Cheated With Ex, Again? | The Steve Wilkos Show

Shamia is furious because Jahhid is accusing her of cheating with relatives, friends, and even females! She is here to prove that it's not true! #TheSteveWilkosShow #WilkosNation
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[@claireclaire9635]

He's toying with her for nothing other than ego and kicks. He's not her friend. He's her undeclared enemy.

[@drajion8976]

This is really affecting you, huh? You’ve commented multiple times in the video. I do agree with you though.

[@Armelleee]

​@@drajion8976uh the comment section is for comments and a lot of women can relate to a male cheating on them duh.

[@drajion8976]

@@Armelleee Of course. I just noticed she created multiple new comments on the same video, reiterating the same thing

[@badvoodoo2097]

@@drajion8976 sometimes people comment on more than one comment because of the topic

[@drajion8976]

@@badvoodoo2097 She made 4-5 separate comments about why this man is an undeclared enemy. I just found it strange and inquired about you even though I agree.

[@mad_quack]

Her entire demeanor screams “I’m tired.” She just looks and sounds like she’s fed up. I do feel for her, I just hope she realizes her worth and finds someone she deserves.

[@thetricyclehorse]

Me too.

[@fredericklawton548]

Hey she tolerates it so she don't get to complain

[@powerisknowledgeTV]

BullHardy if she was Fed Up and tired she would have left a long time ago. Black women love being intoxicated abusive relationships no matter how much the stress kills them no matter how much it takes on them they love it they like that situation that's why they stay and they choose it you heard her. "my heart cries out for the abuse" 🥴🤷🏾‍♂

[@louloumagoo2512]

We really need to teach our daughters to have pride in themselves and self respect! You don't let someone treat you like you're not important!! You don't accept garbage behaviors from trashy people who shouldn't be in your life to begin with!!

[@onnie.6815]

I agree, I was her. This is what not teaching your child self love looks like

[@KelzAnn7]

Yes! Its so nice to see another soul spreading the word and teaching your daughters about self love and their value!! Theres not nearly enough of that in this world! You're an angel of light and your kids are blessed to have you! I wish self love was taught in school for those that don't have the resources at home. Also lessons on the behaviors of narcissists and empathy impaired toxic people so they can be aware of what manipulation and gaslighting is. This behavior is demonic and detrimental to anyone's mental health and it's up to us as the aware, to teach our children about these demonic creatures because there really just isn't enough awareness and resources. Most people don't learn about it until it's already happening or happened to them. I wish that would change

[@minimight4649]

teach your sons to be better people it's not always on the woman to understand her value

[@alana4988]

@@minimight4649 it goes both ways. Women should understand their value and men shouldn’t waste womens time. Plus women shouldn’t have to wait on a man, otherwise, you’ll end up like that woman. It’s up to everyone.

[@onnie.6815]

@@minimight4649 yes that is true both parties need structure, but what op said was “women need to value themselves” and they’re not wrong

[@claireclaire9635]

They've been such good friends for twenty years that she hasn't got a single shred of self respect, self value or self worth. Yeah...real good friend.

[@juliejason8849]

That poor girl. Her poor poor heart. You can see it all in her face. Some day she will find the man that she didn't even know her heart was waiting for. Please God, watch over her and love her until her TRUE soul mate finds her. God bless.

[@startinajackson606]

Amen I touch and agree with you sis❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ in Jesus name

[@fredericklawton548]

O feel for her but after a while she keeps staying it's on her too

[@claireclaire9635]

He's so unhappy she passed that test. He can't stand her and he would like nothing more than to value her less with a reason to do so. He just desperately wants an excuse to distance himself further from her. But he isn't man enough to cut her loose and het her go to find someone to truly love her. Selfish. He isn't her friend. He's her undeclared enemy.

[@michelledawkins5127]

Selfish 🎯

[@Godsfavor1te]

✔️👏🏾

[@startinajackson606]

Speak that truth, he is just letting her hold on. He's been done with her but to much of a coward to say so. He will reap what he does. Trust!!!!!!

[@ericg6151]

Girl is emotionally drained. Sad cause she seems sweet and is very beautiful.

[@tylerbaker9878]

She did well at the end stood up proudly shook his hand and walked away good for you girl

[@quinecialeshaun8433]

Yesss ! I pray she’s actually done though. She’s so beautiful

[@ItsAllLove4Real]

So she fights the women, but hangs onto the one causing her pain...That ain't love, that's insanity!

[@bryanroberts]

That must suck to want someone to be in a committed loving relationship and know inside that it will never happen.

