childhood adventures [best of DeKobe]

[@AruarianMusic]

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[@lildunga5072]

Kkkkkk oxi

[@juelztate4269]

i know im asking randomly but does anyone know a tool to get back into an Instagram account..? I was dumb lost the password. I would appreciate any help you can offer me

[@raylansamuel8174]

@Juelz Tate instablaster =)

[@twinkleGance]

​@@lildunga5072😊

[@twinkleGance]

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[@somedonkus4560]

Dumbest thing I could wish for as a kid was to be older

[@bluem516]

Well, at least it seems you had a nice childhood.

[@Dat_Feathered_Boi]

Yeah very true. At that age, I guess we didn't know about taxes and such. And all the courses. And tuition. And all that other not so great stuff. But at least we are alive I guess.

[@jadalove9819]

Dat Boi anxiety,depression, loneliness, pressure, frustration and boredom Smh I wish I could be younger again

[@IamINERT]

Its so true it hurts

[@younesalkashmi8508]

well, at least your wish came true

[@denzelnolet]

Who knew the times we'd sit around doing nothing and wishing for tomorrow to come would be the days we miss the most?

[@tommymerelte4399]

denzelnolet wow that’s true

[@thebookwaswaybetter2827]

sadness lives in the past and visits the future, live in the now and make every moment a memory

[@rokasnavickas5064]

I'm just sitting here doing nothing and beating myself up for that. Thanks, you made me change my mind with your comment. :)

[@xaviersepeda3404]

Especially rn

[@diegoalfaro614]

Neglecting our inner child it's the saddest way to die.

[@amber5936]

damn that hit home hard

[@IamINERT]

Lets stop neglecting it from now on.. ok?

[@paulotristis274]

@@IamINERT okay 😙😙😙

[@Self-Improvement-x1d]

It's only natural for us to be child like

[@Welyn]

I used the first beat in a video, dekobe is amazing! really gives a true sense of excitement and wonder

[@siphious2911]

:)

[@cutieteal]

This is a wacky comment dude

[@azamuda6032]

@@cutieteal agreed

[@im.rihito]

hey there, partner

[@rapidexal]

ayo welyn 4 y/o comment lmao

[@wutzgedudel]

Reading the comments, the amount of people desperatly wishing back their childhoods really worrys me, so I hope this helps you, If you're feeling stuck in any way: One of the most important things in my life I've learned so far is to accept that life cannot be lived in a fantasy, because reality just doesn't care and no amount of whising and hoping will make things better. Whising for something unattainable like the nostalgic past or a perfect future situation is really just living in a fantasy and avoidance of facing life in the present moment. It gives you temporary relief, but like a drug ultimately makes you more unhappy. I always have and still struggle with that avoidance but now know that through struggling and not giving into it you get strong and if you keep reminding yourself that even though you gained strength it's okay to still fail sometimes or even a lot, you will start to and keep struggling gladly. That's how you learn to embrace life and the hardships it brings. That's how you teach yourself not to need to turn away and escape. And that will bring you confidence and lead you to happiness.

[@MrLinvalT]

This artist is dope. Every single song he makes is good.

[@zaphyy]

It's true when they say life will pass you by in the blink of an eye. There are so many things I'd love to tell my younger self. I miss the old days so much. While we can't go back, we can take those experiences with us as we hit the road. Even though I'm scared to grow up, I will embrace the journey I have ahead of me. Nothing but good vibes y'all!

[@IamINERT]

Same man

[@matthewlee4834]

How have the past 6 years treated you?

[@tumbleman5681]

I feel nostalgic for experiences never experienced, regret that i did not experience them when i had the chance. Depression with a mix of happiness. Memories of times gone.

[@cakeee5720]

Sir Ferdinand Fiddlesticks Flipperbunny agreed

[@safinhh8312]

@@cakeee5720 Cheers jeff

[@epatino1030]

Huh

[@tasso8419]

My childhood mostly took place within my own mind. If you try hard enough, it’s possible to return to those days, even if only in imagination

[@ronikarahan4991]

there's nothing better than submerging into your own, colourful imagination

[@sidneyhinds869]

of course, and thats a major blessing to be able to do so

[@ShuyaTheDark]

Same here! And for mostly everyone, I'm sure. Cheers!

