Christian Men Should AVOID These 5 Types of Women!

[@creating1_c1999]

Christian Men Should Avoid These 5 Types of Women! 1. Avoid the woman who wants to be your close friend though she knows you really like her 2. Avoid the woman who flirts with everyone 3. Avoid the woman who only likes you when you start moving on 4. Avoid the woman who is always in crisis and finds the drama 5. Avoid the woman who constantly feels betrayed no matter how faithful you are

[@get_spanked240]

Avoid women who are argumentative should be added to this list. I know that kind of goes with #4, but just saying: Proverbs 21:9 - 'It is better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife. ' If a girl brings peace to you as a man, that is someone worth pursuing.

[@sirdaniel159]

​​@@get_spanked240no needing to ad it to the list, cause if she do that she will leave by herselft

[@ver-il6pc]

@@get_spanked240 or also avoid women who reach out to you only in case they need something from you ( They never reach out to you for asking you how you are, how things are going in your life, etc )

[@timothycorless7286]

​You forgot 21:19 Better for to dwell in the wilderness than with an angry and contentious woman. @@get_spanked240

[@sed.aba01]

Basically to sum it up in a sentence: Avoid emotionally damaged women!

[@RA-pb4gl]

All Christian men need to see the video! Toxic women are to be avoided at all costs!

[@JesusisLordgh8j]

all women are toxic

[@ver-il6pc]

The problem is that many christian guys are very close minded about the issue of how to deal with women. They don't have an objective mindset

[@wampuscat1340]

Especially, #1. Young men don’t become a beta orbiter for some girl who just wants your resources and validation.

[@ChiefCedricJohnson]

Psalms 136:1 O give thanks unto the LORD; for he is good: for his mercy endureth for ever.

[@joshuacornwell6566]

How has no one replied to this? Amen brother! Thank You O Mighty Lord Jesus Christ for redeeming us in Your tremendous mercy and grace!! Praise God!!!

[@ChiefCedricJohnson]

@@joshuacornwell6566 🙏 Amen.

[@LibadNobody]

This applies to women in general. Not just Christians. I dealt with number 2 at my gym. She was talking to every other guy because I wouldn’t talk to her.

[@therabidpancake1]

I wish I would have seen this video like 5 or 6 years ago. I had a girlfriend that was adopted without mentioning any names she was a walking time bomb of red flags. I wasn’t very aware of female behavior and psychology. If anyone reads this what I want you to take away from this is ( guard your heart. Never be afraid to walk away.

[@michellehernandez2840]

Self accountability comes into place for number one. Unless a woman is lying to you, if she says she wants to just be friends, how is she toxic? There was a time when a guy liked me and I didn't know. I told him I wasn't interested in him in that way when he revealed it and I respected him if he didn't want to be friends if it would be hard for him. He decided to stay friends and after a year and some months went on a tirade about women and "the friend zone" on social media that sounded like our situation twisted up and blamed on me. I asked if it was about me and he said yes. I really loved him as a friend and he maninipulated me pretending he was ok with friendship and then blamed me for being just his friend. If she isn't lying/manipulating you, she's not a bad person for not liking you. Just cut off contact if its to hard to see her and move on.

[@NathanaelNaused]

I think it goes both ways. If a guy makes it known he's into you and you reject him then he should definitely move on himself. However on the girl's side I think she should be asking herself why she wants to hang onto a guy who's not truly only a friend but wants more. That's a lopsided relationship. She should probably ask herself how badly does she need attention or interest from a guy that she's willing to keep one around that's not her "friend" to begin with.

[@danishson97]

​@dre4ever39 that's not true. I've met plenty of men who are okay with being friends, especially in Christian men, who have also rejected other girls but wanted to stay friends with them, but kept away later on. Men and women can be friends and it's depressing to say they can't. I've been friends with guys and none of them had feelings for me. If you mean best friends that may be different. But not friends and nice convos.

