to leave any kind of trail. As well, adult males are very rarely trafficked in a country like Japan, and when it does happen, it is far, far more likely to happen to immigrants. So I think trafficking is very unlikely. Since he left behind his money, I would also say it's unlikely he simply wanted to run away to Kyushu. This was most likely suicide, and his body will probably never be found. If he weighed himself down with weights, it's unlikely any remains would ever be found in a recognizeable condition.
@beth-bi9yv
@beth-bi9yv 5 жыл бұрын
My heart breaks for naoki's brother. He seems so weighted down by his brothers disappearance
@Rin-le7cx
@Rin-le7cx 5 жыл бұрын
beth 9891 true
@zulfikarkhawlah
@zulfikarkhawlah 5 жыл бұрын
Anyone want to commit suicide before you want to do please come to Malaysia, and visit the mosques and find your true purpose of life. I work as volunteer in the mosque (Jamek) met many Japanese people travel alone and made them change their mind about the purpose of life in this world. Please do not commit suicide. Your body is not belong to you, it belong to Allah (Only 1 God to be worship). We are all here for a purpose to worship Allah and to do good. Those who commit suicide will have your one way ticket to HELL.
@Tetribution
@Tetribution 5 жыл бұрын
@@zulfikarkhawlah ok boomer
@MicheleBenfante
@MicheleBenfante 5 жыл бұрын
you can clearly see his soul is completely crushed, poor man
@yoshuadhebrew135
@yoshuadhebrew135 5 жыл бұрын
For real , I would be devastated
@damienraithisstillcopingwi5106
@damienraithisstillcopingwi5106 5 жыл бұрын
I don’t blame them. The pressure on people over there is suffocating.
@damienraithisstillcopingwi5106
@damienraithisstillcopingwi5106 5 жыл бұрын
Sean M, I like to think that they have their reasons.
@Kajp-se9eq
@Kajp-se9eq 5 жыл бұрын
I am a foreigner living in Japan we know life is like that boring like the Japanese say to me
@hotpopcorncake
@hotpopcorncake 5 жыл бұрын
@@Kajp-se9eq I been hearing from Japanese saying they get bored of living in Japan too. I think japan it's an interesting place but I would never want to visit. I rather meet a Japanese person in the US.
@princecharming8125
@princecharming8125 5 жыл бұрын
I don't blame your comment. Society and their bull shit is so bad had to choose , have a superior-ority complex over society or become a deranged psychopath lunatic. 😥 For everyones personal safety I chose a superior-ority complex
@leonsong3284
@leonsong3284 4 жыл бұрын
@@hotpopcorncake Totally agreed! Having lived in Japan for a year, life is occasionally deranging for me, instead of finding peace, I feel like an outcast, being respectful to each other is one thing, but on the other hand inside all those attractive services their goal is to earn your money as well as teaching you a lesson that this is how they build their rich and distrustful society. Deficient judicial system with lazy and corrupt police makes Japan a paradise for criminals but leave those kind ordinary people in such distress. I met Westerners owning hostel on my journey, he seldomly joins other English speakers' chats and even though the way he speaks has been formed into Japanese style, he still showed friendliness to my passion, thence it impressed me with how precious inclusivity in Western culture is.
@kaamn1829
@kaamn1829 4 жыл бұрын
There's something impossibly human about running away, about vanishing--- but there's also something unbearably cruel about never letting the people who've loved you know if you're alive or not.
@kaamn1829
@kaamn1829 4 жыл бұрын
@Joey Harper Which is _why_ it's especially insidious to leave family members ignorant of the truth.
@Notmytoe
@Notmytoe 4 жыл бұрын
I agree Messed up from all sides
@kaamn1829
@kaamn1829 4 жыл бұрын
@GEO V oh for sure, i say what i say from the lens of someone who just up and vanished on their family for a few years and someone with a "chronic runaway" brother. plus, something being justified doesn't make it not awful.
@kaamn1829
@kaamn1829 4 жыл бұрын
@GEO V my brother is the one who takes off for a week or two at a time and is home for a week or two or a time, i'm the one who who took off and disappeared for years at a time w/o telling anyone if i was alive or not, and we're both justified in doing so by our home life, but we're both so cruel for doing so as well. i never realized just how awful it is, just how many people we leave (even when no one sees you, takes care of you, loves you) questioning and hurting and how many lives i derailed by my need to just vanish. i don't think i would take running away back, but i wouldn't just hurt people like that now if i didn't, and i wish my brother would just text, i don't need him to stick around, i just want to know his dangerous lifestyle hasn't killed him. you know?
@jeannestandley-kinata824
@jeannestandley-kinata824 4 жыл бұрын
@@kaamn1829 , sometimes this is a symptom of mental illness such as Bipolar disorder, Borderline personality disorder, or schizophrenia. During manic episodes or delusional episodes people often will flee. But it is also possible that the person is running away from abuse or neglect at home. There are also people who " ramble". They find adventure seeking and travel as a way to escape boredom. They move from place to place and feel the need to move often. They feel restless staying in one place and prefer not to put down roots for too long. These types of people thrive in jobs such as long haul trucking, tourism industry, piolets, Navy, NOAA, military service, fishing boat crew, where travel and variety is a required part of the job. They enjoy and seek out adventures. Perhaps talking with a career counselor would be of some help. They can do a Briggs Meyers personality assessment and determine your personality type. Then you would be given a list of jobs you would thrive in. Anyone could do this for free by researching " Briggs Meyer Personalities" on Pinterest. There are tests and charts describing which jobs each personality type is best suited to. I will be thinking of you. I hope this suggestion helps. I am sending love and hugs from Washington State, USA, Jeanne of In Loving Hands Counseling and ASMR
@sabrinawanderer7560
@sabrinawanderer7560 2 жыл бұрын
😰😰😰 Naoki, I can feel your longing for your brother. I hope he is okay wherever he is. I'm an introvert too and now as I watch this, I learned a lot. Sometimes, I want to escape too when things go messy and I can't handle it. But now, I realised, if I disappear without due notice to my loved ones, without explaining them my plans, I will forever hurt them and I don't want to do this to them.
@yagurlbaekhee
@yagurlbaekhee 4 жыл бұрын
I started watching this video with so much curiosity of why a lot of people vanished in Japan, and I just ended up being emotional. Man, this video says a lot to me. So much realization in life. You are so old, some might say you are dying, and here you are, waiting for your son to come back home. After 14 years, still no chance of meeting him. All you ask for is to at least have a last glance of him before you leave permanently this world. Anxiously living each day with a scary thought that your abusive husband will find you and your child. And could hurt you again. Patiently visiting the subway/train station everyday hoping that your husband will come back after leaving. After three months, you received a letter from him that he doesn't want to come back. A mother and her children aghast that their father did not return for days that became months that eventually became years, thinking he was just on a business trip. You were so young, hoping that you could meet your father again. And you did, and he said he is not yet ready to come back home.
@yagurlbaekhee
@yagurlbaekhee 4 жыл бұрын
@Karen luvs Jesus True. I wish them all the best even now. I hope that Japan can also survive this loneliness as how they can easily survive disasters. They are a very resilient community, I hope they can do as much to their mental health as well.
@Vampgamergeek
@Vampgamergeek 4 жыл бұрын
sad to say I live In japan and never knew their were a lot of selfish people, mental health doesn’t exist out here, they believe if your weak you are weak it has nothing to do with your mind psychiatry isn’t any where here in any shape or form they bottle up their emotions and suffer or take it out on people they love
@KimDixDiary
@KimDixDiary 3 жыл бұрын
I have been living in Japan for 4 years now and most times I sit and people watch and all I see is a sad society that is stuck on perfection. In my current job I work with children and with every interaction I try to let they know perfection doesn’t exist and life is messy. All that matters is we apologize when we’re wrong or made someone feel less than they’re while working to become a better version of yourself. This documentary was extremely sad for me. Y’all stay safe and know that someone out there cares and love you.
@erlanggaz9105
@erlanggaz9105 3 жыл бұрын
Basically a dystopian society then, as you perceive it?
@KimDixDiary
@KimDixDiary 3 жыл бұрын
@@erlanggaz9105 yes exactly so
@karenisabelaalvarezpabon9315
@karenisabelaalvarezpabon9315 3 жыл бұрын
That's such a nice work ur doing with those children 💜
@ray24051
@ray24051 3 жыл бұрын
It seems like centuries of their traditions and behaviors is what is destroying their own Society. It was heartbreaking watching that 80 year old woman saying that she Wonders if her husband thinks about her, my parents are both 89 years old and alive and together and they take care of each other. Until Japan changes their way of thinking they will continue in this cycle for Generations and look at their population it is slowly decreasing people are not having children.
@CulturalBackgroundsStudyBible
@CulturalBackgroundsStudyBible 3 жыл бұрын
You stay safe and encouraged. Shalom. ❤
@michealb8508
@michealb8508 4 жыл бұрын
Japan has serious problem with people’s social relations.
@michealb8508
@michealb8508 4 жыл бұрын
@Naofumi Iwatani I’ve never said that
@michealb8508
@michealb8508 4 жыл бұрын
@Naofumi Iwatani Dunno where that came from but sureeee
@michealb8508
@michealb8508 4 жыл бұрын
@Naofumi Iwatani ok? I mean, we’re everywhere nowadays. Anime is almost mainstream.