[@retardkorean7505]

nigga thats too deep im bout to cry

[@iponce2]

Elan Struble Bad day? Had to shit on some other people to feel better about yourself? It's okay, we understand.

[@IamINERT]

I decided to share this story with you guys 😄 So when I was probably 10 - 12 , me and 8 of the neighbourhood kids went to the swamp close to where we live for mud crabs. Good times. I'd always lie to my mom and tell her I went to play soccer. So. Its the end of our journey and we are still in the swamp and we found ourselves behind a bee farm. The eldest one for our group said "Do not run across, walk slowly across one by one , else risking disturbing the bees and us getting killed by bees bites". One by one we walk across slowly. And now 2 were remaining. I don't know what happened but a bees took a liking to the kid and he fanned the bees away from him. Suddenly more came and the kid panicked and ran. Suddenly we hear " *BZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ* ". An army of fucking beez chasing the kid and him running straight to us. So he reaches and bees everywhere and I mean everywhere. I had the bag of crabs and dropped it and ran. So there we are running across the muddy swamp (almost like quick sand) and to make it more worse we had to creep under and over the mangroves to get out. Luckily I didn't get bitten and I am still surprised. So the eldest kid asked where was the bag of crabs and I told him I dropped it. Kid dashes back into the swamp to get the bag like a fucking God and retrieved it with a couple stings. So we are out of the swamp and sat down to process what the fuck just happened when a hoard of beez flew out of the kid who ran's pocket. There we are watching him freak out and running from them. After that we went home boiled up some crabs and laughed. One of the funniest things in my life.

[@HorchataImpact]

I’m happy you have a memory you cherish

[@safinhh8312]

i wish i was there

[@ExpertEditz]

@@safinhh8312 same... but from a distance... like binocular distance.

[@evanpatino6866]

that shit made me laugh 😂😂

[@Ryo8761]

LMAO in hindsight, if you guys just roll around in the swamp mud the bees would not be a big problem. Good memory though.

[@iponce2]

My imagination was always my closest friend. I think a lot of people can relate to the sting of childhood solitude. But its that loneliness that made me an artist, a writer. And now that solitude is a sweet nectar I cherish like gold.

[@iponce2]

Elan Struble Yikes. Really bad day? Hope it clears up for you, pal. For the record, you would hate to meet me in real life. I've little patience for the type of boy who makes leaping generalizations about strangers on the internet. Lol but I'M the one full of myself here, aren't I? Keep reaching. But don't over exert yourself.

[@iponce2]

Elan Struble Look pal, I don't know what crawled up your pants and pinched you balls this morning, but I'll tell you right now it isn't working. There are a million guys like you, ready and willing to be a proper jackass on the internet for no reason and with little provocation. Its fine, really. But maybe find something better to do with your time, yeah? You can make any amount of inferences on me as a person if you want. You'd be wrong, but I don't really care about what you think nearly enough to write an essay about it. I genuinely hope you have a better day, stranger, because if your behavior here is anything to go off of, its been real bad so far. And for the love of god, don't be that much of an antagonistic prick in real life. I've seen people get hit for far less. And if that somehow makes me seem as if I have an inflated opinion of myself, maybe you're the one with the flawed grasp on the definition of "pretentious." Find your happiness. I think you need it.

[@sidneyhinds869]

Elan Struble you obviously have been through some bad things, or going through a very tough time, but i honestly have much sympathy for you even though you act like you don't deserve any. you must feel like you hate yourself, and hate your life with noone to talk to, but if you wana talk, I'm here buddy... just try to lay off the insulting people for no reason other than trying to bring them down to make yourself feel better, because people get addicted to that shit like a drug, and they end up suffering the rest of their lives for it... instead of trying to find a solution to make themselves happy they try to steal others happiness to make themselves feel not so alone in being miserable, but eventually those people always get back up no matter what, and you're stuck feeling like shit all by yourself again... theres help out there, but noone can help you if don't want to help yourself

[@iponce2]

Sidney Hinds It's not worth it. I don't think our friend here wants to see reason. Best to leave it be. I already tried.

