Chemistry and Attraction are Important 🔥

"Chemistry and attraction are important 🔥
Repost from @jillianturecki
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But when the chemistry is so strong that we lose our minds and throw all our boundaries out the window, we’re headed into a storm.
Our unconscious seeks familiar. Sometimes what is familiar isn’t good for us. This is when that intense chemistry is a “red” flag.
A warning that you’re choosing someone from a wound that hasn’t been processed yet.
Go slow.
Give the person who peaks your curiosity a chance.
The one who you find interesting and who is easy to talk to because you feel relaxed enough to be yourself.
The one who has a similar view of the world. A similar moral compass.
Explore the possibility of a deepening emotional and intellectual connection leading to a deeper physical connection.
The only way to break a pattern is to replace it with doing something different."

[@Gregory_Goodnight]

I can't explain how much it needed to hear this. Currently going through a divorce after a 12 year relationship with kids. I'm dwelling on how I'll never find anyone that I can really be my true self with. But this puts things in perspective.

[@shredhead67]

We live in an age where it's instant gratification or failure. People are looking for fantasies not partners.