China’s Leftover Women Overwhelming? 1:9 Male-To-Female Ratio in Dating

[@brianhusted3909]

A young dog chased his tail relentlessly till he was exhausted. As he lay upon the ground panting, a mature dog asked why he was chasing his tail. The young do responded, "I was told happiness was in my tail."So, I am trying to catch happiness." The mature dog said it is true that happiness is in my tail. It always goes with me."

[@InVinoVeratas]

This is the only original top Comment that survived rhe first purge of comments, will it survive another day? Only the KZbin algorithm can decide.

[@sleepinglaffey3886]

Patriotism of Xinnie PorkPooh #slopaganda #misery #shillbroth - With stimulus and measures, China's debt will be at 400% to 500% of its GDP in the next decade, according to Reuters. -Chinese 🇨🇳 property Ponzi sector, which accounts for 30% of GDP, is crashing -Tofu Exports and Western imports, accounting for 37% GDP, are down. -Foreign investment is falling over 90% compared to it's peak in 2018. -Foreign visitors are down 96% compared to the pre-pandemic level in 2019 with less than 200 americans left. -Consumer prices and pay are experiencing hyperstagdeflation while necessities are undergoing hyper flation. -Youth unemployment hits over 21% (in reality 75%+ after eliminating faked numbers), a record. -It's fast shrinking workforce is 10 years old than neighboring countries. - During the years 1990-2021, the US printed 6.5 time more money while China printed 147 times. - It has printed more money than the US and Japan combined, while it's economy is only half of them. - Current Chinese debt-to-gdp is already highest in the world, at 300%, according to Bloomberg. - This is a macroeconomic nightmare created by the party going way back in 1994 when they took the Tofu money off the international exchange. Now in 2024, the banks and the average little pink have no idea what is the ACTUAL value of anything within the country. Any stimulus from the Central state. will be meaningless and ineffectual because the Central Bank is a part of the Party. Thereby merging both fiscal Central and monetary private policies into one ongoing disaster. Local province officials were doing stimulus spending for decades in tandem of the "Economic Miracle" which will undermine any Central stimulus during an actual depression/recession or more accurately.. HYPERSTAGDEFLATIONARY NIGHTMARE. -- in the future house prices will drop to 10%, youth unemployment will be over 90%+ without streams, and middle class people over 35 will all be laid off with pays trimmed in half. How will you do in a country where real estate companies, local governments, and banks across China have crashed or fled? That is your challenge for the future (will you own a trash house with the mortgage?). Pensions will be laundered and your daily pay will be 1-2 dollars while you drink Poop Water and eat gasoline cooking oil while the Party and Porkpooh eat Tegong Special food supplies. Mengze harvard daughter: lives in US brother: australian green card daughter in law: british green card sister: canadian citizen brother in law: canadian citizen second sister: australian green card second brother in law: australian green card Arctic Catfish Shenzhen: laughs at how Leeks feed her Fei Fei Li the AI Spy and stealer-Has ties to the Party with Tsinghua University WOW SO GOOD AWESOME Organ Leeks #sloprosperity #theskydontlie

[@Zane-It]

Sun Tzu art of war

[@henrycarlson7514]

@@InVinoVeratas So Wise , Thank You . I MUST REMEMBER

[@CasimiroBukayo]

Hello, I identify as a tail

[@sbalogh53]

Most men are ordinary. Most women are ordinary.

[@Peter2k84]

Yeahhhh, but we told women for decades that they are the most awesome and special -> goes to expactations. A woman that really is all that, really is that special,......., just most women are not in truth.

[@vaguincolombia]

Bingo!. You said it all brother.

[@vaguincolombia]

@@os10v311 you mean "WOMEN dont want to settle with ordinary men". Well in that case, cats and wine will be their destiny. 90% of women or even more are looking for that 5% or 1% of men?. Numbers dont lie, many of them will be single forever.

[@MaskedVigilante-gw4jx]

And for some reason those `ordinary women` arent even viewed as good for conscription into the army. We make them feel `special` and they start having a skewed view of the world. Their singlehood is the result.

[@searklarak]

No, modern single women are brainwashed to believe they are 9s and 10s and that they shouldn't settle for anything less than the perfect man. Even a 200lbs woman in her 40s will have her other female friends tell her she's a catch and that men are missing out by not giving her a chance. It isn't until the clock starts ticking that their looks are fading and that dying alone with cats, boxed wine, anti-depressants and a very active TikTok or IG account with her toxic clips becomes part of her passing.

[@Luminousplayer]

Women also fail to consider that highly successful men are harder to marry because of all the risk involved with divorce

[@vaguedreams]

wrong country mate.

[@gregparrott]

I don't know if divorce laws in China are as stringent, let alone enforced as they are in western democracies.

[@anneb3170]

@@os10v311

[@fdk7014]

And there are a lot fewer of them around.

[@zerosam5541]

More like they have better option

[@zevil89]

I'm Chinese. Getting Chinese women to pay for their share even at a restaurant is like pulling a tooth out of a tiger. This is a bad case of minor league players wanting to play in the major leagues. They aren't taught that a marriage where the guy pays for everything and affords a luxurious secure life is only reserved for the hyper-beautiful 1%. Note "hyper-beautiful" not just someone "pretty" or "cute". This is happening not only in China but also among overseas East Asians. The cause is really bad parenting. Parents raise them with the "If you're going to get married make sure you're not getting into a bad bargain" instead of "find someone who you get along with and build a life together". Nothing really wrong by itself, it's just incompatible with modern society where the cost of living has skyrocketed.

[@jamesviktorovich]

I bet they all own a few Chanel bags though, don’t they?

[@marcosyy87]

She shouldn't pay for anything lol. Isn't it better to find a healthy, young and caring person? This is what the lady in the video lacks. Screw her graduation or money

[@aimless-drifter]

I'd pay for all of the expenses, housing, car, food, vacations, except it wouldn't be luxurious. I don't pay luxuries things even for myself out of principal.

[@zevil89]

@@aimless-drifter Sounds good but doesnt work in reality since many of them in the video have been used to lavish lifestyles prior to marriage.

[@elainapowell5237]

To be frank, it is as much bout survival in China as it is anywhere else. You are right, the cost of living has skyrocketed. So jas the cost of raising a child. Telling women to not marry a 1%er is telling her to live in poverty during the marriage. The rest should just remain single for a higher quality of life. If a government cannot provide the bare minimum of a stable economy and affordable quality of life, then the government/country does not deserve another generation to abuse. Period. Almost all cost-of-living issue will be solved by reducing our population by not breeding, think like Eruope post black death.

[@djm2189]

Story time. Im 29, 6'2, earn $120k, no debt. Took friend to SeaWorld, he brought his cousin. She seemed cool enough. Dating came up and i said im just having fun right now. She's 32, divorced with a kid, shes also heavier and 5ft tall. I asked her and she said shes looking and i got her to list her requirements. She said the dude must be 6ft, earn at least 100k, and support her to be a stay at home mom... I calmly said ok cool, now why would that guy choose you over another? She was flabbergasted 🥴🥴🥴🥴

[@HelenaBoutel]

That's hilarious... Why are these women so delusional. I don't understand these requirements or not being able to look at themselves as a comparison

[@djm2189]

@@chiangweytan5937 had an extra ticket, they have roller coasters. I prefer 6 flags. Everything was "free" since I have a year pass and got him a ticket. Chilled, saw some shows rode roller coasters. It's not crazy. Many people here do that. I literally live 5min from SeaWorld.

