Chase excellence, not girls! (bitter truth ⭐️🔥!)

How do you become excellent at what you do?
What's the process and why we need to be consistent in doing it?

[@jaiharitwal1076]

Brother-like advice from a Gentle Man,even elder than my father❤🙌

[@louisdrose152]

agreed, to Chetan's view ...

[@jeekakrishna]

he is not older than your father

[@jaiharitwal1076]

@@jeekakrishna He's older than your Grandfather(My Dad),I mean

[@jeekakrishna]

@@jaiharitwal1076 Koi aska proof hai terey paas ya salary bhi sirf bhonkney ki leta hai tu ?

[@jaiharitwal1076]

@@jeekakrishna First of all,not your sort of super creepy,idle people unnecessarily trying to waste oneself and some another person's personal Time Being just trying to harness some useless Attention out of Commenting on such a Channel actively viewed by the young population of Country,Secondly I have been provided with adequate amount of upbringing to not just simply talk in an unipolite manner/randomly getting Chape to any individual on a Social Media Platforms just like you ghoulish people do

[@davidkrupadanam1179]

Great message from CB. Chase self improvement. A British Philosopher......... Youth a blunder... Manhood a struggle.. Old-age a regret

[@louisdrose152]

regret, over mistakes or .... philosopher, missed the bus....

[@ukdave472]

@@louisdrose152 regret for not utilizing his time effectively & for end of life itself. This is true for all men, even if you are the richest man on earth.

[@ukdave472]

This is true for all men. Old men regret for not utilizing his time effectively & for end of life itself. This is true for all men, even if you are the richest man on earth. I am 44, & witnessed my own father passing away in 2021. His regrets were not too big, but for sure he wanted to live for 5 more years.

[@NitishKumar-of4io]

I think the conclusion is in your 20s be sakht launda and focus on your studies and work hard.once you get financially well settled then enjoy your love life 😊😊🥰😍

[@rehanhussan]

Nice words and well spoken

[@NitishKumar-of4io]

@@rehanhussan thanks

[@freewill4912]

True

[@chanchalkumar5340]

Yehi theek lagta h... Sir

[@sahajsoni3946]

It is not that if you get settled then you will definitely get a partner

[@PreetisParadise]

Boys really need this lesson.. Majority waste their lives running after girls n beauty. So shallow

[@abhishekpatra7954]

But abhi tak ek girl bhi nhi mila 😢😢😢😢

[@harshsameer9440]

3:43 these lines just penetrated my soul “ phool to murjha jayenge mere dost “ very deep sir very deep..

[@louisdrose152]

a woman is a flower, that will wither, away, happiness is what matters ... i feel as poet, writer

[@3letters647]

Yes bro

[@DK-js8cz]

Could you please translate in English?

[@akashthakur6215]

@@DK-js8cz chetan sir is trying to say the efforts you are putting to find white roses to give to the girl you like just to impress her.my dear friend these flowers will wither away but the time you wasted in such activities if utilized in going to gym,getting extra marks or getting selection in entrance exam will pay you better

[@taposmoitra2332]

The issue is wrong prioritisation. At different phases of life you have to have priority on what to chase. Also your family background the society you come from also influence this choice. You need to select the right lift and floor to go to your desired destination. Right choice will hasten the arrival to your desired destination.

[@nitinpatel9251]

Sir .. when you say "don't live for girls, live for yourself". I mean it's hit soo hard (good). Thanku sir ☺️😍

[@archit188]

💯💯

[@sridhark5619]

Single hi marega

[@aarif5808]

Yes sir, whosoever is coming here is really obsessed towards success 🙌🥇✌

[@abhishekshahi5698]

Sir,read your book in 07,got my path, still I m in journey achieved many miles in last 14 years.chasing dreams is more important than any thing in this materialistic world.

[@akashbhullar]

Give this man a medal ooh, he has already sooo many hehe!

[@SwapnilJadhavLive]

I am chasing self improvement, taking challenges and making video's on KZbin. This commitment of completing challenges makes me so happy. Thanks sir 🙏🏻

[@main_stream_media_is_a_joke]

This is RP 101. Do not waste time on girls in your 20's. From 20 till about 35/36, focus on your job/skill or business while at the same time also taking care of your health. Do this for around 15 years and by 35 you will have females chasing you (if you are still into that). Then you will be in the driving seat and can pick and choose. An average male is for all intents and purposes practically invisible to females in his 20's. But if he plays his cards right, he will be calling the shots in his mid 30's and onwards.

