Been recently listening to this song and just now watched this video. I’m crying as I write. Been married to my beautiful wife for 23 years. She’s battled depression, anxiety and PTSD throughout. For us as men, we’re able to fix things, broken faucets, cars, home repairs etc. To see the love of your life have these struggles and know you can’t fix them leaves you with the most helpless feeling ever. All we can do is be there and do our best to understand their struggles. I do understand to some degree after losing my father as a child and how hard just getting out bed was. Stay strong and don’t give up everyone. God Bless and stay safe.
@Veronica0064 ай бұрын
May God protect and Heal this beautiful family today, tomorrow and forever 🙏 Amen...
@LR-jn1rk4 ай бұрын
As a woman who is struggling with this with her husband I am truly sorry. stay strong to you and anyone reading this. stay strong as the caregiver and the person hurting. I been both. I am so sorry.
@guitarbrother144 ай бұрын
Brother, you can fix them. If your wife is unhappy at all, it is because of you!! You just need more excitement in life! Give her a new reason to remember why she fell in love with you in the first place. Much love bro. You got this. 👊
@justincarroll12524 ай бұрын
@@guitarbrother14this is ignorant. Not the case at all
@justincarroll12524 ай бұрын
Be strong brother. You are right, all we can do is be there for them. Praying for you and your family.
@israelsanchez99414 жыл бұрын
I just found this song. I can feel it with everything in me. I have severe depression and ptsd. My childhood broke me. I'm now 34 and trying to pick up the pieces. Pray for me guys.
@ddpg34 жыл бұрын
Praying.
@shelly25993 жыл бұрын
@Alan Caldwell I agree with your comment... 📍
@Rissy6173 жыл бұрын
So often we feel like our traumas and past have made us "bad people" but in reality, they make us resilient. You are not broken, even if it feels like it....You are strong for what you've endured and conquered. You are a survivor. Continue your journey of healing knowing that we are loving you, you are not alone ❤️
@viktor6813 жыл бұрын
Everyday week I pray for people like you. People in situations I know nothing about but still feel guilty about. I will pray for you too. God bless you.
@brittneyakabeezus2603 жыл бұрын
@@viktor681 Thank you for caring about people like us. It's hard when someone has put your light out.
@tandraallen8398 Жыл бұрын
I have always loved this song. I just saw this video and it took my breath. I found my husband with a self inflicted GSW. Spent the rest of his time in a hospital room going back and forth between heart break and anger. I let him go on the 6th day. Never.gets any easier. I type this thru tears. Please, PLEASE seek help. Reach out.. I know it may not seem like it but you ARE loved. You ARE important. The devastation of those left behind is immense. He was 23. Way too young to say goodbye. Thanks to Chris for bringing this very important issue to the surface. Its a hard one to deal with on so many different levels. Those of you who need to hear this listen: please stay. Choose life. Today may be the worst day of your life.. Tmrw may be the BEST. Once this decision is made its irrevocable.. Please stay.
@spiritellington4591 Жыл бұрын
💙🙏💙🙏💙
@arawrebirth20 Жыл бұрын
That's heavy. I hope you find the strength to make it through this time.
@tammeyslone3435 Жыл бұрын
God bless you. I suffer from many mental issues and ur post too has helped me
@tandraallen8398 Жыл бұрын
@@tammeyslone3435 That makes me very happy. Hang in there. You can do this!
@thatgirl9000 Жыл бұрын
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼😭
@lasado278 ай бұрын
In 2011, I lost my wife of 14 years to suicide, leaving my 4 kids without their mother. It devastated our family. As a result My only daughter killed herself on 12/28/22, 3 weeks short of her 22nd birthday. Suicide sucks. It. Destroys the families left behind. If you are struggling with it, please get help. Otherwise you're transferring your pain to the people who love you, that are left to deal with the consequences of your actions. You ARE loved. Please don't hurt the people who love you by hurting yourself.
@dawsondawson20088 ай бұрын
Prayers for you. I'm so sorry for your loss. That is so true, it just pushes the pain to someone else !
@oliviasky10078 ай бұрын
There are truly no words but I am sorry for your loss😢
@joninoon96748 ай бұрын
I know your pain and I am so sorry for your loss.
@threadinginstructor8 ай бұрын
Just horrible. I'm so sorry for your losses. 🙏
@sabrinapickens30858 ай бұрын
I know your pain maybe not as much but I'm sorry for your loss
@Mikescullymusic8 жыл бұрын
This song is not about depression... This song is about unconditional love. The video depicts a man loving his wife in the hardest times imaginable. This video adds so much to the song. Absolutely incredible. I am a musician that struggles fiercely with depression and suicidal thoughts. And this video just hit home for me. Love it.
@markhaywood73788 жыл бұрын
Stay strong...depression is a hard road to follow...good mental health to you!
@MUZAKMAN468 жыл бұрын
Mike Scully; You hit the proverbial Nail on the head brother. This song is about the unconditional love for your spouse regardless. If we could just remember real & true love, is not conditional.
@Mikescullymusic8 жыл бұрын
+Mark Haywood thank you.
@trytheman238 жыл бұрын
and they use real actor and actress ben foster is the guy and i forgot who the lady but she a movie star too
@MissPrany8 жыл бұрын
The actress is Margarita Levieva.
@nonyabusiness720 Жыл бұрын
My wife deals with depression and this song scares me to death. I showed her the video and we both cried uncontrollably. Don't want to lose her.
@HeatherLupton Жыл бұрын
Hold onto her, support her and be there just stay. She will make it through. I promise you. My personal struggles with mental illness have always been a part of the reason why no one wanted me and everyone gave up on me. Once I realized I had to not give up on myself that’s when I knew… if you love her then just stay. 😊God bless you and prayers for a long beautiful life ♥️
@crystalwhitaker3296 Жыл бұрын
Prayers for you both 🙏 Only God knows 🙏
@Tootrillll Жыл бұрын
That sounds like a real connection man♥️
@amandaprice87 Жыл бұрын
God please place your hand on this guys wife. Depression is hard for both her and him so please camo your angels around them both. Give her peace that surpasses all understanding. I lift them both up in your name. Amen
@jordylovell7617 Жыл бұрын
@@judychandler5271😊😊😊😊😊
@Steve-h9h5e Жыл бұрын
I dated a woman with depression and at times it dominated her existence. She would constantly thank me for “putting up” with her. I never looked at it that way. I just loved her. Sadly she has since passed on to a better place. For you Baby Girl, for you.
@dannyreed163211 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss. Depression is a monster, I know that from personal experience 😢
@gidgetfox863810 ай бұрын
Sorry for your loss, I have major depression & PTSD, this song hits me hard. Cause I feel the meaning of this song. I've suffered from depression from before i was 13 yr old. I wish my BF i have now knew how to deal with my depression, he gets mad and makes it worse. I'm sure you was a blessing to her.
@tashabritt1310 ай бұрын
😢
@mariesmith67449 ай бұрын
I've been with two men in my life that's dealt with depression that sadly 😥 😔 took my ex he was in the war in Afghanistan he was a paratrooper and I knew him from Highschool. But we got together after our marriages didn't work out and I didn't realize then how bad it was. The thoughts of suicide is what I mean. I seen what the war had done and I was just 21 at the time he was 23 went in as soon he was 18. So he came home and it just hurts thinking bk. He had flash backs, insomnia like very severe. And I didn't know what I was getting myself into but I loved him very very much. But we split for other reasons to work on ourselves and whatnot and we kept in touch but I wrote him maybe a wk before it happened checking in on him and my sister wakes me up to tell me he was gone and I thought it was a cruel joke. But it wasn't. I knew him being alone was the worst thing for him mentally. He lived w me but I moved out if my apartment w the lease was up so he moved bk in w his parents until he had bought his own home. And that's where he took his life. I blamed myself idk why but I did. And this song makes me think of hom so much. My ex husband also deals with self harm and depression very badly. I mean to the point of askin me w he used to drink to say I was okay with it and we have a daughter together. It breaks my heart he feels this way. 💔 😢 we have known each other now the majority of our lives and thankfully he's not drinking anymore but it still worries me at times. About the depression or starting to drink again and getting in his head. I just pray, check in on him and hope for the best. I want him to be happy even tho I couldn't make us work. He still has a beautiful daughter we share. Depression is tough I deal with it in a daily since I was around 8. But I don't get suicidal doesn't mean I haven't been. But if you're ever feeling that way, it's not the answer it will literally devastate your loved ones. As much as you think nobody cares people do. It's not the answer I promise you it's not.
@mariesmith67449 ай бұрын
Sorry for you're loss, I lost a ex boyfriend to it and it's awful. ❤🙏🪽
@1mistylw982_11 ай бұрын
I have ptsd, depression, and anxiety.... And I would never wish it upon nobody. But I do wish more people understood it.
@ellenjoan810011 ай бұрын
i understand ❤❤ we got this.
@JimTodd-vp7jq11 ай бұрын
I understand that
@JuanAguilar-bn7tt9 ай бұрын
Hang in there
@AprilFerguson-qj5tt8 ай бұрын
Aman! Sister I hear you ❤ 3:01
@richartharmijos47798 ай бұрын
Mucha fuerza hermano
@dannyreed16327 ай бұрын
I’ve suffered with depression and anxiety for most of my life. 2 failed suicide attempts, dozens of doctors, counselors, therapist, and medications later, I finally found a doctor who helped. That was 10 years ago and while I still have bad days/weeks/months, I thank God every single day my suicide attempts failed. I’ll be 63 years old this year and I’m living my best life. Help is out there but it’s a very long, hard journey. Please don’t ever give up on yourself. You ARE worth the effort ❤
@AshleyHopton-nv8yq7 ай бұрын
l like 9😅😅😅🎉
@Sjsindnsjsnsk6 ай бұрын
I am glad you are here.
@trevligodmjuk27216 ай бұрын
That you gone true, is exactly like my life, but i get help 18years ago..im 51 now.
@lorimrasek76116 ай бұрын
Your a beautiful soul, it's hard enough to live through it, now you write about it. I'm glad you found a great Dr. This video is heart wrenching.
@EricSisto6 ай бұрын
No you didn’t
@dalenewman78295 жыл бұрын
I’m a 19 year vet of Birmingham police department and I lost my wife on March 14 2019 do to mental illness. This video crushed me in 2016 and I didn’t know y. I cried my eyes out with my then girlfriend. Mental illness touches us all right now it’s on me. Anyone who needs too talk please talk to me I need it and so do you! Love to all
@safrinasafrina53614 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear. How are you doing, sir? Thank you for your service. Stay safe and take care of you.💙 God bless!
@slikballa4 жыл бұрын
God bless you guys on your journey
@orangemonsoon18834 жыл бұрын
God bless you officer,from Glasgow ,scotland💙💙💙💙💙
@dw54124 жыл бұрын
I'm manic depressive with schizophrenia I'm truly sorry for your loss I do meth can you make it so i dont get pulled over? I'm also retarded
@deborahdanhauer85254 жыл бұрын
So very sorry. This happened to me too. I hope you are doing ok. Sending you love and hope❤
@reylen38755 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend, one of the most amazing people on this earth, was badly abused as a child and as a result has dissociative identity disorder ("multiple personalities" although the right term is dissociative identities). She struggles with chronic derealization and depression/suicidal ideation and ocd too. Loving someone so much and so unconditionally, despite how much they struggle, can really fucking hurt. All you want is for them to get better and be okay, but it's never that easy. There are nights when I'm scared I'll wake up the next day to see she's gone. She deserves to live and be okay. She deserves to feel like the world around her is real and not just some dream, like her derealization tells her. She's suffered enough and I want us to have a happy ending, because her beginning sure as hell wasn't. It's unfair as all fuck and sometimes all I can do is cry and curse at the world for putting this on her and on us. If anyone sees this, and if any of you believe in God, I do ask that you send out a prayer for her recovery. Shit can be so hard. I'll be praying for any of you that need it too. update almost a year later: we are no longer together - not because of her mental health though! nothing bad. we are still very good friends, but the actual relationship wasn’t working because our respective long term goals weren’t compatible. she is recovering every day. very, very slowly, but i see the little bits of progress every time we see each other. things still aren’t easy for her at all, but i can see them getting there. stay strong everybody.
