" MODERN WOMEN DEMAND That Men Pay ALL THEIR BILLS! " | The Coffee Pod

[@ChishaZed]

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[@cmonson1]

lol @22:30 Same wmn talking about how they do all the emotional labor in a relationship....

[@empathyworks8890]

22:50 I think you got your first memeable quotable my friend. "These modern women ARE godless". Amen.

[@SwanRonsonDonnyJepp]

£40 for a simple coffee mug.....wtf you on 😂

[@Geminicricketi]

Chisha, you do not be listening. That girl did not say if you can’t afford yourself and one other person you’re broke. That’s not what she said.

[@empathyworks8890]

@@Geminicricketi Don't mind him. He's just hearing what he want to hear, like these bishes in the street do. #equality

[@wolfgang548]

Women: My body, my choice Me: Your bills, your responsibility.

[@gammafrost]

Perfect response.

[@OldMovieFan1973]

Sir I am borrowing that one

[@nonyabiz12]

Her body...her choice. My money...my choice.

[@17thN.O]

So will I.

[@Destroyer-Grizzly-BIH]

My bills *

[@SalemArc]

I didn't want my pick of any woman I could get. I just wanted the woman I could spend the rest of my life with. And she's currently downstairs watching Bridgerton while making me strawberry lemon bars.

[@wellwait4197]

❤️❤️. You sound like my husband. It’s 5am here, been up since 330 getting his lunch ready. I couldn’t care less what these miserable creatures call me. I’m happy and loved by a wonderful man and will continue to add to our lives. I’m happy for you!

[@racheljensen938]

😂 they call us girls.. "pick mes'" the ones that want to build with a good man.. and by "they" im refering to SOME salty b.w.

[@Mythoatissodry]

​@@racheljensen938you tweaking coming out your body on bw like that. Don't let this Internet shit get you

[@thebipolarpsychonaut4984]

​@@racheljensen938 Pick me's get picked. That's what really makes them salty because they are too lazy to be a pick me and get picked.

[@wellwait4197]

@@racheljensen938 . I’ve grown to love that term. I look around at my life, the wonderful man I married, the life we’ve created and I just laugh at these modern women. I wouldn’t trade my life for all the money in the world. So yep, call me a Pick Me everyday. They’d be lucky beyond measure to have my life, but are just too ignorant and self-centered to understand that fact. But I suspect at a certain age they will. I wish you the best 😘😘

[@Vipershadow1]

Respectfully it’s gonna be a no for me Chief. protect ya resources fellas☕️

[@passportninja2994]

Finding the right woman is definitely one of the hardest jobs that we'll ever have in life.

[@SeanHenderson]

Slowly but surely the free ride is coming to and end!

[@ugo1174]

Hopefully in the end, our generation will have achieved soemthing

[@SeanHenderson]

@@ugo1174 our generation meaning?

[@danieltracey652]

The last generation said, women are going to stand up for equality, just to find out they lost thier seat on the bus.

[@gorillabang79]

I am a provider. I provide her with instruction so she doesn't end up in self-destruction.

[@raymamba1962]

Im a provider. I provide women with directions to the nearest SIMP.

[@incredibleshrinkingfungus1731]

Does the providee listen and act on your advice? Probably not.

[@FC-xc3zy]

Won't save.

[@seanin1990]

That's what I tell em. I can provide instructions so yo bummy butt doesn't have to ask me for money

[@algram8541]

I don’t do that anymore. Ur working for no progress. She’ll just use it for the next man

[@rangerwalker5369]

These modern day women don’t want providers, they want sponsors.

[@King-ns7it]

Facts, just said this the other day

[@ShimmyShakingIt]

Don’t blame modern women. Blame the women who rap about it in the media and radio, they’re the influencers influencing this thought process.

[@daddyeyez740]

​@@ShimmyShakingItyall.always blaming somebody else for yall BS.