[@louisdrose152]

worth your opinion, RP. many do the opposite ...

[@wisdomok99]

I focus on girls 25 to 30 now 35 to 45. I am chasing excellence.

[@ziyamalik1666]

Lol, no young woman gonna marry a 35 year old uncle

[@wisdomok99]

@@ziyamalik1666 it is because of your inexperience in world. Young girls like mature guys after seeing the lifestyle, freedom and happiness in relationship. A kid with daddy money cannot do anything.

[@ziyamalik1666]

@@wisdomok99 that's I know. But I am 23 now, noway I am gonna marry or have relationship with a guy more than 5 year older.

[@sarojdwivedi8643]

Chetan people hate you for your honest opinion on this kind of topics.. Please don't listen to them.. 😘😘

[@harshsameer9440]

GOD !!! may this man live for 1000 years ⚡️⚡️🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@aksingh3133]

Indians ki average age m ejafa ho jayega😀

[@smileyforever1393]

Infinty tak chaiye

[@shankhadipmajumder2670]

Truth of the matter is, unless you are genetically gifted ( like tall, well built handsome etc) women are not attracted to you at all. But if you have money they will "settle" for you and your provisioning.

[@vinayverma5902]

Irony is after achieving so much you still can't expect that women will chase you anyway 😂😂😂 so keep going and become the better version of yourself everyday..

[@wojakzoomer8916]

@Jack Reacher they all are after their money ,not love, if you have money you can hire professional escort. Have you noticed that these woman date handsome tall boys in early 20s and in late 20s they do not want to date average looking sucessful guys ,they want to marry them . That's not love. It's clear who will live a better life. Materialistic success means nothing without love.

[@wojakzoomer8916]

Absolutely True

[@kartik6587]

@Jack Reacher hungry dogs😂

[@wojakzoomer8916]

@Jack Reacher That's exactly what I'm saying.

[@kushaldeswal3009]

@Jack Reacher chase queens not hoes, be a king first.

[@ramizraja8851]

what a perfect timing of the video. i was down so bad for girls that i always chased girls. yesterday only got a heartbreak knowing that the girl i liked was committeed and my heart ached. i was sad, its just that i needed the warmth of a relationship.

[@bhuvneshshandilyaa]

Dude, I would still call you lucky, the girl I was with, I literally felt the that's the best I can get, as she was so humble and understanding, guess what things didn't fall in the right place for us, and eventually she cheated on me with her ex. This is the shit that can break you from inside down. But at the end of the day, we really have to get over such things.

[@vishalbohemia]

@@bhuvneshshandilyaa same thing happened with me bro...and actually this is the story of every next guy.

[@bhuvneshshandilyaa]

@@vishalbohemia actually man, it is, I just pray this thing don't happen to anyone else man( my homies I meant)😩

[@ramizraja8851]

@@bhuvneshshandilyaa sorry to hear that bro.

[@dEviL_bIsWaJiT]

@@bhuvneshshandilyaa 👍

[@subijoyacharya3189]

Thank you for being brutally honest. One thing I love about you, you present what you are and you are never pretentious.

[@ashutoshdevgotra]

I felt Lucky to Have ,Chetan Baghat like authors(Mentors) in 🇮🇳India. Your talks really help me, understanding this world with better meaning and purpose. Basically I am learning from your experiences and applying it, at only 18. Otherwise I will learn that meanings at your age. So much worth, having you in my life.

[@KalyanKariniPandey]

So good quality sir, thanks for this video... We ll keep working Hard sir ⭐🙂

[@mukeshmahato6957]

Gist of this video is- "वो फूल तो मुरझा जायेंगे मेरे दोस्त"। लेकिन पड़ लिया तो कैरियर खिल जाएगा। Don't get driven by biological desire. Hats off to you sir 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@jstpranab]

The ending example really beautiful. Follow the goal or final destination. Don’t get diverted during journey. Thank you sir for amazing clear cut video .

[@mars_z7851]

Being Single and dying rich is best goal for me

[@akashbhullar]

If only money could bring everlasting happiness. Although staying single is a great idea.