[@claireclaire9635]

He doesn't want to be with her. He wants to have her on standby without feeling guilty for never ever wanting to commit to her and wasting her time and life. So he blames her for his failure to commit and he pretends the reason he's wasting her time is because he loves her. There couldn't be anything farther from the truth.

[@isaaclopez8472]

​@@dverarde84 wait your blaming the one who isn't cheating for the other one cheating? Are you ok?

[@itazuranakisu]

@Dan a lot of mental gymnastics there bro he is the one to blame for his actions

[@bernardwylie9760]

@@dverarde84But he is more. It’s the more part men like you don’t like. If he were even a fractionally better man, she’d easily be a better woman. But we could all visually see that he is not capable of doing that. He was all deflection, and I personally hate a man who cannot accept responsibility. It’s such childish behavior….and then those men have the nerve to try to tell the rest of us what a real man does 😒.

[@TG-hp8og]

​​@@isaaclopez8472 Jeesh...biased much ...? He had another side piece for two frickin years. Not taking it into consideration ? She is clearly putting way more into this ,then the guy,who i dont belive he actually love her. He just want the "family" but also be free to do whatever I hope she find someone else,this isnt a good relationship.

[@onnie.6815]

She has no sense of self & he just manipulates so bad. I hate this guy, he’s such a narcissist. He gets off on hurting her

[@ladypoo2000]

It is hard for me to understand why a person stays with someone who is always cheating. They use the excuse, "I love them," "they are my soulmate," etc. They don't deserve to be treated like that. If the other person in a relationship that is cheating, they aren't your soulmate.

[@KelzAnn7]

He brainwashed her through years of mental and emotional abuse and gaslighting. And he's been in her life since she was 9. She doesn't know any different. Listen to how he was subtley and not so subtley blaming her and laughing in a dismissive mocking way. Laughing at her pain and glaring at her when she was calling him out for saying that "oh she knew about that" when in fact she didn't know about it (gaslighting her) and when she challenged that, he glared at her and then proceeded to treat her as a joke and insignificant. Behind closed doors he probably would've been relentless with talking in circles and demeaning her for challenging him. But he was in public so you know he held back and instead just laughed and subtley mocked the situation. There's very obvious mental and emotional abuse going on here and just by looking at her and seeing her demeanor, you can see how beat down she is and how she truly believes that if SHE proves to HIM that she's not cheating that he will change. That's what narcissists do. They beat you down and blame you and you start to believe that maybe it is you and that if you do better and prove yourself and defend yourself enough and love them more that they'll stop hurting you. Sometimes people are trained that way from childhood where their parents did the same thing and it just continues in relationships. They truly don't understand that they don't deserve to be treated like this. That's why brainwashing is so scary. It's important to be mentally and emotionally strengthened because if you're not, you're susceptible to becoming a victim of a narcissistic empathy impaired manipulator

[@startinajackson606]

Exactly. I would never ever stay with a cheater

[@sosobeautiful7]

I'm only one minute in and she seems so dull and lifeless she must have been through so much

[@danastein8603]

It makes me so sad that there are good people out there who will accept this kind of treatment and disloyalty. Clearly she struggles with self-worth, cause if she loved herself even half as much as she loves him, she would walk away from this clown 🤡 and never looked back.

[@badvoodoo2097]

There’s layers of depth to complexity We don’t know the full story He might have control over her

[@startinajackson606]

​@@badvoodoo2097no he doesn't, he doesn't even want her, he was laughing in her face. She is the one who won't let go

[@TeaCup1940]

I think for her he was like an addiction. She knows it's bad for her, but she just cannot let him go for good. He also feeds her some hope because he does not fully reject her either. But with his actions he is telling her that he does not care about her one bit. This is just a relationship that involves lust and addiction, but no love or respect.

[@coolkatz9012]

Dudes just playing her for a Bed can't live on his own and be responsible for himself ...pissweak.

[@dairadior5606]

She Stressed tf out and it's 😢

[@TCA4381]

I really pray for the best for that lady. She deserves a man that actually loves and respects her as much as she loves him.

[@brittanythomas9996]

She is so weak. When she turned and said “Are you gone stop?” Gworrrrl get tf on! I wish some females will get a damn back bone. This is gross.

[@leannedoyle1149]

What bullsh*t did he just say about her. He openly admits to cheating. Wft. So why is she proving anything. " we're off and on". Get out of my face

[@my2cents230]

I really hope she sticks to that door. For the sake of her happiness!

