I feel your pain I lost two children everyone say I’m strong I had my bad days also. I keep you in my prayers.
@JRae12 жыл бұрын
Girl.. you are carrying a heavy load. If you're not in therapy, you should start. It's nothing a person that's not a licensed therapist would be able to do to help you deal with your grief. Even if you go just to cry sometimes, I think it's well worth it. Being strong is not a compliment to me. Nobody should have to be this strong, let alone a woman.. much less, a pregnant woman. I'm not a parent but when it comes to dealing with Riley, I think the best thing you can do it keep it real with him. At 8 years old, he can comprehend your sentiments. Sit down & have a long talk to find the root of his misbehavior. Then tell him how you're feeling & how much him misbehaving is affecting you. I think kids are more apt to change when you're direct with them. With all that being said, I feel that you'll be just fine in the long run. You gone look back & wonder how you got so far. But it's just a matter of getting there.. & I believe you will. & you'll find all the answers to all your 'whys' in time. Just stay the course, pooh 💕
@rakenyasmith46962 жыл бұрын
I haven’t lost a child but I do have anxiety and depression. I started going therapy earlier this year to get my feelings out. I have no other release. I don’t drink or smoke. When I don’t want to talk I have a journal where I just write what I’m feeling. My 6 year old has been disrespectful these past couple of weeks. I had to sit him down and ask him what’s going on. His response was he doesn’t get the same attention as the baby( had a baby earlier this year). He also didn’t know how to express himself. He also said he doesn’t like when me and his father yells at him. Needless to say communication is helping. I’m learning to be more patient and communicate in a way he understands.
@TheREALQueenJay2 жыл бұрын
Happy 2nd Heavenly Birthday, Miss Em 😇👑🖤
@MellowCoco2 жыл бұрын
I know this might sound super weird but you are grieving beautifully. Yes you are supposed to grieve and crying is therapeutic so continue to let it out. I absolutely love the real, the raw, and the transparency ❤️ although what happened with Emmy was a very unfortunate event, you are still soo strong and handling this so well. I’m very proud of you Reedy. I’m beyond happy for you with your new blessing. You are very deserving 💚
@tracyharris44202 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your transparency, it will help/save more people that you may realize. As far as Riley, like you said, he may be dealing with the loss of Emmy and don’t know how to express it. If you’re open to it, look into getting him therapy or an outside person you trust to speak with him about his grief. Praying many continued blessings and peace over you and yours 🙏🏾♥️
@tracyharris44202 жыл бұрын
Hi mommy
@zijackson5323 Жыл бұрын
11:57 I distant myself from a lot of people because I’m that friend to reach out and nobody ever reach out to me. I just feel like I fuck with people more than they fuck with me ya know
@naimaelamin6814 Жыл бұрын
I been there before sis, always choose you❤️❤️
@levezmommy Жыл бұрын
Reedy you are soooooo strong 🙏🏾🙏🏾 We love ya girl 💕
@niquejanea50262 жыл бұрын
I lost a little girl at 3 months old last year. I understand your pain that little girl that's inside you is your rainbow baby. I had a baby girl 6 months ago. Its hurtful. Trust me I understand. Be grateful that you have people that check on you care about you. I dont have that anymore everyone is more distant. I also understand your coping, I'm there right with you. Be grateful and thankful I'm telling you. People like me that went through what you went through wish they had a little support. This video helped me understand that I'm not the only one feeling this way.
@evangelamaxwell70012 жыл бұрын
It’s ok you are human and I applaud you for your strength and realness.
@shaquendesjoshua78882 жыл бұрын
Im just seeing this today but I actually Saw you leaving the mall yesterday. Im glad I had the chance to speak to you! You so strong bc I would have never thought you felt down yesterday. Love you my sis 💓
@evangelamaxwell70012 жыл бұрын
I JUST LUV YOU YOUR ENERGY AND MOST OF ALL HOW STRONG YOU ARE. It’s ok to have one of those days 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 you will be ok
@iam4kreations1792 жыл бұрын
Reedy, I truly understand your pain, I lost my son in February 2016, and I still hurt, I still cry, and I miss him everyday! The pain never goes away, I encourage anyone to cry when they need too,
@kaylajnae36232 жыл бұрын
Send you love Reedy 💕💕💕 crying is therapeutic.
