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[@valenciaroberts9255]

This hair on you is perfection 🤌🏽🤌🏽😍😍😍😍

[@Yasmeenabeena]

the biggest thing I would tell my 25 year old self is YOU HAVE TIME. you have time to do everything you want to do. you have time to take a minute to breathe. you have time to live in the moment and enjoy life. when I was 25 I felt like I was running out of time for everything.

[@BellaSabo_]

I needed to hear this, I don’t know why I feel like I’m running out not time. Thank you so much😩😩

[@jessicandukwe]

Yeahh I feel like today’s society keeps promoting toxic productivity

[@emmaelliott9250]

You look like Rihanna ❤️❤️❤️

[@yasminmohammed9815]

Please where did you get your brows done? Not sure if it's micro bladed

[@lovesiphiwe]

Love the vulnerability of this video! I've been wondering since your perfume video but please, what hotel is this?

[@chinwaaay]

I can relate to the swimming, I also can swim from point A to B but can't float in deep water (yet) trying to learn... I'm excited for you for all the transitions happening 💗

[@angelkiyonga5777]

❤❤❤thanks Bella❤❤❤beautiful name….gorg face beat

[@CariLethoko]

Loved this grwm. I’ll be turning 30 this year and honestly I would tell 25 year old me to just do it! Take the risk, go on the holiday, make the purchase, stick to the plans or ever cancel them! There’s no time to waste but also that you have so much time 🥹 I’d also tell her I’m proud of her. And the woman she’s becoming is the woman she’s dreaming of becoming ❤ she’s important and she matters and she is capable!!!

[@ItsPoppyKathryn]

My family just has to understand why she is my favourite KZbinr Love her

[@yves_4]

It’s the what are we doing question for me, you and me both sis😂

[@GG8p]

loved the vid! PLEASE where is the pink jacket from in 12:05 ?? xx

[@BellaSabo_]

Acne studios! Xx

[@marblandine]

I love the editing can I ask which app you used to edit?

[@BellaSabo_]

Thank you! I use Final Cut Pro

[@BonnieCreoleSpirit]

I think that it’s so great that you’re asking yourself question and giving yourself the space to hear your own voice. It is amazing that can do this at 25! I would tell my 25 year old self: slow down and don’t rush yourself to keep up with deadlines society says you should follow. Enjoy the moment and trust yourself…no one knows you better than you. Don’t worry Bells…you will find the answers. You have already found one: you need more than money for motivation. So many don’t’ t even get this concept. When I what your videos, I often think you’re more wise than your years. 😊❤

[@kennedistevens9454]

Them ones when you put your contacts in and your face is looking too HD 🤣😩

[@faridasaid4211]

Omg, I'm also going through a transitional phase in my life at the moment and I honestly don't know what to expect. it's soo terrifying so I completely resonate with you there hun 🥺❤

[@rickimalatji]

You hair looks amazing. Keen for an install video?!🥺

[@caramel9244]

Love love this content🥰…A real food for thought 😉🤔

[@toziamutambo1883]

The contacts struggle...relate 🤣

[@verushcakatokele1553]

This hair colour is everything...... Bella you look tewww good chileeeee

[@kooliecurlz93]

Isabella Sabo sounds beautiful I can’t lie, unique

[@liyyyyya]

❤❤❤ love to see you Bella

[@yodittesfamariam8186]

Connect with your local community would be my suggestion for finding your purpose 💚

[@housegamer18]

When Bella said her therapist said the wedding is about her and Ade the Nigerian in me laughed. 😭😂

[@basetsana1618]

Honestly😂. The therapist is not well versed in Nigerian culture clearly.

[@AfrikanQueen17]

Obsessed with this hair. I need this wig in my life 😍

[@AJD7233]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@itsedinagrace]

I love that you’re pushing yourself out of your comfort zone this year and learning how to swim! Honestly that motivates me to learn too! Keep inspiring🥲🫶🏾

[@VicksStyles]

Love the honesty 💃

[@masmodiba]

Bella: Absolutely no dresses 2 seconds later, shows us a dress from behind 😂😂 This is all so cute to watch🥰

[@moonlightscare7097]

Would you be doing a Burundian/Nigerian traditional wedding?

[@puseletsotukula5335]

It's always nice listening to you talking. Now I miss your tipsy talk🥺. Anyway, can we start calling you Sabo already?