[@Mashiris]

@@chiangweytan5937 Yeah that sounds weird ngl

[@nathantowe4148]

@@chiangweytan5937 seaworld is awesome, I would definitely go to seaworld with the boys. idk about only going with just two other people tho, you got to take the whole gang

[@kaiser98berlin]

​@@chiangweytan5937I never know bringing a male friend to a SeaWorld is weird. Your analogy sounds like if you bring a guy buddy to a restaurant then its weird because restaurants are for couple and families. Are men not allowed to enjoy things made for families with their male friends? Are the male friends not considered brotherhood or family bond?

[@benyomovod6904]

Imagine, being a matchmaker and trying to tell them to forget their expectations

[@Peter2k84]

that is probably why so many matchmakers quit.

[@kiaayo33]

​@@Peter2k84In America and the UK most matchmakers don't bother with specific groups and ages of women because of how difficult it is to help/match them. The funny thing is that most of the Matchmakers are women themselves yet they gave up on High Expectation Clients.

[@JohnSmith-hv6ks]

What can you do when no one can meet their client's standards. Even if a man does. Does such a rare man not have their own standards?

[@djm2189]

​@@JohnSmith-hv6ks yup always one sided. These unicorn men exist BUT are they even still single? And do you in turn meet their requirements? Statistics say a big fat NOPE.

[@pahakuutti]

Her therapist must be redpilled by now.

[@Peter2k84]

when you are absolutly devastated, but still can not lower your standard from a CEO only

[@marioxerxescastelancastro8019]

I found the incel.

[@JohnSmith-hv6ks]

Right about that. Anyone not a choice or executive is an incel

[@sebastien1047]

​@@marioxerxescastelancastro8019have you not watched the video

[@idk-ill-figure-smn-out]

​@@marioxerxescastelancastro8019 Don't bother. There's only bitter men in these comments who are mad that women's standards aren't in the gutter. I keep trying to bring up alternative points to combat the narrative of this video, but they keep getting deleted. Either this channel or KZbin itself clearly has an agenda.

[@owenb8636]

​@@idk-ill-figure-smn-out well I can see this comment so obviously something got through lol. What is your issue with the video

[@canopusstar5157]

Marriage is no promise of happiness; it is a hope.

[@geebee8989]

Marriage is not about happiness at all. Marriage is about creating a stable environment for having children and raising them. This is why older women are screwed. A woman getting older is less able to have children.

[@Firecracker876]

@@geebee8989 the quality of sperm decrease with age, a male being older increase risk of child being born with Down syndrome, adhd, mental and behavioral disorders. It’s Scientifically proven if you look it up

[@whilewaitingforthemothersh5366]

It’s a guaranteed of unhappiness

[@ThaboW11]

@@geebee8989 Yes, it's about duty.

[@thefoundationagent61]

More like a crapshoot but aight.

[@Susan-z7m]

They are only sad because they are not married to a rich man at age over 30.

[@ViceCoin]

I'm over 50, single, and American.❤

[@MsWindWaveSea]

Life is hard. It's not a fairy tale.

[@F15ElectricEagle]

"The difficulties that older single women face in getting married is because they view themselves as luxury goods." That plus the fact the market is overflooded with similar goods. Further, most successful men who have a stable high-paying job, owns a house without any mortgage, reasonably good looking and at least 1.8 meter tall are too smart to want any women who regard themselves as luxury goods.

[@feliciaf8]

And they are like a unicorn lol

[@ura9390]

and why would an exceptionally sought after man go for an over 35 yr old, demanding, self absorbed career woman when he can take his pick and get someone young, devoted and gorgeous?

[@billc6762]

Most men know that can't afford to get married.

[@89426]

🎯

[@Rocky-rh3rz]

True true.. But it's more likely that.. Men 'can' afford to get married, but men can't afford 'fantasy'.

[@GameFuMaster]

@@Rocky-rh3rz men can afford to get married, but can't afford to "stay" married

[@Rocky-rh3rz]

@@GameFuMaster @GameFuMaster about: men can afford "to get" married, and the NOT being able to afford "to stay" married.. I agree with you but only to some degree. Generally, these Chinese modern, leftover women at the onset of dating already demand: • nice luxurious house • car • high salary, and that high salary be given (to the would-be wife) without question (which is disrespectful) • (would-be) wife's parents to be taken care of and live with them (which is intrusive) • (would-be) husband's parents should NOT live with them, nor the wife having any responsibility to ever care for them (which is outrageous) • ridiculous dowry 👈👈 .. that last part alone is already way too expensive.. so generally NO, most men can't afford their demands to get married

[@GameFuMaster]

@@Rocky-rh3rz dowry is like a marriage ceremony, a one off thing that you could get a loan for if necessary. But the upkeep of a marriage is the main issue (cashflow)

[@ericwilliams1659]

Didn't the one child policy make it so there is far more men than women in China?

[@th6566]

yes, this is explained in the video...

[@angrydragon4574]

Yes, for YOUNG men. The one-child policy didn't end the whole female population and there simply happens to be an insane amount of old women in China and nobody wants old women.

[@Peter2k84]

Yes, but a women 35+ that is looking only for a CEO or better is not the solution. Some of the videos (which is funny; in China) are so extremly off what the women is looking for, compared to the man she goes on for a blind date is looking for. If a women is indeed succesfull, then she will look for at least same level. Even if he is a terrible husband, but at least the income is same or higher.

[@Ghekko-kw3zz]

​@@Peter2k84meanwhile the guys they want are either already married or only interested in humble under 30's.

[@LegendOfShadow1]

Yes, but not really. The devil is in the details as they say: Boys were prefered in rural areas where farmers needed more hands, in the cities there was no significant preference for men over women however, there was a slight skew towards women being born I believe (somebody can correct me here). Since women generally marry equal or higher socio-economic status men you are now left with a lot of single , poor men from the country side that no woman wants to marry and most of the city men that have a decent job have lots of options, if they even want to settle down at all. There simply are not enough high-earners that are tall and attractive that women want, there are plenty of the single farmers from the country side though. In the end the ratio pans out to something like 80% of the women in cities chase the top 1-5% of men, so why would those men settle down? they just pick at young woman when they do want to settle down later in life, meanwhile all those other dozens of women are left single and past 30.

[@krankenhaus1991]

Men just grows smart enough to stop seeking shame on dating market. Dating is damn cruel to most men nowadays.

[@ronnie5329]

You can find women with healthy attitudes on international dating sites, if you are 1) around avg in looks in a western country 2) has around avg income in a western country. I dont know why american women behave the way i see on social media, but I would run away from such a dating scene. Women are feminine and nice elsewhere, even women with high degrees. And many would be interested in dating am avg western man in his 30s.

[@Npc1488-wc1kf]

Yes Lots of low value monsters pretending to be upper tier

[@huananina]

Maybe it wouldn't be as cruel if you stopped talking about women as if they were cattle.​@@Npc1488-wc1kf

[@ura9390]

the 9:1 ratio shows exactly that. The men aren't even bothering with the matchmaking, they know that with women like this, with these expectations, there is just no point

[@SomeDayDreamer]

Don't feel sorry for them these are crocodile tears.. I am married to a wonderful HK woman for 10 years who didnt' marry for all the stupid crap they hold to here. She just happened to love me as a person. Put everything else secondary and understands that marriage is a partnership, we rise or fall together. But if you fight for your marriage you will rise. These womens can kick rocks lol.

[@steveportice3560]

Melea is an attractive woman, maybe she needs to be looking elsewhere, I would like to find a woman such as her that doesn't act as if she is the prize like the western woman.

[@glenglen6386]

It's interesting that we see the same phenomenon all across the globe as society develops. Older women viewing themselves as intelligent beauty queens that deserve handsome, tall millionaires.

[@ronnie5329]

Social media and dating apps create delusion. That and women not understanding that men have standards too, that are different from what they view as attractive.

[@CHAOSZEROE]

They will get them. They just have to keep waiting. One day. I swear. One day. Hahaha!