[@danishson97]

Sorry someone did that to you. That stinks ❤

[@charleshayden7408]

God bless every single person who watches this video exactly 999 trillion times more richly

[@paulsanjurjo4390]

I had an experience with the first type 6 months ago and I saw that she was trying to use me for the purposes of obtaining boyfriend and/or husband benefits all with a friend like level of a relationship. In fact, I've experienced all of the same types and I've avoided them.

[@MistyEry]

Define flirtation, because people perceive flirtation differently. From being kind, to intentionally seeking attention or using signals. I’ve been kind, and somehow that has translated to interest for some men. I’ve also joked or used slight banter as I would with my brother, and that has translated into confusion. I do not intentionally flirt or seek validation from men, but at Bible school, simply joking around with the opposite sex has been considered “ flirting”. Men, define what flirtation looks like to you. It would be great to gain clarity.

[@renevanderwesthuizen1520]

Yeah... I like being playful. With women. Kids. Men. Old people. Young people. Everyone. This is considered to be flirty according to a lot of people.

[@patrickm.4469]

As a man I would say making repeated physical contact would be a clear sign of flirtation. Grabbing his arm etc

[@sambrewster7090]

Amen thank you

[@belindaadkins9888]

I feel so ashamed because It may seem like I have been a few of these. 1. I value friendship. Not to use them but to support them and to gain support also. Most of the time these guys weren't fully following the Lord and I felt like I was the light in their darkness. 2. I have a bubbly personality. So sometimes people assume I am flirting but it's just my personality. I was offered a job position because of it. Sharing a smile with everyone is not flirtatious. 3 4 and 5 Not me

[@-_deploy_-]

Commenting here so I can come back later.

[@Justyouraverageguy172]

Number 1 is what happened with a lot of my relationships so often in the past until I asked God to give me someone that had interest in me and would love me over time. My heart still belongs to my one ex that wasnt any of these kind of women but actually was patient with me for so long despite making it known for months that she liked me. We really connected until life circumstances and distance split us apart.

[@Neptuneman07]

Same here

[@deannas6710]

#1 but the opposite- the man who wants to only be your friend but yet acts flirtatious towards you.

[@LanLe-rz4lm]

Huh??? What planet is he from???

[@CrownedJulz]

VERY great advice!

[@ByakuyaKB]

So he didn't bring up single-mothers, which I honestly thought would be on the list. Do single-Christian-men believe that it's fine to marry a single-mother, obviously being equally yolked, that doesn't fall into one of these categories? Or, what would be the exception for a guy to marry a single-mother?

[@thomasshort1784]

@ByakuyaKB I haven't seen the video myself but, as far as bringing that up, I'm with you. By the way, here's my 2¢, if you're a single man without children (as I am) and you're looking for wife potential, I don't think God will hold it against you for not wanting to marry a single mom (of course, I'd still recommend you use your own judgement; common sense still comes from God, despite what organized religion might want you to believe).

[@IntuitiveYakOfAllTrades]

For me, I think it depends on why she’s a single mom. A widow is fine to pursue, but just be prepared to treat her kid(s) as though they were your own. Divorce is completely different though. It clearly says not to pursue divorced women for that is adultery.

[@danilaroche1156]

It's fine to marry a single mom if the Lord gives green light. Get Godly counsel.

[@alphadevoir6310]

I've delt with every type of woman described in this video, but I wouldn't change it for nothing, because God is forging me into the blade of his design, & purpose.