[@sidneyhinds869]

Elan Struble im trying to keep it real as possible with you, and everything you're saying about us is actually how you're acting which is pretentious, and hypocritical. Now you diagnosing me as a complete nut case when now thats how you're acting. You're saying you dont care about his happiness, but obviously you do by trying to bring him down. if you really didn't care about his happiness, or disliked him for sounding pretentious then you wouldn't have made such a pretentious, and hypocritical comment in the first place. you would've just ignored it, and went on about your business. you got problems, and trying to look for an outlet just like everyone else, but this isn't the way to do it... theres better ways to release your negative energy, like go for a walk outside, exercise, anything, but trying to bring others down, or rub your negative energy off on others. when you do good it always comes back to you, and when all you do is spread hate it will only eat your spirit alive

[@Nebulisreconx]

If you all miss those moments, don't worry, each and every single one is still with you...

[@bigz4829]

I first found this video driving through the mountains (somehow I had service) and I remember wishing I could do what these kiddos were doing in the picture. If you’re reading this, go put some shoes on and take a walk.

[@sidneyhinds869]

Never forget where you came from, and don't let life pass you by because one day you will be cherishing this very moment wishing you could go back to these current times as well. though childhood will always be the best times no matter what

[@17thwonder]

peace & serenity when you awake in the morning

[@AruarianMusic]

childhood adventures, oh boy, I miss them so much...

[@ZettoBlaze]

Aruarian Music have copyright?

[@bobitime1871]

So a beautiful intro song. Very good choice. And the picture just ... WOW. Insane

[@theexchipmunk]

Yeah, when the world was new and full of color, so interesting and something new at every corner.

[@sen8301]

It still is, if you're able to put the screen down and look at the things around you like it's something new. Familiarity and routine take all the wonder n excitement away.

[@frickwild140]

la ilustracion es de algun anime?

[@laurence2424]

Childhood adventures... I never really had any and I regret it... I know I'm only 17, but I don't think any adventures I have now will be the same as if I was younger. I spent most of my childhood wrapped up in my mind and I wish I would have gone outside more, broken the rules more, done some dumb shit kids like to do more and just explore the world around me more. I just hope it's not too late for me to do these things..

[@jac1011]

trust me you say that same thing but replace 17 with 27 and childhood with being a teenager in 10 years. If you keep looking back you'll never realise whats in front of you

[@laurence2424]

I've thought about it and you're right. I usually just hang with friends or with my brother, but I guess that's not so bad at all. Thanks man :)

[@rabbitwonyo9270]

I love the comments on these kind of video, it's like reading some random poetry from random person and it's just hit right in the middle

[@Honey-vz1qq]

You are as young as you feel. I'm 65 and I'm happy, smiling, dancing, singing, traveling, painting, writing, running, playing, looking good, feeling good, and still able to do whatever I want. And you know what I want. :-)

[@jac1011]

Damn, i feel old as hell and I am only 19. I wish I did at the very least two of the things listed but oh well

[@IamINERT]

@@jac1011 I feel you man I am 18 though

[@Rhinoch8]

ahh yeah honey I do ^_^

[@mikebart70]

I miss those days i've never had

[@timothyclark7069]

These tracks are on another level.

[@wilsonnguyen8041]

I remember the days when I used to go out and play basketball or bike around with my older sis and younger bro, we had our little squad in the neighborhood.. now we're all older dealing with reality. Oh how times have changed and the saying goes "never wish you were older and enjoy the time when you are a kid" .

[@Createdbysophistic8ed]

Why am I just finding this kind of music?!

[@Thefamilychannel723]

When listening to this music I feel deep connected with life.

[@jesusisoursavior5861]

It's amazing

[@rebel_e.m.f]

Those days when you can just lay around and imagine scenarios and act out these crazy dreams were the best, even better when you had someone to do it with. Me and my cousin Everytime we say each other for a year we would pretend we were castaways in the ocean on this mobile basketball hoop base was our small boat and we’d fish in the ‘sea’ and do all kinds of stuff, like ‘dive in’ and find corals and other stuff. It was like we were playing raft before raft even existed and in real life. Now that is one of our greatest memories together, being castaways in the ocean.