[@ronnie5329]

@@glenglen6386 its social media and dating apps that create this completely detached view of themselves. And what they can get commitment from. So they allow a man, attractive guy, to pump and dump them, and that takes a toll on them over time. It also explains the bitterness towards men from this group. They dont see the ocean of good men.

[@edhuber3557]

Female hypergamy is globally common, but China seems to have an extra shade on the problem, perhaps due to: 1) An excess feeling of self-worth by some women (born of a period of 1-child-policy induced 'shortage'), and 2) An unusually high transactional view of marriage in China.

[@ura9390]

Those BS perfume adverts "because you're worth it" etc filling their heads materialism and entitlement!!

[@vaguincolombia]

Women, the key is not find any man to marry with. The key is to find a man WITH VALUES! NOT MONEY!.

[@jrpark05]

Sir, that is sooooo misogynistic! ;)

[@jeffreyadams648]

Few and far between.

[@cao6496]

😮 idiots made tons of these videos to play China women!?

[@GameFuMaster]

@@Ariel-x1x you'll never have enough money if you never stop to question your desires. For example, lots of people want a mansion, but why do people want a mansion, and what are they going to do in a 10 bedroom home?

[@dorjedriftwood2731]

I don’t think there are any guarantees and no young person man or woman is a good judge of character that is something that only comes with time. I actually would bet a lot of these women probably had stable relationships with men they were in love with but realized that they weren’t good people. More to the point many women I have spoken to that are older and single actually have horror stories about coming to the realization that the man was a complete fraud. One X of mine had a child and got married only for him to leave her flee to a different country and come out as gay. Personally I am a serial monogamist but have soured on every long term relationship because I realize the women is not good for my mental health and yes that absolutely is because I am fundamentally attracted to that kind of person “exciting or dark” are traits I find irresistible in women and it’s not something I can control it’s just my chemistry, stable women just don’t feel attractive to me or aren’t attracted to me, I only say the second part because it does seem to be mutual I tend to notice the girls who are twisted and they seem to gravitate towards me. I only say this because I absolutely wish I had healthier taste or when I was younger was more conscious of the ideas I had about what my dream girl would be but I am definitely a Marla from fight club guy. And when I was younger I really didn’t consider how forming those tastes would affect my life. Telling people pick a good person when they are young is completely nuts. No young person has the self control to just not be attracted or the insight to try to pick wisely. People say these things because they happen to either been through it and it’s to late for them. Or they were someone who naturally has good taste in a partner but in my experience most young women are just into what they are into in a similar way as me when I was younger. I have never heard a young woman talk about stability or anything of the sort. It all mostly seems to be about chemistry, the few women who I hear talk about money above everything, all I see is guys scam those girls. As someone who used to be very wealthy one thing anyone who has money really really does not want is to be wanted for money. When I had half a million dollars in my bank account I drove a civic for that exact reason. That is when I noticed that men much less successful than me but who made a show of looking rich got much more attention. I was not at all hard on the eyes either but I never once attracted that sort of person because I do definitely feel it’s an image thing. Nobody cared I had money if I didn’t live large, I kinda regret it but only in the sense of missed adventure I never would have been happy settling with someone for money anyway. Plus since I don’t have any of that obviously they would have left do it was wise to look for not that. I enjoy giving people dating advice when they ask but the only authentic thing I feel can be said is you can’t choose who you love. The most common thing I hear from young people is express doubts about weather they should stay with someone but I always just ask if I told you “yes, absolutely you should leave them would you” they always say no. And that’s the point people kid themselves into thinking they have a choice. I would almost admire someone who could be with someone just for financial benefit just because it would literally be making life a job. But I don’t think that is what it is about. I don’t think these women want to be unreasonable they just want what they want and have to live with that. Wanting something unreasonable is how you end up single, I am saying that as much about myself as anyone.

[@Mojaveknight17]

They can't find the perfect man

[@Peter2k84]

If the list is as long as a book, no wonder though.

[@kiaayo33]

​@@Peter2k84☝️💯

[@kazi20011]

What considered perfect? If your going to be picky just stay alone and stop complaining.

[@SithLordAnakin]

5:00 like this one needs to STFU an learn to place... she dont bring nothing to the table at all and is asking for alot.

[@ViperStrikesAgain0160]

The mythical Asian Chad preferably all women want

[@MrNiko535]

So sad that these woman don't marry for love ,companionship, and life ,,,,,,but want money houses cars

[@pendekarlautbiru]

They know they'll find love in a man's wallet.

[@rengurenge]

Man marry for same reason - body, youth, unpaid domestic labor, wealth if she have it, status in other men's eyes. Love as only reason for marriage is poor mans invention, most peoples are calculating and will only want to be with someone who benefits them in some way.

[@nosphosferaoneeyedcat701]

So what you're telling me is you want a chick living the homeless life and eating out of the garbage with you?

[@rightsdontcomewithpermits7073]

I find it funny. 😂

[@robertcuminale1212]

This is very strange to me. I married at 21 in 1972. My intended was 23. I was in the US Navy. She had graduated with a BS in Physical Therapy. My family was dysfunctional. Her's was very stable. I was living out of the country and was her escort while while she was visiting her best friend whose husband was my supervisor. Afterward our entire relationship was through daily letters. Neither of us had money She had school debts to pay. I had a well paying job to return to after my enlistment in the Navy. I lost that job after 16 years and started a business. We're now retired and have been married for 52 years. In the Talmud it is said, "Women have hearts like cash boxes". It describes these women perfectly.

[@relaxwithme3266]

My wife is beautiful. The day I met her, I had no job, a 25 year old car, and a bad smoking habit. My language was unclean. But knew the second I met her I could and should change. And she didn’t even ask me to. I worked hard because she was kind and supportive. Now we are married with kids and a house. And I have a good job. Thanks be to God. I feel lucky to have met such a woman after seeing the state of things these days.

[@frillylily8005]

❤

[@derek400004]

My man, I'm proud of you!

[@amanrrajsinhaa]

You are Lucky...bcoz you are good man. Good soul deserved good soul...

[@marka8274]

Not only China, this is a common phenomenon across Asia.

[@Arven8]

In the west, too, of course.

[@SumayaSnaha-ru8zb]

No you are wrong....I think only in East Asia....We don't have those problems and we have arrange marriages and our society don't seek for branded products!!!

[@user-kg2ez1eg2y]

They are not looking for a man who will save them from loneliness, they are looking for a walking ATM that will solve all their problems for them. Even rich women don't want happiness with men, but want more money from men. Do you feel lonely, just call the bear. Bears are a great option for women with their high standards and boundaries. Grizzle Grizzle

[@M_SC]

Lol bitter and alone much

[@Mupyeong]

​@@M_SC Have you watched some of these? Now, to be fait, both men and women in China have astronomical expectations.

[@camichiBichi]

Spit out that red pill, just try to be happy

[@user-kg2ez1eg2y]

@@camichiBichi 1 time is an accident, 2 times is a coincidence, 3 times is a pattern, and 4 times is a system, and 5 times is it?

[@DiligoBarba]

Oh crybaby these ladies said they are looking for a husband educated women need love too. The fact that they want a man that makes as much as they do is not a bad thing. Women in their 30s have kids all the time in the West. So what you are saying is they can't have their equal just because they are getting married as an ADULT and NOT a 20 year old that's NOT even an adult and can't really make a consensual choice about getting married in the first place. What's wrong with getting married to someone your own age? Why do men insist on being pedophiles hum? Young girls can and do cheat on men all the time I guess when I see it I just won't tell the husband about it after all he wanted to marry a child. When the woman in her 30s or older is way more likely to be faithful.

[@Mojaveknight17]

Marriage is a social status in China

[@DC-wo2yb]

It's a social status everywhere in the world. There's no greater achievement in life than being married with a family that adores you.