[@deebeauty9089]

He ain’t even all that to be acting the way he is. Like why? Just why? She really settled with him. I hope that she can learn to love herself and leave that pos behind her, real talk.

[@Roshawn291]

This comment!!! My thoughts exactly!!

[@bunn3636]

*So he wants to sleep around while she stay faithful 🙄😒*

[@Armelleee]

Typical male. Cant take what they dish out.

[@michelledawkins5127]

Exactly 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@roxette24]

She seems just simply and unemotionally fed up and over it all. I hope she doesn’t go back to him and finally for the first time in her life ends up with a man who treats her right.

[@jessicaeberhart8633]

she is a beautiful person she deserves someone better and treat her like a queen she shouldnt have been dealing with that hope someone treats her with respect.

[@robogreek3157]

Wilkos - folds his laundry and eats a peanuter butter jelly sandwich. Audience - STTTTEEEEVVVVVEEEEE. wilkos - pets his brand new puppy. Audience - AWWWWWWWWWWW. wilkos - flips the bird to a rude McDonald's enlmployee. Audience - WHHHOOOOOAAAAAA

[@kinalo7004]

Me seeing any bald person: STEEEEVVVEEEEEE

[@PanoramicView-o5p]

😂😂😂😂

[@prinnywinny9013]

not true, don’t generalize us all🙄…. anyways, *STEEEEEEEEEEeeeeee*

[@musicandmentalhealth]

@prinnywinny9013 I mean, it's what we're supposed to do. I was right in there front and center 🤣🤣🤣

[@starshine2733]

@@musicandmentalhealth your wife or girlfriend or maybe just some random person your sitting next to lol, idk, either way the woman next to you is gorgeous! and her facial expression at the beginning cracked me up lol

[@GhxstGhost]

I never thought id say this line right here but after seeing how emotionally tired that poor girl looked and the way he treated her I gotta do it. YASSS QUEEN LOVE U GURLL

[@GhxstGhost]

Btw I’m a white male who says things like “let me scoot on right by you” just for some context.

[@ZoeAndHerTales]

I really hope she can move on.

[@pinda0020]

You want to stay with a clown like that and expect respect from it, girl anyone else is better than him.

[@samarascales1210]

She is so hurt and I don’t think she knows it yet , I know she cry in the shower alone . 😔🥺

[@Xx.darkroses]

The way Steve stay he’s clowning her that’s when you know he’s from Chicago haha I love Steve tell him!!!

[@ms.munchkin8264]

What I find unforgivable is that HE feels it is totally acceptable for him to screw around, BUT heaven help if she does the same as him. NO BOY, life don't work like that. YOU don't get a free pass just because you are a guy. DEAL WITH THE REALITY OF AN ADULT RELATIONSHIP!

[@aziabrowder7104]

Good for her walking out the other way I just hope she finds the love she deserves 💕

[@Lee-mo1qf]

Always remember if they always accusing you, then its them that is cheating.

[@trudehunnicutt8214]

If he's been cheating the whole time, he's not likely to stop, especially since she puts up with it. He's a narcissist, it's all about him. RUN!;!

[@amberbrown8174]

Girl he is no good you are making one excuse after another go threw the pain of loosing him and then find true love 😘

[@buddhawagley5564]

Gurl Run Away and Never Return to him

[@Uzumaki_Barrage_]

No amount of “connection” could make me go through this… Even an ounce of this. He says he’s torn up about the thought of her cheating… but is cheating on her.

[@dankdarkqueen3543]

Denial deffination in the dictionary is this poor woman. 😢

[@audd0e]

She’ll be back wit him ona plane 🫤

[@edithgauthier5581]

Do not do to others what you don't want others do to you. !! It is as simple!

[@emerald_skai205]

This is the perfect example of most BM/BW relationships, a repulsive one sided situationship with a degenerate emotionally inept narcissist, and the woman who worships him...BW you deserve better.. you need to have boundaries standards and expectations!

[@NicholeDaysleeper]

EXACTLY!!!

[@curlybeautyblogger]

Not true...this dysfunction is not "the perfect example of most BM/BW relationships". 🙄

[@MarinaRhymin]

@@curlybeautyblogger​⁠​⁠Glad someone said it! The bottom rung of the American socioeconomic ladder is made up of single Black mothers, but I think that has a lot more to do with our long history of oppression and inequality, and how many innocent Black men there are in prison-not to mention poor contraception education in schools-than there actually being a higher concentration of Black narcissists than those of other races. They won’t be taking that one away from White men anytime soon. 😂 (Offended Alt-right folks, don’t bother blasting me, because I won’t waste my time on your venom. I know all of your rhetoric. I grew up a Conservative misogynist until I finally started thinking for myself. There’s nothing you can say to hurt me. 😁) God bless and have a beautiful, bountiful day!