@conniewilson76635 жыл бұрын
Praying for her & praying even harder for you. It’s hard to bare witness to these things, to not be able to fix all the hurt. You’ve both got this. Lots of love.
@BeaCulpa5 жыл бұрын
It's really beautiful how much you clearly love her. I hope you both get your happy ending
@aleshamcdonagh52515 жыл бұрын
I will pray for you and your girlfriend
@laurengerrity45025 жыл бұрын
This got me sobbing. I hope she gets better.
@marileewoods52155 жыл бұрын
Prayers for healing in Jesus name amen. Tell her I tried it wouldn't fire now my children are grown I'm raising my granddaughter. I had lost my little boy 2 years old I was a mess. Jesus came to me in a vision showed me my son on his lap then he run off with the other children in a huge meadow. I still miss him. I know he's in heaven. I cry every birthday holiday ..I pray
@onlyapilgrim9 ай бұрын
Ezra I know things are pretty dire right now and I don’t know how to keep going when everything seems to be falling apart. But I’m not going to stop trying because in this life the thing that I’m sure of is that I have to be here for you. So I’m not going to leave.
@rebeccaapple65809 ай бұрын
You will make it!
@cheyenneavery9449 ай бұрын
Good shit!!! Keep that mindset. Sending you love n prayers
@onlyapilgrim8 ай бұрын
@@cheyenneavery944 thank you i love yall
@jenniferjaeger56714 жыл бұрын
This song is my life. Through my battle with depression I have lashed out at my husband, thrown things at him and locked myself in a room with a knife and a bottle of pills. He never once left and would hold me until I exhausted myself when I went wild. He is the sole reason I am here today and better then I have ever been. He monitors my meds and loves me despite it all. Thank you Chris Stapleton for honoring our loved one that live and suffer with us.
@chrisstapleton59713 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I sincerely hope you never stop listening to my music 🎶❤️, Happy New Year once again.
@chrisstapleton59713 жыл бұрын
@Amanda Wilshire Thank you once again for your love towards my music 🎶 Do you mind if we talk somewhere private? I'm not on here much
@jodyyork38213 жыл бұрын
Mine was there for 15 yrs I honestly thought id nwver find someone who would love me with all my battles in my mind and he did right up until god stole him from me with a fatal stroke that I now know was caused by the stress i put him thru so in the end I killed the one person that was always my rock and im now so alone and miss him and want to be where he is
@Jewels12200311 ай бұрын
Broken people ( like me) recognize this. Thank you for giving this song to us.
@kauanfernando656510 ай бұрын
Everything will be fine! Believe ❤️
@Janus2.09 ай бұрын
I feel you I'm bordering broken, or in repair, I can't tell at times. There's always something bringing me back down to were I must belong 😭
@jennabugs8 ай бұрын
Please know that you are loved here and beyond this world. There is more to this life with Jesus. Please, please, please seek him. He loves you beyond words!!!
@miroslabavelo8043Ай бұрын
There is nothing broken about you.
@stinkyredninja2 жыл бұрын
This song has touched me like no other It's been almost 7yrs since I lost my fiance to suicide and even now every day is still a struggle. When we met she was the light that saved me from a dark place. She taught me so much about life and myself. She was my forever and I feel as though I failed her by not being able to save her like she did me. I lost a big piece of me that day that I will never get back. I am just grateful for all the memories that I will always have to look back on.
@terryskidmore67392 жыл бұрын
On November 25, 2021 I lost my best friend and true soul mate.I couldn't save him. I keep asking myself what more I could have done. I'm pretty broken right now.The thought that brings me comfort is knowing he is at peace. .
@Darsam882 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss, about 8 months ago I found out my wife of nearly 10 years tried to commit suicide for the second time that I know of. I was sitting in my Office in tears because she wouldn't let me in and I was feeling like I failed too.
@chrisstapleton53892 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your comments and love towards me, hope you won’t stop someday?
@russellwestern69972 жыл бұрын
You didn't fail her........ if a person wants to go then no one can or will stop them. Release yourself my friend, you can't carry that load, it's too much for anyone!!!!!
@judyseefeld29032 жыл бұрын
@Russell Western that is exactly right. You didn't fail them. The depression overcame them. You can't save someone if they don't want to be saved. People with depression are ill. It's like a broken arm. Could you fix someone with a broken arm? No, you don't have the skill set. Depression is a broken mind. The thoughts you have are not true or normal, because depression is telling them, you don't really mean it, you would be better off without them, or with someone who isn't sick. The thought process in depression is not telling you the truth.
@jessann675113 күн бұрын
I commented a while back about this song reflecting our troubles. This was always such a meaningful song for us. It fit our dynamic so well. And as if its been prophesized, he just passed away from an overdose on Monday, December 9th, 2024. I cant let go. I love that man, so much. Unconditional love. I believe thats what this song is about now. Unconditional love.
@taralambert84354 жыл бұрын
When he runs out into the field to get her, the way she grasps onto him like she's holding on for dear life...I felt that..I've been there
@cindymaki74124 жыл бұрын
Me too...
@XXXfCJgXXX4 жыл бұрын
Literally had this happen to me with my bestfriend her dad kept beating her and she kept getting bullied she said enough called me and said im done i knew what she meant so i fucking superman my ass over there but it was too late.. 😢😭😭 she Amanda Todd herself..
@ingoditrust86664 жыл бұрын
@@XXXfCJgXXX I'm so sorry
@mandinorman13374 жыл бұрын
I'm there now.
@ingoditrust86664 жыл бұрын
@@mandinorman1337 im so sorry i know u don't know me but if u ever need to talk to someone ill b glad to listen n I would try n help in any way I can.
@shannonvaughn77345 жыл бұрын
I can not make it through this song without bawling like a baby my mom has suffered with mental illness and my dad has stood by her side through all the storms!!
@darioferguson30245 жыл бұрын
Sorry about that Shannon, how are you ?
@mattnash58654 жыл бұрын
That's what's missing from this video is the kids, I went through this with wife for years and the hardest part for me was trying to save her and the kids at the same time. I eventually paid for her to live in a separate house that was near by so she could see the kids during her good days. It's a real helpless feeling you try and do right by both because you love them. The good moments can be so great and the bad moments can suck away your soul. As hard as it was I had to break it off after 15 years it was doing to much damage to everyone. After living separate for 10 years we finally divorced, I got the kids and she got half of everything I had. Turns out she had been having relationships behind my back the whole time. The best years of my life wasted the good news is I got two great kids out of it. Give your dad a hug and let him know he's special and so are you girl hope things get better for all of you. "The people some people fall in love with"
@joeystewert45324 жыл бұрын
Shannon Vaughn I love you
@mikedunham72214 жыл бұрын
Same here
@Realsteviewonder Жыл бұрын
Hello, how are you doing today? Thanks for the support and love.
@JacindaH3 жыл бұрын
I've never seen anything so closely resemble my life. The only difference would be that when I lost my daughter I lost my mind and my will to live. It was this.. this insanity..and still he stayed. This was 6 years ago and I finally started to find my way back and my stomach ruptures...and for the first time I watched this beautiful, strong man I'm married to cry and literally beg me to survive..so I am. I will never understand why God gave me this man or why he still loves me like this 22 years and the death of a child later, but God knows how grateful I am. He's the reason I know we truly have soul mates.
@bealightnthedarkness76623 жыл бұрын
Hope
@JacindaH3 жыл бұрын
@@bealightnthedarkness7662 hope and love. I just don't know that I deserve it, but God knows I'm grateful.
@teddybroosevelt68262 жыл бұрын
Boo hoo. Stop looking for attention
@JacindaH2 жыл бұрын
@@teddybroosevelt6826 awww Teddy..what you chose not to see is that I'm still here, still loved by many and still not ever intimidated or even a little hurt by someone like you. I can already tell what a sad, perpetually single and incredibly lonely life you live by this simple comment...the actual need for attention..which is so desperately needed on your part that you'll even take scraps of negative attention versus none at all. You keep eating your feelings, pittying yourself and raging at the world over things you perceive as unfair and I'll keep being me. Loved, happy and confident enough to know how very little you matter. Hugs and prayers.
@ePelle7412 жыл бұрын
@@teddybroosevelt6826 Quite the opposite. It is you seeking the attention and no doubt, you'll receive it precisely for your soulless comment. Enjoy the fame.
@michaelmorrow63719 ай бұрын
I'm 42. Going back into rehab. Severely depressed I'm not giving up that easy
@Tootrillll8 ай бұрын
Hey man good luck. I hope you can find real joy again
@PinkHitMe8 ай бұрын
Stay strong. Take what you can find yourself and good luck
@monahoward83807 ай бұрын
🕊️🙏🕊️ We Do Recover 🌹💗🌹
@RaloMante7 ай бұрын
❤ There is all the strength we need in His name ❤ I pray for your healing and for you to take back your shine and your place on this ride that which is the greatest gift to us.
@dennisnicotine59096 ай бұрын
Prayers to you, keep strong 👊💯
@stefyaws Жыл бұрын
My husband lost his life to suicide 4 years ago. On our 15-year anniversary, he was in a locked psych unit, and when I went in to see him, he didn't recognize me. He ended his life 4 months later after coming out of this year-long manic episode. This song reaches me to my core.
@psych3d3lic Жыл бұрын
Im so sorry. Be strong. God is with you 🩵
@bell_rd_baby Жыл бұрын
I hope you can find new life ❤️
@Carol-h8i Жыл бұрын
As a female veteran with chronic ptsd,this song hits my soul. I am a two time survivor of domestic violence. I met someone back in 2019 through a mutual acquaintance. Fast forward to now and we are living this song to some degree. I pray that it gets better. He has shown me that not every man is a scumbag. I am madly and wholeheartedly in love with him.
@Bryanadamsmusicinc Жыл бұрын
Hello dear, it’s nice meeting you on here
@sallyrutledge4726 Жыл бұрын
I am so glad !
@Bryanadamsmusicinc Жыл бұрын
@@sallyrutledge4726 it’s my pleasure having you on here, so have you ever been to our concerts?
@lindseyalbertson223510 ай бұрын
Thank you for your service!
@reyoureal10 ай бұрын
I'm happy you found that. ❤
@CountryMusicCollection.97 Жыл бұрын
Everyone who reads this, we don't know each other and probably never will but I wish you all the best in life and all the luck in the world 💖
@AliceQQQ10 ай бұрын
God bless you!
@D0nTanner10 ай бұрын
1:59
@potatomaster72689 ай бұрын
Thank you, need all the luck I can get today 🙏
@Janus2.09 ай бұрын
Thank you! Keep your head up my friend and I turn ill try and stay strong as well salute 🫡❤.
@TheDoug19809 ай бұрын
We need more people like y’all,not only care,but openly vocal about,my best to everyone!