[@davidwestwater2219]

Very few have that result​@@DC-wo2yb

[@kiaayo33]

Facts, in America it's a religious thing and some States even have Common Marriage Laws that forces "Marriage" on paper unless you can prove otherwise.

[@Chronoic]

In America it's a scheme to get men to pay more taxes to the government.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@DC-wo2ybThat is old school thinking and may be one of the reasons why the divorce rate is so high now.

[@SuperfluousIndividual]

"She refers to herself as a high quality, older single woman." - I mean, if you brand yourself high quality, what do you expect? At least she was honest enough to admit her personality isn't great. I don't trust anyone who brands or refers to themselves as high quality. If a guy calls himself that, I'll scoff in his face. If a woman says that, to me, that's the equivalent to the connotation of a "bad bitch" or a "boss girl" that women these days love using so much but that, to men, it's the same as wearing a massive flag saying "I'll use you, cheat on you and constantly remind you that you're a piece of shit whom I married because I had no other choice". So, by all means, marry a sucker who falls for that crap. 🙃

[@angrydragon4574]

A man who says he is high quality can back it up by his results. If countless women want him then he is high quality whether he calls himself as such or not. The same is true for women but in reverse - if she is high quality she would have been married long ago and would be committed to her husband and kids.

[@artje90]

It's actually most of the times when people talk like that, actually lack the thing they praise themselfs to be. cause if you are what you say you are. you don't actually need to say it ever

[@cryora]

Chinese companies that sell on Amazon also refer to their products as high quality.

[@ilaril]

Someone asks and I'm just ordinary. Have my interests, my hobbies, my life and my family. I have no reason to "upsell" myself to anyone. If that's a problem for someone then it's no problem of mine.

[@angrydragon4574]

@@ilaril Women hate straightforward and boring men. That's literally why there's 1 man for every 9 leftover women in China, women seek grandiosity and abhor the ordinary and the mundane. What's ironic is that these leftover women will be absolutely lucky if they live out the rest of their lives in a mundane and ordinary fashion because once the men get fed up that'll be the end of the CCP and many, many people will lose their lives when that happens.

[@RashaKahn]

Sorry, I’m not a fan of the CCP at all, but didn’t the one child policy mess up the ratio that there were a lot more men than women available?

[@sylvia470]

Perhaps in the cities the ratio changes. More men stay in villages to work, while more girls go to study amd stay in the city.

[@CommenterTenma]

in major cities like shenzen and shanghai the ratio is 9 women to 1 man. most of them wants CEO or sons of Billionaires who are handsome with muscles, six pack and 6 foot tall haha 😂 should have told them being a mistress is an option.

[@mugenmoogle4734]

@@CommenterTenmathat 666 mark, and people tell me women aren’t agents of the devil lol

[@harmhoeks5996]

​😈

[@FrankHouston-v5e]

"My personality isn't great", she realizes she is the problem.

[@skyak4493]

I thought this video is a waist of time but that line made it worth it.

[@thelabinschogamer7267]

lmao yea

[@idk-ill-figure-smn-out]

@user-wg3rr9jh9h It sounds like she's *purposefully* trying to keep men away. Think about it, what does she ACTUALLY need a man for? She already has her own money, property, and a stable career. And she probably a healthy social life as well, since she isn't weighed down by kids or marital responsibilities. What's a man gonna offer her at this stage of her life? His sperm? An increased share of domestic labor? A statistically higher likelihood of being abused or unalived? Seriously, she probably agreed to having this video documented in order to get her family off her back about marriage. Additionally, Chinese society is still VERY sexist. It was only 20 years ago that female children were being offed or abandoned on a regular basis. Openly admitting she doesn't want a man could risk her career and draw attention from violent men who feel entitled to her since she's "damaged goods".

[@idk-ill-figure-smn-out]

It sounds like she's *purposefully* trying to keep men away. Think about it, what does she ACTUALLY need a man for? She already has her own money, property, and a stable career. And she probably a healthy social life as well, since she isn't weighed down by kids or marital responsibilities. What's a man gonna offer her at this stage of her life? His sperm? An increased share of domestic labor? A statistically higher likelihood of being abused or unalived? Seriously, she probably agreed to having this video documented in order to get her family off her back about marriage. Additionally, Chinese society is still VERY sexist. It was only 20 years ago that female children were being offed or abandoned on a regular basis. Openly admitting she doesn't want a man could risk her career and draw attention from violent men who feel entitled to her since she's "damaged goods".

[@idk-ill-figure-smn-out]

@@FrankHouston-v5e It sounds like she's *purposefully* trying to keep men away. Think about it, what does she ACTUALLY need a man for? She already has her own money, property, and a stable career. And she probably a healthy social life as well, since she isn't weighed down by kids or marital responsibilities. What's a man gonna offer her at this stage of her life? His sp£rm? An increased share of domestic labor? A statistically higher likelihood of being abu$ed or unali>ed? Seriously, she probably agreed to having this video documented in order to get her family off her back about marriage. Additionally, Chinese society is still VER sexis+. It was only 20 years ago that female children were being ○ffed or abandoned on a regular basis. Openly admitting she doesn't want a man could risk her career and draw attention from vi○lent men who feel entitled to her since she's "damaged goods".

[@colemarsh13]

Men going their own way is worldwide 🌐

[@PrecursorYang]

The original men going their own way talked about philosophy, the meaning of life, the truth of the world. The modern men going their own way today are lost without them guiding them. Sad that most men will never get to hear the wisdom of truth by these men on youtube.

[@tabithan2978]

Nothing the sperm bank can’t solve for women.

[@YourHineyness]

@@tabithan2978 I'm sure being a single mother in China is a real fun time.

[@colemarsh13]

@@PrecursorYang I disagree

[@ReysRants]

Women are too… worldwide it’s a movement I just watched one of these documentaries 50% of Chinese women don’t want to get married lol their govt has launched campaigns to convince them to do so

[@brianchu3317]

Men don’t care about PhDs or Masters degrees. They want a good wife and mother.

[@guill90]

Good cook too, love goes trough the stomach ❤

[@BrendanSchmelter]

This 100%. Men will marry a poor woman who'd make a good wife/mother. Women never do this.

[@kazi20011]

I'm a man, sounds like you're looking for a servant girl or MOMMY. Marriage is a team effort not a stupid male dominant situation.

[@HipHopTheme]

Exactly. Men should provide and the women just need to be caring

[@xdrazormon454]

And youthful appearance

[@conqc20]

Its unreaslistic high standards, they are chasing men that dont exist. An if they do, they are high value and will date woman in their twenties and not a woman mid 30's.

[@nicholasrockall7308]

Ooh that's harsh..! but true 😂

[@evildrizzt1]

But they get impregnated by chad thunderstroke that lives in a trap house.

[@feliciaf8]

Thats the reality

[@SKIE-skie]

Women in their 20s don't want old men unless he's paying for her time.

[@bibibabibu1]

@@SKIE-skie That's just what older single women tell themselves to feel better. Many women in their 20s date men in their 30s because of the stability.

[@5anjuro]

Physical beauty is passing. Money comes and goes like water. People who choose each other for the looks and the money are preparing their own disappointment and bitterness. It's mindboggling these women don't understand this simple fact.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

You are so right and very well said! That is why you need to marry for true love, compatibility and other things not for money or physical beauty as those things go fast.

[@gabrielzinho07_]

Falling in love isn't a choice, and it's the only thing that really matters. Any other problem can be solved. If somebody demands a high salary and a house from a partner, that should mean they already have at least a high salary and a good house, so the money part of the equation would be pretty much solved already.

[@CatsMeowPaw]

You can buy a degree. A PHD. A fancy house. A fancy car. Go on the best holidays. But you cannot ever buy time. No one can. If a man wants to have a child, there is little point in meeting a 36 year old woman. 35 and above is considered a high risk pregnancy.

