Chemical Pregnancies / Early Miscarriages - What You Should Know. Myths, Differences, & How To Test

As a Doula & Holist Health Practitioner, and after having 8 early miscarriages / chemical pregnancies and 5 full term pregnancies myself, I talk about what you need to know about these early miscarriages - myths, differences, and how to test.

[@BimmerBabe]

I've had 2 and it changed my perception on how much a blessing a healthy pregnancy and baby really is.

[@m0bz0mb39]

I've had four and I'm only 20 years old😭

[@missc4867]

@@m0bz0mb39 how are you feeling now? I've had 2 and I'm 26

[@m0bz0mb39]

@@missc4867 I'm just gonna wait a few more years and try again, thanks for asking

[@missc4867]

@@m0bz0mb39 Praying for you...One day we'll come back here to testify the goodness of God....

[@cruisecontrol7911]

THIS 🙏🏾❤

[@mixedupmrs580]

I just am going through an early miscarriage and just want to thank you for this video. It’s my first pregnancy and getting the response from people that “since it was a chemical pregnancy that should make it easier” hasn’t made it easier. So thank you for giving me the freedom to mourn this loss.

[@WillowWisteria]

Sending you a big hug

[@jthanz87]

my first pregnancy i am experiencing a blighted ovum. they saw a gestational sac and nothing else. i have taken the medicine to help pass the tissue and going on week 3 of bleeding. i cant wait for this to be over, i have cried far too much and what's worse? no one knows this is even happening and i feel so alone.

[@rawasamuel]

@@jthanz87 hey I know this was two years ago but if you can see this..how many weeks were you

[@audreyhoughton6121]

I only knew I was pregnant for about 15 hours before I started miscarrying. It wasn't planned, but in those 15 hours my heart grew in a way I didn't expect. I feel like my heart is broken. But also grateful for the chance to host a little piece of life for that time. I wanted it to work out. Thanks for validating those feelings.

[@WillowWisteria]

I'm so sorry for your loss, Audrey ❤️Send you a big, heart-to-heart hug.

[@JPonce-fo4vo]

I’m so sorry. Those feelings are very real. I hope you’re well today

[@rebeccatafolla6852]

I feel you the doc told me I was pregnant than 6-8 hrs later doctor told me it was probably failing

[@GabyWeast]

I am so sad because this is happening to me right now 😢 i was so happy yesterday and today my happiness is gone 😔 Thankyou for the video!

[@WillowWisteria]

I'm so very sorry, Gaby - I'm sending you a big hug and lots of love.

[@fedoramcclaren4294]

Big hugs...

[@JPonce-fo4vo]

So sorry. I hope you are well today

[@rebeccatafolla6852]

This is helping me too I know this was a while ago but I’m going through this now the waiting is so stressful

[@JordynWithaY]

Gaby Weast i literally went through it yesterday morning, so i feel your pain but we got this 🤍

[@AprilAnnette]

Thank you for validating those of us who have experienced early miscarriages. I miscarried at seven weeks and it was one of the hardest things I went through because of the hope of being a mother. sometime after I watched a youtuber who lost her baby much later and talked about her experience. She pretty much told those who have had early miscarriages that it wasn't the same it just wasn't. I understand she was still grieving but so was I and it hurt that she said that. So thank you for sharing your experiences and I'm sorry that you have experienced so much loss. Our babies are probably playing together in Heaven.

[@WillowWisteria]

Thank you for your comment and I'm so very sorry for your loss. It put a smile on my face thinking of our little ones playing together in heaven - yes, I'm sure they are :) Sending you a big hug.

[@AprilAnnette]

@@WillowWisteria Thank you so much! I do want to say and I don't know why I didn't before but after that miscarriage we were blessed with two more. I started looking up videos because I just took a pregnancy test two days ago along side LH tests and I got a very faint positive now it looks like it's fading. So I'll so testing and wait until Sunday.

[@Realshugarbaby]

As soon as I ever saw the second lines on my pregnancy tests, I loved my children. You picture them as a baby. As a toddler. As a child. As a teen, and an adult, and then all those persons are gone forever at the same time. It hurts as hell. Going through it right now while my best friend just found out she's gonna give birth right after I would have. Like a few days. And I'm dying.

[@shrekoncetoldme6775]

I've had 2 miscarriages in a row. Currently miscarrying my wonderful twins... it is horrible. They're both early, under 8 weeks. My 3 sweet babies. Never ever forgotten.