@victoriasmith084 ай бұрын
I have frequented this comments section more than I want to admit in these last 8 years.. this song and yalls testimony's yall upload daily is the only thing that keeps me going. The struggle is real; however, if anyone needs to talk, l'm always here to listen. If you’re struggling like me, just know that I love you and your life matters.
@hollisanders86084 ай бұрын
This comment stood out to me. I’m not sure why, but I thank you for taking the time to share. Maybe we were meant to cross paths…I don’t know. But thank you, regardless. Life is hard. I’m here as well❤
@jenniferroper36204 ай бұрын
Your a wonderful person for doing so
@victoriasmith084 ай бұрын
@@hollisanders8608 hang in there, Hollis. Much love 💜
@victoriasmith084 ай бұрын
@@jenniferroper3620 thanks, Jennifer 🫶🏽
@Ssheldon6188 жыл бұрын
Others have said this before and I'll say it again. This man is helping to save music.
@amelias.63548 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!❤️❤️🔥🔥
@123brucerocks8 жыл бұрын
Music doesn't need saving.Music is music perfect the way it is
@123brucerocks8 жыл бұрын
+Todd Tackett lol im scared 😱...what im trying to say is that music is the best way artists express themselves and if someone saids music needs saving they really dont respect the way artists express themselves
@Ssheldon6188 жыл бұрын
+Baflbruno opinions are okay and you're allowed to express yours. We certainly appreciate it. In this case my opinion is that Chris is saving music. Thanks and have a great day.
@123brucerocks8 жыл бұрын
+Ssheldon618 im just saying thats such a big statement to say but ok 👍
@tammyreneemoore89588 жыл бұрын
Reminds me of my friend Bradley, she suffered from depression. She had her highs and lows threw the years, she killed herself 4 years ago. She tried to get treatment, doctors labled her as a drug seeker and send her home with nothing, she self medicated with street drugs and booze. It is sad to think that life is that bad you dont want to live, and it is hard for those left behind. This song and video really touched me.
@jonphillips57038 жыл бұрын
I'm really sorry to hear that I hope your life turns out to be nothing but a blessing
@tammyreneemoore89588 жыл бұрын
Jon Phillips Thank you for your kind words. I miss my friend, I regret I could not help her. I am in the medical field but there are very limited resources for mentally ill. Depression is an elephant in the room and goes undiagnosed far too many times. I pray for awareness to this terrible disease.
@scotthughes6298 жыл бұрын
Listened to this song a lot. Just now watched the video. Damn... I'm sorry for your loss.
@joker-qr4py8 жыл бұрын
Tammy Renee Moore that is a very true statement that you made about people giving up on life to medicate themselves and that's the bottom of the bottle it's always empty because we think too hard and not really searching for the answers but when you she had a good friend like yourself just remember she's watching you she just couldn't help herself didn't have no one to really lean on an open heart I thought about suicide years ago and I was one drugs pills and alcohol the guy told me has something better for me and I begin to draw you got very good at it and then I have a clothing line coming out this year the clothing line is call Jelani please look out for me support me has I will support any other artists make our Dream Come True God bless everyone have a great day
@michelleskidmore8838 жыл бұрын
Tammy Renee Moore I knw what the sad life of depression and emotional problems can do to a person and anyone who lives that person . But your friend not in pain anymore
@Nikkilou3611 ай бұрын
I've struggled with depression and anxiety since I was 15. I'm now 37, and it's still a battle. It just sucks when sometimes you feel like you just can't win!!
@unepetitebr11 ай бұрын
I absolutely get it. Hope you can keep strong!
@Nikkilou3611 ай бұрын
@@unepetitebr Thank you!
@tyfaknee10 ай бұрын
You are winning simply because you are still here. Don’t ever give up the fight.
@Nikkilou3610 ай бұрын
@tyfaknee Thank you! Nope, never give up!!! Again, thank you for the nice words!!!
@tyfaknee10 ай бұрын
@@Nikkilou36 ❤️
@softrockmusic032 ай бұрын
Right now, there are people all over the world who are just like you. They're either lonely, they're missing somebody, they're depressed, they're hurt, they're scarred from the past, they're having personal issues no one knows about, they have secrets you wouldn't believe. They wish, they dream and they hope. And right now, they are sitting here reading these words, and I'm writing this for you so you dont feel alone anymore. Always remember, don't be depressed about the past, don't worry about the future, and just focus on today. If today's not so great don't worry! Tomorrow's a new chance. If you are reading this, be sure to share this around to make others feel better. Have a nice day!"
@MsJdenney2 ай бұрын
So nice, thank you🤍
@shellicollins777772 ай бұрын
Beautifully written. Thank you so much. I wish you peace. God bless!!
@jimtowngirl182 ай бұрын
♥️♥️♥️
@luisrodrigomacielbarbosa13472 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@D_Irene2 ай бұрын
Well thanks but your words made me cry
@knoffs18 жыл бұрын
Takes me back to my marriage. Never in my life had I ever met such a sweet, passionate lover. When times were good, they were the best. Unfortunately, when times were bad, they were horrible. I miss that woman's love, that can never be replaced. Only if I had the maturity and understanding at that time in my life, it could have survived. Sometimes you can love but that doesn't mean you can be together. So sad.
@georgeforyan1132 жыл бұрын
I was married for 25 years to a wonderful woman when I first met her. However, she injured her back on her job and had back surgery. But to know avail, she was left in tremendous pain and so was prescribed pain pills and she became extremely addicted for the 22 of these 25 years. This ruined a good marriage and relationship. She has passed since in 2015 with ALS. Now I am old and alone and it gets very difficult at times, we never had any kids. Thanks Chris Stapleton!
@KaySmith-cr1ks2 жыл бұрын
Sending prayers for you 💖
@georgeforyan1132 жыл бұрын
@@KaySmith-cr1ks Prayer is about all I have left. Thanks!
@rwork34742 жыл бұрын
God damn pills take just about every person who takes them. I can promise you it was never that you weren't enough to quit or anything to do with you at all. They literally rob a person's soul, their entire being. Don't know you but I will tell you that underneath the pills, and illness existed a woman that would have loved you with every last breath. I know this because she was me.. And I'm right where she was... and watching the love of my entire life walk out of my life before the inevitable takes place. I'm very ill now, and she's chosen to leave and nothing i can do to stop her. Hope you find some peace in this somehow.
@vwalker31392 жыл бұрын
George, I hurt my back 25 years ago in a car accident, 3 verb. crushed. I have never been me again. I refuse the pain pills because of what I have read about them, side effects and stories of people like your wonderful wife. My family knows nothing of the pain I feel. I take the pain and move forward. I sit, lay, stand to ease the pain, ice too. I have gained so much weight that it hurts to move. I hurt my knee about 2 months ago and now I have trouble walIking. Must have been very painful for her to take those pills. I am so sorry for your hurt. I hope you are at a new place in your life now than you were 4 months ago when you wrote. I enjoy Chris' song Starting Over. Peace to you Friend! Blessing to you!! CheerS!!
@georgeforyan1132 жыл бұрын
@@vwalker3139 I am sorry and feel for you all that you have gone through and what you are going through also. Life can really be a full job of challenges, many of what we did not expect. I hope all things will get better for you and that there will be hope at the end of this tunnel. As for me, I have moved on from where I was and what I was experiencing and would never want to go through all of this again. Even though it is all over now, I try to find peace in my solitude, trying to become a better person and doing things that keep me occupied and make life enjoyable as best as can I am not very trusting in having a relationship mostly because of my age now....It is not as it was when I was younger. I just hope that you will be able to heal and find joy in this very unpredictable world and know that you have a purpose to strive for that gives you a peace of mind
@lucasdemone79863 жыл бұрын
That was an amazing way of showing how being married to someone with anxiety or/and depression. Chris captured the highs and lows. I haven’t cried to a music video in a long time but I had to cry for this one.
@teddybear1231673 жыл бұрын
You are so right, my husband couldn't care less. I guess that's why I left and getting my second divorce. Thanks for sharing that
@sugewhitejacoby86542 жыл бұрын
I'm sobbing, this hit me so hard!
@motomom5472 жыл бұрын
I'm only here for my son
@emilyann46232 жыл бұрын
Prob borderline personality disorder, I have it and this is the hell my husband deals with. I thought it was depression but it's actually more complex and the spouse will suffer just as much. Sad video..
@billie94422 жыл бұрын
Dido
@JerryCollins-mj3lv5 ай бұрын
I’ve been through so much childhood abuse trauma getting incarcerated at age 16 for 20 years. Just chasing love and being excepted in all the wrong places. Multiple suicide attempts. Not wanting to live anymore. I’ve began to gain my life back little pieces at a time but still nobody understands the pain I’ve been through. Now I’m 39 and have severe arthritis to the point I hurt everyday and have to take medication for arthritis which prevents me from ever becoming a father. Idk what I’ve done to deserve all this pain. Even now at times I wonder if I’m better off not being here. But I’ve found God and now have a godly family so things are slowly becoming better. If you could please pray for me please
@dduhon5 ай бұрын
Praise God!!
@bridgetashmore70635 ай бұрын
Anti-inflammatory foods should help with the arthritis. Vitamin B-12(methylcobalamin) and D3 with K2 for depression. Sunshine is the best source of Vitamin D when you are able to get it-without toxic sunscreens. Do your own research as much as possible. Prayers for you and family.
@LR-jn1rk4 ай бұрын
We see you, we are proud of the progress you made, I mean it
@LR-jn1rk4 ай бұрын
I am praying. God is a god of healing. He is a God of peace. He loves you.
@janielittlefield31644 ай бұрын
You've got this and when it becomes too much to handle hit your knees and ask God for strength, He is there waiting on you, just ask Him. If He brings you to it He will bring you through it!! Recovering IV junkie, had a lot of childhood trauma too, lots of times I wanted to end my life. But today I'm so Grateful and Thankful that He pulled me through it all. Been clean for 15 years, I have 2 amazing kids and they gave me 3 wonderful grandbabies. I'm so Blessed and so are you. There's a reason you are still here. I deal with back pain every day, but it's certainly better than not being around for my loved ones. You'll be in my prayers, we are always stronger than we think we are, but if you ever need that extra strength HE will give it to you. God Bless you🌸
@domzdaman3738 жыл бұрын
God damn this video is an emotional one.. but this is country. Real problems.. real people. Not everything is fuckin tan legs swinging from a tailgate in the moon light sipping fireball. Country is the music of soul, life, hardship, the appriciation of the things you already have, and the voice of coping with what you have lost. Life isn't always a fuckin party.
@MichaelTJD608 жыл бұрын
+domzdaman373 Amen to this!
@user-nk1ew6by7k8 жыл бұрын
Comment of the year!!!!!!
@bethanimiddleton76508 жыл бұрын
Well said! 😊
@86Knightmare8 жыл бұрын
Best breakdown of TRUE country I've heard in a while! Very well said!
@lynnburgess54048 жыл бұрын
apparently you have never lost anyone to suicide!! God help you when you do!!!
@delonak9298 Жыл бұрын
I listen to this song too often. As a woman who holds a prominent degree and corporate position I feel these words and video. It doesn't matter who you are, what you do, or how much money you make in order to be an individual who suffers from depression. I am one of those who often remind myself, today is not the day to say goodbye to the world. Tomorrow, maybe tomorrow, but not right now.
@melindakeown7500 Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry 😢🙏🏼 I’m praying for you. I avoided suicide in 2008 and am living my best life since. I wish others could beat their demons. 🥺
@sandrag8621 Жыл бұрын
The world needs you. I FIGHT the feeling, too. We don't know when or why, but the world needs us.