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

These women are book smart, BUT NO STREET smart or common sense.

[@marcosyy87]

👍

[@markmoreno7295]

A simple concept yet basically true. Even some younger women will still have trouble conceiving particularly if they are into that whole -We are supposed to wait for the right night- thing. "Every night is the right night if you are really wanting to get pregnant." Said my medical school fertility professor in college. "No, you are not wasting it." He added seriously. Still, there are no guarentees. But If a man loves a woman, shouldn't that be good enough? Anyway look at the parents. If mom was having multiple healthy kids after the age of 50, then maybe her 28 year old daughter has a chance. My grandma had her last child (my dad) at age 54, but that is definately unusual, "You gotta marry them young." my grandpa said with a wink, and I am afraid he was right. He only lived to 96, but he had a very hard life.

[@hazybliss4069]

So this is an awful statement is is kinda untrue. There are 50 year old women getting pregnant, getting pregnant in your 30s isn't as high risk as you think it is.

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

@@hazybliss4069 Those women getting pregnant at 50s are and not natural. Think about it.

[@BlythPer-co1ug]

Successful and rich men are all taken.

[@The9thMonth]

This is how a society goes extinct.

[@Fistful2923]

Not extinct but more to population decline as social and economic engineering takes hold.

[@InVinoVeratas]

These melodramatic comments seeing the first signs of "fall of society" never take into account how far we can fall before extinction. We haven't even fallen yet, this is just the beginning.

[@patrickjohnson195]

Good God then what does the end look like?😢​@InVinoVeratas

[@InVinoVeratas]

​@@patrickjohnson195look up "Behaviour Sink", its depressing and it's the clear indication if where all city dwelling societies are likely to beheading, as we have more and more people, with less and less space, the Behavioural norms that kept our societies steady, will begin to break and fall apart.

[@baahcusegamer4530]

As others here put, it won’t be the “end of society” but it will certainly be the end as we know it. There simply won’t be enough young people to care for the old while running civilization. The elderly will often and increasingly die alone, as is seen frequently in Japan. The ones who survive to reproduce will inevitably be those with a value to do so, which their children will see and hopefully emulate. Since it is mostly through religious beliefs that western families have more kids than the average, those who follow such belief systems will grow in proportion to the general, aging population. Time will tell if the society that comes after will learn from any of this.

[@fialee8]

I love the concept of the meat market... you find out your true worth really quickly if no one comes up to you. Those who are in demand have a line... those who don't, just stand there waiting for someone who will never show up.

[@angrydragon4574]

This is true for women. For men we must take a different approach because 80 percent of men (or more) are considered unattractive. Hence why so many women become leftover women, most women would rather stay single than settle.

[@wasdwasd609]

@@angrydragon4574 Yeah it blows my mind that women rate 80% of all men below average on looks alone... Like that's a real statistic. Now cut that by how many men are actually near them, make enough money, are nice enough, single, and actually wanting to meet, approach, and marry a particular woman. You, like every woman with these standards, have literally zero hope. Batshit insane.

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

The guy in the video is absolutely right, an economic stable and handsome men are already taken by young and beautiful women. Many leftover women adv more than men in the marriage market. Only 40+ and divorce men can fullfill their requirement, yet they don't want divorced men. So I ask you Chinese mature ladies, who is the picky one?

[@vincecarlton6842]

From here. We see that there is no difference whether the women are from the West or East. Hypergamy exists. Women seek resources, men seek youth.

[@ronnie5329]

I will say one thing, the attitude of many chinese women are far better than women from north america, on average. I do not know what you have put in the water in north america, because something went sideways at some point.

[@Arven8]

Yeah, I was kind of surprised to see the same ideas come out of Chinese womens' mouths that I hear from Western women constantly. But then, I wasn't surprised, either. Part of this is female nature; the other part is that social media (along with feminist values) has infiltrated Chinese culture.

[@hazybliss4069]

Men wanting a younger woman is no better than a woman wanting financial security. In fact, financial security is more reasonable than wanting a younger woman yet it's a problem for women to ask for that.

[@rogerhowell7592]

​@@hazybliss4069this is human nature. Hard wired into us. We need to live with it not trying and failing to change it.

[@hazybliss4069]

​​@@rogerhowell7592Which part is human nature? Striving for shelter and a comfortable life of course is human nature.

[@CBF2020]

Requirement and expectation is too high. I don’t think they will find anyone

[@Chainyanker007]

If Mr. Right shows up he won’t want to marry her, that’s the irony.

[@tgheretford]

They're chasing the top 0.001% of men worldwide. Men in that calibre can easily date 21 year old women and dump them at 25 with plenty of young women lining up to date him. It's pure delusion.

[@dancedance2866]

Men have dated down since creation. Women get on Board!!! Plenty of good men keeping your light on, roads constructed, internet, food on tables, planes in air. Women date down and adapt!

[@InVinoVeratas]

Mainstream society has expectations, and those expectations have been implemented and become social norms for younger generations to emulate from. "Dating down" is akin to social suicide, in the perspectives of those that care what society thinks, which is mainly women

[@th6566]

Absolutely. I don´t get their attitude. Maybe it´s a cultural difference when compared to more egalitarian countries? It´s ridiculous assuming that people without a degree are less educated, intelligent or capable of being a good partner. Would also be interesting to know why Chinese women are so much more educated than Chinese men. Maybe there are obstacles for men that could be removed. Still, the women´s requests are ridiculously high. They could just suck it up and be the main bread-winner. But then, some men´s egos don´t like dating up, so it might not be totally one-sided. And maybe even harder in a patriarchal society. Would be interesting to know more about that also.

[@angrydragon4574]

​@@th6566Men's egos don't like dating up? You must be on cocaine to say something that stupid.

[@glitzerplastikchichi]

@@th6566 Could it be that you see this too much on an individual level? Family expectations still play a major role in China; especially when it comes to marriage and the obligations that come with it: for example, taking care of your in-laws, etc. In addition, would Chinese men take on these responsibilities such as care work if the woman had a higher education and earned more? Even in Western countries, this is changing only slowly; not to mention China.

[@th6566]

@@glitzerplastikchichi Fair point. Indeed, I was looking into it on a more individual level and through the eyes of a more egalitarian society...in which there are still expectations, but you're not instantly an outcast if you're not fulfilling all of them.

[@Astro6655]

Girl below 20 - i don't care about men Girl below 30 - I have huge options Girl after 30 - please marry me

[@lovepain7443]

Girl after 30 is not girl but Wh*re who is being thrown out of market

[@SKIE-skie]

Men after 40- ill pay young women to pretend to like me.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I am over 40 and enjoy being single. But I would not mind marriage to a good guy too. I would take care of him too and I am nothing like these women.

[@SKIE-skie]

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj yeah, but they are looking for 20 year Olds to use them, so they can cry about her taking half later.

[@malbee280]

@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Go to a church to find a good man, then there's no excuse if you fail.

[@bert8373]

WTF kind of man are they looking for!?Elon Musk!?😅😂

[@MonnieJong]

Even he won’t want them lol😅

[@jakejoyride]

someone better as he don't match all the requirement boxes

[@bastardferret869]

I doubt he would be attractive enough.

[@Chainyanker007]

Is he taller than 1.7 meters? Lol

[@hazybliss4069]

​@@Chainyanker007Women in Asia don't care about height like that you're projecting.

[@SerenityMusicOasis]

Wow, just wow. In China, relationships are basically business contracts. How sad these people must be. Mind boggling.

[@tgheretford]

Same in the west if you haven't found someone and got married by your mid 20's at the latest. Online dating is the commodification of dating, to treat it in the same way as commerce.