@michealb8508
@michealb8508 4 жыл бұрын
@Naofumi Iwatani Yeah, thought vtubers are getting more attentions from the west recently. It's a good thing.
@ryphish4924
@ryphish4924 4 жыл бұрын
@Naofumi Iwatani No one had mentioned anything about the West, God knows where you got that presumption.
@0animalproductworld558
@0animalproductworld558 2 жыл бұрын
I love the respectfulness in this video 🐇 The narrator is respectful, and how this video is presented is also very very respectful!
@lunartears6761
@lunartears6761 3 жыл бұрын
That’s horrible to be in a position in life where you HAVE to contemplate either suicide or literally disappearing without a trace to escape a bad situation.😢
@babyogkush1332
@babyogkush1332 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed 😔🙏🏽
@piedramultiaristas8573
@piedramultiaristas8573 3 жыл бұрын
On the other hand. 💊I'm sharing Acts 2:38 with anyone who wants it bless
@RandomC360
@RandomC360 3 жыл бұрын
Or fight through the situation
@whereswaldo5740
@whereswaldo5740 3 жыл бұрын
@@RandomC360 Be like water. - Sun Tzu
@tomkellycartoons
@tomkellycartoons 2 жыл бұрын
@@piedramultiaristas8573 👎👎👎👎👎💩💩💩💩💩🤮🤮🤮🤮👹
@marspera808
@marspera808 5 жыл бұрын
It broke my heart when the grandma said she comes back to the station every single day. 💔 i mean, it’s like Hachiko on a different level. 😭
@charlie-bucket
@charlie-bucket 5 жыл бұрын
@@smokeweed2173 jesus christ
@r-raynhish4554
@r-raynhish4554 5 жыл бұрын
Big sad
@xalzor740
@xalzor740 5 жыл бұрын
@Charlie Bucket Just report these human waste commenting like this
@rickgal9003
@rickgal9003 5 жыл бұрын
Damn
@avocedo975
@avocedo975 5 жыл бұрын
@Pool Bal always think at the bright side, right.
@michio7296
@michio7296 4 жыл бұрын
"IT IS NOT POSSIBLE FOR HIM TO DISAPPEAR BECAUSE HE'S LIVING HIS LIFE AS A HAPPY PERSON" i mean LOL, u can't tell that someone is happy with their life by simply looking at them like they were smiling as if they don't have any problems
@misakiusui1956
@misakiusui1956 4 жыл бұрын
@Stacey Pack Hi. I know it is hard for you and you might think that there are no endings to darkness. I often struggled with it. However, there will be light eventually. It is not easy to see the light. I went through many things before I have gotten better. For example: Trying to type down my thoughts everyday, Exercising. It will get well. But, might relapsed from time to time. Eventually, the darkness will become dim.
@miyako1909
@miyako1909 4 жыл бұрын
@iloveyoubcGlovesyou. kaeljr I know you mean well but not everyone is a Christian. As a Buddhist, I don't understand what you were trying to say. It is better to not involve religions in this matter or it might come off as pretentious. Offer real life advises and try to understand the reasons that push that them into making that decision would be better. I was depressed before due to being unemployed and wanted to commit suicide, if anyone tried to use religion to tell me off, I would snapped. It is my parents that told me to calm down and just try my best then an opportunity will come.
@seurn7801
@seurn7801 4 жыл бұрын
@@miyako1909 I really respect you for saying that. Not everything should be about your religion and it can really be disrespectful even if you mean no harm to just shove it down everybody else's throat. Hope you are doing well and take care.
@DIAMONDsamoo
@DIAMONDsamoo 4 жыл бұрын
iloveyoubcGlovesyou. kaeljr ... damn looks like you never got over those traumas aha, chill tf out
@allseeingeyezz
@allseeingeyezz 4 жыл бұрын
especially in Japanese culture
@SeikoSKO
@SeikoSKO 2 жыл бұрын
Great documentary. Here is one thing I was to say. This does not only happen in Japan. This happens all over the world. But it just hit us stronger because we think things like this do not happen in Japan or in the Asian culture. What upset me is, I get it you want to vanish or Disappear, BUT leave a NOTE explaining yourself. Even if you don't want to be found... It is extremely, emotionally, exhausting burden and giving them poor health to the person you're doing this too. Leave a letter or a note with 5 to 10 words or sentence. That's it. Trust me, I understand.
@alexandraasbury9974
@alexandraasbury9974 2 жыл бұрын
I agree so very much.
@moa8173
@moa8173 5 жыл бұрын
They requested to not reveal their appearance, and they're shown - their eyes, flashes of their faces, all for your video's sake.
@PsykoFeen
@PsykoFeen 5 жыл бұрын
might be actors for those shots.
@vax_gax_lax_bax_max_vax2578
@vax_gax_lax_bax_max_vax2578 5 жыл бұрын
ikr? if I was determined to see who they are, I'd just take pics and add them together :D but they might be actors as it was said, I do hope they are actors and not actual people, cause otherwise it would be major retardation...
@josephaether377
@josephaether377 5 жыл бұрын
could you readily go point one of these people out in a crowd? based on this video, i could not.
@katsikatra
@katsikatra 5 жыл бұрын
@@josephaether377 if that was your wife or husband with whom you have children, i'd think you'd recognize them.
@nhankhuu5643
@nhankhuu5643 5 жыл бұрын
Asian lookalike
@peko7446
@peko7446 5 жыл бұрын
They are probably running from debt collectors, family obligations, abusive relationship or suffering from midlife crisis.
@kenta9112
@kenta9112 5 жыл бұрын
Sadly I believe that it is from funeral debt😧
@kenta9112
@kenta9112 5 жыл бұрын
@Tony Japan it's mostly just funeral debt😧
@ChefOntheway
@ChefOntheway 5 жыл бұрын
The terrible true is that in Asia still exists human trafficking and workers abuse and governments just promove this through xenophobia or ambiguous laws...
@mattyghost3409
@mattyghost3409 5 жыл бұрын
@@ChefOntheway Let them continue in 30yrs Japan will be mainly made up of robots and autonomous vehicles lol...
@Cleo.777.
@Cleo.777. 5 жыл бұрын
Apeman Commeth , I hear you loud and clear 😉 I’ve often felt that way. I’m sorry you feel trapped too xo
@hexq4
@hexq4 5 жыл бұрын
My heart aches for the man who was yelled at by the retirement home staff... Imagine how much of a burden he must've felt to make the decision to leave. The elderly get treated so poorly..
@a.westenholz4032
@a.westenholz4032 5 жыл бұрын
Sure I can sympathize over how that must have felt for him, but not the way he then just left his WIFE with no word of explanation leaving her to wonder. That was far more cruel and hurtful. And just because he got yelled at? To do something like that would be extremely egotistical and self-centered. The only thing I can think of that might be an argument in his defense is that maybe we weren't really given the whole story of what happened from the wife. That she conveniently might be leaving out all the attempts he made to try to discuss seriously with her about moving because he was unhappy living there, which she chose to shut down or ignore, making her impossible for him to talk to. IF that happened, THEN and ONLY then would the wife be at fault, and have herself to blame.
@Ziegfried82
@Ziegfried82 5 жыл бұрын
My guess is he wasn't getting along well with his wife, that for whatever reason he couldn't stand being around her. Obviously she doesn't feel the same way and wants him to return, but I think the talk about the retirement staff was just an excuse. Otherwise he would have brought her along with him when he left.
@nonyabizness.original
@nonyabizness.original 5 жыл бұрын
they said he is wealthy. if being insulted was the cause, he would have taken his wife.
@nomebear
@nomebear 5 жыл бұрын
@@nonyabizness.original His wife thought that he would return. In an heated argument an older friend told his partner to stop the car and to let him out. The partner would normally drive away and return later after he cooled off. This time, the partner never returned. Everyone has their limits. Now, the older friend has ALS and will die soon.
@Scarlett.R
@Scarlett.R 4 жыл бұрын
I think there’s more to this particular story...
@kl12345-u
@kl12345-u Жыл бұрын
I completely understand those missing persons, why they just chose to evaporate, because I myself has purposely "keep away" from my parents whom lives in NYC, but I now moved to AZ 2 years ago, somewhere I've never been to. The core reason of why people like us do this, is actually very simple. The relationship/human bonding/kinship is just too toxic & too much negative energy/ignore/dismiss/verbal or physical abuses for us to handle after accumulating to a certain degree throughout life, until it just snapped at that moment in our life. For me, it just went like "damn, I've tried my best to cope with them for years, but some people just lacks the EQ or kindness to understand/accept/appreciate me, even if they're my parents, so it just couldn't be resolved. It's outta my control & I'm outta here without regret because I tried & never worked." Any sense of Duty, Responsibility, Social Role we're assigned & expected to play as a human in the family & the society, just does not matter anymore once this self realization & self rescue awareness has occurred. The mind just suddenly enlightened & a new level achieved! Nothing is more important than my own inner peace & start a new life away from all of that sh*t, in order to live out the best of myself as much as I can. To be honest, I only maintain contact with my parents through text once or twice every few months, I don't let them know my home address or what I'm doing. Setting up boundaries & avoid toxic/negative energy/emotions passing from them is the key. It's hard emotionally initially, but life has honestly been so much better for me now. Be yourself, live for yourself, the most important relationship in your life is with yourself... Good luck & have an amazing life!