[@aleesharenea8565]

I'm so Sorry😞😞😞😞

[@MsFlamingFlamer]

I’m so sorry. 🙏🏾

[@AlaskanSons]

I needed this. I'm currently in the midst of a early miscarriage, when I called the Clinic for bloods they kept telling me because I was under 25 they wouldn't declare it a pregnancy, but a chemical pregnancy. I went in Monday (its now Wednesday) had a ultrasound done and clearly saw a 5 week 4 day gestational sack that sadly appeared lifeless. I waited all day Tuesday to be called about the ultrasound and when I finally got ahold of someone they again told me "well your aren't pregnant now so idk what you want us to do". My heart just broke. They never once would acknowledge the fact that at one point my womb held life no matter how short or brief. It would have been my 6th child had it come to term. It is now my 14th loss, and my husbands 10th loss. The grief doesn't get easier just because you have children on earth it just makes it harder Because you know exactly what your missing. I'm beyond blessed and grateful for my 4 sons and 1 daughter but I'll always pine over my unborn sons and daughters wondering what their smiles would have looked like, their giggles sounded like and the sweet smell of their sweet little baby neck after a long nap, the feeling of their little feet fidgeting under the blankets trying not to fall asleep and their tiny little hands clasped around my neck. I'm always going to want and miss my babies no matter how small they were when they left this world. 5 weeks of 12 weeks is dosnt matter I still loved them deeply. ❤

[@lostinaworldofpeople1993]

Thank you very much for this video I'm going through a miscarriage right now found out I was pregnant on the 20th went to the hospital on the 25th for bad cramps and mild bleeding found out my hcg was to low for 5 weeks pregnant. What sucks the most is I've been trying for 10 months to get pregnant finally got my miracle baby and within 5 days my baby turned into an angel. Now I'm so scared that this will happen again but I'm not gonna give up trying. My deepest condolence to you this 1 miscarriage has gotten me so down i couldn't imagine 8 of them,so I'm so sorry for all your loss as well!

[@marianalodi4882]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m going through the same right now, miscarrying at 5 weeks. Found out I was pregnant on 9/12. Started spotting on 9/20 and it progressively got worse from then. Got tested for hcg levels and it was at a 7 😩. I was so disheartened and just can’t stop crying for the past 3 days. Even with all of my husband’s love and support, I still feel so alone.i never though I could feel this much pain and sorrow. I’m terrified of going through this again. Let’s just hope for the best next time.

[@lesliewade7276]

My husband and I found out we were pregnant in September 2017, then lost it in October. Dr told us it had basically stopped developing as soon as it started. The day after Christmas 2017 we found out we were expecting again. We got to see it and hear it's heartbeat. You can actually see it move on the video we took. But the heartbeat dropped and we lost it in January 2018. Last month (the week before Thanksgiving), we found out we were pregnant for the 3rd time. 2 days later we found out we were losing it. So I was miscarrying throughout the week of Thanksgiving 2019. And we just found out on Friday I'm pregnant again! I'm excited, but trying not to set myself up for disappointment. It's so tempting to go out and get all the cute baby stuff. I keep checking to see if there's any blood. So far so good. On Saturday at about 5:30 hcg was 40. Monday at about 3:30 it was 73. Didn't quite double, but it wasn't even 48 hours either. I don't know. I'm excited but cautious. And still can't believe we're pregnant again, and so soon!

[@lesliewade7276]

One thing I've found helps me is we name them. Since we've never known their gender we pick gender neutral names. They all have a frame with their name on it on the wall. 1st one has like a plaque we had personalized. 2nd one has the ultrasound photo. 3rd one just has 3 positive tests. It helps to see "yes they were here, they existed!"

[@rosea164]

Any updates?

[@chelseabrown8273]

I don’t know exactly when mine happened but it was confirmed that I was no longer pregnant on October 9th . I took my first pregnancy test on September 16th and it was a very faint positive, this was two days after my period was supposed to start. I started bleeding two days later . After that , my tests stayed faint and didn’t get darker until I got a positive digital test on sept 28th . After that , the tests started to fade again and my symptoms disappeared over the next few days . I just knew I was no longer pregnant . Over the whole ordeal, I got three blood tests , my first one was below 5 , the next was 9, & the highest was 13 . My heart has been in such an awkward place over the past two weeks . This video has given me a lot of clarity and I give you all my love and support for your losses . I’m still learning how to grieve because this was my first pregnancy.

[@naaalla]

Thank you for this video. I had an early miscarriage in June and still trying to conceive. Took me several times to watch, but thank you for the comforting words and acknowledging that chemical pregnancy is still a pregnancy (which seems doctors just ignore and say it was not a “real pregnancy”). But in my heart I know I was. I’m sorry for your losses!! Much love to you!

[@WillowWisteria]

I'm so sorry for your loss! Thank you for writing :) Much love to you as well!

[@candicerueda5691]

I just had one 4 months ago and I want to thank you for sharing this. I didn't want to talk about it for a while and now I feel better. I hope we both have happy and healthy pregnancies here shortly.

[@carlymancilla6390]

Hello, I don’t really know what to say but it felt like I was alone when I went through this just a couple days ago I had this happen and I had taken 3 pregnancy test and had the symptoms with it. Only a couple of days after that I started bleeding a lot and cramping. My doctor finally told me that this was very common and that I had a chemical pregnancy. I had no idea what it was and I cried when I found out I was no longer pregnant. I’m young and word spread that I was pregnant all across my work so I was kinda devastated when i just had to tell everyone that I was not pregnant. This gave me lots of comfort and made me feel as if I was no longer alone. It was hard enough to go through this alone once, but to go through this over 8 times... you are so strong and inspiring. I really do thank you for making this video and sharing it with others. -with lots of love, Carly

[@ValeG]

So sad but only God knows why. At least you have a kindergarten waiting for you in heaven 🙏🏼 I believe as soon as there was conception there was a soul there, God bless!