[@hazybliss4069]

In case you didn't know, this is how traditional relationships are. Even in the West women married men for financial safety, the men married for looks. It was transactional, looks in turn for paying cash to be with her along with the status of having a beautiful wife hence the term trophy wife. This is tradition, but modern men have a problem with this because they can not afford tradition right now. So they will have to find traditional men.

[@HomeslicedVideos]

Marriage and reproduction therein has always been a business and/or political arrangement. Love is entirely optional.

[@DevendraMahendraSingh]

Women become lonely. Men start off lonely but learn to be alone without being lonely.

[@nicholasrockall7308]

Exactly right mate, men learn to be content, women buy cats and wine.

[@IsaacGravity]

This. Many of us guys learn early on that a table for one can be fun.

[@Firecracker876]

If that were true why are men online complaining about being lonely

[@bakerdow9884]

Exactly. When you don't give a toss that's when they swarm you like wasps 😂

[@Npc1488-wc1kf]

Cuz youre all losers 'raised' by single mommies

[@jerrywu6337]

Rich man can get 18-20 years old girl at any country any race. While woman after 30 is starting to losing their charm. Most of women criteria is a Rich man so only few who are really beautiful will get partner after 30

[@FADNaR]

Even a man who is not rich can save money in a year or two and go to another country for an accommodating bride. And it will be an order of magnitude easier than persuading Westernized women to be more modest.

[@nicholasrockall7308]

Not only lose their charm, but they start to become jaded and bitter. Who want's that?!

[@joebloe4374]

And for every wealthy single man in the world there are 100 attractive single women

[@nicholasrockall7308]

@@Ariel-x1x From my own experience, I can totally agree with you on this 👍

[@user-yb6tk1ru6x]

Why don't they just date gold digging young men?

[@skipperson4077]

I went from a long-term relationship to a divorce to being single. It was an adjustment going to restaurants and gatherings alone. Not having someone to talk to meant I heard a lot of others peoples conversations and let me say most women conversationally are the aural equivalent of pet pics and 'what I had for lunch', not much to say but that doesn't stop them from talking. Advice to both sexes would be to cultivate yourself, follow your interests, do what you can to help your community and then you will find community.

[@Ruth-os4mi]

Spinsters are nothing new. What's new is the internet allows them to whine for the cameras, instead of crying over the spinning wheel.

[@linguistengineer588]

isolating and relationship-commoditising Technology and developed-world Feminism seems to make more spinsters than there used to be, loneliness awaits more than in the past.

[@ronnie5329]

​@@linguistengineer588 i notice especially north american women seem to have played themselves. They are doing the bulk of complaining. Truth be told, dating has gone international, so an avg looking guy with and avg income, can find a woman with healthier attitudes abroad. Something went seriously wrong with the US culture.

[@Npc1488-wc1kf]

Dude, its a blessing Ive always know women for what they are Raised by women and Im CHAD Ive seen their true faces forever But ALL guys Ive known are litey devoted simps and always will be

[@goodnightmyprince6734]

My mother would have been happier "a spinster" now her children inherit her issues. I would repeat her mistakes.

[@alsparkproductions7849]

​@@goodnightmyprince6734then do not follow on her footsteps.

[@1HourMartinizing]

"they see themselves as luxury goods" Well golly jeepers where have we seen that before ?

[@SAMX2007]

These women mask their intentions with the word love, by love they mean money. They are gonna be buried with their checklist.

[@halleffect5439]

As a men, i can smell that kind of women. Thats why social skills are important for men. Not wasting time and energy and love to someone who cant do the same.

[@miltonsperring5970]

A man pursues education, career and wealth as a means to an end. The end being to attract a mate and support the resulting family. A woman pursues a career and her PhD because she wants to support herself, elevate herself. She buys a purse and shoes that other women envy. But she does not understand men and what attracts them. Instead she thinks of what attracts her and becomes those things.

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

well said. THey do not understand what man want in a women. THe only thing they are good at is advertising their demands. THey have little to offer, when past 30 yrs old. Chinese men knows EXACTLy want they want.

[@Redjoker96]

Honestly women should have been kept largely out of the job market except for those jobs that women are naturally good at like customer service etc. This instability will cause most society to collapse from infighting.

[@Firecracker876]

@@Redjoker96how about lazy males not breed and solve the whole problem of single women all together

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

@@Redjoker96 Agreed. These Chinese women with their (unless) education, have high demands for their partner, which they beleive is equal to that of their partner. What they fail to understand, that men will always be the head of the family and the main income earner for the family. So their master and PHd degrees works well in the cooporate world, BUT not in a relationship. It is sad that these women beleive their degree grants them equal rights in a relationship. Chinese men want women to bear children and take care of the home. We want them to be simple and let men take care of the income.

[@drevnikocur54]

Wrong. She buys herself freedom from DV and male BS.

[@davidburnett5049]

Pre watch guess, they are all trying to date the same ten dudes, meanwhile complaining to every normal dude that there are no single dudes.

[@angrydragon4574]

Hence why it makes sense that the ratios of leftover women to men are 9 leftover women for 1 man. 😂

[@Goni983]

Yeeeaa lol exactly, I’d be willing to bet they’re being real picky and not looking very far

[@davidburnett5049]

@@Goni983 a prince charming under rock, and every one part of the .1% in wealth.

[@ura9390]

The 9:1 ratio shows men's view on dating in China. They aren't even bothering with the matchmaking, they know that with the women being like this, with these expectations, there is just no point

[@rockys7726]

For a country with a huge disproportionate men/women ratio there is no reason why a single woman can't find a partner. The problem is these women are waaay too selective. They feel most men are not good enough for them. I can't believe there are not plenty of men that pursue them. The women are just too picky.

[@User-ts53698]

it's good to have standards otherwise it will lead to unhappy marriage. It's reasonable if they want t

[@rockys7726]

@@User-ts53698 Well then they will be single... they need to compromise.

[@alsparkproductions7849]

​@@User-ts53698it's no good for them to be sky high tho. Otherwise you end up single.

[@jau1976]

This is not entirely true. Even if some/most of these women have "too high standards" In China, even with their disproportionate numbers between men and women, the cultural history is still very predominant, and therefore women still also get discarded, if they are much older than 26 years. So it is not always because of their selective nature.

[@rockys7726]

@@jau1976 So a highly educated, beautiful women with a high paying job will not be able to find a partner? I disagree. I'm sure they have plenty of suitors but they just cannot get themselves to lower their standards. They become overqualified... and single.

[@Badmuthaphka]

TOFU women 😂😅😂😅😂

[@djm2189]

Damn you made me cackle 😂

[@demonslayer9772]

Tofu-dreg women

[@Nomad-XA]

They all charging brand new Bugatti prices for a use Kia with a total title

[@regulustheron2565]

Kia? More like LADA!

[@cooltune]

That's tough. Women as they grow older raise their expectations because they feel the long wait is supposed to be met with equivalent results. But that's emotional thinking, not logical in the slightest. An aging man would gladly settle for (waaaay) less when choices are diminishing.

[@hossamhosnimostafa5354]

It is called the sunk-cost fallacy. Google it and you will be amazed how that affects everyone who uses emotions instead of logic. I completely agree with you.

[@ThingsfromTaiwan]

This is exactly the correct explanation!

[@whitefata12]

I think an aging man has better leverage than an aging woman since they don't have the short time constraint for reproduction unlike girls. As long as he sticks to his growth, his value will eventually go up and he will still be able to reproduce.

[@murrowboy]

Whenever beautiful women complain they can't find a man, It's THEM. I don't believe for one second simps won't be lining up no matter how bad their personality is. Either that or they want you to sign up to their only fans. Give me a break.

[@camichiBichi]

Are you ok?

[@ura9390]

none of these women were 'beautiful', they were presentable but thats it.They were 6 out of 10 but feel they deserve a 10

[@kzarz0219]

Be optimistic. Buy a cat and invest in catfood.