[@elimastermind6684]

00:00, 01:52, 05:25, 07:35, 10:22, 12:59, 15:54, 19:26, 21:35, 24:46, 28:50, 31:48, 35:20, 38:40, 41:56, 44:03, 47:49, 49:57, 52:40, 55:01, 57:16 The whole playlist is great!! 👍🏾

[@内田ガネーシュ]

I remember coming home with nosebleeds, bruises, scratches and a broken bat, tore-up glove and lost balls. My friends and I would compare each other's nosebleeds who bleed the most as a badge of awesomeness. Wearing all clothes and playing war. Climbing up trees to run from dogs, angry neighbours whose windows, house lights, street lights, TVs we broke and the main bosses; the upper class boys. It is a most happy memory.

[@意地悪ちゃん]

It makes me so sad to think that I spent most of my childhood depressed and uncomfortable when I could’ve been out exploring and making friends. I’m still stuck in my house most of the time but music like this makes it feel much better

[@jeffguy8996]

This is the best mix i've found in years. all of these songs make me so happy. i love this video!

[@FlippyFloopster]

Beautiful mix ♡ I've always kept my inner kid close so my childhood adventures have yet to cease

[@amber5936]

wow really want to take a nap under some hot sun with my hair wet and the sounds of people laughing around me

[@veegomi7669]

sucks that we spend more time being old then young :(

[@mtLarN]

Stay young then ;)

[@avidite4018]

@@mtLarN Your comment deeply inspires me everyday

[@IamINERT]

@@mtLarN yes lets all stay young!

[@jeffreyvedha1626]

Work towards financial independence then you can live carefree

[@Oliver-jz1jl]

You decide what you feel like and if your days of childhood are going to be the best of your entire life, only you decide to stay or change. Keep advancing

[@stefanoandrianopoulos9071]

Live life to the fullest, and don't ever let the negatives in daily life drag you down, live every day in wonderment and awe just like you would as a child. Always remember, we are nothing more than children that have grown and trapped ourselves in the web of social norms. Burn the web and be free. Have a great day!

[@henry6699]

Great smooth vibes...

[@Navzzzz]

every color was brighter as a child. remember walking in the beach and the forest alone, and enjoying it unconditionally seeing the sea of green swallowing the landscape. the treetops painting patterns on the ground with shadows. the lush grass and the smell. the song of the forest. where does the path lead? now colors are defined, I know they're just electromagnetic light of a particular wavelength. I know the forest doesn't lead anywhere, I know the physics, the chemistry, the biology of the forest. I miss not knowing

[@muzzReggae]

esta música me gusta mucho. lofi.

[@squantojones3836]

In many ways, the most important I'd argue, you don't need to give up your childhood. Your childhood is like a primordial goo from which your adult imagination, dreams, and goals form. While most people abandon their childhood, it is very much possible to grab hold of it, and make it a permanent, and living part of your life.

[@abibanana_dc7554]

I know that its about childhood but im taking this to my teenhood!

[@nietszche98]

Possibly the best mix I've heard in months

[@followwind1471]

Childhood days flew bye so fast, glad I can still reminisce the great memories I had as a child to this sick mixtape

[@YTheBlackSamurai]

I can go back through my dream, and make it feel like a month when it was only a day... it happened to me once when I was exercising everyday non-stop till one time I passed out and was in a coma for about a week and a half. And when I finally woke up I was like a whole 2 years had gone by and it was hard to move my body after I got out of the hospital... but yah its was sad for me to leave that world, with the people I knew in it... it felt more than just freedom, it felt like you can do anything, or create your own reality... but now whenever I go to sleep I see small pieces of those memories, and try to stay as close to them as possible for the limited time I have to sleep...

[@samuelchavira9859]

Only the name makes me wanna cry, i mean think about it we were innocent, and look at most of us now. :(

[@mamamamary808]

Waking up in the morning, going outside and playing with friends, then coming back to eat and watch the daily Animes on "RTL2" (a German TV programm) and going back outside and play with my friends until it's Dark then go back and watch a Movie with my Mum and my Dad and go to sleep. These Saturdays and Sundays when I was a Kid... true love

[@miebeats4057]

This kind of music makes me want to drive on an empty highway and cry.

[@waltmanwrld1189]

Love the art

[@Skullzi]

Be careful content creators, this channel shows the music as being free to use for creators but it is not! You WILL get copyright claimed if you use any of these tracks now! Hoping this fine channel can update their description since it isn't showing the KZbin auto claim on the bottom.