[@aeee7930]

Thank you for doing this video. I was 4 weeks and yesterday miscarried. It is heartbreaking and the doctors when I was getting my ultrasound didn't help. How they said that I am not carrying a baby sounded as if I was lying, or miscalculated or delusional. Even my hcg blood test showed low, not pregnant levels. But I have 7 pregnancy test in 3 different brands, both line and digital all showing positive results! No matter what, I know I was pregnant and lost it too soon.

[@goofygoober4eva]

This just happened to me today as well. I had so many positive pregnancy tests and lost my pregnancy today at 4 weeks. I went to urgent care and the doctor made me feel like I was crazy!! She was so cold and not sensitive to what I was feeling at all. You are not alone! ❤️‍🩹

[@aeee7930]

@@goofygoober4eva I'm sorry to hear that this has happened to you too. Hopefully we will both have our rainbow babies soon! 🙏

[@stephanielee5209]

4 miscarriages between 6.5 - 10 weeks and 1 chemical that happened this week. Although the chemical pregnancy was not as physically painful as the other loses, it was still emotionally hard. I hope you have went on to have a healthy pregnancy.

[@courtneycrain776]

I am glad you mentioned breastfeeding and that being your issue. I have had 3 losses since my daughter(22 months old) was born and I have been told by 3 doctors that her breastfeeding is not an issue at all. I have a known history of low progesterone so I am surprised not one of those doctors mentioned that it could be the cause.

[@romulusthemainecoon3047]

My husband and I just started on our journey to TTC and I will come back to this video if something happens. Thank you for your kind words and informative video!

[@queenk9017]

Your voice and words were so soothing, thank you. I pray that you have gotten your rainbow baby by now...

[@WillowWisteria]

Thank you for your kind words :) I am currently 24 weeks pregnant with my rainbow baby 💕

[@freezecheeze]

I’ve had 2, the first I was in horrendous pain and at the time I described it as the “heaviest period I’ve ever had” to my classmate and she said “it sounds like you had a miscarriage” and then I remembered I took a test a few days earlier and saw the faintest line ever and thought it might’ve just been a faulty test. The second one I remember having a feeling I got pregnant on Valentine’s Day, and then on the 26th of feb I just started bleeding and the bleeding didn’t stop for 3 whole weeks, my doctor referred me for an ultrasound but they didn’t see anything, she said if I was it was before two weeks. The second one was harder to process than the first and I’m not sure why, maybe the fact i was reminded of it everyday for 3 weeks - they were both never “confirmed” but I knew in my heart that’s what had happened.

[@korynnhill4793]

Thank you!! I just experienced your last miscarriage- nausea for 5 days and then a period!!! I thought I was going insane- my “period” came 15 days early...as soon as I started bleeding the nausea slowly stopped. Thanks for sharing! I’m gonna check my progesterone ❤️

[@ZanePatricia]

were you pregnant?

[@mommyqueen4260]

I just went through a chemical and my fiancee had no emotion at all he said I'm sorry for your loss as if it's MY loss and not his then on top of that when they said hcg was found in my blood a few days before my loss when i told him he said Awwww like a kid at toys r us that can't get the toy they want. Like the fact that he reacted with no care I thank God because in the future i know now i will NOT have any children with him .

[@kimberleyfuente3901]

Mommy Queen , I’m not saying how he acted was right. But my husband acted the same way with our second. If not less. But when we actually had our baby , he was beyond happy & is such a great father to him! Also they don’t grow a bond instantly like we do. They’re growing in us for 9months. We’re naturally bonded to them. But the fathers are a tad bit different, they have to build the bond with their baby’s.

[@mphomolapo1562]

Backing up what Nicole is saying. Even the most involved, loving father can have "confusing" reactions for us. My husband is literally the best, but he didn't even bond with our 1st properly until she was 4mo old and staying awake. **Yeah, He took care of her and was a great parent--but that special bond took a little longer.** He loved her the same throughout, but I only saw it the way I expected to when she was older. To you, your fiancé had a very hurtful & confusing reaction.. to him, the gravity might strike when you have a baby he interacts with. Just give him some time and dont be too hasty. *Good luck!*

[@angelinajannae3848]

Not sure why the other comments are defending your hopefully EX fiancé, but a partner should always be supportive. So what he’s a “man” it’s not an excuse for him to respond so coldly! I’m going through a chemical pregnancy and my bf was ssooo excited when he found out we had a positive pregnancy test just for me to start miscarrying the next day. Get you a man who’s on 👏 your👏 side👏 !!