@ladytknnr2 жыл бұрын
Crying is good for the soul sweetheart.. God Bless You and I pray for your peace🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@Eth3real2222 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. Crying is therapeutic and seeing you let go allowed me to have a moment of release. Losing a child feels like a moment that can never be healed. Speaking on using alcohol or smoking to cope is sssoooo real. I would say “Stay Strong” but you’ve been doing that, you know how to do that. I hope in the moments the pain is the worst you can find peace in your thoughts to feel peace in your heart. 🌈🤗🥰
Thanks for sharing... I dont know what it's like to lose a child 🙏 but I cried with you as you share with us how your feeling. I pray God continue to cover you and your family and give you the strength to continue doing what your doing for your kids ❤ p.s. I have that same shirt 😍
@aliciaaa_licia2 жыл бұрын
Awww Reedy 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 ❤️❤️ it’s okay to not be okay 😘😘
@niyabands47522 жыл бұрын
With Riley he could be going through something like Emmy just as much as u and what I can say about ur parenting is be less strict bc the more strict the worser they get and even more sneaky and another thing is the strictness can stop a child from telling u things that need to be said bc he’s scared of the way u would react … but sorry reedy that ur going through this better is coming sweetie
@user-rc8wr9of3x2 жыл бұрын
Omg I love you sm Reedy I wish I could just give you an hug I hope you be okay, It’s okay to cry sometimes 🫂!
@jelisatruly53342 жыл бұрын
Grief counseling for the family will help and take alot of pressure off you as well sign Riley up for sports or Marshall arts classes i thin he will like it and it will teach him how to channel his anger
@thatsnelliee9713 Жыл бұрын
Sending love beautiful 💗
@BrittanyCaprice2 жыл бұрын
Yu strong Reedy yu got this 💪🏽
@jmartradio2 жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@darnikamontana16432 жыл бұрын
It's ok to release it...Sending you some ❤
@jameisonvedol45482 жыл бұрын
Reedy ik it's hard I been there before but remember she is not in pain💔💔💔💔💔🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
@PeeMadeFamily2 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy to see you on KZbin ♥️♥️♥️
@AllAboutDinasty2 жыл бұрын
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼you’re strong!
@nakia45192 жыл бұрын
i think riley just doesn’t know how to express his self or school might be boring for him and not challenging.
@cherrymarie8928 Жыл бұрын
I’m just watching & forgetting to like so I had to go back to the first & work my way up
@truefacts10182 жыл бұрын
🙌🏽#reedystrong 🙌🏽 😍You Got This😍
@jelloshots69502 жыл бұрын
Heyyy reee hope all is well......nola love all day....
@sheenasmith3604 Жыл бұрын
💔💔💔
@nwillis60052 жыл бұрын
🧡
@josiescott97092 жыл бұрын
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💚💚💚💚
@eeyy21712 жыл бұрын
IF IT NOT ME IT'S NOT NOT GOOD GOD
@freeality23502 жыл бұрын
I'm crushing on you 😍😍😍
@dirtyredd83702 жыл бұрын
💕🙏🏽💪🏽
@darnikamontana16432 жыл бұрын
Maybe the work isn't challenging enough for him...
@sydb31702 жыл бұрын
🥺🥺😘
@eeyy21712 жыл бұрын
KNOT ☝
@SNOB4LIFEE2 жыл бұрын
💐❤️🥰
@kmoney71882 жыл бұрын
Wussp up you doing snoblfee
@SNOB4LIFEE2 жыл бұрын
@@kmoney7188 lol im ok , just coolin .
@Heavybaby332 жыл бұрын
Reedy i fucking love you girl , like no Homo like dead ass. I’m from New Orleans , and I’m getting the fuck out this place because people out here miserable.. they always try to paint a picture for ppl but don’t even be happy , most of um just not real out here bitches be fake asf but u prove that we do have some real ones in this wicked ass city and I fuck with you for that.. I’m moving out of town in JanuaryStepping out on faith to Pursue my music career And I also want to start KZbin myself so Ima support u til the end my girl u the truth real talk🤞🏾🦾💯