@kl12345-u
@kl12345-u Жыл бұрын
PS, after traveling around the world, I'd say US is still the best, at least for this sort of severe personal problem, I can go to a shrink to figure out the least. I went & helped little, but it was a start, at least someone to talk to about it, to point out for me if I was in the right direction & way of thinking/feeling. I also read lots of self help books & listen to motivational speech to encourage myself to know more & enhance better thinking. In Japan, such resources is very rare, almost none. It's nice to be a tourist in Japan, but not so being a local... Marriage & Being a parent, honestly are 2 big roles not suitable for every human. Be careful what you get yourself into, know yourself first.
@Harassed247
@Harassed247 4 жыл бұрын
I up and left my partner having been beaten for 7 years. I packed my belongings bit by bit, took weeks to organise and plan. I had a 9month old child and made sure she wasn’t put to bed. As soon as he left the home my help came and within an hour the house was empty and I was gone. I went 500 miles away. Everything was set up by my step brother... he was my saviour. My then ex put rewards out for info of where I was and everything. I knew though that had I not had left he would have killed me. He was a violent and vile evil man. I would suggest that any woman that was as scared and being abused like I was just to get the hell out.... there is a life after. No police would intervene and help at that time, now the law has change thank god.
@yaboi8644
@yaboi8644 4 жыл бұрын
My deepest respect goes out to you! You made the right choice by leaving this abusive partner behind 😊 It‘s much better not only for you but for your child aswell, no child should have to endure that terror, especially at a young age, it can scar one for life!
@ilanarhian
@ilanarhian 4 жыл бұрын
I‘m so glad you got away! One of my schoolmates was murdered by her evil ex. This is also why you have to be wary of helping when someone posts on Facebook „please help me find so and so“.
@shameekpodder7455
@shameekpodder7455 4 жыл бұрын
Op ,k9(0
@silvinho87
@silvinho87 4 жыл бұрын
Some people are pure evil Sarah, so many murders on tv , on the internet.A few days ago I heard about a couple in the us that dismembered a girl...god what is this world coming to?I hate violence and I always wonder why women living in violence don’t just leave and break the circle.I never had and never will hit my wife even if we argue sometimes about things.We have a 3 month girl and will do anything for her.I wish you and your baby the best and hope you found peace now.
@chloe-q7b
@chloe-q7b 4 жыл бұрын
im happy you made it out! people are just pure evil
@MoBlackjack
@MoBlackjack 5 жыл бұрын
PLEASE DO BETTER TO HIDE THEIR FACES, VOICES AND THE LOCATIONS!
@wynn1906
@wynn1906 5 жыл бұрын
bruh
@tngardener231
@tngardener231 5 жыл бұрын
Why? They leave 3 kids and a wife so they can escape? What do you think their wife and kids went through? People deserve to see what a coward looks like. Real men/women should stick around and fight for family.
@araisannanoda3688
@araisannanoda3688 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe it's a reenactment
@justalostlocal
@justalostlocal 4 жыл бұрын
@@tngardener231 Bruh people's families can be the cause of suffering and many think of themselves as burden for loved one so it's better to leave no matter how. If that mindset is as simple as cowardice than we don't need so many therapists.
@socrates_the_great6209
@socrates_the_great6209 4 жыл бұрын
lol, NSA is not going to look for them man.
@MaritaDiary
@MaritaDiary 5 жыл бұрын
People miss the dead, more than the living. People more interested in death, more than life. People treat the dead better, than the living.
@rosieoisten7585
@rosieoisten7585 5 жыл бұрын
And then if they see the spirit of the dead asking them to stop missing them they would then tend to run, why miss the dead if you know you'd run from them if they were to come back?🤣
@asmodeusasteroth7137
@asmodeusasteroth7137 5 жыл бұрын
True sadly
@ruddigerburns9051
@ruddigerburns9051 5 жыл бұрын
Well said
@kotonagano
@kotonagano 5 жыл бұрын
@@asmodeusasteroth7137 You don't understand death in Asia. It is an ongoing responsibility of appeasing one's ancestors . The dead can change into something much, much worse, and they can become hungry and resentful if not respected.
@asmodeusasteroth7137
@asmodeusasteroth7137 5 жыл бұрын
@@kotonagano yeah you can place food out for stray cat if you like When you are dead you are dead Also, Asia a big place Philippines and Japan are different The internet also brings intelligent reason to crazy These ideas If what you say is true maybe treat people better before they dead, because in many cases nothing you offer up after death is going to make up for the BS way you treat the living
@nicholasduguay6567
@nicholasduguay6567 2 жыл бұрын
This was a really well-made documentary. It looks at this complex issue from many different perspectives. Very interesting.
@Limara64
@Limara64 4 жыл бұрын
I ache to think of all those that are in lock down with their abusers during covid19.
@DontknowSina
@DontknowSina 4 жыл бұрын
For real. It's really sad.
@wisdom47397
@wisdom47397 4 жыл бұрын
It's a sad fact that domestic violence increased during stay home orders. I hope it ends soon and we can live normal life again; being scared of covid19 and scared of your partner.... My prayers 🙏 to all of you
@andrewvardanega2251
@andrewvardanega2251 4 жыл бұрын
Sad yes.the abusers need prison or death penalty.spouse abuse is really messed up and unnecessary.if they r not happy...just leave but some victims rctooo afriad.no man has right to enslave a women.if a man is not happy he shud leave instead of staying and beating thier gfs wives daily . emotional abuse is just as bad.i hate women beaters ....they shud b hung .these poor women r scarred for life and can't live a normal life.i wish I cud do more .makes me sick and angry thinking about these poor women treated like slaves and persecuted.heartless people destroy the love and peace in this world.oscar pistorius the athlete with no legs got away with murdering his lovely partner.thecjustice sysyem is corrupt cand so r most judges and lawers .the world...people and universe is hurting ....we all need healing .....some more some less.feel helpless that I'm helpless to do anything to stop the bad in this world.our world is in a helpless situation
@fortnumglobal
@fortnumglobal 4 жыл бұрын
Limara64 terrible. I don’t wish it on anyone
@nishajs261
@nishajs261 4 жыл бұрын
Its a struggle but we get by...
@ThePlataf
@ThePlataf 3 жыл бұрын
As a retired police officer, I'm entirely in favour of those people movers. 100 years ago, when divorce was very expensive and difficult to obtain, my very modern grandma ran a similar service for abused wives. She was one of the few people in her neighbourhood who had a phone, so she'd organise removalists and whatever else was needed. Her *signature* was to leave just one of everything for the abusive husband when he returned. One pillow, one blanket, one cup, towel, plate, knife, fork, bar of soap, etc. Everything else, including the icebox, would vanish. I'm proud of her, a woman born when women had no voting rights, and limited civil rights, .but she was no shrinking violet . Grandma wouldn't stand any nonsense from anyone.
@ammuammu-dy9qt
@ammuammu-dy9qt 2 жыл бұрын
She's in heaven now
@moonburn8156
@moonburn8156 2 жыл бұрын
Police=Terrorist How many have you killed?
@jackiewinters5792
@jackiewinters5792 2 жыл бұрын
What a hero! I'm sure whomever she helped was eternally grateful to her. 💜
@a.s.h.a118
@a.s.h.a118 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing woman
@michaelpcooksey5096
@michaelpcooksey5096 2 жыл бұрын
She was a true gift to those around her. I would not call her 'modern'. She knew what was right and did it. Modern planned and sponsored moral confusion for the sake of political power is not a cultural improvement. Am so glad you had someone like her in your family. Also, thank you for your service. We dearly need good officers with their heads screwed on correctly.
@toddc3653
@toddc3653 4 жыл бұрын
I own a moving company in Calgary Canada. It seems like atleast once a year I get a call from a abused spouse that is secretly planning to leave there abuser. Knock on wood, they have all been successful.
@adamrandon6275
@adamrandon6275 3 жыл бұрын
when i went to canada i landed in calgary, beautiful place, even tho i was there for a day, damn i want to go back one day
@sadmachine1409
@sadmachine1409 3 жыл бұрын
do you help women from the middle east ?
@agot7fan855
@agot7fan855 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah my sister moved country with her son after being badly abused.
@jamescooper9573
@jamescooper9573 3 жыл бұрын
@@agot7fan855 That's nice ! How do you do that , when you need a Coronavirus vaccine to even leave the US more strict to enter ? There back ordered for vaccinations like a year they were saying. Also I dont trust that vaccine either .
@agot7fan855
@agot7fan855 3 жыл бұрын
@@jamescooper9573 oh she did it years ago.
@desertfoxdesertfox8726
@desertfoxdesertfox8726 2 жыл бұрын
I love that you are willing to help these people escape their dangerous living conditions. You are so awesome!! For you and everyone who helps you with these amazing vanishings, Thank You So Much! Sometimes disappearing is the best option and only option for most. At least they have someone to ask for help and not have to suffer anymore. I myself have been through domestic violence. The hitting, all the alcohol they consume, drugs. It just drains you. Mentally, Physically, emotionally. You stop living YOUR life and instead just exist. Walking on eggshells and having to watch what you say. I am grateful that there is people like you who make a huge difference in every life that you save. Thank You.