[@sugabay]

Sorry you had to go through that , I went through this to my ex fiance didn't even say sorry or care at all, when I would cry he said I was crying over a two min sperm, I was 6 weeks

[@sugabay]

@@angelinajannae3848 I was about to say the same thing

[@shannethsanchez349]

I just experienced this, this week. My husband and I were so excited. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@autahassan143]

Hey I know of a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped me my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful🔲

[@stephanieschultz1361]

This video is seriously a Godsend. I had no problem getting pregnant and keeping my 2 children but they were 4 years apart and now that my son is 9 months old I’ve had 2 miscarriages and I have been completely broken up about them bc we want to have more children now that we are in a more stable place in life and I’m still nursing my son... I’m praying that that is all that is wrong. I still start blood work next week though. Thank you for making this 🙏

[@autahassan143]

Hey I know of a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped me my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful🔲

[@stephanieschultz1361]

@@autahassan143 by the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ I am carrying my 3rd child almost to term now. I suggest you anoint the children you both got from the devil with holy oils from a born again Christian. These children will bring destruction for they were bore from destruction. Pray over them without ceasing every single day. God bless you I will keep you in my prayers

[@sammyrichards676]

I’m going through this now. My progesterone is only one. It was an unplanned pregnancy but I’m still devastated. It made me realise that I do want a third child. So hard still having symptoms though

[@shelbywatts8834]

After being told at 14 I would never have children due to PCOS and Endometriosis, I got pregnant. I'm going through an early miscarriage right now and my heart is shattered. Thank you for making me feel like this was real, as the doctor dismissed it like it was just... nothing. "Keep trying", and I will but it wasnt nothing. I was so excited. I had symptoms, the pregnancy tests were getting darker, then lighter and lighter. I'm completely heart broken.

[@WillowWisteria]

Sending you a big hug, Shelby ❤️

[@bk4eva_876]

Thank you for this video. Definitely needed to hear it. Because it happens so early, I feel very alone, and in my feelings. I can’t seem to get out of my own head. Second early miscarriage in 1 year. I’m glad to know there is hope.

[@WillowWisteria]

Sending you a big hug, Angie. You're not alone

[@dmd6177]

I enjoyed this video thank you soo much . I recently had a chemical pregnancy, I am soo discouraged and have guilt right now ......

[@lupitamelissa23]

I’m just had one !!!! I’m so sad 😞 I was very excited for this baby !!!

[@earthamiya4391]

Going through this now with my first after 9 days. Thank you for this video. You seem like such a lovely person.

[@ljaycee]

This is the best video on youtube related to CP and EM. Thank you for your transparency❤️

[@caseyroller3918]

I appreciate this so so so much. Thank you. This video truly has helped me. I had a chemical pregnancy/early miscarriage a couple of weeks ago and it was so scary because it was our first time trying and we are so young. It makes me hopeful to know that you have had healthy pregnancies after these and you are able to talk about it now. Thank you. 💕

[@caseyroller3918]

Also, your explanation was extremely helpful.

[@ChiquititoTV]

Thank you for this video. I just experienced a chemical pregnancy and this really helped me process what is happening to me.

[@brookejohnson6423]

Thank you for this video. People where marking feel stupid because I was so sad about losing this pregnancy. I have never had this happy before. This video has helped me so much. Thank you.

[@isneemarie841]

I’ve had two already... it’s so frustrating. We’ve been trying for our first and it hurts so much, I want to be a mom so bad.

[@christinar2039]

Wishing you well.

[@lysabenlow]

my goodness .. thank you so much for this video , I’m going though my second chemical pregnancy . My first was in December 2017 which I think was farther along than the one in currently going through .. I have yet to have my miracle/rainbow baby but still keeping hope alive. I felt dumb for feeling sad because everyone keep saying “ a chemical pregnancy doesn’t really count “ but you make me feel like it’s okay to grieve this loss.

[@WillowWisteria]

Sending a big hug your way, Alyssa. You give yourself all the time and space you need to grieve.

[@FizzyliciousASMR]

Your video is so helpful to me today. I was on the cusp of wondering whether I was having a chemical pregnancy or not and then I started bleeding this afternoon literally before I had the chance to finish the tail end of your video. I was avoided both by my primary care doctor as well as my gynecologist who is going to confirm my pregnancy about a month from now. He said they don’t use progesterone on natural conception, only IVF, which I’m like that’s not true. I literally just watch a video (this one!) where progesterone was used, even though there was natural conception. And then he basically invalidated my feelings by saying “we worry about miscarriages, but we also worry about false positive pregnancy tests”. I had pregnancy tests positive from 10 DPO to 15 DPO and my normal luteal phases are only are 12 days… I feel so sad that I wasn’t more supported. I’m gonna have to find me a naturopath and integrative or functional OB who will listen to me. Thank you again so much for your kind, spirited and nurturing video. ❤️❤️

[@skymall8049]

Thanks so much for this video. I was looking for a story like this to relate to and I came across urs. Thanks again. I had a miscarriage at 9 week. I was excited and looking forward to welcoming that little one. I was heart broken but God is Great and he knows best. His time is always the right time. I'm trying again, praying for a miracle. I'm having a few symptoms nothing major. It could be nothing or something. Will be taking a ETP this weekend. Fingers crossed.

