Childhood Trauma: Toxic Parenting In SG (Ft. Dewy, Jia Wei and Jie Hao) | Gen Z Decodes EP4

Is toxic/tiger parenting still common in SG? How did Gen Zs grow up under tiger/toxic parents? Where is the fine line that distinguishes between strict parenting and toxic parenting?
Join Dewy, Jia Wei, Jie Hao, and HeyKaki host Xi Ying in this thought-provoking episode, as they delve into the world of parenting styles, and share their personal experiences and perspectives on toxic & tiger parenting! Dewy shares her personal experience with caning, and Jia Wei opens up on the effects of her parents’ high expectations on her. For Jie Hao who was brought up with much freedom, what does he think about physical punishment? Lastly, for people who want to have a frank conversation with your parents to seek closure and peace from toxic parenting experiences, listen to the advice that Dewy has!
虎爸虎妈在新加坡常见吗？Z世代是怎么在这种环境下成长？严格教育与不健康的教育有什么区别？听听文萱、佳薇、杰豪和嘿卡其主持人汐莹分享他们对于自己父母教育方式的想法和个人经历！听听杰豪分享父母对于儿子和女儿的差别待遇，也从佳薇的经历中了解不切实的际期望会如何影响一个孩子的成长！最后，你一定要听Dewy分享她在鞭打中成长的精彩故事，还有她如何开启对话原谅母亲！
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Chapters:
0:13 Guests Intro
0:22 Relationship with their parents
2:07 Do they consider their parents as "toxic"
4:06 Worst thing that your parents done to you
7:47 Positive parental reinforcement
11:23 Are unrealistic parents' expectations toxic?
12:46 Are biased parents toxic?
15:33 Are physical punishments toxic?
18:16 How would they educate their children?
21:20 Forgiving your parents
Credits:
Featuring 嘉宾：朱文萱 白佳薇 陈杰豪 张汐莹
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Producers 编导: 张汐莹 李嘉杰
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Film Crew: Cuble Productions
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Graphics 美术：陈佳星
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Video Editor: 王靖婕
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[@elaine1520]

“You must remember that our generation we are educated. They are not as educated as us. We have to be the bigger people. Because we receive the education they gave us. They worked so hard to give us.” Love this!! all parents just want the best for their kids. But kids might always think that it's not enough. and that's not fair for the parents.

[@delirivs]

Dewy is def the comedic one in a group, I can’t stop laughing 😂

[@xxxxxxuan]

i’m very surprised by how entertained i was by dewy, pls have her back for more eps even tho she btc she’s a natural story teller

[@maureenchua7672]

I like how Dewy narrated her story. It's very engaging and definitely hilarious.

[@20pointer]

quite true what dewy said ba.. "if i don't beat you, the policeman will.."

[@shinyee957]

love Dewy energy !!!!!!!!!!

[@micahiah2]

you all should invite your parents down and let them have an episode here. And hear from their perspective, especially after they watch this episode by you guys.

[@hearttoheartstories4410]

Oh my.. the cane picking part is the same as my childhood! 😆 funny to think about it now to choose your colour of the cane. I chose blue. 🤡

[@Mikazuki_augus544]

omg i relate to dewy so much!

[@yeelaimun]

Totally relatable... Understand my parents love me but i still hate the way they bring me up till now . Also a door that dun wish to open 😢

[@airin0t70t4]

Even i can't relate but still I'm really impressed😔

[@user-oh6wb5rj2q]

HAHAHAHA LOVE THIS SHOW

[@deborah2976]

If parents don’t know the best they shouldn’t act like they know everything..