[@Magikarp-4ever]

@kzarz0219 you killed me 😂😂😂😂😂

[@TJChanctjctjctj]

😀😃😄😁😆😅🤣😂

[@cbro777]

I'm 65, male and single and live in the United States. I went on a Chinese date site to see what Chinese women were about. Most of them were absolutely stunning and well educated. But what surprised me was that women as young as 50 were relentlessly sending me messages and wanting to get to know me. I don't think it was desperation but they clearly want to meet people outside of China. These women put American women to shame. They don't seem to age and they take care of themselves. It's just too bad they too are a bit materialistic though. A universal problem with women I fear.

[@sonnybrakes8496]

Desirable men and women have no shortage of suitors. The bigger question should be, how soon will it be before society disintegrates without there being the family as the centrepiece of our lives?

[@angrydragon4574]

Probably within 50-70 years.

[@jamesdavis727]

it has already begun.

[@JohnSmith-hv6ks]

There are vastly more desirable women. The only thing society can do is legalise polygamy

[@feliciaf8]

Family values aleady declining

[@ronnie5329]

Just date women in countries where there still is family values. International dating is a possibility many western men should know about. And if you see this shaming of those who go abroad to date, women knows they dont have this opportunity so they will try and shame men instead of becoming nice to be around.

[@fauxhound5061]

A woman who wants a relationship focuses on it,not let herself wither away for a wage

[@kiaayo33]

Marry your Partner or your Job, you can't do Both!

[@FADNaR]

The funny thing is that women consider it normal to please, serve and obey the boss for a salary, but refuse to respect their own husband and men in general.

[@j562gee0hdeewestsdegethemuLa]

The first girl just wants someone to be miserable with .. wonder why she's single

[@asiancavemanr7657]

this is the damaging effect of social media

[@RagnarokGenesis00]

Step 1: get off the internet. Step 2: be less selfish Step 3: get connected with opposite sex Step 4: repeat 1-4 Since I know staying away from the internet and no need to say be discerning since yall naturally discriminating however dont stick to bad quality in people.

[@ElrondMcBonk]

If men don't make enough money, they don't stand a chance to begin with. If a man makes enough money, he doesn't need a woman with a career. She wasted her youth getting a degree she wouldn't need anyway if she had gotten a good man. At least she has a degree so she isn't lost, just lonely.

[@angrydragon4574]

😂😂😂😂

[@User-ts53698]

if she doesn't get a degree, and decide to get married, she will be a house wife and a slave at home e.g. being controlled by the husband and when he dumps her for a younger woman, how can she lives and raises her kids with no education? no need to get married as it's not a happy ending

[@hazybliss4069]

​@@User-ts53698Exactly, the degree is for just in case. Sure she used her years for a backup plan but at least she has something to fall back on if she never ever gets married rather than desperately waiting to be taken care of.

[@morpheus1586]

Even at a lower/discount price, a mature fruit doesnt sell.

[@angrydragon4574]

That's because the price for these over ripened fruit is still way too high.

[@morpheus1586]

@@angrydragon4574 bingo

[@ura9390]

and a mature fruit that expects you to provide you with cash and an expensive lifestyle and be a certain height? 🤣 Sells even worse

[@angrydragon4574]

@@ura9390 You almost got it right. That fruit isn't even mature, it's rotting.

[@btbshk]

Their expectations are way too high!!!! Like something out of a fantasy world. Why would I pay to get a woman like that? I’d rather stay single, and if I ever feel like having some 'fun', I’ll call someone for the night and send her back home to her parents in the morning. Guys, think about what you’re doing. Don’t waste your money or time on today’s women and their insane or fantasy demands.

[@setyobudilimantara4792]

Women can just keep crying as men will just carry on their life

[@subterragaming836]

Imagine having an ocean of fish and not able to capture even 1 of those fish . Sad women

[@Nookdashiddole]

But they're high quality women😂

[@PeterRudesindus]

Based Chinese men.

[@sunen7129]

They not interested in fish. they want whales.

[@larzkruber822]

All they want is a six foot chinese guy with a bachelor degree as CEO and 3 lambos IS THAT TO MUCH TO ASK?😭😭😭

[@kiaayo33]

​@@larzkruber822Lmao you hit it on the head!

[@AndrewHadi07]

I am not religious.. But I am starting to see why religion across the board encourages woman to a certain lifestyle.

[@lookoutforchris]

The older you get the more you see that traditional mainline Christianity is 98% correct. Women are not stable on their own and cannot make good choices. Their personalities are imbalanced so that they are balanced properly with a child. Not marrying correctly and not having g children turns them into civilization destroying demons.

[@xingzheli7431]

It's to reinforce the cultural status quo. That is one of the functions of religion.

[@ciklop4206]

Form of control yes

[@ligmasack9038]

It's almost like "Gender Roles" exist for a reason.

[@ligmasack9038]

@@xingzheli7431 Says the CCP Tencent Shill.

[@puddingpoppalpatine-6070]

How do disabled men ever find a partner over there? I'm disabled and I understand my chances are pretty bad but at least in the West there are many who understand if not accept disabled people. With such criteria for marriage it is truly a wonder how anyone gets hitched.

[@rengurenge]

In east disabled "don't exist", they stay at home most of time because infrastructure is not that accommodative to their needs and society is not as understanding like in west. Not that long ago it used to be shame to have such relative or family member.

[@TheWil888]

A woman in her 30's, highly educated, have good income, owns a home and car, then she doesn't need all these material things from a man, she can lower her standard and find a good, kind man who will love her and start a family with her.

[@User-ts53698]

settle for less and end up with unhappy marriage? You know asian guy has high ego and they feel threatened when their wives are smarter or earn more money than them?

[@TheWil888]

@@User-ts53698 A happy or unhappy outcome in a marriage or relationship depends on the person's character, it has very little to do with status or money.

[@chithiennguyen1371]

​@@User-ts53698girl, no man in Asia feel threatened by a woman who earn more than him. It's the woman feeling less value of herself married to a man who earns less than her. When a woman earns more than a man, she is more likely to cheat on him because she think she deserves more.

[@SO-jp6gh]

@@User-ts53698 Untrue. In fact, most men would find it an added bonus to have a wife who is smarter and earns more money than them. It's the woman who can't handle a man who is dumber and earns less money. You cleverly tried to reverse the true phenomenon.

[@SO-jp6gh]

@@User-ts53698 In reality, men in general (and especially Asian men, who for whatever reason you've singled out) not only wouldn't mind it, but would find it an awesome added bonus if their own intelligence and money could be supplemented by a wife who has even greater intelligence and money. I consider myself very high in intelligence. I'm smart enough to know that if my intelligence is X and my goal is to have intelligent kids, then a woman with intelligence X+Y increases my chances of having smart kids.

[@grsmith4905]

Hang in there. You are the most important person in life! You are an individual person. I see you have so much to offer! Take care!❤

[@alaypatel6050]

Fun to see strong wheymen fighting nature, while they cant even fight their emotions 😂😂😂

[@narcissistinjurygiver2932]

well these women in their 30's are going to have to look for men in their 50's

[@benyomovod6904]

They imitated not just Western goods, but all bad habits of our Karens

[@spiderjerusalem6887]

it's almost like all china can do is attempt to be a poor imitation. in manufacturing, design, politics etc. Sad.

[@InVinoVeratas]

This is the end result of the one child policy, along side generations of feminism to read from in the west for all to model and replicate from, internationally.

[@fullmindstorm]

​@@InVinoVeratasThey could of done their university while being married but feminism I dont need no man.