[@kyiasalts9812]

Thank you for this video. I just learned what these were from going through my first one and this video helped give me some peace. It was very informational in a loving way that made it easier to understand and consume than google. Thank you for making a difference and helping people ❤️

[@danicablue5587]

Thank you so much for this video. It has been a blessing. We have had multiple chemical pregnancies while trying for our baby, so far no viable pregnancies. It is a relief to hear someone speak on the matter so thoughtfully and with compassion. Blessings to you.

[@WillowWisteria]

Thank you for your kind comment. I'm so very sorry for your losses. Sending you strength and love on your journey to meeting your baby. Blessings to you as well :)

[@jessicab2596]

Thank you for this video! Me and my long time boyfriend have been trying to conceive since nov 2017, In the beginning of oct 2018 my period was 8 days late and i got 6 positive HPT and 2 neg. Had some pregnancy symptoms like nausea (no sickness)heartburn,burping, hungry, moody, sleepy, a bit of heightened smell. No breast tenderness tho. I went to a clinic and the pregnancy test they gave me was neg. I had one blood test that was at 53 hCG and 2 days later it was 15 hCG. a day later i had my "period" (normal ,light to heavy bleeding) which lasted 5 or 6 days, no major cramps. I realized everything i had researched pointed to a chemical pregnancy and this video really hit the nail on the head and just what i needed to hear. My boyfriend took the loss harder than me. I tend to find the positive in negative situations. I was just happy it didn't happen later in the pregnancy. SO THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU FOR THIS.

[@liubovdias7647]

The way you speak is so elaborate and so well explained … thank you so much for this !

[@autahassan143]

Hey I know of a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped me my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful🔲

[@ashleywhitton7191]

Thank you so much for this video 🙏 I've been searching for a straight forward explanation for 2 weeks now. I just did another test since having 2 positives 2 weeks ago and it came up negative. I was so confused because i have never even heard of this before as this is my first positive. don't know how to feel right now but, Bless you for giving me some peace and understanding xxx much love 😙

[@kureijisama7896]

What happened then plz tell me I have face same problem are u pregnant or not

[@juliahall4359]

This video was so informational and helpful. Thank you for sharing your experience!

[@rachaelkirby3467]

We were trying for years for our third baby, I got pregnant in August 2018, 23rd August positive test, miscarried on 25th August . I was 6 weeks along. Didn't even get chance to tell my family. To this day only me and my husband know what happened. I just couldn't face the negative comments and the oh my god! Reactions I knew I'd get. I'm a lady in my fourties who has longed for a daughter all my life, having two sons both grown up, one with disabilities and a lot of problems so it meant another baby would be well down the road or not at all. We still have hope but its dwindling now so this is our last month trying fingers crossed.

[@hkmamacmd428]

or you can adopt

[@rachaelkirby3467]

CA_Gizelle we have decided to foster, all going well so far.

[@gwenscott535]

I had a chemical pregnancy many years ago. I am just now learning what happened, my doctor was clueless, but I had a positive at home and at the doctors office. then at the five month ultra sound no baby. But we grieve it is natural,. I even found myself grieving the loss of my hip bone when I had replacement surgery. As human we feel loss nothing wrong with that emotion.

[@WillowWisteria]

So true - I'm so for your losses. I'm not sure why people think that it's wrong to mourn... Or tell others that something 'isn't a big deal', when it clearly hurts our hearts. Giving ourselves the space to *feel* is the only way that we can own our emotions and experience our human-ness. Thanks for your comment, Gwen.

[@skyemorgan6318]

I feel this 100% if you’ve had many, you’re guarded. That’s facts

[@aem166]

Saturday 20/ 06/2020 I’ve found out I’m pregnant on 9th May 2020 I did have blood test , confirmed, I’m started to bleed on the 6th of June 2020, on the 8th I went into an early pregnancy unit for a vagina scan they said I was too early n they found a bulb of blood there but can’t see anything else so they would like to see me in 2 weeks time which is on 22nd June 2020. Since I left the hospital my bleeding got worse like flowing period with no cramping no contractions no pain no clotting just bright red blood in the loo. Since then I’ve had tested 4 pregnancy tests n they are negatives no 2 lines no pregnant words just Not Pregnant to no dance show I’m now thinking oh well it is what it is I’m no longer excited I’m still feeling pregnant n still bloated my pregnancy symptoms are running through me normal . Anyway I can’t wait for this Monday coming for my rescan for reassurance peace ✌️ of mind ..your videos was uploaded in 2018 n it was great video. I’ll see you on Monday . Part 2 for an update ( who’ cares lol) yep I did have a miscarriage on the 9th of June went for rescan asses viability today 22nd June 2020 is to found out I’m completely miscarriage 😔😔😔

[@Realshugarbaby]

Going through one right now. Tested positive for 8 days and now it's fading. My best friend just announced that she's pregnant and she will give birth a few days after I would have. I'm dying.