@jaywilson8201 Жыл бұрын
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
@corriealexander3017 Жыл бұрын
I needed to read this. God bless and keep you. Hang on❤
@jessa312 Жыл бұрын
I love you for writing this
@mateoh1658 жыл бұрын
Holy god damn shit! Metal head here, and this is beyond words! Well done Chris.
@haleyslaughter93898 жыл бұрын
Mateo H 💔💔h
@krissydalton4028 жыл бұрын
Also a metal head and this song just speaks to me!
@amberparker98838 жыл бұрын
not much he can mess up.. too talented for the mainstream
@rileylynch83688 жыл бұрын
Same here. Horns up for heart break.
@charredolive8 жыл бұрын
Country music was my next transition from metal music. I don't know how but it's quite enjoyable and really speaks to the heart. Always do love to go back in time and listen to some of the old bands
@OUsoonerMarine7 ай бұрын
I hesitated to share but it goes... I absolutely love my wife, been married for 10yrs, we are best friends, inseparable and enjoying life together and some don't understand why we are always together, but we crave each other and truly enjoy our friendship, love and energy. We both have our childhood history which damaged us, and I have my PTSD / TBI from the Marines and deal with those demons, yet I put them aside to deal with hers as well, trying to be strong for our relationship when she drinks and damages it. I deal with her toxic behavior every 4- 6 months since the beginning and I will continue to do so until it kills me. My wife is therapy, which I fully support but it works for a few months and then she loses herself when she can't control her alcohol. I know why she loses control, and I want to be there for her and let her know she's stronger than this and don't allow her past to control and destroy her / our future. I've tried everything to help her.... I'm exhausted and wanting to check out myself but I don't....
@J777RP6 ай бұрын
Nice to see someone that cares . Not many that do. My husband could careless if i die today.
@OUsoonerMarine6 ай бұрын
@@J777RP sorry to hear you say this....I'm sure there are many many many that would and do care! Know that....hugs to you, stay strong
@suzygodwin78986 ай бұрын
Mental health and addiction go hand in hand. It is so hard to watch someone you love going through it all. Take care of yourself and be there for her. I am sure it's a difficult balance. I lost one son indirectly due to drugs seven years ago. I also have a daughter who struggles with mental health. She has talked about suicide several times and she's only 20. She's on a high does of meds for bipolar depression, which I guess helps. These are two of my four kids. I always feel so helpless. I have learned to just love them, and be there for them. And, I've learned I cannot control what they think or do... songs like this help. Hang in there, sir.
@kevinsharkey30096 ай бұрын
Hold in there, take the hits and be strong, that's what us men do, it's just love, I wish you strength ❤
@bensonvirtucio39265 ай бұрын
Stay strong brother. Never give up. Never stop loving. I don't know you but I love you
@ceciljohnson17742 жыл бұрын
This song is a masterpiece. Anyone agree?? [edit: didn't expect this many likes :)]
@chrisstapleton20542 жыл бұрын
🌹 Hey 👋 big fan!!!!💞💌I'm using this medium to appreciate you in particular as a fan of mine and I want you to keep supporting me while I bring more entertainment to your way. Love you💞💝 I have seen a lot of your comments and likes on my page thanks for being a fan and I'll like to show more of my gratitude to you 💌🙏🙏💝 How long have you been listening to my music? 🎶🎶💌💌💞💕🌎🌎🎵🎵💞💞
@andreasanders77522 жыл бұрын
Darn straight. My wife soon to be ex is just like that
@QueVenGuey2 жыл бұрын
Well beyond a masterpiece….. this song touches the very depth of our souls
@Roni-si4yg2 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@bambizaragosa92792 жыл бұрын
Totally AGREE
@kenbrannon56208 жыл бұрын
Living with a spouse that has emotional and depression problems is rough. Those of us that has done it do so because of the love we have for our partner. Been with my wife for 10 years, The ups, The downs, Don't mean shit to me as long as I am there b her side to keep her safe and sound. This video hit closer to home then I like. I love this video for what it means. I hate this video for the reality of what it depicts.
@solonittygritty5228 жыл бұрын
I agree with you brother
@troyferrall4168 жыл бұрын
mb
@dawnteem29168 жыл бұрын
Ken Brannon I've been on both sides ..
@donnarousey-cassell85998 жыл бұрын
after years of someone I thought actually cared, I finally opened up and let him see that part of me and my past that I kept hidden. I hid it so well I that I was able to act like it was never there. I told him he could not handle that side. there is a reason. I don't like feeling like that. once I opened up and let him see why there are days I just wanted to be alone, or why I would not let him hug me, etc... the depression, anxiety, nightmares, suicidal thoughts, anger, hate... all that came back. he told me i was too dark, fuck up and he ran. glad to know there are still people out there that mean it when they promise they will always be there. gives me hope.
@timmycurry69078 жыл бұрын
Dawn Teem
@SarahAtAllTimes5 жыл бұрын
I am married to a man that struggles like this...I love him dearly and I am here for it all...
@johnjack24725 жыл бұрын
Be strong and bless you.
@jasonschnapp96245 жыл бұрын
Here. Dont take hear for granted either
@timothycox18614 жыл бұрын
You my dear are a blessing please continue to hang in there with him 🙏🏻 praying for both of you I myself am fighting stage 4 cancer
@amandagilmore14584 жыл бұрын
Me too! Stay strong!
@christopherhudson74654 жыл бұрын
Tell him
@katiel187417 күн бұрын
Every time I hear this song, it brings me to tears. It feels like my whole life, I’ve had anxiety and severe in person. When I was 19 years old, I took 43 Advil to get rid of emotional pain. Also used to cut myself to hope feel anything at all. This song which is deep in my soul.
@Realchrisstapletonmusic6 күн бұрын
@Thank you so much for the support and love always. How are you today?
@ashleynoonan30918 жыл бұрын
Chris Stapleton. Idk if you'll ever read this. But know this video has let me put a visual on the suffering I go through when I am hitting that low point. Thank you for this video and just to know I am more. And survive another day..... I fire away... Everyday.....
@kerryfeland98898 жыл бұрын
You ARE someone Ashley Noonan and you have no idea how many lives you have touched and changed just by being here and being a part of life. You matter to this world - don't ever let the illness lie to you and tell you that you don't. Big hugs to you :)
@mattrushing55738 жыл бұрын
+Kerry Feland I there was a like button for your comment. I don't know either one of you, but that was amazing and uplifting. I can be a true jackass most of the time, but I do actually try to see the good and importance in all people. Thank you.
@kerryfeland98898 жыл бұрын
Thank you Matt for your kind words. My daughter is bipolar so I live the life in this song and I know the people who are ill will start to feel and think that they are not worth anything but that is just not true - they are worth everything to all of us. People miss seeing so much beauty, kindness and love in others when they close their minds....I just keep trying to open the doors that others keep trying to shut.
@mikeash82138 жыл бұрын
+Kerry Feland well said
@jamesangelo84328 жыл бұрын
+Kerry Feland I know what you mean. My girlfriend is bipolar. I love her to death. It scares me when he gets in one of her moods. I am afraid she will hurt herself. She cuts herself and talks about how ugly her scars are. I look her in her eyes an I always tell they are beautiful just like her. I know the Lord is watching over her from heaven. I truly believe they are God's Angels. We are there protectors.
@amg01258 жыл бұрын
I wonder if Mr. Stapleton realizes how many lives he has saved out of the 19 million views this song has? One right here. God makes no mistakes and puts people (angels) in the right spot at the right time. This I know. Keep on keeping on!!
@howardduck6307 жыл бұрын
indeed
@saramuenchausen4124 ай бұрын
Absolutely ❤
@skiptheboxingkangaroo6 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend is like this, bipolar disorder, major depression and anxiety. Being on call all the time as a firefighter it gets very scary to leave her alone sometimes. I love her so much, she has good days and bad days, but she's so unpredictable. She is a good person. If only she say her self worth through my eyes.
@sheliamiller51626 жыл бұрын
Jackaroo Dundee it's a hard thing to get over
@skiptheboxingkangaroo6 жыл бұрын
@@sheliamiller5162 I don't think it's something you get over, it's something you deal with and share. It's weird like that.
@willisme5326 жыл бұрын
Jackaroo Dundee i also have all 3 of those things... Its hard. Make sure there's always something at home with her. Like something to keep her from feeling alone. Don't let the silence get to her. If she tries shit she needs to go to the hospital. Its a dark feeling. And she probably doesn't want to go but usually meds work for bipolar. Its well studied. I have a lot of friends like this and they ended up going to the hospital for a while why they started lithium usually. Its like magic a lot of the time. I'm sorry just this songs got me emotional as hell. And i just wanna do litteraly anything I can do to help. Ik what its like being her. Its hell but it really is possible to escape the darkest part. Its just hard. Best if luck man.
@pamrevious23316 жыл бұрын
Just do what you can for her. I wish you the best of luck bud!
@Mmarch296 жыл бұрын
You are an amazing human for having the strength and courage to care for someone with a mental illness. As one of those people myself I always worry I will scare away the ones I love, but this goes to show that we can be loved. And people do care, and we appreciate that more than you can imagine.
@adilewis802 Жыл бұрын
I am almost done my diploma in Addiction and Mental Health and this video made me ball my eyes out. The world is not the same anymore and I pray for all of those suffering. Stay safe, tell your friends and family you love them, get out and try that thing you have been putting off, much love.
@michaelmorrow63712 ай бұрын
Loved your post
@Shade0666-pf5hi6 жыл бұрын
This is the saddest video in history. It makes me cry every time. It really shows how being bipolar isn't what most people think it is. It's a very serious illness. It's also known as Manic Depression. Thank you Chris Stapleton for bring the most realistic awareness of this illness to everyone. Thank you Mr. Stapleton for being such a talented musician. Keep on keeping on. Your fans love you.
@scottwest50135 жыл бұрын
Her husband tried so hard
@madhousecollectibles015 жыл бұрын
Really want something to tear jerk you? Listen to randy Travis sing he walked on water. Reminds me of my grandpa and how much I’ll miss him when he’s gone. Or my old man by zac brown babd
@Ahsatan-vw3ok5 жыл бұрын
"Saddest video in history" yuuuuup. I'm sitting here with tears in my eyes after watching. I'm terrified I'm going to finally meet someone I love who loves me and something's going to happen, whether its suicide or health or something totally unexpected. This video realllllllly hit me where it hurts
@TeamTaylor11145 жыл бұрын
It makes me cry too. Every. Single. Time. I can usually make it through just fine until he’s standing in the ER and the doctors turn off the lights and walk out and he’s standing there in the dark looking lost and broken and confused. He’d done everything he knew to do and she was forever gone. Yep. Gets me every time.
@missross77583 жыл бұрын
Ramsey Bobby email me Awesome tune
@sandrahhughes28768 жыл бұрын
As a mental health professional student, this speaks volumes to me. I love this and the amount of light it sheds on the illnesses that so many people suffer from many times alone and in darkness. Loving someone with a mental illness completely consumes you and it also sheds light on that as well. There is hope for the hopeless, you just have to seek it.
@ceebee79248 жыл бұрын
I love your comment
@sandrahhughes28768 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I cried like a baby watching this! :(
@tiffanieclark35068 жыл бұрын
this song is about depression she cldnt fight the demons and he stood by her side until the end..pay attention to every sign if you can do something...
@johnwitt13708 жыл бұрын
U hit it perfect!!