[@PreetisParadise]

Great. U r a wise man😄

[@protectnature4604]

@@PreetisParadise what about me??😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@abhinavbhuyan2320]

This video is truly an eye opener for me, it changed my entire perspective! Thank you so much ❤

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Glad it was helpful!

[@imyasharya]

Biology doesn't know the rules of survival has changed.

[@beast0791]

This is the most logical comment I have seen

[@thefunland2481]

You hit the bull's eye

[@imyasharya]

@@thefunland2481 Man, I got a sharp shooting skills 😉

[@thefunland2481]

@@imyasharya Paris Olympic medal soon 😁

[@imyasharya]

@@thefunland2481 😜 maybe not that sharp

[@chalams]

Thanks Chetan. You are making it more clear for me.❤️❤️

[@ritik7938]

Happy teacher's day sir , Your videos had always guided me and taught me something!❤️

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Thank you!

[@Brajeshkumar-dd7nt]

While watching your videos, I feel like my seniors who brings me to the right wid his experience, and your talks works as per day catalyst for me. Thank you sir,much love ❤!!

[@samiksha2187]

This also implies for Girls, Girls also should focus on studies rather than chasing boys .

[@sahajsoni3946]

Girls should also focus on their studies and they should also be compelled to earn by the family Rather than just sitting and waiting for a rich boy

[@tonmoydeka3983]

I have rarely seen girls chasing boys .

[@sahajsoni3946]

@Very Good girls chase make up so that boys chase them 😂

[@akshatzz_iitb6052]

i don't agree, if a girl is beautiful enough, she can still marry a rich guy and live a happy life even if she does simple household work.

[@swayamprakashkar3692]

@@akshatzz_iitb6052 genetics and a good hole doesn't make up anything for a person.

[@ShivamKumar-fq8tb]

This is very simple. But,I don't know why people do this. You are exactly to the point,Sir. ❤️

[@yadavsubhash2244]

Exactly sir if u have carrier n money ,ladkiyo ki koi Kami Nahi hai coz a intelligent girl always choose a successful man not a sadakchhap majnu 🙏🙏🙏n age is just a number Apne aap aati hai

[@Zooie99]

Focus on your goals bro, these girls are not going anywhere.

[@kasunjayasinghe5791]

Thank you for this and all the advice you've been giving through your videos. Much appreciation from Sri Lanka

[@divyanshutiwari4103]

This man is a legend...you know what's specisl in his videos he not here to gain attention,fame,money or anything...cuz these are the things which he already have...that's make him special he didn't make a sentence look good or convincing if something is rude but true..he would say it..thanx a lot a sir.

[@harshdeepsingh5650]

THAT LINE ' APNAI ABHI GIVE UP NAHI KIA HAI SHAYAD TABHI MUJHE SUNN RAHEY HO ' SOUNDS SOO GOOD. Btw thanks a lot for such a piece of good advice.

[@gulshanvishwakarma3512]

You are booster to those who want to make their life meaningful As a aspirant I can relate everything Youths have need this kind of perception

[@deveshmishra6850]

CB is doing great work. Huge respect for you sir 💛

[@sudiptasamaddar8149]

I never chased girls since my teens, in fact I received numerous proposals from girls in college and also later at my workplace. I rejected everytime and on every occasion. Now I am almost 40, I'm still a bachelor. All the proposals that I am getting now are from Aunties!

[@GEOGRAPHYWORLD358]

But bhai naam se toh aap girl LG rhe ho..sorry to say,. Agar Aisa h toh ab tk toh aap bahut successfull ho gye hoge...mujhe pta h ki iska success se koi direct link nhi h fir bhi kya Aisa h ki ab tk aap bahut successfull ho gye

[@noorscholar7388]

Yes sir , we love your talks. Please keep motivating us. You give us real insights about life. Thank you so much. Please continue such great lessons.

[@bhabanasarma1524]

Much needed! Thank you so much Sir❤

[@sangitakar3143]

I hope and sincerely wish that your these words definitely show the right path for a good life specially to the younger generation, even for my kids. I ve the same mindset like yours in this video.

[@louisdrose152]

that will not change the mindset of anyone... all think and do things, differently

[@BruceWayne-ve9nl]

Elder brother we all needed 🥺❣️

[@bjayknowledgehub6163]

You are just awesome sir!you are an eye opener for the youth.we are privileged to have you as our Guru and guide! ❤️❤️

[@bhakt8177]

i love this series cause i m improving my self sir , thank you

[@veer27597]

Practical...life changing...& Mind-blowing Guidance 🙏

[@rounaksaxena9301]

you r a man of wisdom..love u sir

[@ajayjha23]

thanks for the video sir , keep making them and impacting lives. Huge respect for you

[@shubham74500]

I don't know how but you pick up the right problem in society and you always give the perfect solution it motivates a lot..