[@autahassan143]

Hey I know of a spell caster that can help you manifest children into your womb in less than 2weeks,he helped me my sis and my aunt. He can help you with twins or triplet,he is so powerful🔲

[@bequita1818]

@@autahassan143 I know someone better, Jesus Christ! He knows all your desires. Take all your concerns and worries and lay them at his feet. He will take care of you! 💗💜💗💜💗

[@KateBerry]

I don’t struggle getting pregnant but holding onto them is a problem. I got pregnant last month and then bled and just had another this month. I’m sure I have low progesterone so I’m off to the doctors. I had a missed miscarriage in 2016 which was devastating but these early losses have really gotten me down. Thank you for this video! Xxx

[@reanz19]

I just experienced this and it's so heart breaking coz we really wanted and waited for this! Friday we went to the hospital did some tests and said that i was pregnant. That night i had spotting so we called the ER and they said its normal and don't be panic. But Saturday noon time I started to bleed so we ran to the hospital and urine test turned negative and hcg level became 13.7. :'( in just 24hrs happiness turned into sadness 😢

[@Bestfledermaus]

Breastfeeding as well, i started to think that is the reason. I started testing very early on only 5 days after but had lines. I did not even want to be pregnant but when you are it is different and now i go through a lot of emotions

[@kaitlynanda6501]

Wow this is a great video. Thank you for putting this out there. ❤️

[@msshoepergirl]

Thanks for sharing willow! It was hard altho it was just 5 weeks pregnancy.. thanks for the explaination and encouragement! Really appreciate it!

[@faidraa3847]

Thank you for this video... I've had similar experiences but unfortunately the health system here in the UK is not very supportive when it comes to early miscarriage. I had suspected the fact I'm still bf (& plan to continue) my 2 1/2yo in addition to my age were causing my progesterone levels to be low. Unfortunately I have no way of testing and confirming this until I've had 3 miscarriages that are at least 8 weeks along. I hope you and everyone that hopes for a healthy full term pregnancy has their dream come true and everyone that has suffered a loss gets the support they need and deserve ❤️

[@laurenhuson7822]

I had a miscarriage in December just gone at 5 weeks and I just got a positive at 6 dpo 3 days ago and now the tests are getting lighter so I’m expecting the same I’m heartbroken I have healthy soon to be 3 year old daughter river it took me 7 years to conceive her so I’m grateful for her the hard thing is I’m still holding on to hope 😫🙏

[@pinkchocolate305]

Thank you for sharing. I think I had a miscarriage about a month ago but I'm not even sure I was actually pregnant. It's so weird. My SO tells me that I did but I'm unsure. It's interesting that you mentioned not drinking water for three hours because I didn't test until late and when I did test it was midday and I had just finish drinking 40oz of water and eating ice. I peed about three times in a two hour span. The third time is when I tested. It was negative. However, I had the food cravings(Doritos inside on my ice cream), food aversions, nausea, certain smells would make me nauseous, bad pain in my lower back, etc.. During a pelvic exam, my doctor noticed my uterus was enlarged so she ordered an ultrasound. She said it may be a fibroid or cyst but there's definitely something embedded in the lining of my uterus (according to the ultrasound results). I bled the following week then had a hysteroscopy and biopsy. There's was a little scar tissue but absolutely nothing there. Whatever they saw on the ultrasound is gone. All of the "symptoms" I had are gone. My body feels normal again. Again, it's so weird.

[@melodytaporco4133]

Thank you for this video, i know it has helped so many of us understand such a devastating loss

[@Rubiidubiduu]

Thank you for this video. It made me feel not alone

[@jant3]

Thank you. Ive had a lot of questions after my miscarriage.

[@jadelinford6869]

I went through a chemical miscarriage in May and it hurts so much then found out I'm pregnant in my next ovulation and still am now but that worry and that I can't relax every pain I'm scared everytime I go toilet I'm looking it's so true how much it can affect you to have a loss and then fall pregnant again. thankyou for the video

[@justagirlart9772]

Hope you and baby are healthy 🙏🏻

[@rainbowyellow7348]

Last night I had very strong pain and I lost my 5 weeks pregnancy. My test is negative right now. It was positive a week ago. I had one healthy pregnancy and I have a 4 year old daughter. When I see her now I realise how blessed I was to have such an easy pregnancy a give birth to a healthy baby. I want to try again right away, but I am scared. Maybe I should test my hormones first. What to do? I dont want to lose another baby.

[@anderlynnbess6229]

I'm literally going through the same thing. I have an almost 4 year old, took 4 pregnancy tests and they all have faint lines. I started bleeding today and in my heart I know we lost the baby. I'm a little apprehensive about trying again.

[@karineill7132]

I just had a chemical and had to advocate for myself as a nurse and put myself on progesterone bc I felt in my gut that was the culprit.

[@jessietang6856]

Trying for a second kid and lost my baby today. I'm most disjointed when I told my family (a mistake that I will never do again) and their reaction was - YOU WERE NEVER PREGNANT. YOU WERE JUST LATE ON YOUR PERIOD. So I came here to find support and reading all you guys made me feel much better than those I thought were closest to me.