[@williamazerrad8957]

All this comments about missing those days when you guys were younger, stop wasting your time trying to remember how it feels and start living, laugh, cry, shout, run, jump, do silly stuff, enjoy life and just chill while listen a good beat

[@patkuoneflickgod1114]

True enough. Deep down we're that same child. Just more refined. Embrace it and live your life brothers and sisters.

[@Monscent]

william azerrad but you can reminisce and still live today 😊

[@strollas]

william azerrad But some people cant do that anymore. Being an adult is way different than being a child. With no cares in the world and a land of possibilities, the freedom you have as a youngling is infinite. However you reach the peak of maturity, all these aspects come crumbling into your decision choices that sometimes prevent you what you really want to do. You can't go laughing and rolling the down the hills from morning till night with friends anymore. There's work and taxes to do. Things change when you grow up and its the harsh reality as we dream of more freeful days which exist in our past dreams.

[@tezlikesfilms]

Whilst you all reminisce on your past childhoods, I'll just sit embracing the fact my chilhood is about to end with this ❄❄ mix. Thank you @Aruanian Music

[@kentayamamoto2725]

THANK YOU Aruarian Music as usual for these amazing mixes and music. Tonight I was finding it impossible to focus on absolutely anything, but one click on this new mix and I've been locked in

[@wholibah]

childhood is a state of mind

[@Stanzasulretro]

Nostalgia brings me back here once again... damn

[@randomchillofficial]

I miss them too, love those calm vibes!

[@rangerjpgamerfn4176]

Nothing will pay for my childhood

[@jayoooh2445]

DeKobe Underrated... 💤

[@Nativecary]

Family vacations to Yellowstone in the 80's. The parentals were still alive and paying the bills. Life was grand. I shouldve enjoyed those times so much more!

[@Ch1ck3nWTF]

Very warm and cosy music. Trully reminds me home ages ago. Thank you.

[@xelestial_sky]

Most of my adventures were taken with books and anime...Wasn't allowed to go outside. But this brings back those simpler, more hopeful times...

[@TehF0cus]

You were not allowed to go outside? Did you live in a war zone?

[@eboranshard6220]

Xelestial i could go outside and me and my friends watched anime together ahh good times anime like Full metal panic ahh still love that anime right now 4th season coming after 13 years we all older now damn cowboybeebop ahhh those days

[@gustavocasal8695]

fmp new season :O

[@eboranshard6220]

Fuck ya 10 years damn I have missed my waifs Tessa can't wait to see her haha

[@shellypooper]

Reflection and Small Problems are fantastic!

[@txmm246]

is this kind of music a specific genre? or is this just chill/ lofi? as the title suggests it sounds pretty nostalgic, would like more of this

[@rollsafe1280]

This is lofi hip-hop, but don't be fooled into thinking all lofi playlists will sound as nice as this one. This is especially high quality :)

[@venividivici.6513]

this music isn’t even restricted to outside activities, three years ago my class had a school trip and we stayed at a hotel, my friends and some others sneaked out to mcdonald’s and ran around like crazy. There was no hate, no nothing. Only good vibes and the moon. I don’t have as many friends, but some i have left and we do the same things and more time to time. Just because you can’t relive memories doesn’t mean you have to miss them. Just expect better to happen, and it will.

[@shaolin89]

"Small problems"!!

[@Kaldrin]

I want to go back to play Pokémon with friends at home, doing team sports together and not worrying about money and job, just waiting for the afternoon tea to come or coming back home to eat pancakes, I want to live the past again, because I realize I may haven't been able to enjoy it as much as should have because I didn't realize how great it was :c

[@Francisco-kh4bz]

my childhood was with my bro we did everything together we were always out on the streets just going where the wind took us just chillin man miss not having not to worry about a thing it was bliss while it lasted

[@camk6986]

This is extremely well mixed. Bravo man. And s/o to Dekobe for the beautiful tunes.

[@Rat_King_Covenant]

Picture reminds me of the Pacific Northwest

[@elijahebbert6884]

yeah my dad used to train hop across the highline (northernmost railroad in US) he would tell me about all the mountains rivers and views he saw

[@lucasf7748]

that trip is this, loved

[@isadorafelix2219]

i love this background! and music, of course

[@superbat36X]

Great!!! Wonderful :)

[@aylinhernandez6804]

Miss those stress free times

[@DerekMac96]

thamk you for your music! It helps me relax or focus when i need to.