@juancarlos9592
@juancarlos9592 5 жыл бұрын
When I was 14/15 years old my grandmother brought an abuse Japanese girl home when we lived in Pittsburgh. She was so sweet. Didn't speak English but she communicated thru kindness. Her name is Yusiku and she got back on her feet and moved on. Her husband had beat her terribly. We never heard from her but I will always remember my grandma's kindness.
@juancarlos9592
@juancarlos9592 5 жыл бұрын
@stephen kroll I agree with you Stephen. God Bless
@ALtheGreat23
@ALtheGreat23 5 жыл бұрын
Latino kindness, bless your grandma
@JackelineYari
@JackelineYari 5 жыл бұрын
What a lovely grandma ❤️
@AgnesAtoni
@AgnesAtoni 5 жыл бұрын
So sweet of her 💙
@juancarlos9592
@juancarlos9592 5 жыл бұрын
@@ALtheGreat23 My grandmother was a great example in my life..... I miss her so much
@Keln02
@Keln02 3 жыл бұрын
While I can understand people running away from things... The pain of the old lady looking for her husband was heart breaking
@torachan23
@torachan23 3 жыл бұрын
The husband was wealthy, so she was probably only upset that she lost access to that money and will have difficulty getting his life insurance payout
@thegrayyernaut
@thegrayyernaut 3 жыл бұрын
@@torachan23 It makes sense. But it's a cynical way to look at it.
@hensonlaura
@hensonlaura 3 жыл бұрын
@@torachan23 Easy to see the kind of person you are, from one short comment. It is an error of judgement to project YOUR values onto others. Fortunately most people are far nicer than you.
@joyfuljoy8726
@joyfuljoy8726 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, the husband dint at least write a letter or something to inform her that he's dissapearing, I feel like it was totally unnecessary but there is plenty of sides on a story and we can't judge without knowing everything.
@bridgetlooper-briscoe1663
@bridgetlooper-briscoe1663 3 жыл бұрын
The older woman broke my heart as well especially when she said she wondered if he thinks about her
@smellytaint
@smellytaint 5 жыл бұрын
Can we talk about how the blur they use to "protect their identity" completely fails to stop people from recognizing them? Their features are still very clear. Every facial feature is recognizable. What a joke.
@mrluigi9923
@mrluigi9923 5 жыл бұрын
do they use actors as the family members in order to protect identities for the purpose of making the film?or they plain just havent thought of it.
@glennkirste2774
@glennkirste2774 5 жыл бұрын
Ok..what's there names ?.
@ArtVlog
@ArtVlog 5 жыл бұрын
I was about to write that too. They also showed the same person nose, eyes and mouth without any blur so it's very recognizable if you put it all together
@prihaps
@prihaps 5 жыл бұрын
Glenn Kirste dumb question. No one here is going to spend the money to dox them. Only the ppl that care to know
@behuman3811
@behuman3811 5 жыл бұрын
Yes, I do think the same. Even their body figure are shown clearly. This is too brave that I wonder, did the people that they record know that they've shown that much and that clear in the video, where the ppl who record, say they'll hide their identity
@bobdobalina838
@bobdobalina838 2 жыл бұрын
I feel so bad for the poor old lady whose husband left her. Sometimes life can be heartbreaking even if there is no one to blame
@MandyMister
@MandyMister 5 жыл бұрын
Can we shortly appreciate Miho please? She seems to do a good job.
@NakiriX1
@NakiriX1 5 жыл бұрын
@The Norm Macdonald Show lets be real tho, click on his/her channel and you will notice he/she is german/austrian/swiss.
@MandyMister
@MandyMister 5 жыл бұрын
@The Norm Macdonald Show I'm not that woman, sorry. I'm just a German who likes Japanese names^^"
@NakiriX1
@NakiriX1 5 жыл бұрын
@The Norm Macdonald Show BRO IF SHE SAIS IT AINT HER IT AINT HER. Learn to respect that. Youre going to far.
@niazzam255
@niazzam255 5 жыл бұрын
Matthew 22.1ー46 The Parable of the Wedding Feast 1ー14 The Question about Paying Taxes 15ー22 The Question about Rising from Death 23ー33 The Question about the Messiah 41ー46 The Great Commandment (Mark 12.28ー34; Luke 10.25ー28) 34 When the Pharisees heard that Jesus had silenced the Sadducees, they came together, 35 and one of them, a teacher of the Law, tried to trap him a question. 36 "Teacher," he asked, "which is the greatest commandment in the Law?" 37 Jesus answered, " 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.' 38 This is the greatest and the most important commandment. 39 The second most important commandment is like it: 'Love your neighbor as you love yourself.' 40 The whole Law of Moses and the teachings of the prophets depend on these two commandments."
@pfranks75
@pfranks75 3 жыл бұрын
As an 18 year old I left my home state with a wonderful and loving man to get away from a dysfunctional family. I’ve had a good life. I can’t even imagine what my life would have been if I had stayed around my toxic parents and family. Things can get so bad you have to go to any lengths to get away from a hopeless situation. I understand what motivates many of these desperate people!
@davidospina5216
@davidospina5216 3 жыл бұрын
Hello Patti how are you doing?
@mkjames8310
@mkjames8310 3 жыл бұрын
But you look more like 80
@themajesticstick5262
@themajesticstick5262 3 жыл бұрын
@@mkjames8310 they meant when they were 18.
@alenaduplantier4505
@alenaduplantier4505 3 жыл бұрын
Lol it's kinda hilarious when you said when you look 80 lol
@passionatebeast24
@passionatebeast24 3 жыл бұрын
Effort is good but without basic strength she will get injured soon.
@milksteak9213
@milksteak9213 4 жыл бұрын
I mean let’s not forget that they have a “suicide forest” Sad reality
@arandomperson1621
@arandomperson1621 4 жыл бұрын
That’s primarily a spot for tourists to commit...
@xxhshrebyba
@xxhshrebyba 4 жыл бұрын
A random Person it’s not only a tourists spot , obviously people who live in the area as well
@bribotran6121
@bribotran6121 4 жыл бұрын
I hear stories of people that had lived even on the other side of the country that would drive to the forest with the only trace of them being their car. I’ts a part of their culture in my opinion we didn’t dub it “suicide forest they did”
@suzusocool2928
@suzusocool2928 4 жыл бұрын
Bribo Tran I don’t exacly think that’s their culture I more think it’s a common death in Japan. Many people die because of suicide especially japan because of beauty standards and abuse. I’m not saying every death in Japan is from suicide but it’s common. This comment isn’t to offend or hurt anyone in any way I just wanted to state my opinion ☺️
@Observe_it
@Observe_it 4 жыл бұрын
lol
@Slashy.
@Slashy. 2 жыл бұрын
I wish this was more prominent in other countries too! Leaving an abusive household/relationship swiftly and with help is a wonderful feeling, may it be with anxiety and stress included. :)
@DesgameReaction
@DesgameReaction 3 жыл бұрын
Japanese tends to have the behaviour of not disturbing other people even they are in intense stress. I believe many of them chose to leave without goodbye because they don't want to confront and just want to escape from all people around them.
@BoucheronsNo.1Fan
@BoucheronsNo.1Fan 3 жыл бұрын
意気地なし
@altarik
@altarik 3 жыл бұрын
@SevenMillionHobbies no .. not politeness... it was called RESPECT.... politeness is seen in word.. respect is done by action..
@homerogarcia-vivar8301
@homerogarcia-vivar8301 3 жыл бұрын
@SevenMillionHobbies right. Finally an intelligent comment I can appreciate. I was wondering why are they running away from their situation, their family and friends and communities? Why aren't they communicating openly? Yes, I understand some of them are being abused so separation for some time is necessary (i.e., in order to let the abuser reflect on their actions), but not disappear. Some of these people abandoned their families or spouses and children. I moved away from my father because of the difficulty with him but latter on in life I reconnected with him. During that time I did keep in contact with family though, specially my mom. Forgave him and even took care of him and my mother for a number of years until my dad passed away. There was restoration in our relationship. People changed. My father changed. The easier route is running away and disappearing and not dealing with those deep emotions.
@nakadai4444
@nakadai4444 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I agree with this, their worls, around are so competitive, for the young, and for the others a little older two, this is only one reason, there are more things, many will never know, the reason why they retire from society, but for all of that they have a reason to do so, anyway everyone must be helped, by society, and from the Government from Nippon.....
@margaritalagumbay8310
@margaritalagumbay8310 3 жыл бұрын
They have to practice openness beacause 'no man is an island'..every problem has it's own solution but not to end up your life
@rachelgoodkind6545
@rachelgoodkind6545 4 жыл бұрын
Bless the woman with the night moving company. She went through domestic abuse herself and had to flee. She has dedicated her life to helping others in similar situations, as well as becoming their friend and support. She once needed help and is now helping 1500 others. Other than that it does appear that many who dissapear have issues with communicating and expressing emotions.
@replyno1
@replyno1 4 жыл бұрын
We should have this type of service in the whole world. There would be less cases of battered wives and murder suicides, or honor killings.......maybe
@electrofonickitty823
@electrofonickitty823 4 жыл бұрын
@@melisawilson1082 actually no...she moved a women and children out of harm. If she showed her face she would put herself and clients at risk. If this was the US she would also be protected because also Mercedes Lackey (author) and Larry Dixon (author and husband) assisted women in need, but one violent husband attacked Mercedes at a convention because of it. The fact is that night movers actually provide a service that is a Japanese version of an escape route.