[@WillowWisteria]

I’m so very sorry for your loss. Sending you a big, empathetic hug.

[@jessietang6856]

@@WillowWisteria thank you for creating this!

[@cruisecontrol7911]

😳

[@jhefjfkfjdksjsj]

Jami Hope My first pregnancy was healthy and she’s almost 2 now. I had my first miscarriage in mar and got pregnant again in July i had a chemical (bled a week later ) and then august (this month) we got pregnant again (ended in another chemical)but i bled the next day . I’m praying we have our rainbow soon!! I asked them if they could check my progesterone this time And she said no? They didn’t seem concerned being we had a healthy baby the first pregnancy. Sooo idk i guess I’m going to pray our next pregnancy will be full term!!

[@Bestfledermaus]

Fuck them get second opinion or simply ask them for checking something else and fill in progesterone on the form too (that’s how i used to test everything) GL

[@hannahvelier]

I just lost our first baby 3.5 weeks ago… I tested two days before my period and lost it two days after it should’ve come. Absolutely heartbreaking.

[@zaarakhan5727]

I can relate to every single word.

[@jocilynharris6960]

I had one chemical pregnancy. A 9 week and 10 week miscarriage in the same pregnancy. And no living children.

[@annahendrick8472]

I had missed 2 days of my period that was 9/5/19 took a blood test becuase I was feeling some symptoms and wasnt feeling well and got a level of 6 and got re tested on Tuesday on 9/9/19 and it had dropped to a 4 and two days later i started to miscarrage and currently going through it, it's very devastating.

[@brittanygarrow6085]

Thank you for this... I got off my birth control and have had positives 3 months in a row and started bleeding.. 💔

[@MsCuddlequeen]

Thank you for this video.

[@chelle2093]

This was so helpful thank you, I may or may not be going through a chemical pregnancy at the moment.. Hoping I’m not 🤞

[@DifferentKindofGlam]

Ive had 3. And because of my previous two, i was able to catch the third one.

[@saidamohamed183]

I had my embryo transfer on March 13/20/20 I took my pregnancy test on March 20, 2020 and after couple minutes here it comes to my big fat posstive pregnancy I was very happy teardrops in my eyes couldn’t stop the trears in my eyes and the a week later I toke another pregnancy test and it was a nagative my world crashed into pieces so was my pregnancy a loss 😢😢😢

[@onemomslife7792]

Thanks for the video ! I love your jewelry btw. Super pretty

[@jessr15929]

I had a early misscarriage at about 7 weeks in January ‘22. It was an unexpected pregnancy because I do not use any protection. It broke my heart when I miscarried the sac😢.

[@ashlynneroy6042]

I’m going though this now I got a positive test then I got a lighter one then negative then I started bleeding all over just a few days

[@Sydnee_Armstrong]

Thank you so much for this! ❤️

[@shazanakhan9807]

This ia heartbreaking i have been planning my pregnancy, getting healthy, destress etc, thia baby was wanted and loved. My 4yo always asking for a sibling. Ive had a chemical miscarriage over 2 weeks ago. I am trying agin tho as im not getting any younger, time is crucial ❤

[@ladywoodford1]

Sorry to say i had the same thing happen again , this time i got my first positive urine at 9 dpo and then several , about 8 positive urine to include a digital test that said yes . Three days late for my cycle and then all of a sudden started bleeding. Went again to the ER and blood work said negative. I’m so confused. And highly disappointed! When i talk to people my dr my Er doctor , even s pastor and they y’all to me as if I’m Crazy ! St this point I’m discouraged!

[@WillowWisteria]

I'm so very sorry! This is so hard to go through. I would have your OB do bloodwork to see if your progesterone levels are okay. Many times reoccurring early miscarriages like what you are experiencing are due to low progesterone levels and can be easily remedied. Again, I am so sorry - sending you a big hug.

[@BimmerBabe]

im here with you on this one sis. currently having my 3rd. had one last month too. its stressful and lonely because no one understands or wants to believe you because its "soo early". we will continue to be strong and keep faith

[@Nellierg]

I’ve had 4 and I’m still childless. Feeling hopeless.

[@angelinajannae3848]

Don’t lose hope 💖

[@dri_driella1227]

Just experienced this for the second time. I miscarried on Nov 26 I had the same things. Getting sick and everything dizzy and all before I even had a + test. I had positive digital test and everything but for me I actually waited until after I missed my period. the other two miscarriages were missed miscarriages I was around 10 weeks had to get a D&C and the other time I was almost 9 weeks.. 4 miscarriages in total. I get pregnant but can’t hold them. Doctors said I have a genetic disorder for Down syndrome so I produce pregnancies with trisomy 21 but it’s weird because I have two kids no abnormality issues at all didn’t even have high risk pregnancies.