[@susantinnin1662]

All races of women put up with it, I did for seven years after three months I was so much happier couldn't Believe I stay that long

[@emerald_skai205]

@susantinnin1662 stop with this ALL shit...Im talking and speaking about BLACK women... you have your time and this isn't it...

[@ghostkiie]

good lord people , leave each other alone 😭😭 she seems so defeated

[@vonablack2698]

Did she say they were dating since 9 years old? 😅

[@Kaymichelle21]

Yes 😂🤦🏾‍♀️ but I think she meant she’s known him since she was 9.

[@ammietitmore9326]

Just listening to her, she is sad and miserable but she continues to put up with his bs. Our young really need to know their worth. I always told my daughters to know their worth and not to take sh*t off of anyone. It's best to be alone then to deal with this type of sh*t.

[@ninacardona8037]

Devil energy karmic relationship...?..its a devil situation ship.get out while you can

[@evityhalas4745]

She is a beautiful girl.I can't believe this immature guy has used emotional abuse so that he can have his cake and ear it.She should move on.She deserves so much better.

[@kathrinefeinstein2595]

So proud of her

[@krystagray6667]

Steve Wilkos is the father /big brother everyone needs

[@bianca2011d]

Damn it broke my heart to see her pain like that.😢

[@LeeLee-hj7ft]

I ABSOLUTELY love when Steve kicks them off the stage and they actually listen lmaoooo😂😂😂

[@daarnett2x]

Is there just a shortage of men? Not even good men, just men? There is no reason to tolerate this behavior if it makes you unhappy. There is no reason all these women need to be sharing this one man. It is so much better to be single than to put up with men who degrade and devalue you. You can see it in her face that she's broken. I hope she learns to value herself and decides that she needs her heart to burn and beat for herself, not a man. Also, fuck men who keep cheating but cry foul when they think their women are cheating on them. He's a bad person. Men like that are bad.

[@LegendOfMkay]

I love that he can sleep around and be with other women but HER test is what is going to determine the outcome of the relationship 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@jjjonse]

I really hope for her, that she moves on. She says she wants a family. He is not going to give her that and time goes by so fast. Spent your time waiting for him to be ready and before you know it, your time for having kids will run out. Trust me, I live it. Biggest mistake of my life. Choose you, choose the kids you are still able to have. I pray you do!

[@thecleanercurtis4370]

Just a notch in his belt of women....from Australia...this lady is beautiful and worth her weight in diamonds. I hope a smart man has scooped her up...and live happily ever after.

[@darrellsadler2848]

😴I can think of a better word than clown to describe homeboy...and homegirl.

[@jayeb4494]

I wouldn't want to be one of his other chicks. She's scarily in love with him. Exactly how you end up on the news.

[@marcopolo7768]

He has a Jezebel spirit. He wants to oppress her. No one should be made to be anyone's backup plan

[@intensepassion3382]

Ladies stop being toys for these little boys.

[@michelledawkins5127]

🎯

[@Morgans_Mom]

If he's her "soul mate", I'd hate to see how someone that hates her treats her! Y'all need to go Y'alls separate ways! IF NOT, NOTHING WILL EVER CHANGE AND NEITHER OF YOU WILL EVER BE HAPPY!! IMO, this episode and story is a complete WASTE!!!

[@scorpiodoll1101]

He keeps cheating bc he knows she's going to take him back 🙄

[@Urias.family]

Yes!!! I love when they choose themselves!!

[@elizabethirvin9954]

“Id say she dumb, and thats her fault.” , i felt that .. feel so bad for her .. people really dont understand how women love thier men.

[@Nelly728]

Girl at this point let him cheat in peace! You gonna take him back anyways😂

[@brealedorsey]

Them faces he was making got me dead😂💀

[@genysis9598]

Sis, go where you are appreciated and not tolerated 😏. He’s a narcissist. Know your worth and get out.

[@deebojordan7406]

I'm irritated because I just KNOW she went back to him! 😑

[@underscore55]

Yeah this dude was a little paranoid to say the least . But didn’t he take a lie detector test as well ?

[@williamjamesperkins5483]

Nope he said there's no need because he told her everything according to the boy wait he's 34 and still acting immature that right there it's time for him to grow up and grow some balls 😅. If he's not ready to be in a committed relationship than just moved on and stop wasting her time

[@kellymarietarotfamilypets9598]

She’s making excuses for him on everything! If they stay together they will be miserable and not trust each other for the rest of there relationship together! They should just move on and start fresh with someone new!