@melisawilson1082
@melisawilson1082 4 жыл бұрын
@@electrofonickitty823 I don't buy it...yall can keep ur rose color glasses on if u want..I'm a realist...and I hate this evil world
@pibadar
@pibadar 4 жыл бұрын
@@melisawilson1082 that's what I was thinking. Unless the "abusive husband " was proven guilty in court they just helped that lady with child kidnapping
@Lupita311
@Lupita311 4 жыл бұрын
@pibadar did you watch it? The courts would not prosecute the case. Really are you either a man or too young to get it.
@kiwiness5427
@kiwiness5427 3 жыл бұрын
I like how they try to hide Miho's identity by not completely showing their faces but in reality, they're showing bits of her from chin, mouth, nose, eyes, hair, throughout the entire documentary. Good Job.
@meyu19
@meyu19 3 жыл бұрын
I noticed that too...anyone can piece that together
@kh2b573
@kh2b573 3 жыл бұрын
I mean the guy clearly knows who he lost and will clearly recognize and spread even more information but still , they also filmed roads and mountains and sights they went to ,it might make the person connect the dots so yea big brain move
@MusicIsLegal
@MusicIsLegal 3 жыл бұрын
The biggest failure in this whole documentary.
@Cariad22
@Cariad22 3 жыл бұрын
It could just be an actor
@azertybosch3202
@azertybosch3202 3 жыл бұрын
@@MusicIsLegal what do you mean?
@yasminaguilar9012
@yasminaguilar9012 2 жыл бұрын
When you die everyone cries and misses you but when your alive no one cares, no one wants to see you, no one loves you. Story of my life
@suilaynio9367
@suilaynio9367 2 жыл бұрын
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son(Jesus) so that whosoever believes in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life. (john 3:16). God loves you. He gives His grace to you. Read about His grace to you in the gospel. All man have sinned. The wage of sin is death, but the grace of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus, our Lord.
@florastewart7957
@florastewart7957 3 жыл бұрын
The best usage of the internet is finding shows which show issues people have from other countries. Beautiful. Thank you.
@electricdreams9446
@electricdreams9446 3 жыл бұрын
I enjoy it too. It makes me care more about everyone on earth.
@bluemamba5317
@bluemamba5317 3 жыл бұрын
Just don't focus only on the negative stuff. It will only get you down.
@electricdreams9446
@electricdreams9446 3 жыл бұрын
@@bluemamba5317 wise advice
@CameronMB
@CameronMB 4 жыл бұрын
that note at 1:58 that said 「お父さん、昼はお酒飲まないで下さい、お願いします」"dad, please don't drink alcohol during the day, i beg of you" absolutely killed me.
@queenofcats2645
@queenofcats2645 4 жыл бұрын
@@sometimesitslonely top right
@estacaoimersiva
@estacaoimersiva 4 жыл бұрын
Might be a inside joke.
@CameronMB
@CameronMB 4 жыл бұрын
@@estacaoimersiva considering all the other things posted around the room i doubt it
@estacaoimersiva
@estacaoimersiva 4 жыл бұрын
@@CameronMB True tho. Disturbing.
@suzusocool2928
@suzusocool2928 4 жыл бұрын
Cameron Boyer is it ok if you could translate the other things around the room? Sorry if that sounds disturbing I’m still learning Japanese 🥴
@ruimatos46
@ruimatos46 5 жыл бұрын
From what I get from Japanese culture, people seem to be under enormous pressure to be successful! Not everyone likes to standout and be "special"...
@ruimatos46
@ruimatos46 5 жыл бұрын
@Bestill Findrest I'm a simple guy, I have something that millionaires won't have... Enough! 😉
@honestlyme4247
@honestlyme4247 5 жыл бұрын
Don’t they work tons of overtime? That would be a terrible life 😕
@airemchavez8335
@airemchavez8335 5 жыл бұрын
But they're already special we all are but society makes us think we have to be successful to be someone and be special but we already are someone. Don't be brainwashes by lies.
@Xaelium
@Xaelium 5 жыл бұрын
even other asian cultures too. i live in a city in canada where its been dominated by asian immigrants and pressure in regards to education is very high. all our schools are very academically competitive and our parents always expect us to stand out from the crowd and to achieve more than the average person. its kinda sad because most of this pressure has transformed into our own expectation, and i can definitely say that personal disappointment hurts much more than a parent’s disappointment
@alwaysdrunk5461
@alwaysdrunk5461 5 жыл бұрын
Bestill Findrest I live in Germany and work there. It is nothing compared to East Asian countries. Germany is hello kitty land, where Germans get depressed, because their lives are way too good. I am not joking
@tillytogs
@tillytogs 2 жыл бұрын
I was brought up in the UK had a very abusive monster of a step dad. He beat me and sexually abused me from a very very young age. I ran away many times once at 13 managed to dissappear for six months. The police always found me and brought me back to my abuser. At 16 I disappeared for good then at the age of 26 I went back whilst he was at work and took my mother and brother. By this time I was strong enough to take him on if he came home. Finally we are all free.
@dreamchaser5758
@dreamchaser5758 2 жыл бұрын
You are a fearless warrior. It's touching that you still had compassion and empathy for your mother
@jamaldee5414
@jamaldee5414 2 жыл бұрын
Where tf was your mother! She did a bad job #sorry
@Starlightlilie_2813
@Starlightlilie_2813 5 ай бұрын
Hear hear! I think you really are full of pluck and fearlessness. Hop you live a good life without that sick man.
@MrHitzfeld
@MrHitzfeld 3 жыл бұрын
"Miho" asked us to protect her identity, but you showed her face, her clothes and her office, brilliant job 👍
@ck88777
@ck88777 3 жыл бұрын
she even says her name when she answers the phone and its actually saita like they made no effort to change the name or censor the call
@tixchicken
@tixchicken 3 жыл бұрын
its an actor
@twigomenz6230
@twigomenz6230 3 жыл бұрын
@@adahmc Miho's husband went to work. But she has already packed all her boxes. The husband totally not guessed she is leaving him...
@TomorrowWeLive
@TomorrowWeLive 3 жыл бұрын
@@twigomenz6230 yeah, that's weird
@kushalpansuriya6454
@kushalpansuriya6454 3 жыл бұрын
@@twigomenz6230 in video she said her husband stays on 2nd floor..
@gtlegacy8
@gtlegacy8 5 жыл бұрын
I have pretty much "vanished" from society. I stay home months on ends only to go out when it dark for work or food, I have not keep in touch with any friends for years and im pretty happy.
@afr3523
@afr3523 5 жыл бұрын
@@commonconservative7551 yeah me too. Yes I have got to point where I talk to my self.
@gtlegacy8
@gtlegacy8 5 жыл бұрын
@@commonconservative7551 Nope i do not talk to myself or have conversation with walls. I do agree im a hermit which is very common in japan to become a hikikomori.
@MaleficArken
@MaleficArken 5 жыл бұрын
@@commonconservative7551 Being a Hermit is fine so long as Social interaction doesnt become 0. You interact with people online, video call, voice call, chatting, etc. Then when you are required to leave to work or food or for on the off chance entertainment (maybe a hobby) you social interact with people. I stay home most of the time as I dont know many people in my town and there isnt much to do because its more like a retirement location in the middle of nowhere. No big malls, no cool conventions, nothing. So the only time I go out is to maybe play some nerd games like Magic the Gathering or DnD or something. So even though I can hermit myself away for months on end. So long as there is some social interaction one will be fine. A significant other isnt required at all.
@catoverlord8378
@catoverlord8378 5 жыл бұрын
I would love to dissappear from this rat race, my goal is to save for a tiny house and get some land and live out my days...
@armchairwomanmao2922
@armchairwomanmao2922 5 жыл бұрын
It's called hikkikormori. The reclusive people.
@thoesdielen4703
@thoesdielen4703 4 жыл бұрын
Running away from youre kids its just being a coward, my dad left me when i was 1 i still feel like i missed something in my life, i dont care who you are you take care of what you created one way of another.
@colindoherty1891
@colindoherty1891 4 жыл бұрын
you know what Thoes I feel exactly what you're saying the same thing happened to me, Message to all absent Fathers out there take responsibility for your actions and keep in contact with your Children they didn't ask to be born being a coward and running away makes you a C##t take care of your children
@leoperson9098
@leoperson9098 4 жыл бұрын
No, sometimes it is better not to have a father than to have one who does a bad job. A saying says: "It is better to be alone than badly accompanied.". And I don't say that without knowing what I'm talking about, that's really what I think, and I respect your point of view, I just don't share it.
@maddiie_9994
@maddiie_9994 4 жыл бұрын
I never had a dad and honestly its not me the one who is missing something. It's him . I'm not all for myself but I feel like he don't deserve to be in my life . I'm to good hearted for him
@dianac2498
@dianac2498 4 жыл бұрын
I'd rather see them run away than stay and murder their families. We have seen too much of that in recent times.
@Phantom-el6oe
@Phantom-el6oe 4 жыл бұрын
@@colindoherty1891 Everyone has their own reasons. I was thinking that my father left me, but it turned out that it was my mother that keept me away from him. Same goes when woman cheats on her partner and get left by him when she get pregnant with other guy. You can never know the truth
@JohnSmith-ps7hf
@JohnSmith-ps7hf 2 жыл бұрын
I am one of those "missing people". I am doing fine here in the States. I like my new identity.