[@King-ns7it]

@@marcelking1488 not true because provision isn't based on money, provision is based on some many other things

[@King-ns7it]

@@ShimmyShakingIt you just talked and said the dumbest thing ever, why as an adult would you be influenced by anything or anybody, you're responsible for you and what you chose to do. Rappers are modern vvomen not have a mind of their own, which we know they don't, their like children that want attention and to be accepted, cut the 🧢

[@simonjarvis2523]

Not my wife? Heck, not my Life. Pay your OWN bills.

[@Kiki-Scorpio]

A man doesn't have to pay bills. A man just needs to be him self. They want to be respected.

[@malik5531]

Exactly you can only fake for so long just be yourself and if they don’t fuck with you on to the next

[@ericwilliams5553]

Correct 👍🏽💚 @kiki...u is a woman that understands, us real brothers needs women like u & we will do u da same sweetie🎉

[@niallfitzpatrick6568]

100 per cent. Well said!

[@visionarywriter]

Yeah I don’t see why these women want a free check. We all want a free check. They gotta realize they gotta pay something! Oh I get it not the important stuff but what they want to spend it on…only if life was like that. 🙌🏽😎🏄🏽‍♂️🚣🏽‍♀️

[@THX5000]

No woman is out of your league... just out of your PRICE RANGE.

[@blackthor5517]

Ty, Been saying that , I hate out of ur league saying, we all human, not equal but human , so same league unless u superwoman

[@kalvincarter5621]

CGA

[@ralphpinkins5619]

She’s not out of your price range either . Her conditions change , magically you qualify

[@patrickwhite5989]

Real relationships are 100/100. We both work together period. Our family /Our money and Our future.

[@MoGood2158]

💯

[@ruedawson9958]

Women been this way waaaayyyy before social media

[@deeboxjones6601]

True but social media made things worse. The difference is before it was actual beautiful women who made these statements. Nowadays it be the women nobody pays attention to. Hell the Ugly women think their 10s😂. Social media made things worse. At least before non beautiful woman were much more humble and accepting of average males. They stayed in their lane. Now they think that lane magically disappeared.

[@carcarjinks1430]

when she said that groceries cost a $1000 a month, i KNEW RIGHT THERE that she is wasteful with her money. watch how a woman shops for groceries, and watch what she does with her leftovers. if a woman has food in her trash can, she is TOO WASTEFUL FOR MARRIAGE!!

[@chitownbob9714]

It could be $1000 per month. Depending on how many kids you have! Or how much wine they buy! Or if they are squeezing their makeup budget with grocery budget!😂

[@christianhutchinson4559]

$1000/mo is very low for groceries for a family of 4.

[@carcarjinks1430]

@@christianhutchinson4559 maybe in some place like california or hawaii where everything is more expensive. i can feed 4 on less than half that. easy. even so, you'd have to be throwing away a lot of food to get up to 1000 dollars.

[@kubbykush420]

​@carcarjinks1430 , you forgot , that's you and good for you.

[@christopherjackson7670]

Wasteful? Shes just a liar

[@steveyj3002]

Men , your time and energy and emotions are as valuable as your counterparts and if they aren’t reciprocating , let them go and avoid those types

[@MrBlockice22]

Hell I thought paying your bills is considered "Being A Adult".... Being Single WIns Championships.

[@iceman_2360]

Modern women will call men broke all day long all the while facing an eviction or a utility being shut-off.

[@seanin1990]

Once had a chick call me a bum because I wouldn't give her money to get her electricity turned back on. Told her best I could do was drop off some old birthday cake candles 😆

[@ElePranaityte]

It is hard to provide for oneself these days, imagine providing for two! These women are not realistic.

[@carsonc29]

social media and influencers like the sprinkle sprinkle chic tell them otherwise

[@blacmamba9665]

It’s giving broke 💁🏽‍♂️

[@beerussama6810]

💁‍♂

[@dat619soulja]

theyre fucking exhausting lmao, thank god i dont have to deal with em.

[@damonkinc]

I don’t deal with them either!