[@lesliee2k21royal6]

I just said this ❤

[@larhonda567]

He's a poor excuse of a man, a real embarrassment!, She needs to woman up and realize she can do better!💯

[@4444ANDYG]

She's gorgeous n deserves a man ta love her n treat her with respect, honesty n loyalty

[@marcellayox583]

he is right, he isnt the best. this queen deserves so much better. i hope she drops this scrub!

[@khyanni4937]

9 years old?? He’s history…. I hope she dropped him like a bad habit 🙄

[@LeshaFBaby]

She ain't going nowhere wasting our time..other women he deals with laughed and called him when they saw this

[@godfavored5]

Bro gone keep playing and God forbid, he gone be on fatal attraction

[@gummybear-wx1vr]

FIRST CASE: what the hell girl?????? 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@intotheunknown1991]

She looks absolutely exhausted by all this like she's given up trying to change him , it's sad 😢 and he acts like its okay for him to do it and not her !

[@capturedsphinx1154]

Steve you are literally the best KZbinr ever keep up the good work brother we love you bro

[@highlander666]

Its hard to feel sorry for someone who voluntarily lives in misery & dysfunction; she signed up for this and keeps signing up🤷‍♀ I can't imagine wasting my life with such a worthless guy

[@StephanieSallieSings]

Ugh. I couldn’t deal with him. I’m screaming “grow up!” I can’t even finish watching..

[@LilRedBudgets]

It can definitely be hard when you been with someone that long & your first love. I’m with my first love since I was 19, only man I ever been with/slept with & he doesn’t cheat on me thank God & I know so but I couldn’t imagine if he did; especially if the person keeps cheating after you forgave him the first time, I couldn’t live like that; gotta have loyalty.

[@skyyy9603]

she has let this man completely break her down, i can’t even feel bad for her either because she lets it happen. very sad to see.

[@justagirl5534]

Ain't no heart crying and beating for a cheater. He will forever cheat on you baby coz you let him. Your biological clock is ticking waiting for a man to change for you. Love yourself!he's not even that fine to play you like that.

[@BuddahHass2360]

She is the definition of not having a male figure in her life because a real man would not allow his daughter to go through this type of stuff with a dude like him..

[@dcarter4661]

she will be back with him tomorrow. A true fool.

[@kweenataenikk7246]

She's so drained u can see it in her face ❤ I hope she finds someone that deserves her

[@13tinymiraclesreborn]

He’s definitely a narcissist

[@michelledawkins5127]

🎯

[@sona-_-5109]

Great choice!! I wish her all the best! Wait for that true love… never settle. At the very least know this,,, life alone is better than settling. I finally found my love. We both truly love each other. It’s a refreshing change. I delayed it wayyyyy too long giving 🤡 like that guy a chance. Don’t make that mistake.

[@makaylabrooks8908]

This girl needs counseling it’s just a break up 9 years old isn’t old enough to comprehend feelings

[@aaronmuhammad9334]

Girl leave that men fast plz

[@aaronmuhammad9334]

Somebody tag in these, so she could see it

[@cj8803]

Ladies, THIS is what you will look like when you have NO SELF-WORTH! THIS IS NOT LOVE!!!!!!!!! When you let someone treat you like TRASH, they don't love you, and you don't love yourself! When Steve said, "he doesn't really love you", the look in Shamia's eyes told me that hurt like HELL to hear because it's TRUE. But I hope she takes her pain and walks away with dignity to find a man that WILL love her.

[@Femititi100]

She has to love & respect herself more to leave & go where she is appreciated. smh

[@unicorns1959]

She sounds defeated 😢 She needs to kick him to the kerb, she can do so much better than this creep

[@sosobeautiful7]

He nearly said I got love for her and we all know and he does too "I got love for her" does not equate to I love her or I'm in love with her, she needs to leave, I'm still watching though

[@eh-i1841]

Dating at 9 years-old?What knd of craziness is that?

[@diyajones]

For her to say that her dude thinks that everybody wants her, let's face it! She's beautiful!!!! Who wouldn't want her???

[@peacelily7751]

Why does she want to know if he will stop? He wouldn’t.

[@joeymorton4878]

He thinks every women cheats

[@SunGodess2000]

Get it together sis

[@andrejackson5489]

Why do people even come on the show and they already know what they got Just embarrassed of selves