@veranindya8836
@veranindya8836 5 жыл бұрын
As someone whose father left and 'vanished' for over 15 years, I felt that he was selfish and a coward. Yes I know life wasn't easy but hey you're a man who chose to marry and have kids; take responsibility of your choices. I am now in my late 20s and know a bit of life hardships and yeah, sometimes I felt life is suffocating and have moments where I just want to leave everything behind, but don't actually have the courage to do it. I have my mom and sibling to take care of. and I still think he was a selfish, coward human who dont deserve to be a parent. So please do vanish with a conscience, people.
@FangElonz
@FangElonz 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe he ran away because he did not want to end up hurting his wife and kids and the kids would only end up hating him more than if he had not left.
@mr.8999
@mr.8999 5 жыл бұрын
@@FangElonz then he should of have changed for the better, no excuses
@logann001
@logann001 5 жыл бұрын
Do you understand mental health?
@stefan1360
@stefan1360 5 жыл бұрын
@@mr.8999 maybe his wife was just insufferable and his life shit so he dipped out. Plenty of good excuses when people around you treat you like garbage.
@littleblueprintwritinghood192
@littleblueprintwritinghood192 5 жыл бұрын
@@stefan1360 so leave your wife not kids
@HokeyPokey81300
@HokeyPokey81300 4 жыл бұрын
*People choose to abandon their lives because they are either severely unhappy with them or are victims of abuse* The comment section: “ThEY WeNT tO FIGhT thE DeMoN LoRD”
@daughterofchrist5764
@daughterofchrist5764 4 жыл бұрын
Nice Nana reference
@e.lsabbath3258
@e.lsabbath3258 4 жыл бұрын
It's not as simple as you put it
@itsuhitokomura7607
@itsuhitokomura7607 4 жыл бұрын
They killed themselves being too tired of too much overtime time work.
@chaizan9733
@chaizan9733 4 жыл бұрын
@@e.lsabbath3258 could you elaborate more on that?
@e.lsabbath3258
@e.lsabbath3258 4 жыл бұрын
@@chaizan9733 there's many reason why somebody would disappear, not only two reasons.
@JamilKhan-hk1wl
@JamilKhan-hk1wl 4 жыл бұрын
Narrator: "will not reveal where they're heading" Also Narrator: Shows the whole travel with all the highways and buildings along their journey
@goognamgoognw6637
@goognamgoognw6637 4 жыл бұрын
they probably gave a discount to that woman for filming her escape and guaranteeing her it will be anonymous.
@vimy1589
@vimy1589 4 жыл бұрын
could be edited from all types of locations not related to the person at the time you see the scenes ...
@giacomorapuzzi9866
@giacomorapuzzi9866 4 жыл бұрын
Nice matterhorn pfp.
@user-np1gs4le2i
@user-np1gs4le2i 4 жыл бұрын
*@Giacomo Rapuzzi* Nice Ocean in your pfp
@janpadillo
@janpadillo 4 жыл бұрын
It's edited, not the entire travel
@136760mas1
@136760mas1 2 жыл бұрын
This makes me cry. It is so sad. Life can be so difficult and challenging for so many lost souls.
@John-mz8rj
@John-mz8rj 5 жыл бұрын
Modern life is a insult to the human soul. Don't let the bastards grind you down.
@spideranansi929
@spideranansi929 5 жыл бұрын
Well said. I agree!
@fmjwest8296
@fmjwest8296 5 жыл бұрын
Negative 1 Indeed. How sad it all is.
@John-mz8rj
@John-mz8rj 5 жыл бұрын
@@fmjwest8296Try to stay positive.
@ДраганНонковић
@ДраганНонковић 5 жыл бұрын
I agree with you my friend
@ДраганНонковић
@ДраганНонковић 5 жыл бұрын
@Tequilla Sunset Very well said!
@bingusbinted
@bingusbinted 3 жыл бұрын
I got anxious whenever CNA doesn't blur people's faces properly like you call this censorship!?
@waya445
@waya445 3 жыл бұрын
Like seriously!! You can see their hair, face shape, and eyes and some parts 🤦🏾‍♀️
@ataphelicopter5734
@ataphelicopter5734 3 жыл бұрын
Eh, don’t worry, your average american viewer won’t be able to tell them apart anyway
@rainbowjellyphish216
@rainbowjellyphish216 3 жыл бұрын
I was looking for this. What a half ass job of disgusting their identities
@yamaane
@yamaane 3 жыл бұрын
@@ataphelicopter5734 I’m from Japan, and I’m shocked , they spoke about protection of personal data BUT they even didn’t blurred car numbers. That’s inappropriate
@100samanthamarie
@100samanthamarie 3 жыл бұрын
They also didn’t blur out some of the business buildings!
@emitwelve
@emitwelve 4 жыл бұрын
I get really nervous even when they show their eyes or lips.. Can they jsut blur the entire face? I feel scared for them
@machiiu9120
@machiiu9120 4 жыл бұрын
I think it's because they want everyone to notice if a person spots him, it will be easier!
@tdpro3607
@tdpro3607 4 жыл бұрын
Very likely that this is intended, and maybe for good reasons
@kenjidev576
@kenjidev576 4 жыл бұрын
I suffer from face-blindness and even I understand that only a whole face can be recognized among millions. Why can't you normal people just learn what you're actually capable of and what not?
@kenjidev576
@kenjidev576 4 жыл бұрын
They show the moving company owner's face from different angles - still no one can recognize her since you never saw her fulface. We aren't machines. We can't piece together out facial recognition.
@bennyboy2079
@bennyboy2079 4 жыл бұрын
@@kenjidev576 what's face blindness?
@curtisgregory517
@curtisgregory517 2 жыл бұрын
In the 1950s - 70s ,, I was in Japan many times, for many years I worked close with JAL. I learned so much from the people. At the same time, I got to know the people of about 35 countries. Japanese always stood out as very exceptional in every way, with unparalleled honesty and such qualities clearly far above others I met in my travels.
@MsNoPixel
@MsNoPixel 2 жыл бұрын
His family acts like he disappeared for no reason, but people don’t just disappear, there’s always a reason, wether it be physical, metal or emotional & wether or not you understand it or want to accept it… there’s ALWAYS a reason.
@TaroMorikawa
@TaroMorikawa 2 жыл бұрын
Its long ago since I ve watched into the wild, but I think he was happy with his family.... He just wanted to be alone.
@snooks5607
@snooks5607 2 жыл бұрын
sure there's a reason in sense that our reality follows laws of causality but when people talk about there being no reason they specifically mean that they either don't know the reason or are not satisfied with it. even if the person in question could articulate a "good enough reason" it doesn't mean it should necessarily satisfy other people (implied qualitative statement is subjective).
@SirZeck
@SirZeck 2 жыл бұрын
That's how oblivious the family is about his situation,could be that's the reason for his disapperance or other factor but his family aren't trustworthy enough to know. I mean even I that have a loving but conservative parents,there are many things that i couldn't talk or do in their presence because i know how they would respond,it's choking.
@BeachJumper
@BeachJumper 2 жыл бұрын
Asian Government is the largest purveyor of organ harvesting, child trafficking, and workers at any age. They are taken right off the streets. The same thing is happening in the USA. 800,000 babies and children are stolen for child trafficking EACH YEAR!
@kessiawright1710
@kessiawright1710 2 жыл бұрын
Sure and sometimes the reason is owing money, don't want the responsibility of kids or other members of family, sometimes domestic violence. It has gone on a long time. There are companies who help people disappear. I have read that it has been going on for a very long time. They disappear without telling their families. Their kids and other family never see them again.
@Mandydailyblog
@Mandydailyblog 5 жыл бұрын
My Japanese husband when he was in his early 20's ran away from home in the south of Japan and spent 3 years in Tokyo doing odd jobs...he eventually returned home after he found what he wanted to do..be an acupuncturist.. He had felt pressure from his family to continue with the family farm... His mother thought he was dead...
@fiki1365
@fiki1365 5 жыл бұрын
Glad it turned alright in the end
@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim
@PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim 5 жыл бұрын
Now he relieves other people’s pressure with acupuncture 😊
@alexiselvando5265
@alexiselvando5265 5 жыл бұрын
Japanese husband has a little dick...
@gnoldantaf6241
@gnoldantaf6241 5 жыл бұрын
@@alexiselvando5265 not really, there are Japanese men who have huge dicks, my cousin's Japanese husband is handsome and muscular, and he had a huge dick of 8 inches and at least 1.5 inches thick according to her , they have 3 kids and she said her sexual life is absolutely incredible!, LOL
@locksmith3208
@locksmith3208 5 жыл бұрын
it looks like someone's having a sexual dream of her own cousin's husband.
@rasberrysweet782
@rasberrysweet782 4 жыл бұрын
I am a Japanese middle woman, and I know it's very stressful l to live sometimes. In some way we are very obedient, organized. It has good/bad side as well. Sometimes I want to get away from any kind of pressure. I try to think l lucky though, because Japan is safe and clean, and very unique culture and beautiful country as well. I hope when COV-19 finish, the people who likes Japan, visit to our country and enjoy a lot of things...including vending machine and ramen :)!
@proteintial3103
@proteintial3103 4 жыл бұрын
There's like 5 vending machines per person over there I swear lol.