[@christinemerritt974]

Amen❤❤❤❤😂😂❤

[@jimp3878]

So you enjoy pain and suffering….cool

[@RetroCaptain]

Yet another banger sir! Exactly correct information. I had the first situation a couple times but in the longer friendship she dropped a few loud hints so I'd realize that she's not attracted to my (same height) though we had everything in common. I was used a bit but it wasn't like I didn't value her as a friend so it kinda balanced out for the time it lasted. She refused to introduce me to her single friend though which was a disappointment. It's a potential minefield of bad possibilities out there if you don't really take time to learn everything before taking the plunge. A former friend was persued by a really cute attractive young woman who claimed to be a believer. He instantly went koo koo and married her and only later it came out she was I think atheist and just wanted to be married to a cute guy. A nightmare as they had children by then. My girl-friend I mentioned above... she went kooky for a younger man who she THOUGHT presumed was a believer no homework just presumed and that and asked him to marry her and it also turned into a nightmare for her and now the kids pay for it, one of them particularly so. She admitted she should have chosen me instead after the fallout as we were a match (too late then). So hopefully you guys learn from these mistakes. Don't jump until you know how deep the pool is. Go down with a metre stick first and measure no guessing

[@edwardlovera5867]

All the glory 2 God Aleluya Amen Thanks for everything AGW

[@tommy2chips]

I will remember

[@Neptuneman07]

This is exactly what I needed today. Thank you for sharing. God knows who is meant for me, I trust him in arranging that future relationship.

[@KentPetersonmoney]

I dealt with number 1. This girl knew I liked her but wasted my time. I actually ended up hating her and blame her why I never got married because of her games.

[@sulusu4812]

I hear you. But we gotta take responsibility for our choices - it's our life. No blame game. Good luck.

[@miguelalvarez5292]

Bro you can still get married!Don’t let her stop you. She’s a childish woman that doesn’t deserve your attention. Ask God to prep you for a girl and ask Him for a girl :) God bless, my guy

[@JesusisLordgh8j]

@@miguelalvarez5292 smart men dont marry. they will take half your shitttttt when she divorces you

[@dawnstonerock4253]

Don’t give up. There are women who are not like that. They are not mean spirited. God knows who is best for an honest caring heart like yours. Take time to heal and trust Him to lead you. Best wishes! ❤

[@sulusu4812]

@@dawnstonerock4253 I'm reading his original comment again & it really doesn't feel like he is going to God with many things. Hating someone, blaming, unforgiving. What gives? I'm all for taking the higher road, however this guy needs to take his dross to God. (without looking for Soo much compassion from the internet).

[@oathkeeper2310]

Had all of these

[@kevindavis4709]

Brother I wonder is the reason a woman wants too be friends with a guy is because she can’t make women friends? That’s something I always wondered. If a guy tells a woman I only see you as a friend she’ll pitch a fit running backwards like she can’t be told no but on the other hand us guys are told too take it like a champ if a woman sees us as a friend.

[@noty410]

I'm female & I liked your point. I have more male friends than female friends because I tend to find men more easy going. Female friendships can be challenging in that there's competition & other nasties

[@gracia130]

Id the woman doesn't like the guy maybe because she discern something wrong on that person. Is it bad not to like him?

[@Squadron007]

Thank you for that ideo 😢

[@deborahgloria3867]

She has FB videos still on FB.

[@TheStudentOfLife808]

Your reference on woman #3 to avoid was Proverbs 27:17 it’s not accurate to what the Bible says. Possible typo?🤷🏽‍♂️

[@henrikiks]

Prov. 26:17 typo

[@mcostasb23]

I ain’t gonna waste my pearls on swine

[@dozz5561]

These woman sounds very carnal minded, therefore unequally yoked and not believers, if you’re addressing women in the church, something seriously wrong here. We as believers have to understand the way the world dates we are not to follow that same format, we’re to grow together in Christ, fun must be as believers, we must be able to enjoy the word together (rejoice). Any person playing mind games that’s the devil tool, please stop using it.

[@CrownedJulz]

These can be Christian women who are in need of healing from trauma and deliverance from unclean spirits. I'm Romans we're taught to be renewed in the spirit of our minds which is our spiritual service, and a large portion of the letter of Colossians is putting off the character/ habits/ traits of the old man and walking in the new nature as a holy, born again disciple of King Jesus - sanctification takes time and work.

