What do you think about the tips I gave? How would you handle the situation? If you need one on one counseling, book a consultation with me, ⬇ calendly.com/chatswithflo/christainwife-mom-consultation
@officialhealingthewounds Жыл бұрын
Lady Flo, this is good! I agree with your tips, especially about allowing him to handle this issue. And you are right, we often have to bring these things to their attention because they need to see things from our perspective. But, Girrrlll...the part about some men liking our husbands almost took me out! Whew! That thought hadn't even crossed my mind. Good catch. Great job! ❤Lady Payge
@tracyfigard8003 Жыл бұрын
I am so glad that so far I have not had to deal with this in our current ministry but these are great tips to be aware of!!! I love knowing the is another pastors wife out there talking about these issues!!
@TiffanyByrdHarrison Жыл бұрын
great topic and breakdown, Flo! i love that you encourages Christian wives to stay prayed up, on their knees in matters of jealousy or insecurity. I can see how tempting it is to try to rightfully discern what is going on in other women’s minds or close interactions with husbands but not losing our cool is way more important. You look beautiful in that green, btw! ❤
@ChatsWithFlo Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Tiffany ❤❤
@BB_Ministry Жыл бұрын
As a pastor I understand this. Being in a position of authority with compassion attracts women who are vulnerable. My wife and I are honest and open about this and I make sure not to be in compromising positions for the flesh and demonic influence.
@chaunteldelgado Жыл бұрын
Wow this is such great advice! He has to handle it because only he can stop the woman from pursuing him and letting her know her place! It takes a mature and God fearing woman to step back and let her husband do the right thing!
@ChantyBloom Жыл бұрын
I agree when you said groom yourself spiritually and mentally….that sums it all up!! Staying still and “responding”instead of “reacting” to sensitive situations like that can only come with spiritual maturity and a very health mind. I like that you address situations behind closed doors and allow your husband to handle them himself. Wisdom nuggets here as always!
@ChatsWithFlo Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤❤
@audreyestelle687 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Thank you and Thank you Lady Flo! This blessed me indeed. I took notes. The most important thing to take away from this is “staying on your knees” and “trust God” because if He called me to it He’s going to give me the grace to do or overcome whatever I face. Appreciate this! God Bless you and I love your natural hair❤❤
@ChatsWithFlo Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😍
@Kuttysinaustralia Жыл бұрын
Great tips sis! Most importantly to trust God and He will take care of it. Stay calm and let your husband handle it. God has called you to this, and He will protect 👍🏽 9:31
@PastorVaughn Жыл бұрын
Amen! Stay prayed up!
@SDLongstreet Жыл бұрын
Great advice. 👍 Have a private conversation with him as you stated and allow him to handle it. It's been my experience when a woman behaves the way you described in your presence. She's aware of what she's doing and intends for it being a disrespect to the wife. Where I come from, they call her the "Jazebel." 🤷♀️
@ChatsWithFlo Жыл бұрын
Amen! 💯👏🏾❤️
@MorenitaBonita19 Жыл бұрын
Yes about getting the members to love you! Also, a video on how not to be insecure as a Pastors wife when other women in the church assist your husband or are talented in an area you aren’t. Thank you ✨🙏🏽
@ChatsWithFlo Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video suggestion.
@ChatsWithFlo Жыл бұрын
What is your email address?
@mariamadepoju Жыл бұрын
Hmm thanks for bringing this to our notice.Enjoyed this episode all the way till the end. You're most welcome.
@ChatsWithFlo Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@edenharvest Жыл бұрын
Great topic indeed and priceless tips. Prayer is key@
@leoniek2522 Жыл бұрын
This is such a good topic. Im here because Eden Havest shared your link with me. What about cases where men are married and they have best friends that are other women than their wives. That's a frequent thing as well that happens in the body of christ. Can you do a video about that? 😊 God bless you for sharing this is very edifying and helpful.
@ChatsWithFlo Жыл бұрын
What is your email address?
@Kyndal-Kyn Жыл бұрын
This was great advice. Like always, you're so wise. I'm not a pastor's wife, but these tips help me in just being a wife and knowing that people are interested in my husband.
@ChatsWithFlo Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@BB_Ministry Жыл бұрын
Good wisdom.
@ChatsWithFlo Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@ChantyBloom Жыл бұрын
I love your office setup…beautiful!!
@ChatsWithFlo Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@Rajeshwarikavya7388 Жыл бұрын
Amazing video nice👍👏👍🎁👏 new friends
@graceajayi95213 ай бұрын
Wao! Thank you so much for this. This is a very helpful channel for me as a young pastor's wife. We just started out in ministry. I just subscribed ❤❤
@ChatsWithFlo3 ай бұрын
Welcome to the community! Let me know if you would like me to talk more about a particular topic.
@kayemcwilly38567 ай бұрын
I'm nit a pastor's wife, but I think the Holy Spirit wants me to listen to your wisdom and become more graceful.