[@darkguy555]

i love that opening song

[@ivanhernandezfk]

2024 still listening. Great‼

[@gooshpunka1]

This is just great. Thanks DeKobe!

[@oswaldshat6519]

Childhood memories hah What if you were going to turn 18 but then you stumble upon someone so beautiful that you just went on dreaming, of miracles, of a magical bubble of yours and theirs. What if you are still the same timid child without the ability to calculate possibilities or make fast moves? Then, just wait, who know,z fhey might read this comment so yaayiiieeeee ^=^

[@strollas]

same bro. it's either WHY CANT I DO THIS or I WANT TO KILL MYSELF!

[@vccowboy8969]

Dude where was this this whole time?

[@KC_Ronin7]

I need healing

[@samuraispike4615]

Ronin777 well you came to the right place

[@JohnRain707]

wololo wololo wololo

[@mobaisi13]

genji main smh

[@mcweiser]

MADA MADA

[@SeitxiS]

hauahahahahhhahahaha

[@evanpatino6866]

I'm a 2nd year college student now and idk why but lofi like this reminds me of being in middle school and early highschool. The funny thing is that I hadn't started listening to LoFi at the time lol

[@strollas]

listening to this in the background while im reading oyasumi punpun is nostalgic.

[@TheMilwaukeeProtocol]

I'm not big on the rough fade outs, but the musical selection is excellent. I love 7 and 9-part chords.

[@kagomodise4008]

Don't be sad it's over, be happy it happened.

[@vannchhay4610]

listen to those soundtrack make me want to goes adventure

[@myfunnyvalentin]

PURE VIBES !

[@shadie4108]

I love adventure so much and Im going to keep exploring and adventuring when I'm an adult too I put my adventures on my channel so if your ever feeling nostalgic :D

[@gustavofortes3781]

good times when I went to Morro do Canal Curitiba Parana haha, yea I'm Brazilian and yes I messed up my feet on the way back, but the important thing is I was with my friends and God and thats what metters. like this song because it makes me imagine what adventures i will have in the new heavenly jerusalem.

[@apirexia]

Thank you so much

[@GroovyBearTV]

Delirio Rimbombante I make lo-fi hip-hop,can you checkout my latest track,thanks

[@solaire7046]

Hey hey heyy this world is a good one, so is the life and remember ignorance is bliss and that's probably the way it was all ever supposed to be ♥∞

[@Kojima93]

I had a great child hood, had many adventures and found memories of my family, friends, and great times. Spent so much time with nature, and video games. Luckily things haven't changed and may my time here on earth remain the same.

[@JT-pv2nj]

simplicity of childhood

[@smeg5112]

there are so many things that i wish i could do over actually i wish i could just do everything over but i cant go back i wish i could

[@jac1011]

you know one day you'll say the same thing about the days we are currently living through. We can only do our best, and that's always enough.

[@with3rr]

sweet upload ma dude

[@marcoscasado8698]

Awesome, thank you!

[@LeiftonMontgomery]

✈️✈️✈️Closed🚀🚀🚀

[@Frikcha]

"just 5 more minutes, please"

[@bubba0005]

Nice thumbnail 😀

[@callospaziale]

that's some good visual art new wallpaper ; ]

[@eboranshard6220]

Yes my childhood was climbing mountains trying to chase girls watching anime like Full Metal Panic ahh those good old days

[@Shaathurray]

Eddy Hays i love full metal panic that was thee shit

[@eboranshard6220]

i still think its the best anime/manga of all time omg the manga was so amazing and the ending was amazing and Tessa is waifu and i cant wait for s4 this year its been 13 years wooo hooo

[@IamINERT]

My childhood was playing video games Traveling to my Aunts and going to the beach And sneaking out to play with the kids in my neighbour hood 😄

[@dirtydiesel1149]

DeKobe too nice ✌

[@Brim_the_Wizard]

Dekobe reminds me of Nujabes

[@cakeee5720]

i miss my childhood even tho im 14.5 and for some reasons this reminds me of a childhood i never had

[@GroovyBearTV]

MordGotHorde bruh I make lo-fi hip-hop,can you checkout my latest track,thanks

[@cakeee5720]

GroovyBearTV if u insist m8