[@rosegold2617]

Many need to grow in Christ. Hopefully they will but when you choose a partner you need to look at their present not their potential

[@elifedigansfunnyfactory6890]

Not very Christian to judge but what do I know I will leave that Judgment to the Heavenly Father

[@CrownedJulz]

We are told by Jesus to judge a righteous judgement, not based on hypocrisy and appearance, but through character. John 7:24.

[@EXPOSEDBYGABRIELPEREZ]

Avoid all for marriage

[@universal3024]

Hm. This is most u.s. women. Like, 90%+ ..

[@jeremycarpenter5550]

Proverbs 31 woman .

[@PWNYthebird]

Definetly avoid if they are all 5...

[@tel5690]

I keep women at a serious distance. Majority are on this list God keep me busy so I don't have to deal with any of this

[@JesusisLordgh8j]

GET YOU OWN LIFE IN ORDER LIKE A CAREER AND A SOLID RELATIONSHIP WITH THE LORD. MOST WOMEN ARE ALL HEADACHS OVER TIME. YOU ARE ONLY THERE FOR THE RIDE... AND YES YOU WILL BE HER ATM.

[@sulusu4812]

@@JesusisLordgh8j that's not a Christlike view of women AT ALL bro. Better for you to either get a solid relationship with your Saviour FIRST or get off the christian websites. Choose.

[@christinemerritt974]

@@JesusisLordgh8jJack…you need God, and to stop Hating Women.

[@christinemerritt974]

@@sulusu4812amen❤

[@Capernaum-zm2tz]

❤❤

[@emmanuelameyaw9735]

😂 statistically possible...

[@phillipallen5564]

i cant stand numberr one it makes me so mad i just want to get em out of my life

[@noty410]

Just walk away from them. Don't stay a minute longer. You deserve someone who shares the same feelings as you do

[@patroncurrysaint2849]

No need to avoid them. They will avoid u

[@italiancapo7]

What about the woman who is very sexual & needy? Is that just too obvious? But it’s hard to say No.

[@JesusisLordgh8j]

does she love JESUS If not move on

[@timothycorless7286]

My brothers go study out hypergamy.

[@TheHarwoodButcher.]

As a Christian man, I appreciate helping out other men, but unfortunately, I have to be realistic. Even if it's very good advice to avoid these women, for those wanting a long-term relationship (especially marriage), good luck finding a 'perfect' woman, which is now merely impossible in today's generation. Sadly, dating standards and preferences today are very unrealistic and superficial. And to be a Christian man today, godless women will instantly drop you like a rock. The only way to avoid this is to hopefully find a godly woman in a church

[@rosegold2617]

It's difficult for single Christian women also. Be it men or women, dating pool is limited for bible following Christians.

[@TheHarwoodButcher.]

@@rosegold2617 I agree but now, most Christian women are already taken and we are now left with the leftovers. Church or youth ministries are the only way, to hope to find a loving spouse.

[@Muffy-b1g]

@@TheHarwoodButcher. Wow. Leftovers? 🙄

[@Shane-en2sq]

You described 95% of all the women I have ever known. No wait, 97%. Well, 98%

[@danilaroche1156]

There are tons of virtuous, Christian women. Pray on this. Maybe your attracted to women who are trouble?

[@J-hz4jb]

At about 5 minutes into the video, you actually admitted yourself that you are sinning, but not "too far out of context." Get your channel born again and find The Way. This is very bad for you and others. Tell it to your children if your so worried about other peoples problems being more than you can handle.

[@tarrenceprice9458]

This is the vast majority of women hahaha

[@phillipallen5564]

true and all the good women are tooke n

[@Muffy-b1g]

@@phillipallen5564 Tooken? I will admit, I look for a man who can SPELL, use PUNCTUATION and GRAMMAR.

[@Lewisevans1618]

97 per cent of women