@jadedstar36827 жыл бұрын
I didn't see it. My daughter recently committed suicide... I knew she was going through a lot but every time I saw her she seemed to be okay. Wish I could have stopped her
@hollyh66077 жыл бұрын
Jaded Star , I'm so sorry. Prayers for you and your family. I lost someone very close to suicide a year ago. My son has bipolar, and he's had several attempts. Mental health services need to change. They are failing too many people.
@johndeluna6927 жыл бұрын
Wrong. Unconditional Love
@jonichurchberry90377 жыл бұрын
What right do you people have to judge anyone's life make sure you fix yourself before try to fix someone else and you ..... nope
@MikaylaYoung-fq4pe8 күн бұрын
This song describes so much of how I wish I was seen and heard. When I’m not okay, I don’t think anyone sees it. If they do, they don’t acknowledge it. I have to remember no one understands my brain and how it works. I wish it would go away.
@helengibbens33063 жыл бұрын
My fiance took his life 6 days ago and I miss him more than words can describe. The pain is neverending. I want him back. He brought me so much happiness, hope, peace and love. This world is a darker place without him. I love you, my sweet Junior.
@6rea6per63 жыл бұрын
💔🙏💔
@chrisstapleton23143 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the unwavering love and support. Indeed you are a true fan. You can write me on chrisstapleton357@gmail.com
@josephcook82643 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry!! May Jesus Christ comfort you as you heal!!
@trenae773 жыл бұрын
Suicide has always been seen as a weak escape from problems we don't want to handle in the past. I think more and more every day we are recognizing it as the clarion call to society that we open our eyes and see those around us before they fall too far beneath the surface to save themselves. My heart breaks for your loss, but I pray that you find small glimpses of light in the memories you held of him. Snatches of music that remind you of the times of joy.
@jddallan11153 жыл бұрын
Helen. So sorry for your loss. Wish I could bring back any human. Hope you're well. Take care
@emilywelsh61037 жыл бұрын
She is me. broken. unfixable....but never unlovable. when we have these mental illnesses it's easy to convince ourselves that we deserve to be alone because of what we put people through during our episodes.
@hounddog29527 жыл бұрын
I jus prayed for you 🎤👋
@drewpit79366 жыл бұрын
Nobody is truly broken and unfixable.. All you need is to endlessly search for the right man/woman who doesn't "put up with you" but genuinely loves helping and sacrificing for you.. If you are religious, I hope God helps you in your path but inevitable you will find your own path.
@danielgrim92796 жыл бұрын
Hun, a friend of mine has episodes like this, and she shared this song with me. It helped her, and it helped me to understand her better. Keep your chin up, and never doubt your own worth.
@mindiaddison83236 жыл бұрын
we are broken but not unfixable...God love us and is waiting for us to give Him our broken pieces and put us back together..."for i know the plans i have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and i will listen to you. you will seek me and find me when you seek with all your heart. i will be found by you. and will bring you back from captivity" Jerimiah 29:11-14...God is good...He creates beauty from ashes...please, call out to Him, He love you!!!
@lr52906 жыл бұрын
I know too well, that same feeling. I wish you luck and how to learn happiness in the future. ❤️
@kristinscott15145 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU Chris Stapleton from those of us who suffer daily from mental illness...BLESS YOU..CRANK THIS SONG UP
@karmasbadside25465 жыл бұрын
I agree.. most just judge and say we are crazy .. but most times we didn't understand it ourself.
@thelemusteam9 ай бұрын
WOW this hit hard. If you are suffering you are not alone, we are with you. Dont ever take your life. get help and dont ever stop fighting the pain is real. As a retired police officer it was sad to arrive to a home and see the lifeless body of a person who deicded to take his/her life. Years later i suffered from PTSD as a result. As a police Officer not only to you have to deal with others but also the ones in your home. Powerful video, still tearing up. God bless all those suffering, god bless the famliy of those suffering and God bless our first responders who deal with it on and off the job. PLEASE DONT EVER STOP FIGHTING
@cassyleigh4147 жыл бұрын
This video makes me cry my eyes out. I have PTSD and crippling anxiety. My fiance has had to hold me on several occasions ,talk me through my suicidal feelings and protect me from myself. I appreciate all he does for me but this video just makes me respect his strength and love for me even more. I love Chris Stapleton.
@dwayneworthy29467 жыл бұрын
Cassy Leigh check out this video!!! It helped me get through some tough days. seriously check it out asap OH WONDER - ALL WE DO
@cassyleigh4147 жыл бұрын
Dwayne Worthy Thank you so much for sharing that with me. What a beautiful video. ❤️
@cassyleigh4147 жыл бұрын
adam holder Thank you, I try everyday. I appreciate your kind words. ❤️
@briantriplett23957 жыл бұрын
Cassy Leigh sorry to hear this my wife is really sick and cannot get help with her pain both physically and mentally Dr would rather just feed you a hand full of pills as too really sit and listen too what you have to say. keep your chin high as I tell my wife.
@cassyleigh4147 жыл бұрын
Michael Edwards Well thank God that you have your wife. Saying a prayer for you because I know what that feels like. There are good days and there are bad days and there are days where it doesn't feel like it's worth it to go on living but those moments when I realize the unconditional love and support I have been blessed with in my wonderful man, those are what I hold onto when I feel like I just can't take another minute inside my own head. Hold onto the precious moments and let them be the light in your darkness. ❤️
@wonderingwoman99772 жыл бұрын
Every time I hear this song, no matter where I am, I break. I literally bawl. Loudly. For myself, for all the love I have given freely to those so undeserving, and for all the hurt that they caused me over the years.... and for all the people I hurt with my pain. I am so terribly sorry for my anger, my rage, my fears, my constant worry. I don't want to upset my loved ones.... sometimes, you just can't control the feels. And then THIS happens...this video is so spot on!!!!!!!!
@amandagrainger97142 жыл бұрын
Same
@kellybee19352 жыл бұрын
@wondering woman I feel you. I too suffer from severe depression, but this is about you. Healing from past hurt is tough however during my last hospitalization one of the doctors told me to not allow those memories to take space in your heart because they don’t deserve it. Sometimes getting mad is a good healing tool, letting go gives you more time spend happy. I pray that this will help you. God bless and live well.
@shannaanderson18642 жыл бұрын
I so feel you! I also give so much love and then get so much hate... I have made 2 attempts to end my life and then I had 2 heart attacks caussed by all the stress that I was dealing with... at the time, I wished that I wouldn't have made it... but I'm slowly learning to love myself... I have lost so many people... stay strong xxx
@debbiehood20372 жыл бұрын
Thank you, every day is a fight. Yes, I have a wonderful family, friends, doctors, medication, but sometimes the world is to much. I am so sorry about your wife. Your statement did help. Thank you.
@Xyz-Cuz-332 жыл бұрын
Wondering Woman you don’t owe apologies. It’s not your fault. My daughter and granddaughter both are diagnosed with bipolar depression disorder.they both feel the need to apologize sometimes too but I tell them I love them and they are my would. ❤
@The_Lone_Outlaw7 жыл бұрын
I know darkness and I know suffering all too well. My demons were great in numbers and in strength. I was alone in my fight so I could not face them. For many years I lived, or more survived rather, with my demons in full control. Eventually though after almost an eternity of looking for anything or anyone to help me out of this hell I was in and getting nothing but disappointment, and pain. I found out how to open up my heart and mind to free my soul from its torment. My eyes were open for the first time in years. I then heard god tell me that now that I was awoken, there was much work to be done. So I let the world teach me what it could and took what God has offered. From that all I gained a weapon against my demons that imprisoned me from the inside. That weapon is called love. And it is a very powerful one at that. It was love for myself, something in which I haven't felt in years. Love for my family, neighbor, for God, for my country. I used this love to vanquish my demons in open battle. Yes, it was a hard battle that came with its sacrifices and pain, but in the end, I was free. Free from the evil inside, free to see color, to enjoy music, to get lost in pleasant thought and smile. To smile, was something which I don't believe I have ever really appreciated before in my life. And at the end of the battle, I was covered in sweat, tired and sore, but yet lighter than the air I breathed. And then I heard the familiar voice of an old friend, and he said to me, "Go my child, there is much work to be done."
@tinydancer96026 жыл бұрын
The Lone Outlaw beautiful ❤️
@jeremywilson51436 жыл бұрын
I mean no disrespect at all, but when you say you "heard God", did you literally hear God? I struggle too and can't seem to hear much? Thanx
@karenmclaughlin12916 жыл бұрын
Amen to you, please help me to get to where you are today. I know I have work to do and that is why I have not taken my life yet. But right now it's getting too hard to keep going
@jasonhines55246 жыл бұрын
@@karenmclaughlin1291 I love you
@The_Lone_Outlaw5 жыл бұрын
Jeremy Wilson I do not believe that God “spoke” to me, or at least not in the way you and I do. I honestly do not “know” if God was involved at all, but that sense of awakening and those moments of clarity are so immense that I wouldn’t say anything against the idea. If God was involved, directly or indirectly, I believe it was more of pointing me in the right direction. Instead of him carrying me towards my destination, he was the shining light in my own internal darkness, in which he let me seek directions towards the path I wish to walk in life. In a sense, he did not bare my burden, but showed me the reason as to why I should fight. He gave me reassurance, and he gave me hope. In which I thought were long lost memories. You are welcome to interpret my message how you choose. I hope that was of helpful in some way or another.
@RaloMante7 ай бұрын
Although this music reaches deep into some of the most emotional parts of my soul, I also acknowledge that the title of the song might entertain evil. I understand what it is trying to say, this song honestly makes me cry a lot. At the same time its lyrics could affect the healing process (for those who connect with it at a very personal level) negatively. I pray for healing to everyone and a stronger understanding of each other, in the name of Jesus.
@aa-hy7fs6 ай бұрын
You are absolutely correct... For me it's like a "love" letter to the chaos and pain... Flirting with death, because 31 years on this planet,... And I never felt like I belong here, and constantly being misunderstood and quickly rejected,.. I don't have too many people that I can relate too or can relate to me... It's been a very long and lonely journey here on this beautiful planet.....
@RaloMante6 ай бұрын
@@aa-hy7fs I can relate. I recently started a public journal hoping those who find it can comprehend how much I want to connect with others but after tragically losing loved ones it definitely gets hard to even decide to approach and/or take the first step. The initiative is there, there are definitely options to help us navigate through those feelings. This song took my attention one day and I keep coming back to it regardless I agree with its message or not… perhaps deep within I have an undeniable connection with it because it reminds me of where I have been mentally and it reminds me that I do not necessarily need to keep going back to that complicated state of mind. Lots of changes these past few years but it is nice to have a soundtrack for something that existed and no longer is, which is probably how I would define the connection with this song.
@RaloMante6 ай бұрын
@@aa-hy7fsAlso this guy’s voice is just simply too good 😅
@Bbell543 Жыл бұрын
As someone who suffers from depression along with bpd, This song gives me chills and brings tears to my eyes everytime I hear it cause I can feel his words.. ❤
@Bryanadamsmusicinc Жыл бұрын
Hello dear, it’s nice meeting you on here
@taskinyucekurt Жыл бұрын
Stay safe and strong 💪
@benvandiver9130 Жыл бұрын
Music is special - I wish I had some magical words for you…but I also appreciate how different we all are. Maybe look for the littlest bits of joy and try to build from there? Strive to smile…it can be contagious if you allow it!