[@17thN.O]

The only dudes that go for that are the ones who think that's what they got to do.

[@Marcus-tl2sd]

The lady at the end was 100% correct and it was very refreshing listening to her speak about the issues in our community. In relation to dating and relationships.

[@Nightmare_-ix7dk]

You don't need to be rich , these women can't tell the difference between rich dude and poor if they didn't know what you work. Even if they knew your job example owning plumbing business making 500k per year or being lawyer making 100k they will go with the lawyer because "status" so they can brag anout it to their girl friends.

[@PrinceH8907]

and they WONDER.....why they the least married group of women

[@MariaHeredia-dw4id]

Paying for a used up Gluerilla 🦍 ain’t it or worth it.

[@sauceboss354]

I will only pay bills in my home for my wife or woman that is in my home I have authority over.

[@GUNMETALGUYUSA]

Mic 🎤 Drop

[@17thN.O]

If I can't tell you what to do, you won't listen me and you are an independent woman, then you will be independently paying for everything you want and get. You are a strong woman, I believe in you. You go girl! Make that bread, spend that bread!

[@DanFKing-rp8go]

It’s proven many times over that money and love don’t save marriage. Billionaires and millionaires have gotten divorced

[@steveStonehedge]

Why should I pay my builds for a girl I just met . Also if you was paying your bills before you met me …why now ? Also who is going to pay my bills if I gotta use all my money to pay yours 😂

[@DarthAngel2]

Wahmen: if he doesn't pay for all my bills then he's broke. Also wahmen: If YoUr BrOkE jUsT sAy ThAt. Me: are yall the new clowns?

[@derrickeaton1269]

They are brotha, they are!!!!

[@chrisiehinds7463]

I'm Chrisanne, from Barbados. I am currently engaged to be married later this year. I love my man. Im 31years old; he is 46 years old. I love taking advice from him. He is my king. He could lead me while Im blind-folded because I trust him. I want him to be happy in life, to prosper. I thank God for him. I love you Clarence.

[@househeadspeakz]

You can tell by the women in these videos who have been in a committed relationship and who have not. The last woman who is married gets the dynamic. I have a friend who was an attorney and married to a software specialist. When they had their 2 children, she put her career on hold to be a stay-at-home mom. My other friends who are married are empty nesters. My other friend retired from her job to be a full-time caregiver of their daughter and her husband is a mechanic. When a couple is married they both know what the other brings to the table. Modern women will never understand that and as a result, they will remain single.

[@keptbygrace6221]

Many women would gladly put their careers on hold if their husbands' income would allow it. There are growing communities of homeschoolers and black stay at home moms.

[@dne9394]

They don’t want a “provider”, they want a giant wallet, ATM, and retirement plan. They have ZERO intentions of committing to a man, what they WILL do is stay with you as long as your cash is flowing AND they have not met your replacement yet. YET is the key word. She is ALWAYS seeking your replacement. The divorce is planned before the wedding.

[@reddawg3604]

Even modern women with multiple kids by multiple men still be wanting a man for stability n be a provider n pay all her bills n kids expenses but what does he get in return

[@jbb8261]

Absolutely nothing

[@NoMoney67]

Stress!! ☹️

[@benjamincarnes9117]

Yep. I’m attempting to coach one of those right now. I don’t think she has what it takes to face reality though. Just to clarify I’m not with her lol she’s just a friend I feel bad for. She was sold a lie and bought it.

[@jbb8261]

@@benjamincarnes9117 if a father wasn’t in her life to teach her, she is almost certainly doomed. What you’re saying is probably flying so far over her head

[@deeboxjones6601]

Marriage is a new age scam. Males get nothing out of marriage we cant get dating. We have learned that marriage isnt about love at all but is a business. If thats so then it would be highly dangerous and stupid for a man to invest in used goods. Even if your a muti billionaire your best sticking to paying beautiful escorts for their time then marry someone who gonna leave and take everything from you. A womans worth has been brought down to the level of "Can you afford her?" If you gotta ask its never worth it. To many in the ocean to reel in bland half dead fish.