@whatswiththenoise
@whatswiththenoise 4 жыл бұрын
I have been to Japan twice and I love it. Like every country in the World there are bad and good points.
@chanichanti4241
@chanichanti4241 4 жыл бұрын
You need Jesus in your country...seems like their is no joy
@rasberrysweet782
@rasberrysweet782 4 жыл бұрын
@@chanichanti4241 Don't worry, we have tons of joy. Just thie is a totally media crap in some extend.
@bobsoo3198
@bobsoo3198 4 жыл бұрын
move out of tokyo and stay in kyoto or osaka. much better
@Bria.W
@Bria.W 2 жыл бұрын
That old couples story broke my heart. I can't imagine being left behind like that
@Hitome143
@Hitome143 5 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for the old woman, she's really old to feel stress. She should just be relaxing right now.
@weinklent5082
@weinklent5082 5 жыл бұрын
Ikr? No one gets to rest until they pass through the door of light now a days.
@pia0591
@pia0591 5 жыл бұрын
kuki yomenai the thing is we don’t know if she really is telling the truth, cos we only heard her side of the story.. it’s not easy to choose to disappear, the old man must have a mental illness whether it’s depression or other kinds, and the sides are never complete black n white..
@Kusunoky
@Kusunoky 5 жыл бұрын
Many in Asia still work even after old age. Its pretty hard. It's all about work
@anna-mariassemuju8643
@anna-mariassemuju8643 5 жыл бұрын
That's true
@Hitome143
@Hitome143 5 жыл бұрын
Pia Pavita You have a point, but it just saddens me to see her in that state and she looks genuinely worried. If my grandma will be in her situation, I will feel bad too.
@doccastro
@doccastro 5 жыл бұрын
It's hard looking for people who don't want to be found.
@Lúin216
@Lúin216 4 жыл бұрын
Or dead. Many ways to get rid of bodies.
@stephenc2481
@stephenc2481 4 жыл бұрын
it is tougher also, when the law make it illegal to give out personal information.
@mouneydonuru2769
@mouneydonuru2769 4 жыл бұрын
@haitipi wow, you made me remember love in sadness
@Life-oo2tr
@Life-oo2tr 3 жыл бұрын
Damn my anxiety levels sky rocketed when they were rushing to pack all those boxes. I can't believe she was able to pack all that without her husband noticing.
@Automedon2
@Automedon2 3 жыл бұрын
I thought that too. Did he not notice that she was stock piling empty boxes? How long was he away for that she could pack 100 boxes?
@thaomac2907
@thaomac2907 3 жыл бұрын
Something abusive men do is to underestimate the women around them. He could have seen her packing, cleaning, and just thought „pff women stuff. I am a man therefore I need not care.“ Acutually, it doesn’t even take an abusive husband, just someone with a sexist mindset. My dad was raised like that, he is not abusive nor goes all out to put women down, but he grew up in a sexist culture. Thus, there’s a lot around our house that he never pays attention to. My mom once moved his favourite rock (yea he has a favourite rock, it’s roughly 10 kg), switched the bed frame, poured his alcohol down the drain and filled the bottles with juice in one day. Dad had no idea until he tasted the juice 😂 he pouted for a week after that
@nefertitib4313
@nefertitib4313 3 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing. Impossible he didn’t notice, but she wouldn’t be able to do that in such short amount of time, unless she was able to hide them or has superhuman packing speed...
@intheparlance
@intheparlance 3 жыл бұрын
I think the moving company packed it up when they arrived, not her.
@joyfuljoy8726
@joyfuljoy8726 3 жыл бұрын
@@Automedon2 The packing took 2 hours, that probably would be the scariest intense 2 hours of her life.
@isapeacekeeper8803
@isapeacekeeper8803 2 жыл бұрын
An act of heroism is helping others in danger. This woman helping others to safety giving less thought to her own safety than that of others, is a true Heroine 💞🙏💖
@Just_a_passer_by
@Just_a_passer_by 5 жыл бұрын
My heart was pounding when they were packing up.
@jellissa
@jellissa 5 жыл бұрын
Mine too. They had too much stuff to take. In that case I would have just grabbed the necessary stuff and left.
@jellissa
@jellissa 5 жыл бұрын
The man left his wife and three kids? He escaped the responsibility of having a family, wow how selfish of him.
@privatename3447
@privatename3447 5 жыл бұрын
Over worked, over priced housing, under appreciated, no social life
@shaqron3720
@shaqron3720 5 жыл бұрын
Slowly become a machine
@minoriruba1828
@minoriruba1828 5 жыл бұрын
A true capitalist world......
@RERe-wq1hw
@RERe-wq1hw 5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes when we are around, people just see us like we are nothing, but when we were gone, they start to think us. Yeah....
@daniellee5147
@daniellee5147 5 жыл бұрын
That was deep.
@jillvalentinefan77
@jillvalentinefan77 5 жыл бұрын
People only care about you when it's convenient. The only one who can look out for you is you.
@Lipurshan
@Lipurshan 5 жыл бұрын
At the other side, we said "mind your own business" leave me alone
@paulcooper5748
@paulcooper5748 5 жыл бұрын
That is very true well said.
@machinecore500
@machinecore500 5 жыл бұрын
It is true
@engledelaffety4380
@engledelaffety4380 2 жыл бұрын
I have mixed feelings about this... the pain of the individual feeling they have no choice but to vanish, and the pain of those left behind, family and friends who live in perpetual "loss". God bless them BOTH.
@RakibFiha
@RakibFiha 5 жыл бұрын
I hope he finds his brother. It seems like he really loves him from his heart.
@charlie-bucket
@charlie-bucket 5 жыл бұрын
He probably committed suicide, based on the fact he left his bag behind
@meestaShin
@meestaShin 5 жыл бұрын
You can't believe everything you are presented with. His family could have driven him insane.
@MichaelHarto
@MichaelHarto 5 жыл бұрын
@@meestaShin i agree with that.
@aidahoe2946
@aidahoe2946 5 жыл бұрын
He will find him
@jobethrico
@jobethrico 5 жыл бұрын
Thought 🇯🇵 was a safe place!
@honkhonk8009
@honkhonk8009 4 жыл бұрын
Naoki was a cleaner. No wonder he dissappeared. His parents probably treated him like a failure for not getting a good enough job
@percycat213
@percycat213 4 жыл бұрын
I also suspect there was some form of emotional abuse that triggered a mental condition like depression in this man. Love and be kind to your loved ones while you can, don't regret it if they distance themselves from you one day because of how you have treated them.
@jaelynn7575
@jaelynn7575 4 жыл бұрын
Cleaners are very important. They keep everyone healthy.
@vimy1589
@vimy1589 4 жыл бұрын
don't speculate .. he had a loving family.. you could tell by all the pictures .. or so it seemed ...
@honkhonk8009
@honkhonk8009 4 жыл бұрын
@Mehran Being with asian parents, they all love you until you become a failure, and then they treat you like complete trash afterwards. Not to mention they force those pictures aswell
@nicolekellington208
@nicolekellington208 4 жыл бұрын
I so agree everyone in society is valid and valuable from the garbage collector rose trimmer sandwich artist and dog walker to restaurant owner builder hair dresser fashion designer doctor nurse teacher rocket scientist EVERYONE IS VALUBLE if everyone thought they needed to be doctors no one would get into construction to even build the the universities these people go to even become doctors!Even a simple minded fellow on the bus with Down syndrome may touch someone's emotion maybe tell a joke that might prevent a suicide...we just don't know our impact in this world.Careful what we think and judge watched a show on KZbin about a prominent doctor who owned a hotel and was ending people's lives...so yah titles mean nothing to me...cleaners are very important especially during a pandemic.
@MMAACC2014
@MMAACC2014 3 жыл бұрын
The lady isn't even mad at him for disappearing - she's just worried about his health... :(
@lilysitorus3724
@lilysitorus3724 2 жыл бұрын
If it happen to me, I will forget him forever....
@garyschraa9508
@garyschraa9508 2 жыл бұрын
To me the truly frightening part is if a person wanted to disappear and contacted and paid for a mover that nobody was told about because of secrecy but the mover turned out to be in the black market for healthy organ harvesting and the man or woman or even children just happened to be the perfect non-voluntary organ donor . Just seems that the set up is there ripe for the taking in Japan
@callmeroniii
@callmeroniii 4 жыл бұрын
Naoki’s brother is truly hurt and shattered but he’s still giving his best to search for him 💔
@alecoum9872
@alecoum9872 4 жыл бұрын
💯😢 id be sad too if that happened to anyone i know
@koroglurustem1722
@koroglurustem1722 4 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of my brother. Thank God my brother is around. But I sometimes feel like we pressure him a lot with marriage requests, success and other things. People need close relationships and understanding hearts from relatives.
@light5978
@light5978 4 жыл бұрын
What if the brother is actually the reason why Naoki left?
@36minutesago7
@36minutesago7 4 жыл бұрын
@RONI RONI He should give up, his brother killed himself by jumping from the ferry.