@avriledwards1233 Жыл бұрын
@@BryanadamsmusicincWhat's up Chris this is Avril Do you know Parker Mccollum 😊
@ErickaKreager Жыл бұрын
I suffer from the same. BPD, anxiety & depression, PTSD... And this song touches my soul ❤
@T2Hookem2 жыл бұрын
After so many times hearing this song, it still gets me. I feel like I’m on of the lucky ones. My wife was an addict for years. She had her fair share of acting out like it was a case of mental illness. Truth be told, she showed signs and symptoms of bipolar disorder. The drug and alcohol addiction only enhanced it. It took years of trying to get her help, but she finally got it last spring. Only to relapse a few short months later. After so much torment after the relapse, I felt like I had no choice and got the police involved. I said I felt lucky, because after her time in jail, and since her release, she has been sober ever since. She’s also getting the help now that she needed back then. Not to say anything bad against rehab, but that didn’t work for her. She realized she had to work for herself. Time in jail, self help, and yes even marriage counseling and therapy she did/does for herself, she came back to me. I hurt for those who didn’t make it.
@T2Hookem2 жыл бұрын
This song definitely speaks to me as I was that steady rock for my wife. Granted I felt weak in the end when I had to see her get hauled away in handcuffs, but she’ll even tell you, me calling the police on her saved her life. I saw her at her best which was/is she is sober and clean. I saw the demon in her when the addiction and mentally ill state of mind took over her. I had many of opportunities to leave, but I didn’t.
@doublebarrel46292 жыл бұрын
Hang in there man I don't know your wife but she probably worth every bit of it so just hang in
@cheriehambly18672 жыл бұрын
You sound like a legend for sticking by her and not giving up
@ronniemorland13772 жыл бұрын
I know what you have been through. My wife was also an addict. Her so-called friend brought her drugs, and it went downhill from there. I loved this woman more than anyone in my life. And it never made sense because we were so opposite. She left and disappeared for two years. Not a day went by that I didn't come home and pray she would be sitting there waiting. She never was. Now it's been over three years and she is in prison. We got to spend 3 days together before she turned herself back in to Tulsa. Like you though it's awful her not being with me, it saved her life. Like you said rehab was a waste for her. the drugs were just as plentiful there as anywhere. My worst nightmare and fear were one day I would get a call asking me to identify her body. Her relapses caused so much pain. But even as I write this it's only her that forever has my heart...... But this song is ours just like so many others!!!
@T2Hookem2 жыл бұрын
@@cheriehambly1867 I wasn’t trying to be legendary. I just saw too many people in my family give up over less than what I endured. To know is love, right?
@zombie6687 жыл бұрын
Long story short.. I moved to Oregon back in October of 1998, I was 21 and I didnt know anyone. I got a shitty factory job right away so I could support myself, and thats where we met. She was 23, and with some dirt on her cheek she introduced herself "Hi...(it was that super long pause you only see in the movies).... I'm Susie", she said. I was already in love by the time she said her name. I instantly fell in love with her, right then. We started dating and at times I needed to pinch myself because I honestly couldnt believe a girl this amazing and beautiful actually WANTED to be with me. Fast forward 3 years. We lived together and made friends together..we were starting a beautiful life together. On a rainy March weekend I went out of town with my friends band (I would help carry gear, do lights, whatever was needed) and returned that Sunday evening, it was March 18th 2001 to learn that my Susanna had committed suicide and her body had been found that morning in a room at a hotel by the freeway.... I can clearly recall the exact moment that my heart was crushed and I became dead inside. It was like getting hit my a silent freight train.. I had no idea. Zero warning signs... nothing. Nothing except her goodbye letter to me. Im 40 years old now, .. I still have not been able to allow myself to love the way I loved her.. Tell the "one" in your life that you love them, before its too late.. R.I.P. Susanna Lynn Hathorn I will always love you.. Great video, by the way.
@The_Lone_Outlaw7 жыл бұрын
zombie668 Just remember that in her mind she probably was feeling as if her very existence was torture to you. But in reality, it was the exact opposite. God bless her soul, at least she is not suffering anymore. Always remember, you'll see her again. And you'll be together once again for all eternity. In peace. Happy. Together.
@zombie6687 жыл бұрын
Part of me hopes it is that easy. Most of me knows that isnt a realistic hope to hold on to. And ALL of me knows, she was never "mine" to hold on to in the first place. I have chosen to try to use this as a way to learn something about myself and the world around me. Something that only she could teach me, even if that lesson had to come from her death... funny part is, I still dont know what it was I was supposed to take from this that makes me a more well rounded human being.... I have resolved that I may never know... and thats ok
@alwayjohnrallos73597 жыл бұрын
Oh man imma cry
@chrisnick17 жыл бұрын
I did not consent to this feels trip.
@moonchildprotectedandguide4997 жыл бұрын
this song makes me feel everything! all my emotions. see as a young girl right after I had my baby girl my life long strong mother was so hurt and down, aside I never saw before. she walked in to my room at the time she was living with me. she hurt so long so hard so many days with a smile on her face. see she walked in and held me thigh and expressed how much she loved me but could not feel the way she has for 13 years. she stepped back with the most broken lost hurt look any one could see in their mothers eyes. I could of died inside at that but then she slowly pulled a kitchen knife to her wrist as blood poured on to my floor as I cried out to her. see she hurt for 13 years over losing our dad of 6 daughters. she longed for his touch and strong shoulders that held her up when she was low. I hurt for what I experienced that day in my house as a new mom and for my family who had a loss. not everyone can hold it together for so long. I love this song and how I allows me to feel every bit of what's real it's a strong deep love song to so many. thanks for the share. God bless all thanks Casey landis
@hotwelder219 ай бұрын
I'm very thankful this song wasn't released 15 years ago. My girlfriend who is now my wife went through a very deep and dark depression after her world collapsed around her. If I had heard these lyrics it would have broke me. I cry at this song because we were so close to this happening,my best life decision was never giving up on her because it has been worth everything.
@deehubs13532 жыл бұрын
As a person with bipolar depression, I feel this song. My husband has stood by me through the ups and way downs.
@sarahcarista30662 жыл бұрын
My Best friend and Lover has stood bye me and this time I wouldn't have made it threw if it hadn't been for Scott and my MOM
@lelacintron35402 жыл бұрын
Literally, same. My husband showed me this song and we both broke down together
@srowell012 жыл бұрын
It's flipped for me. My husband is the one with bipolar depression. We've been through some stuff.
@mrsjackiep162 жыл бұрын
I have bipolar depression and am currently fighting one of those debilitating lows of the depression. Literally laying here crying 😢 this is so well done and done with great accuracy of those peaks and valleys for sure.
@jordygolucky2 жыл бұрын
Same. I feel like I could never tell him thank you enough.
@mskudlarczyk7 жыл бұрын
this song reminds me of my relationship ...my man saves me daily i struggle with bipolar n suicidal thoughts DAILY. he is my hero. this song means alot to me
@unlockmyheart7 жыл бұрын
Mariana Nelson, thank you for fighting that fight everyday and never calling it quits.
@ladyj76537 жыл бұрын
Maranda Nelson same here
@gabeboxell54197 жыл бұрын
Maranda Nelson I'm sorry
@hunterray48297 жыл бұрын
Maranda Nelson that is so sad
@xxblatxx7 жыл бұрын
best of luckxxxx life wont be as fun if your not around to enjoy it.. hold your man like he holds you and enjoy your lifes together maranda.. its short enought huni..:)
@Abcdefu420 Жыл бұрын
She does an amazing job of portraying the pain and numbness of deep depressions.
@jackharrison43273 ай бұрын
For 18 years I was married to a woman, a passionate caring woman that battled bi polar and her demons and one day I got the cal. This video and song sums up my life with her. I couldn't save her nor keep her from her demise. God bless those who try to help and save their loved ones with such an affliction.
@reneestarr31353 жыл бұрын
This is about mental illness. I know because I’m her. The man never abandons her no matter what. The unconditional love from the true love will go on way past death. For all of you who face someone who’s mental, don’t abandoned them! They need you to be there
@taskinyucekurt3 жыл бұрын
Exactly, i spent 2 years for someone like her, it was like being with someone who has couple diffrent person in same body, no matter what i stand with her, supported her, showed love n understanding too. Not easy thing to do cause at some point things starting breaking you inside too, but no matter what i stand with her n i made her better i think cuz she abandoned me ( who was anxious about that i will leave her when i was with her every day in those years) and went to be with someone else. So things are confusing sometimes so fire it away.
@MrSpike21606 жыл бұрын
I lost my partner on the 12th of December 2017 after she's suffered for many years of a tormented mind . This video helps me understand that I'm not the only one because someone wrote this song and I thank Chris for this because it does give me comfort to know that I tried as hard as I could but it just wasn't enough. Rest in peace Tracy. I will cry to my grave.💓
@user-vd2uu8kb3e5 жыл бұрын
I too am sorry for your loss..
@whataboutlastweek82118 жыл бұрын
Am I hearing music with lyrics that actually make sense? Am I feeling emotional? What's happening? ❤😩
@brianthomas94618 жыл бұрын
yes ma'am
@heatherarnold73568 жыл бұрын
was thinking the same thing
@tylerwitty63618 жыл бұрын
ITs called country music. Its amazing stuff, went dormant for about 20 years but is coming back strong. Probably wont find it on many "country stations"
@jeremysonneman13308 жыл бұрын
+Tyler Witty I agree
@haleyslaughter93898 жыл бұрын
whataboutlastweek is the best thing ever I love it when I basically have a good day to
@502outlaw25 ай бұрын
My wife passed away in 2018. I found this video shortly after. The whole video sums up our last 2 years, out of a total of 20 years together. She stated having bouts of bipolar and schizophrenia at age 50. It got worse and worse over 2 years. Then she took her life. It's strange how this video mirrors those last 2 years of our lives together.
@shelley9858 жыл бұрын
I hit bottom with anxiety in 2003. I got to the point where I had so much mental pain that I understood why people kill themselves although I never actually tried to. I was buried in hopelessness and despair. It took me five years to learn my way out of it, but I did it!! What gave me hope was listening to others that made it out. If I can do it, you can too! When I was finally able to put my thoughts together I started writing songs about the things I had learned. Love yourself! Take care of yourself! Treasure yourself! And let everything else go!! It's about your thoughts and beliefs. Pay attention to them, and allow yourself to change them to something that feels good. Follow your heart, and let go of everything you've ever been taught. Your heart knows best!💞 Lots of love, Shelley😊
@analisecastillo71798 жыл бұрын
+Shelley Marie Songwriter Go you!!
@Realsteviewonder Жыл бұрын
Hello, how are you doing today? Thanks for the support and love.
@aprilballard3826 жыл бұрын
My daughter suffers from Bipolar depression and i see my Lana when i watch this. She pushes people away with words and actions. The song effected me greatly. I pray the medicine and therapy helps prevent the end of her life. Thanks for speaking out the disease is hard on the person and those who love them.
@jaber47746 жыл бұрын
I don’t listen to this song often but when i do, so do my neighbors
@dakota221216 жыл бұрын
I lost my 14 yr old son last year and don't know if ill ever be fixable
@spit-fireentertainment1845 жыл бұрын
Best comment
@no1computerrepairguy5 жыл бұрын
@@dakota22121 I can't think of anything worse to suffer than that Mike, big internet hugs buddy. Stay strong mate.
@EitaZica5 жыл бұрын
@@dakota22121 Sorry for you loss man. Stay strong.