[@JermaineSmalls-se4nu]

And women wonder why most of us men have giving up! I'm not your personal ATM machine! Y'all love to throw it in a man face of how much money and education you have. So, use your OWN damn money and education to provide for your damn self! I'm so glad that I'm single and don't have to worry about NONE of this BS!

[@gammafrost]

I’m not going to be the “provider” these modern chicks desire. I remember you covered a video a few months back where I think it involved a Muslim family. They had two kids. She was trying to convince him to make her a stay at home wife where she’ll make all the food and give extra blowj*bs. He said no since it wasn’t logical. She got upset and used the kids against him emotionally by saying he would divorce when he needed space (after she quit her job and was spending extra).She also convinced the parents to side with her. Men should not have to work themselves to death in a marriage when you’re both supposed to help eachother.

[@markbrown1255]

Funny 😂😂😂😂these Modern day women said that they were Independent and don't need men but these be the same women on Social media. Crying and Complaining about car prices bills and other shit

[@AC-ss5oy]

this is really weird...im black and my mom and all her sisters didnt really "do more around the house" . they outsourced everything but cooking to the kids. all they did was cook. we cleaned, we took out the trash, we washed clothes and the dishes. we ironed our parents clothes...so this idea that women actually do more around the house is CAP. they train the children to do it.

[@chunky9791]

33:27 *Masculine Energy Warning* Loud yelling, lots of hand movement & gestures, etc

[@17thN.O]

So let me get this right, if you are not rich you are "broke" or if you are willing or able to retire a chick, let them live a "soft life", send them on weekly trips, Berkin Bags and shopping everyday makes you "broke"??? Fcuk outta here.

[@Realliedoe]

Studies has shown that 3 out of 5 women between ages 18-50 will visit China 🇨🇳 at least once in their lifetime… To see that DAMN GREAT WALL! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@JosephChandler-vd1cs]

Hahaha

[@willmallory9085]

Not until marriage, IF she even QUALIFIES for my ring. Why does she have so much debt in the first place???

[@CLJINDUSTRIESINC]

I like the last woman's perspective of going 100/100. That was real!!!

[@kbrabson]

These issues obviously existed long before social media.

[@pricecole1172]

The fact that women say "pay my bills" excludes men altogether!

[@BarryElmore-y8m]

Keep up the good work big brother. 🎉

[@jinxie712]

12:08 so something she says, but doesn't highlight and women won't hear it. Her mom didn't use the bank account selfishly. They sat down a discussed things. All they'll hear is the single account and hom giving her his pay checks.

[@MoGood2158]

Exactly

[@ms.divinesunshine]

Yes actions speak louder than words. Your love and support should be shown! I’ve been the one supporting my man in hard times, up at 5am packing lunch making coffee and cooking dinner all while working myself. Sent him out the door very much satisfied…. And he cheated still. These are the situations that make me want to be single. I’m a good woman with no daddy issues. But PEOPLE are trash these days…

[@blkgostnone4092]

It’s a blessing to be married to a woman with strong core values, poise, intelligence, and beauty 🙏🏾 They do exist stateside gentlemen….definitely neddles in fields of haystacks. Then again I met my wife 20 years ago

[@donaldstancil4377]

The first woman was attractive, so I assumed she was going to say something stupid. That's how crazy it's gotten.

[@KENOMAN1969]

Chick said we're done. Oh yeah girl you're done all right.😅😅😅

[@rickraider1445]

No matter the he has, she will still cheat 100%

[@ze_nofit]

Money will not save the relationship, but not having money will be the downfall of the relationship.

[@sterlingkayon84]

sounds like the relationship is just doomed lol

[@kingdele01]

The best system I've heard of involves the following: - Both review their budget and determine reasonable amounts to spend on their family's wants, needs, luxuries, and investments. - They then decide what percentage of each person's income to combine income to allocate for these expenses (anywhere from 50 to 70% each). - Then the remaining money is for each individual's savings, investments, and guilt-free spending.