[@nixhardy9946]

Thank you for this video , ive just experienced my first pregnancy and first loss also , I was 5 weeks along and I'm sure it was a chemical also

[@autahassan143]

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[@nixhardy9946]

@@autahassan143 thanks but no thanks , just had my rainbow baby 5 weeks ago

[@MommyandMelanie]

Pretty sure I’m having one now. My lines are so faint and my period is 6 days late. They have been getting lighter since yesterday. I’m still breastfeeding my 11 month old daughter so I think that has something to do with it. I’m also getting a few migraines the past week which always happens before I start my period.

[@MommyandMelanie]

Just started bleeding.

[@MommyandMelanie]

Did you start progesterone while breastfeeding or did you have to completely wean to get pregnant? If you completely weaned, how many cycles between stopping breastfeeding and getting pregnant did it take?

[@dilaniperera3926]

Current situation. I'm so sad right now

[@WillowWisteria]

Sending you a big hug. I’m so sorry

[@courtneyvogel4745]

I'm going thru this now. My husband and I have been trying to conceive for 10 months. On Tuesday I felt pregnant. I took a test and it was definitely positive. My RE had me continue my progesterone suppository and tested my HCG. Although it was on the low end it was positive. On Friday they retested and my HCG is down to 2. I'm devastated. When should I have my progesterone tested?

[@kara6134]

Thank you, I’m having one right now and am a total mess. The heavy bleeding and massive clotting makes me more upset. I just want it to stop so I can move on.

[@WillowWisteria]

Oh I'm so sorry, Kara. I empathize and wish I could give you a big hug.

[@Raven-harden]

I had a chemical miscarriage on September 28th 2018

[@miriam8a1]

Me on September 28, 2019

[@faithperry6485]

I just had a miscarriage where the line wasn't getting any darker pluss the digital said pregnant but the uterous was not where it was suppose to be so I was prepared but I was sad for a week but I am better but I was told I could try again as soon I have a negative pregnancy test.

[@LindsayC33]

i had a miscarriage at 9/10 weeks about 3 months ago. i had a d&c. i’m currently 3-4 weeks pregnant and i’m terrified.

[@alethashaye5773]

I have had multiple early miscarriages within the past two years. It sucks.

[@Yakumoki]

At around 12dpo I had nausea crazy for about 3 days and faint positive pregnancy test but then day 4 the nausea tapered off and the test wasnt getting much darker. The following day I had brown spotting and cramps which I excitedly thought was implantation bleeding.. I had cramps back pain and spotting for 5 days constantly before getting my period. I felt so disappointed that I was so hopefully and happy seeing the positive test although faint. Hoping this time it goes well but I'll try to hold off testing early.

[@Rubiidubiduu]

I needed these words

[@fusebaby983]

I took 3 tests in September and they all came back positive, but a couple days later I started spotting and then began to bleed like a normal period... I have been trying since I was 17, I'm turning 21 in a month. I was deviated when my pregnancy symptoms started to fade and the next couple of tests were getting even more faint.

[@kaylahudnall7404]

Thank you so much for this video. I’m going through this now for the first time

[@WillowWisteria]

Sending you a big hug, Kayla.

[@gingersnap3024]

I was told they were just evaporation lines

[@WillowWisteria]

Evaporation lines are faint, non-colored lines that come up after the allotted time to properly read a pregnancy test. They are very different than a positive as positives show up in the correct time frame and have the same color dye as the control line. Usually you are supposed to read a pregnancy test within 5-10 minutes, depending on the test. After that time, sometimes a dent or grey line will appear, especially on cheap tests. If you get multiple positive pregnancy tests and miss your period, then you are pregnant - Early miscarriages and chemical pregnancies can then happen. All of my chemical pregnancies / early miscarriages happened after multiple positives, including on digitals, and then they delayed my period by a number of days or weeks. If you are concerned about evaporation lines, only read your pregnancy tests in the time frame on the instructions and then toss them after that.

[@Ruby-gq5pr]

@@WillowWisteria Did your chemicals cause late period? I’m nearly a wk late now after chemical (17dpo)and wondering what is happening. Also I get days of light positives, then days of stark white negative, then it comes back stronger (lines) then fainter again. Ahh messing with my head. I just want my period to come. How long do you get lines for if it’s a very early chemical?

[@paigeheinen6720]

Thank you so much for this video. I believe I had/am going through a chemical pregnancy right now. I'm just not sure because I've not had any bleeding

[@WillowWisteria]

One of mine took a while to start bleeding - like 2 weeks after my tests started to fade. If you don't start within a couple weeks, I would go see a medical professional to see what's going on. Sending you a big hug - I'm so sorry that you are going through this.

[@MandaLynW143]

I just got an early pregnancy test. I’m not even 4 weeks. I’m so scared for miscarriage

[@capriciaburnette1849]

Was ur positive line really faint?

[@MandaLynW143]

@@capriciaburnette1849 yes but it got darker and darker! I’m now 7 weeks

[@Bia_3514]

I've had 7 so far and today marks my 8th.. I feel as if the universe is really telling me something 😔

[@WillowWisteria]

I’m so sorry. Sending you a big hug, my friend. I’ve had 22 early miscarriages & 1 ectopic... and I just left my 20 week ultrasound with a very healthy baby boy. Please don’t lose hope ❤️