@beautifulbutterfly40475 жыл бұрын
@@no1computerrepairguy 5
@cutiepiebarkley6745 ай бұрын
As I'm reading the comments I'm comfortable saying I'm also dealing with depression anxiety I just got diagnosed with kidney failure an i.dont. known any of you but I love you we have to stand strong an stay prayed up the world we live in is full of hate an anger we just need love real family real friends with out hating each other I cnt stop crying I been crying off on for 6days now I pray we all walk with faith an love ...
@jessicawallace11444 жыл бұрын
Mental illness is not a joke or something you can "get over" as ive been told so many times. Me and my little brother have battled it all of our lives. My brother was my best friend. We were only one year apart and we helped each other through it all and were always there when the other needed it. My brother had a hard time finding someone that would accept him with this problem and it just pushed him deeper into that hole. On February 21 2019 my baby brother committed suicide. I found him at our favorite spot where we would go to talk and just be there for one another. Im 23 now and I tried my whole life to help him because I know what that hopelessness feels like. Its hard to not blame myself and its hard not knowing what I could have done to stop it but im trying my best to live life without him and I miss him every second of everyday. I thankfully have a husband that helps me during the dark times and always tries to pull me out of that hole. This song and video is so true. You can always be there for someone and try your best to help them. My point is suicide is NOT the answer!! YOU CAN BE HAPPY! There is hope and peace of mind! You might think you're ending the pain but it just gets givin to someone else.
@caroltaylor78944 жыл бұрын
Many times we feel we don't deserve love because we feel so flawed. He only wanted to end HIS pain. He could not accept that due to your love for him that he hurt you. Be good to yourself and, in his name, love freely. May God bless you.
@kmfdm103925 жыл бұрын
This song is so beautiful, but this video is like a car crash you don't want to see but you can't turn away from. I've seen it a hundred times, and I still can't turn away. This is Art.
@mandinorman13374 жыл бұрын
Well said ❤❤
@claycarr86154 жыл бұрын
I don’t like it it hurts
@ingoditrust86664 жыл бұрын
Yes and living with somebody like this is like watching a train wreck you want so much to stop it but there is nothing you can do besides cry when it crashes
@Shadow_Wolf734 жыл бұрын
❤️
@brandielou83225 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we just can't handle the monsters alone. But finding someone that will stay to fight with us is just as hard.
@mattyjay88835 жыл бұрын
This is very true, I know this feeling too well myself. I hope you find someone ready to fight with you. Have a blessed day.
@stephanielynn27135 жыл бұрын
Brandie Lou i agree 🖤
@kristieniblett27324 жыл бұрын
I have fought the monsters alone for many yrs until 2013 when i met my husband.... he has fought a many monster with me but with at my side those monsters aint hard to fight anymore
@deanbishop49044 жыл бұрын
Peace & love brother ! 🇬🇧🇺🇸
@cobywilliams70064 жыл бұрын
Lol and fucking impossible
@JosephBaker-fx7tm4 ай бұрын
7 days from now, it will be 2 years August 22nd that I lost my brother to drugs and suicide. He shot himself around 3:30 in the afternoon and I remember never crying harder than I did when I got that call… he was so high when he went… I miss him with all my heart. Life will never be the same. Losing someone is terrible… I feel suicide hits a little different than other ways people might die. ❤ Thinking of you everyday brother. I love you so much
@Florida_Tobear4 ай бұрын
😢😢😢
@jacobyrose62284 ай бұрын
❤
@sherricoffey91743 ай бұрын
Sending love your way❤❤❤
@theryangarber3 ай бұрын
So sorry
@shayanmorrison7 жыл бұрын
Where words fail, music speaks . . . . . . . . . . . .
@blabkabka71737 жыл бұрын
more than you know
@crystalrendon90007 жыл бұрын
No doubt
@kellyumbarger54507 жыл бұрын
like that sang
@mattstrom8227 жыл бұрын
Most powerful statement bro.
@wendylangfield43857 жыл бұрын
I would rather go blind and lose all my limbs than lose my ability to listen to music!! Sooooo grateful that for thhis gift since many cannot or just unable to FEEL this passion i would re live my painful childhood 20 times over than live without this kind of talent
@jennyramsey1000 Жыл бұрын
As I person that suffers from depression and thought of suicide alot, I can totally relate to this song! Thanks for putting this out there. I have come a long way. Beat depression. Went on to get my doctorate degree and have learned to love life with no medication. I have 3 healthy boys and a husband. I'm blessed and thank God everyday!
@bethfrazier30782 жыл бұрын
This song reaches me on a deep level.... I have ptsd, aniexty, bipolar with schizophrenia.... it's a struggle everyday. Thank you
@Realsteviewonder Жыл бұрын
Hello, how are you doing today? Thank you so much for your love and support.
@mariacruz723 Жыл бұрын
Conversa com Deus ele vai te libertar mas no tempo dele essas são aprovações quê passemos mas tudo passa procure ele mas com fé de coração ele vai te ouvir nas madrugadas a melhor hora pra Deus nos escutar .
@JamieKenny-hx9zw3 ай бұрын
I just heard this song and it makes me cry Everytime I hear it my daughter suffers from depression tried taking her life when she was 13 years old she's 17 now it was truly the hardest thing I ever went through and now my other daughter is 13 now suffers bad with depression tried taking her life twice and as a mother it's so hard seeing your child go through it bullying is so terrible abd I pray no mother ever goes through what my daughters have 🙏
@ericaking62993 ай бұрын
💞💞🙏👊🌠
@ChrisStapleton83 ай бұрын
Keep breathing and make sure you keep rolling all music back to back ..if you wanna dialogue more my first digit is 616 followed by 675 then 298 and 7.
@myronsmiley35667 жыл бұрын
Ima pretty tough guy... But broooooo....Chris this has to be one of the most moving videos I've ever seen. Simple but powerful. fortunately I've never been in the situation but I take my hat off to all who have had to deal with something like this. EVERY ONE IS WORTH SAVING!!!!
@jillhairr41726 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying that. If you have never felt this pain then it's hard to explain. It cannot be put into words. It's an every day struggle. Thanks to those who try to understand and help others
@trinitye.72296 жыл бұрын
Janice Joplin
@richardtownsend91076 жыл бұрын
I'm a 52 year old vet, and a Metalhead at that. This video had me weeping!
@antiscyllisneocht56696 жыл бұрын
@@richardtownsend9107 honorable discharge?
@leathergal20046 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭im not
@marrysanchez13002 жыл бұрын
Not only is the song phenomenal-but hats off to the director of this video! The actors make it look like it’s really happening and the way it’s shot is absolutely haunting. A mini movie you can’t forget.
@chrisstapleton20542 жыл бұрын
🌹 Hey 👋 big fan!!!!💞💌I'm using this medium to appreciate you in particular as a fan of mine and I want you to keep supporting me while I bring more entertainment to your way. Love you💞💝 I have seen a lot of your comments and likes on my page thanks for being a fan and I'll like to show more of my gratitude to you 💌🙏🙏💝 How long have you been listening to my music? 🎶🎶💌💌💞💕🌎🌎🎵🎵💞💞
@carlisthompson7362 Жыл бұрын
This is my ex I've lived through this
@tammeyslone3435 Жыл бұрын
So true, you summed it up perfectly
@carlisthompson7362 Жыл бұрын
@@tammeyslone3435 was tough to live through really tough but it's over now
@mmorreo1 Жыл бұрын
Facts I was like I want to watch this movie that it was a soundtrack to 1
@richardspell1601 Жыл бұрын
I lost my lil bro to murder,3 months later my wife to mass heart attack, had to raise my 8yr old son and 7 yr old daughter on my own after being happily married for 13 yrs. This song, although it wasn't suicides it still cuts like a knife everytime I listen to it. Great song Chris!!!
@sidthesloth5 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry for you, wish I could take that pain. Chris is amazing when it comes to vocals and everything
@scottlandrum7083 Жыл бұрын
I respect you so much for fighting that pain and taking on the responsibility of raising the kids...Bless you..
@pamspencer5733 Жыл бұрын
Stay in the light,peace to you🕊️💙🙏
@8806Erika3 ай бұрын
I'm going through a divorce right now. I've heard this song a million times but hearing it right now just brought a flood of emotion. We're all just humans trying to make it. Keep going. I am! And so should you! Please let this be a sign for you 🫶🏾
@dreamweaver2u3 ай бұрын
❤
@aprillowe28903 ай бұрын
🙏 ❤
@billhogue95235 жыл бұрын
It hurts when someone you love with all your life is hurting and you can't help or don't know how to help. You just helplessly watch them in pain.
@timothycox18614 жыл бұрын
Amen brother I am currently fighting stage 4 cancer and sometimes I moan all night long in pain and my wife is there for me I feel bad for her because if it was the other way around I would be there for her but it would hurt me so much to see her go through it
@jodihamilton90533 жыл бұрын
Unless you have been in the depths of hell with depression you would never understand the thru meaning of the words in this song. The song says it all and it defines depression and what our loved ones endure to love them
@fredjohnson5132 жыл бұрын
Hi jodi...
@hellraiser37842 жыл бұрын
I know exactly how it is.
@mandifeathers3112 жыл бұрын
I felt that to my core!
@mariacruz723 Жыл бұрын
Depressão vem do coisa ruim doença da alma se não consegui orar conversem com Deus nas madrugadas a melhor hora pra Deus nos escutar de dia agradecer a ele.
@davidmosley69657 жыл бұрын
This song is about the general consensus of how people think they are supposed to react to a loved one who suffers from mental illness. The husband is a metaphor. He is a law enforcement officer who saves people. Listen to words of the song. It's like the husband is telling the wife to do what ever and he will be there. When someone has reached the point of taking their own life, no one else can save them. Their loved ones can offer support and try as hard as they to prevent them from harming themselves. I know. I tried twice to end the pain in my life through suicide. I am stronger and healthier now. Depression is a all consuming black hole that closes in around a person and only that person can make the journey out. Meds, counselling, loved one are tools that assist, but only the person battling can help themselves.
@tracywallace69277 жыл бұрын
I am tried of loving a man that doesn't love me
@nickblake97107 жыл бұрын
David Mosley clearly bud he loves her to no end
@HiddenThingsofGod7 жыл бұрын
David Mosley exactly right. Can't help someone that doesn't want it. Took me learning that the hard way a few times for it to stick.
@theinternethq19107 жыл бұрын
I’m no stranger to suicide and depression, in fact I have dealt with a couple periods in my life where I thought about my own life but always reminded myself... it will be better. My first suicide attempt was after a close friend of mine to his own life. I was heartbroken and didn’t feel like I could go on knowing it was a death I know I could have prevented and decided not to. My roommate saved my from my attempt and convinced me to become a man of faith and I learned there is always another way out. Since that day ten years ago, I have prevented 3 suicides of loved ones and 1 complete stranger, all thanks to the power of speech that God gave to me. No matter how bad it gets, put your faith in something, anything and you will defiantly see change.
@jenniferprice98137 жыл бұрын
I honestly agree with all you guys but this song it touches my heart because there's just things about the song That Just you guys don't understand that you you go on there and you watch 97.5 and you going to think you're a beast or something that you guys have in the whole entire world and but in this Grace Chris Stapleton all this rock music and s*** and all the stuff that that's not that's not in the new music Chris Stapleton is the s***
@iliasmardakis27144 ай бұрын
I'm getting close to 25 years of having next to me a woman that came to my arms straight from heaven. She fought a lot since her teens. Alcohol became part of her life for a long period of time after her mother suddenly left us back in 2005. We went through high mountains, rough seas together, fights, struggle, endless talks... you name it. She managed to walk away out of her problems only about a year ago however today we both look at the future with a smile. Stick to your women guys, they deserve all the love you can give them. And then some...