[@JosephChandler-vd1cs]

That's how we did it! I would not have gotten married otherwise.

[@raharmonnelson7537]

They not brainwashed.... they like what they like..... and that's money and no responsibilities 2:46

[@BUnspoken]

We can all thank destiny's child for these chicks

[@kevinstills9818]

No cohabitation no wife no girlfriend. Friend with benefits and do not pay her bills guy. Smarten up. When you met her she maintained her own lifestyle so continue to let her do that

[@jbb8261]

Incel vibes. If you aren’t meeting *any* good women, you need to look in the mirror

[@shirleycollins2296]

The only time I see this being a topic of conversation is on the internet between single people. Same with the six figure conversation, I never asked anyone I was dating how much they made yearly!

[@omarlewis8201]

they do fear 😨 god that almighty 🙏🏽💵

[@franchottwoodjr6181]

I agree with everything you said in this video, sir.

[@ralvarado480]

Wife wakes up at 4am to pack up my lunch and coffee!! It’s possible

[@Danmandingo]

*Better to SAVE YOUR MONEY, and enjoy yourself.* 🤔

[@I_am_ENSanity]

Nah, I'm good.

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

If you paid all the bills, they’d complain that the household chores are a job so you’re even.

[@cmonson1]

1,000 a month for groceries... sheesshh what are you eating. I buy most of the groceries for 3 adults and mostly shop at whole foods and sprouts and I don't spend close to that.

[@sterlingkayon84]

dont you see her size. c'mon now son. we all know cats and cows dont eat the same.

[@isaiahthomas4444]

Can you react to the woman the left her engagement to go the Chris Brown concert?

[@Bmorechef89]

It’s always the single woman they won’t never understand men or everything we provider

[@robertmonroejr1315]

Back in the 80’s a co-worker introduced me to his friend who was worth around $25 million. He worked as a mechanic because he liked the work and being around guys. He wore jeans, t-shirts, work boots, and baseball caps. He drove a pickup truck. He lived in a house that looked like the one on the “Roseanne” TV show (he also owned a bunch of houses in the neighborhood that were rental properties. He told me that he didn’t want people, especially women, knowing that he was wealthy so he presented as the complete opposite of wealth for his peace of mind. Meanwhile, there are people who barely have a pot to piss in who’re walking around trying to present as if they’re millionaires.

[@FedupAmerican1982]

Not just bills but all her wasteful spending.

[@praxym9293]

Its not bout money but generosity and leadership

[@davidtaylor6772]

I provide 100% of everything outside of the house. That’s multiple income streams, 2 health insurance plans, dental, eyes, life insurance, vacations, plays anything we buy. My wife does 100% of the cooking, cleaning, and child raising. She handles buying groceries with my credit card. This system works great for us so there isn’t wasteful spending and me being the only decision maker on every matter keeps things streamlined.

[@christopherjackson7670]

She spittin

[@oblambo6896]

It's not about being able to pay bills. It's just that that's ALL you're good for to them. The relationship will revolve around finances and will inevitably fail.

[@BossKong-lo8ri]

Why would he need to send you money if you got your own? 🤦🏿‍♂️😂

[@Mike_M.]

🗣"My Wallet, My Choice"

[@charleskline7499]

I heard it said that some women want men to compete for them, just to win the prize of paying all their bills. 😂

[@JosephChandler-vd1cs]

Hahaha, crazy $#!+ hun. WTF, and we go for that %#+

[@gabrielmeth4844]

The funniest part is that this isnt even true. You still need to look good and have game.