@callmeroniii
@callmeroniii 4 жыл бұрын
Mr Potato twist and turns aye, we don’t really know the real story behind the curtains
@IleanaFengx3
@IleanaFengx3 3 жыл бұрын
The grandma who’s missing her husband is really sad :(
@torachan23
@torachan23 3 жыл бұрын
Nah she can just make her side dude her main dude now
@egyptnz27
@egyptnz27 3 жыл бұрын
@@torachan23 true
@eaglenebula2172
@eaglenebula2172 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah well at least they found him, talk about the poor guy who lost his young brother you can tell by his appearance and the way he talks how much toll it took on him. It's been 17 years can you even imagine !!
@bubblygirlduddett3
@bubblygirlduddett3 3 жыл бұрын
@@eaglenebula2172 i agree. Such a shame. I hope he is still alive though. And if he is, at least he could send a letter or something to tell them that he is okay. I find it really unfair. Making your family worried for almost two decades. His parents aged. His brother has aged. Still all in their thought of him hoping to come back.
@makenzie8577
@makenzie8577 3 жыл бұрын
@@bubblygirlduddett3 His missing seems suspicious though .If he wanted to dissapear why did he leave all his belongings on the ferry. Why no one saw him on the ferry . All of it doesnt add up
@laurynmiya888
@laurynmiya888 5 жыл бұрын
Your own family treat u like crap, when you disappear they suddenly concerned.
@EmmaGodLovesTruth95
@EmmaGodLovesTruth95 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly... I'm about to do the same thing with my psychopathic family
@PhoenixRain01010
@PhoenixRain01010 4 жыл бұрын
They only act concerned if there's a chance they can get money or your possessions after your death
@irisrose4732
@irisrose4732 4 жыл бұрын
It's funny how that goes, isn't it? Sad, but very true.
@addressmeYHC
@addressmeYHC 4 жыл бұрын
@@PhoenixRain01010 no that's when they realized maybe your value isn't just money and they maybe they mistreated you.
@skylarblacc1660
@skylarblacc1660 4 жыл бұрын
LAURYN MIYA 💯🙄😔👌🏾got rid of them from BIRTH ain't nobody got time for that to be worrying about wether were accepted or not😒we never be asked to be born to such a famliy
@rarebird_82
@rarebird_82 2 жыл бұрын
I often consider leaving the current drudge/cage that is married life, disappearing, changing my name and starting over. Escaping TO a place like Japan, the further away the better 🤷🏻‍♀️ Miho is doing Gods work, bless her 🙏🏻
@javier.alvarez764
@javier.alvarez764 5 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of this quote, "We suffer more in imagination than reality" - Seneca
@breathe711
@breathe711 5 жыл бұрын
What a great quote. Thank you
@socalbeeguy8041
@socalbeeguy8041 5 жыл бұрын
Can't remember who said it, but a similar one is: "I've lived through a lot of horrible things, and some of them actually happened".
@gatorbuilt
@gatorbuilt 5 жыл бұрын
SENECA the YOUNGER was a great philosopher, my personal favorites: "No good thing is pleasant without friends to share it." and "Luck is the matter of preparation meeting opportunity."
@cosmonucleus7076
@cosmonucleus7076 5 жыл бұрын
@Space Monkey How did you get out of that depressive state. I'm not giving up I find myself coming out of that depressive state only to go back into it, sometimes I feel like I've gotten out of for good. What actions does one have to take to change their lives?
@ogungou9
@ogungou9 5 жыл бұрын
@Brian: Douchbag.
@LisaSimpsonRules
@LisaSimpsonRules 4 жыл бұрын
I liked how the lady took the fridge. To move so much stuff in two hours is admirable.
@chaizan9733
@chaizan9733 4 жыл бұрын
@Johnfuse omg😂😂😂😂😂😂
@chaizan9733
@chaizan9733 4 жыл бұрын
It be like that sometimes
@Jalansun
@Jalansun 4 жыл бұрын
Right lol
@hardleecure
@hardleecure 4 жыл бұрын
my aunt did that to her exhusband. She was a total garbage human though. No joke, she waited until he was on weekend exercises and then packed everything up, specifically went out to get a milk crate, went to goodwill and picked up an old rabbit ear black and white TV and left it for him in their home. Everything else, even all the stuff in the pantry was loaded into a truck.
@gigi9301
@gigi9301 5 ай бұрын
Took the Fridge!! LMAO. Just the necessities I suppose?
@ckg6387
@ckg6387 5 жыл бұрын
After reading the comments I noticed that this video has been recommended for those how have that tendencies to live alone or want run away from the city life. Congratulations AI technology.
@okramoffacebook1381
@okramoffacebook1381 5 жыл бұрын
Ho ho ho
@scarletmason7118
@scarletmason7118 5 жыл бұрын
.
@18vishnupriya
@18vishnupriya 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I just saw a video where a guy lives alone in the jungle for half a year and this video popped up!
@ckg6387
@ckg6387 5 жыл бұрын
@@18vishnupriya you need to more specific women
@18vishnupriya
@18vishnupriya 5 жыл бұрын
@@ckg6387 well I don't want to mention the channel 'man'!
@broodster6697
@broodster6697 2 жыл бұрын
I had a cousin about my age who vanished after college in 2009. My family and clan looked for him everywhere but when they filed a missing persons report, the police said he walked into a police department and said he wasn't missing. He vanished because the clan didn't want him to marry his white girlfriend. Couple years ago he came back but the first thing the damn clan said to him was if he was ready to leave his wife and kids. So he vanished again. My aunt and uncle seems very depressed but what can he do? I agree with what he's doing sadly. That's why some people don't ever bother coming back, because they believe nothing's changed.
@notcreativeenoughtomakeupn6935
@notcreativeenoughtomakeupn6935 4 жыл бұрын
With laws figures for missing persons like that, human trafficking must be a cakewalk in Japan.
@piperlourion007
@piperlourion007 4 жыл бұрын
If you think this surprises you, you should see the figures in America and Europe.
@yang3479
@yang3479 4 жыл бұрын
What up pink guy pfp
@eugene188
@eugene188 4 жыл бұрын
@@piperlourion007 The numbers probably aren't nice anywhere. But with the privacy laws in Japan, the cops can't even go looking for bank accounts. wow.
@uncannyvalley2350
@uncannyvalley2350 4 жыл бұрын
nationalvanguard.org/2016/05/israel-is-the-organ-harvesting-and-human-trafficking-capital-of-the-world/
@clementboutaric3952
@clementboutaric3952 4 жыл бұрын
@@uncannyvalley2350 You're aware that this article comes from a website which doesn't inspire a feeling of trust, arent' you ?
@flariadarkheart3872
@flariadarkheart3872 4 жыл бұрын
I feel really bad for the old lady who's husband left on his own accord. Please, think about your family before you leave. It might hurt them even if it relieves you.
@totenblume7517
@totenblume7517 4 жыл бұрын
I was about to leave my family, but after reading this groundbreaking comment, I've decided to stay with them after all.
@toushiri9476
@toushiri9476 4 жыл бұрын
My parents got divorced and after a while i got into a fight with my mother and left the house.. she didn’t bothered call me or ask me to go back but i hope that would change how she treats my brothers and sister in the future.. as if she did the same they would also leave her the same way🤲🏻
@lucaskalaya6345
@lucaskalaya6345 4 жыл бұрын
What a joke
@masejo-wr5yf
@masejo-wr5yf 4 жыл бұрын
Flaria Dark Heart Mysandrist Defintions: A little bitch whose passive aggressive towards men because they’ve had a down falling including them. Chances are a mysandrist had daddy issues. They will never admit it of course because they probably don’t even know it themselves.
@aj-sz8mu
@aj-sz8mu 4 жыл бұрын
@@flariadarkheart3872 most likely they have already considered such things. no one just "leaves" without overthinking it over and over. its days, weeks, months of decisions before they finally leave. So its really their choice. no need to tell anyone to "consider" any more than they already have.
@jammy777m2
@jammy777m2 5 жыл бұрын
Japanese have spent so much time in perfection, cleaning and organising themselves ... i guess they forgot to enjoy and live a normal life ...
@chrismontreuil2206
@chrismontreuil2206 5 жыл бұрын
A beaver is unhappy if you remove a stick, even though he has thousands more.
@markperry2827
@markperry2827 5 жыл бұрын
Normal. You mean 200 gun deaths daily Chicago normal?
@darrendavison1671
@darrendavison1671 4 жыл бұрын
If you would have said "2" instead of "200", you would still be inflating the number to make your point. =p
@os6552
@os6552 4 жыл бұрын
@@markperry2827 Exaggerate much? In a gun control city no less.
@irving7848
@irving7848 4 жыл бұрын
Too much of their 5S
@AmandaJane229
@AmandaJane229 2 жыл бұрын
The moving agency owner is an angel disguised as a human. She's brave, clever and very caring.
@xoxoxcatleya
@xoxoxcatleya 5 жыл бұрын
escaping is easy but i think starting a new life is hard.
@bananapapaya5576
@bananapapaya5576 5 жыл бұрын
That's true
@PrettyLittleDitty2089
@PrettyLittleDitty2089 5 жыл бұрын
It's hard to have a new life if you don't have a hope & desire to live on.
@karansena
@karansena 5 жыл бұрын
The problem is with their culture and work alcoholic work nature. Trust me corporate culture is bad.
@matthewmolina3866
@matthewmolina3866 5 жыл бұрын
adin mar Starting a new life is not hard, only if you cannot stand alone, needing someone to support you.
@DorothyGTyas
@DorothyGTyas 5 жыл бұрын
I suspect neither is easy.... ☝😔
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