[@Guys_Love_Each_Other]

yeah, he really makes our sense come back to clarity.

[@kartikkumarverma3976]

Sir aap jaise mentor mil gye life me or kya chaiye. Aap mujhe raasta dikhate ho or genuine topics per advice dete ho👏your are the best🙏

[@satyabratkalita199]

U r just a person of hope ❤️ keep motivate us 🔥🔥

[@aviraltripathi2001]

Thankyou sir for telling us reality of life 🙏 Amit lodha , IPS sir said very clearly don't chase external validations

[@varunsingh7994]

That Garden and Destination analogy was amazing.

[@Manas_Chagi]

Sir you have really great communication skills , everything you spoke made so much sense and all of them are correctly articulated in a very justifying manner such that it also doesn't create any sort of conflicts , and very well said , thankyou!

[@bipinkkw2425]

HUGE respect for you sir

[@AbhishekSingh-lt7jq]

"Yah phul toh murjha jayenge mere dost" Best line of my whole day ...

[@dhrumilsoni6393]

Its really motivated myself .... Your content like a "no word". Like a Family elder person 🙏

[@anonymou3736]

Well said sir.....really..hope it will guide me to a brighter future. Thanks.

[@Rohit-vr4yo]

Sir..we knew this but whatever you make videos are the eye opener to us...you are the constant guidance for us❤️ Love from Karnataka ❤️❤️

[@BharatSingh-tu6rp]

The truth you put in RAW words is beyond excellence keep doing this chetan bhagat.🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@viny9171]

Sir aapki bate hr bate dil ko chhuti h or bilkul sachhi hoti h mene b bahut galti ki h life me pr me usse sikha hu or aage bdha hu thank you so much sir hr bar itni achhi advice dene k liy🙏

[@dipanshumutreja2323]

Thank you for reaffirming and making us prioritise the right things Chetan Bhaiya :)

[@manojmohapatra9938]

God bless chetan bhai.....we are fortunate and privileged that indian youth are inspired and india is getting better because chetan bhai write and speak...may chetan bhai live 100yrs

[@milindsawant8280]

very true. lot of young generation waste their precious time in chasing animal instincts than chasing self improvement

[@pranjitdas1467]

I felt,You are our Elder Brother Chetan sir. THANK YOU FOR YOUR LIFE CHANGING MESSAGE.

[@ChetanBhagat1]

🤝

[@abhijeetdubey2098]

Lovely sir. You're an amazing amazing human being. People need guidance from someone experienced like you. Goal statement is the only thing we should work upon. Self improvement is the only way. This mind is full of distractions & illusions. It needs to be mastered to rise above biological instincts. As its said- a faithful servant & a pathetic boss. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@shivendrayadav6268]

Thank you so much Sir . truly and Simple way you always guide us.#pure soul person❤️

[@_shivendra]

Hi bro 🙂🙂😊

[@mayursuvarna347]

Thanks Sir for your wise words...its like listening to an elder brother which I don't have

[@nishantroyzh2617]

Love you sir! 😭❤

[@hbkumar9649]

Touch my heart! God bless you

[@rashmitaadhikary7941]

Chetan sir I am big fan of yours ..you're are a great human being & your guidence just mind-blowing 🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥

[@90210Shekhar]

Very smart podcast 🥳 Great advice for youths... Thank you saying this so frankly.. i wish more people spread and hammer this idea... The world will be more beautiful.. 🙏

[@ramneekbindra2305]

It's true for girls also sir ❤️😬 Hum apko liberty derahe hai daantne ke liye,as that's for our own welfare 🎉

[@deepakthakur5620]

We always chase for instant desire but not for excellence & self improvement and at last we realise that we lack behind in our life.. but specially this video aware me of the bitter truth of life.