@natashaswazo766 Жыл бұрын
My heart goes our to everyone who is suffering from depression and mental illness. I will be praying for you guys that God lifts those chains off of you. Keep fighting you are loved.😢
@SavedbyHisGrace73 Жыл бұрын
Best comment here. Go to God. 🙏
@natashaswazo766 Жыл бұрын
I pray to God everyday 🙏 Have a blessed night
@destineyward72 Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your kind words. I’m battling a bout of depression right now. It’s very hard to deal with at times.
@natashaswazo766 Жыл бұрын
You have a blessed night and keep praying
@SeanHegarty-yv8yz Жыл бұрын
Thank you from ireland as a sufferer it is not easy, and to hell with anyone who knocks it, i was brought up in a generation where the word depression was never talked about u were just in a bad mood, like hell i was, scared to say i feel depressed because u would of got laughed at or punched and told to catch yourself on, i was in my mid 40's before i addressed the problem and being an alcoholic didnt help near 5 yrs sober, and being treated properly for depression, iv found myself living in a city somewhere i never thought id ever live as im a country boy, but the count of 13,14,15,16yrs taking there own lives absolutly shocking scares me more needs to be done tell ur wee boys its ok to cry, wont make u any less of a man will make u a better man, rant over nice to hear of someone commenting like u just did we appreciate it thank you 💚💚💚💚💚💚🇮🇪
@larsjessen26084 жыл бұрын
This song is so damn powerful and meaningful to me. As I’m writing this I’m sitting on my bed at the hospital were I was voluntarily admitted because of a depression spiralling out of control. Also suspected autism and borderline that haven’t been noticed untill now. So yeah... Shit’s creek. But this song is one of my go-to’s because it always reminds me of my dear and strong wife. She’s my person, finally someone who wants to understand me and didn’t give up on me. Joyce: you’re my beacon and you make me wanna put away my ammo! Luckily I am getting the help I need now, so there’s a branch for me to cling to. I’m gonna trade 40 years of bad shit behind me for 40 years of good shit in front of me!!!!
@allisgrace13134 жыл бұрын
Way to be, man. Your doin' the right thing. I know it's hard. I have beside my husband through one psych ward and rehab.... it's worth it ...it does get better, perfect.. no... but better. Hang in there. You are blessed to have Joyce. Make the next 40 awesome! You got this! God bless you!
@larsjessen26083 жыл бұрын
@Chris Stapleton🔸 First of all, I’m honoured that you read my comment and chose to react. I can tell you first hand that does a lot to relieve depression. Secondly I would love to contribute in any way I can, thus I would gladly send you my contact information. Where can I send it to? Thanks for your reaction, it means the world to me!
@vincentdilorenzo35873 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah I heard that! I hope for many years of happy and healthy thoughts
@LorieJaneThings Жыл бұрын
Ive suffered from depression and anxiety my entire life. It's a terrible thing to deal with especially in this world we live in today. Prayers of Healing and Comfort for us All❤❤❤
@tommybuster74772 ай бұрын
I've lived this guy's life. I saved my ex more than I thought I would ever have to. I'm not super proud of having my fingers down her throat more times than 1 hand can count. But, my son needs a mom, right?
@sierraboulter73322 жыл бұрын
I still cry every time I watch this music video. It so resonates with me. My partner is the one there for me through thick and thin in my depression and this song just hits deep.
@ColtsHouse2 жыл бұрын
Mine disappeared in the dawn of a morning.. Went to chase a dream in Virginia. Wanted me to move on 2 years later . I see that she's been gone for a year...Died with No friends , no mourning , no burial. Nobody cared.. and the sweetest soul you'd meet.. It resonates as if it's my fault , everyday.. As we were a happy couple , it didn't make any sense... Just be happy with what you have. Cheers
@cathyteeter8068 Жыл бұрын
I love my man. He’s my comfort and peace. ❤️🔥
@Realreba Жыл бұрын
Hello, how are you today? It’s nice to meet you here.
@colbyjohnston41604 жыл бұрын
This song was played at my sisters funeral after we lost her to suicide back in april. Now i can’t listen to it without losing it💔
@jennyrojas50374 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss
@kennethwilliams77314 жыл бұрын
I so sorry about your sister! Her pain was just too much for her to bear I guess. I will not judge her because i didnt know what she was dealing with. Stay strong brother and give that love you have in your heart for your sister to someone in need of it in this world,while you still have time! Lots of lonely people on this blue rock we call home,dont be one of them.
@rogercerasoli78754 жыл бұрын
Praying for you Colby. I've been through it with my brother.
@deborahdanhauer85254 жыл бұрын
I've been through this too. Just hold on. Sending strength and love to you❤
@amymilem74724 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss.
@jc961 Жыл бұрын
This is my first time hearing this song and seeing the video, and it definitely hits home for me. I lost my wife of 33 years April 22nd 2022. A date that will forever haunt me. Her depression and addiction finally got the best of her and she took her life on that day. In her mind I guess she felt like she was doing the right thing and relieving us of the burden she felt she had become. Nothing could be further from the truth. The real burden was trying to pick up the pieces and trying to make sense of it all as well as knowing I couldn't help her and that she is no longer here. I miss her every damn day. If you suffer from depression, addiction or anything else and feel like no one cares and leaving this world is best for everyone, ITS NOT! Just remember, the people who stick around when you are at your worst are the ones who truly love and care about you.
@Nataliedatha Жыл бұрын
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢❤❤❤❤
@Doloria665 Жыл бұрын
I am sorry for your loss and want to let you know that it might be your text that held me back for today. Watch yourself!
@jc961 Жыл бұрын
@@Doloria665 watch yourself?
@Doloria665 Жыл бұрын
@@jc961 oh maybe that was bad english? I wanted to say sth like take care? Sorry.
@jc961 Жыл бұрын
@@Doloria665 Oh. Thank you.
@ChristinaLouiseKing3 ай бұрын
March 31 is my son Silas Christopher Kings birthday and this man in this video holds a big piece of my heart and always will so much like Marilyn Monroe's song my heart belongs to Daddy this man was that heart is that heart will always be THAT heart
@AlexB-ts8oo3 жыл бұрын
This song cuts me deep. I find it very difficult and I struggle to keep myself afloat when people look at me as the rock of the family. I don't know how much longer I can hold it together when I hear this song. I push hard for my wife and kid, I tell them to fire away. I just hope I can hold on for their sake. Failure has not been an option in my family.
@AprilStormPaperStudio3 жыл бұрын
I hope you find the strength for your sake, for theirs. It's an aweful place to be in. I am rooting for you.
@littlefinkle77573 жыл бұрын
Keep moving forward. God has a purpose for us all.
@amandagold313 жыл бұрын
Hang on
@Rainbow-yh6ov3 жыл бұрын
Please find someone to talk to. Someone who can help you through this and these feelings of needing to be perfect for your family when you are struggling. Showing your feelings and your fears to those who love you will make their love more real and stronger. But there are also professional people who totally get this type of feeling which is so prevalent today. If it’s a financial issue, there are places like Catholic Charities, and you DON’T need to be Catholic or even be Christian. They will help you speak to a social worker who is experienced and will base the money on your salary. I went to them after my father passed away and I only paid $10 a week! I happen to be Jewish and there was no religion brought into it. But it helped me tremendously.
@eringraber37773 жыл бұрын
Please talk to someone if not for your life but for your children and wife. I was struggling and considering taking my own life but then I had my second daughter and things got so much better but I did have to take medicine and talk to someone even still. Things get better but you may need help to get things better and there is nothing wrong with that.
@viswaprasanna9412 жыл бұрын
Jesus Christ. I have never once been able to truly articulate, to ANYONE, what my marriage felt like. What it WAS like. Not why I loved her so much.. Those incredible highs. Those moments of tenderness. And inextricable ONENESS. Nor why it nearly drove me mad...and cost me a piece of my soul. This song, this VIDEO... says more than all my words, sighs, and tears ever will. For all those desperately trying to make a go with someone who is in so much pain... strength and courage to you. 💪🏾❤️ And for all those suffering so greivously, haunted to the core of your souls, by demons you simply cannot shake... Oceans of love to you. It's not your fault. We know. We really do. May peace someday come to your heart. 🙏🏽
@wesley45432 жыл бұрын
You said what I was thinking my Cindy was wild. I loved her so much. I couldn't have even imagined leaving her. I feel bad and glad at the same time for people who never really know how that feels.
@jamesevans89342 жыл бұрын
And as for the filthy dog beneath my feet is how the Bible describes this person i pray God gives you since enough to stop using pills to keep someone so precious and worthy of a much better life than a dog like you could or would ever give her before life consumes you because I am not as strong as God so know everyday I pray for you and you might need to pray for me that God stays in me and I keep you in my prayers for ever
@meandmy3make42 жыл бұрын
Amazingly well worded
@viswaprasanna9412 жыл бұрын
@@meandmy3make4 Thank you, Amanda. You're very gracious. 🙏🏽
@JenTheHippie Жыл бұрын
I cried when I read this. As hard as it can be to love someone with mental illness, it's a million times harder to be that person. The suffering is unimaginable to the point where one is willing to take their own life to escape the pain. Then we are treated as if we are weak-willed and it is our own fault.
@TxRunner674 жыл бұрын
Chris, Thanks so much for tackling such a difficult topic in “Fire Away”. I used to like that song prior to seeing the video the day before Thanksgiving 2020. Now I can’t decide if I still love it or hate it. I’ve heard the song for years and never seen the video so didn’t know what it represented. As someone who has lost a loved one to suicide (my son Alec on 26 Jan 2018), I can attest to the struggle and pain we go through in trying to help them. I see in the video, multiple times where she is “saved” (the bath tub, the field), but we cannot always be there. That was the case with my son. We “saved” him multiple times, but in the end, it only takes one time. Thanks so much to you Chris, Tim Mattia, Margarita Levieva, Ben Foster and everyone else for your role in communicating this important message. I pray for those who struggle and their families. I wish there was more I could do. Please keep up the effort to end the stigma and find solutions for those who need our help. Love
@chrisstapleton59713 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I sincerely hope you never stop listening to my music 🎶❤️, Happy New Year once again
@DrJ-hx7wv3 жыл бұрын
@@chrisstapleton5971 please stop pretending to be Chris Stapleton.
@shameisnotwelcomehere30693 жыл бұрын
My daughter was born January 26th 2018. Her name is Abigail. I struggled with thoughts of an abortion because I didn't find out I was pregnant with her until I was already 6 months and I'd been drinking, smoking in living life like a young, "un-pregnant" woman the entire time. I was so worried that she would not be physically healthy. God stepped in and rescued me from my own worries, burdens & intentions. Today, Abigail is a beautiful, healthy 3-year-old girl. I'm grateful that I did not go through with the abortion. I'm so sorry for your loss. To think that you lost your son the same day that I gained a daughter, it's inexplicable and I recognize how easily it could have been the other way around. The experience of Life is inexplicable. I've done nothing to deserve the joy of gaining a daughter and you have done nothing to deserve the pain of losing a son. I believe that God is in control and that there is a plan for all of us. I pray that you will one day see your son again. I pray that the pain will decrease day by day. I pray that the good Lord will turn His face toward you and give you peace. God bless you!
@debtho56737 ай бұрын
I don't know if you get the credit for this song as it is, but I have lost soo many people , my fam, my friends -Thank You for this song even though it may come as a heartache for you, You have give us a song to help ease our minds!!