[@InVinoVeratas]

​@@fullmindstormapparently you can't find love and get a degree at the same time, despite all signs indicating that spending time with people of similar interests and values should lead to a successful relationship, instead people want thr facades of "the perfect relationship" when in reality said relationships they want to emulate are behind cameras and presented to look that way, without it actually being a "perfect relationship" more like a perfect pair of actors in a play performance for others to clamor over.

[@456inthemix]

​@@spiderjerusalem6887 Everything is imitation, nothing authentic, even foreign worldviews have adopted communism instead of Daoism.

[@vishakhz6744]

Don't rescue them. Let them be

[@bestyet905]

Don't feel sorry for these women they are looking for prince charming. They worked on their career for themselves, not realizing men work on their careers for their families.

[@makeitcount2985]

Strange when men start careers way before marriage

[@KarynaStoica2008]

I feel sorry for them because they received an uselless life education from parents/society. Same goes for men. The expectations are unrealistic on both sides becsuse ... they were rsised that way. Girls are waiting for prince charming, who is supposed to be ABOVE them, but they pusehed themselves so high, there are too few men above them. Also boys expect girls to be BELLOW them, just all girls they know are above them, socially. The education does not allow them to addapt and switch roles.

[@ura9390]

not one of them talk about the joy of being a wife or mother and what they can contribute to the marriage, its all about material gain from mystical prince

[@MrMaxeemum]

Dating by numbers, keeping it classy, well done China.

[@ElrondMcBonk]

Why should a high quality guy go after 30+ if he can get 18+?

[@Freerider93]

But you're not high quality though.

[@KappaKiller108]

Because he's not creepy?

[@detectivefischer6396]

​@@Freerider93neither are you since you're paid 50 cents per comment by daddy xi

[@iatethecrayons]

yall have expectations that are too high, men and women. Youre not that special. Youre delusional. you have the perceptoin someone will take care of you and want you the way you are. Youre blind to how much youre worth because youre narcissistic by nature now. 18 year olds dont want old men. its not something thats happening everywhere. its a narrative youve fed to your delusional selves. yall are boring, dumb, a mid. get over yourselves. work on yourselves.

[@Freerider93]

​@@detectivefischer6396 I live in the US. It's just weird how poor men talk about what high quality men want.

[@mathewphoria7228]

@1:20 she says marriage is a guarantee and foundation for life and that couldnt be more wrong. when half of marriages end in divorce i wouldnt call that a guarantee.

[@shirogami4224]

There are other countries besides the US. Get yourself out of the bubble.

[@TheNapkuchen]

​@@shirogami4224 I've checked the data and the divorce rates in PRoC and the USA are almost identical

[@andyle1984]

When I married my wife 13 years ago, I had nothing, now I have everything.

[@sangwonkim9298]

Lucky When I had nothing the girl I liked left. I changed my look, started earning good money, worked on my personality and became more easy going and fun. I now attract more women, but I developed severe trust issues. I think it is because how different women treat me now.

[@j562gee0hdeewestsdegethemuLa]

No such thing as high quality Chinese except for this channel

[@jiminauburn5073]

My wife was one of those leftover women. We eventually met online, her in China and me in the US. I think her parents thought that she would never get married, she was 33 when we got married.

[@TheoInTheHouse]

Sounds like you met her standards.

[@FadingVitals]

Sounds like the big love…

[@ronnie5329]

​@@TheoInTheHousethe standards of an avg chinese woman, around 30, is not like in the west at all, or should i say north america. Where it seems to be the worst to date. But sure, you can find these type of women in chinas big cities

[@espanol9498]

are you white?

[@jiminauburn5073]

@@espanol9498 Does it matter? Yes, I am.

[@dianewebb206]

There are lots of good single men left in this world. There are also lots of good single women left in this world. Standards are unreasonable on both sides.

[@tgheretford]

I fail to see how "I want someone to acknowledge my existence" is considered too high a standard for a single man to have. Because that's where we are now with a sizeable number of single men.

[@rgx420s]

They are looking for men who don't exist with those expectations.

[@369tayaholic5]

When the table turns, they are angry, desperate and still blame it all on men while never realizing they are the problems themselves.

[@clynt7452]

they never learn... marriage is not a business transaction.

[@monilip]

It has been a business transaction for centuries.

[@dudamara]

"Blah blah blah blah. Here's what you need to provide me: bunch of money and a place to stay, and a car." Honestly, what sounds attractive about this especially when their eggs are dried up, and provide nothing but a contemptible personality to back it?

[@ura9390]

can you imagine how they would view a man on a date who would want all of that from them? Offering to them what they offer to men (essentially nothing, note even the prospect of a family with their mouldy eggs)? Yeah sweety, i need a woman to provide me cash, car and house etc, your breast size needs to be in the upper quartile blah blah, oh yeah I cant have kids either

[@bastardferret869]

"I've become too old because I listened to girl-boss feminism, now I'm desperate. I will marry anyone now, so long as they are Chad." Hahaha. Even in China.

[@pipsy7316]

Blackpill! 😂

[@markaven5249]

I like ferrets

[@eggs1312]

incel alert

[@hazybliss4069]

The fact that you even use the word "chad" to speak on a serious subject makes your opinion invalid.

[@ura9390]

girl-boss feminism has made women more unhappy than anything else could have done. Sold them a cruel lie. These deluded women are left high, dry (shrivelled eggs actually), entitled and at a loss why they cant get what they want (which is the opposite ofwhat feminism told them), they actually crave a man. They really believe being a girl-boss ISNT a massive universal turn off for men, and that Mr Right should come running with his millions and his roses

[@kenji4861]

10:25 this man has the power to change the gravity around him

[@chopaface]

Stop comparing ourselves to objects... If you do, then that's what they'll treat you as... Objects. Something to toss if one thing doesn't float their boat.

[@kiaayo33]

Women want a Grocery List of stuff in a Man inorder to give him a shot while a Man only wants the 3 F's, Feminine, Feral, Fit, but saying that if you don't have what the other side wants then you must lower expectations

[@lars-erikstrid2278]

In sweden we talk about "Kåt,glad och tacksam" or horny, happy and grateful.

[@hazybliss4069]

This woman is only asking for a man with money though, you're projecting hard.

[@returntosender8389]

How long before the government starts assigning spouses?

[@leonelvelarde4921]

These women are not looking for a husband/partner, they are looking for a Sugar Daddy that qualifies as a prince. LBV

[@OctavioAraujo]

Dillusional expectations is getting very dangerous for the modern women

[@BillyBob-hz2wx]

It's so clear and an easy concept to understand, yet none of these women see it

[@rgx420s]

Get a passport bro LOL.

[@bastardferret869]

I'm not saying it's not bad there, it obviously is. But it's interesting to me that a mother could physically drag her daughter to a marriage market. it tells me things are still at least somewhat still traditional there, even if it's hanging by a thread.

[@rgx420s]

@@bastardferret869 Too late. Feminism has already infiltrated China LOL.

[@user-bz5io6ph8w]

0:50 men don't care about your degree.

[@thewaydownmachine]

Men just want a nice girl. Men do not care about degrees. I don't know when women lost the instruction manual how to get a man.

[@martinithechobit]

4:08 100 days?. this is the same problem when I try to date "older" women. they try to SPEED RUN it. I find that weird and uncomfortable- what is your agenda?. Most men don't like that.

[@prescottosegie]

this was an interesting video nice info about china dating market overall. i definitely a reminder for me to be aware and always to continue to learn

[@danielgrayling5032]

"my emotions are unstable, my personality isn't great and I don't have much money" The honesty and bluntness are quite hilarious. I would swipe right.

[@vipondiu]

Her: "I only have 4 requirements" Me: "That's impossible, women have hundreds of requirements" Her: Proceeds to list multiple requirements on each point. .......Well played my beloved sheng-nü, well played

[@Gnefitisis]

How much do you want to bet she'll be lonely AF?