[@manojmohapatra9938]

Bhool to murghaja jagenge dost......thanks to chetan bhai each and every indian youth is shinning because of chetan bhais sacrifice,words and writing.. god bless chetan bhai

[@rehanhussan]

Sir the last example you have given has cleared my thoughts and now i have understood the point. Thank you

[@shishirujawane2546]

Thanks for speaking the truth 🙂

[@gourabchakraborty6061]

Love you sir....you are really genius 🙏

[@HelenHelen-hq9gw]

Sir u really helping me to improve my life .... and accept a right kind of lifestyle🙏🙏🙏❤

[@AnandKumar-mz7ty]

I am totally agree with you 😌 sir .if you have met me 9 years ago now my life is something else .... I can understand this message 😀 fully

[@ritikraj7284]

Chetan sir, Aap mere Sare sawalo Ka jawab ho I swear I will turn myself into a gentleman. Jai hind !

[@anishsingh4025]

I never miss your any video! Love you sir ❤️

[@manjunambiar239]

I loved the 2 lines you mentioned for girls ! I know you talked about the pre-marriage times ... but even after marriage and kids, I would love it for the women to focus on self-improvement rather than die and do things for the husband, home and kids, and then whine over it . I know many women esp in their old age complaining that they wasted their lives for the family. They would have also set such high expectation in return from their kids/family for old age, which when not satisfied, they start getting so grumpy! So ya, amazing amazing advice for both genders and for both pre and post married life ! This would benefit not only yourself but your partner as well! After all who doesn't love being with a person who is self confident and happy!

[@smileyforever1393]

Same thinking. Might be due to same Surnames😅. I am Lata Nambiar

[@justforyou667]

men or women no one wants to be useless and no one should be.

[@justforyou667]

but if you're a support be a strong support some people value the support. It's your luck.

[@balrajgosain9369]

I respect women you must please yourself first it's your right.. Women sacrifice for family and some people don't respect it

[@shubhamkargaonkar5503]

Thankyou man! Much needed..

[@aakashanwale5564]

Thank you sir you gives your precious time to guide youth

[@ritikrawat7514]

The most important think I like about u sir is the way you explain the things correlating with practical life things specially for boys I love that 🥀🥀✌️

[@TarunKumar-kb7jk]

One of the most productive channel I follow on KZbin... Thanks sir u just hit the nerve everytime

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Glad to hear that

[@yogitabhagat565]

Thanks sir for directing us 🙏🙏🙏

[@vidhayakcheems1710]

This is precious... watch it twice

[@shalinisrivastava2817]

We also follow you sir, sir men k lie suggestions, not fair sir😆😀 and the video was as usual great.💗 we should only chase self improvement.🙂

[@shubharock]

👏👏love this channel. Thank you Chetan Sir 🙏

[@GS-er8ms]

Love you Sir, your advices can really make a difference to the life’s of millions. Please make a video for Adults who are in their 30s and stuck, I have been working in corporate for 9 yrs now and turned 30 this year without even realising that my 20s have passed, I still feel like a kid but society says otherwise , have goals but lack motivation, time, and filled with self doubts all the time.

[@doctor-zd5yi]

I have already asked Chetan sir to make a video on this topic, but thats yet to come..

[@iamsrk3761]

Sir plz tell me what do you think about your corporate life

[@GS-er8ms]

@@iamsrk3761 Been a great learning experience and has made me wiser, though the work pressure is always there and work life balance has been a major issue, the job helped me pay my bills and live a decent life, but it really ate up my 9 yrs, and Since we have only one life , and the youthful years are limited, I now feel like retiring by 35 , and if I want to do that, I will have to plan from today and would need a hell lot of motivation and guidance from wise ppl like Chetan Sir

[@iamsrk3761]

@@GS-er8ms ok thanks for your response

[@JatinSharma-ck1zq]

Sirr this is great help a lot in changing myself

[@abinashmahakul6323]

So inspiring words sir.

[@seriousincircus3918]

Thank you sir 🙏💥💥 For such awesome guidance. . I am grateful that I have found this channel. 🙏💥💥💥💥💥

[@gouravchauhan2603]

u r man of wisdom u made my day

[@sundarraman6206]

Very good advice to youngsters👍

[@TOTHEDARKHORSE]

Thanks sir you are my inspiration .love youu 💕❤️

[@saurabhkumar5574]

Thank you Sir. I badly needed this video .

[@ChetanBhagat1]

Glad it helped

[@Tips_and_Facts]

Thank you so much sir!

[@gurleensekhon319]

Damnnnn 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 I never saw such video before.. best KZbin video ever