[@amandine8186]

Nah you guys were deep in the country side of France! 600€ quote to get back?! I’ll walk. 😂

[@jessicandukwe]

Absolutely loved this video, you have such a calming presence and this was really enjoyable to watch! As a new/growing content creator definitely resonate with the problems!

[@theshakiladiaries]

I never really comment but i was wondering if you've looked into the theory called the 7 year cycle. It's a theory it talks about this shift we go through as we transition, through our lives. Also i'm excited for the re-brand and congrats on the engagement. 😊

[@fayebagamuhunda65]

Advice to my 25 year old self… there is no copy for you to follow through with because your path is personal! You are creating your own journey and try and enjoy it! Keep it personal and authentic,mostly have fun while at it!

[@sheisjacinta_]

You're cute, Just like Rihanna 💙💙💙💓🌸

[@serena_bee]

Love the way this color makes your skin look so vibrant and glowy ❤

[@kasiapetruk6730]

I read somewhere that if something is not going to matter in 5 years, then you should not spend more than 5 minutes worrying about it.

[@lolatatasja]

I loooooovvveee your real middle name. Usually I don't even like short names for girls/women.

[@BSmith-yl3je]

I think that’s the beauty of “ growing up”; you can’t do it wrong or just right but it’s right for you. I’m 40, married, career and children and I’m at a point in life where I am realistic with myself and I’m easy on myself. I’d say the one thing I’d tell my 25 yo self - go easy on yourself ❤

[@drangonfliepink79]

I'm jealous i can't lie ur life sounds amazing hun

[@jessicandukwe]

Such beautiful advice

[@tiaaaliyah]

Love the rebrand name! It sounds very luxe 😊

[@jhannelm]

Oooh brave Bella came out in this video. Sis said you guys are not my friends 😂 i understand & fully agree with u, it must be overwhelming and it’s borderline creepy to know everything abt a stranger’s life tbh

[@drangonfliepink79]

I'm 43 n I still don't no whats going on haha lol

[@collegegrad2955]

Yeah people SHARE too much on social media! Especially on TIK TOK they have diarrhea of the mouth!!! Let’s get back to gatekeeping and boundaries!

[@karisahove5818]

Love your natural hair 💕💕💕

[@princesschonco9205]

I’m 35 and if I was 25 I would say to myself Is calm down ,calm down baby and just take a deep breath. Know that you are enough and you deserve the best. Don’t settle for less.

[@Little.Ann__]

I definitely understand what you mean. Honestly I'm also 25 and i feel so confused. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings with us because it really resonated with me. 25 feels like a very transitional stage of life and it's tough to figure both personal and career life. I also wish I could see my life/myself at 30.

[@lyssaro]

I feel you. I recently started embracing my middle name ‘ Saro ‘ ✨and I should’ve embraced it sooner. I love it so much

[@bond007jinxie6]

Listen I’m 40 unmarried no kids 3 miscarriages I wanted a picket fence kids by 30 but that’s the beauty of life it’s not what we want but what the universe gives us in the end I’m some what satisfy but I’m not regretting the life that I’ve we live we love and we learn ❤❤

[@ANa-qt7tt]

V true 💗💗sending you love & light

[@aimanose3433]

😍😍😍 Highlight of my day!

[@carleneclark1702]

Thank you for sharing. You are right. Don’t put all of your personal information out here. I will watch anyway. Again, Congrats 🎊🎈🍾 on your engagement. Wishing you and yours the best! And we love 💕 watching your videos..💋💄❤️💓

[@Cocomeetschanel]

your teeth look perfect Bells😍, may you please do a video on them and your journey with invisalign.

[@izakohpis]

I loved this video so much! I related on a lot of things you mentioned, even though I am way to young compared to you, in age. It felt like we were having a catch up session☺💗

[@ChristinaVerse]

Yess new Vlog! ❤ I’m glad to be first!🎉

[@serena_bee]

Omg, can’t ever get over this tote bag ❤❤❤

[@nthabby_M]

the maxi skirt! a need, dont wanna lie

[@allywildflower]

Will you be taking Ade’s last name? Since you spoke about using your real last name for rebranding

[@berenicei.7283]

It's her middle name! She wouldn't give out her last name lol

[@ashleyadewa6593]

We are down for a rebrand 🥂✨ Honoured to evolve w you

[@iamchimzy]

I’m I the only one that just loves when bells talk 🥰🥰💯

[@lisaabena852]

Bella Sabo has a nice ring to it

[@sinosijula]

Pleeeease rebrand ❤ I actually commented on that tiktok when you posted it. I love your middle name.