[@warrenbfeagins]

Naw, we cool. They can keep paying 100%.🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@taurus2473]

And this is the making of sugar babies and sidechicks who now want normal relationships 😅...😭

[@Profoundaj]

Something women never consider is that even a man going 50-50 with you financially is also going 100% of the security, if something jumps off he is expected to defend your life with his whether you're his girlfriend or his wife or not. That puts his risk way over the 50% mark 🤷🏿‍♂️🙌🏿

[@robertmonroejr1315]

Things weren’t that great before social media, either. I knew a guy who was confused why his wife would snap his head off as soon as he walked in the door after work. When he caught the flu, and was home from work, he got to see the TV shows his wife was watching where women constantly complained about men. He told his wife that she had to get a job and their relationship improved the longer she stayed away from those destructive TV shows.

[@FC-xc3zy]

No thanks. What are they giving ? Chaos, headaches, STDs, dirty house?

[@clownshoes6137]

I'm like Fiddy. "A bish can't get a dollar outta me"! 😂😂😂😂

[@rj47102]

Last lady was so right. Sick of hearing about it. Do what works for you. Stop dumping it on everyone else. 100/100.

[@sdaring99]

Married 20 years here 👋 The decade after my husband’s layoff and the brokest we had ever been was the years that we became the strongest. Money is great and all but building an empire together is unbreakable. And you’re absolutely not always gonna be happy!

[@Zqualityyt]

36:46 Im with homegirl. Ive always been independent and work to pay my own bills whether Im married or not. I got sick with a terminal illness and I still manage to pay my bills.

[@joewilliams2234]

Don’t believe the hype average women r broke too u don’t have to b rich to have a happy life it’s what u decide.Leave these women alone protect your peaceMGTOW is inexpensive kings!!

[@nonyabiz12]

The thing about all of this that goes over everyone's heads is It's their responsibility to get the high earning men they want. If I feel like I deserve a Lambo It's no one's responsibility but mine to put myself in position to have it. In other words "broke men" have nothing to do with this conversation.

[@RemoteControl-q4o]

This video is Wild across the board I don't know who she exposing the men or the women, all I know is she aint lying 😂😂😂😂

[@wendelleasports]

Fellas, don't let anyone tell you how to spend your money in today's economy! These women claim they are educated however don't seem to understand basic economics, I manage to get blessed in making a lil over 120k a year, but that took hard work and sacrifice, and all it takes is a car to break down or some irresponsible spending to set me back! Basically its not really about how much you make, its how you plan and manage money, these single gold diggers online are just trying to use men and generally create a society of keeping up with the jones's versus real accomplishments outside of a useless degree

[@ciscenius]

Notice the lady at the end say "She still going to have her own money". This why dudes with money don't care about women who make money. Their money is "their" money.

[@powertothepeople4037]

Chad, Tyrone, and Pookie LMAO OMG last one. That made me laugh. Power to the people JL

[@sigmaenigma5437]

FACTS! 2:50

[@SYN4456]

We gotta have a serious nuanced convo about 50/50 relationships.

[@powertothepeople4037]

Man I never get enough coffee pod, I drink a lot of coffee, so I watch you religiously lol. Anyway, great show, as always. I facebooked up. And keep the excellent content coming, truly helped me through a hard time of my life. Chisha Zed you have truly helped me. Cheer's 🙏.thanks. Power to the people JL

[@sevenstar144]

Giving your wife your whole paycheck brings you peace as a man. She can’t accuse you of doing weird shit and if anything don’t get paid, she knows what it is

[@franktate9873]

One comment to those women! Hold your breath! Ha, ha, ha, ha!

[@SqueegeeKidNoMore]

34:22 - “If he really care about you why you invintin’ me on a date and you ain’t got no funds…” Right there is why more and more men are waking away from commitment. That in today’s world most women compare caring to the amount of money a man is willing to spend on them.

[@LeoNardo-so2sx]

Who mows the lawn , who's solves the plumbing and electrical issues?

[@D-KingMaker]

Who told her it was 50 50 between her parents? 😂😂😂😂

[@atdubya9576]

I never hear anyone talk about the fact that the government wanted women in the work force to raise the number of people who can be taxed, increase the cost of living and that they promoted divided families through social programs 🤔