[@fego677]

Excited to watch !!❤️

[@drangonfliepink79]

This is what am saying I have a frd who is on KZbin n people came at me because I asked a question to him on social media that people felt I shouldn't n they came 4 me thinking they new him better than I did ....he was fine with the question was so strange to me ...lesson learned

[@Sessi_K]

I think it would look like you trying authentically to keep expressing yourself in whatever entertainment genre you choose, not being afraid of a process not working, not being afraid to experiment. Within you boundaries, see what works for you and accept that you’ll keep evolving from whatever you settle on… hence you not resonating with OnlyBells/Bella-Michelle anymore. Even with that, you’re not scrapping ‘the plan’, you’re just developing it. Keep growing!🖤

[@BellaSabo_]

Thank you SO much! This is exactly it, just figuring it out as we go on ☺️

[@pizzalii9849]

What do you mean Tanya has red flags?? love the hair btw ❤❤❤

[@ennvee1989]

Wedding Bells 🔔❤

[@MissAmyBaybie]

From following you for the past 4/5 yrs I'd say you're overthinking things. Everybody is different and every relationship is different. You've lived w Ade before which is a plus. As a 31 yr old I'd say you're doing great. You know who you are and are comfortable in your skin(takes time to get there)

[@BellaSabo_]

Thank you so much! I’m definitely overthinking, I’m trying to get out of it 😭

[@ChinyereXO]

Your middle name is gorgeous ♥️♥️ I love the meaning!

[@sumira.t]

Hey Bella, I loved this video! As a starting content creator myself or as you said it “new generation” of content creator I also find it hard to keep the boundaries between what I should show and what not. But this video really helped me come back to myself and ask myself what I really want in life. Just like you I’m not “money driven” either but I do want a platform for my future plans. What I would suggest you to do is charity work!! I’ll be doing volunteer work & charity work in future as well because I visited a Buddhist temple recently & helped the workers there. That really made my heart feel lighter & made me realise that I like to give back whether it be through volunteer work or just to people in my life that I love. Give that a try!

[@chibundoakupue]

A vlog suggestion: day in the life vlogs when you have something to do or someplace to be. Take us to somewhere with you to do an activity.

[@the.zinhle]

Hey Bella sending love from Dubai

[@Fatima-gp8op]

We need the deets for the short hair 😩

[@jungleafreeca1111]

Heeeey gaaaal 🌍🌎🌍 Kenya in house

[@LorhanKhalifa]

Yessssss 🫡🫡

[@maonagadaga]

❤❤❤❤

[@zariayong]

Struggling with this too. The audience will judge people for showing too much especially when creators expose their bodies same time this is the kind of content that gets the million views. Had this conversation with someone too. The public has to look inside. A lot of talented creators are not doing well because "they are boring" as per the public. The public will also rather watch someone trying to fall off the tallest mountain (aka kill themselves) than a decent creator sitting on a chair sharing useful information that may safe someone's life. I can't even get to share my living room. Looks like I am sharing too much. Introvert creators got to be struggling.

[@moonlightscare7097]

Tbh you can just add Michelle to your birth certificate. Who says we can’t give ourselves our names

[@Isis10610]

Gorgeous

[@amaleilah]

Ok but Bella what you say to your 20 year old self?

[@Wilma-Joy]

Notification gang ❤️

[@ashakiberu9161]

Yesssssss

[@Ovokeroh]

Bella 🫶🏾

[@sikejohnson6641]

This hair on you 💋💯

[@yemisi480]

I can't standdd Olivia and I feel like producers were tryna make her the star! ugh and I agree w you on tanya she doesn't like him like that lol yea Ron and Lana mehh...I also don't feel like jessie is into will like that! xo

[@gloriamafisa]

we hope you doing well too Bella

[@enkosikhohliso3950]

I’ve been off my socials for a while now and come back to find out you’re engaged? I’m so excited, congratulations Bella🥺🥳🥳🥳🥳❤️

[@lerato17mokoena]

❤️🌹💯

[@mandamumayowe290]

Hey Bella Zambia 🇿🇲 here!

[@vizichisakuta9413]

Hey Bells. Did you do bridal proposals?? Definitely more wedding content 😁❤

[@risperladee5718]

🇰🇪..🙏👏👌

[@aneleboligello6587]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️